Man Says “Why Aren’t The Pick Me’s And Alpha Male Podcasters Not Dating And Marrying Each Other?”

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Priscilla Boye

Priscilla Boye

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@YemmieInc
@YemmieInc 10 ай бұрын
Pick Me women wanna impress men. Pick Me men also wanna impress men 😂
@bscott1112
@bscott1112 10 ай бұрын
This 😂
@Devilyouknow-u71t
@Devilyouknow-u71t 10 ай бұрын
Bingo !! that's how they were socialised and educated ,no point blaming the parents that is society . Men that build are socialised with other boys from a young age , sports archery hobby clubs .Women who were sheltered were taught to pick flowers ,like other girls and indulge in self care . Girls from poor backgrounds are taught to mule cook and clean from an early age that's why they look exhausted by age thirty again dont be mad At the conditiing raise your own
@Aliensanonymous_
@Aliensanonymous_ 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@BrittneySharde15
@BrittneySharde15 10 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯😂😂😂🤎
@IraSol37
@IraSol37 10 ай бұрын
💥💥This!💥💥
@JennyferPepin
@JennyferPepin 10 ай бұрын
Cause they don't want the pick-me's. They want to 'break' and 'control' women who naturally don't want them. They want a challenge.
@SkycometAnimeVamp
@SkycometAnimeVamp 10 ай бұрын
They say they want traditional women but they always follow feminists around like lost puppies 😂
@Luckimee
@Luckimee 10 ай бұрын
They don't want a challenge or they wouldn't be afraid to approach women
@FindYourFree
@FindYourFree 10 ай бұрын
precisely
@FindYourFree
@FindYourFree 10 ай бұрын
@@SkycometAnimeVamp lollll. ironic isn't it?
@gjinkalla23
@gjinkalla23 10 ай бұрын
💯
@lilaoliva793
@lilaoliva793 10 ай бұрын
There's no better proof that this is all a grift than all those red piller wannabe alfa men and pick mes not getting with each other and ending our collective misery.
@guinealove3744
@guinealove3744 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! I saw the founders of the "Wife school" and other "How to be feminine", and Melaine King organize a get together.
@thejookking
@thejookking 10 ай бұрын
Says who??
@restlessfae2407
@restlessfae2407 10 ай бұрын
I remember a content creator who did a reaction video of Melanie King on MTR's(Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews) channel. And she was the biggest pickme shaking her behind all up on MTR. And he paid her no dust. Men like him and all the redpillers and manophere dude. Do not want pickme melanie king. They want women they cannot obtain.
@lilaoliva793
@lilaoliva793 10 ай бұрын
@@thejookking I said it. And some other people agree by the look of it.
@Des17S
@Des17S 10 ай бұрын
​@@thejookkingSays the male podcasters who aren't lining up to put a ring on Pearl.
@1108-g1q
@1108-g1q 10 ай бұрын
Reminder: Pearl is dating a man who is afraid of being deported back to Zimbabwe and he still doesn't want to marry her.
@OneTwo-yw4ij
@OneTwo-yw4ij 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@sharmindecruz9757
@sharmindecruz9757 10 ай бұрын
What??😂😂😅
@theangel5416
@theangel5416 10 ай бұрын
Peal a social media anomaly...She makes so much money from social media, she will just do and say things to cause an argument just to keep a camera on her. The only way she would get married to anyone is if she knew she for sure she could keep her empire going, and right now it's not worth the risk. The advice she gives to other women she's not going to take it for herself!! 😂
@blueizumi
@blueizumi 10 ай бұрын
Damn she so trash not even for a green card will someone be her husband lmao
@clauaome25
@clauaome25 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ladynilow
@Ladynilow 10 ай бұрын
Candice Owens too 😂😂 the gal is telling yall to get married and finally have a purpose while she is climbing the right wing ladder making racks 😂😂 she has given birth to 3 purposes yet hun is still working
@BlkOnyx0508
@BlkOnyx0508 10 ай бұрын
This!!!! She is not a stay home “taken care of”wife. She works all the way through pregnancy,jet setting across the globe with small children. I do not want her life
@karenmassey8354
@karenmassey8354 10 ай бұрын
This 🎯
@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 10 ай бұрын
It be the feminists who tell other women not to be a feminist. Like whattttt since when were traditional women ALLOWED to be politicans maam?
@Ladynilow
@Ladynilow 10 ай бұрын
What’s crazy is that she doesn’t have to work . She has a rich English husband , candice works out of pure ambition leaving her kids ( purpose) with nannies , just to turn around on the internet and call poorer women who need a job to survive raging narcissist for not being married with kids 😂😂 like what in th actually f
@bintokiria5338
@bintokiria5338 10 ай бұрын
​@@Ladynilowstopped listening to her. She is not realistic
@BrainsBeautyandCommonSense
@BrainsBeautyandCommonSense 10 ай бұрын
This is sadly true. My first husband knew I was independent and confident, wore makeup, and was the anti-pick-me. However, during our marriage, he endeavored to grind my self-esteem into dust. He literally tried to convince me to shave off my hair, stop wearing makeup, dress dowdily, and be mindlessly submissive. I asked him why he married me, and he said, “Because I knew I could change you.” We are divorced, I am happily remarried. He is also remarried, but repeating the same behaviors and still upset that I obtained a divorce.
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
how do you know he is repeating the same behaviors?
@greatstoic2297
@greatstoic2297 10 ай бұрын
"Happily remarried" ...😂😂😂I hear these all the time with modern women. I wonder why you had to add that? It adds no value whatsoever to what you just said 😂😂😂😂
@misslove6256
@misslove6256 10 ай бұрын
@@greatstoic2297yes it does? 😭 shes saying she left a crap marriage and got successfully remarried into a better relationship. you just dont want to believe that
@greatstoic2297
@greatstoic2297 10 ай бұрын
@@misslove6256 "Happily remarried" in womanese means "I was the perfect partner and wasn't in anyway to blame for my divorce". Chances are she hasn't remarried or if it's true she's remarried then they are a couple of months into the marriage. It will unravel just like the first one. One thing modern women don't know is there's no such thing as a "happy marriage". Marriage is more about sacrifice. This is because marriage is a pillar of Patriarchy. This automatically makes a feminist mindset to be incompatible with marriage. Marriage is obsolete in the West. The sooner men and women realise this the better for everyone.
@misslove6256
@misslove6256 10 ай бұрын
@@greatstoic2297 womanese??😭omg. i dont think thats what she meant. imo gender doesnt matter when it comes to bad character so sometimes the man can genuinely just be a crap person and thats an ok thing to accept. happy marriage is very possible. yes sacrifice comes with alot in life but that shouldnt make the marriage miserable. maybe you meant theres no such thing as perfect marriage. im an american girl and im 20 so idk if its just an older generation thing to "leave the west find better elsewhere" but i dont agree but also thats really just a matter of opinion i guess so i hope you find what youre looking for i personally believe marriage should be done with someone who holds the same values as you and respects you, who loves you, who befriends you. someone you trust yknow but idk maybe we have different concepts of love and marriage
@morganperez5398
@morganperez5398 10 ай бұрын
The only thing I disagree with is that our grandmothers and great grandmothers were pick-me's. They did what was necessary to survive in a world where they had little to no agency. They suffered through social injustice, gender discrimination, abuse, cheating and marriages that should have been illegal (based on age gap) to survive and build legacy the only way they could... through children. If they had been given a chance, like us, I'm sure a lot of them would have jumped at the opportunity to have fuller lives. To call them pick-me's is just insulting.
@kattodoggo3868
@kattodoggo3868 10 ай бұрын
some of them. Most of them are just :slaves:. Set them free and they will still go back to being a mule.Like my mother. Cant sleep because of he trash husband calling her worst names but she will not let ME get rid of him because "you dont kick out people like dogs". This is mindset
@topazempress
@topazempress 10 ай бұрын
I agree ☝🏼 brilliantly put!
