The Most Insecure Podcast Ever

[@nateworthy530]

As a man who was a victim of abuse I can say it's ABSOLUTELY a reason to leave. If I didn't I would have been in jail for actually defending myself. As a man try calling the cops and tell them that your wife just hit you. You Are told to walk away.

[@YourMom_._]

Hey man, I'm genuinely sorry that you had to deal with this abuse. That is absolutely disgusting and vile. I know that this isn't much, but I genuinely hope that you will live an amazing life, bud. One day at a time bud.

[@SnakesBeSnaken]

I was just picturing the hundreds of examples I can just think of off the top of my head of wives who stabbed their husband's in their sleep (where the husband survived, luckily), or she decided to cut off their testicles/penis in their sleep. Being married means that spouse can now visit you in the hospital at anytime and has the legal right to do so for the rest of your life. This isn't even including all the assets and property they recieve after your passing as well. So if they ever get out they have full legal right to come live with you again or to stalk you. This isn't even including that if you do seperate, you would no longer be allowed to get married again, this abuse would loom over you forever, regardless of you were married for 20 years or 2 months. This silly man is literally asking to be murdered by his wife like it's the early 1900's when she no longer wants to be married, because that would literally be the only legal way to end the marriage and have full legal autonomy.

[@davidp2888]

Been there, had that happen to me as well. My ex-wife texted me "I will end you", which was barely acknowledged in the divorce proceedings. Had I sent the same message I'd probably still be in prison, simply because I'm a man. I hope things are better for you now.

[@umbrellacorp.]

My mother used to abuse me and my father badly for years. She was a Nasty drunk and the police did nothing. Abuse on men are always silent.

[@Recycledpart]

Been there too. Sent 5yrs hoping it'd get better even after she cut me, tried to kill me with a hammer and framed me for fraud. She told me no one else would ever want me and I believed her. Now I know better and have an amazing woman to share my life with.

[@ben-salami1]

Man, this is so painful to watch. My mom had breast cancer, and her husband would beat her with a pool stick because she was too tired to cook or clean. The guy saying to just endor has no idea how awful it is to be abused. Also, that was my mom's second marriage. Seeing my mom get abused by my step dad, me being abused by my step dad did more damage to my mental state than my mom divorcing my dad.

[@hazelmint6671]

Im sorry😔 Is your mom ok now? I agree, If abuse goes on in a household where kids are present, 100% it's gonna affect them worse than cheating. Those guys are freaking nutjobs

[@DustyJones1997BGCL]

What the fuck? That is terrible. I am so sorry about your mom bro. That is not right. I hope she's feeling better today. That is terrible😢

[@demolazer]

Agreed. They are utter wastes of oxygen

[@user_breathless]

That is so bad I’m so sorry. Abuse is not right and I can’t express how sad I am to hear this. Hearing these guys talk like abuse in any form is fine is just revolting and I’m sure an insult to you and what you’ve been through

[@flavortown6280]

Im so sorry you had to gor through that...

[@SilverDaggers83877]

I was not abused as a child, but my mother was (and I have heard the horrible stories). So, to hear this come out of their mouths genuinely disgusts me to no end. They need to get off the internet

[@NaishiYT]

Just because they said this one thing, doesn’t mean they’re bad people. Most of their podcast episodes are really good.

[@Ohfr_]

​​@@NaishiYTIf you hear a person say there is nothing wrong with raping someone, it's so rareee, I wouldn't want my daughter to be sexually abused, but I'll advocate for people or blantly tell someone that they need to endure it/it's a phase. It's over with now, there isn't anything wrong with someone who rapes others. You wouldn't label them as a bad person? That wouldn't indicate to you how selfish and twisted that individual is..especially when they broadcast it to over 100,000 people that could be influenced by what their saying? Sorry for the paragraph but that mentality is insane to me..

[@mother_prana]

@Miya a Because to the average sane person like you and me, we can hear the cognitive dissonance blaring loudly. That war, in their mind, is making them speak in fallacies.

[@mother_prana]

@딸기 키티 Ttalgi Kiti I tune in to the Podcast and I agree with you. They're not bad people. I think we're getting blinded by the fact that they're usually talking to people who would be considered degenerates to the rest of the world. That, to me, is why they read as smart and put together. Though, when someone comes on with their head screwed on right, it revealed their pseudo intellectualism. It's pseudo because of their inability to Understand what the other guy was saying just because he has blue hair and more liberal than them. I just hope that they would learn from this Podcast that you can't debate someone based on how you feel. Even if the whole room agrees on your feeling, it's not a fact. It only makes you look foolish in the end.

[@misixo2471]

ikr,bet they grew up in a loving family yet they have the nerve to talk

[@ZeeNastee]

My mother severely abused me as a child, to the point that I was taken away from her at 13 because she tried to kill me with a knife. I am NOT going to be in an abusive relationship again. No. I don't deserve that.

[@theseductivedemon3188]

Are you ok

[@nidhibagari3250]

I hope that you are doing good now and I pray that God brings someone into your life who gives you all the love that you deserve, someone who is safe and calm and peaceful. I pray you healing

[@lenaaaaaaaa78]

I hope youre doing better now❤❤❤

[@POCKBA]

❤

[@Princeofgames37]

💯💯💯

[@Scareth]

"Divorce doesn't exist" "What if a woman cheats, should they divorce?" "Absolutely" These nuts

[@crf1096]

That’s what happens when you base your entire life around a book full of sexism when you take it literally

[@Boss-ot1iy]

​@@crf1096what book is that?

[@ArmageddonEvil]

I feel like these guys are specifically in the category of, 'I want to abuse my wife, but no women will date me or marry me.'

[@ThePresidentialBafoons]

Yep

[@ilikegirls6891]

they dont want a wife they want a block of clay to mold and build to fit their desires and needs

[@user_breathless]

Yeah…

[@jayman6151]

How is this I have a wife and cherish and worship her but watch this show? We have an amazing marriage even after kids we are still stronger than ever. You can observe reality dude just cus someone said something doesn’t mean the podcast always agrees.

[@derpyshmerpy3085]

I bet they grew up in a non-abusive household and where their parents spoiled them too much as well because the way they explain abuse is far from it

[@somerandomcoolguy7416]

1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some sort of domestic abuse/violence/stalking in their life. Yeah, so rare.

