Minimalism | 10 Things I Regret Buying

Hi everyone! Last week I made a video about the best purchases/ investments I’ve made and I thought it’s only right to make a video about the 10 things I regret buying. Let me know if you can relate to my list or if you have your own list :)
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[@MalamaLife]

What are some purchases that you regret?

[@barrykarey1469]

I regret purchasing a range of clothes in the past. I have given away so much clothing and every year I still give away more. Not purchased any clothing at all for 5 years.

[@Havanah2006]

Sadly handbags and wallets - I was addicted. Proudly reformed nowdays. I have 1 x small cross bag I use daily & 1 backpack if I need to carry more.

[@TheKrazyKoala]

Totally agreed with getting older with less need for heels. I'm thinking to make this same video on my channel too. Let me write me in a separate thread

[@flydazedator26]

Makeup, skincare, electronics, and stationary

[@BonBonHassan]

Ooooo weeee where do I start lol

[@ashaelfifa]

My bad purchases is everything that I bought for my 'dream self' not for my real self

[@andymagliulo]

Spot on!

[@MalamaLife]

I am so guilty of this! I project myself far into the future, but reality catches up quickly. Thank you for watching 😊

[@Momma_AL]

Same

[@AskArianne]

me too!

[@annika9348]

This!!! I'm literally looking at a handbag right now that's hanging across the room... I wanted to change my style and look more sophisticated but I haven't used it once.

[@minikorsi]

Regretted purchases happen because of: 1. Society’s pressure/fashion 2. Experimenting 3. Buying for fantasy self 4. Insecurities 5. Lack of information/knowledge My biggest regretted purchase is formal clothes ( now I’m selling half of my wardrobe on eBay :0) I was dressing my fantasy self: who has a high flying corporate job, gives lots of presentations and attends formal events every week.

[@MalamaLife]

haha yes! I can relate to this. My fantasy self also worked in a high rise office in the city and travels every weekend and goes to fancy dinners :) my reality is soooo different from this scenario.

[@ms.mccorrister5391]

bags and purses! WHY do I feel the need to buy so many bags and purses!

[@MalamaLife]

It was hard to resist bags and purses for me too. Meanwhile, I only use my fanny pack in my daily life haha

[@mandiraexotic]

Marketing.

[@srishtihada1554]

Same here. I have a big drawer full of bags and purses. 😭

[@dinghui1130]

I always forget things when switching bags, so I really just stick to one or two. Makes life a lot easier.

[@olgaanisimova6916]

I feel like I should buy the best quality I can afford which often means high price tag items. So I save for months to buy a purse. And then the pressure is on to get the one I won’t regret buying. This all leads to unnecessary stress

[@hris9214]

I love clothes as much as the next girl, now after decluttering, I wrote a list of why I decided to part ways with those clothes, eg bad material, 3 quarter sleeve lengths, fishtail skirts, loud prints etc, so that I can refer to this list (saved on my phone!) during future shopping trip 😌 to avoid buyers remorse / regrets

[@MalamaLife]

I absolutely love this idea! You are doing yourself a favor by making the decision process easier for the future :) I should do the same. Thanks for sharing this idea

[@athenameriamschannel6361]

I regretted purchasing different shades of lipsticks when in fact I only wear two shades most of the time.

[@MalamaLife]

I had 10 very similar brownish nude lipstick 😅 you're not alone!!

[@Megan_Marlene]

Same! I have so many lipsticks wanting to be a lipstick girl but I'm just not

[@Areutherehello]

I have so many lipsticks that it's insane. Pinks, nudes, brownish orange reds. I had over 40 tubes once. I realized it was such a tragedy money-wise when I knew that I only liked to wear around five of those lipsticks on a regular basis.

[@sophia5001]

I can give up everything except reading and collecting books. Moved from buying new to used books now that I’ve adapted minimalist thanks to your channel 🙏🏻

[@MalamaLife]

💕I'm so happy to hear that!

[@jazzlayla]

Buying good quality items is a good idea. I make leather bags for a living. They last a long time. I get some back after 20 years to replace the zippers then they’re good for a few more years. I made the mistake of buying a vegetable peeler at the dollar store that lasted about a week before it fell apart

[@MalamaLife]

I would like to only invest in items that are timeless! I love how you see first hand that we can just maintain our items to prolong their life. I've had a similar experience buying things at the dollar store :D

[@ailsaburns]

Interesting that you mention the Kindle as I think a lot of minimalists are huge fans of the Kindle. It illustrates that we are all different and should do what is best for our lifestyle. I'm like you and although I have a Kindle, it is never charged when I reach for it haha because most of the time I read paperbacks. Thanks for the lovely video!

