Type B Mom. Being Productive When I Don't Want To Be. Homemaking Motivation Playing Catch Up!

[@jl1726]

Kim - I have been watching your channel for a few years now. You have NEVER missed uploading a video - through COVID, childbirth, postpartum, and hurricanes… you NEVER take a break from Utube, and you have 5 children, cook for your family, clean, etc… most of us just watch in awe. When you read this you will be away from how you felt for a few days… you are definitely a human being too - and maybe you are still processing what you have just come through with Milton - but you do deserve personal me time too as the foundation of your children’s lives. Hope today is going better!

[@Blue_side_gtvr]

^^^^^^^^ 1,000,000%

[@amysingh9848]

@@jl1726 don’t give her any ideas! I don’t want her to take a break I love her videos it’s like my favorite tv show lol

[@jojoply]

Kim is my bestie. She is awesome…we’ve never met but I feel that way.

[@joseluiscastillo6170]

Just think in a few short years your children will be grown and then you get to enjoy those grandbabies, I have 7 and love them so much.

[@Momoftwo2017]

The only time she missed uploads was when she took a several week break after her sister passed away. Rightfully so. She deserved to step back and grieve. But I was so worried then! Like I knew something had to be really wrong for her to go completely MIA. She definitely is the most consistent KZbinr with her upload schedule and I look forward to it every week.

[@sannemller7785]

One of the reasons I keep watching your videos is the fact that you keep it real! Thanks for sharing real life and not just the pretty stuff. Every mom/woman feels overwhelmed at times. We are right there with you ❤

[@MagdavanWyk-so6ee]

I’ve never related to you so much in the last almost 6 years i’ve been watching as like in this video. Life is overwhelming sometimes and always comparing yourself to others while they actually do the same with you You’re strong and kind and loving and you’re the woman across the room for most of us. I admire you so much. Sending lots of love 🌸

[@angelgirl7832]

Kim you are such a delight. I am 73 and I would love to be your bff. You are the mother most of wish we had been. You are like the energizer bunny. Your family is so lucky to have the woman across the room as their mom.

[@corinnejones7208]

I can totally relate to your mood in this video. We all have those days. Thanks for keeping it real. ❤

[@autumnbradfish4106]

yes! thank you for keeping it real!

[@dianen8962]

God Bless you Kim. Never doubt yourself. You are a GREAT MUM. Normal Mum's have messes too. Love watching your videos

[@HisClover1100]

I dont think these online families, who seem to take trips and have everything together, show the "real" side of life. But homes do get messy (especially with kids), and we get overwhelmed as mothers. We are normal! Don't be hard on yourself because I think most of us here can say that we look up to you! You're an amazing mom ❤

[@karenbomar5074]

Yes to this!

[@shelbykilgore1994]

Thank you for being so real and honest! Watching you share your struggles makes me feel like I’m not alone ❤ You’re truly an inspiration!

[@terrieaves1682]

Kim, you have every reason to be overwhelmed. You just went through a hurricane and then no power and then planned the most amazing birthday bash for Wolfgang. Now, you're planning the next birthday bash for Meredith. You're planning to entertain guests. Not to mention, being an amazing Mom who is so present for her kids and makes sure they have healthy meals, clean clothes, a clean and organized home. As well as, making sure they are on time for all the things that are going on in each of their lives. You do grocery shopping and all the extras shopping and when the kids have friends over, you make amazing breakfasts and cool snacks and "BrownieFriday". Plus, the amazing videos that you share with us each week. OH MY GOODNESS! Girl, you are KILLIN IT!🎉 BRAVO! 👏

[@lisa-marie236]

Kim, this is why we love you so much. You are a truthful person, showing us how it is rather than making us feel awful for not being able to be perfect. I'm grateful for you 💛

[@MrsAlmaTrumble]

Don’t stop doing the right thing no matter what the people say. Remember that every great woman/ man has a good story to tell.

[@marigoldsky3799]

I follow a bunch of you tube mom channels because I work from home. As a mom of 3 sons and grandma to 5, Kim’s channel is so realistic. She shows us the messes which are very relatable! I get so tired of these other channels who are cleaning their houses that are already clean. You know they have cleaning people, which is fine, but never mention that part. Keep doing your thing Kim! You’re in the thick of being a mom, keep plowing through!! We appreciate you showing us what a normal house with kids is like!! ☀️☀️☀️

[@brookehardin8933]

Oh Kim, I wish I could come through the screen and help you out! I know all too well how hard feeling this overwhelmed is! You’re doing a great job Momma!

