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[@IzzyPR2010]

First story, no matter how you try to frame it that was sexual harassment. This lady didn't care if there were people around when she did it so there's also disrespect involved.

[@RenTheWren]

What's the deal with women touching colleagues? That's inappropriate as hell.

[@Spartan11117777]

Women crave attention so they'll try doing that to a Person they are comfortable around I guess. ✌️

[@emiliedyson5960]

It’s so bad that with a lot of these stories, they tell management that someone is being inappropriate and they’re met with “are you gay” Like seriously!? Their sexuality is irrelevant they just simply don’t appreciate being sexually harassed in their place of work, and they shouldn’t have to put up with it. As they said in the video it’s serious double standards. If a man did that to woman, they would lose that job immediately, but when it’s a woman doing it to a man they don’t even get told off.

[@larry01902]

When I was 30 (in early 2000s), I was head cashier in a store. I had to stay every night with the closing member of management. (I usually did the work; they supervised.) I was closing with a 22 year old assistant manager. She was bored and looking at the help wanted section of the local paper. She saw an ad for a dancer at a local 'gentleman's club. She called to ask about the job on speakerphone as I did the paperwork. She was setting up a time to do an audition dance. She asked how small of a bikini she would have to wear. The club manager told her it was a full nude club. She said she could bring in good money for them staying in a bikini. He told her it wasn't the right job for her and hung up. She asked me if I would pay to see her dance in a bikini. I refused to answer. (No I wouldn't, for anyone wondering.) The next day she filed a harassment claim against me for 'saying she was unattractive'.

[@mztweety1374]

Ladiea this is not the 1980s we don’t want them to do it to us..we shouldn’t do it to them

[@yoshihiroitabashi]

Have been groped, touch and other inappropriate sexual things said to me by women, It's kind of scary how the don't see how gross and disgusting those behaviors are.

[@CheetixGlitch]

As a women myself, I feel ashamed on behalf of the women in these stories

[@aelminiatures]

never be ashamed unless you did it. you should never feel guilty for other peoples actions

[@ArcanineEspeon]

@@aelminiatures I agree, we shouldn't feel that way, but logic doesn't really apply when it comes to involuntary secondhand embarrassment.

[@CheetixGlitch]

@aelminiatures Ik but idk why it happens but it just does. I feel ashamed for people

[@lydiapetra1211]

Guys.... please stand up and stop these crazy chicks.... don't let them ever touch you or call you inappropriately!!!!!

[@christinaharper7091]

Dear Men, I truly apologize for how some women have made you feel. I'm even more sorry most of you get overlooked when you speak on this issue. I see you. I am proud of you for standing your ground.

[@selliepaddie2066]

Damn you know this just reaffirmed my stance that creepy people who don't know boundaries are just a type of person and not a strictly "male" or "female" thing some people are just creepy and rude. And unnecessarily aggressive. Definitely sexual assault for a lot of these stories super not okay, and most of these women should be fired and possibly charged 👀 Pulling up someone's shirt? Jail Repeatedly pinching someone who's told you to stop till they bleed? Fired possibly a charge. Hard-core flirting and PHYSICALLY touching during work while they tell you to stop? Fired and jail.

[@ChimkinMcCluckie]

I wish I could like(thumb up) this comment multiple times. 👏

[@Neck41]

The whole bathroom story reminds me of one that was stated before. A work place decided to renovate the employees bathrooms and started with the males first. All the male employees had to go to a gas station down the street if they needed to use the bathroom. Yet when their bathroom got fixed they started on the women's bathroom. Yet the women were told to use the newly renovated mens bathroom until theirs were finished, and the guys had to continue to use the gas station. They didn't even get to use the bathroom when it was brand new. Talk about unfair. Also another story. A single father had his son's birthday coming up, and had requested the day off a couple of months in advance. Yet he was denied being able to get that day off. Note he was with this company for a few years now. Around the same time a single mother wanted a few days off around the same time he asked, because she planned a small trip with her child and she got approved for it. She had barely been with the company for two years. The father was mad at this. Yet he soon found out through the rumor mill that she got approved for the days off because the manager in charge of scheduling believed single mothers have it a lot worse than single fathers and believed she deserved that time off with her child. Sadly, he couldn't prove that and couldn't do anything.