[@MalamaLife]

Completely agree Ailsa! I can see why minimalists would love the kindle. I really wanted to like it, but it's too bad it didn't work out. I have a niece who would love it, so she's getting mine for Christmas 😍❤

[@vcook2825]

I too didn’t care for my Kindle…. it felt like too much ‘automation’ than what I cared for. Now, I buy used paperback books at thrift stores or Amazon.

[@Patricia-fi9zo]

I can see myself in many of these purchasing regrets... perfume, high heels, plants that are too high maintenance... you live and you learn :)

[@MalamaLife]

Yes! Definitely learning so much 😊 I'm not sure why I felt the need to buy these things. Thanks Patricia ❤

[@mhdayarathna4706]

I'm also spent more in skin care products ,perfumes and unnecessary clothes and shoes. I'm trying to cut those things in my life

[@MalamaLife]

So glad to hear that you can relate! Yes these were so unnecessary for me 😊

[@carlav8357]

I relate to you so much, earlier I was decluttering and I'm so upset with myself spending unnecessary money on things I don't even wear. Thank GOD I'm realizing this so I can make the corrections I need to and change this unnecessary behavior!

[@MalamaLife]

I love that you said this! It's true. We can make mistakes, but we can also decide to move forward 🥰❤

[@PilgrimKat]

Haha I started the video thinking "hm, I don't think there's much that I regret buying" then immediately at the first point you got me. I've definitely spent too much money on plants that I didn't know how to care for 😅 This is a good reminder for intentional buying Sophie, thanks for sharing your experiences 🤗

[@MalamaLife]

When I was writing a list for this video, I didn't think I had so many purchases I regretted. It was actually difficult to narrow it down to just 10 :) I learned my lesson to start taking care of succulents and then move my way up. Thanks for watching Kat

[@runnergirl450]

You have the most beautiful hair!

[@MalamaLife]

Aww thank you so much :)

[@sandrinebj7456]

Hi! Just wanted to jump in and say that the reason why most of us have glass containers for dry food, etc is not only because it's beautiful but most of all because we buy in bulk. It saves a ton of plastic and it's even cheaper at some places

[@MalamaLife]

Good point 😍 I totally understand. Thank you for watching!

[@HaveWhatBringsMeJoy]

After many years of hearing people say that you definitely need all this stuff, and witnessing wedding shower gifts that were enough to fill up a huge house, and after actually being inside houses that had so much stuff, it was refreshing to hear someone say that they wished they hadn't of bought all that stuff. I've bought my share of unnecessary stuff, but I'll never do it again. Now I only buy what I truly need. And I am so much happier.

[@MalamaLife]

Thanks for sharing your lovely thoughts! I completely agree with you. I am so much happier now and I don't enjoy buying random things for others or receiving unnecessary gifts. I would much rather enjoy a nice conversation over coffee or go for a nice beach walk :) Thank you so much for watching An.

[@krupadnjya6995]

I'm a medical student,what you said about supplements and food is absolutely correct dear

[@MalamaLife]

thank you so much for confirming it 😊 i didn't want to give anyone health advice, but just wanted to share my honest opinion ❤

[@krupadnjya6995]

@@MalamaLife hello, I'm trying to grow my hair and I love your hair can you make a video on haircare, maintenance and how you grew it ,plzzzz♥️♥️

[@p.r.9982]

It’s so weird, this week I decided to stop buying supplements after over 5 years of consuming them, and I’m watching this today and reading your comment. This is so timely, insane confirmation.

[@BonBonHassan]

I’ve been weaning myself off excessive shopping in preparation of my no buy year and I’m already so much happier!!! I’ve finally created a budget and I’m loving it ☺️

[@MalamaLife]

😍 that is incredible!! Good for you. I'm sure you feel so proud and accomplished. I am rooting for you ❤

[@nataliemorrell3083]

How has your no buy year been? :)

[@theerarestjewel]

One of my favorite quotes is" Your avatar you present to the world, is the reason for your anxiety or depression" To piggyback off that. There are many scriptures that state " Dont become the way of the world" Minimalism clears all that you truly become authentic.

[@MalamaLife]

Ah I love that quote so much! It resonates with me so much. It's crazy to think about the things that make me truly happy..it really doesn't require much

[@michaeldemetriou3043]

I love growing plants from seeds. Watching seeds develop and joy in planting out into the Garden. Thanks Sophie ❤👍

[@pamelagilmour8060]

Yes we buy things for the life we think we want. Thank you for the inspiration. You are so sweet and genuine. Your mother I’m sure is very proud.