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

You are correct. I've been abused in a few relationships, and I know other women and men who have been abused by their former partners as well. Even if you don't consider the wider scope of things...consider your immediate contacts. These men have no idea how debilitating abuse can be, in any form. Endure abuse?? Nononono!! "It was a phase" is such a toxic thing to proclaim.

[@frickfrack7075]

​@@absolutelyridiculous6743abuse is NEVER a "phase".

[@KOmyself]

⁠@@winning3329 this one sustained a head injury as a baby

[@yeetuh]

​@winning3329 but the female perpetrator can manipulate the male victim, no? if you're degrading men and thinking that they can't be victims, then you're a disgusting human being. ❤

[@jimmycarburator2012]

Stand up for yourself sissy. YOU become the abuser, stay toxic

[@pastor_pug]

"Divorce isn't a real thing" I think he's in denial

[@chalnervassor9430]

These clowns don't realize that cheating is a type of abuse: the abuse of trust. All of it is grounds for divorce.

[@tatiana4050]

"divorce isnt a real thing" until the woman cheats then he immiedietely shifts

[@VampireWytch]

He probably has a failed marriage in the closet lol

[@NaishiYT]

No, he’s just saying the truth that you people don’t want to accept

[@Thetb93]

@@tatiana4050 but if she cheats it is execution. so untill death...

[@jasongarland8279]

the passage about "marital unfaithfulness" meaning just "cheating" is actually misunderstood, when I got married I promised to love and care/protect my wife if I abuse her that IS NOT LOVING HER in that case I am being unfaithful to my wife and the same is the other way around, should we try to work it out with counselling? Yes BUT if we are in physical danger then we should leave

[@earlgreygirl3404]

You restore my faith in men 🙂

[@mackenziebrown4557]

Them thinking abuse is “so rare” almost as if it’s like 1 in a 100 million people are abusive

[@kp2223]

It's like there missing the part of their brain that can do math . If they had that little section, they would know That 25% of divorces are due to domestic violence.

[@ReynTheFreak]

The guys with abuse: oh nah, divorce isn't even real! Just sit there and endure it! The guys with cheating: divorce! I don't care what's happening, divorce right away!

[@peztopher7297]

And what does 'endure' mean here? Keep getting beat up? Keep watching your children and maybe even your dog get beat up? What about sexual abuse? Just keep 'enduring' it? Keep listening to someone trash, demean, and devalue you? In fact, these guys arguing for enduring it are actually abusive and abuse enablers. They are saying the same things abusers say.

[@Chaerlette]

These clowns smh

[@roreo1612]

Exactly what Muslim men think. It’s ok if they cheat but lord forbid a wife show some forearm

[@femkefeenstra7754]

I wonder what they would've said if there was asked: 'what if the man cheated on the woman?'

[@roreo1612]

@@femkefeenstra7754 they usually say its ok because women care about financial security more. but when you ask them for a fair trade, women's loyalty for 100% of thier assets and income they retract saying: no ! Don't you women care about a man's loyalty too? you literally can't win

[@chalnervassor9430]

These clowns don't realize that cheating is a type of abuse: the abuse of trust. All of it is grounds for divorce.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Men like these want to change divorce laws to make it so you need a "reason" for a divorce. This is scary because as these guys themselves say, they're essentially saying that there is no reason for a divorce except for the woman cheating.

[@dragonking2719]

Abuse comes in so many forms

[@andieallison6792]

But only if the woman is cheating on the man not the other way around lmfao I've never wished that I could be able to punch someone through the internet until now

[@DogFish-NZ]

just go to church and believe that the sky wizard made man, made women from a rib , apple sends them to earth , magic man made everything in the dark made light at the end , angry great wizard in the sky killed everyone on earth except for one family on a boat and we all come from incest , twice . but incest is bad . believe all of that and then you won't worry about cheating or abuse. you will be mentally happy. no reason to question anything .

[@bobbob1278]

​@@DogFish-NZ Pretty sure the bible is metaphorical for the most part.

[@Raxi3]

This podcast is what happens when you put 0 points into intelligence.

[@lynn7597]

made me chuckle ngl

[@weaselwovel]

Most accurate description of it.

[@graydondombowsky1337]

Agreed. You can feel your IQ points decreasing listening to these doofuses

[@1VIP1daniel1VIP1]

And all the points in luck.

[@Kenny-o6i]

And that’s on both sides. The women they bring on the podcast are usually idiots and that’s what gets them a lot of views if you watch the videos, but so are the guys running the podcast.

[@TomikaKelly]

"Endure" my ass. My Dad ain't raise no fool and Jesus didn't didn't command me to be one either. 💅🏾

[@lemon-s5l]

PERIOD

[@ryukami404]

These guys sound like they're the type that WANT to be able to be abusive pieces of shit and get away with it because that's how "real men" should act

[@rawsoundscreation1278]

Religious guy here, we do not claim them.

[@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod]

Amen. Remember that there are fake Christians and other religious people! Liars come in all situations.

[@Crazy_Broke_Asian]

“Religious”

[@rawsoundscreation1278]

@Crazy_Broke_Asian I was sleepy man cut me a break 😂

[@boopdoop2251]

As a Christian - a very unfortunately popular pastor, John Piper, probably would. John has literally told women to “endure being slapped around” for a night and go to the church for help (instead of telling women to go to the police). Another unfortunately popular pastor, John McArthur, excommunicated and publicly shamed a woman for divorcing her abusive pedophile of a husband. There are many pastors and Christian’s who actually stand up against abuse, but it is a shame that there are so many pastors and leaders within Christianity that abuse Scripture to keep women in abusive relationships, and many sections of Christianity have a lot of wrong, sexist Scriptural beliefs revolving around women that enables these beliefs.

[@rawsoundscreation1278]

@boopdoop2251 yeah that's true, but the ones doing that are not following or misinterpreting scripture pretty hard

[@Jenn-ie5vf]

The guy in the suit looks the type to abuse his wife and excuse his behavior by saying it's "just a phase"

[@p.h.i.lcongure9168]

I think he was actually charged with assaulting a woman

[@C87-q9j]

​@@p.h.i.lcongure9168I think he glassed a woman yeah

[@Eyrie007]

Nah, he'd tell the woman it was her fault.

[@radioactivegum2298]

He assaulted a woman who rejected him at a bar so yeah

[@Liam-o6g2s]

​@radioactiblame god vegum2298

[@striker7983]

I love how everyone on the other side of the table and the girls behind them just look absolutely disappointed in them

[@peztopher7297]

I'm not so sure about the women behind the anti-divorce team. They don't get to talk--and are relegated to the back row--so we don't really know.

