making this impossible table that went viral on tiktok

[@heatherdee8043]

The original creator for the book table was an Etsy artist from San Francisco named Jane Dandy. "The one photographed here is the one I made for myself and was meant to capture a moment in my life. All the books in this table are about architecture and capsulize the years I spent studying architecture in the San Francisco Bay Area."

[@TheSorryGirls]

thank you!!!

[@thestripelessbee713]

So cool!!!!!

[@jpapsxo]

Found this too from reverse image search! Supposedly she sells them on Etsy for $1800 if you send her your books

[@heatherdee8043]

@@jpapsxo it sounds like she did but her Etsy is "on a short break" and completely cleared of any info. 😞 I wonder if it hitting Pinterest might have been too much.

[@denises9426]

Love the back story! Thank you for sharing. ♥️

[@marybethduke3263]

Becky, putting those screws in the book table to someday change out books was a boss move...genius! I like the color you picked for the wicker piece. Good job!

[@mariahgrimes2511]

literally such a great idea!!!

[@candiceg430]

It was absolutely brilliant.

[@smalpiper4999]

What’s the point if she’s going to add a clear coat and custom glass piece? Lol

[@mariahgrimes2511]

@@smalpiper4999 assuming the glass piece will come off to access the books! the clear coat shouldn’t change the ability to swap out sections.

[@nataliebehling5712]

I’m sorry but the masking of the circle in Becky’s Bauhaus poster to show her book table sketching was SO GOOD!! I see you editors!! 👀👀

[@SpecialSays]

I was gonna comment the same thing! My creative brain exploded, SO GOOD!

[@a.r11384]

ha came back for this!. thanks for pointing it out. the editors done a bang up job on this video!

[@jennifergrizzardekzarkhov6663]

I love everything about how they directed and edited this episode.

[@zenniagonsalves1052]

timestamp please!

[@victoriahansen4028]

Zennia it happens at 16:30

[@eyzhuh_studios]

The fact that you muted the “hey google” so it doesn’t activate the viewers google homes too is attention to detail and care that I absolutely adore 🥰 thank you editor 🤘

[@febealleman2115]

I was just about to say the same. They are just 👌

[@charlottereames8571]

Ohhhh that’s why they do it? I thought it was for copyright reasons or something lol

[@PegasusGenie]

I dont have a Google device so I always have a freak out moment that I've gone deaf 😂 it takes these kinds of comments for me to remember other people actually own them and they get set off

[@ocinidolegna]

@@PegasusGenie lmaaoo same

[@RachelShadoan]

The threaded rods for the book table are GENIUS. Initially I was like “i mean that’s a cool table and all but WHAT IF YOU WANT DIFFERENT BOOKS” Love that you found a way to make that possible! And it seemed really attainable as a DIY too

[@JessRodriguez1111]

I agree, total game changer to be able to switch them out! Though I did see a comment that said that the original artist made It to capture a special moment in their life and each book represented that time, which is lovely

[@amaiaamaiaa]

go becky go!!! this is my favorite sorry girls video in a while..... your thought process voice over in the beginning was really enjoyable and the book side table was both original and well executed. go becky!

[@karlidomingo]

Same! The filming, the information shared, it was calming, relaxed, entertaining.. the part of Becky laying on the couch with the mic, I was like “wow Becky. Go Queen.” This video was the best of theirs I’ve seen.

[@hereforthevideoessays6399]

Becky, you have the coolest house. I don't want much retro in my space but you do it _so_ well! Love the low wall shelf in your house that holds the Bauhaus print. I need more of these Becky videos where she takes us through her process start to finish. She's a creative queen with impeccable teaching skills and her woodworking projects/DIY upgrades are some of the most interesting. Really like how the book table came out. It's like a love letter to the books you want forever, but make it sustainable!

[@TheSorryGirls]

thank you so much!!!

[@mariahtolonen]

agreed!!! I need a full tour!!!!

[@theyobita]

I had to rewatch the whole thing to find whatever you're referring

[@payalshah7243]

I'd found you guys 10 years ago looking for simple Halloween costume ideas, and here you are now pulling off literal sorcery???? THE BOOK TABLE IS INSANEEEEEE. BECKY YOU DID THAT!!!! ok got too excited bye

[@rocioiribe5841]

this has to be my *favorite* video you have done in a long time. the style of editing and video is INCREDIBLE. it's simultaneously a movie and a tutorial. idk why but there were moments that gave me La La Land vibes (just with the soundtrack music).