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much Pamela 🥰 I appreciate that so much!

[@bethmathews8465]

I totally relate! I’m in the process of donating and selling unnecessary items from my home. Things without actual function and things that don’t bring me ultimate joy. Great video!

[@MalamaLife]

I just love hearing that! I think it's so important to absorb information and content, but more important to take action :D amazing and inspiring! thank you so much for watching.

[@ih2439]

Recently discovered your channel and love your content and delivery. Your videos have a soothing and cinematic quality! Great points and lessons across the board. One additional consideration that I try to give to kitchen items is whether I already own something that meets the want or need that I think I’m resolving by buying the new thing. In your cheeseboard/platter scenario, I’d think to any existing large plates/cutting boards/trays that could serve an equal purpose. I’ve also gotten rid of most of my one-trick ponies in the kitchen and it’s just so much easier that way.

[@MalamaLife]

I love that! Always think in terms of multipurpose. It is so true. I could have easily served a platter on a tray I already had. Thanks for sharing and for watching my videos 😊💕

[@JustMeg29]

I found out about your channel 2 days ago. I absolutely love your channel and your content and what you stand for. I was always a minimalist but never knew there was a name for it. It has taken me around 6 or 7 years to finally get rid of the clutter in my bedroom. It took me another year and a half to redecorate it just the way I always imagined it in my head. I am slowly but surely also changing my wardrobe too. This was a good video. I have never liked perfumes or body spray. I wear essential oils too as does my boyfriend. He actually buys me my oils. I have 2 or 3 that I wear all the time.

[@Simon-je7ko]

I just wanted to let you know that I apply what you say in your videos. I look at life and things differently. I think I really needed this. For me one cup of coffee from my Keurig and a good walk outside or being outside to listen to a river is enough to make me happy. I don't need a lot of things. I have enough. Thanks for everything.

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope you know it means so much to me :)

[@alfs3]

when i buy anything over the 20 yrs i always keep the original box and just put them in my attic bc i can turn around and resell them on amazon or ebay for pretty much what i paid for them as like new! #noregrets!

[@DnAMcD]

Aloha Sophie 🙋‍♀️ I regretted purchasing a 10 seater table for my dining area. Once we put it in the space it completely overpowered the room and was way too big. Luckily I purchased it used and was able to resell it without losing any money. Loving your channel and your content. Blessings from Queensland, Australia 🌞

[@MalamaLife]

Aloha Amanda 😊 thank you so much for watching! After you mentioned your dining set, I am looking at mine and wondering why my husband and I needed a 6 seater table just for the two of us! I'm so glad you were able to resell it and get some money back 😁

[@jeniefersarmiento4908]

I completely agree with #5..We have the same thought about this,,we dont need it if we spend money for the right/healthy and nutritious food..I love this video❤️❤️❤️

[@MalamaLife]

Glad you can relate 🥰

[@AndyJamerson]

I highly agree on the kitchen tools. So tempting to get all of them on one IKEA run, but it most of the time turns out being sooo annoying to use. We recently got rid of a lot of cutlery and plates/dishes. Now we own almost all of one sort and it forces us to actually make sure we always clean the dishes ASAP.

[@MalamaLife]

Yes! it is so simple and efficient to just have what we need then wash it to use it again :) so smart of you guys. I bet it saves so much time and space

[@ruanag8184]

I was such a bad impulse shopper before , I always used a sale as an excuse to purchase items even multiples sometimes items I never even needed or used . So sad.

[@MalamaLife]

I was guilty of shopping sales too! It sounds too good to let it pass, but I always ended up spending more.

[@megaviles9901]

I regretted buying a lot of shoes and garments which is just stored in my closet. Now I'm trying to learn to declutter through your videos. Thank you!

[@soyoonkim3372]

It really works differently about kindle! I am a huge fan of it as I don’t need to buy paper books and also it helps me to improve my English too as an ESL. Anyway, i am so lucky to find your channel and learn things from you🤗🤗

[@MalamaLife]

I love the idea and I think it's great for most people 😁👍

[@shimreichona.shimray5307]

I have been clearing my unnecessary purchases since last year but like you said it’s a never ending process 💕 HEELS of course is one of my worst spending 🥰🥰

[@MalamaLife]

I don't understand why I ever bought heels! neve liked them anyways 🥰 thank you for watching!