[@ajpgofacoconut6191]

the one in the helmet looks like she worked hard and now she's there

[@boopdoop2251]

It says everything that the women are behind them and don’t get to share their opinions.

[@Mollexi]

The blonde girl actually excused this and said “everyone took this way out of proportion” in another podcast when this clip was mentioned. She’s a living pick-me girl

[@greenbean1591]

My brain cells will eventually go on strike if I keep exposing them to garbage podcasts like this

[@umbrellacorp.]

I am getting a migraine.🥴.... 😭

[@NightcoreandAnimeVideos]

There are some good youtube channels like Academy of ideas and institute of biology. Listen to those on your commute and learn a thing or 2 instead of Listen trash like whatever. Helped me a lot

[@3_LollipopOfTheMoldiKind]

DON'T GO GIVING MY BRAIN CELLS IDEAS LIKE THAT

[@mathmanchris666]

you can even see the asian girl in the background continuously roll her eyes lol

[@catnip11]

@@mathmanchris666 i would look at her then suddenly realize that im making the same faces lmfaoo

[@kathylivedinthe80s14]

I feel sorry for whoever gets into relationships with any of these guys.

[@amysworld5521]

Also when they sat this openly and a women is with then omg the biggest pick mes ever they pick me habit will bring their own dath

[@kyle1758]

Ironically women that do might only find out who they really are when they're already in too deep and may find themselves in an abusive relationship.

[@devinsapelli3814]

So you feel sorry for no one cuz no woman is getting within 2 feet of these dudes😅

[@amysworld5521]

@@kyle1758 yes its true

[@Liam-o6g2s]

Because they are all secret gay's​@@devinsapelli3814

[@sc0ner783]

6 incels with no girlfriends or wives giving dating advice. It's a brilliant premise, do the opposite of everything they say and you'll end up in a happy healthy and successful relationship.

[@helixmoore7636]

Knowland Knows is one to follow instead

[@Pun1sherTV]

Do you need to have a girlfriend to give dating advice?

[@spectralgamer5474]

​@@Pun1sherTV well i think yes or atleast it help more cause you got "experience" you feel me?

[@Pun1sherTV]

@@spectralgamer5474 You need experience, but not having a current girlfriend and most of them had a girlfriend, so keep crying and support this 304 ladies, so maybe one day they will sleep with you or they will give you free OnlyFans for 1 month.

[@chaf1067]

​@@Pun1sherTV if anything, your opinion is based on two things 1.Your perception and logic 2.Your experience Everyone has the first thing and its different from one to another. So advice is better from someone who has the second thing It might still be a bad advice if the first thing is bad Aswell. So search for both I'll say (by experience, you must at least be closely around relationships if not in one yourself)

[@jexxer]

You know what? Yeah! Let's outlaw divorce and go back to the good old days where abused women could slip oleander into their husband's booze or lose them to tragic "accidents," and all the neighbors and townsfolk would just nod knowingly and say, "God rest his soul, but the man brought it on himself."

[@atlasthewolf1508]

I’m about to make an oleander sage tea after watching this video.

[@PenguinStudios02]

Ah yes, *vehicular manslaughter*

[@berrymint6384]

@@PenguinStudios02 What? have you missed the whole point of the comment? Poison an BUSER! What empathy and WHAT "mans"slaughter. That THING was no "man" Monsters/demons does not count.

[@ijbermudez5785]

Lol that goes both ways

[@sitaratruemusic]

“Women need to just endure” “Well what if a man’s getting cheated on” “divorce.” they activated her trap card omg 😭

[@Gchildwarrior]

They should be sent to the shadow realm!

[@VictorianCatLady]

One of them said crucifixion to a woman cheating. Like wooooow dude, just wow.

[@ManoraManYT]

@@VictorianCatLadyWhat the heck is wrong with these people

[@Keallz911]

​@@ManoraManYT a lot

[@HandsomeFrogman]

Luckily they are too stupid to realize they’d been trapped

[@absolutelytiffany]

Domestic abuse is higher than these guys think, it’s not always talked about openly that their spouse is abusing them. I once stayed in a domestic abuse shelter and the amount of people going in and out opened my eyes to how much abuse is really going on. These guys need to get a reality check.

[@sweetlemonade6925]

Yup the number one cause of death among women is femicide (spousal/relationship abuse)!!! It’s deffo very common and VERY fatal!

[@Mahmood42978]

An anecdotal experience wouldn't imply the degree which something happens.

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

Mahmood, sweetheart, if someone is watching how fast and voluminous to churn in domestic abuse center is? Then that is not just individual anecdote. That is statistical data. Sorry to pop your little misogynist loser bubble. LOL

[@RR-et6zp]

1. No it’s not 2. girls call that when they hear something they don’t like lol 3. 80% of reported cases are false and initiated by women

[@STR0BEV]

⁠@@Mahmood42978they alresdy said in the video 25% of women in the US are abused. Children are 1 in 7. wtf u on about

[@kyote1089]

And once his "daughter's husband" recovers from these so called "lessons", guess who's gonna pay for it tenfold!?! The daughter/wife! These guys are blaming the woman for "not enduring" the abuse. They obviously have ZERO clue how F'N hard it is for a woman to leave such a situation and how many women lose their lives, or come close too, in an attempt to save themselves and any children. As a SURVIVOR myself, this whole podcast infuriates me. I still remember the last time, as I lay at the bottom of the stairs (after he dragged me down by my throat on my back) and he climbed on me, he wrapped his one hand around my throat again as he held the scalpel in the other hand; I knew that that would be the end... I had very little fight in me anymore after hours of trying to leave. BY THE GRACE OF GOD, a friend happened to stop by, which saved my life! Due to this happening at the beginning of COVID, and his ability to get continuance after continuance, he never spent a night in jail! He got 3 mths house arrest, 1 mth curfew, and 18 mths probation. _My heart breaks for the next girl he meets!_ I wish I had some way to warn them, because I wasn't the first, nor will I be the last! 😢

[@nothinghere-x5y]

"Husband cheats AND beats" "Meh,deal with it" "Wife cheats" "DIVORCEE!!!" Boy math

[@themofoshow1244]

Why marry someone who abuses you? That's not love. Marriage should be built on love. So explain that? If that man or women won't see their horrible ways then leave. I see no problem with that.

