Man Claims Fiancée Has Punched, Kicked, And Bitten Him - But He ‘Loves Her To Death’

A man says his fiancée means the world to him - even though he claims she physically attacks him, calls him names and is filled with anger.
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Hi

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Hiiiiii dude 🔔

[@minmin4842]

You're a very bad doctor Coming from a female

[@aneetaaaaa_]

Hi

[@1gnebz]

Self defense is self defense, no matter the gender.

[@imsimplycoldlikethat109]

Ong

[@ariannaspicer8290]

Idk why people can't see that it's true

[@chileredwards7406]

Facts if a woman holding a knife to my neck Ima use self defense

[@ericmcclellan4660]

This is a very true statement.....Self Defense is Self Defense

[@netanelkatoa3806]

Lol See you in jail

[@hxlyriip1028]

as a woman, he was literally defending himself so i vouch for him. he shouldnt sit around while she practically abuses him.

[@hetbet3879]

That's life unfortunately.. It's now legal for men to be beaten by women in the 21st century. I can confirm I've been beaten multiple times by women, but if I fight back or hit back, then everybody targets me.

[@lovepeace3601]

Yeah,when he said he hit her back I didn’t feel bad at all

[@KnightSavron]

@emmett carney B.S

[@natnaelamare2018]

Same story by Johnny Depp

[@maiaroze6687]

If I see a man getting beat that bad where he is covered in bruises I will fight her I will take that on and curbstomp her for all the men who can’t cause these girls who lie make us all look bad

[@Elizabeth11.11]

Why is no one talking about “I don’t think she’d kill me cause she’s a vegan, and vegans don’t like to kill things” 😂😭😭

[@Bleezedopeee._.]

Deaddddd 💀😂😂😂😂

[@nicolem9839]

Dead🤣🤣🤣

[@adriannasebastian1994]

Ikr 😆

[@hannahwalker2825]

He’s got a point

[@ophiuchus5540]

As soon as he said that i FLEW to the comments

[@carleegaytan5846]

I feel so bad for this guy

[@salmanalabdulhadi7084]

You’re country is a joke

[@pianicata4]

@@salmanalabdulhadi7084 and your spelling is a joke

[@goebor2422]

She told him to go 6 feet under like your grampa and other nasty things at him gramps funeral

[@Bengiamino]

@@salmanalabdulhadi7084 your country is a joke

[@midnxghtxx6390]

@Elijah no "YOU"

[@bloodofwinter8451]

The way she said "you better tell the truth" right after the video played. That should be a sign already that she is abusive.

[@theodoram6804]

This.

[@williamflatner3454]

I meant that in my comment as well . I knew right off .

[@kawaiisrs07]

not really though...

[@saxongreen78]

My response to anyone who says 'you'd better...' : 'OR WHAT? HUH?' 😈

[@bloodofwinter8451]

@@kawaiisrs07 yes really though.

[@dtvl9468]

equal rights equal fights.

[@cassidymendes5015]

This comment deserves more likes

[@Ladybugg4099]

Dangggg

[@jumanjipineapples630]

As a girl, I don’t think anyone should hit anyone, but no matter what if someone hits you and you need to hit back, do it regardless of gender

[@tadradley4476]

@Meadow Zoe Of course we have equal rights. What rights do men have that women don't?

[@jeffyjeff6916]

💀 🤯😂tbh

[@CP-vi9uk]

“She won’t kill me she’s vegan”

[@ronniejoemozingo1501]

The vegan teacher tho she'll mortal kombat you

[@midnxghtxx6390]

@@ronniejoemozingo1501 yea in song form

[@sparklyloveyou20]

@@ronniejoemozingo1501 EaT yOuR vEgEtAbLeSSSSSSS

[@mirazzzz]

@@sparklyloveyou20 “eAtiNg AniMaLs iS wRoNg McDoNaLdS🤡”

[@sparklyloveyou20]

@@mirazzzz hUrTiNg AnImAlS iS wRoNg McDoNaLdS 🤡

[@elizabeththornton8982]

He’s not in love he’s being manipulated and abused ... end of story No story is one sided doesn’t mean he’s perfect but this is a dangerous “relationship”

[@ariannadshae]

i don’t like that dr phil was telling that man that he can’t physically defend himself from her abuse because he’ll end up in prison. that’s today’s double standard. women can hit men but those men can’t defend themselves.

