MAKING 'UGLY' FEATURES BEAUTIFUL

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[@simplyexistingd7708]

Whoever said that crows feet arent attractive have CLEARLY never seen a person with them. cutest things ever!!

[@thebestadoringfan]

I know! I especially love crows feet because it shows a person smiled a lot. It also makes people look happier

[@ucgghbvbhfd]

I agree. For some reason, it looks adorable

[@azazelvictorique]

I love anything that shows age. Silver hairs or stark white hair, crows feet, just any wrinkles. To a kid who didn't understand how anyone could even want to live that long, elders are like demigods

[@SleepyHollowKnight]

I’ve never even heard of crows feet before this 💀

[@someone_8078]

My friend has crows feet he's so adorable i wanna squeeze his cheeks when he smiles

[@CaitlinKoi]

My sister is in her 30s and started agonizing over starting to get crow's feet. I told her "having crows feet is a sign you've done a lot of smiling and laughing over your life, it's a good thing"

[@Riley-vy5qm]

Awwww!

[@urlocalfandomperson]

That is so sweet, support her as much as you possibly can mate

[@MrFourchords]

what the bleep are you doing here Caitlin

[@rosemary3029]

​@@urlocalfandompersoneee awesome

[@echothefreak9396]

@@MrFourchordsoh, i didnt even realize this was her until i saw ur reply!

[@gladiolus3181]

I was always confused by why body hair was considered gross for women but not men. I’m a man, and I have both older and younger sisters. I remember my dad getting on one of them for having “gross” leg hair. I was so confused. I had never shaved my legs once and he never bothered me about it. Why is my leg hair fine because I’m a man, and my sister’s is “disgusting” because she is a woman? Makes no sense

[@Elliewasthere]

Yeah this is so true

[@chickenanddoodles]

yeah i was always pressured to shave my legs and felt like I was ugly and would try to hide my legs when I didn't for a while, but just recently i stopped bc i realized it was never really my choice to and im more comfortable with body hair. im nonbinary but if i was born a boy my parents wouldnt bat an eye if i wanted to keep my body hair, and probably discourage me if i wanted to shave. its so dumb. also how come arm hairs are more acceptable than leg hairs? i always got comments on my legs but barely my arms, its weird. i guess because legs are supposed to be smooth and "sexy" or something, idk. i like being fluffy

[@xx-nekoxd-xx]

As long as girls wear deodorant people shouldn’t care if they shave or not

[@masterjunko]

Yeah it really is dumb how body hair is portrayed with "ugliness". Shame how society can't let people just live. If you want to shave so that you're legs are smoother, fine. If not, also fine. I wish there was a bigger majority of people with the same mindset as this comment section.

[@_-reputation.noitatuper-_]

It's just sad that women from the age they start developing body hair are bothered and pressured by others to shave/wax it off. And all it has to do with is if a woman "wants to look like a man or not." It's completely stupid and pointless!

[@IamEscBoy]

"A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."- Roald Dahl

[@poppy_cant_draw]

best comment

[@Misty_Grey744]

I remember that. I was not ready to be punched by nostalgia today😭

[@sprucerupper1726]

Being an artist myself, I’ve started to realize that all the little imperfections that I’ve always been insecure about in myself are actually some of my favourite things to draw - hip dips, stretch marks, unconventional features, you name it! I know it’s cliche, but these “imperfections” are genuinely what make us all unique and beautiful. Thank you for showing that, in their own way, everyone is art! ✨💗

[@Gir_fan]

❤❤❤

[@NamelessRanDomPerson]

Same! I often felt uncomfortable with my self-image, but by drawing oc's with similar features and being able to fawn over my characters made me feel much better!

[@Gir_fan]

@@NamelessRanDomPerson I'm sorry you ever had to deal with that. ❤️❤️❤️

[@okal2468]

In real life we want to be a drawing and for our drawings we want them to be as human as possible lol

[@Gir_fan]

@@okal2468 Lol!

[@DragonBee259]

It’s a shame that our society is so critical towards women showing completely normal features associated with, y’know, *existing* for long enough. This was such a sweet video. 🥰

[@Gir_fan]

❤

[@mo0nflowersart]

Exactly!

[@TheTownNarcoleptic]

I use crows feet and eyebags and smile likes like how folks use makeup. I use em to highlight a character’s features. It’s fun and expressive and adds a little bit of almost chaotic honesty to the piece.

[@ConvenientlyShapedUsername]

Yeah.. And people still dare to say that men and women are equal now and that feminism isn't needed blablabla The definition of ignorance

[@Gir_fan]

@@TheTownNarcoleptic Yeah

[@SnowFox-gv2rn]

It’s so weird how we dictate certain traits as “unattractive” for the stupidest reasons. I actually do want to get better at giving my characters more diverse traits like body hair, scars, moles, stretch marks, wrinkles, etc, and I found this video very encouraging!

[@Chella972]

Something that helped me to diversify was making fanarts of ocs and characters that had said features, before trying on my drawings. Because it helped me figure how I'd do their features in my style. It can be tricky to find thought, like for stretch marks, I haven't seen many artists using them (unless it was realistic drawing)

[@alexcat6685]

All of those fetures are either simply natural or don't really harm the individual justifying the uglyness. THat is why it is stupid, it has no really like outside of looking meh it doesn't really have a Rigid argument to be considered ugly.

[@YayaFeiLong]

Wrinkles are often seen as unattractive because millions of years of evolution has programmed in our brains that having wrinkles indicates they're older which indicates they're less able to reproduce. Stretch marks are probably seen as unattractive because they resemble wrinkles at a glance. Moles and body hair are subjective. Scars depends a lot on severity; more severe scars (particularly to the face) might disrupt the features of a person enough that they register as uncanny in an onlooker's mind. My point is not that these are "right" attitudes of attractiveness to hold, just that they aren't arbitrary -- there's evolutionary precedent for many of them. And there's not much you can do to change that; you can't make yourself be attracted to what you're not attracted to, after all. The best we can do is not make assumptions about a person's character based on any of these sorts of physical qualities

[@supakku]

Ikr

[@supakku]

I don’t want my arstyle to be too realistic so I try not to add so many of those features . Not that it’s bad, I js don’t want it to be realistic, and it’s not like I’m obligated to make my characters look like that. Edit: Okay me some features but not all. Features like body hair would make it too realistic and I don’t give that to any of my characters whether it’s a boy, girl, non-binary, etc

[@coulditbethejulia]

I'm a trans girl, and one thing I've noticed is that whenever I don't live up to the stereotype of what a girl is supposed to be, people will say that I'm not "actually trans" or whatever, and that's really messed up over time. But this video single-handedly healed half of all my insecurities, and I seriously can't thank you enough for that.