[@madeleinebruich1252]

Came to the comments to say the exact same thing! I LOVED this video so much for SO many reasons.

[@sarabarton509]

Becky and TSG, this is probably my all time favorite. I feel like we really got to know Becky on a deeper level, got to see the process of projects, and I love the final pieces. Love love love! ❤️

[@LadyMelone]

You could also screw the glas on top of the table an make it hold to just one corner so you can turn the glas piece to the side the get to one of the books. in the other corners you could screw spacers. hope you understand what I'm trying to say :) Great work btw

[@TheSorryGirls]

wow what a great idea!!!

[@rosalynjohnson168]

I’ve been watching y’all’s channel religiously for three or four years and I am so impressed with how you all have grown and changed. 💕 Your skills are constantly improving and I’m always excited for an upload each week.

[@TheSorryGirls]

gorgeous gorgeous girls learn and grow over time :)

[@juliettebandit1927]

I really look up to Becky. She is so relatable but super smart, creative and strong ! She seems so nice too. I absolutely love her

[@jennifergrizzardekzarkhov6663]

This book table is now, officially, my favorite Becky project. I am going to make this table! I was watching and thinking about how I have special books that are just in stacks or on a shelf, lost to the chaos. I love how this not only makes them special, but turns them into art. Useful art. Also, just as I was thinking: But what if you wanted to switch out books? BAM! Becky thought of that. I’m gonna do it too, damn it! Can’t wait! Thank you.

[@LHCleo]

Yesss, Justin and Nick! Love the edit of the footage of Becky drawing in the Bauhaus poster. So creative and very sharply executed 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@vitoriahirata2452]

WOW, I'm just loving this more honest and artsy kind of video. Showing a lot more of lifestyle and vulnerability in narration (I can already see Rachel's touch there in the team!). Great work Sorry Girls Team!

[@3llevate]

Rachel?

[@chloemorrison2343]

I applaud Becky's motivation. If I saw a project I didn't know how to tackle, I'd move on lol

[@justicewonder]

That book table has been on both my Pinterest board and Etsy wishlist for years. Glad to see you figured out how to do it and can try it myself. Loved the twist made to it. Also loved the Becky Ted talk that came along with it.

[@ameliavisnauskas1850]

This was definitely my favorite video in a long time. I love the more relaxed/lifestyle vibe of the recent videos. Also always love going down a mid century rabbit hole with Becky. Lastly, the new set in the studio is so gorgeous. Y’all are killing it 😍

[@BlweLotus]

Becky, the book table is INCREDIBLE. I'm constantly amazed by your growth and how far you've come in your DIY journey.

[@lost7433]

Imagine adding onto this table for decades and thirty years from now, it's a credenza :D

[@storey662]

I love this video so far, but Becky! You're totally overwatering your Pothos girly! Mine used to look JUST LIKE yours (@ 20:25) and I just had to stop overcaring for it. I'm a textbook overwaterer, but pothos like to dry out WAY more between waterings than I ever thought. Love you gals! ETA: The golden Pothos at the end looks GORGEOUS though! :) And that table?!? SHEESH!! It is SOOO beautiful and GENIUS the way you made it *Edit-able!* I love it. So much. I also REALLY like this style of video, like multiple other comments have said. This felt so chill and so intimate - a look into your creative process - and that is what I need more of in my life. I've got all the DIY projects I could ever wish to do, what I DON'T have is my creative flow down as well as you do. Make more like this please!

[@LemonStudioAZ]

Love the narrative and background in this 😆 I want to be like you and actually make things I pin!

[@Carriedabout]

Haha me too!

[@madzabinga8382]

A magnetized piece of plexiglass could be really cool on top of the table. Drill small holes in the wood and then secure the small magnets down in the holes. Then adhere the other part of the magnet onto the plexiglass so it can sort of float on top and yet be removed easily.

[@a.r11384]

Love the editing of this and narration. Almost like a story book😉

[@amandaschroder1477]

Becky you should totally make a series incorporating concepts with that awesome book from the 40s!!!! (Love you both your channel and you guys so much!) 💕

[@Phoenixia86]

I'm so jealous you have a copy of "Tomorrow's House"! I literally gasped when showed it on screen. The 1940's version too!

