Mal (of Ultimatum: Queer Love) Steals Your Heart | WHGS Ep. 176 | Gay Comedy Series

[@hey_im_shanae2294]

mal letting ashley top was basically mal topping😭🤣

[@MC-cg7mp]

Topping from the bottom now we here 💋👌

[@beccanelson9015]

Power bottoming 😂❤

[@elysianhearts]

Please have Mal on again, your chemistry is so great. Her voice is made for podcasts.

[@NE8675309]

The more I see of Mal, the more I love her. She's so emotionally intelligent while still being so fun and playful, and the collective chemistry on the podcast was somehow silly and sincere. This was just such an incredibly fun pod to watch. I remember whooping for joy on my walk out of the office today when I saw who the special guest was. Please please please have on Mal on again!

[@marybethmatterfis4560]

When Mal says “No, you smell like Patchouli and Hard work” I almost fell on the floor laughing. Mal you are a natural! Fantastic episode! Keep them coming!

[@abigailzeek]

Mal being able to keep up with the energy of Ash and Maddie is iconic. It’s not often that a non comedian guest can keep up with them

[@notmyrealname550]

Omg!!! Ashley got Mal on the podcast. Mal was so amazing to watch on the show and she seems so emotionally intelligent!

[@MsAaannaaa]

we were all ready to propose to mal after the reunion.

[@Raddiebaddie]

💯

[@mohanthegay4398]

frrrrr

[@RaeLarz]

MAL. I loved seeing how your therapy journey came through on screen, and how calm / collected / empathetic you were in your communication. ESPECIALLY when you were being tossed some unhealthy habits by others. You truly took the high road and you are such a prime example of what self-awareness and self-work can do. It's not only optimal for your wellbeing and health, but for others in your presence as well. Love you forever for this

[@phoebeats]

THE GASP I HAD WHEN I SAW THAT MAL WAS A GUEST OMGGGG YAYYY

[@phoebeats]

like i saw the notification from spotify on my phone and immediately ran to this vid..i came at the speed of gay as the ppl on webtoon say 😅

[@katc6128]

"THE SPEED OF GAY" 🤣🤣🤣 And ohhhh my gosh same, I clicked SO fast when I saw it. Such an amazing ep!!

[@invisible_design]

maddie is on fire, as always

[@paige_exe]

god i love this women !!! ❤ i hope Mal gets to host something on tv soon, i would watch that so fast

[@KristinCerda]

No but srsly…this needs to be a regular pairing. Maybe another weekly podcast unto itself. “Masc on Masc, with Mal & Ashley”

[@Nyx_Nyx]

You got Mal😱 She's EVERYTHING, love her so much. Vibes were immaculate, and the chemistry was a 10.

[@tris5602]

Ashley and Mal on the couch snuggling like a couple of Sims 😂. So cute.

[@Sarah-kq6pu]

Best ep yet. Mal AND Maddie? Perfection. Mal needs to join the pod permanently.

[@cooki3monstrrr]

One of the best episodes! Mal is a great "yes, and" person, the bits were hilarious! 15:48 😂😂

[@soapylather1]

ashley's outfit today is serving me teenage german boy on safari and i love it

[@bdazzld]

Absolutely beautiful response Mal 27:21 I lost my mom when I was 26, two friends in highschool, two friends in 2021 and my father last year. That much loss will def teach you the value of people and yourself. I wish nothing but amazing things for you Mal.

[@alisontippett2618]

I was about to go to sleep and planned to watch this tomorrow until I realized who the guest was, and then I decided sleep is for the weak and watched this with zero regrets.

[@jay1603]

I haven't even seen the ultimatum but this was a fantastic episode that i loved every second of and you should have her back as often as humanly possible

[@robynweyeneth1531]

Mal is attractive in literally every way lol

[@terranuovabiochar]

tbh wish you guys gave some more space to let mal talk but I am rlly happy she got on the podcast

[@terranuovabiochar]

ashleys interrupting when bre was asking the questions drove me crazyyyy

[@Pyrowolf2point0]

Already listened to the audio on Spotify but will probably come back to watch this later. I really hope Mal is able to be a repeat guest!