[@EugeneGM1]

My female coworkers are always complaining about men who cheat and the number of times they are objectified in a day. No problem there. But when a male customer hits on me (I'm married to a woman and openly bi) they always go 'aw', or 'that's cute', or 'that's hot' or 'why didn't you get his number?' WHAT?! You were just complaining about cheating men and being objectified! Why is it suddenly okay if we both have dicks? I certainly wouldn't say that if it was you being hit on by another woman! No one should objectify you, and you shouldn't do it to me!

[@ArcanineEspeon]

wtf, they actually think that's cute?!

[@TheVillageIdiot829]

My older sister had an issue of hugging people in a bit of an intimate way....like slowly slipping her arms around your waist and resting her head on your shoulder. Most people who saw her do it to me knew it was just sibling affection because we looked like identical twins, but i had to explain it to this girl that it makes the other girls uncomfortable. Shes 2 years older than me but im the mature one.

[@TheVillageIdiot829]

Yes i understand its supposed to be from men, but my sister is gay so i figured it might work...

[@ArcanineEspeon]

@@TheVillageIdiot829 The way I see it, since you're observing it being done to other people it shouldn't matter what gender you are.

[@BladeStar-uq6xe]

I'm retired, I owned my own business, but I wouldn't work in any place with Female Employees because they can just say you looked at them wrong and totally ruin your life! And there are a LOT of them that do that.

[@ArcanineEspeon]

Oh boy, I'm not ready to unpack everything wrong with this. I guess I'll just cite 16:47 of this exact video. No workplace with female employees. So, a blanket ban on 50% of the population. Classy.

[@davidlium9338]

This should be mandatory viewing at all companies!!!

[@kcuddle]

it says this was posted 30 seconds ago lol....

[@UrFavoriteArsonist]

Good job, seems like you were truly first

[@johneddiecox741]

Never really had this issue with coworkers, but back in high school for some reason a lot of the females in my class felt that it was OK for them to come up and touch me without my permission. And then, when I would tell them not to people, including family, started circulating the rumor that I was gay. I’m not. Just because I don’t want to be touched, does not mean I have no interest in women, I just had no interest in those particular women. For the record, I do not like human contact. My fiancé is one of the only people allowed to touch me, and other than her, hands off. I’ve also had females stroking or grabbing my arms to “feel your muscles”. I have no problem yanking away, and I do not care if it hurts your feelings. And I know this isn’t cool, but I’m not above using my blindness as an excuse to slap somebody’s hand away when they touch me. Someone touched me and I didn’t wanna be touched, well, they just came up and grabbed a blind person who didn’t know what was going on and I reacted defensively. Not my fault I ended up slapping somebody. I don’t care if my hair looks fluffy, that does not give you the right to touch me, especially after I already told you know when you asked. Sorry, this is a long rant, but I need to get this out there. And I had other people do this to me besides at school. There was one old woman at my church who refused to listen to my do not touch me rule. It got to the point where I actually had to hold my cane up between us, and essentially push her away with it to keep her from putting her hands on me. And one more thing, you’re I’m just an affectionate person, or I just like to touch people excuse is not a good one. Just because you like touching people does not override the fact that I don’t like being touched. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF ME!!!!!

[@dutchvanderbilt9969]

I've had a few women touch my hair while commenting on how soft it apparently is.

[@bonnieparker9584]

As a woman who grew up with 5 brothers I find the behavior of these women totally unacceptable especially because these same women would be the first to scream sexual harassment. We should all play by the same rules period.

[@Magavynhigara]

Getting reported because you commented on "how do i look" with "nowhere near as good as my wife".

[@ThreenaddiesRexMegistus]

The strange disconnect between male and female office dress expectations - women can look like they’re going partying, a suit jacket and mini skirt is quite acceptable (business up top, look at me below) but a man can’t wear tidy jeans or start a beard. The Pence rule is a wise precaution for men as you are always presumed to be guilty in a me-too incident.

[@jerichogarry]

I had people touch the beginning of my first beard in high school but the person ran off before I could tell them off.

[@cyberherbalist]

One time a female coworker came up behind me at my desk as I was working. She didn't touch me, or anything, nor did she do or say anything flirtatious. She wasn't wearing perfume, but some kind of pheromone came with her and it immediately caused arousal in me before I even recognised who it was. I'm certain she didn't know what happened (I didn't react, for one thing). Nothing like this had ever happened before or since, with anyone. It was very weird.

[@amitamaru]

I'm going to HR on strike 2 on any of this.