[@reapergirl2529]

(sorry for late reply) thats pretty gross honestly, its giving, if a bi girl dates a guy shes not bi anymore and vice-versa. weird, gross and none of anyone elses business. hope youre doing alright :)

[@namelessqueen763]

From another trans girl, there’s so much beauty and serenity in knowing that no woman, trans or cis, will EVER achieve what a woman is “supposed to be.” Do what makes you feel like a woman, and not what makes other people think you’re a woman. You are a woman, and no amount of beauty products, or lack thereof, will ever change that.

[@reapergirl2529]

@@namelessqueen763 i love that honestly. There’s no right or wrong way to be a women or a man or neither or both or anything. It’s never about doing it « properly » thats like expecting someone to « live properly » there’s no way to do that it’s just subjective. As long as your comfortable with yourself, that’s all that matters.

[@Jose_Doe]

Woah hold on no one will ever achive that? Idk ​@@namelessqueen763

[@shinysoda6]

It honestly sucks how much people demonize ageing. Ive seen post online of people making fun of celebrities for "ageing like milk" and proceed to post a photo of them of when they were 19 and compare it to a photo of them in the present. While completely ignoring the fact that they're 72 or something. Like yeah no shit they dont look like super models anymore they SIMPLY GREW OLD JUST LIKE HOW EVERYONE ELSE WILL EVENTUALLY!!!

[@abcdefg-hv2ks]

Fr. I just ignore these type of people.. like wtf, of course they grew old. Everyone will and so will you 🤦🤷

[@shinysoda6]

@abcdefg-hv2ks I'll never forget coming across a YT short about Marylin Monroe. Her and the Queen of England were the same age, meaning if she hadn't died so soon she could've lived as long as her. And the short basically said, "It's a good thing Marylin Monroe died young because she's forever beautiful and didn't die looking like the Queen!" They're both absolutely gorgeous! What's your problem!?😭

[@abcdefg-hv2ks]

@@shinysoda6 💀 That guy wants to go back to the Dark Ages (when the longest anyone lived was 30 years max)

[@MikaKahdarmon]

@@abcdefg-hv2ks I get the idea but that's actually a misconception. The average age wasn't 30 because most people died at that age, but because of the high infant mortality. When you survived childhood in the middle ages and had no complications during childbirth, then you actually had decent chances of living much longer than to 30.

[@luraymoondust]

​@@shinysoda6THE HECK!? what's wrong with people?

[@lindsaythemorallygay4586]

Wrinkles will always be beautiful to me. It’s a physical sign of how much your laughed in your life and there is nothing purer than laughter.

[@sockatoo_]

right???? for me personally a genuine smile and genuine laughter, even the subtlest of it, are the most beautiful parts of a human being. we express emotion by making different faces, and every little movement over time can cause a little wrinkle. and wrinkles are caused by those things. wrinkles are caused by humans expressing emotion in the rawest of ways. whoever says that wrinkles are ugly have the ugliest of hearts.

[@PidgeonRatJester]

I've also noticed that with women with body hair are often considered "unheigenic". I am in the JROTC program and one uniform inspection day a cadet of a higher rank told me that I should pluck the hairs in between my eyebrows, then he said he wouldn't dock me off one point because "I didn't look like Frida Kahlo". Apparently neat eyebrows of women fall into the good hygiene requirement in the uniform. Another example of this is when my dad was trying to convince me to shave my legs because shaved legs are easier to exfoliate and they are "cleaner", even though his legs are just as hairy as mine. As always, your illustrations are beautiful.

[@cervid_appreciator]

idk what branch you’re in, but I’m a college freshman in AROTC and I’m 90% sure that he can’t tell you that (at least by Army standards) AR 670-1 has no grooming standards for eyebrows besides permanent makeup tattoos, as long as you “wear the uniform so as not to detract from [your] overall military appearance” uniform regulations are pretty subjective sometimes, but if he tells you to do that again, find the nearest guy with visible hairs between his eyebrows and ask if it detracts from his professional image. If he says no, your eyebrows are 100% AR 670-1 compliant (as long as you’re army jrotc lol idk about other branches)

[@KatietheKreator]

That’s such nonsense, body hair doesn’t cause germs or whatever these people are trying to claim

[@user-bm2tx7qu7o]

Im really sorry for gross stuff I'm about to tell, but my dad shaves his butt cz of hygiene. Like damn, I'm actually proud of him. My mom's side of family don't have body hair, like at all: my granny have zero and my grandpa barely have some on his legs and a spot on his chest, so mom is kinda mix of it. But my dad is almost werewolf level of hairy. Cz of all of it mom didn't know how to be with my hair when I started to grow them. Good thing she never forced me cz of "hygiene", I don't actually need it, but my dad does, and damn respect again. In my country masculinity standards are pretty stupid and dad jokes sometimes that he can't go to sauna cz of that haha. It just shocks me how some guys can have a shitty situation around their butthole and shame girls about legs or arms with that excuse, but it doesn't have anything to do with hygiene damn it!

[@WilloWik]

Bruh if that ain’t the most misogynist crap I’ve ever heard…

[@PidgeonRatJester]

@@cervid_appreciator Thanks for that, so far no one has mentioned it again and I am in the Army branch and there is nothing on eyebrows like you said. But next time I'll get him with that one 👍

[@yeehaw-4532]

I remember watching the Croods 2 and being so happy when Eep met another girl (Dawn) for the first time, she immediately started showing off her scars and stretch marks and Dawn thought it was the coolest, funnest thing ever

[@pamelajoseph8180]

Omg same it was so wholesome ❤❤❤😊

[@stargazer31]

Speaking of body hair in art, I love how Frida Kahlo always painted herself with body hair

[@iamnotlemongrease87]

Frida Kahlo is so inspiring, as a woman and artist. always kinda hurts when ppl use "Frida Kahlo" as an insult. like bro she's one of the most famous artists

[@goldfishimpact736]

⁠@@iamnotlemongrease87yeah one time we were learning about Frida in art class and the teacher explained her body hair and unibrow by saying “She didn’t really care much about her appearance” and some person said “Yeah she should have cared” and the art teacher was like “yeah..”. It honestly made me feel not great and was very disrespectful to Frida Ngl.

[@theburgersystem126]

As a woman of mediterranean descent there is a part of me that identified with Frida's appearance. Esp since I got bullied for my eyebrows when I was younger.

[@Taz-ey4jl]

@@iamnotlemongrease87famous doesn’t mean crap.

[@Definetlyofficialtemuaccount]

​@@Taz-ey4jl beautiful also doesn't mean crap.