[@yenyen5518]

What he said is to protect him. The system is unfortunately unfair to man. Dr.phil straight told him to run away as far as possible

[@muhammadnaufer4373]

@@yenyen5518 Is that why in self defense classes, masters teach you to tackle against your attacker? Why isn't the same thing said to women, when a man is attacking you run away as far possible and you never put your hand on a man at any cases? This is illogical. The reason why most men in America suicide because they feel so miserable with these kind of rules.

[@yenyen5518]

@@muhammadnaufer4373 my comment was in regards of his abusive girl , that he needs to run cause unfortunately the system sides a lot of the time with women . I do agree that NO ONE should put their hands on each other.

[@cogen651]

Because Dr. Phil's audeniance is mostly women but he's wrong, everyone has a right to defend themselves in a reasonable manner, with just enough force to stop the aggression. The law is gender neutral, Dr. Phil is wrong. Now, he maybe be right on how the police will respond, blaming the man, that's why you're better off defending in the least violent manner as possible and it would look better if she left a mark, that way there's proof she was aggressive. Sorry but this is how ridiculous things are in the world of politics.

[@midnxghtxx6390]

@@yenyen5518 also Cuz women like to play the victim and make males look bad

[@LightningFox7]

Oh c'mon why can't he defend himself if she's hitting him.

[@iboxedyou9311]

Ikr

[@0ld_hunter1]

Bc he knows he’ll go to jail

[@hetbet3879]

Because the police will believe her, and get him arrested for a minimum of 2-3 weeks.

[@valen2493]

He can just hit back

[@hetbet3879]

@@valen2493 He can.. But he could easily be arrested. You need to realize, that people will generally believe women more.

[@crazycatlady5948]

She looks like those typical spoiled kids but.....grown up

[@blondechick9804]

Bingo!!

[@thomasmusk1498]

When a woman abuses a man Dr. Phill: " I am gonna help you" When a men abuses a woman Dr. Phill "you're going to jail, you never hit a woman"

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

Such a shame how the world works

[@chloescent]

dr phil is an imbocille, and you said something which is completely true. but it's *"you're".*

[@samking7916]

Phil is so wrong to tell him he can't defend himself. He didn't tell her she's wrong for abusing him or putting her hands on him.

[@trinitylivingston1286]

I think what Dr. Phil means is that if he does so, she can come after him for hitting her. He's more likely to hit harder enough to leave a mark then she is.

[@talalmohiuddin269]

@@trinitylivingston1286 maybe he should. That might knock some sense into her and she won't abuse anyone again.

[@shedrickwallace9363]

In reality that’s the truth. You can only leave the relationship and never look back.

[@thatguyphoenix1241]

all fun and games till instead of girls hitting they will start stabbing smh

[@isaacennis2077]

@@thatguyphoenix1241 Michael Craig situation.

[@crazyd4371]

"You don't wanna be putting your hands on a woman in anger or in a fight. I don't care what she's doing." Ahh ... NO DOCTOR PHIL ... you have a right to defend yourself, regardless of who is attacking you!!!

[@WojakJack]

Ironically Dr Phil himself was accused of physical and psychological abuse by his 1st wife

[@dylananthonyriley254]

Maybe he’s trying to make up for it, but even so, this man had every right to give her that black eye for all the things she did to him, I would’ve !

[@ManannansCrow]

Absolutely! If you’re being attacked, you defend yourself.

[@primalwerewolf9356]

Exactly allowing someone to hit you is stupid and you should fight back no matter what

[@daniel-1489]

He qualifies it well though. He knows the courts will favour the woman if both of them end up with injuries.

[@joannewallen7262]

She is obviously manipulating him

[@AfraidMonsters]

dr phil is a sexist pig. He has every right to fight back. Equal rights? My hss. Men are treated disgustingly by society. and this sexist pig "dr phil" is disgusting.

[@marchofthepigs36]

She’s really scary she still feels like her actions were justified even when she’s not in a blind rage. Really sick.

[@hiilikefood8287]

" she is the most beautiful woman I have ever met " Looks dont determine if the relationship is healthy. This one clearly isnt.

[@legalza0843]

Victoria is insane, it’s really not a good idea to stay with her.

[@Vi-nc1cv]

Charged for domestic violence, and only served TWO days in jail?! Bruh why isn’t anyone talking about this.

[@MadChristoph]

It should be like 5 to 8 years in jail

[@carmiecat]

You should not want to put your hands on ANYBODY, not just women. I'm not liking this "she beat him, bit him, scratched him on multiple occasions", but he defends himself and it's a lecture on HIM to not hit women under any circumstances??? This girl is insane and abusive. Hope she got a lecture on that, too.