[@NataliaCarmen]

Love this beautiful video Sophie 💖 . I can totally relate to this, one thing that i use to spend a lot of money on was skin care. Due to my acne i was always trying to find the best cream out there. I have found that using less is better for my skin and sticking to the same routine has been helpful as well as self love + being kind to myself when i have a break out xo

[@MalamaLife]

I've had acne all throughout my teenage years, and I know what you mean! I thought that there was a product that would solve all of my problems and wasted so much money on it. Thank you for sharing Natalia 🥰

[@drc4168]

What saved me was Kristen Ma's amazing book on healing acne and skin through ayurveda. You might still be able to get a copy from your library, or - for a few small dollars - via a used bookstore!

[@laurensmith6065]

So glad you mentioned gifts I can relate! I could’ve saved so much money giving thoughtful, well picked gifts that are less expensive instead of buying $50 dollar gift card for every random event at the last minute.

[@rachaelmt2984]

haha i wouldnt know where to start - i have hundreds maybe thousands of regrets. I have started this minimalist journey a couple weeks ago - and have given away hundreds of items and i stilll have so much clutter. its a work in progress :D

[@MalamaLife]

Yes definitely work in progress :) thank you so much for watching

[@ModernGoddess81]

I’m in the same boat

[@LuuGolinski]

I also haven't paid enough attention in the past when buying clothes and shoes. This year I decluttered (and mostly sold) quite a lot. I am going to try to keep in mind how much time and effort decluttering takes when considering spending my valuable money on an item. Also, considering if there is space for any item in my home is a good criteria, I agree! And yes, it's so sad if a plant dies :( I also try to carefullly choose plants for my home; and I like if I can get a plant by propagating, be it from a plant I already own or from someone else :)

[@MalamaLife]

I love the idea of propagating plants from others or from your existing plants :) it's quite easy and so incredible to watch it grow. I think it's so important to consider how much time and effort decluttering takes so that we can prevent more clutter. thanks so much for watching

[@Ashamylove629]

Thanks Sophie for the sermons🙏

[@JenniferH1724]

I regret buying so many essential oils. I wish I would have bought a couple of really nice oils instead of 100 ok ones. I am working on giving them away to people that appreciate them and will use them. Less is more! BTW I am so grateful I found your channel I lost my son almost two years ago. Listing to you and other people like minded means more to me mentally than you will ever know my dear.

[@MalamaLife]

I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I cannot even imagine. But also happy that my videos are providing comfort in some way ❤ I also bought so many essential oils and only use 2 or 3 haha. Lesson learned! Thank you for supporting my channel

[@alexperoff-investingessent8367]

I'm sorry, when you said high maintenance plants I had this imagine of a plant with a Louis Vuitton bag, a Burberry scarf, and some designer glasses saying something like "I ain't eaten no Miracle Grow! mmkay." I had the same experience with winter clothes when I moved to North Carolina. You certainly still need a jacket in winter, but I have this one gigantic winter coat for the few times I need to travel up North during the months of December through March...but I rarely use it. For that matter I have a ton of cloths that I just don't wear and frankly don't fit me. I remember my parents telling me to hold onto them because I'll "grow into them" which in my mind basically means I'll get fat when I get older...a reality I just have to accept. This winter holiday, I will definitely be decluttering. I'm taking a whole week off work to catchup on things and declutter. Great video Sophie! Like-357

[@MalamaLife]

hahaha you just made my day this comment! An orchid came to my mind when you described your version of a high maintenance plant. I have never been able to keep one alive for more than 2 weeks! I imagine if an orchid could talk, they would be sassy too :D I have so much clothes that also don't fit me as well. It's makes no sense, but somehow I've justified it in my mind. I will be doing the same this holiday season. Taking baby steps, but we'll get there. Happy Friday Alex

[@perhapslife5837]

My instax camera. Only to realize that i cant afford to buy films and i am not going anywhere.

[@MalamaLife]

Oh yes! I also thought it was a good idea to get one. It is really hard to upkeep getting new films and I regret mine too 🤣 thanks for sharing!

[@perhapslife5837]

You're welcome! Thank you so much for your vlogs too. Im watching your vlogs this holiday seasons and I hope I can apply those words in my life slowly. Stay safe! ❤️

[@gracelaine]

ahh this is awesome! i'm always trying to live more minimalistic & this is so fun to watch! i'm putting out a video about it on my channel next week too!!

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching! love connecting with other creators who also talk about minimalism

[@theotherway1639]

"30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels...a popular book online. Uses mindfulness.

[@MalamaLife]

I'll have to look into it 😍 I love getting other perspectives on this topic. Thanks for sharing!