[@candycoloredprotagonist]

ive always had pale skin and strawberry skin (basically just constant goosebumps) and its made me insecure but ive seen other artists make light of them and its made me feel so much more confident tbh

[@Sketch_3003]

I have that too!!! It makes me really scared to wear shirts that don't cover my arms, but I've seen so many artist draw them on characters and it's made me confident enough to show my arms :)

[@calypso5785]

i have them too and i hate them so MUCH 😭 but i love that artists are normalizing them it makes me feel better abt my skin❤️

[@Pupsuli]

Oh, I didn't even know it's called that! I always thought it looked pretty, like freckles but different shade. 😊

[@candycoloredprotagonist]

@@Pupsuli i never liked them as a kid but like idk learning that they were called that made me feel a lot better like its such a cute name lol

[@Marionthemarionette]

Same 😭❤️ keratosis is a struggle because people tend to comment on how "bumpy" my skin is and its just like 🥲

[@kataevellei415]

As someone who was made fun of by a family member for having leg hair, I super appreciate this video.

[@abcdbvv]

I don't get why people are so suprised that humans are mammals. Didn't they teach it in 5th grade?

[@animal_gal_adventures9885]

​@@abcdbvvWell we're special animals with really short hair so we shouldn't count because we're so important. (Sarcastic)

[@lost_lacy]

the first illustration actually made me so happy for no reason. she seems like a wise old woman who doesn’t regret any part of her life and continues to smile instead of worrying about the future. that emotion and vibe just made me smile

[@Unknown18300]

This guy made fun of me yesterday in school. He said the amount of arm hair I have is just one step away from becoming big foot. Then he said that I was too short to be big foot and then called me “small foot”. But the drawing made me feel sm better. I love that this video exists now Ty lavendertowne😚

[@bellekiof]

i love ur chuu pfp !!💗

[@NoiseDay]

Thing is, he is guaranteed to have more noticeable arm hair than you unless he's blonde. Men can say whatever they want about women's appearances, but nobody is saying the same things to men. If I (an afab) have to shave my legs to make a man happy, he better be shaving his legs for me too. It doesn't matter what you look like or how you identify. We all deserve equal treatment.

[@soleil-in-the-sky]

Gosh, I will NEVER understand how people can be SO CRUEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT JUST MAKES MY BLOOD BOIL!!!!!!!! Don't listen to him, sick fricks like him are just miserable and want to drag everyone else to their level. I have lots of body hair too, but I don't care, it's part of who I am! And there's nothing wrong with short either. I 'm sure you're really pretty irl!

[@zeynepnaztuzun4125]

Girl, a dude said that to my leg-hair as well... Like hello are we supposed to be smooth babies??? THAN he should shave ALL his hair as well. If he does than good for him, you're not the same person 🙄

[@bluelfsuma]

Turn it on him by making him feel weird for preferring a _baby_ smooth look.

[@VidakaDraws]

As someone with lots of body hair and endless stretch marks, ist sometimes hard to see it as pretty in the world we live in. This was incredibly empowering and confident boosting. Thank you Lavender

[@thebestadoringfan]

I love my stretch marks! In my opinion, they look so cool! A symbol to show how much you've grown, and they're pretty cool to look at

[@childeofepickness]

@@thebestadoringfanikr, I’ve always thought stretch marks were pretty, I don’t get why they’re so demonized.

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

I never knew stretch marks were shimmery! I just thought only mine were, so when people would give me advice for preventing them and whatnot I was always just like "Oh, I'm good. Mine are iridescent!" 😆 I feel the same about my grey hairs, they are silver and make me feel like rainbow fish! Who could be mad about that?! It's not even reframing your mind it's just looking at reality and making your own decisions. For me, I don't have much leg hair, but I LOVE how smooth and soft they are when I shave, so I'm gonna keep doing that. For myself, once a week. My husband doesn't even notice if I forgot to shave or missed a spot! 😆 He's even made a comment about how smooth my legs are, I must have just shaved, and I was like "actually my hairs are extra long right now." 😆 He's cute! One of my sisters doesn't shave because no one even notices. But I have also heard of women not shaving for the exact opposite reason, that they don't like how prickly and gross their shaved legs feel. One woman did try to wax her legs for her husband one time, but I don't think that happened again...

[@witch_sweets]

I once read a tumblr post that refered to stretch marks as little stars on your skin

[@thebestadoringfan]

@@witch_sweets That is a beautiful way to describe it!

[@violet_rush]

I’ve realized through the years of being an artist that insecurities can seriously MAKE a character. Having a unique feature makes OC’s look so beautiful and different from any other character you can find online. It makes original characters seem more *original.*

[@RatQueeng-db6xq]

As a person with like 1000 insecurities I always like to draw characters with “ugly” features in a pretty way :3 So far I’ve been able to do stretch marks, scars, wrinkles, curvy people/skinny people, etc >:] Hopefully when I show my characters and ideas to the world people will notice these ‘imperfections’ and notice that they’re actually beautiful :0 They’re just part of who someone is and we shouldn’t be bothering that person because they have a few marks or wrinkles ;-;

[@caro.nekora]

Soo I am female and actually really liked my leg hair until I hit puberty and got bullied for not shaving my legs. Ever since then I am so so so unreasonably ashamed of it. I hate that pop culture/ society/ the shaving industry brainwashed everyone so badly. Thank you for this video!!!

[@otakunation7625]

Don’t let them get to you! I’ll wear the most frilly girly skirts with leg hair that’s darker and longer than my sister’s boyfriend proudly they can eat shit! And I look cute doing it >:3

[@caro.nekora]

@@otakunation7625 honestly I aspire to be like you. Thank you!

[@urlocalfandomperson]

Girlypop you do you, you look gorgeous how you are and you don't gotta do SHIT for society, coming from me, a stereotypically ugly girl (I personally don't care about how I look), you go girl.

[@ElicrafteeGaming]

Same, until I hit puberty I used to love my leg hair because it was really soft and kept me warm (bc I'm always cold for some reason) but I felt really pressured to shave it, now I just let it grow out

[@Shocked_Joe]

fr. and then if you just let it grow enough, FREE LEG WARMERS.

[@lilypeterson895]

ALL FEATURES ARE BEAUTIFUL THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO

[@peggedyourdad9560]

It just depends on how they’re presented. All features can be beautiful if worked with instead of against.