[@SchnookieC]

I think the worst part is that during these unhinged rants devoid of any real logic, they're getting ENORMOUS donations, people are listening to what he's saying and are actually agreeing... what level of echo chamber is this

[@edgarnello9165]

Thissss!!! If these were the only idiots id be fine with it but they have millions of views/fans most likely teenage boys 😬😬😬

[@nickquinn2932]

Religion.

[@alexisdogbo7958]

The fact that there was a feminist agreeing and donating is …sad

[@catscanhavelittleasalami]

meh, most donations are from incels using their mom's money or SSI. I'm not too worried.

[@painunending4610]

Most places nowadays are echo chambers. This comment section is an echo chamber really

[@panqueque445]

I love how all these podcasts bring women just to talk over them and tell them to shut up the second they dare to push back on their delusions.

[@NaishiYT]

They bring women on the podcast to enlighten them because these women are the delusional ones. Have you ever even watched their podcast?

[@LaserPorcine]

Your podcasts are not round enough kzbin.info/www/bejne/l2LXdINunL-Nd8U

[@johnwilliamson8556]

Then after they tell them to shut up they high five each other like they won the argument. I have seen clips of these guys for a while now and its shocking they have an actual fanbase that listens and believes this crap.

[@1Guason3]

​@John Williamson like any channel, there's garbage content in them. Won't say I agree with everything they have but sometimes they have hits.

[@mitski_enjoyer_123]

so glad people are finally acknowledging how goofy this podcast was, i never liked them

[@connorsublette719]

This infuriates me. As a practicing Christian and as someone who has and does struggle with mental illness, I find it despicable to say that “99% of my issues will go away” - that’s not how it works.

[@sparkypikachu7776]

Seriously like that rly made me mad

[@TaylorTheHater]

"I refuse your reality and substitute my own"

[@themodfather9382]

Reddit brain disorder is a serious problem

[@Rossenfolds]

I actually know a family where the husband was alcoholic and used to beat his wife and his kid. Fast forward 10 years, his wife is mentally unstable, son fell into wrong crowd and got addicted to drugs, and husband is realizing his mistake turning to turn his life around for his son. Abusive relationship are bad for your family. Leave if you can.

[@5iverse]

I 'endured' in an abusive relationship for years, and my first wake-up call was my best friend. He just silently linked me an article on "how to tell if youre in an abusive relationship". My nurse practitioner gave me a pamphlet of resources for people in abusive relationships. No one judged me, no one argued with me about my experiences because they knew I would have every excuse on why it wasn't true. I was given resources and the idea that I *could* leave if I wanted to... and that's how I was able to leave. If I heard this stupid fucking podcast while I was in my relationship, it would have made it even harder to leave. In essence: these guys can go to hell.

[@Ruhrohraggy23345]

Godbless your soul. Im happy you survived. Remember you’re loved !

[@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod]

No one wants to go to hell, but I understand why you'd say this. Jesus Christ is the only one who can help you with this situation.

[@j2bigd590]

How could you not tell it was abusive? This question is from a good place btw, I genuinely want to learn more about it and I don’t want to offend by asking

[@epicrotfl7017]

@@j2bigd590not to speak on the other person’s behalf, but it’s usually because these types of relationships are gradual traps. The abuser is super loving at the beginning but over time begins to separate the victim from their other relationships, and then they stop being as loving and convince the victim that it’s their fault that things aren’t like they used to be. It’s the same tactic used by cults to bring in new members.

[@samjonesi2658]

"I'll just teach by hypothetical son-in-law a lesson." As someone whose girlfriend's father recently passed away, you're not always going to be there for your daughter. Which is why you want her to be with someone who isn't a POS who beats her.

[@JaredJonesAZ]

Also abusers can very easily geographically isolate their spouse or silence them with threats or brainwashing

[@inimmz]

as a victim of abuse i wish i had the option to leave. unfortunately i couldnt leave my moms house for 18 yrs, these types of people are absolutely fucking insane 🤞 edit: i tried to unalive myself multiple times to get out of the situation because i simply could not "endure" it so saying one person endured therefore everyone should be able to is such bs. its not my fault i was in that situation and its not my fault i wasnt "strong enough" to "endure" it

[@ArtTheCreature]

I 100% agree with you. Glad you’re still here, broski

[@inimmz]

@@ArtTheCreature thanks bro

[@StoicScape219]

When I saw “unalive” I was thinking “an hero” simultaneously 😅 but yeah abuse isn’t tolerable. These people are psychopaths

[@Vaipae.50]

Cps is a thing

[@inimmz]

@@Vaipae.50 cps is useless, they usually return children to dangerous living environments making things worse

[@wesaaron6618]

Enduring abuse? People end up dead from that kind of advice. Enduring only emboldens and enables the abuser. That's like saying it's a phase and they'll get over it. Oh... They actually went there?!

[@RustySpoon2280]

As a kid (14) who was abused until 9 when me my siblings and mother moved away the endure thing is bullshit because if we did my mom would be dead and I would probably be as well. I was lucky to get away with ptsd and nothing else. But this argument pisses me tf off

[@umbrellacorp.]

Yeah, well my mother used to abuse me and my father a lot. I grew up with my mother abusing me and my father badly and she was a drunk. I know she would of attacked and poisoned me and my father because she hated us. She wished I was dead. When I got married she verbally attacked my wife and sweared at my kids. My mother hated my children for no reason. Women do abuse men and children. So I am glad my dad divorced that nasty woman. 😎👍💯

[@OhPhuckYou]

Sorry you had to put up with that shit as a child, but luckily you now have the chance to raise your children the way you wished you were.

[@crinklyonion1410]

I swear I see you in every comment section. We must watch the same videos.

[@umbrellacorp.]

@@OhPhuckYou Thank you so much, yeah my wife and I have been together 17yrs now and our lives are so much better now. But it hasn't been easy for my father to start a new life tho. I am currently trying to help and support him. 👍💯

[@umbrellacorp.]

@@crinklyonion1410 Who me?... Cool.😎👍💯 August makes great content to relax and watch. I hope to see you in his next videos. 😄👍

[@sheridanvance7426]

I'm so sorry that you had to suffer that as a child

[@M3taComet]

As a person who had a mother in a Physically Abusive relationship, I absolutely believe you should leave the relationship and get the divorce. Because (unsure if this is how it is for others) people who defend themselves in abusive relationships often go to prison. Physical Abuse and Cheating isn’t okay, neither are socially acceptable. But Physical Abuse is much much worse. It’s the fact they said Cheating is when you can leave but not Physical Abuse.