@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 10 ай бұрын
agree. disrespectful if you ask me. no different that kanye saying slavery was a choice. Its the same shit. Women were LITERAL SLAVES. stop using soft words like 'traditional' to describe SLAVERY.
@OneTwo-yw4ij
@OneTwo-yw4ij 10 ай бұрын
People underestimate the mental traumas associated with years of brutal brow beating narratives (and laws), shaming and physical violence. I can't say many would choose to take advantage of the current opportunities. As we see many detractors far removed from that era that champion those chains. But the women from that time did what they had to do to survive.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
Not really,women are still being picky me's even though they have more rights now , that's why you have women in marriages working and still doing most of the household chores, that's pick me tendency
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 10 ай бұрын
Everyone belongs in the kitchen except you Pearl? Best question ever 😅
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
😹😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 10 ай бұрын
She admits she will run to the kitchen if they start drafting women.
@Heteropessimista
@Heteropessimista 10 ай бұрын
The Serena joy dilemma. Internalized misogyny and internalized anti blackness are two of the most tragic things ever other than othering yourself to be “not like the others” or exceptionalize your own individuality but prescribe things for others. Remember “the oppressor would not be so strong if he did not have accomplices among the oppressed.” ~Simone de Beauvoir
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 10 ай бұрын
So you wanna be single like her? Understood
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 10 ай бұрын
​@@Heteropessimistayet you want to be like other lonely sad career women. Got it
@whattheflimflam
@whattheflimflam 10 ай бұрын
Men: UGH WE ARE SOOOO LONELY 😢 WOMEN ARE SUCH 304s WAAAH! Average looking/Plus size/Basically not IG Model regular girl: I'm available ❤ Men: NOOOOO NOT YOU
@darcy5761
@darcy5761 9 ай бұрын
Men can be a 2 with no personality,but still expect to get a 10.
@bloodmajesty414
@bloodmajesty414 9 ай бұрын
Men can have 10 pick mes surrounding them and worshipping the ground they walk on, and they still will look at the one girl that don't give a F about them and harass that girl into "submitting".
@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis
@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis 9 ай бұрын
This exactly. They complain about pretty women all day but they would 100% be with a crazy 10 who has a horrible personality than a 6 with a great personality.
@xletragedyx
@xletragedyx 9 ай бұрын
​@@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesisand most pickme's are below average
@LovedByYou
@LovedByYou 9 ай бұрын
This. Like the girls you shoidl go for you ignore
@LearnwithMoran
@LearnwithMoran 10 ай бұрын
Lol when those red pillers are complaining,they are talking about Instagram baddies not regular women. They literally can't give their time to a regular woman and those Instagram baddies don't want them either. That's why they be so mad.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 10 ай бұрын
This - 💯
@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 10 ай бұрын
and they talk like every woman alive is selling pics on only fans and instagram too andd im like bro...none of my homegirls do that shit. NONE OF EM. Yall watch too much tv lmao
@ReneeHarris96
@ReneeHarris96 10 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@bobithasmitherson
@bobithasmitherson 10 ай бұрын
@@joannamonique707shows how little interaction they have with women in any capacity lol
@sharmindecruz9757
@sharmindecruz9757 10 ай бұрын
Facts, they arent complaining about the regular or pick me women that they can easily get. Smh
@allyjay7395
@allyjay7395 10 ай бұрын
I went on a serial dating spree last year after I escaped a long abusive relationship and the number of men who turned out to be married was staggering. I know not all men are this way but the odds are not in our favor. Love yourselves ladies, a man is nice but he's not your world, you are.
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 10 ай бұрын
The odds def aren’t in our favor!
@CitySlickerButtKicker
@CitySlickerButtKicker 10 ай бұрын
Yes, I noticed this too. I used to be a massage therapist for a womens spa and gym for 10 years and then I helped an old friend with her co ed start up spa, and I was in for a shock... the amount of married men who want "extras" was depressing and I just want to tell their wives. Those men hated me though, when they asked for happy ending, I leave, and then came back with 3 Disney books....Cinderella, Little Mermaid, and Bambi "So which happy ending do you want? I will read to you!"
@skittlemilks1614
@skittlemilks1614 10 ай бұрын
@CitySlickerButtKicker What a Chad move lol 😆
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 10 ай бұрын
@@CitySlickerButtKicker Bambi didn't have a happy ending his mother was shot
@CitySlickerButtKicker
@CitySlickerButtKicker 10 ай бұрын
@@bunnyboo6295 Ohhh, that was the point. It served as a warning
@thinkinginn7443
@thinkinginn7443 10 ай бұрын
3:56 She summed it up well. Trevor Noah cited his mother saying that some men want a woman to submit but don’t want a submissive woman. ‘The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.’ And a lot of those podcasters before their fame weren’t in positions to get that submission from women organically with social status and other factors. Hence why they cry about those women being ‘gold diggers’ because most women wouldn’t ’submit’ to a man that won’t provide for her snd potential offspring comfortably at the bare minimum. Let alone their subpar personalities and lack of respect or care for her. So they turned to shaming and gaslighting the independent woman to settle, lies and manipulation to try and trap her into either a relationship or decreased ‘value’ (getting her pregnant) and only glorify the pickmes on the screen.
@FindYourFree
@FindYourFree 10 ай бұрын
whew deep
@Shillery-n1i
@Shillery-n1i 10 ай бұрын
That is true because why sit and complain about women who aren’t your type… career driven, educated, dresses sexy… oh you want to be the cause for them to give everything away… men feel they are here to make women devote there entire life to him and that’s what makes him feel manly … men would love to take billionaire Oprah and turn her into his stay at home wife where she has no value but to sever him… a Billionaire woman has no value to them other than to serve a dusty 😂
@TeamLexana
@TeamLexana 10 ай бұрын
Oh I like how his mom put it. That's very apt.
@marymiller6188
@marymiller6188 10 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I wholeheartedly agree!
@Maybe-An-Alien
@Maybe-An-Alien 10 ай бұрын
Damn this is deep...
@Helpmefindthewilltolive
@Helpmefindthewilltolive 10 ай бұрын
Can be explained easily, pick-me's are Barbra the builder's, alpha male's are exotic bird collectors. Pick-me's don't want a toxic man - they want to fix a man so he'll give her the validation she requires. Alpha men want to be able to scream from the top of the mountain, "hey, I'm so high value - *I* make *GIRLS* who I don't even like, *WORK* to date *ME!* ", their masculinity is validated by having women chase THEM. Even though pick-me-girls want to fix a man, alpha men aren't the kinda toxic they're pining for - because alpha's can't be fixed, they just wanna wreak havoc, so there is no finish line or endgame for the pick-me to receive her trophy. They want two different types of validation that they wouldn't receive from being together.
@thejookking
@thejookking 10 ай бұрын
Wednesday March 20th 2024 Congratulations. You just admitted your man is a beta male. The downfall of female psychology is that the majority of you desire an alpha male. If you're single then you should easily score a beta nale; there's a lot of simps out there.
@kaydakay948
@kaydakay948 10 ай бұрын
True couldn't have said it better
@amberd5318
@amberd5318 10 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Very well stated!
@MissTi212
@MissTi212 10 ай бұрын
Look at youuu 🎯🎉💅🏾😌
@lee02jepson
@lee02jepson 10 ай бұрын
Bang on 100%.
@Ehlaar
@Ehlaar 10 ай бұрын
Hes so right about Pearl . 😂😂😅 if she was about that life she could be making trad wife videos. And labour and delivery vlogs. Those make money over here too but pearl is full of caca like he said.
@fitthickchic6732
@fitthickchic6732 10 ай бұрын
Nobody trying to wife Pearl lol. These guys want a woman who likes like the Only Fans girls they denigrate.