[@lilypeterson895]

@@peggedyourdad9560 yes exactly thank you

[@Gir_fan]

I agree, they are all beautiful in their own way ❤❤❤

[@everythingchannel9950]

👍

[@alexcat6685]

Do mean these or every? Cause yeah society is overcorrecting but theres also is a Good reason for why something like Being Fat is ugly, espically for Men as for women is more excused. Both shouldn't be, since I'm assuming unlike These fetures those have things like Destructive body health. Bodyhair is fine as its sign of high effect of their testoterone or Estrogen is, which is a good thing. So it depends. Some like it some don't since beuaty is overall what comes inside though you can't ingore that yes they're things most poeple consider ugly, its on you to decide if it is right or not by asking questions.

[@FwooshEye]

Yk, usually when people say "get a real job" they're talking down or jobs like cleaning and retail and so on, so it's really damn refreshing to see it tossed at the CEO:s of the bs industry of anti aging. Aging is beautiful! Wrinkles and scars are signs of a life lived

[@UniRoo69420]

THANK 👏 YOU 👏 as a trans guy, I like keeping my armpit hair and leg hair bc it makes me feel gender euphoria, but my mom tells me to shave it and when I ask her why I have to shave but my brother doesn’t she says, “because our society doesn’t like girls who have hairy pits.” She makes me feel so self conscious about it and I feel like I always need to wear a long sleeved shirt to cover up my pit hair (she thankfully hardly notices my leg hair). Ty for making this video, we need to start embracing our imperfections, because they make us all unique and beautiful in our own way!

[@no_bitch]

Yo same

[@ascrinkleyfellow]

You need to tell your mom to stop poking her nose in places she shouldn't be, that's so awful to judge and criticize your own kid for something natural.

[@UniRoo69420]

@@ascrinkleyfellow Ik, and I’ve told her how I felt but she still insists that I do it :(

[@ArtisanYozora]

We are literally the same. I'm trans too and a few days ago my mom asked me if I'd shaven my pits and I said I can't remember (that was a lie, I wanna keep them so I don't) and she literally told me "You have to, you're a girl." I cried so hard. It stung. Especially considering I am out to them. I wish I'd never done it.

[@UniRoo69420]

@@ArtisanYozora that is… just awful. Sorry we have similar moms, just know that you aren’t alone i this

[@ChantelleArts]

targeted ads promoting anti ageing products was absolutely not something I was expecting in my 20s and it's kind of shocking, you've worded this so perfectly ❤

[@Luka-Hartman-VT]

Man, even as a transmasc, I HATED the expectations women were told to follow. But what I hated more than that was other women pushing the same thing!! Like, I'll never forget my own grandma whispering to me "You should just accept that you're fat" in the middle of a mall clothing store (I am not/was never fat, chubby but not fat, and this wasn't the first time she made comments about my body/weight) or outright telling me that I just wanted to make my boobs look bigger just because, and get this, I wanted to wear a dress in a size that fit me comfortably and not wear a size up (Dress ended up almost slipping off my shoulders)! How effed up is that!? Society. Man. Just let ladies be comfortable in their own skin and stop managing their lives!!

[@jetrandom7569]

Thank you! I've had similar experiences with my own mother and grandmother telling me that I should do my eyebrows, shave my legs and armpits, and wear makeup. I've never felt more insecure as when I have had to use makeup and they won't accept that I'm happy the way I am

[@masterjunko]

I completely agree, it really really sucks that everyone labels being just a bit more rounded, chubbier, or heftier is all one "fat body type." I can relate to those comments about body weight so I know how much that must've really hurt and I am so sorry about your experience with your own family. (I'm on the opposing end of the spectrum, pretty badly underweight and malnourished and sometimes I'm just not happy enough to eat for days, and to this day I still get jokes especially from close family about being a "twig" "skeleton" etc) Also, on the flip side, fat should've never became associated negatively. People insult others and call being fat as if it means ugly, but Fatness and prettiness aren't mutually exclusive and anyone can be both at the same time. Ladies, men, non binary, wherever you fall under, don't let stereotypes make you feel less about yourself!

[@chickenanddoodles]

This omg I'm nonbinary and I always grew up with my mom and older sister taking me to the side and telling me to do certain things about my appearance, otherwise its embarrassing, but I just wanted to exist. It made my already low self esteem even lower bc it felt like there was always something wrong with me for them to nitpick. It took me a long time to grow comfortable in my own skin without trying to live up to others expectations but I'm much happier now that I don't worry what people think and decide for myself what I'm most comfortable with

[@dolbaeb2004]

Девочка моя, ты сама женщина, конечно ты будешь это ненавидеть хдд

[@naolucillerandom5280]

"You should just accept that you're fat". Ok. Now what? You're going to buy me surgery? You're going to go pay a seamstress to make me new made to measure clothes? You're banning anything processed from the fridge just to make me skinnier? Yeah, didn't think so 🙄 Family can be so rude sometimes...

[@okaymars116]

This made me so happy as someone who is barely even a teenager but gets so much negative attention and hate from family members because I don't shave my legs, I constantly feel insecure about my decision and everyone is always pushing me to stop. I literally started crying when I saw the body hair one, beauty standards are so messed up and nobody cares, thank you ❤❤❤

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

Nothing wrong with not shaving legs, never had a bad thing happen to them as a result. It's been years. I feel like I'll never be able to wear anything shorter than pants because of how one of my parents have conditioned me to feel about my own body hair, and how I've been brought to believe how the world thinks. But, inherently, I know there's nothing wrong with it. There WILL always be at LEAST one person that doesn't like something. They just happen to be one of those people, feeling the need to voice their thoughts about something that doesn't effect them anywhere near as much as it effects you. It's not expensive, not costing anyone anything to not shave your legs. No health risk to you or others... Maybe being sure of that can help you be more sure of what you decided

[@wolfa9393]

​@@RadiantSharaShaymin what about other body hair Not only leg hair For example a moustache on a girl and arm pit hair And arm hair Just everything thats normal What about that? Because you said only leg hair And im really insecure of my body hair And i never shaved because im so insecure of it that im too embarassed to tell my mom i want to shave I wish more girls wouldnt shave so it becomes more accepted I dont even get bullied because of it If someone says something i mostly do nothing because im shy and dont really talk to people but if i do i just think to myself or even tell them "so what? Its normal"

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

@@wolfa9393 I guess I could have just said shaving in general, sorry. The only trouble I honestly ever had at all is that I naturally overheat to sweating pretty often, and not shaving my armpits can make it harder for deodorant to work. (And shaving doesn't make me sweat less, sorry if it's too much info!) There's still nothing wrong with not shaving at all - moustache, arms, armpits, it's all fine. My arms definitely have more natural hair than I've seen on other girls. It used to make me so paranoid, and admittedly, it still does sometimes because of my family. They're more based around appearance than they realize, and trying to suit them by shaving didnt help me at all. I've learned for myself that body hair isn't something to be ashamed of having, I guess the hard part is overcoming society's extreme "beauty standards" that can only be achieved by spending outrageous amounts of money and being a walking photoshop image... which is impossible. Beauty isn't pain, and there's never going to be a single "perfect" image of it, even with all the editing in the world - but at the end of the day, you aren't hurting yourself by having natural body hair, and no one is with you more than yourself. It's not wrong to enjoy a natural look!