[@KelsieElizabeth]

Thank you for showing the real life! Most moms aren't showing the real stuff, that's why I think you are the most relatable youtube mom I watch! YOU are the woman across the room from all of us! You are so appreciated kim! Thank you for being a friend!😊

[@cindygallagher5367]

Hi Kim, no judgement zone. I give you major props for doing what you do in your situation. And yes hurricane stress is a real thing. Before during and after. If you haven't been thru one, you don't know. Thanks for being my friend. Wish I could come over and give you a hand. My kids are grown and on their own. I do what I can do in my house and I feel that is enough for me. Just remember to take little breaks during the day.

[@justPaper-n-ink]

Thanks for being real!!! You seriously need to check into getting an automatic floor cleaner. I have an eufy and absolutely love it!! Game changer!!

[@amandar3994]

I feel you!! Thank you for being so real and yet you also are way productive.

[@LorraineIvers]

Kim you are an amazing fun mother. Your husband and children are super lucky to have you. You are the best😊

[@machellebrown6458]

You are showing reality! Your kids are very lucky for you encouraging creativity. One thing i had to teach my kids was independence. There is no reason they can't pitch in and clean up after themselves. I also had them cleaning the bathroom, bedroom, dishes,and help with laundry. I'm sure we may not see it all, but encourage them to be responsible for family routines. Love watching your videos!😊

[@paulacnote]

Kim the reason we watch is because most of us are just amazed at all you manage to do😍

[@mastiffmom2592]

Facts! ❤️💯

[@desteni1992]

I'm a single mom with a 10 year old, 9 year old and 4 year old. When you were saying how beautiful life is and just nature and things around us, it was what I needed to hear today. I'm so used to getting stuck in our routine but I live in Ohio and the trees are so vibrant now with oranges, reds and yellows and my life and our world really is so beautiful. Thank you for that tangent you said you went on, I needed to hear it 😊

[@ruthblair3136]

Kim, you are doing awesome!! Everyone has a mess somewhere. You've got several children, you have a business, you host a lot of people often!! You are doing awesome!!

[@ericaclark7250]

When I used to get overwhelmed after hurricanes or parties I would just put on some music. I also would always start in the kitchen and work out from there. As for dinner every night, once I got the meat out to thraw, I would just think about it throughout the day and decide then what to make with it. Like you protien, carb and veggies . Just do what you can and go on from there.

[@chereeburtner4659]

Kim you are mom of mom's. Always doing the best for your family. With 5 kids and doing parties and all the things, you are overwhelmed. I found out with my life, to only allow the party in certain rooms. Having the whole house is too much to clean up after you did all the prep too. Limit spaces for the kids is my advice for an easier clean up.

[@lindamcdermott9980]

Kim, YOU are the woman across the room for me. I am 77, raised 4 as a single working mom. I was busy, managed to get everything done and dinner on the table every night. I’m empty nested now, and never miss any of your videos. There is a little clown in me, when I grow up, I want to be a stand up comic and tell stories about life with my kids. You are the best!

[@SmotherLady]

Kim, your comments about social media and feeling down is why I had to leave social media. It’s easy to see all the things other moms are doing and think “What am I doing wrong?!” So I just stopped looking and now I do what I can when I can. I can’t be the world’s best cook, cleaner, teacher, wife, friend, etc all at the same time. Something always has to give. So I’m the best I can be at each of those things in the moment. ❤ Thank you for your encouragement and snippets of real life!