@ll2323
@ll2323 10 ай бұрын
I thought her mom was the one that makes money in her family.
@carrington2949
@carrington2949 10 ай бұрын
She is in the closet.
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
He just blew their whole program out the water😹😹😹💥💥
@ZoraDelaney
@ZoraDelaney 10 ай бұрын
If she was about that life, she wouldn't even be making trad wife (de facto BOSS GIRL) videos. She would shut up, lay low, and focus on getting her man some shine.
@carolynwebb8726
@carolynwebb8726 10 ай бұрын
I wish people would stop calling those guys Alpha Males, they are not.
@Tigerlily_Fresh
@Tigerlily_Fresh 10 ай бұрын
Thank you. The only alpha in my life is Jesus Christ!
@FunkyLittlePoptart
@FunkyLittlePoptart 9 ай бұрын
I think it's funny. On one hand, it's sarcasm of the highest order. Even the biologist who first posited the idea of alphas (in wolves) immediately retracted his paper and said "oh, no. I was wrong. Alpha in wolves just means 'responsible parent!' Sorry!" As in he even found packs lead by lady Alphas. So there's that, and then there' the fan culture version of alpha/beta/omega which is a universe where everybody's gay and males have babies. Red pillers are making fun of themselves one way or the other.
@jessicascoullar3737
@jessicascoullar3737 9 ай бұрын
I did see a great post by an IT worker who pointed out that in programming the alpha version was the first version with all the bugs that was usually a complete mess and the beta version was the new and improved one that actually worked. It makes sense if you use that characterisation.
@QUEERVEEART
@QUEERVEEART 9 ай бұрын
as a gamer the term is always funny to me cause alpha means its not a fully released game yet there might be errors or bugs or missing features or story pieces. then the beta phase is next. then the game is fully released. so i always see the word alpha men as being like, they have issues and emotional immaturity, there still needs to be some work and bug fixes there looool
@cornwallismorgan874
@cornwallismorgan874 9 ай бұрын
@@QUEERVEEART The rubber-banding bug never gets old. Or things casually clipping through solid ground.
@augustG.I.F
@augustG.I.F 10 ай бұрын
"The cutest couple of 6 1/2 I ever saw." 😅💀 He has a point. Why don't y'all just hook up and check out of our BIDNESS😅😂
@carrington2949
@carrington2949 10 ай бұрын
I fell out when he said that.🤣🤣🤣
@wellersonoliveira5334
@wellersonoliveira5334 10 ай бұрын
The thing about "pick me" women is that, they think, by allingning themselves with conservatives, they gonna have privilegies. I used to do this in the past, hanging with alot of these kind of people, but it took one single moment, and they called me "dirt" (referring at my Brown skin tone). Picks me cant win.
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear 10 ай бұрын
.
@theteleisewilliamsexperience
@theteleisewilliamsexperience 10 ай бұрын
Black ppl are naturally conservative though. We have just been brainwashed politically.
@wellersonoliveira5334
@wellersonoliveira5334 10 ай бұрын
@@theteleisewilliamsexperience Unfortunatlly its true, same kinda situation on the whole latin america, to a point brown/black communities are taught to hate themselves. Hell, most people here, wich cleary have native american ancestry (like me), resent it, when you point that out.
@mistressravenlilyscreepybo5493
@mistressravenlilyscreepybo5493 10 ай бұрын
No! WE'RE not a monolith and I don't hold conservative beliefs. Don't paint us all with that brush!​@@theteleisewilliamsexperience
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear 10 ай бұрын
​@@mistressravenlilyscreepybo5493 Same here sis
@Liteskinblacknotmix3d
@Liteskinblacknotmix3d 10 ай бұрын
“We’ve all been a pick me” NO tf we all haven’t!!!
@757Princess
@757Princess 10 ай бұрын
I think because the rhetoric is mainstream in the black community we are exposed to it. So at one point we may have lived thru it or been exposed to it.
@juanita_rocksteady2761
@juanita_rocksteady2761 10 ай бұрын
I was a pickmesha when I was younger. I admit it. But as I got older, I became a don'tpickmesha!😂
@JackNutts
@JackNutts 10 ай бұрын
Most of you phuked the same guy at once.
@YemmieInc
@YemmieInc 10 ай бұрын
Maybe in grade school 😂
@bottomofastairwell
@bottomofastairwell 10 ай бұрын
I think it's more like, maybe if not now, in the past we've gone through that phase before we grew and matured. Coz I definitely had my "not like other girls" phase as a teenager. Most girls I was friends with did. And that's not because we don't like other women or respect them. It's purely is trying to rebel against the stereotypical caricatures of womanhood that we're taught is all we can be. So we go through that phase, not realizing that's is not other women who are the problem, is really society's narrow definition of what womanhood looks like. But once we realize that and develop the language to express it, then we naturally grow out of that not like other girls phase or being a pick me. You notice how most of these pick me girls are young? Yeah, coz they haven't lived enough to size up yet and realize that other women aren't the enemy, patriarchy is. So yeah, I think when people say we're all a little pick me, that also includes moments in our past when we were. And honestly, that's true for most of us. But again, it's really just a natural reaction to patriarchy and for most women, that's their first step into rejecting it, they just very to a place eventually where they move past that phase coz they realize that ultimately, other women aren't the problem.
@venusbleu5764
@venusbleu5764 10 ай бұрын
People always end up not being attracted to who they're attractive to lol
@lilaoliva793
@lilaoliva793 10 ай бұрын
"Cutest couple of 6 and a halves"😂🤣😭 I don’t even know who the guy he matched her up with is but isn't 6.5 too high for her? I mean, according to their own BS about rating women isn't she hitting the wall? It's not me saying it. It's them.
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@maenad1231
@maenad1231 10 ай бұрын
Hitting? You mean she’s not in her 30s already? dang she’s not aging well
@Dominic53379
@Dominic53379 10 ай бұрын
She said she is 26.
@winning3329
@winning3329 10 ай бұрын
You talking about pearl? She is the pickme who hasn't been picked.
@lilaoliva793
@lilaoliva793 10 ай бұрын
@@maenad1231 Nope, she's not. She's from 1996. So, 27 years old, now. And if I'm not mistaken I came across a video of hers on Twitter where she said a woman's prime is from 18 to 25 years old. So according to her own BS she already hit the wall.
@jaynedough2698
@jaynedough2698 10 ай бұрын
It's all for show. They don't even believe the crap they spew out their mouths. These dudes don't even like women, and Pearl...well, either she doesn't like women, or she's looking for the wife she's telling us we should be.
@BlkOnyx0508
@BlkOnyx0508 10 ай бұрын
This
@femdivinemind7777
@femdivinemind7777 10 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@marlyd
@marlyd 10 ай бұрын
Maybe a little bit of both
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 10 ай бұрын
Nah pearl is looking for attention and money telling these men what they want to hear gives her an audience.
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf 10 ай бұрын
​@@bunnyboo6295I think it's both.
@rockinrobin4681
@rockinrobin4681 10 ай бұрын
No we’re not all Pick MEs sometimes. There’s no man rich enough, handsome enough,hung enough, or masculine enough to make me desperate for him. That’s because of regardless of his attributes, he is still flawed in some form or manner. We all are. That’s why idolizing or fawning over a person is pointless. PickMe women get picked for the purpose of being a mule and a servant. In their words “at least I got a man”. Right 🙄
@brielleknoxsragerecoveryclinic
@brielleknoxsragerecoveryclinic 10 ай бұрын
Exactly. When she said "we're all pick me's sometimes," I instantly was like, no we're not. I don't like when people can't just stand in who they are, so they try to say that other people do it too.