[@umitagupta9661]

My regrets are - Bags and wallets Kindle Cute decor

[@MalamaLife]

Similar to mine! glad you can relate

[@p.r.9982]

I don’t even wear high heels anymore. I regret buying a kindle too. I want to finish the books I bought on it, and I decided to keep it to read the samples of the books I’m considering purchasing. If it still annoys me by the end of the year, I’ll give it to someone. Nice channel Sophie.

[@azizah6177]

Recently, I regret buying some vintage and nordic style posters for decoration. Turnout, I dont even like to see much thing hanging in my room.

[@MalamaLife]

I have been going through these realizations myself. Maybe it could be a Christmas gift idea for friend who will enjoy them? 😊

[@azizah6177]

@@MalamaLife whoaa nice idea. Thank you 🥰

[@yufitryyuyu4665]

I can relate to the winter clothes ! I’ll move to new apartement and was thinking to buy some plants but Now I changed my mind 😂😂. Thank youuuu so much for this inspiring video ❤️❤️

[@MalamaLife]

Maybe only the easy to care plants :) they do make the house look so nice.

[@georgelyden]

In the past I would easily spend about $600 a month on drinking and smoking cigarettes! Not any more. I quit both years ago! Saved all that money and I'm much healthier! Mahalo for this wonderful video,you are always so honest:-)

[@jenniferpearce777]

Apart from clothes and shoes my worst purchases that was expensive and wasteful is exercise equipment, treadmills, bikes exercise dvds that didn’t get used enough ☹️

[@MalamaLife]

Oh yes! I can imagine bulky exercise equipment just taking up space if you are not getting use out of it. I hope that you can sell and make some cash back 😁❤

[@jenniferpearce777]

Just my thinking 🤔 but you lose so much money but I am thinking if I have not used it by March it is going but I am definitely not buying anymore lesson learned 🎄🥰

[@ikaputrialfina527]

I had always dreaming to have a treadmill or adjustable barbell at home. But now i feel enough and healty with just having one jump rope,one pair dumbbells and my smartphone to watch and do 10 minutes workout from youtube 😁😁

[@MalamaLife]

@@ikaputrialfina527 so simple I love it 🥰

[@lasanthavidyarathna7143]

Thanks so much for your unique ideas🥰❤️

[@catharinab8860]

One thing I’m happy for today is that I know what kind of clothes fit my body type. I’ve made some mistakes there in the past. today I have some wardrobe rules like no worn out or shabby items get to stay, everything must fit me (I have one bin of seasonal and/or to small items that I deem impossible to replace) and when I add something new it have to be quality items in natural materials. I never like a clothing item of artificial material after the first wash… 👚

[@sandsduenas9353]

I resonate so much with the PLANTS. 4 of my puppies died early last year and I compensated with buying so many plants that ended up dying.

[@MalamaLife]

Oh I am so sorry 😞 that must've been so difficult! Yes plants need lots of care and love too right?

[@thesecret8318]

Hey loves your vedioes ... I am watching one after another ... I am from India and I realized want to adapt to minimalism ...but it's not easy to minimalist in my country as we celebrate so many festivals and family functions .... But still I have strong desire to live life as minimalist because I really want to simply my life and save more and more money for my future

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching my videos. I hope that you can find your own version of minimalism and incorporate it into your lifestyle 😊 the benefits have been truly life changing for me.

[@trinitylace1101]

You are so inspiring thank you so much for this video malama💕

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching 🥰

[@srijarangarajan7628]

Hi 👋 I'm new subscriber... I'm 22 slowly starting my minimalist journey but decluttering u r videos so good .... thanks 😊

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for supporting my channel :) Appreciate it so much

[@lavenderpurp6610]

Your an inspiration, cn u tell n show us ur purchses n life before the minimalist

[@anashappydays]

I have to say that in the last years I have been very good and I only buy things with lots of value for me, so I don’t regret buying 💙😋

[@MalamaLife]

that is amazing!! I bet that feel so good to say out loud 😁 That is exactly how I want to feel Ana

[@goddessglow6996]

Great video. I couldn’t stop myself of buying so many perfumes these last years, I will at least stop buying new ones until I finish my whole collection. Can you do a video on your DIY perfumes with essential oils?

[@MalamaLife]

That would be great 🥰 thanks for the suggestion!