[@christinaruiz4183]

Very well said! We all only have 100% to give. We decide what's important and how to divide the 100%. It's all we can do ❤

[@tabithaschwarzenbach6124]

Oh my sweet friend, I am a grandmother of four and still have my 23 yr old in college living with us....We have days of quiet and rest but we miss the days of chaos...when I was in the thick of rising my kids chores, carpool, dance, football,racing, etc. I was a hot mess sometimes but doing what I needed to do to rise my kids! You're amazing and make me laugh! Thank you for being a friend ❤️

[@cathleenweaver6483]

When I start to compare myself to others on social media I think of what Jessica Braun said...watching a YT video of someone's life is only 30/90 minutes out of a whole week. So I looked up how many minutes in a week...it's 10,080 minutes. Wow does that ever put the videos into perspective. Your videos are among the few I watch that shows real life moments, even though you could edit them to look perfect. PLUS you just went through a major hurricane and had a huge party. Wow I'm tired just writing that. Always stay as you are. It's so refreshing 💜💙💚💛🧡

[@heatherjohnson6506]

I needed this today. I woke up with a migraine and just had no will to do the same cleaning I do day after day and hit that wall. I rested (sat for 20 minutes and chugged water) and watched this video and got the encouragement to get my butt up and get stuff done. Thank you for being so real with your feelings. You are the lady across the room 😊.

[@ChainsawsTuF]

Thank you for keeping it real with us, you are my woman across the room. You do so much for your family. Sending hugs from one tired momma to another. X

[@annjohnson543]

YOU'RE doing amazing things, Kim. Never forget that!!! Raising lovely, kind, open and creative children is HUGE. Never say you aren't doing something amazing.

[@kalynnbailey4505]

I would like to take a moment to THANK YOU for this video because I am currently 35 weeks pregnant, having a bunch of Braxton Hicks, feeling like crap and not doing anything around my house. Yes my husband helps but I just feel like a bump on the log! With all that being said I have been staring at this laundry basket full of clean clothes for days and YOU woman across the room have helped me get it at least folded lol. You are amazing! Thank you so much!

[@luccianaborn6629]

Earliest I’ve made it to a video🎉 Kim you may not see this but I hope you know you are sunshine in human form and you encourage so many of us moms just trying to make it through our daily responsibilities. I hope you feel as loved as we do ❤

[@traceykillam1658]

Good morning, Kim. I hope you have a great day. Thank you very much for being our amazing friend. ❤❤

[@lisashiflett862]

Good morning! Thank you for sharing your talk about “real life” issues. I struggle everyday with exactly what you are talking about. My husband and I are raising three grandchildren, ages 4, 13 and 20 ( in college). We both work full time. I cannot find enough time to get everything done and when I do things, I am just getting by. There just isn’t enough time in the day! We love every minute of our grandchildren and they keep us feeling young, but I always wish I could do more. The struggle is real, but we have to stick together, and we can get through it. 😊

[@kh1386]

I feel like I just heard a therapy session and I get it. You are so hard on yourself but you just needed to vent which is a very healthy thing to do. If you don't vent you will bottle it up and be resentful towards your family and that will build up so much over the years. Now take a few minutes and remember all the wonderful things you did over that past week...... 💗

[@TanyaRisner]

This is why I love watching you. I feel like you on a daily basis. It helps knowing I am not alone. Thank you and I appreciate you.

[@ericboyer6464]

Kim, first of all I absolutely love you girl!! You are being a mom and a wife, first and foremost, which is our highest calling! My heart literally goes out for you because I can sense the overwhelm and stress your feeling. Praying praying that the heavenly father will wrap his arms around you and give you peace💙 just keep praising Him💙💙 in social influences are fake! They just are. Just like reality TV is far from reality. You do you and know that you are doing an amazing job! I can't believe you just went through a hurricane and are already doing normal life again. Give yourself lots of Grace and rest and rest

[@amandadavispomeroy]

So much love & gentle hugs to you, Kim. Take good care of yourself.

[@amysingh9848]

It’s so funny I’m a type A mum I’m a single mum with 100 % care to 3 additional needs kids ! So I have 0 breaks , 0 time off , 0 help So I’m alll about getting everything done, my house is always clean and I’m highly strung.. But I love you Kim you are definitely the woman across the room from me: As a mother with autism and also with 3 autistic kids socializing isn’t our thing! I’ve been a mum 15 years and never had a birthday party I couldn’t think of anything worse! But I watch yours and I feel guilty that my kids haven’t had one. We don’t go on holidays because my kids wouldn’t cope with the change ect.. So you look at other mums and wonder if you should be doing things they do, I look at you and wonder the same thing.. Your doing your best, so what if ur house is often messy your doing your best and you should be proud

[@cleopatrablackwell3414]

I would pay you for tips on how you handle three and keep the house clean. Like honestly I'm a mom but a more advanced mom's wisdom would be lovely to hear.