[@wolfa9393]

@@RadiantSharaShaymin oh ok Thanks

[@KitGlitchizCringe]

I swear if this girl doesn’t do a part two with acne or body types or whatever I will cry

[@Good_luck_.]

Ive never understood people being insecure about eye-bags or mouth wrinkles, I personally think think they’re adorable and they make someone look really genuine Edit: omg stretch marks to! They are so cute! I love them

[@Stars_will_shine]

It is hard for an artist to draw the insecurities that we consider 'ugly'. You did a great job drawing these features in your styles since I don't see a lot of them to use for reference and want to empress them to feel positive to my own and others too that your unique than have every perfect characters with no flaws of beauty you see in highschool movies is so unrealstic. Thanks for your art to show imperfections to a beautiful light.

[@savvathun4901]

Body hair is genuinely attractive. It’s so nice! It’s basically just human fur, it’s good.

[@mimthyss]

I would love to see more of this. Some more ideas: acne/acne scars, scars in general, asymmetrical features, strawberry skin/visible pores, dark eye circles (mine are just the veins around my eye, but it looks like huge eye bags! I hate em!), big noses, wonky teeth/missing teeth, underbite, and soft chins/jawlines. All i can think of atm but yeah, there's definitely far too many ways that people feel insecure in themselves and thus feel a need to buy some (usually actually useless) product to "improve themselves" and be "more attractive". Much like the constant fashion trends to fit in with whats "cool" atm.. just crazy

[@Violets_and_Madness]

These types of videos are amazing. When I was 9 and hit puberty before the other kids I was taunted for having a "mustache" because I developed dark hair on my upper lip. And for having stretch marks because at 9 shot up from 4'6 to 5'4 by the time I reached age 12. I'd love to see a video involving bigger noses or noses with a bump on the bridge (Roman nose, Hawk nose, Bumpy nose, etc) because all too often are our noses called "beaks" and were shamed for not having little button noses

[@masterjunko]

As someone who actually has been somewhat shamed for a button nose (I used to try putting pins on my nose to get it pointer) I'm surprised that Roman noses aren't really appreciated. I've always thought they looked cool/nice looking and have always mentally associated it with a strong person. (This comment has actually inspired me to start planning for some face drawing exercises to help add more diversity in general from noses, eyes, chin shape, etc etc.) I completely relate with the hair above the upper lip. It's sad that it's so common for people to shame "unconventional body hair" when body hair is completely normal and beneficial.

[@chickenanddoodles]

Yes omg those types of noses are so beautiful, I love seeing more and more of it recently in artists I follow

[@SpringStarFangirl]

Yes! I'm Jewish, and I have always had a larger nose than the standard, and I never see people with noses like mine in media. It's seen as ugly, and that's a damn shame.

[@bleakautomaton4808]

Those and 'peach fuzz,' 'pock marks,' untanned scars that don't darken when you tan, and so on. Like dude people are not photoshop models lol.

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

Those kinds of noses have a lot of charm to them, always liked :)

[@gummirwl]

Everyone has insecurities, but at the end of the day, you are all beautiful. I'm insecure a lot. Being a trans man is difficult, but I'm trying to be kinder to myself. Self-love is not a linear journey and can have many ups and downs, but it is a journey that is important for all of us. What self-love looks like is different for everyone, so find what makes you happy and take care of yourself. I love you. ❤

[@Bunny_Bill]

Aye, fellow trans king! Don't let anyone get you down 😈💜‼️ Youre amazing and handsome at every stage🫵🏻😈

[@thou_narsty_gremlin]

hahadlskhfsl you've just summoned every trans man commenter on this video (including me)!!!! ye thank you :'))) haa, we try to convince and romanticize our insecurities but then the moment we have to use a public bathroom all self esteem goes down the drain

[@bnuuuyy]

It's crazy when you realize how these beauty standards harm trans people so much as well my personal self-love journey as a transmasc person has been a roller coaster haha I went from abhorring any feminine trait in myself, having very strong episodes of dysphoria because of it, from being a little more ok with these parts of myself and wearing feminine clothes, to almost completely accepting my body as it is now i still have some very deep downs, sometimes it's hard to look myself in the mirror, like it's a completely unrecognizable person looking back at me it's specially hard being in a living condition where I can't hide my breasts or use binders due to the climate where I live or not having the capacity to effort it financially (I live in the country with more violence against transgender people so these type of binders aren't common or effortable, the closest thing you'd be able to get are women's gym top) sadly dysphoria never really goes away, but it does get better over time, specially when you have people who accept and love you unconditionally aroud you TLDR: beauty standards suck & society would be way better without cisheteronormative gender roles, just let people live their lives

[@mixedbagmixesmusic1967]

Fellow transmasc here! Always remember your brain is an asshole and you don't have to listen to it. All the love to you, you're handsome and beautiful. I have some pretty nasty insecurities myself, but I know we can both overcome 'em, brother. 💪

[@lav-kitty]

i'm transmasc (in the sense that im a trans boy enby, i'm actually quite fem), and it's great seeing more transmascs talking about those stuff aimed at people with prominent X chromossomes, it's a mix of toxic feminists telling you to "not erase your womanhood", with brainwashed women telling you to hide your insecurities, toxic LGBTQ+ people telling you you're not masculine enough to be trans, and incels telling you that you are an "ugly liberal" or something, while you're literally just having a little bit of hair in your armpits and stretch marks in the big chest you want to remove 💀

[@reiltinedwards4459]

To me, it's the features or insecurities that are deemed to be "imperfections" that I find most beautiful. Fat, teeth gaps, uneven teeth, scars, stretch marks, gray hairs, body hair, you name it! I especially love the little details of the skin. I love the way it dips and fold and drapes over the body. I love little markings on the skin, be it freckles, birth marks, scars, stretch marks or even acne! I also really love "imperfect" teeth. I myself have very wonky teeth. I have an extra tooth where an adult tooth grew behind a baby tooth that never fell out and 3 of my 5 kanine teeth are further forward than usual. They kinda look like troll tusks. I think these are some of my most beautiful features. I love my smile. I love seeing other wonky teeth smiles. They're just so genuine and beautiful and pure. These little details prove that we're human. Complex beings with unique experiences, thoughts and feelings. No two are exactly the same. I think that pretty damn beautiful.