[@adamssamantha96]

This reminds me of when someone made a dating app for alpha men and alpha seeking women and only men joined. And then the men were so delusional they insisted the app was broken.

[@berrymint6384]

loool justice

[@XTotter5505]

I couldn’t focus on the video because I just kept looking at the background, there’s the person with pink hair who does next to nothing and looks into the void, and there’s the other girl with the damn Kaiser hat and doing the strangers facial reactions, also what is happening with the cups on the table

[@Don_Ratski]

I was looking for someone who addressed the pickelhaube. I haven't seen this podcast, nor do I want to, but I have seen the Hearts of Iron 4 and Alternate History communities. People wearing pickelhaubes is very rarely a good sign. She is probably a Kaiserboo.

[@cyberrick130]

I don't think these men should legally be allowed to date.

[@abandonedruin]

Or reproduce.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

These podcasts scare me. These people really believe that I am less of a person just because I am a woman. They want me to suffer

[@edgarnello9165]

Honestly. This rhetoric is growing more and more and it scares me for the future of society 😔

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

It's horrible! And the scariest thing to me is that so many girls believe that they need to believe it or else they're some feminist bitch who is unworthy of love. And there is nothing wrong with being a feminist or standing up for yourself

[@honkingantalope]

@@rosesweetcharlotte feminist let me guess you're alone.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

@@honkingantalope And...? I'm fine being alone. I can live with that. Especially after a video like this.

[@CHIMI365]

​@@rosesweetcharlotte he's just some snowflake, don't pay him any mind.

[@vic_biologist]

Nothing bad will happen if you accidentally drop your children on their heads The children:

[@somebloke.]

These guys wish the 1950's would come back so bad.

[@noahpehowic6080]

Unfortunately, they're succeeding in doing so by voting in politicians who are religious extremists that wish to base our laws off of religious beliefs. It's terrifying to watch the US turn into a patriarchal theocracy -- 2024 may very well be the last time we have an election.

[@somebloke.]

@@noahpehowic6080 bit too much CNN huh?

[@Hath.0]

​@@noahpehowic6080....yeah politicians are all puritans and the whitehouse looks like a scene from the handmaids tale. Hahahaha

[@clydecash5659]

@somebloke You sound like the kind of person he is trying to warn us about.

[@AN474-e1o]

Divorce wasn't illegal in the 1950s. These guys want to go back to the middle ages.

[@JeremyPeeples]

Seeing this kind of mentality in the modern era is so sad. My mother was beaten and raped by my father and it took him wanting us both dead for her to leave him with $5 in gas from a church and the ability to rebuild her life in VA thanks to her father

[@manda_musings8459]

😢 how awful. So sorry ❤

[@silverserpent420]

If that dude that was doubling down on abuse is married, poor woman.

[@Lacroyx_Harris]

I love that everyone decided to bash these people all at once. These goobers have had access to the internet for far too long 💀

[@brooystartdtp]

@Gurtius Maximus ❄❄❄❄❄❄

[@penguine3250]

@gurtiusmaximus3429 don't think they asked

[@YourMom_._]

​@Gurtius Maximus stop dick riding these people Gurtie

[@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom]

@Gurtius Maximus no. one. asked.

[@chalnervassor9430]

should be psychological exam to be on here. too many clowns.

[@snekwithatophat]

We love men that pretend to be tough and a lady magnet to cover up the fact they’re insecure and have no relationship to enjoy and talk bad about women while there’s women RIGHT next to them 🙃 Edit-I’m sorry to anyone that responded to that first comment, 😔

[@DarkDyllon]

not to defend them, but the majority of men on these type of podcasts have made it in life, they don't need to care anymore, they can get women left right and center. it's generally the women not understanding how men think, then gets offended when a man tells them how men think of a woman sleeping with for example 50 people. the same for the other podcast (can't remember the name) generally sort of succesful men and women, but the difference is that the men that sit there have their wealth from hard work and will continue that wealth, while the others are gold diggers/only fans whores.

[@riyoszu]

@@DarkDyllon it’s a vicious cycle but yes the men on these podcasts are successful and accomplish even if they’re scumbags (some) they are still accomplished in life while the females 99.99% are whores and only fans girls literally not a single girl with a respectable career comes on these podcasts and of course there’s hard opinions unpopular ones all meant to cause reactions and shock so that people can go out and make videos like this one

[@TheJinx64]

@@DarkDyllon “not defending them” proceeds to defend them

[@CrisIvan]

​@@DarkDyllon Oops misogynistic abuser supporter spotted

[@Ohfr_]

​​@DarkDyllon Funny thing is, those same successful men go after or entertain the gold diggers/only fans women they talk about..

[@TheKorfish]

😂Them "I'm not asking you to stay in a relationship and get the shit kicked out of you." Also them "Endure!"

[@cashwalk7253]

I got so confused after he Said that. 😅

[@fantasea114]

They're just outing themselves as wife beaters, honestly

[@immortalirx]

And here I was thinking only Muslims would do that

[@Miss.M-ho5xh]

As a Muslim, I assure you that anyone who's beating their wife automatically does not belong to our religion anymore. If you wrong other people, it's not a sin that God forgives. You must seek the forgiveness of those you did wrong. I literally don't even use my sister's phone to check the time when she's not around and I can't get her permission to do so because I'm afraid she might not be okay with me doing that so how can it be possible that me and somebody who abuses the person the share such a sacred bond with are following the same general ethics? Please don't spread hate twoards us in the world just because some people are throwing the term "Muslim" around carelessly.

[@nestorsifuentesaguirre2722]

@@Miss.M-ho5xh Too late. As a God Killer Vegito supporter I would sell red pillers to Vegito so that no one plays God like a Muslim does. Or what?? Would you like someone to be on the same hell as Vegito because some religion says so???

[@Liam-o6g2s]

They need to be taught a lesson

[@generallyuseless5821]

These podcasts are extremely ridiculous and misogynistic. It always annoys me how every time the men talk, the women actually listen and bring up a counterargument. But when the women talk, the men are attacking the validity of her point and not responding to the point itself. And keep interrupting, laughing, and talking over her. Not to mention how every one of their opinions are in mens favor. Women are abused more often but should stay in abusive relationships. But if a woman cheats, which by all means is a form of abuse, the men should leave? Then saying people should adhere to their religous beleifs on divorce and not their own beleifs. Their not saying divorce shouldn't happen. Their saying women should have to stay with their husbands, whether they want to or not.