[@amysingh9848]

@@cleopatrablackwell3414 that is such a lovely compliment thank you ❤️ I’m happy to help. Handling the kids it runs like a check list in my head that’s part of my autism i think. So we start our day early 6:30-7 am And at night the kids are always in bed by 7:30 They don’t have to sleep but they have to stay on their rooms. They can watch iPads, read books, play ect.. then they are in bed by 9 In that time they aren’t to get up unless it’s to use the bathroom or an emergency ect.. I make sure I spend 20-30 minutes every day with each child undivided attention. We don’t do the same thing it can be anything - going to the shops with 1 child to collect dinner and chat in the car. - watch a tv episode and cuddle on the couch - read books, - play a game ect.. - do hair and make up Anything just something so they all feel they got their attention mum bucket full. The early bedtime and being strict about it gives me time to breathe and reset for the next day. Cleaning the house is a routine focus on 3 things. - rubbish - twice a day I go around with a garbage bag and collect all the rubbish and take it out. Dishes - twice a day I walk around the house collect all dishes and run the dishwasher twice a day Washing - collect all the washing and do 2 loads a day Then eveyday I fit in 1 daily task. - bathrooms - washing bedding - floors - dusting - decluttering Ect.. The only “ chore” the kids do is called “Put it back” I tell them it’s time and they run around the house like a game and put away anything that doesn’t belong. Toys, shoes, bags, whatever because it’s a shared task it’s over quick! Food wise we do the same thing everyday - 1 easy meal the kids will often want to do themselves like cereal, toast, mac and cheese ect.. or I help if they are little. - 1 meal is a proper home cooked meal by me and I get 1 child to help - 1 meal is convenient doesn’t mean unhealthy always but something i pick up. This way I don’t hate cooking as I don’t have to spend all day in the kitchen. Oh and we all shower or bath twice a day. I’ve been doing it since babies so they are so used to it now they just do it easy I hope this helps

[@dbabonoyaba5]

Love waking up to your videos! Keep them coming ! “Thank you for being a friend” 🎶💕

[@rosemantonucci-hy7vu]

Don’t explain yourself.Give yourself a little Grace ❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@cottagefulloflove4090]

I love hearing your life-thoughts! Cause I have them too! It's so nice to hear other people think these things! Thanks friend!

[@bbxdorkx725]

i went to school for psych and human behavior and it’s true that people on social media tend to only share the good of their lives and so when people are curating their page it may seem like only the good and cool is their life but it’s not so it creates expectations for people that aren’t always accurate. YOU DO GOOD LIKE THIS you share all parts 🧡

[@heatherrios6125]

You're going to miss this 😂. Fo real though. I do miss those days. It's quiet around here now. You're doing a great job!

[@suzihill78]

Being a full time mum and raising children induces more stress in a female than working outside the home. You’re smashing it. Never compare yourself to anyone else. Xx

[@krysten3308]

Thank you for being you Kim. I treasure every video you post every little thing you do. You’re amazing and phenomenal. ❤

[@lisarachal8696]

I am a new subscriber and I absolutely love your content and your vibes! The part in this video while you were in your laundry room folding clothes was SO spot on and boy did I get it and needed to hear that! You are so amazing and your content is so inspiring and refreshing. Keep doing what you’re doing mama! Glad I found your channel! ❤

[@Blue_side_gtvr]

You're going to LOOOOOOOOOOOVE this channel and Kim & fam. Welcome! :)

[@Sheli-_-]

Welcome to the party you are going to love it here!

[@mastiffmom2592]

Kim, I think you do GREAT!!! You don’t need a “morning routine” because you get things done, anyway. Your kids help around the house, when you need them to. Don’t worry so much about the naysayers on the internet. Every time I watch your videos, which is ALWAYS, you run circles around what I do! Give yourself credit, you are a super Mom and you take such good care of your house. I’ve made your pumpkin pasta and your enchiladas. I can’t do what you do around your house but I LOVE your cooking! ❤️💯

[@carmenduran3343]

THANK YOU for being so real that’s why i love watching your videos. 😊😊

[@traceyrommel1847]

Kim, I watch a lot of channels and you don’t give yourself enough credit. You are an amazing mom. Your kids and husband are always in your thoughts. You make every holiday, birthday and everyday life the most important thing. Don’t let anyone tell you are doing it wrong. I wish I did half the things you are doing for your kids that I did for mine. Your amazing!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@lindabader3857]

I always think others do it better when I see them do their’s on TikTok, instagram & KZbin too. I’m so ocd about 15-30 mins early. Thanks for being so real.