[@Rip_Bobby]

Hope she goes to prison smh

[@Ashley-jx7sw]

He has the upper hand of going to prison before she does is Dr.Phil’s main point . He can hit back in self defense leave a mark on her, while she hit him first didn’t leave a mark and there is only proof that he hit her in that situation.

[@sierra7119]

Her and Amber Heard would be besties .

[@BloodBoiling]

You mean Amber Turd.

[@amycorbett4664]

Def

[@EyehatePersona5]

Damn

[@kkehaguabahahagavava3560]

This is literally abuse. Like abuse. I feel sorry for him, hes blinded by love :(

[@AfraidMonsters]

he's a beta male with no self respect or respect for his own gender. It's seriously dsgsting. dr phil is a sexist pig. He has every right to fight back. Equal rights? My hss. Men are treated disgustingly by society. and this sexist pig "dr phil" is disgusting.

[@JLowa28]

I don’t know why dr. Phil is defending this girl and making it seem that the man is the bad guy, And the audience are supporting him on that. Doesn’t matter what gender you are, you shouldn’t abuse your rights and abuse others no matter what the gender.

[@bo2720]

He's adorable!! Who would want to assault him poor guy

[@JJ-ms3mt]

he’s literally telling him he can’t defend himself... but if a girl hit back by she was being abused it’s okay? lol do better bro y’all victim blaming.

[@mernafrederick5153]

He is telling him the truth. He is the one who will end up in jail. Unfortunately. So unless jail is where he wants to go, he should run/get away and call the police before she does. She can still manipulate it to make him look like the bad guy, unless he is the only one with marks and she had none.

[@JJ-ms3mt]

@@mernafrederick5153 he has to defend himself, he cannot just get beat on constantly, abusers won’t alllw you to get away sometimes you have no other choice.

[@Ashley-jx7sw]

He’s not wrong though. If she called the police after he left a mark on her, there is absolute no proof of self defense on his part and he will be arrested before she is.

[@JJ-ms3mt]

@@Ashley-jx7sw it doesn’t matter, he’s here being a “therapist” not a cop. we aren’t looking at this from the laws point of view. no therapist, or tbh no person should ever tell a victim of abuse the things he told him. he literally was victim blaming. he’s there to help & that’s not how u do it.

[@odysseus2k1]

@@mernafrederick5153 she could make marks on her own body too and the police would believe her, unfortunately.

[@rinzler5549]

Dr Phil needs to wake up,she hits him multiple times he hits her once he's the bad guy, it's called self defense.smh

[@void-hv9vi]

Nah Dr.Phil took the L on that one , if a girl abuses u the way she does u have every moral right to beat her back as hard as u can

[@raindropsandfeathers2245]

I hope they're not together and he's found someone who loves and appreciates him.

[@kayliechun]

He should like break up with her. That relationship is not normal, and should like take some time away from each other.

[@raphaboi_1372]

This guy has to learn to love himself more and respect his boundaries smh

[@adriannasebastian1994]

The sad part is if he defends himself and she says he hurt her he'd be charged

[@Shlawg2580]

She hit, bit, punched, kicked, and threw my PlayStation off the buildin- YOUVE GONE TOO FAR WOMAN

[@cynthiacherry9077]

Why people stay in abusive relationships is beyond me.

[@mentalcraezy]

Fear of leaving, being manipulated by the abuser. There are so many reasons, they should leave immediately but can't or won't. Sad fact but that's what happens.

[@ElGoomba]

No one going to talk about how she said he didnt mention about him hitting back and leaving brusies, when he literally admitted and showed proof that he gave her a black eye in self defense

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

Okay she’s given him black eyes, scratches, a chipped tooth, etc. why is it ok for her to abuse him?

[@That1Karen]

He did a good job giving her a black eye then😁

[@emvisuals]

What's your point tho?

[@jacobfromallstate4963]

Wow, he's a monster for defending himself. F off dude

[@snackasmversion2752]

She only got two days for DV, had it been the other way around he'd be tossed under the jail for a year.

[@nanochad2979]

or more

[@ashleywilliams4665]

“A man should never hit a woman” Act like a “man” get hit like one. Period.

[@Queen-bl5yw]

@Marinette Weiss I wouldn’t hit weaker people except for self defence (in normal situations). This woman seems stronger physically than her bf so why can’t this guy defend himself? Dr phill is wrong here. I feel bad for this guy.