@dont_harsh_my_mellow
@dont_harsh_my_mellow 9 ай бұрын
@@brielleknoxsragerecoveryclinic The only time I am a pick me is if I am desperate to nail a job interview. Pick ME for the role! I wanna make $100k! Lol.
@edithart5753
@edithart5753 10 ай бұрын
They want the high maintenance girls with high standards because if they are able to humble and have one love them genuinely then they feel they have accomplished something worth having
@gjinkalla23
@gjinkalla23 10 ай бұрын
Wisdom
@ThePhoenix3712
@ThePhoenix3712 10 ай бұрын
Your comment is the only reason why they want to abuse (so called humble) highly attractive women who doesn't even want them.
@AniWho268
@AniWho268 10 ай бұрын
Not "accomplished something worth having" more like they accomplished something to stroke their ego about. As soon as they achieve that, a lot of men leave because they got what they wanted. It's like when guys act like the "nice guy" because they want s*x, not an actual relationship. As soon as they get s*x, they switch up on a woman. Though, some men do stay with the woman they broke because it's also a flex to them, and now they get to walk all over her. Men want to increase the population of broken women, hence why they go after women that are independent, not women who are already pick mes...wow, men are really disgusting psychopaths.
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
are you just speculating that?
@guellaliguemra2321
@guellaliguemra2321 10 ай бұрын
​@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNotNo, they the truth.
@forever_tam
@forever_tam 10 ай бұрын
Because none of them want to live in HARMONY. They are internally miserable and cannot function outside of chaos. They don't want eachother because they don't want themselves.
@mshill2406
@mshill2406 10 ай бұрын
Whew. A mouthful!
@zero1188
@zero1188 10 ай бұрын
People are not attracted to who they are attracted to in real life
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear
@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear 10 ай бұрын
.
@laurennkundimana173
@laurennkundimana173 10 ай бұрын
Clock it
@Lifewithlatoya6
@Lifewithlatoya6 10 ай бұрын
Huh?
@Traytriunetheomnist
@Traytriunetheomnist 10 ай бұрын
@@Lifewithlatoya6 she means they are not nice people or attractive in real life
@Thisisme1919
@Thisisme1919 10 ай бұрын
What?
@TheresaTV1
@TheresaTV1 10 ай бұрын
6:20 “They cancel one another out like PEMDAS” had me ROLLING 😂 OMG, the math of it all! 🤣
@princessazulaofthefirenati5870
@princessazulaofthefirenati5870 9 ай бұрын
Childhood memeory: *Unlocked*
@lindseyluvinglife9259
@lindseyluvinglife9259 10 ай бұрын
When the pick mes and “alpha” bros do pick each other, they eventually grow to hate each other. She gets fed up with his behavior and suddenly has bare minimum standards. He hates that she is growing those standards and asking for things that he doesn’t want to provide.
@peapod6747
@peapod6747 10 ай бұрын
Shera7 defined pickme first and best. Pickme puts the man first. She will give a man ALL her money instead of getting her hair done, beauty treatments, lashes, nails, wax etc. Men want women that are high maintenance who put themselves first.
@ThePhoenix3712
@ThePhoenix3712 10 ай бұрын
Yet they want you to keep yourself up without using their money, keep that in mind.
@peapod6747
@peapod6747 10 ай бұрын
@@ThePhoenix3712 this is true. They want you to keep yourself up for THEIR PERSONAL enjoyment. These men want a pornstar gf that will cater to his every need (also she should buy him gifts and pay %50+ bills). They are the true delulus out here.
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
majority of men in the world aren't married to that tho. how do you even know what they want?
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
Not being a "pick me "goes beyond that
@sharmindecruz9757
@sharmindecruz9757 10 ай бұрын
Facts
@Therealone88
@Therealone88 10 ай бұрын
they don’t know what they want.they complain when you’re pick me, and when you’re a challenge
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
it's the confusion, hypocrisy, and back biting for me😒😑🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾
@Therealone88
@Therealone88 10 ай бұрын
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 right! it be the narcdacity of it all.
@tinycatfromhell
@tinycatfromhell 9 ай бұрын
They don't want a woman who works and makes her own money, yet they don't want a woman that expects him to pay for dates and bills. Men are the absolute CEOs of perpetual confusion.
@LadyAstarionAncunin
@LadyAstarionAncunin 10 ай бұрын
ALSO, when they get the "free spirit," they break her spirit and then complain that she's not the woman they married. And it's on to the next.
@badgyrl310
@badgyrl310 5 ай бұрын
And then when the woman becomes herself again after the divorce/breakup, the guys complain "why wasn't she like this when we were together? Why'd she change after we got divorced/broke up?" I have seen so many comments online from guys complaining that their ex glowed up or got back to her natural self after their divorce or break up. If she's at her best when she's not with you, but her light was dimmed after being with you, you're probably the reason. It's sad that they really don't realize that they're the problem.
@Delilah513
@Delilah513 10 ай бұрын
Pickmes aren’t a challenge or a prize.
@ArianaBrown-d6y
@ArianaBrown-d6y 10 ай бұрын
I remember i said that once to a guy who listen to those RP podcast there millions of women out in the world who are pick me go date her and marry her. You dont have to go with a boss babe, single moms, or childless women. He looked at me and said the pick me are boring and not a challenge. 😂. Lord you cant make this shit up.
@Jwa-fo6nb
@Jwa-fo6nb 10 ай бұрын
That's how you know men love drama, why else do you think they are the main ones who start wars, etc because men like drama and violence
@AniWho268
@AniWho268 10 ай бұрын
@@Jwa-fo6nb Yup, men call women drama queens, but I'd rather deal with the high school mean girl than a war. Men subjugated women, and now they've been trying to subjugate each other. That's why wars and conflicts are constant with them, they're trying to do to themselves, what they did to women. Men are not the "chosen ones" and they're awful leaders. Violence, corruption, and injustice are the norm in society, so they're not good leaders. Men are not the main characters, and they refuse to even consider that, much less come to terms with it.
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
you just made that up
@scorpieeeee
@scorpieeeee 10 ай бұрын
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot cope with exposing information? not good for you
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
@@scorpieeeee are you seriously going to believe that actually happened? Well here goes. I remember I asked a woman why she doesn't date faithful men, she said she was bored by them. Do you believe me?
@kaybrown7733
@kaybrown7733 10 ай бұрын
I've been saying this for years! Why go to a new country when you have ready, willing, and able doormats right here in America? Someone get the answer please! 😂
@shanc2672
@shanc2672 10 ай бұрын
Because they can't actually afford to take care of those doormats because they're broke😂. So they go to a foreign country where the currency is weaker and certain laws surrounding womens safety are basically none existent, all so they can exploit those women easier and financially abuse them.
@novembrluv
@novembrluv 10 ай бұрын
​@shanc2672 "You have just been promoted to one of my elite employeeeeees"👏👏👏👏 perfectly said.
@T_Cup
@T_Cup 10 ай бұрын
All I can say is, every man I know who's cheated has a wife that epitomizes the perfect trad wife and a mistress who's the complete opposite of that
@henryholgate8526
@henryholgate8526 9 ай бұрын
I hope you do not know that many because I don’t like the implication of this.
@T_Cup
@T_Cup 9 ай бұрын
@@henryholgate8526 Sad to say, it's too many to count. Esp. the amount of men who will openly praise their wives on their social media pages while begging their mistress to let them move in with them so they can leave their wives with a safe place to land waiting for them
@HospitalForSouls.X
@HospitalForSouls.X 7 ай бұрын
That’s exactly how it is. The man who is obsessed with me right now is married to a perfect little conservative blonde. He’s a cop. I’m a semi-homeless criminal who was convicted by his department for poisoning my roommate. I’m covered in tattoos, I’m a free spirit, and I roll with people who he’d probably arrest. I heard once that men tend to prefer this type called “manic pixie dream girl.”