[@JayTCU]

People start a podcast and think their bullshit sounds better somehow. It’s fascinating really

[@peztopher7297]

The phenomenon is fascinating. Not the podcasts. Let them just think it but not subject us to it.

[@noahpehowic6080]

The scary part is that it spreads and makes its way into dangerous laws that negatively affect millions of people.

[@ishfarahmed3684]

Funny thing is before this podcast, whatever was a prank channel. Ik cuz I watched the guy on the left (Brian) do pranks and social experiments when I was in high school. Seeing all these pranksters nowadays and the directions their lives have all taken like whatever, fouseyTUBE, VitalyZDTV, Jack Denmo, Sam Pepper, etc. just shows that they r only in it for the money and will do whatever it takes to get clout and attention and have zero moral compass. That is y they resort to the future bs ventures that they get themselves into tbh cuz they’re profitable and they all have zero moral compass.

[@JoesGuy]

The Majority Report comes to mind.....

[@RR-et6zp]

@@noahpehowic6080they are just speaking facts

[@WobblesandBean]

I love how the token woman they chose to "legitimize" their atrocious views is the smallest, meekest, quietest Pick Me ever.

[@anne-claudec9405]

Absolutely ! A couple of mute token wallflowers. After all, that must be how God wants women to behave 😉

[@areswalker5647]

I would just love to go there and tell those women "please blink twice if you need to get away right now" or "honey come with me we're going to therapy", that's the kind of feeling i get whenever i see and listen to women in these kind of toxic podcasts; they either look like kidnapped people or women brainwashed by abuse in their lives.

[@janetblake6361]

They have teenagers back there all silent lik3 wtf

[@user-ju6zx3rm8d]

@@janetblake6361 they are adults, look again

[@caseycurry7491]

Saw the title, listened to the first 3-5 seconds, paused it, told my wife "there are actual human breathing people that think it should be illegal for a woman to initiate a divorce." And then finished the video. Loving that August and I were in the same headspace for a second. :-)

[@mrtrollnator123]

Hope you guys are having a great relationship together 😊

[@noahpehowic6080]

The scary part is, these guys ARE real. And a LOT of people -- especially religious men with a fragile masculinity and fragile ego -- watch these podcasts and agree with these extremists. Their dangerously sexist, patriarchal, religious extremist views are real, and many people in America follow them. These are many of the people make up the GOP, and we're leaning towards a patriarchal theocracy because of this.

[@Rudolf215]

Only those with the intelligence low os squid follows these podcasters lmao

[@AncientCreature-i2o]

That entire room contains the brain power of a fungus gnat.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

What an insult! Fungus gnats are _much_ better people than these guys.

[@diva6148]

My father beat my mom and my mom went to our family pastor with the bruises on her. (This was back in the late 80s/early 90s). The pastor encouraged my mother to take my brothers and I and LEAVE. My father hadn't been going to church. My father cheated on my mom and he'd blamed my mother for a lot of things. Not to mention, my father's penchant for lying. So... yeah whatever pot of chicanery these dopes are trying to sell? Don't buy it. I'm currently in therapy once a week to sort out the muck that is the traumatic life I've lived. Save yourselves and future offspring the pain. Don't stick around in a relationship with an abusive human.

[@jannelthompson4396]

7:27 "needle in the baby's eyesocket" he got wayyyy too specific in that. To the point where i went 🤨🫢 lowkeyyy hes thought of this before

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I also thought that was oddly specific. Dude's been having that fantasy for a while, hasn't he?

[@SlimTheBugGuy]

Second hand embarrassment

[@Cutiecreep4468]

As someone who is almost a courtroom divorce lawyer, NO JUST NO, there are so many reasons for divorce

[@tieamatzen2174]

It’s a very dangerous thing to be telling people to stay in abusive relationships. When that is a lot of the time what ends up getting people killed.

[@silence_dais]

The argument that "getting right with God" as the end all be all for serious questions is such horseshit. As a Christian im disgusted by guys who deny reality while pretending to be holier than thou with this ridiculous notion that God wants people to suffer just because itll make them better people. God doesnt want you to suffer, he wants you to find help, leave bad situations, and then help.others see that they dont have to stay in situations where theyre getting abused and that its better to move on with a healthier life.

[@mickeymacspudwells5937]

As another Christian I completely agree

[@xinf3ctdx]

God doesn’t want anything because he isn’t real. I’m honestly disgusted when one group of pretenders act all offended when another group of pretenders aren’t playing pretend in the exact same way as them. It’s all bullshit. If they want to believe that God is a sadist, then who are you to try and tell them that they can’t? You’ll tolerate other religious beliefs, but THIS is where you get disgusted?

[@DustyJones1997BGCL]

I'm an atheist and at one point In my I actually respected all religions but as of right now i just don't. I think religion is really harmful. You can say that you want to have it your way, but I feel like there's a reason why religion needs to be banned and it needs to just fade away. If people just had their own minds of thinking with our religion, we wouldn't have this problem.

[@Carolinefdq]

​@@DustyJones1997BGCL a really dumb comment considering the vast majority of the world jas religious/spiritual beliefs. Also, moat Christian denominations do not condone abuse. It's only these clowns who twist Scripture to suit their own narrative and to give off this holier-than-thou attitude. Any reasonable church leader worth his/her salt would tell a person in an abusive marriage to pack up their bags and leave.

[@Carolinefdq]

​@@xinf3ctdx do you feel better after that tantrum? 🥴

[@twitchert91]

I believe that some of them are abusive themselves. Why else would anyone encourage a person to endure abuse for the sake of a “relationship” but understand the concept that they wouldn’t let their daughters experience the same abuse. Which means they have a conscious idea of how morally incorrect the actions are but dgaf as long as it’s not their child. 😕

[@Ithaca-vv5dy]

Actually the MLD guy on this panel is very physically abusive

[@ryukami404]

Oh they're definitely the type of people to be abusive to anyone and feel like they should be allowed to get away with it because they don't want to face any sort of responsibility. I really hate that I am the same gender as these "men"

[@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom]

Make AugustTheDuck the president of the USA. Make it happen, people.