[@tazza3697]

Dr. Phil's brain has become more of a vegetable than he has

[@kyeratipper7687]

the only exception for a guy to hit a women is if he's getting abused or hit or attacked etc by the women. he shouldn't be getting in trouble for hitting her bc he is literally just defending himself

[@randomtology2173]

*woman corners me with a knife*. Dr phil: "you cant put your hands on her. just get stabbed. be a man."

[@houseofpranks1830]

Beauty isn't enough my man. A relationship is so much more to that, only few understand

[@yeasurejan6260]

Dr Phil really telling this man not to defend himself? And audience clapping? Double standards at its finest😩

[@greenonion5262]

Why was dr Phil berating him when he’s the one whose claimed to have been assaulted by her?

[@ladyterrestrial1679]

He seems like a really nice guy too. I hope he's not with her anymore.

[@estherpennington7826]

This woman is a terrible person. Imagine if a man was doing this stuff. Everyone would be 100px more outraged.

[@monke2102]

He should fight back

[@RMoocher]

Someone who claims to know him recently told me he's left her. Hope it's true!

[@kristenwilbur7616]

You shouldn’t put your hands on anyone regardless. This right here is why men who are victim don’t speak out against their abusers.

[@Vi-nc1cv]

If this was a female getting abused everyone would be screaming, this is unjust, wtf, why isn’t anyone talking about this.

[@joelhochhalter638]

I’m right there with you

[@orangeleaf8550]

bro the man is a sweet dude like he's getting abused and still loves his girl props to him

[@mm-he5cm]

If it would be the other way round, he would already be in jail.

[@everydayistaeminsday9500]

She's 19? I thought she's 30 or something she looks old

[@alyselynch8746]

Everyone has a right to defend themselves. Idk why he got claps for that.

[@stonewalljackson5692]

I have fought with one of my ex girlfriends before. One of my ex girlfriends was very physically abusive, I was bit, scratched, punched, slapped, kicked. She liked wrestling and I would wrestle with her, she was smart about it and always waited until I was open and would punch me in the balls or kick me in the balls.

[@lo7381]

What the ..... 😂

[@princeoftacs6961]

Bro he need to leave her and move on

[@stanleesboi4941]

If my girlfriend hit on me like that I would have been left

[@makeupbymaria3660]

Self defense isn't based on gender. He was defending himself. They aren't made for eachother, it's just toxic

[@valen2493]

“It left her a black eye for almost 3 eeeks” PERIOD KING AS U SHOULD I WOULD DO THE SAME IF I WERE U IDC IF SHE IS A GIRL IM A HIRL IF I DID THAT I WOULD LIKE HIM TO HIT ME BACK

[@nicatamirxanov6354]

respect to the man for not being agressive💪💯💯

[@user-xo9rn7zv2j]

He kinda be simpin' over this manipulative little demon girl, and to be honest I really feel bad that guy.

[@cardiganbackyardigan6685]

I've always said if you are big enough to hit you are big enough to get hit back.

[@ellenphilpotts-troy2098]

What a toxic and crazy woman.

[@brockisbackinaction1234]

tbh i don’t like how dr phil kept acting like he did something when the guy was clearly the one being abused

[@maroondragon618]

Legally, he can defend himself. He has the bruises to prove that he’s being abused

[@THEMASHUPDECK]

If she was my gf and she abuses me I'd put her in the hospital wallahi

[@normboy8376]

He needs to break his simp chains ⛓️⛓️⛓️ The throw of a playstation 4 of a balcony is non exsubale

[@vysakhmadhu3937]

It's just like telling a rape victim don't fight back and if u do , u must be ready to face the consequences 😭.. soo sad that this came out from dr phil... Whatever the gender is, an offender or a murderer or any1 who wants to hurt u , u have the right to protect urself... This is really sad

[@user-jr1yw7iq2k]

i hope he finds peace someday, without her

[@kelseymaev]

She's a controlling manipulator, the way she tells him he better tell the truth... that was a warning.

[@treycantrell6857]

I've been hit by my girlfriend before. I could never hit her back.

[@awtardarwish2615]

I understand it can be hard but you know It's defending yourself and you have the right to you know..

[@treycantrell6857]

@@awtardarwish2615 i can't hit someone i love

[@revanthganesh3808]

@@treycantrell6857 yes i understand..but if she loves you why she hits you?!.. If u dont wanna hit her,thats fine,but if she is abusive agian,walk away..dont take abuse,you deserve better!

[@treycantrell6857]

@@revanthganesh3808 it’s hard to leave but you’re right it’s the best thing you can do

[@revanthganesh3808]

@@treycantrell6857 ya i know its hard..But being alone is better than being with the wrong person! Everyone has flaws, we need to be a lil flexible in a relationship.. But if she is being frequently abusive, its not ok and the early you walk out of it ,the better..or atleast talk to her and say its not ok to hit you!