[@v0mit4br4ins]

MAL RIGHT AFTER RAE IS INSANEEEE I LOVE YOU ASHLEY!!!!!!

[@MormonStyle]

not sure if you're open to constructive criticism, but when you verbally say "this is going to be a good clip, let's keep going" it really takes the authenticity out of what's going on. a host that's present with their guests really helps the atmosphere

[@theauntless]

She's a comedian, doing bits is kind of her thing

[@MormonStyle]

i'm super aware that she's a comedian :) my point is that it makes it feel manufactured. i love the bit, i think it's super funny, im just saying for me personally it takes me out of the joke when she says "this will make a good clip." I don't mean any harm, i love ashley's work and i've been supporting her for a long time now! just offering this as another perspective to think about.

[@MormonStyle]

@@nailinthefashionthat's a good point!

[@tris5602]

The idea that anything that happens on social media is organic is a farce. Even if something IS organic in the moment - like this game was during the taping - it's produced and edited by the time we see it. We've been sold this idea that things should look effortless, even though nothing really is. It ruins the mystique, perhaps, but it's also important. I think it's a good thing to remind people that a lot of thought, research, and planning go into content creation: it's a job.

[@MormonStyle]

@@tris5602 thank you for that perspective!

[@linn7510]

Ashley talking about donating a dollar to the Patreon is Ashley's and the audience's marshmallow moment

[@catherinepuma2815]

lol Mal is great. For a Gay Sex podcast, I am surprised you don't ALWAYS end your episodes with "Thank you for coming" XD

[@emjoy36]

I’m so glad you finally addressed the Giant Gay Banana in the room 🤣

[@mrjr03]

Ohhhh! I’ve either missed it or not gotten to that part yet, but I was definitely sitting here trying to figure out what the heck I’m looking at!! So this was helpful 😅

[@ePai9e]

THE COMIC SANS COMMENT WAS SO GOOD

[@wboardman]

Loved this can’t wait to see Mal on again. Would also love to see Bree and Maddie on together as cohosts with Ashley

[@thetaticiccone]

“Seinfeld… what else would cause that but unbridled Judaism?” - Maddie T THE GOD Wiener

[@bilong92]

I hope we hear Ashley’s good egg news soon haha I am invested

[@katc6128]

Ahh same!! Haha. I really wanted her to go back to it. Amazing ep though and I know we'll hear about it soon 😊

[@binf1313]

This was so fun! But thank you Brea for providing some organization to the conversation it was needed

[@charb2743]

What a masterpiece of an episode. Loved every minute, although I was hyper fixating on what Maddie’s question was until they asked lmao

[@breakfasttacos4550]

Loved how Mal could be there in person.. loved it

[@oliviatrevino3540]

I clicked because of Mal but this was absolutely an awesome podcast I didn’t want it to end!

[@SuperBeatriz300]

oh my god I was having the shitiest night and this episode just made everything better, the way I laughed... just THANK YOU

[@luvpurple95]

this was great. Mal is great. She is such a heartthrob. Truly like yes. Beautiful spirit

[@kapowjam3462]

43:08 no funny business 😂 Maddie killed that

[@GnomieTheHomie]

This episode was hilarious and I absolutely adore Mal, hope she can come back again

[@chelsealee7667]

MADDIE IS SO FUCKING FUNNY! So quick with it. I just loved the dynamic in this episode. I was LIVING for the flirtatious energy between Ashley and Mal 🤤 Come back Mal!!!

[@someonesomehow379]

58:38 omg I relate 10000% as a lesbian who knows NO ONE who's out 🧍 no like deadass... but yeah I've felt the urge to be like palpable and out going, "easy to be around" and all that type of shit so when I come out people would be like oh we hate this about her but she's still that nice kindhearted person- wow I've never typed this out and I feel so fucking bad for younger me :'| anyway so yeah maddie's question deffo made sense and resonated A LOT.. also love this episode!!