[@lampenjoyer69]

August T. Duck 2024

[@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom]

@@lampenjoyer69 yes. We have a voter

[@brandon1bolhuis]

@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom you’ve got two

[@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom]

@@brandon1bolhuis awesome

[@CastIe.Brav0]

​@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom Another voter for August here!

[@Nana-cj9dv]

A guy beating his wife: “well.. eh um nahhh” A wife cheating: “LEAVE”

[@cashwalk7253]

“The abuse is just a phase.” I’m sure the dead victims of marital abuse will rejoice…

[@AwfullWaffle]

Charlie covered this with almost the same title and I skipped it. August covers it and I click right away. Guess I’m beginning to prefer ducks over penguins.😂

[@WildKardRuss]

Golden comment👌👌

[@ash-pr7zj]

i love ducks and penguinz

[@krisweirdo2194]

As someone who grew up in an abusive household it is so frustrating to watch this. I WISH my dad would divorce the abuser. This kind of mindset pisses me off SO MUCH

[@Ameliabones687]

I had to click off this video out of pure rage. I'm leaving a comment so the algorithm knows that I love your channel. Keep exposing the scum-of-the-earth, August. We love you.

[@Ukiby3000]

I couldn't finish the video either, it just made me so angry by like the second...

[@GirlYouDontKnow-rx3lm]

I couldn't finish the video either. I could virtually feel my blood boiling hotter with every second.

[@malevolentsnow9867]

I just started reading comments so I couldn’t focus on the video, but it kept playing😂 The fact those kinda of men actually exist cause me physical pain.

[@soulfuzz368]

@@GirlYouDontKnow-rx3lmthe propaganda is working. Content creators want you mad because it makes them rich, the dudes in the podcast and the creator of this channel work together to make you miserable

[@GirlYouDontKnow-rx3lm]

@@soulfuzz368 You are absolutely right. It's best for everyone not to engage with these people

[@infiniteshay8660]

My dad used to beat the crap out of me my siblings and my mom. He got over it when I was 10 but I spent a decade being terrified of him and i still get paranoid that I'm doing something wrong at any point in time. She should have left him.

[@demon10205]

There is a huge difference between enduring through normal and healthy problems in a relationship and toxic and abusive problems.

[@tatiana4050]

6:15 cause they dont consider most of it abuse. they dismiss cases where "husband sometimes gets drunk and hits his wife" as just a normal thing and not abuse. They go with "it isnt real abuse"

[@VampireWytch]

I appreciate how young you are and yet still have the mature mindset to be able to see this kind of talk for what it is...absolute insanity! Thank you for putting out these videos and pointing out what many of us wish more people understood. As a mom I try to make sure my teenagers are aware like you clearly are; but some of the other humans in the world make me fearful of the outcome of society. Obvious example being these podcasters and Andrew Tate followers (out in droves). Keep up the good work!!

[@NaishiYT]

This podcast isn’t insanity tho. They make very good points and speak truth. Just because they said something wrong this time, doesn’t mean their podcast is bad because everyone has bad view’s sometimes (like august in this video. Andrew Tate and the whatever podcast are really good and more people need to hear them. Especially people around my age (teens) because teens these days are the real insane ones

[@msjkramey]

​@TtalgiKiti what's good about them?

[@NaishiYT]

@@Chichichihuahua that honestly doesn’t make sense to me. And yea parents should regulate what their kids are watching

[@ChrisBear1989]

Nah these guys are very very stupid. This idea to "Divorce isn't a thing" is so dumb. It happens, it sucks that it does but pretending it doesn't exist/ acting like women shouldn't be allowed to leave a relationship is just dangerous as fuck. I am almost 100% certain if one of these men was being treated like shit by a woman they'd certainly demand to leave. I also think if a woman was being abused physically and a child is around. They have every right to protect said child even more so if they're super apethetic to the child to. As a man these guys just frustrate me to no end.

[@cutmehtwice]

@@NaishiYT Nope, Andrew Tate and these guys are evil people and we should lot let teenagers watch them because then in a few years r4pe will be legal and all that other shit. Womens rights will be taken away again and history will just repeat itself

[@ChanahAngelicaKamen]

Two of the most obnoxious things on the internet: 1. "Manosphere" podcasts 2. Other podcasts that do reaction episodes to the aforementioned podcasts, to claim there are *good points* to be found in the misogynistic tripe. 😑 You have my vote already.

[@Mister.Sir.King._Sir]

what time period are we in again

[@gorgnigon]

the bad one

[@hasanakbar957]

0:02 why tf is the girl in the back wearing a Pickelhaube

[@GenericUser1776]

I was thinking the same thing lol

[@jamiekamihachi3135]

She’s there in case he Allies attack across the western front.

[@lilBowlAsoup]

She always wears it in every video I’ve seen😂😂

[@coolman102490]

Clout

[@RottenPancake768]

Because it's cute.

[@PringlestheToast]

I feel for the two guys in the corner😔 They both have to stand through the entire podcast watching these people talk over each other about divorce and abuse and how people should go to church and all their problems will disappear. For the record, I am a Christian, but church is not a place to go get therapy. I am honestly ashamed that a presumably Christian man basically said that if you go to church, all your problems will go away.

[@gabriel262]

Chase legitimately Didn’t say that. August took a lot of liberties here and took almost every person out of context and bashed them because He doesnt want anything to do with conservative values. The people on the right side of the table were trying to say traditional marriage is bad and polyamorous marriage is good because in a traditional marriage you could be abused among other things they tried to argue. Chase was arguing against those examples saying that the majority of the time, if done the recommended way, people shouldn’t have to go through those problems. He didn’t say that there is no possibility. Also according to August’s statistical reference he would be absolutely correct because 1/7 or 1/9 vs 6/7 or 8/9.

[@DustyJones1997BGCL]

As an atheist I can tell you this get away from religion. Don't let it take over your life. That's it. If you want to have a better life, just think for yourself Do something better than religion. Do yoga do something that's much better for your health? Religion is not the answer.

[@depressedphilosopherbitch7581]

​@@DustyJones1997BGCLmost of the time it's not about health, it's about the community.

[@officialayao]

@@gabriel262 are you actually dumb or...?

[@geofff.3343]

I'm not going to take advice from a man in a suit with a shirt that is post-it-note yellow. I'm just not. It's like expecting a man wearing a pinky ring to not be a villain in a movie.