[@sleepyjester]

i love this comment!! i agree wholeheartedly. and with the teeth thing- my teeth have always been pretty round? (think finn from adventure time) and i used to be so so insecure about it because all the conventional attractive celebs have these perfect like straight rectangular teeth but now i actually think it’s really cool that my teeth are unique :)

[@ArsonTheShroom]

We have such unrealistic beauty standards :( thank you for challenging them and making people feel more comfortable with being human :D

[@ObiAlmighty]

Can we appreciate how LavenderTowne always pins us down and fills us with creative juices?

[@stitched_skin1292]

AYOOO

[@wiggard]

Yes, we can 🤤

[@MaomoniToons]

UM

[@yamiunabun]

SIR? MA’AM? EXCUSE ME???

[@amele_2]

truly interesting wording here but yeah

[@Themightyfrogwizard]

I personally have a lot of body hair, especially on my legs, I was insecure, and people looked at me weird, but then they also looked at my upper and, it hurt.. it hurts still to see people ashamed for their features, it will always hurt. The only way for it to not hurt, is acceptance, and everyday these dermatologists say these things and it just makes it harder, and harder, and harder. Now I see how pushed I was as a kid to shave, and to take care of my pimples with lots of expensive products, how to smile to avoid wrinkles etc. but also, now I see all features are amazing, its just natural.

[@mistyfluffles2723]

When I was growing up I didn’t even realize stretch marks were a thing and I thought I had problems with my skin, it actually stressed me out a lot as a preteen. It makes me very glad that people are getting told about these things and won’t have the same experience I had.

[@elizabethpage8966]

This was such an encouraging and sweet video concept! I loved each one of them. If you do a part two, I think: hip dips, clef chin, eye bags, teeth gap, and acne/moles and face marks would all be good things to draw that people are insecure about. As an artist who always tries to make my characters more diverse, it helped to remind me that it's the little details that I should be adding to my drawings. Love your art, and keep drawing!! 💕💕

[@sillycookie]

Hip dips would be fantastic ❤❤❤ it's such a common body thing that's treated like it doesn't exist!! I found out only a few years ago that I was perfectly normal, and it was my BONE structure!!! It's absolutely wild.

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

@@sillycookie I didn’t even know hip dips existed until I saw a video about them being insecurities. And I have them.

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

I have such a huge problem with looking in the mirror, I'm almost convinced I'll never get past having problems with my face. It's been since teenage years and never stopped once, but I refuse to buy any of those products that "fix it". I know for sure that I'll just end up worse later on.

[@elizabethpage8966]

@@RadiantSharaShaymin I also used to not like my face, but one thing that helped me like how I look was thinking of people who I think are pretty and matching some of our facial features. Because you would never tell someone you love that they are ugly, and if you have similar features why would that make you ugly and not them? Also watching people like Clara Dao and BTS really helped my self confidence.I'm sure you are beautiful inside and out!! Stay confident and love yourself! 💕

[@YayaFeiLong]

@@HiBuddyyyyyy I had to look it up too. I almost can't believe that's even a thing people are insecure about

[@jujmajuj13]

This turns my dysphoria into euphoria, thank you ❤❤❤❤

[@b_e_a_n__4434]

I love this! If you do more drawings, I'd love to see under eye circles

[@Gir_fan]

Same ❤❤❤

[@CuteLilEldritch1010]

Oh my god yes!

[@isabell3751]

yes!! i think hip dips would be a fun one too!!

[@b_e_a_n__4434]

@@isabell3751 Yes absolutely! And big legs in general

[@Faunadoodlez]

@@isabell3751oh hey I have hip dips and when I was little I thought I was deformed for having it because I saw girls and they didn’t have hip dips until I learned that it was normal

[@WilloWik]

No, you didn’t *make* these features beautiful. You *reminded* people that they already were. You weren’t afraid to accentuate them the same way we would accentuate “conventionally beautiful” things, and that’s what makes these pieces of art so beautiful. That’s true love of the human body and all of its “imperfections”.

[@Reli-the_star]

I used to be insecure about my hairy legs but now I really don't care if people think it's ugly or something, I honestly think it looks fine cuz It's kinda the same as having hair on your head, just I don't spend 15 minutes trying to brush it.

[@random_dragon]

I've just turned 23, not even a month ago- and I've been taught most of my life that wrinkles make you look "old" and that body hair is "gross" I'm insecure about my stretch marks, because I have some on the back of my knees and on my hips. It just makes me feel like something is wrong, or like they're gross scars that will never heal It's been a struggle to teach myself that wrinkles are okay and to be more comfortable with body hair, but it was *such* a shock to see Lavendertowne make stretch marks look pretty I'm probably going to start incorporating stuff like this in my own art, soon! Thank you Lavendertowne, this helped a lot

[@Sprout54231]

Ok but here’s the thing about stretch marks, they kinda look like tiger stripes or lightning bolts

[@random_dragon]

@@Sprout54231 mine don't, but I appreciate the sentiment

[@Taz-ey4jl]

She didn’t make them look pretty and comparing them with sea shells and pearls was a terrible move because the later two actually look good.

[@Taz-ey4jl]

@@Sprout54231ugly ones

[@chippyfwake]

​@@Taz-ey4jlWhy are you so concerned about how poeple look 😭

[@NoiseDay]

I had a really eye-opening experience when I noticed the sunlight glowing through the peach fuzz on my (then 6 years old) niece's legs. Realizing that even little kids that haven't gone through puberty have body hair was a formative experience, especially because I was a teenager at the time and extra concerned about my image. Every once in a while when I'm petting my cats, I think "nobody would ask this sweetheart to shave her legs." I still have issues with body hair (I would like to be a hairless alien, thanks), but I know that's a personal problem and I never comment on another person's appearance. It doesn't matter what I'm insecure about. Other people don't need to share my insecurities.

[@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552]

Not only is the art and symbolism amazing, this is literally the definition of "trust the process" lmao

[@7261m]

00:59 I started getting ads like them when I was 14. It didn’t mean much to me then nor now, but they got to my mum which makes me sad

[@completely_normal111]

Wrinkles remind me of my Mama, and of all her beautiful friends. Eye bags remind me of myself, body hair reminds me of cats, etc etc. All features of a body can be beautiful if you have a beautiful personality and person.