@HospitalForSouls.X
@HospitalForSouls.X 7 ай бұрын
I’ve always told trad wives…you’re literally a pack mule to him. You’re the brood mare. You pump out kids and keep his legacy alive, but he’s in love with ME. Don’t bother wasting your time getting married or working so hard to be this perfect cutesy little mommy wife.
@dantayhylton9938
@dantayhylton9938 10 ай бұрын
Im happy more good woman are standing up for themselve
@lo6291
@lo6291 10 ай бұрын
The African version (south african because i am south african and have experience there) is when they say they don't want a woman who drinks and parties. But then go after the women who have that lifestyle. In rare occasions they will find s young girl who is slightly pick-me or doesn't know herself yet, they will date her then turn her into a woman they claimed they do not want, a party girl who goes out snd party a lot and drinks too. I convinced whichever way it goes, they just want to assign whatever change to themselves. They just want to conquer and change you so that they can credit themselves.
@Mstorrance
@Mstorrance 10 ай бұрын
So true
@AniWho268
@AniWho268 10 ай бұрын
In other words, men just want to ruin women.
@JustMeAri
@JustMeAri 8 ай бұрын
South American here. The same happens in my country
@Manj_J
@Manj_J 6 ай бұрын
Yeah exactly!
@MsBrooklyn11232
@MsBrooklyn11232 10 ай бұрын
It's the exotic bird collector theory. The reason why the Pick Mes are not picked is because they are too easy. Men like a challenge and they want the women who are not Pick Mes and the red pill men wants to change the non pick me women and turn them into their pick me. Men feel more powerful and have an ego boost when they do something like this. Men are actually attracted to autonomous and strong-willed women as much as men say that they are not attracted to strong-willed and autonomous women, they actually are attracted to those women.
@CordeliaWagner1999
@CordeliaWagner1999 10 ай бұрын
Men want challenge? Sure?
@alexajay6896
@alexajay6896 10 ай бұрын
Yup
@cebile1493
@cebile1493 10 ай бұрын
​Yes most of the time it's that case but they want you to show your feminine side while you do so they feel like their in control like being passive aggressive or nice nasty for example and there are other ways to show such those are just some examples @@CordeliaWagner1999
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot 10 ай бұрын
and how do you know this? majority of men in the world aren't married to the kind of woman you are talking about.
@EmpressKiya.
@EmpressKiya. 10 ай бұрын
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNothence the divorce rate sitting at a cute 80%. Basically men settle and get married to the submissive pick-me only for them to divorce them at the highest of rates. Please be for real.
@JustNishaa
@JustNishaa 10 ай бұрын
This was enlightening. Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever met a happily married pick me 🤷🏾‍♀️ They usually devote all of their time, effort and energy into pleasing a man with no real sense of direction for themselves... 🤔 Sounds like hell to me. I'd much rather invest in things that actually make me happy, than to constantly seek validation from a man who's only using me because he lacks the resources & the mental capacity to get the woman he REALLY wants..
@MaroonTiger
@MaroonTiger 10 ай бұрын
The manosphere podcasters want BADDIE pick me’s… those dont really exist and the podcasters dont qualify for baddies at all
@rensii-e8b
@rensii-e8b 10 ай бұрын
Agreed! You’re never gonna get a 10/10 pickme. Choices need to be made, and whining online complaining about 304s ain’t it.
@StillWaters101
@StillWaters101 10 ай бұрын
Pick me's would rather risk being used and betrayed than being alone. They dont mind being cheated on as long as they don't know about it. Single independent women and sex workers know beyond any doubt that most married men are not committed to their wives.
@letmeseemm
@letmeseemm 10 ай бұрын
They are both codependent and need therapy to address their abandonment trauma!
@thejookking
@thejookking 10 ай бұрын
Wednesday March 20th 2024 So you think single mothers, OnlyFans Girls and 304s have LESS trauma?? I hope you're not a therapist.
@letmeseemm
@letmeseemm 10 ай бұрын
@thejookking No. I don't think that. My comment wasn't a definitive list of all the categories of people that need therapy. Only a response to the 2 categories mentioned in the title of this video.
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
True
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa 10 ай бұрын
@@thejookking “alpha” men and pick mes objectively need much more psychological treatment than the groups you mentioned, who don’t need any treatment at all most of the time. Stop being delusional, you NPC. And you can always create an OF if you are envious of the money you think that OF girls are making, and NOT abandon, neglect, or abuse a woman after you impregnate her if you have that big of a problem with single mothers.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa 10 ай бұрын
@@thejookking “alpha” men and pick mes objectively need much more psychological treatment than the groups you mentioned, who don’t need any treatment at all most of the time. Stop being delusional, you NPC. And you can always create an OF if you are envious of the money you think that OF girls are making, and NOT abandon, neglect, or abuse a woman after you impregnate her if you have that big of a problem with single mothers.
@joannamonique707
@joannamonique707 10 ай бұрын
People like this are narcissists and narcissists have a very specific type. They're energy vampires so they want someone whos a good source of energy aka healthy and happy but also need them to have low boundaries because people with strong boundaries will naturally reject narcisstic energy. The only time you really get that rare combination is when women are young and naive. The younger she is the less likely she is to be super jaded and bitter, but she also hasn't developed her backbone. As women get older she's either a bitter pain in the ass or a healthy happy person whos had to understand that boundaries must be implemented to preserve her peace and a narc cant do nothing with either one of em lol one is a not a good source of energy, the other wont let him feed on her.
@rensii-e8b
@rensii-e8b 10 ай бұрын
Yesssssss best comment ever
@girlbrittneygirl
@girlbrittneygirl 7 ай бұрын
Ma'am. The woman that's a bitter pain in the ass is mostly bitter due to these males interrupting her peace or taking advantage of her.
@lelz0394
@lelz0394 5 ай бұрын
💯 Thank God I didn't date in my early twenties, it only could've gone badly. I'm still that energy source and not functional enough but self aware thankfully
@kylamyette
@kylamyette 10 ай бұрын
If you read law #41 in the 48 laws of power it talks about how men do better in poverty and struggle rather than when everything is given to them, there will be rare instances of these men that get everything and then surpass it (marrying the girl in front of them) but this is the same concept, they need the challenge of “domesticating” the independent woman , because they need our validation, and project it on to women
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this ❤️
@unpredictable244
@unpredictable244 10 ай бұрын
Let me go and reread that book since I've had it for YEARS!!
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa 10 ай бұрын
Yes! Because struggle is masculine, and is what the masculine man needs to succeed, while the un-masculine man wants women to suffer, sometimes even on his behalf. Otherwise, masculine men need and even ENJOY suffering!!
@kylamyette
@kylamyette 10 ай бұрын
@@winxclubstellamusa exactly! That’s why we as women gotta stop tryna save them , let them figure it out on their own
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa 10 ай бұрын
@@kylamyette exactly! 😊
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 10 ай бұрын
They won't cause they don't want that bs either
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
True 😒😑🤡🤛🏾
@legslikewhoa
@legslikewhoa 10 ай бұрын
3:26 facts. This is why they use pregnancy to humble women and as soon as you’re pregnant or post-partum, they drop the mask.
@fnffnchfhc154
@fnffnchfhc154 10 ай бұрын
I feel like even if you are not a Pick me but just peaceful and kind they will also not want you because they want the drama. They like the drama because they are drama queens
@BashaerB-h2c
@BashaerB-h2c 10 ай бұрын
Exactly. However those are usually immature toxic men that need constant drama to stay interested. A mature man with ambition, vision and purpose seeks out a stable, kind and trustworthy woman because he needs peace in his home life.