[@jayeckson]

These are insane. As a woman I've been luckier than these poor guys. The worst I encountered regularly is back when I was in retail/fast food, middle aged or older male coworkers (and even customers) who needed to pass by in close quarters would do so while saying "excuse me" and putting their hands on my waist, lower back, and/or shoulders, as if to hold me steady or shift me out of the way. Like, you KNOW you don't need to feel me up just to get past me! Just because you act like touching me all over is somehow some polite gesture doesn't make it true. Younger men seemed to know not to do this. They always moved their arms in another direction and/or faced their body away from mine.

[@jonathanemptage1593]

I had to laugh a girl i knew came up to me saying she hates men: Me: Sorry... Her: Oh not you. Me: No? Her: No you're more of... a girley man. I didn’t know who to react to that should I have been offended or not either way she was nice girl though.

[@GrahamLavelle-hn3sz]

She doesn't sound very nice...

[@jonathanemptage1593]

@@GrahamLavelle-hn3sz she was it was just the married (I think ) man she wanted either broke it off with her or rejected her.

[@laurapomeroy7341]

my husbands beard is mine to touch, i don't like anyone touching it.

[@pinktastic6159]

Honey, precious, etc are used by male and female for everyone in the south. So if a southerner uses it, that is the same as bro, girl, dude, friend, or any other general term for person you can come up with.

[@JKGirl90s]

this video gives me a strong secondhand embarrassment. Can't we all agree to keep our hands to ourselves?

[@emiliedyson5960]

17:01 Wtf was happening with the accents in this video? 😂

[@SirberusKhaos]

wit, thought we wanted not quiet sexual harassment. that firs one id Totally textbook sexual harassment or assault...

[@littleBugC]

If someone is in a fursuit don't call them there real name.

[@spectraldragon09]

I've never actually thought about this but it makes sense.

[@RedrumZombies]

[@JenniferLeeTacy]

It's so insane to me how women will openly sexually harrass a guy and think it's okay, but if we as women were sexually harrassed there would be all kinds of issues. Respect goes both ways people!

[@buddymacbuddington]

When women wink at you and you dont know if they are being freindly or flirty

[@JeremyBaconThe1st]

Bonus story

[@vineheart01]

I think most of this comes from the notion that "men just want sex" mentality. For the most part, men like these things. It's getting more and more common that they don't like it though and the stigma about it works against them. I'll admit, I'm one of them that does like it. That's just me though, you don't like it that's fine too.

[@EarthyOSC]

Made it

[@SergioBocanegra]

First story: you'll be surprised by the fact that people want something unexpected to break the monogamy of their routines. don't be surprised that the weirdest thing get the most clicks.

[@ArcanineEspeon]

Oof, I don't think monogamy means what you think it means.

[@psprinny5348]

I think the word they are looking for is 'monotony'@@ArcanineEspeon

[@richardlanier2113]

I am a man who has had long hair for a long time. I have had multiple women over the years just start touching it. I know if i touched their hair without permission it would be bad.

[@dwuygsuadghiaj5778]

If anyone wants to send me anything lmk 😏

[@pinktastic6159]

If it helps y'all much, I dislike most women myself, because I usually find them insipid but everyone in these stories are apparently working with garbage humans.

[@nleem3361]

I'm shocked and sad to hear these. I'm a woman and an engineer, so I mostly work with men. I couldn't imagine any of this happening in any office I've worked in. I want to be known for the quality of my work and so do the men. Yes, some of them are very attractive and I think several have been attracted to me, but I've never wanted to ask or risk it messing up the office vibe. But, a lot of these stories don't have anything to do with attraction, but are straight up people doing crap because they can. It's really disappointing after all the steps forward we've made. I also think we should go with gender neutral pronouns in the office because our gender has nothing to do with our work.

[@liwiathan]

No my nip

[@thatanimeguy8461]

early

[@WrestlingFan574]

I feel like I have to call cap on some of these. Some are just too extreme to believe

[@schizophrenicmelancholy2706]

Oh please. These things barely touch the surface of other outliers I have heard. Honestly, most of what is on here are common and a lot of the worst ones, which usually ends with them getting away with it, being told to suck it up, or being framed and fired, are barely on here. PS: It’s mindsets like that that lets people of any gender get away with it.

[@iamsonny11]

1st

[@wariothief]

Aint no one cares