[@nytemarecaro]

Omg, love Mal even more now. Thanks ash! 😂 ugh this was sooo good…

[@endrinatrejo]

The whole thing was a masterpiece, but that ending is golds 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for an amazing podcast by far my favourite

[@greenneck5396]

10/10, loved Mal, loved the energy from everyone

[@JL-sc8wp]

I relate to Ashley so hard in minute 12 where they're talking about the struggles of shopping. This has always been a struggle for me, too. Fashion for the androgynous or masc leaning woman who maybe is non binary or leaning more masc is really difficult to enjoy and find things that fit right, are affordable and feel like they don't directly contradict who you are + how you want to express yourself to the world. I'm so glad you mentioned that lol visibility is important and we don't need more super expensive options that we can't afford for us. We need affordable, easily accessible & easy-to-return options 😅

[@dancingwoolf]

LOVED this show! You guys should have an ongoing podcast or separate show together, the chemistry is SO GOOD

[@MiguelSantos-vf5yn]

This was a fantastic podcast OMG I laugh so much, you are such a funny comic. Love you so much. 😍😍😍💋💋💋

[@katc6128]

This ep was THE BEST. I love you all. Please have Mal back sooon!! 🙏😌

[@JuMixBoox]

This is the second podcast episode I've watched today where there were sudden Coney Island prices. I hope you all had a great time.

[@rebeccabrown1643]

Everything Maddie hit out with in the episode had me in stitches

[@alessiababy3638]

Oh my God that was AMAZING thank you so much 💞

[@amaialezaeta1910]

Omg the sound effects I’m laughing so hard 😂

[@amaialezaeta1910]

Oh yesss 😂the pool thing! Absolutely 😂❤that’s so Ashley

[@L._._]

Mal ❤ I’ve lost a lot of friends too, as someone recovering from addiction… so many have died. I aspire to be like you in how I express myself. 🌈

[@sunnymuniz6040]

Yesss Mal!!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ yes ty to everyone at WHGS!! 🎉🎉

[@evelynnsometimes2]

i am so happy you had mal on the show!!!! she's amazing

[@kaiya33123]

LOVE Mal😍😍😍 So glad you're all here in this world❤😊

[@EmilyBiesterfeld]

such a good ep of the pod!! such great chemistry and questions 💕💕💕

[@valpulaski8298]

Yep. Mal's gonna have a show for sure. She's so perfect. Im masc but shes just beautiful. Holy smokes 🔥🔥🔥

[@mercurial_mood4763]

“you are..a..real… stand up person 👍 “ deceased

[@ihatemickiegee]

right off the bat thank you for the mike jones representation and i’m sorry to everyone who didn’t laugh their asses off when mal said WHO? 💀

[@sapphicalix]

*“Bread woman” HAHAHAHA do you mean Hannah breadtok?! 💀*

[@annemanalisay543]

❤ love Mal!!!! Great episode and sound board usage

[@brendabauman5568]

Best episode yet! So real, so funny, so gay!!!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@kymcmore9396]

Maddie needs their own podcast

[@RakshadaShirley]

They have one

[@nataliecohen814]

This is the funniest and most entertaining podcast *laughs in queer*

[@user-xg8qj4nz2h]

Mal is magnetic, great ep 🎉

[@phoebeats]

i love the way the banana reflects off the youtube award

[@SammyShoots2]

maddie AND bre on the pod best day ever

[@peachymonster]

Clicked on this video with lightening speed! Love love love❤

[@rbarber]

I hope you're doing ok Ashley after everything and you can find a way to grow from it and learn from it and not crash because you are still a great comedian.