@fnffnchfhc154
@fnffnchfhc154 10 ай бұрын
@@BashaerB-h2c too many immature men. The mature and responsible men are lovely
@XxTaiMTxX
@XxTaiMTxX 9 ай бұрын
Don’t be attracted to the men you don’t want. You complain about being “peaceful and kind” and presumably the man you wanted didn’t want that. Is it a fault of those men for not wanting you, or a fault of you wanting those men who don’t want you? You suffer from the same nonsense the red pill guys do. Attracted to people that don’t want them and then upsetti spaghetti that such people won’t change or lower their standards just so YOU can get what you want.
@alexandotron
@alexandotron 10 ай бұрын
All of their podcasts talk about the same things and lack nuance of any capacity. These red pill dudes will come to me,instead of going to a pick me. AND THEN tell me to be like them. The days of caring about their opinions are over.
@MagsLuv
@MagsLuv 10 ай бұрын
Men always do this. They approach you because of ____ and then they tell you to change your hair or clothes or etc 🙃🤨
@alexandotron
@alexandotron 10 ай бұрын
@@MagsLuv it’s the most annoying thing ever. They like you because you take care of yourself. Then they get mad you take care of yourself and “draw attention”. BUT if you stop taking care of yourself you’ve “let yourself go” and they cheat. NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE. I’m 22. And I’m done.
@aelitastone5629
@aelitastone5629 9 ай бұрын
@@MagsLuv We all can have one, Ourself. The most important to never give up, because without it, others will fall too. If another can't accept you are one and in good state, is toxic, no time to lost with him.
@girlbrittneygirl
@girlbrittneygirl 7 ай бұрын
Hell yeah!!
@NicoleLLewis
@NicoleLLewis 10 ай бұрын
Best response came from a gentleman from the "Tonight's Conversation" podcast (I'm paraphrasing): they deal with the people they have access to, NOT the people they actually want.
@OneTwo-yw4ij
@OneTwo-yw4ij 10 ай бұрын
We all do. But if your plan is to ruin, play with and breed down the women you have access to. Because you despise the fact that you can't touch the sun then you're not a good person. Pretending like you have options in people that will never date you is delusional. They could ultimately leave the women they don't want alone. I have seen some of these men achieve the impossible and they still dog out those women they wanted access to so bad. Ultimately, they are just people of poor character. No "type" of woman will change that.
@aric3919
@aric3919 10 ай бұрын
Exactly! It's always been about control. They hate that they can't control certain women.
@itsjstjane
@itsjstjane 10 ай бұрын
A lot of pick mes do get picked but they also by large get treated like trash, cheated on and are used as a money source. They’re usually the ones super unhappy in their relationships because they’re burned out, not appreciated and realizing far too late that their no standards is they’re treated worse than trash.
@maryafrifa9433
@maryafrifa9433 10 ай бұрын
"The only place their leading you to is a podcast mic and a table." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this had me rolling on the ground 😅...Myron where you at?😂
@wycliffelevigan6702
@wycliffelevigan6702 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
@godlovesusall8115
@godlovesusall8115 10 ай бұрын
The greatest question of the decade
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
Yes! I hope someone goes on their panels and ask this question
@fulltimeonfire8536
@fulltimeonfire8536 10 ай бұрын
I thought I was a Pick-me for a while, i would look around and see other girls being able to talk to people, make friends, have a relationship with their parents etc. but i was never interested in boys. It wasnt that i wanted to be different from "other girls", i literally couldnt communicate with ANYONE due to social anxiety and feeling like an alien, like i didnt fit in anywhere and i couldnt understand what people were saying (subtext is a completely foreign language to me. long story short, im now 30 and diagnosed with autism and adhd. what i thought was pick me behaviour, turned out to be neurodivergency. I wasnt like the other girls, or boys, or anyone it turns out, because my brain is faffing about on its own rollercoaster. im perpetually tired 😭
@Honeyflowerrr
@Honeyflowerrr 10 ай бұрын
I’m the same way
@Honeyflowerrr
@Honeyflowerrr 10 ай бұрын
We should be friends
@fulltimeonfire8536
@fulltimeonfire8536 10 ай бұрын
@@Honeyflowerrr id love to be friends! 😊
@l.s.d.5863
@l.s.d.5863 9 ай бұрын
Also have autism and ADHD, 33 now, and looking back, yeah, I was a pick-me. But I think it happened largely because of the neurodivergency. I had tons of anxiety, super shy, super awkward, absolutely no sense of self worth, I spent my entire school years basting in the vibe that nobody liked me. So when I started to have a mature body and certain men starting paying attention to me and acting nice to me, it seemed like a miracle. A group of people suddenly liked me, I was so happy, and because of my social naivety, pretty unable to read into what those relationships actually were. After so many years of only ever getting positive attention from skeazy guys, and only having skeazy guys as friends, I just.... leaned into it, I guess. So glad I finally learned enough about life to cut those creeps off, and to stop blaming women for not wanting to be my friend. The guys didn't want to be my friend either. Still can't really make friends too well, I'm mostly alone now without the creeps, but I love other women even if they don't love me, and being alone is better than sacrificing my self respect and my morality just to have people pretend they care and like me. Plus I have a great fucking cat, so I'll get by with or without these humans. lol
@hilo6243
@hilo6243 9 ай бұрын
Y’all are all amazing!!!! There should be a support group for women/femmes who didn’t realize they were autistic until adulthood. That’s one hell of an experience…anyways I just wanted to tell y’all that you’re (we’re!) not alone, and that being alone in life isn’t the only way to be safe, healthy, etc. self love is vital and important but we deserve all the other forms too, can get them, and will get them. We’re the last of all people, people who have been through trauma and fought hard to find our ways to ourselves and through all the bullshit that’s holding us back, who should be out here resigning ourselves to lives of loneliness. I advise that all of you study human behavior, signaling, communication and body language, and use what you learn to gain broader understandings of yourselves and the worlds around you, and, when you’re ready, go into them fearlessly. You deserve and abundance is yours. Love from another autistic woman, who’s out there killing shit and rooting for you to do the same ❤️❤️
@dusklvr
@dusklvr 10 ай бұрын
Here in Ontario Canada my mom's best friend's husband beat the crap out of his wife within the first few weeks of marriage because his dad told him it will help to keep her in line.
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
Oh no 😢 I hope she left him tho.
@sAMiAm1
@sAMiAm1 10 ай бұрын
She's still with him? Don't leave us hanging.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
Do you think?
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
​@@sAMiAm1 do you think?
@FunkyLittlePoptart
@FunkyLittlePoptart 9 ай бұрын
That's surprisingly common. Source: I worked on the women's crisis line for many years. Not shockingly it appears to be extra common among cops.
@UceScooter
@UceScooter 10 ай бұрын
I been thinking this the longest. Ironic how i saw pearl debating someone the other day about marriage, and im thinking to myself YOU not even married! How she capes so hard for men want a woman like this or like that yet she has no man shows she not that type of woman which by default proves she is a grifter and phony. The guy in the clip is absolutely correct!
@disneyprincessintraining2725
@disneyprincessintraining2725 10 ай бұрын
I had several instances of men wanting to humble me and tear down my ambitions who were then furious when I dropped them faster than a hot potato because I had parents who instilled in me that I was worthy of being ambitious and didn’t need a man. Only reason I’m doing the marriage and kids thing is because my husband is a unicorn who hypes me up at all times and he paid for my nursing school. Secure men like ambition and don’t feel a need to conquer. These red pillers are massively insecure and desperate to hide it
@cryptochrome3090
@cryptochrome3090 10 ай бұрын
It’s funny how the men who claim to be “alpha males” are the least alpha dudes I wouldn’t even so much as glance at in public lmaooo
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
I think They have this perspective from watching MCU movies , they are so delusional
@venusretrograde6177
@venusretrograde6177 10 ай бұрын
“Cutest couple of six and a halves that I’ve ever seen” omg 💀
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
🤣 I can’t stop thinking about that 😂
@jaylynnfarr1276
@jaylynnfarr1276 10 ай бұрын
Because men don’t actually want pick mes. If they did, all the pick mes would be married.