[@ruanag8184]

Hi Sophie 🤍 can you do a "what I buy more of as a minimalist" please 🙏

[@MalamaLife]

I LOVE this idea 😊 of course I'd love to and thank you for giving me the idea

[@jessie9653]

@@MalamaLife that would be a good one 👍

[@marciapestana3260]

Absolutly love love love your videos. Big hug from Portugal :)

[@MalamaLife]

Kisses from Maui :) thank you for watching my videos

[@Tamily001]

Kindle, hands down... I looove paper-backs.... Really mostly gadgets (electronics in general, personal, kitchen, bath, etc...), clothes that don't flatter (wrong shape or color, or clothes that needed "adjusting"!!!, same for shoes), kids' toys (even though I have kept all o my kids' LEGO kits), Seasonal stuff: mugs, knick-knacks, throws, pillows...

[@MalamaLife]

I agree with your list! I feel like I only have a handful of gadgets that I use on a regular basis. Clothes and shoes that are not comfortable or flatter my body are getting donated or sold this year :) Thanks Tamilla!

[@thinkwithira5632]

I really needed to see this! Thanks a ton for sharing your experience...love from India

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching ❤ glad it was helpful 😊

[@markblado4282]

Very interesting list Sophie! I can relate to the plants, kindle, and cheese board. We too bought all kinds of interesting plants that didn’t survive long. Was it us... or the plant? Maybe both! We have a small granite cheese board / wire cutter but we really prefer the smaller plastic boards with the cheese knife. We came close to purchasing a kindle because co workers had them. We realized we preferred paperbacks, magazines, and newspapers, especially if we lose them! We have bought our share of cheap kitchen utensils too. We bought some Pampered Chef( expensive) and they turned out to be good value. One of things we regret is the treadmill. It turned out to be a $300 dust collector that we seldom use since we prefer walking outside.

[@MalamaLife]

My heart breaks when I think of all the plants that I have killed in the past. Orchids are so beautiful, but I have not been able to take care of them! Maybe in the future :) funny how you said cheeseboard too. I love a good charcuterie platter and thought I needed to buy, but it wasn't necessary. Thanks Mark Happy Friday to you

[@markblado4282]

@@MalamaLife Us too! Don’t think about the plants too much, we’ve all done that. Sometimes I think I’m better off with cactus 🌵😬🙄😅😂 Thanks for your honesty Sophie! It’s much appreciated! 🙏 You are a rare person. Have a great weekend too!! 😊😊

[@MalamaLife]

@@markblado4282 hahaha yes!! succulents are my best friends :) thanks so much Mark

[@daniellenicole8466]

Yes $400 worth of a photography shoot that I wasn't completely in love with. I liked them but it was not worth the money. Also learning to use what we have to stop food waste.

[@MalamaLife]

Oh yes! that is something I regret too. We did an engagement photoshoot and it definitely wasn't necessary. Thanks for watching :)

[@JoseDelacruz-wo7ne]

I really feel for the cheese platter so sad it had to go ! It reminds me of get togethers I've had at my friends home. His wife is French so it make sense for them. But I'd never use it either .

[@creativecorner4715]

Clothes~300 pair n shoes~50 pair n even than nothing to wear... gifting a lot.. eating out daily ...I regret these things n Starbucks coffee though I enjoy coffee ..but this can be change in long run

[@MalamaLife]

Yes! I regret having so many shoes. I only wear 3 of my favorite ones. thanks so much for watching :)

[@lovelymelody1138]

Wow your voice is really soothing it would be best for an ASMR!

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you 😊❤ glad you think so

[@sieunpark3436]

"Minimalism is asking why before you buy." - For example, I am buying a set of pen because I am happy to use it daily:) "The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less." - The good circulation is giving up something instead of being afraid of.

[@Gillan1792]

For glass containers I just wash and reuse jars. Little tip for everyone. I so agree with perfume, just basic higyene is enough, I haven't bought it in a while. Also instead of shower gel I use just soap, it even makes my skin less dry and it lasts longer. Also heels as you get older as just less and less practical and just nice shoes are quite enough. For kitchen ustensiles unfortunately sometimes we have to buy cheap because we don't have enough money at the moment. What might help my parents and grandparents have a lot so I just take the things they don't need. What I also do if I really want something I wait a while to see if I would really use it and if this is something that I really must have. It can help with buyers remorse and more thoughful purchases. Good luck everyone!

[@Lushhh]

Please don't rub your wrists together when applying fragrance! It rubs away all of the top notes and the scent won't perform and develop as well as it should!

[@MalamaLife]

I had no idea! thank you for letting me know 🥰

[@karolinalul5020]

I love your videos!

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much Karolina 😊❤

[@healthyfoodlover1124]

Love this vidoe❤❤

[@martindurkin8837]

Hi Sophie, I had to chuckle over your cheese board I think nearly everyone I know is "guilty" on that one.