[@autumnbradfish4106]

Just wanting to send you love Kim! You are doing an AMAZING job taking care of your home, and raising 5 amazing children! Who cares if your room is a mess! If anything, it makes me feel normal and like I am not alone. Type B moms for the win!

[@deborahodonnell5420]

You are a strong woman and even the strong have days where they feel weak. ❤. Some days are just overwhelming and I think you did amazing navigating through it. Thank you for including this in your vlog and showing how real it is. It makes us all feel more normal. ❤

[@lcrouse7058]

I having flashbacks to those early years of motherhood and feeling overwhelmed. You can’t do it all alone. Make your kids help you. They helped make the mess.

[@sandraatkinson5108]

You are a Rockstar 👍 Keep being YOU

[@reachinglisa]

Kim I relate to the beginning of this video SO MUCH! I spend/spent my entire child rearing years in a perpetual state of overwhelm. I used to be a people pleasing perfectionist while always keeping things “just in case” and it left me in a perfect storm trying to be everything media said I should be as a mom. I didn’t have examples in my life and it seemed so easy for everyone around me. I always felt like a failure and I too heard about people hiring cleaners but I always felt like it’s a simple enough task, same as cooking that I griped about, but I wanted to protect our bank account more than give myself that reprieve. I still feel the same way about hiring cleaning and outsourcing meals but I have been working on the mindset shift from all that overwhelms me with YOU as one of my examples. I love that you were able to gain some momentum in your video. Some days I still feel like all directions lead me to hitting walls and then I’m more like a rat in a cage than a wrecking ball. I wish I could have learned all I know now while my kids were dealing with my overwhelm but I try to remember that when you know better you do better and you give me hope that it’s all ok to give myself some grace. Just DO it. 😉

[@donna8212]

Great video Kim! Have yourself a good day today. 🕊️😉

[@mrsfriedandmike]

You are doing your best! Which is perfect! It’s also normal to sometimes be overwhelmed. You just talk about this normal. Thank you! I am not in this season, I do remember it well and miss it so very much. ❤

[@junesammy-robidoux2305]

Thank you Kim for being real. That's what normal Mom's need to know that we are all a little bit of a mess and none of us have it all together and that's perfectly ok. So please ease up on yourself we are all just happy that you show up.

[@deewillson2757]

Good morning party people!! I need this so much! Im still trying to catch up and finish watching Wolfgang’s birthday video! Happy birthday sweet boy!! 🎉

[@acornsandlillies8788]

Kim.... this video came out at the very right time. Nursing my 3 week old baby and watching as you swim to shore after almost drowning with wave after wave , feels so like me right now. I haven't actually cleaned my house in 4 weeks. I just need to start 1 room at a time today. I'm so tired of seeing everything messy and dirty.

[@Bibibibi12334]

Hi my friend Kim❤ I'm a adhd momma and I can relate to your struggles Love from Germany

[@mishtn]

I live in WA state, by the time I watch your video, there's already tons of comments! I agree with everyone...you show your REAL life. I got tired of watching all the "perfect" moms. I have chronic pain so I don't have a very active life. I look forward to all your videos!!

[@isabelwall1714]

Housekeeping for a 75-year-old woman and she is the women across the room. She does not have chaos clutter and she is very put together and charming. I hope to be like her when I grow up. 😂❤

[@AnnMole]

Kim, you are just so real in your vlogs. I am one of five siblings and where we lived was way smaller than your house so let us just say that your mess is more spread out. How you tackle it though is just unreal as your batteries just keep going and going until you get those jobs done. Pat yourself on the back. Your life revolves around your family and is carried out with so much love for them. Not everyone can say that. i love your attitude to life.

[@hello_danielle]

Truthfully a lot of these online families and couples have help. Whether paid or family they have hands helping them clean, cook, errands, assistants, video editing , etc.