@Drageisha
@Drageisha 9 ай бұрын
Seriously. The red pills & pick mes need to be on an island together & leave the rest of us before. Pick Mes need to start pretending to be independent to trick Red Pilla into marrying them - then everyone wins.
@originalmix2546
@originalmix2546 9 ай бұрын
Lol well said!!!
@InimitableAde
@InimitableAde 10 ай бұрын
Yes please hook up! That'll clean up the dating pool for the rest of us.
@wellersonoliveira5334
@wellersonoliveira5334 10 ай бұрын
Hahaha always been sayin' that. Its like ultra conservative people who don't have kids (Tim Pool comes to mind), but shame other childless folks. Betcha don't wanna live for what they preach LMAO.
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
😂😂 true walking contradictions🤣
@snopure
@snopure 10 ай бұрын
Candace... Owens?
@JaneDoe-s5u
@JaneDoe-s5u 10 ай бұрын
Candace Owens HAS THREE KIDS. What are you talking about?
@snopure
@snopure 10 ай бұрын
Tim Pool? When has he shamed childless people? Are you just dropping random names of conservative talking heads?
@PrinceKoffe
@PrinceKoffe 10 ай бұрын
​@@snopurePerhaps what you heard is a poor metric because the videos are available, so maybe do a basic cursory search instead of thinking what you haven't heard doesn't exist? Maybe?
@roreo1612
@roreo1612 10 ай бұрын
because the typical pick me is not attractive physically. that's why shes a pick me, because no one is picking her based on looks. and looks, to these guys is everything. they rather contradict their morals and pay cam girls and OF models than date pick me whos not as hot
@Childfree334
@Childfree334 10 ай бұрын
Not necessarily true. There are some very attractive women who are pickmes. I see them on TikTok every day. I also see many overweight and plain women who have very high self-esteem. It all depends.
@roreo1612
@roreo1612 10 ай бұрын
@@Childfree334 filters do alot on TikTok. no one is picking her irl. that's why shes a pick me online
@MrsTruthTeller
@MrsTruthTeller 10 ай бұрын
I know some gorgeous pick me’s and men still mistreat them. It’s all in their personality.
@BashaerB-h2c
@BashaerB-h2c 10 ай бұрын
I know gorgeous pickles in my family.. they still got mistreated on the long run.
@Garglemymayo
@Garglemymayo 10 ай бұрын
That's not always the case....there are a lot of attractive women who use their popularity amongst men as leverage against other women and are absolutely distraught when they get treated like garbage and/or an option. That's how half the women in my town ended up being baby mamas lol
@Lillypop93
@Lillypop93 10 ай бұрын
It's like wanting a bird. You could go to the pet store and buy one but they'd rather cage and domesticate a wild one.
@wellthatgotweird
@wellthatgotweird 10 ай бұрын
Pearl looks tough..like she drives long hauls or something. She doesn't seem like a peaceful person either, no man wants to come home to that
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 10 ай бұрын
🤣🤣😆
@milkchan202
@milkchan202 10 ай бұрын
LMaOOOO
@carrington2949
@carrington2949 10 ай бұрын
What 😂😂😂
@wellthatgotweird
@wellthatgotweird 10 ай бұрын
Yep. Pearl is the worse kind of pick me..thats never picked. Also, i get the feeling her breath goes against the will of god. She's just a busted broad
@Victoria22-b5u
@Victoria22-b5u 10 ай бұрын
"She drives long haul"😂🤣😀
@ezy78667
@ezy78667 10 ай бұрын
They don't want pick me girls!! They want women they cant have!! So this is frustrating to them and bruises their ego, that's why they cannot sleep at night!
@feliciajenkins5041
@feliciajenkins5041 10 ай бұрын
He ain't lying. They can bask in each others delusional mentality and thin the herd.
@thejookking
@thejookking 10 ай бұрын
All the women actually agreeing with this nonsense are 304s with a body count higher than Covid with daddy issues. Let's see The pickmes marital and divorce stats vs you pickmenots.
@dragonslayer616
@dragonslayer616 10 ай бұрын
This is why I will never contort myself for a man. They don't know what they want 😂
@lilithd5220
@lilithd5220 9 ай бұрын
But but they have been driving the "women don't know what they want" bs. 😂
@maenad1231
@maenad1231 10 ай бұрын
Also notice Pearl couldn’t get the man she wanted if her life depended on it (she should of done the ring before spring thing while she was in university) and these KingBabies point to her as example but they also tell us not to listen to SingleWomen’s advice? Lmao No marriage, No engagement, No steady boyfriend. Unless she has a “f-buddy” she’s got nothing but that would still make her single. so I’ll gladly follow what they say and not take this single broad’s advice into my marriage. Pearl probably trapped herself into singledom though. If she got a man she actually would be expected to practice what she preaches 😂
@fantym-1
@fantym-1 10 ай бұрын
Should *have* . She should *have* done whatever. How very misogynistic to call a woman by the term "broad".
@laurennelson3918
@laurennelson3918 10 ай бұрын
Don’t call her a broad but yeah she kinda ruined her chances at ever getting married by trying to get a conservative man after having premarital intercourse and not following her own standards for what a good woman is.
@quanyenwashere
@quanyenwashere 10 ай бұрын
You know I’ve been debating whether he’s right or he’s right and I’ve decided he’s absolutely correct.
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
😂❤️❤️
@krisw.5025
@krisw.5025 9 ай бұрын
I beg to differ with the first young lady, in the blue top. Our grandmothers and great grandmothers were not “pick ME“, they just did not have access to what we have access to today. Some of the strongest, smartest, wisest, no nonsense women are our mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers.
@stilljocelyn_
@stilljocelyn_ 10 ай бұрын
He’s asking the questions that the ppl need answers to!!! 0:40
@randombooze
@randombooze 10 ай бұрын
Been needed 😂😂😂
@thejookking
@thejookking 10 ай бұрын
MY question is what does HIS woman look like and what's her personality??
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
This is that ah ha moment 🤔🧐
@BVEE-j3q
@BVEE-j3q 10 ай бұрын
The pick mes get picked but theyre gettung taken advantaged of and probably cheated on the whole marriage.
@zainabmutangiri9770
@zainabmutangiri9770 10 ай бұрын
This is WILD moral of the story always be you , do what you love for YOU not for anyone especially for a guy ‼️
@Thekenyattamusic
@Thekenyattamusic 10 ай бұрын
This explains why I’m always sought after for the things that I don’t want. I don’t want to cook and bare children and yet men will meet me and by the second date they are telling me how I will make a great mother. Yeah I know since I have 5 kids and a 15 year marriage and married at 18. I would like to enjoy life and pursue my passions, a partnership shouldn’t involve me sacrificing that to make you happy with food and babies and labor (free) at that. ❤
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 10 ай бұрын
Cooking is a basic life skills not a skill attachment to women
@genevieve7676
@genevieve7676 10 ай бұрын
Similar thing happened to me. Neighborhood creep still hit on me even though I rejected him and said I hate cooking and would have more fun being single.