[@kittens0w0]

I am Never gonna shave my leg or arm hair I don’t care what dudes or basic girls think I don’t even like men. I think everyone should be proud of their body and the changes it went through, your beautiful the way you are and you need the right people around to let you know that ❤

[@ElicrafteeGaming]

I started tearing up at the body hair one because she almost looks just like me (you know, besides the bunny ears and flower in her leg hair) and I've been so insecure about my body hair because it grows pretty dark and thick, and I'm so glad that someone is encouraging people to feel good about themselves

[@chocomy]

I started crying when she talked about body hair, i really needed those positive comments about it

[@Sammy_47]

Personally, I feel like if you have lines around your eyes and mouth it's an indication you smile alot....wear it as a badge of pride. We all can't be wrinkle free....we get old; would they rather have a 30 year face and an 80 year old body? What a shocker that would be for those intimate moments, lol

[@Taz-ey4jl]

It’s not that’s a myth.

[@paragonplays6919]

Stretch marks, omg. So this artist I started following lately made this really cute and really sexy comic about a fandom otp post having their first child together and she's so self conscious about her stretch marks and feels really ugly and he tells her not to be stupid and kisses the marks and is just really super romantic about it and it just made my heart explode. Sometimes it's the little things that can really move you. And seriously screw the beauty industry. It definitely preys on people's insecurities. If makeup and shaving and whatnot makes you happy, go for it, but nobody should *ever* feel obligated to do either just to exist as a whole and complete and beautiful person.

[@aliyahpulido953]

WAIT! Was it "The Exorcists' Bracelet" by Ro-Taniah?! Ryder did this in a mini-comic where he and Amy had their 2 little ones. It was SO CUTE! Made me feel better about my own stretch marks that happened when I suddenly grew taller and a little curvier during puberty. I thought people we're supposed to get them if they'd never been pregnant, which I haven't, so I thought I was just "fat." I couldn't have been more wrong and I like my "tiger stripes!" 🐅

[@aliyahpulido953]

WAIT! Was it "The Exorcists' Bracelet" by Ro-Taniah?! Ryder did this in a mini-comic where he and Amy had their 2 little ones. It was SO CUTE! Made me feel better about my own stretch marks that happened when I suddenly grew taller and a little curvier during puberty. I thought people weren't supposed to get them if they'd never been pregnant, which I haven't, so I thought I was just "fat." I couldn't have been more wrong and I like my "tiger stripes!" 🐅

[@lillyhacker9134]

If you do another one how about being chubby? I know guys o’ plenty that say “oh I don’t want a fat girlfriend” and I wanna see it made beautiful!

[@stars_seemcool]

6:40 this is absolutely not a conspiracy! companies profit off your insecurities, so it’s in their best interest to create and spread ideas like this in order to sell their products. makes you think about what other insecurities you have, and why, doesn’t it?

[@IrisDew]

When I first got stretch marks I Broke Down! And I was SO insecure, but then I saw somewhere “stretch marks are waves in your skin, just as beautiful as the waves in the sand” something like that and now I absolutely Adore my stretch marks!!!😁😁💙comparing all these “ugly” human things to beautiful things you see in nature is my favorite way to look at everything, we all need to remember we came from the earth, and the earth is beautiful just the way it is. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk😂

[@Sly-Moose]

Stretch marks always look like lightning to me

[@maeperegrine6327]

Just want to say, the way you draw shadows is super clever and awesome! I'll definitely try that out

[@SatoriWazHere]

3:20 omg the shading is so good here, it's so AAAaaa it's so fun to see her add more shading styles to her drawing. And for a moment, everything was perfect

[@Seabnny]

If you do a part two of this you should include acne and/or freckles bc that’s an insecurity I personally struggle with and I would find it interesting to see your take on them. As always, I love your videos and art style, keep being an awesome person Haley!

[@your_local_aries9294]

Thank you sm for making this video. As a person with lots of dark body hair it meant a lot. I big insecurity i stuggle with is acne and pimples on my back and face, it would be amazing to see that in these art pieces ❤️

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

I have the same trouble... I'm plenty of years out from being a teenager, and got incredibly unlucky in that I've had nonstop trouble with acne since late middle school. But I'm way too stubborn to start using products now. It probably would really help to see it not demonized for once.

[@your_local_aries9294]

@@RadiantSharaShaymin I'm sorry you struggle with it so much. It really would be great to see it in a good light :)

[@Choco-Puff]

I respect that you are willing to make people feel better about themselves. Thank you☺️

[@thepaintedpixel1541]

i get dogged on for my armpit hair all the time. it makes me feel feminine. people say its mascculine because "only men have it" but women have it to, you jsut never see it because women are told to shave. besides, i dont like shaving, i always end up hurting myself.

[@LabraDoodleDraws]

The only reason you should be concerned about body hair is if you grow a peach fuzz all over you; that's a sign of malnutrition and it means your body is so cold from not having enough energy and fuel its growing extra hair to stay warm

[@lacyomsberg1235]

LavenderTowne, I doubt you’ll see this but thank you so much for all you do. Your content is amazing and I hope your comic does well! I search my local bookstore every time I go, but it’s never been there😭😭😭

[@wowptoast8769]

Your channel has inspired me so much over the years! Thank you LavenderTowne!

[@BORAKARAKA]

I believe no one ages badly, people just age. Everyone ages gracefully

[@xxxtrajjj]

Im really insecure about my big forehead and my skintone i always get made fun of it and im soooooooo tired, im happy you made this video because many people are insecure about the things in this video/other things. I love ur vidsss

[@babygooboo9985]

same😔 a while back some 8th grader was comparing me to my twin and said "your forehead is bigger" or something like that

[@kaishutup]

i havent watched it yet, but i can already imagine how great this is going to be! i'm gonna show this to my mom because she has a lot of insecurity of her crowsfeet so i think this will make her happy

[@RadiantSharaShaymin]

Crows feet are cute and I won't be convinced otherwise :) (Even before seeing this)

[@sstjohn96]

I've been getting stressed about wrinkles and aging at age 27 which is ridiculous, but your first drawing brought me so much joy and even confidence 🥰Like wow, my wrinkles are just little sun rays

[@maiarscheekiness7027]

Stretch marks are something I always live with. The way you do then makes me feel pretty!

[@eleanorflory9914]

Im a straight cis woman and growing out my body hair has been so freeing, I really loved seeing your adorable take on this idea! Some others I’d love to see would be uneven teeth and tummy rolls

[@mariparty]

YESS all these features are NATURAL and should be treated that way !!!! I love this omg

[@SadeyStevens]

Crow's feet is a sign that you love to smile or are very expressive, I think that is beautiful.