[@jessicaday6308]

You are doing such a great job and are so normal! The years my house was the cleanest, I was the meanest! lol. And craziest. Now that I am older, I have calmed down and care a little less. I am nicer and less crazy, but my house isn't perfect anymore. And YES, I also hired help now. Once every two weeks a young mom comes over and I pay her to do all the deep cleaning, bathrooms, sweep, vacuum, change sheets, etc. I say keep doing what you are doing being a nice mom who teaches her kids how to clean but lets them be kids. Also, you have a lot of kids and a big house. You have a lot more work than most people. AND you have had little kids for a long time. It will get easier!

[@lareelongtin5129]

Hi Kim! Hey, just wanted to let you know that you are an amazing person! 💯 🤩 Round of applause for you! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 And for all of us just trying our very best!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I've learned a lot from watching your videos, so thanks! You are the woman across the room!🫵🏻😀🙌🏻 Happy Thursday, almost Friday!😊🪷🦢🩷🤍🧡

[@marroosh]

Gouda is THE best cheese together with sharp white cheddar hahah😂 By the way Gouda is pronounced as Gaw-dah but the G is the Dutch throat scraping GGGGGGGG good luck with that😂 I also HATE being late! It’s my Dutch DNA that doesn’t allow me to be late and living in a part of the world where people are more flexible with timings I have held on to my punctuality for dear life. I agree with you that being late is disrespectful.

[@amymurray2273]

I can relate and I can't but that's why we are friends love you for all you do and all your wisdom Ms Kim 💓

[@karenbomar5074]

Love how your charcuterie board turned out! A year ago I didn't know what a charcuterie board was! Great job!

[@kellyspencer6433]

If I lived closer I’d be there helping! Just having someone that shows up gives us the strength we need. I’m sorry no one is “showing up” to help you.

[@karolhenderson8888]

Let your kids be your guide They seem healthy and happy about life ! You and Alex are doing great and I love your channel !

[@patriciagussey6438]

Clean enough to be healthy dirty enough to be happy ,my moto Kim your doing great, your a fantastic mother , that's more important. You don't know how I wished I had just half of your energy . Love you and you are the woman across the room never forget that. I CLEANED HOUSES FOR 35 YEARS I Cleaned 2 to 3 a day .

[@minnamae25]

My mother was a cleaning, neat freak. Our house was NEVER in shambles. Now me, total opposite, hahahhaa, my house is ALWAYS in shambles. I just don't have the energy to stay on top of everything. We homestead, homeschool, I am in the kitchen a majority of the day because all i do it cook, bake, process food and so on and so forth. Yeah, cleaning happens about once a week. Ugh 😂😂😂

[@franceskloos1297]

Kim, you have the best personally and so much fun to watch, I enjoy your videos so much, I never miss a post you keep it real, I used to have a cleaning lady but I don’t anymore, I feel this way I love my home so much nobody cares the way I do about my home so I rather do it myself and feel so good when it is done. You inspire me with every post, you are the best❤️❤️

[@mellissaswartley4004]

Kim you are my inspiration!!! I know I say it all the time but I have 4 kids and sports and dance and I also take my kids and pick them up from school!! I feel you!! WHY do we have to plan all the dinners it takes so much mental energy for me and I tell myself if Kim can do it so can I!!! Thank you for sharing everything you do makes me feel normal too!!

[@carriesessum2505]

I feel this way at least twice a week 🫠 same tasks everyday over and over always being the one to make sure everyone else remembers what they need to do plus my stuff . Keeping on top of it all . I do not like being late either it stresses me out !!

[@kellymcintyre3209]

“My counters are stickyyyyy!” 😂 The cherry on top of the meltdown.

[@mudandglitter1609]

Kim, whatever you were doing at 18:30 looks like self soothing in the middle of overwhelm. I saw so much of myself in that one acrion and wanted you to know what I need to hear in those moments. Which is, you are doing amazing. No one person can ever do it all even when we think we should be able to. It's ok to cry, or take a walk, or whatever makes you feel better. I do worry that if you ignore how you feel and just 'push through,' you will become burnt out (although, I'd argue that you may already be). I sincerely hope you will remember how important you are, as a person all unto yourself, just as Kim. You are more than what you do for others. My heart is with you ❤ ETA: Please know that just because you chose something doesn’t mean that you can never be dissatisfied with some of the unknowns that inevitably come with getting what you asked for. Nothing is perfect, and it's ok to find out that you aren't always happy even when you have everything you ever wanted.