[@mihasultan]

I love your channel.Where did you buy the white v tank? It looks chic and classy.thanks

[@ajmaverick3620]

I am in agreement with almost all points you have shared in this and your other videos . What I would love To know is what background/ experiences helped you be who you are ? How did get such clarity on very subtle points that most others don’t even notice ? How did you form this very Objective world view ? Books , experiences , observations ?

[@julieanncella3841]

I recently stumbled upon your channel and love your content and videography style. I'm curious what the brand of coconut oil is that you put on the ends of your hair. I do the same thing, but haven't found one that I'm in love with yet

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much Julie :) I appreciate it! my sister got it from Tahiti, but it's on amazon too (not sure if they use the same pure ingredients) MONOI TIARE TAHITI

[@scaredofmice8658]

I have many regrets on purchase. It’s taken you KZbinrs to change me 👍👍

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you for watching! :)

[@lovelyn3822]

Skin care and clothing from online! There was loads of regrets because I am a student and money is really hard for me to get.

[@MalamaLife]

I also remember in my college days when I would eat junk food, but save up to buy really nice skincare! I hope you are able to save a bit more money now :) Thanks for watching

[@serirayna2789]

I have too many regrets , one of which are fridge magnets, plates , frames of cities names nailed to my walls, not realising these are not easy to clean and make it very cluttered when you just want to see a plain wall. Thanks for sharing about ur kindle purchase....I had begun thinking of it but now I think it’s unnecessary. Books can be borrowed unless I really want it for work or study. Plants ! and cake sliced which I hv not used at all....the plants are dead ....just don’t buy anymore now....Freeing up the spaces in my flat feels amazing.

[@MalamaLife]

Thanks for sharing :) i love that you said books can be borrowed. It is so true! we have libraries, book sharing services, free audiobooks that we can take advantage of. You are so right about freeing up the space in our homes. it is the best feeling

[@TheKrazyKoala]

Gosh. Don't want to mention the heels. As i'm getting older, i only wear flip flops hahaha. You know, especially in Singapore, thats what we wear. Now back in the Bay Area, I'm also flip flops everyday carrying the same habit. I don't have the cheeseboard at home, so i can't really comment on some of the items you have here. But i also hate owning winter clothes :) SG is same weather:) Thanks for sharing. It seems you released your video 1 day earlier than your scheduled? I believe it's Friday?? The reason why i am not doing 2 videos a week on my channel is that i'm afraid i cannot keep up with exactly the same date and timing every release. But i see you update on different dates every week. that gives me comfort to do 2 videos a week with less rigid schedules.

[@MalamaLife]

I only wear flip-flops too! It's not fashionable, but so comfy and convenient 😁 I used to upload Tuesday and Friday, but now I switched to twice a week. I was stressing out too much about the upload schedule and it showed in my video quality. Maybe I will go back to a strict schedule in the future :) but yes, you should post twice if you have content or just once if you are busy. I'm sure it'll be a nice surprise for your subscribers

[@TheKrazyKoala]

@@MalamaLife oh I think it was very stressful too. But if you upload at different timing every week, do u feel the performance is negatively impacted by algorithm? Or u think it still helps to push further?

[@marshabrubaker185]

Excellent video.

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much Marsha! So happy to hear that

[@utsamaity2906]

Hi...new subscriber here❤. Love every video. More growth to you🌱

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much 😊 and welcome to the channel

[@blancagavinabrand1467]

I really love the shorts u wear. Please tell me where I can buy them. All the shorts in all your videos. They are all great

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you! My white one is from Everlane and Magali Pascal, Green is from Zulu & Zephner, Jean shorts are from everlane as well

[@tlais4883]

Nail polish & etc. fashion jewelry

[@UpasanaDevchoudhury]

I relate so much to this video :) As someone who is leaning towards minimalism and in the process of decluttering my home to start 2021 with a fresh new energy I found so many kitchen utilities that I bought impulsively thinking about making some fancy food which I never ended up making.I think that is a lesson I learnt to ask if it is necessary before buying and to create a space between our impulse and action.Thank you for sharing your experience here :)

[@MalamaLife]

I love that you said "create space." Just taking a moment or two to pause and think rationally about my decisions really help. Thanks for watching :)

[@jhunabon]

Me and my Wife really love your video. 💖

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching :) I really appreciate it!

[@jhunabon]

@@MalamaLife 💖💖

[@layjustin1113]

10 things , agree , ok !