[@evewithwonder]

I was just thinking about the glass and then you mentioned it. Definitelly putting some glass on top to prevent beverages from damaging the books is the right move. Stunning table! And I love that you can change it up.

[@bhavleenk]

Is it just me or are the Sorry girls getting more creative day by day. Such genius ideas😍

[@bethbcrafts]

I love this mix of scripted and unscripted! Hearing Becky's voiceover at the beginning talking about her Pinterest board was kind of beautiful and poetic. And then I've always loved seeing Becky and Kelsey in their homes doing DIYs. Perfect mix! Hope to see more!

[@bethbcrafts]

Also, these are two of the most beautiful & skilled things you ladies have ever made!

[@dannyomo]

Happy to hear that I'm not the only person who has to work out their project plan staring at the wood and supplies in the store!

[@marm2371]

Becky these two projects are absolutely amazing! I can't believe you were able to recreate that book table. Absolutely brilliant! And what are the chances you were able to thrift that round piece of furniture to be able to make that dupe??? Fantastic work on these two projects girl!!!

[@daydreaming309]

That actually was genius Becky! The table turned out so good & I loved watching you talk about your inspiration in the beginning. Stunning video.

[@oliviamiller884]

becky talking about design and that book---so entertaining

[@natemirandafrancis6615]

Oh my goodness, I think this is my favorite video format with you Becky!!! I felt like I was chilling with you talking out our ideas. So lofi and relaxed 😌

[@laurelclark8203]

Gotta say I am ALL FOR this video style. I like that it's showing the more realistic side of how a lot of us also work on projects in no specific timeline, and the artistic talking head segments with Becky were very pleasant. These projects came out amazing!

[@Csaysit]

I just looove these “Becky at home” videos.

[@TamarLitvot]

This is one of my very favorite SorryGirls episodes, particularly the book side table and particularly the modification Becky made so that it can books can be added, subtracted and substituted. I agree with her that it needs a glass top. But it’s fantastic!

[@lisanne4945]

I love this video so much! The editing? Amazing. The rattan barrel shelf? So good. The BOOKTABLE? Sublime. Hotel? Trivago. In all seriousness, you have outdone yourself Becky and I love it! I can't believe I get to watch this content for free lol

[@TrishaLynnSpins]

This video is fiirreee!!! First, Becky talking out her plans and saying does this make sense.... YES and not only that but it’s beautifully logical! I am always so impressed by you and the whole team. 👏🏻🔥👏🏻

[@Skler00zee]

I really like this video style. Narrative and add ons of slice of life seems very comforting and calm ❤ loved both DYI, but book table is my favorite. Excellent statement piece for the room

[@hellodayanaa]

I don’t normally comment but I just felt this video on another level. I can feel Becky’s passion and inspiration through the screen! I felt like I was hanging out with her and the small clips of making coffee, having dinner, painting her nails just really made more relatable. Keep up the great work TSG team!

[@judy-angedv7590]

Perfect editing to use the Bauhaus poster as a "screen" . I love it! Well done, Nick and Justin.

[@janebille]

Becky this video format was OUTSTANDING! The VIBE when you where in the couch... I cannot! Yes queen! Absolutely loved the soulful talks and the sass ❤ all the tiny finger snaps to you (and the team)!

[@Rayne_Storms]

That book table is also going to live in my head forever. Awesome job.

[@anitaphillips575]

Becky, you did that. I love how you went back and forth and allowed your creative juices to flow by distracting yourself with the other project. They both turned out amazing. I do that thing... standing in the store and staring at the materials until something comes, LOL. I really enjoyed this process, thanks. Awesome projects!!!

[@Pliine29]

This episode was the coolest ! So genius to be able to remove the panels of plywood. Two pieces that i would love to have in my apartment :)

[@pigsinhats]

Becky on the couch with the microphone is my new vibe. This was an excellent video, so honest and the results were beautiful

[@doodlebugkw]

I am absolutely loving the break the 4th wall thoughts from Becky. Its totally giving me first season of Sex and the City vibes.

[@IzabelCampana]

Becky nerding out about the 1940’s book is the cutest and most fascinating thing ever! And now I want more content like that! Please, Becky, tell memore about your passion for mid century design!