[@TheGrillCheeseFanatic]

He should've ditched her and moved on. She doesn't deserve him.

[@minmin4842]

The crowd always clapping for him is making me sick

[@aaronbell89]

His viewers are mainly women. So yeah he says anything to keep his ratings up

[@tentrickspony8925]

The guy has EVERY right to defend himself even from a woman😶

[@AfraidMonsters]

dr phil is a sexist pig. He has every right to fight back. Equal rights? My hss. Men are treated disgustingly by society. and this sexist pig "dr phil" is disgusting.

[@allyb3510]

I really hope he left her.

[@carrisaparadise2195]

I don’t like the fact that dr. Phill is telling this boy that you can’t put your hands on a woman and she was beating him up so he have a right to do that

[@rzr651]

how can he turn around and walk away from a flying chair?

[@epalegmail]

Did phil just say it's okay if she hits him and ignored everything he said at the beginning, to then try to scold the woman and tell her that he shouldn't be hitting her? Wtf

[@ditzycup8140]

Jeremy is so cute I feel so bad 🥺

[@JJDog0317]

And even if the girl does go to jail it's probably just a time out so eventually you'll have to leave her.

[@kayleetoms6591]

Girl hits guy 99 times - Dr. Phil: “.......” Guy hits girl 1 time - Dr. Phil: “You shouldn’t be putting your hands on a woman.” *WTF?!?!?!?!*

[@reemtaleb8716]

I really hope this guy is okay. He didn’t deserve the abuse

[@michellevdg4708]

She gives me that “Crazy Stalker GF” girl that used to make YT videos related to being crazy gf ... also became the crazy gf meme.... long story short she looks like her.

[@Slay855]

Why are people clapping when she is hitting him

[@prodacj]

@PoeticJustice and its stupid hes allowed to hit her

[@prodacj]

@PoeticJustice hes allowed to hit her lmao

[@zaethebitch849]

So is like he freaky like that?

[@MichaelSmith-bn6hm]

The crowd laughing says it all about America

[@thisisreallybella]

poor guy

[@Millehelene24]

2:42 and a woman should not put her hands on a man? Tf

[@monkeyshinserman]

Real title: Dr Phil victim blaming for 4 minutes

[@marissabrown3867]

he should be able to defend himself.

[@rpshmuck972]

I lost all respect for Dr. Phil tbh 😭😭😭

[@trinitylivingston1286]

Honestly, I think it's sad that a man can't defend himself from someone else without getting attacked.

[@karenlondon725]

He needs to leave and never look back.

[@dietrichjoanne]

He needs to get her out of the apartment.

[@Legomarie96]

When your name is also Victoria👁👄👁

[@YoutubeRemix06]

1:53 yea that’s how that works 😂

[@dizziechef9502]

Get away from her. Can you imagine what she will do to the children? I hope you don't have any yet. Get away man.

[@emmasullivan2918]

Their both just toxic and need to go their separate ways . It’s funny that she says she’s vegan...when vegans are meant to be kind to all beings ..😂 guess she missed out on that .

[@joshturner1797]

@Khalid Rahim yeah fr he is not toxic

[@kaiserwilhelmdergrosse1871]

Have you met PETA, ThatVeganTeachet, VeganGains, or Freelee the Banana Girl? None of these people are kind to others. - A message from His Imperial and Royal Majesty, Kaiser Wilhelm der Große.

[@jetoux4881]

I want you to explain to me how he’s toxic. Smh

[@emmasullivan2918]

@Tashana Luda yea and it’s also gross how more people agreed with me than not agreed . Wow🙄🙄🙄 . the point of the matter is , is that they are obviously not good for each other and blaming each other instead of communicating is TOXIC .

[@neodarkend]

Can't communicate if she's beating him. So no, the only toxic one is her, but leave it to a woman to protect a female abuser.

[@abigailmedinatorres4868]

Break up and get mental health care

[@iboxedyou9311]

Or call cops

[@V4mp1r3_b4tss]

He's dealing with something called Stockholm Syndrome. if you don't know what it means, it is a thing where you are in an abusive relationship but you love that person regardless of the abuse

[@forrestfey]

Abuse. He needs to get away. She think it is funny. You can not change an abuser.

[@mee6620]

“I didn’t think she’d kill me, she’s a vegan and vegans don’t like killin things”

[@clutz7941]

That Made me chuckle