[@ifdanieldid]

Damn! I ran out of popcorn 🍿 But I’ll watch regardless... Edit: I regret one purchase, and it’s my car. I bought it not because it was financially wise, but just because after years of struggle, I wanted to make a statement and ‘reward’ myself. Although I can afford it, I’ve come to find it totally unnecessary.

[@MalamaLife]

Haha I appreciate it even more then 😁

[@MalamaLife]

I admire you so much for the lifestyle that you lead. Pretty awesome that you find having a car unnecessary! 😊 I want to live in a place where I can just bike everywhere

[@BonBonHassan]

Wow I’m shocked you said kindle because I’ve been thinking of getting one to start reading again. I also love paperbacks but I was thinking I needed to cut down

[@MalamaLife]

I really wanted to like the kindle, but it just didn't work for me. I listen to my audio books 24/7 and also love turning the pages of a real book 😊 but for you, you might love it because of its simplicity ❤

[@DeandraStubbs]

I had a nook for a number of years and realize I didn't pick it up as much a I thought I would; I've always love the feeling of turning a page in a book. (Simple Joy) Also supplements honestly I'm not a fan of them I rather drink bush/herbal medication and always gravitate towards the moringa tree. 😊🌱

[@ifdanieldid]

Moringa has so many health benefits! My dad planted a moringa tree years ago in our backyard, and I hear it still thrives. We sprinkled the leaves in just about anything 😄

[@DeandraStubbs]

@@ifdanieldid I dried the leaves and sprinkled it in some homemade flat bread and bam.....call me Chef Deandra 😅😅 ok maybe not, but it was so good.

[@MalamaLife]

Yes! I love turning the page too 🥰 it is calming and makes me feel so accomplished. Thank you for watching Deandra

[@maylife209]

I regret to purchase my air fryer. It looked fancy and trendy appliance but it has the same result as my mini oven has. Your turquoise color earring looks so good on you. :)

[@MalamaLife]

I really wanted to get an air fryer as well! It was really trendy for a while and i saw ads for it everywhere, but luckily I had no space for it in my kitchen 😊 thank you so much May. I actually got these earrings in Korea! From an art district in Seoul 😁

[@teacherwah15]

Hello Sophie, could you recommend to me what kind of audiobooks is good to listen to?

[@gc9069]

I bought several plants and they all dried up . I have also bought a lot of electronic gadgets and some have never been opened. Since I started decluttering, I have found new homes for the gadgets and my home is looking spacious. Other bad purchases are containers both glass and plastic, perfumes and hair products that I hardly use.

[@MalamaLife]

It's such an amazing feeling to see the home become spacious again. It's a lot of work to declutter, sell and donate, but so worth it. I'm sure you made some money too 😁

[@gc9069]

I wanted to celebrate but I remembered I might end up buying something that I don't need 🤣🤣 so I kept the money in the bank . Your videos have helped me alot and am grateful 🙏.

[@MalamaLife]

Haha wise decision 😁 and thank you so much! That means so much to me

[@Sunshine-yk2eg]

1:46 😱 that thing is the reason why I'm scared of having plants indoors even tho i absolutely love em. Do you get lizards around the indoor plants too or just outdoors??

[@MalamaLife]

We have so many geckos in Hawaii. They are really friendly and harmless (beautiful colors too!) They like to hang out around my outdoor plants :)

[@mojyoqueen350]

High heels are the worst! I used to have two pairs, but whenever i wore them on any occasion, it was too painful. I get rid of them.

[@MalamaLife]

Yes! I feel amazing in them for 5 minutes, but definitely not practical

[@yoshitarao8388]

to 5 out of the 10 items u listed,i went "yeah me too.. :D

[@MalamaLife]

Haha glad you could relate. I could keep going with the list 😆 there are so many more

[@Starslikediamonds]

That's the prettiest version of jingle bells I've ever heard.

[@MalamaLife]

So pretty :) it is on Epidemic sound

[@daenerys1480]

I am a plant collector but I also have my list of them that I regret buying. Not because they’re not worth it, but because I did not research for plant care before purchasing them so I needed up wasting my money over a rotten plant. 😢

[@MalamaLife]

I am the same! I have bought so many orchids and flowers, but I didn't know how to take care of them. But lesson learned right? :)

[@SitiFatimah-ox4yi]

Sofi love your vidio And thank u kisses from Indonesia

[@MalamaLife]

Thank you so much for watching 😁❤

[@liquidusblue]

Buy cheap, you buy twice - Last couple of years definitely bought fewer but higher cost quality items.

[@MalamaLife]

Wise words ❤🥰 it has been true for me