[@radsii20]

I have loved all your videos/diy’s , but this one has to be my fav. That book side table is 🔥great job Becky!!

[@EmaleyVirchow]

Girl... Not going to lie, everything int his entire video is a whole mood. The undertones of the bleh time of year after the come-down from the holidays, the laying in bed with the fur babies with the blackout curtains shut, the project stopping points that can feel so incredibly difficult to overcome... This feels like a REAL video, if that makes any sense? The way it was presented, the lighting, the voiceovers, the frustrations of decision making when you're stuck... it's as brilliant as THAT FREAKING LITERAL COFFEE TABLE BOOK TABLE. This is by far one of the most personal videos this channel has ever put out and I feel so much comfort and less alone than i did a half hour ago knowing that I'm not the only one in this season of life. Cheers! Well done! [ ETA: STILL I am floored over the industrial piercing through the table for future modifications. I saw that same table, LOVED IT, and was immediately like "That is a static piece, like an art installation. It is meant to be a time capsule in a way, which is very permanent, so that wouldn't work for me," since, like you said, books come in so many different shapes and sizes. I am L I V I N G, QUEEN

[@laurie_clchg]

I LOVEEED this video Becky you really came up with a strong style with the years and it shows that it's you, you look confident it's super cool to see ! But you also give real good life advices like not staying stuck on a project but move to something else etc.. Also I loved that you shared more of your inspirations with the book it's very interesting I'd love to see more design/architecture content. And to finish those two pieces looks STUNNING you're right the almond color looks wood like and really brings the parts of the shelf together and the no glue technique was genius and very sustainably interesting ! A big thank you for the quality content you're producing with the team lately I'm not commenting videos a lot but I wanted to tell you all of that 🤍

[@paigecozort]

I am so impressed with how thoughtful the book table construction was. The threaded rods so it can be changed? *chef's kiss*

[@chalybion]

Becky!! I am so impressed with that table!!!! I'm definitely doing that! You can keep adding as you buy more books, its amazing!!

[@sharylkriete7953]

Wow!! Putting the long screws in the book cube was GENIUS! I think this is the best DIY I’ve ever seen anywhere. VERY cool!!!

[@Roens25]

Loved the book-review section of this vid! Made me think about school but in a nostalgic, good way. 🙃

[@lizzymorang8048]

This video is peak Becky. Beautiful design, humor, and smart solutions to DIY problems. She's back in rare form and I love it 💛

[@lovingmayberry307]

Becky, you are a genius! That book table is freakin' AWESOME!!! 💙💙💙💙

[@althea1462]

Becky!! Literally my fave sorry girls vid of all time. Loved the projects, but also the time you took to walk us through your thinking and the fact that you validated that the creative process is not always linear! Lastly - the way you opened up about why the design books you chose for the book table was wonderful and made me feel like I was seeing a different facet of your interests. Keep it up - I’m here for it!!

[@sanjanasingh1977]

Loved the intro to this video! So calming 🥰

[@Kate-kr5zu]

y’all killed it with the creativity and editing on this video. Becky sitting on the couch narrating? killed it!!!

[@Jillianz]

I love how creative Becky’s projects always turn out!! I’m obsessed with the book table, it looks so good and I kind of want one for my favorite cookbooks!

[@girl4granted]

Best 28 odd minutes! After an overwhelming day ( ...month, year!) I finally got to sit down and watch this! -it was so good for my soul Xxx

[@valentine3976]

The filming style of this is my favourite one of yours yet! I love it

[@leamarion4699]

Okay, that solve to make the book table interchangable is genius!!

[@leaticia9386]

I always love seeing the thought process that goes into you ladies' work. Makes me want to try my hands at a few projects myself. Also Becky you truly have the coolest style! You're home is straight out of my Pinterest pins 💕

[@louisesalg7762]

This video was *QUALITY* 👏👏👏👏 the projects, the editing, the scenes, the ambiance, the gorgeous & brilliant Becky, the overall delivery. Chefs kiss 🤌💋

[@MariaFM6]

I love how the book table turned out, major goals! Totally unrelated but I had major throwbacks when you were having sushi, the EU banned styrofoam many years ago (eco friendly laws to reduce plastic waste) and I haven't seen a take-out container like that in so long, what a throwback! That sushi looked really yummy too *drools*

[@Lara-ij1sw]

you sure whole EU? I've seen them in Gemany in the last few years, maybe even some other countries, not sure tho 🤔 but i would love to not see them anymore!