@marinablackwell8055
@marinablackwell8055 10 ай бұрын
I often see in the comments of pick me girls, “I know you’ll be married one day” I think the main reason is let’s face it….. they aren’t the baddies. They are not the super model stunning women. I do think control is part of it. I have noticed if the pick me is HOT. She is rarely single but always disrespected and bounced around from relationship to relationship. “ always cheated on, always preferred but never cared for properly” And men and women that are healthy, would not touch either with a 10ft pole
@okimawilcox1550
@okimawilcox1550 9 ай бұрын
Even when they marry the pick me, They STAY in single womens bustiness! They say THEIR wife is the ideal and no one wants us. They never ask the wife how they feel about them in single womens conversation
@TheLoveBugz
@TheLoveBugz 10 ай бұрын
I didn’t know I was a pick me til I turned 19…men always treated me like I was second best…it wasn’t until I started setting boundaries and having standards that men from my past and men i met in passing treated me like I was a princess and I was priority even when I was being a complete bitch or my raging hormones
@tiagonthego
@tiagonthego 10 ай бұрын
That white man came, spoke facts and left🤣🤣
@soblessed3157
@soblessed3157 10 ай бұрын
I have been saying this, why are they not dating each other 😂😂😂
@alliem.182
@alliem.182 10 ай бұрын
I think they're all just narcissists looking for attention online. Narcissists don't put up with other narcissists. All of this dialogue about men 'should' be like this and women 'should' be like this ignores the fact that we are humans with distinct personalities and preferences, and that healthy relationships are based on love and secure attachment, not some kind of emotionally detached checklist with rules and expectations.
@originalmix2546
@originalmix2546 9 ай бұрын
💯💯💯👏🏻
@Solotv84
@Solotv84 10 ай бұрын
Beauty cost, submission cost to
@ChotsaniColeman
@ChotsaniColeman 10 ай бұрын
I didn't hear anything else he said after he referred to women as "BROADS." 😡
@kayshawnsimmons5585
@kayshawnsimmons5585 10 ай бұрын
The Incels have no respect or shame😒😑🤡🤛🏾
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa 10 ай бұрын
Why? It’s not an insult. It’s an east coast way of saying girls.
@who-arewe
@who-arewe 9 ай бұрын
​@@winxclubstellamusa It is an insult.
@Atlanta718
@Atlanta718 10 ай бұрын
Don't be an easy girl, instead be independent and focus on self care.
@theijeomalyons
@theijeomalyons 10 ай бұрын
Someone woke up and chose violence 😭😭😭
@Priscilla_Boye
@Priscilla_Boye 10 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@juned1719
@juned1719 10 ай бұрын
They hate themselves more than they hate anyone else.
@Monique-xz3jp
@Monique-xz3jp 10 ай бұрын
The pick me's and red pillers DEFINITELY should flock to EACH OTHER. I mean they rhink the same they have rhe same beliefs they admire each other so much so why not? I wish they would and just leave the rest of us alone 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
@akinazara
@akinazara 9 ай бұрын
Right lol
@moominmay
@moominmay 10 ай бұрын
Pearl is the poster girl for all things pick me but facts she doesn’t actually do what she preaches lol. According to her own beliefs she shouldn’t be competing with her male counterparts for social media podcasts. She also says ideal age for marriage is pre25 but she’s headed towards 30 and still insisting on going against her own rules of what makes the ‘ideal’ trad wife. She meets many people as part of her ‘job’ so why hasn’t she settled down with any of them?! Glad she’s finally being called out on her hypocritical behaviour 🙄
@fitthickchic6732
@fitthickchic6732 10 ай бұрын
Oh, and also she is presumably not a Virgin either. She probably met the dating conundrum. Rp guys want you to be a virgin, but in the dating world men expect sex if they are dating you. Rp men don't like women who date and have sex, then complain if women have standards (only have sex with 'Chad), have sex with this one but not that one for whatever reason, etc etc
@LorienzoDeGarcia
@LorienzoDeGarcia 10 ай бұрын
The 1st reply is 10000000% THANKYOU for speaking my mind!!
@Fatima-zs3mo
@Fatima-zs3mo 10 ай бұрын
And when men ask about my past/dating history i just say i grew up great, don’t deal with bs, and leave after first flag. So i see their tru self and cant use nun against me
@mandeanraje2300
@mandeanraje2300 10 ай бұрын
I been saying this. All the Cels need to get together too.
@rensii-e8b
@rensii-e8b 10 ай бұрын
Most men don’t want pickmes because if they did, most pickmes would be married. These men actually want the type of woman they mostly complain about and come up with online terms and strategies to try to get her to lower her standards for him. Most want that conventionally good looking girl that doesn’t want him. However, I do think lots of pickmes do get picked, but it’s either temporary or they get taken for granted big time. Just speaking in general terms. Healthy men and women do exist.
@girlbrittneygirl
@girlbrittneygirl 7 ай бұрын
A woman has no business lowering her standards for any man period!
@rensii-e8b
@rensii-e8b 7 ай бұрын
@@girlbrittneygirl period!
@roninboxers
@roninboxers 7 ай бұрын
No. It's because those podcaster men THINK they are alpha males. But their desperation and noise is so far from alpha its repulsive.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
@PettyIsMyMiddleName 10 ай бұрын
🤔 hmm My dad told me that in his youth especially 20s and 30s that the women ALWAYS did everything. He said he didn’t ask , he said they would buy him stuff , and basically wanted him to marry them . Marriage for women was frowned upon if wasn’t married by a certain age. He married my older half siblings mother , because really he was a decent country boy. I’m not saying that bc he’s my dad. They ended breaking up for personal reasons not because of him. Then , he met my mom. She was broke , living in the hood , had multiple baby daddies and he married her because he told me he didn’t want me to be a “bastard” so 3 months before I was born he married her. Long story short he went for the challenge bc she was hood AF and acted as such, and he brought her out of that to the surburbs. Men all over don’t truly want a PickMe, it’s all gaslighting.
@jadedlulz
@jadedlulz 10 ай бұрын
How I have prayed so long for this day when our dear queen pick me (pearl) will get asked this very question. Cos I was expecting one of the dudes from fresh and fit to slide into her dm already 😂
@LoveAndSnapple
@LoveAndSnapple 10 ай бұрын
That’s the most annoying thing I hate about social media. When somebody makes a video, it’s a snapshot into how they’re feeling and what’s going on in their life AT THE MOMENT. I have literally, LITERALLY, witnessed a man (who didn’t disrespect women, he was just in a bad place) evolve from an empty husk, a shadow of himself to a bright, successful KZbinr with a wife and child. Before social media, everyone just went through life and its many stages and we came out on the other end for better or for worse. Now videos make it seem as though things are always terrible and you can’t trust anybody. Watch how your favorite KZbinr will stand 10 toes down on a particular subject and when their life circumstances change, all of a sudden their content changes as well. Then you’re left looking stupid because you’re still in their old place and they’ve moved on. Some of these folks will talk incredibly nasty about women, and as soon as they find a woman who loves them and treats them right will start to slink back into the background, hoping nobody notices. Just a bunch of hurt people who refuse to relinquish us from the group chat.
@topazempress
@topazempress 10 ай бұрын
Yes all of this, that’s why I don’t follow nobody even the women.
@poetickellz8685
@poetickellz8685 10 ай бұрын
Omg!! That is such a good question, they to busy stalking and harassing folks that don't want to be bothered I'm wondering why they not attracted to each other 🍷
@theladynextdoor313
@theladynextdoor313 10 ай бұрын
Well he’s right. And Pearl is a grifter! Nothing more. And many of us see it 😂. Glad more people are calling it out.
@00st307-m
@00st307-m 2 ай бұрын
This is what I always thought while watching handmaids tale. Aunt Lydia + Serena Joy were sadistic hypocrites who made “rules for thee, but not for me”.
@ryancrawford7048
@ryancrawford7048 10 ай бұрын
Heavy on the they want a challenge. I’m a Chicago leftist yuppie feminist with tattoos who drinks and goes clubbing. I currently have a man who live in the middle of nowhere Michigan who wants me to move out to live with him and be a trad wife hyper Christian and homeschool his children when there’s literal women out there who want the trad wife lifestyle but he doesn’t find them attractive. He wants someone who doesn’t share the same beliefs as him to “capture” and make who he likes.
@girlbrittneygirl
@girlbrittneygirl 7 ай бұрын
Don't do it! If he's trying to change you, he's not the one for you.
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