[@TheSleepyhead4000]

I just want to give you a hug Everything will be fine, you got this ❤

[@TheRustyTrike]

Pink bubble theme for the party? Glinda flies around in a pink bubble. ❤️

[@janicereed6427]

Kim I love your home and I think you have it decorated beautifully. Don’t let people talk about you and get you down your doing a fantastic job with everything. I really don’t know how in the world you can keep a home that big cleaned constantly and doing it all by yourself (wow). The floors alone would exhaust me lol. Great Video as always.

[@RexineGrant-ob9kn]

I admire you so much Kim. You have a very lucky family. Please take care of yourself. ❤

[@judymitchell27]

I think you’re awesome. If your family is well, happy, and progressing, you’re doing enough😀

[@lgibson0515]

Love the quote!! Hope you enjoyed the football game and snacks!! Dinner looks delicious! Tyfs!! If had children, would definitely be type B😊😅 Have a great weekend!!❤🎉😊

[@marcynoble6565]

Thank you for a real life video!! ❤ My life gets like this as well. I do the most inefficient task- clean my floors and somehow that gets me motivated to do more 😂🤷‍♀️

[@lizzyreece8540]

Don’t compare yourself to others ❣️ You are wonderful just as you are ❣️ your board was lovely❣️

[@jetta1165]

This was me yesterday! I was in this exact mood. I feel better knowing I’m not the only one. 😊 I contemplated putting in my two weeks notice 😂😂

[@jmags3812]

I totally get the overwhelm I am right there with you and I am trying to be minimalish and intentional. Would definitely say you are carrying on too much as we do, as I have gotten older I have seen myself just exhausted and taking a health toll on me. I am just trying to clear my plate as much as I can while also tending to the things that I have to tend to.

[@kaitlyncooper2743]

Thanks for being a friend Kim ❤

[@dbartz5510]

Hello! I am in total agreement with your "being late", rules. It is extremely selfish and rude. My kids were always early. They used to tease me about it; they are adults now and realize how disrespectful it is for others to show up late. I am type A, and a highly sensitive person. I have been there with burn out. It's hard for me to watch you struggle. I wish I could come and help you. Sending prayers and loving support. I really think too much is on your plate and you need a break. Social media scrolling is not your friend. You said it yourself, comparison is the thief of joy. Hang in there and ask for help from your entire family. They need you to stay healthy. Take care of my friend Kim!❤

[@jewelsjewels8475]

If someone tells me that I’m going to miss this someday ever again, I’m going to drop kick them!😂Your doing great, stay cool and fun because life is such a journey otherwise…

[@tabithaschwarzenbach6124]

That's how I felt when people told me that too! Soo funny!

[@marthagailstahl6400]

You go girl clean that house. Looks great. Feel better mentally. I am 69 years old and survived a lot of things. On to the next thing...love you all

[@ashrush6830]

I've live in a small house right now, first time homeowner and I find it is so much easier to keep a small house clean then it is bigger houses. I've rented huge houses before and my house was ALWAYS a mess haha. I know it's not feesible to move your family to a small house lmao, but I'm just sharing my experience. It takes me about 2 hours to clean, declutter, and deep clean my whole house now and I'm so happy about it haha

[@jojokukahiko]

Hi!! Kim I had to take a minute to tell you, you inspire me so much!! In the kitchen when you took a minute to take a breath and start cleaning your beautiful home that hit me to the core because I do that!!! Your an amazing over all woman!! Your always putting happy in my day for the past 5 or 6 years!! You'll always be the dancing melon woman!! 😂😂😂

[@amyhatcher1981]

You make my day! I would love to come and help you out! Don't doubt yourself because you're a fantastic mother and wife! Thanks a bunch for the videos!

[@LauraBlack-o3i]

I feel like hiring a cleaning lady is similar to lawn services..

[@beezaz]

I just signed up using your link for IXL and I was so excited to see the format. 🎉❤

[@KatyRichardson-ly5dm]

Listen, you and your family have been through a crazy few weeks; make sure you give yourself grace about what you think your house looks like! Honestly, my house looks like that and I didn't just go through three hurricanes and a birthday party!😵‍💫