[@loralove182]

@@Lara-ij1sw not all. Ireland still has but it's definitely been reduced x

[@JessRodriguez1111]

I wish the US would ban single use plastics 😩😢

[@sakurabrunette9634]

I think the solve on the round bookshelf with the natural paint was great - it definitely needed a coat of paint - but the black would've looked stunning too! Great work on the bookcase/sidetable what a unique piece to have in your space!

[@ManeLastful]

If you intend to keep those particular books in the table, maybe you could put some foam or wood spacer under the pages so they don’t sag and damage the junction between the cover and the pages

[@ginacrusco234]

The way you thought through making the book table modular and sustainable was pure brilliance. It would have been impressive enough just to engineer it, but to up the ante in this way just goes beyond.

[@rebeccaude4412]

Ok Becky Lynn…I see you 😉! As soon as I saw the book table, I literally said "glue up" out loud, however the use of the rods & end caps is freaking GENIUS 🤯! The C&B inspired shelf turned out quite nice as well, I was in the minority for painting it black but it suits your home in the light color (& can be changed if you choose 😂). Thanks for sharing two fantastic ideas! Sending you, Austin & the entire TSG team lots of 🤗,💜 & 🙏🏻 for a healthy, happy & Blessed week! (😘😘 to Danny as well of course)

[@victoriahansen4028]

I loved both of these projects, the thought process behind them amd the editing was perfect for this episode. I feel like this episode really told a story and gave us an intimate look at Beckys thought process and daily life. I love videos like these! Also, side note: Did anyone else feel like the music that came on at 20:16 sounded like Jesse McCartneys song Beautiful Soul? I got taken back when I heard that little song intro 😅🤣

[@ky3139]

I like the relaxed vlog style vibe of this video!

[@lennonlove8199]

I just had to comment to say I don’t know WHAT it is about this episode but I absolutely LOVED it! I literally kept thinking, wow this is such a good episode, the entire time! Becky’s a genius and I loved the little shots of her sitting around mulling over ideas; this video felt so personal. Pleaseeee keep more like these coming!

[@LittleDergon]

I loved that you said "we're geeking out together" rather than something like "bare with me geeking out" because it was so inclusive and encouraging others to geek out with their passions ☺️👍 plus I totally was geeking out with you, such a fascinating book!

[@JeansJacket17]

your fix to make the book table able to grow with you was so genius!! i love how you work with sustainability in mind *claps all around*

[@Bingbongitme]

The next book table should be for your records!!!!!

[@cmarie2458]

I loved the style of this video! You in different spots in your home....the thinking process, the brushing your teeth, standing in the home depot isle lol and sitting on the couch holding the mic LOL. Super cool. and LOVE the wicker shelf!!!

[@nikkiwhitemusic]

i think this is my favourite sorry girls video ever

[@cheeeeechan]

BECKY YOU'RE A GENIUSSSSSSSSS! I love how you solved the permanence issue - love it love it love it.

[@Sam_de_Notre_Dame]

Always clicking so fast, I love you guys! I often replay your videos in the background so we can do activities tgt!

[@miriammeyers1982]

Every once in a while there is a design that is so "thumbs up" worthy that it should receive two ot ten or a golden 👍. Book Table made my jaw drop. This could be the item of the 20s. Weather featuring a personal interest (design, travel, etc) or family legacy (I'm a mother of ten. I'd adore a Book Table for their baby books and their favorite childhood books.) Dreamy design. The piercing ends having an "expandable in the future" option is clear genius.

[@theOGdebb]

I love the book table! The glass on top is a good idea

[@rhonda478]

Hi Becky, You inspired me to find a copy of "Tomorrow's House" by Nelson and Wright as I share your love of mid century design, probably because I was born in 1951 it was around me as I grew up I LOVED it. My parents didn't share my obsession but so much of furniture design leaned that way we had a few pieces all loved by me. Much to my sheer delight when I received my well worn copy there were notes through out it. My guess is that the woman, Mary Fessenden 1946, that owned the book noting she had moved to Washington, DC from Bethesda, MD. The part that I LOVE is she taped newspaper clipping from 1944 with GREAT pics of furniture and houses, 7 in total. She listed her address as well. I googled her addresses to see if she built a mid century modern house. She didn't. Perhaps she loved the design furnishing her houses. Thanks for posting the your find of Tomorrow' House. Now I have a copy. Appreciate what you do!