[@forgottensnecko4631]

crows feet are a wrinkle produced from smiling and happiness, crows feet aren't ugly... they're a sign of a life well lived

[@Froggie_draws]

Hi! I love your art and your voice is so calming. I love your work, and I thought you might want to know

[@Gir_fan]

Her voice is better than 99% of ASMR. ❤❤❤

[@catastrophe__s]

I love how so many people give the absolute cutest names for things that people are insecure about! I go to the comments and people no longer feel ashamed to have these feature that are seen as “ugly” because of how cute the name is! This is a habit we should keep forever!! one I especially love is ‘strawberry legs’

[@Kool-rf8bq]

I honestly LOVE her and the way that she says "um" and "uh" because it shows that she seems to do the voice over in one take

[@Sprout54231]

What has boosted my confidence about body hair was when I was in elementary school at a park, and older girl (probably a young teen) told me that body hair is cool cause it helps you keep warmer then without. Years later idk if that’s true or not but I find it cool too

[@Funky_Formalities]

I love this video! I don't shave myself, so I especially love the body hair one! You're art is amazing and beautiful!

[@wastinglight.]

haley I literally appreciate you so, so much. You've been one of my favorite artists--hell, one of my favorite people, for many years and I get so unbelievably happy whenever you make videos like this. Using your talent to shed light on a good topic. I love it so much. thank you for being you

[@dinoheartnerd2265]

This is such an amazing comment and I could not agree more. I feel exactly the same way and I really appreciate you making this comment to hopefully let Haley know (I hope she sees it at some point). I love Haley, she means so much to me not only as an artist and creator but as a person as well (I do of course realize that my knowledge of her as a person is very limited and I am in no way claiming to know her beyond what she chooses to share with us online, we do not know each other IRL and I 1000% respect her privacy and everything), but what I mean is that I adore her personality, the way she acts and talks and thinks and approaches the topics in her videos and art and much, much more... hopefully that makes sense, sorry for the dumb rambling. Anyway, thank you once again for taking the time and effort to make such a lovely comment, Haley more than deserves it.

[@Swe3t_Coffe3]

HOLY MOLY I LOVE THE LIGHTING ON THE CROWS FEET DRAWING IT'S SO PRETTYDSJKANDJKASNDKJASn. Love how that was rendered.

[@dazzledoodle]

This whole video is so beautiful, it's so positive and wholesome, I think it's so important for people to see this kind off stuff

[@Dr.Fritzy-j-maxwell]

This is amazing I love this so much and it’s beautiful that you think of things that are supposedly ugly or unattractive like this

[@stroodledoodles]

This was such a cute idea, the stretch marks one might be my favourite! I'd love to see you do more of these, like maybe for the next one you could focus on insecurities that guys get (e.g. tummy fat, hair loss, low muscle tone etc.)

[@anaingridespinalpena2484]

I don't think there are enough words to tell how much this video helped me. I'm through some hard times and recently had a major breakdown over my extreme hirsutism and your words and portrayal of bodyhair is...I don't have words to express how happy and seen it makes me feel. I'm literally bawling my eyes writing this, Thank you! ❤

[@Cyanide_Jeuels]

Because of all of the beauty standards and what imperfections are deemed ugly, I was scared to draw them. I also have many imperfections that I hate and want to get rid of. But now I've grown some more, (yes, I am crediting myself) and I'm not actually scared to draw things that aren't perfect on characters anymore. Well, I'm not good at drawing them, but I still am happier with my art now-on top of that, my art really has improved so much these past few months :}. Sorry if my wording and phrasing is off, I don't mean anything bad by it.

[@Sampantha13]

In the next one, can you please do spots/open pores? ❤ Ive been insecure about them for a while and would really appreciate it if you made one ❤❤❤❤

[@BitterBrains]

Please do this again with acne and acne scars I have them on my face and shoulders and back and I want everyone to realize that doesn't make me unhygienic or ugly

[@disorgan1zedchaos]

i draw a lot of characters with acne actually - i think it’s totally fine and idk why people make fun of it

[@BitterBrains]

@@disorgan1zedchaos yes exactly! It's such a natural thing and you really can't control it without tons of money and skin care products. Me and my best friend both agree that textured skin really is beautiful. I just wish there was more representation of it in a positive light.

[@keith720]

It's interesting that people call it crows feet. I've always known it a smile lines, when someone smiles a lot in their life they get those lines. To me it means a person has had a happy life if they have them. I always found them quite endearing

[@applesauce4829]

As a high femme who hates shaving this means so much to me

[@MidnightMushiVA357]

Same, I hate shaving for the life of me and I would much rather skip shaving altogether. I have a scar on my knee from shaving once and its not fun at all

[@dinoheartnerd2265]

Awwwwwhhh, same

[@exceptionallyriso]

Unite!!!

[@jordentacoztm]

As always, Lavendertowne is amazing. Doing everything to make people be happy and feel good about themselves. You are my number one inspiration, art and otherwise. Keep up the incredible work!

[@strawb3rry_shake]

The one about body hair was soso important to me. I have a lot of body hair that grows very quickly. I usually shave my underarms and legs, but I still have sideburns that reach down to my jawbone, little hairs on my upper lip, hairs that climb up to my belly button, lower back hair, (often called “manly looking”) arm hair, and ofc hair in more private areas. I’m often really insecure about most of these things, and the only reason I don’t shave more often is because I’ve realized it would result in me, 2-3 times a week, shaving away every bit of hair on my body. It’s just not worth it. My body hair is part of who I am, it’s something completely natural and genetic, and I’m beautiful. And I’m glad more awareness is being spread about the fact that girls don’t have to shave if they don’t want to. Beauty standards are out of control and I’m glad we’re taking back our power.

[@anarchysammichh]

lavender is the most positive and sweet artist on this platform i swear i smile at all your videos thank you for making this :)

[@liznickerson4890]

Personally I believe shaving is s preference and the way people consider it unhygienic is crazy like yeah most sweat and odor can form but it matters if you take care of it, if you want to shave go for it if you don’t want to don’t just don’t harass people for shaving or not shaving whether that’s to meet beauty standards or to beat toxic positivity

[@dandelionfrog8]

Thank you for all your hard work! I have a lot of body hair and I don't shave it mostly because I don't have the time and also because I want to show people that yes, woman have body hair and yes, I'm still beautiful. I love your videos, and I hope everyone has a great day!

[@iso320]

LavenderTowne this is wonderful and exactly what I needed to see right now. Thank you. Art is so powerful and drawing myself and others around me, even in figure drawing classes, lets me see how all of the little things about someone come together to make them beautiful. The human body is so incredible!!

[@meowx3_x]

6:10 i whole heartedly disagree w whoever said that 😭😭 love the look of whispy white, blonde, brunette lashes i hope nobody is insecure abt the color of their lashes cs im sorry but they’re all so fuckin pretty

[@GermEat]

PLEASE MAKE MORE PARTS OF THIS I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOURE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@bri-le3dx]

As soon as I saw the title I smiled, thank you for making this video