[@JoyNova]

From the jump already laughing my ass off 😂

[@tianamatson]

Mal needs to be another fill in host. 🤣🤣

[@Anna-ux4xk]

oh my god I could listen to 100 episodes with mal

[@SydneeWalton]

Them not knowing what to say when Mal said “who” 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ihatemickiegee]

“we’re masculine without being threatening” I love you so much for that quote it’s the most perfect accuracy (not that we deserve to give anyone answers) of why we don’t like men lol

[@chiara7886]

Mal is what I always dreamt a human being would be, especially in a relationship (but with time started to think it couldn't exist) I'm still shocked by the way she interacts, by the way she is. We need to hold ourselves to this standards and try to behave like her in our day to day life If we all did that the world would be a different place Honestly I can't believe someone is calling her inauthentic She is exceptional

[@Mahrgherita]

I love Maddie's close-up shots 🎥

[@RiverWolf9]

One of my favourite episodes! 😄🤩

[@TheNormlGirl]

I will watch anything Mal does she is so great 😍

[@knotahoookercrochet]

Yay I love this episode! So good and so fresh :)

[@gatoferal]

I am so parasocial for Mal

[@phataldestroyer]

Gordon ramsey violin, my roomate had it as a notification. I would bust every time. Between that and sims (EA)constructing music... Violin always took the cake. Side note i loved mal and vanessa two sides of a coin. Mal being super healthy and empathetic and vanessa being going with the flow and doing for herself.. Wonderful episode. Ultimatum episodes feed my reality tv a Guilt by association.

[@DrEliSheff]

"I love a facefull of butthole" made me laugh out loud, love this show!!!!! Mal is freaking amazing 💯

[@koriwhitley2881]

One of my favorite episodes for sureeee.

[@virgilmcclendon5072]

Loved this so funny. Thanks.

[@laurenbeavers6811]

such a great episode. I didn't want it to end.

[@Idkmanjustgowithit]

I need to know the tea on what was cut from Vanessa's air time 😂

[@shia6746]

yall so funny, loved this episode

[@luvpurple95]

Mal aint even have to represent herself the way she did on the show fr. And I hope she didnt feel pressured to be thee representation. Like i was just happy to see a Black woman on the show having her own experience. Like she put Black queer women on the mf map hunny okay lol. Like she did that for us...okay! and she aint even have to do that! She is def a role model for me like wow. I hope I can see Mal on another lesbian podcast, "sex, love, & plasdick" in NYC by New York Girls TV one day. In the future we need a Black queer Ultimatum ultimately.

[@daughterofdemeter]

yes yes yes Mal Mal Mal Mal lol

[@foranyoneasking]

Lmao the black queers appreciated the Mike Jones (who?) referencing at the beginning ❤❤❤ thank you Mal

[@cano2572]

100% it’s peacocking.. but also my group chat is filled with “but can you tell I’m gay” or “but do I look gay” cause if it’s a no I’m about tattoo the rainbow on me.

[@chellestan]

"Thanks for c*mming" should definitely be the podcast sendoff.

[@hellobell123]

Favorite episode thus far.

[@Karolina-qr5pz]

32:23 I don't feel like Vanessa was "the furthest person removed" considering Xander was her partner to begin with. Maybe she just wanted to let Mal know, in case she wasn't aware. I doesn't feel fair to just assume bad intentions, especially since Mal knows *now* that Yoly wasn't always transparent about her and Xander.

[@MissMercyKay]

I mean of the 3 - Xander and Yoly were the two actually effecting Vanessa. Mal didn't have a friendship, relationship, and didn't request to have that communication with Vanessa

[@Karolina-qr5pz]

@@MissMercyKay Yoly and Xander were affecting both Mal and Vanessa. It makes sense to me that Vanessa wouldn't want Mal to (potentially) be out of the loop.

[@skyelovett8579]

I felt represented with Ashley wearing odd socks… never do I wear a pair of socks

[@kit-kat2120]

I have a question. Mal said that her and Yoli were going to couples therapy. Was it before the show? And did they tell their therapist about it, and what did the therapist say? Like I can’t imagine the therapist thinking this was a good idea🤣

[@faux-nefarious]

It sounded like she said it was before the show (tho I understand that it was muffled b/c Ash spoke over that part)

[@MrIzzieBear]

1:09:47 Mal said they had been in weekly therapy for 1.5 years by the time they did the show. Though I'd doubt any therapist would support being on a reality show like that 😂

[@Jenny_796]

Yeah she talked about that in her tiktok, it was before the show.

[@shayxie8318]

had to pause to relisten to Mike Joooooones :) my brothers name is also Mike and back then he would not stfu about Back Then haha