[@sarah_israel]

That book table is incredible. And I'm so glad you went with a lighter colour on the shelf (I literally yelled NOOO when you discussed painting it black), I think it turned out really great!

[@emr.1443]

Dsss7

[@lukeminor6272]

Becky is the ultimate DIY queen. I loved this style of video where you take us thru the entire thought process and that you let the diy sort of run it. I picked black in the poll but I definitely think the beige paint color you chose is perfect!

[@julianeelter8159]

this table is EVERYTHING and now I want to make it, too!

[@TheSorryGirls]

do it!!!!

[@SabbigalAS]

Same 😊

[@helenamirian908]

Becky, you look really happy and together. Like someone who really does water her plants regularly and lives the life she has on Instagram. Goals. I wish I could have a Danny.

[@LoomofDreams]

Fantastic results! I love that you found a paint colour that blended so well with the cane. My only recommendation for that piece is to add some cane cording along the cut edges so they're not quite so messy. But otherwise, you nailed it! Super cute result! Also, that book table is amazeballs! Can't wait to see the update when you seal it and add the glass. And I LOVE your solution to holding all the sheets of plywood together - genius! You can definitely add more favourites in the future! As a side note: I totally want to find a copy of Tomorrow's House now. Thanks for sharing that with us - it is a super cool "relic"!

[@TheSorryGirls]

cane cording is a great idea!! will defs post an update on IG when its sealing and the glass is added so stay tuned!! p.s you need to find a copy of it its amazing

[@Squabetty]

Becky….so So fantastic!! That book table is absolutely fantastic and your change up of making it much more flexible with the extended screw pieces is just brilliant! I can see that becoming the hot new piece of furniture for 2022 and everybody’s gonna want one! So especially cool because each one would be customized to the books that one treasures….. Great tip about the cane as well I’ve always been really intimidated by possibly trying to retain some chairs but with your hint about soaking it in warm water and that allows for the tension to re-create once it dries I am feeling a little bit more courageous. Thank you!!!

[@limagolf86]

I think the finish on the shelving unit looks a little rough. Could use a cane strip to finish the edges of the cane webbing you added. The book side table looks amazing though 👏🏼

[@mariahgrimes2511]

i was thinking just a long strip of bamboo/cane strip wrapped around the entire thing and maybe near the new legs would be good too!

[@tadrushijani6154]

I think the cane should have been attached from inside. That's what the inspo picture had. Then it wouldn't have looked unfinished.

[@psychorama7]

This whole process and watching how you design/develop was really cool. I also like that you commented on the ethics and sustainability of design and how this could be adapted/your process for that. Was really cool to watch.

[@ferendus]

Cool!! Re: book table: why not remove part of the “negative” space of the inner wood panels to make it lighter?

[@HeideCannon]

Yes! It could even be cool to see the hollow bit from the side (especially if you vary the shape of the negative space removed. Optionally, to cover the removed bits add solid end pieces. Love this whole project!

[@JessRodriguez1111]

Yess! Depending on how tall you want your plywood, you could even add a shelf and use the negative space under as storage!

[@Sunnbuzz]

I even see adding a coloured block of plexi glass as an insert, VERY cool idea you had

[@rraelee]

The way you centered your drawing footage over your poster is making me so happy

[@dazeydaisy-pu6hl]

all the girls should do hair tutorials! each of you have such beautiful hair 😍

[@shelbyhiromi]

the fix to make the table adjustable honestly looks much more pretty and secure than just glue. Somehow it feels more finished, I would like it like that even if I never intended to change it in any way at all. And i think the paint decision on that other piece was absolutely perfect, best of both worlds.

[@c0riinthehouse]

Becky I’m obsessed with this table. Kind want to do this with a mix of records and books that inspire me ❤️ *Also 100% making this for my in-laws. Their wedding song was light my fire 🔥 so there will definitely be a doors album featured!!

[@strictly1becca]

this whole video was beautiful to watch - not just in result but in process!!! kudos to nick and justin for the beautiful sights & sounds and to becky for her amazing thoughts and work!