[@Raggy_df]

"You can't divorce, its not a real thing!" Damn, I thought it was, guess I'm stupid god that was goofy as hell

[@mansirawat7346]

My dad was an alcoholic and abuse my mom every single day. And my mom endured his abuse for years and it never stoped until he died by alcoholism 4 years ago. Now i am 24 years old and due to all those abuses i was never able to trust any man in my life other than my brother. I have never been in a relationship, never been on a date. I push ever man away any time they try to be close to me. I don't want to experience want my mom have experienced. Staying in an abusive family doesn't make healthy and happy children. I am broken from inside. I want companionship but can't trust anybody. And i think i will never be able to find a partner in my life.

[@Andarielle.N7]

Yeah, just ignore the data on the number of people who regularly get murdered by spouses or exes. What? When someone's dead body is found, the police tends to look at the nearest and dearest first because statistical data suggests murders are more often perpetrated by people who are close to the victim? Just ignore that and stay. 🙄 (That was sarcasm.) Imagine being choked by a dude taller and heavier than you and thinking "That's it. That's the end." If you survive that, you won't survive the next time. Your life matters more than your marriage or relationship. Read that again.

[@hhfggvogtthehy6451]

I feel like I’m watching seals make sounds and clapping at each other.

[@maddiefc]

I have been WAITING for you to cover this podcast! It's insane!

[@peterv1318]

Same. I couldn’t believe this podcast exists

[@noahpehowic6080]

​@@peterv1318 Unfortunately, this podcast is just the tip of the iceberg; and they're very popular amongst boys and young men. We don't need more Andrew Tates running around and dictating our laws. It's terrifying.

[@A.L.414]

Fun fact: the pastor who married my parents was cheating on his wife at the time.

[@A.L.414]

They got divorced

[@gabriel262]

Holy smokes That must mean like all pastors cheat on. Their wives

[@gabriel262]

Marriage is just bad Poly is obviously the way to go

[@MackenzieNerdyEMT]

I read that is in the pastor joined your parents marriage and married them also haha.

[@A.L.414]

@@MackenzieNerdyEMT bwahahahahah no he just married my parents. But the pastor was most definitely cheating on his wife..

[@leokaestner3997]

To the women watching this, please don't think all men are like this. They are the minority in this way of thinking. I am as shocked as you hearing these words coming out of their mouths

[@karinabrozniak1861]

Lovo your comemts

[@Dieclownmusic]

As a victim of both relationship and child abuse, I usually don’t wish harm on people. These guys can all take turns jumping off a cliff. Someone get the castrating scissors ducking hell these guys need to be kept away from women

[@stijnvanderveken]

The Narcissist's prayer: That didn’t happen.​ And if it did, it wasn’t that bad. ​And if it was, that’s not a big deal.​ And if it is, that’s not my fault.​ And if it was, I didn’t mean it. ​And if I did, you deserved it!​

[@hamy2456]

that one girl in the back left behind the guys can see the hope dying in her eyes the more it goes in.

[@LaserPorcine]

Mary Morgan, employee of timcast she is in another one of these where she asks a an onlyfans girl how much she makes, the girl says it is tacky to ask that question, Mary says it is tacky to have a onlyfans

[@johnyewtube2286]

It is tacky to have an only fans.

[@Blackhomeking12]

@@LaserPorcine it really is tacky to have only fans, the p*rn industry as a whole is tacky

[@johnny.V03]

@@LaserPorcineSometimes a broken clock is right twice a day.

[@jadegomez5861]

I love how you can stay funny whilst bringing these problems to our attention. Literally iconic 💞🌸

[@Cassidy440]

As someone who’s in a relationship this makes me disgusted how these men think that it’s okay to treat women like that, disgusting

[@tomhuynh4058]

Bet none of those guys are even married. The guy with the blue hair is like “WTH is this?”

[@lynxnichole1280]

Watching this triggered something inside because I was in two abusive relationships, mentally and physically so yeah these ppl lost they mind having this mindset smh

[@savagesweetheart90]

So endure the abuse until the person is killed? Is that what I'm getting at? If my husband ever laid his hand on me in a abusive way, you bet your sweet ass my friends and family would tell me to divorce ASAP.

[@natedietel4968]

The blonde girl in the back looks like she has absolutely no independent thought of her own.

[@eatyourveggies_]

Poor girl is there for the check, wondering how it all went wrong (for the other guy)

[@Rudolf215]

She actually doesn't. Mary Morgan is another pick-me for most conservatives with the IQ of a squid.

[@bellaknightR597]

Actually divorce is better for the children, because as someone who has divorced parents who tried to make it work for me and my younger brother, I can tell you that it just added tension to the household and kids can feel that tension, I felt it and I was about 4 or 5, and it adds unnecessary stress to their lives. Thankfully my mom decided to divorce my birth father because it made everything less stressful for everyone.

[@redbeard36]

Thanks for this, these guys are dangerous. My wife was an attorney representing abused spouses and their stories are harrowing and heartbreaking.

[@tinawitte420]

Wow respect for making it through that podcast, August! It's horrible even in your condensed form. What a fighter! Even those text messages that scroll through the video are bad.

[@richardtheactor]

Men denying abuse is common or even unacceptable is just par for the course when they have an audience of yes men

[@femkefeenstra7754]

These "men" showing their true colors when they first start ranting about how abuse shouldn't be an excuse for divorce, and if you're being abused, you shouldn't be acting like a p**sy. But the second she asks about the woman cheating on the man, they go like: "HE SHOULD LEAVE HER!" Yeah, the discussion should've stopped there. They just s**t themselves in the foot big time. 🤣

[@dena81]

I also grew up in a home where my father thankfully didn't hit me but he constantly abused my mom. Later on in my life it wasn't as bad .. but it wasn't just 'a phase ' and as an adult going to therapy I'm finding how much that childhood still deeply affects me and hinders my life. I was 12 years old and had told my mom if she wanted to get a divorce to not worry about me and do what she needed. And 30 years later I still stand by that belief. No one for any reason should feel forced to stay in a relationship.

[@DarkAquaVII]

I was in a very abusive relationship a few years ago, he also cheated on me more than once, but the crazy thing about that is - him cheating on me was the least of my concerns at that point! The abuse was a flipping nightmare, and I was so scared for my life. I just wanted out, not because I was weak and it's too hard. I was in danger. No man or woman should have to put up with being beaten.