Man Wants to Learn How to Stop Cheating

Is Raul simply a person who should not be in a committed relationship?
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[@thabangmoremedi9981]

As a man who has cheated more than 100times I understand Raul and these women don’t understand him. The problem is actually bigger and most men suffer from it

[@Jonakaiii]

So much this bro. It took me a while to realize that my cheating was actually an addiction just like someone who drinks, or Dow’s drugs… it’s compulsive. I tell myself “I can stop whenever” or “this is the last time” but I fail over and over.. it’s time to seek help.

[@the_real_goose.]

I’m exactly the same way… these girls have no idea… It really fucking hurts when you love someone and are happy with them and you want to stop… i came here looking for help and I find this… imagine if a woman was asking men for help with the same situation and the men responded like this… would start World War 3

[@kiwi8476]

Approval addiction. He chases after that approval. I fully understand it. It’s the attention to be validated.

[@andzagatsheni521]

and here I was thinking they will help. I have been cheating on my precious girlfriend I adore by texting and getting a rush from women I have 0 feeling for. I feel destraught inside for what I am doing and have begged her to stay but still I have no answer on how to stop and make her see how much she means to me and see her happy daily but I cant stop and I now think it's a psychological problem that really needs attention

[@markk8248]

This could have been such a good interview. You could tell he wanted to be completely honest. He already knew it was wrong so he clearly didn’t come on the show to be told he’s wrong. This guy seemed very interesting and it’s a shame they just used this time to shake their fingers at him instead of having an open conversation about the realities of lust and cheating.

[@Thandanizza]

The man wanted tools, he didn't want to be bashed. He doesn't want the urge to cheat anymore and he knows it's wrong. Telling him to just do it and how wrong cheating is, is not a tool! It doesn't deal with the urge.

[@raulcelaya9410]

Thandanani Nhlabathi thank you they brought me on to bash me 😒🤬

[@ncorp2668]

They didn't bash him, rather his problem is a different one than what he originally assumed. There are people that compulsively cheat because they're missing something from their relationship or have emotional issues that require fixing...that's fixable. Then there are other people that cheat because they don't truly desire to be in a monogamous relationship. He said himself it wouldn't matter if his girlfriend gave him extra or special attention...meaning, there's nothing she could do for this need of his, unless she is entirely a different woman all together. He's probably the type that gets satisfaction from the thrill, rather than the romance. Eventually, he'll find that you never truly should feel safe in having a woman's heart or admiration...you never truly have someone on lock. There's no such thing as safety...it's just an illusion. The thrill of getting attention in quantity, over quality attention by a lover shows a major lack of priorities in regards to what he seeks in women....not someone that should be in a relationship. He might love his girlfriend, but love isn't enough... and loving someone doesn't mean your heart and priorities are automatically aligned with being in a relationship. He may like the idea of being in a relationship, but if he gains more thrill from other women's attention over his girlfriend's attention, that means he doesn't truly want to be monogamous. If he has a child with the girlfriend, then he should reorganize his priorities and how he values women to have a better relationship...otherwise, he should just break it off. There's no good that can come from that relationship.

[@sakuraogami6885]

The Raulacious69 show you’re relationship is bullshit, and you’re a problem. You can’t be monogamous, so split with the poor girl and be a fuckboy without destroying the girl.

[@happinessloading1198]

@@raulcelaya9410 are you still with your girlfriend?

[@raulcelaya9410]

Sure am THIS IS FAKE SCRIPTED MORONS I’m an upcoming actor This is FAKE LOOK UP MY IG RAULACIOUS89 morons

what a wasted opportunity, This could have been a great interview. It takes a lot of courage for a man to seek for advice admitting he has been cheating, and it seems like he is getting more attacked/judged by very poor questions and by a complete feminine "jury" and audience. Look at how girls shake their heads or just the way they look at him. Unhealthy situation.

[@kayxvii1937]

The problem is that he asked women for advice. They honestly won’t understand the same🤦🏽‍♂️

[@mercyroland1108]

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[@Obleddo]

I do not condone his actions but to prevent them and others in the future you have to understand the real cause. He looks for attention elsewhere because he doesn't love himself. He needs the rush of attention to feel normal because he spends all his life feeling shitty about himself. Lack of respect for ourselves is shouted and even beaten into many of us as kids. The loneliness and despair you feel when you don't like yourself is strong. People do anything to escape, even ruin their own lives in the long term. If you haven't experienced it, you could never imagine. The presenters on the panel have never had to live with this feeling for years. It's just a chemical addiction in the brain. If you have this problem you could also have other addictive tendencies or just really love drinking and getting fucked up.

[@mercyroland1108]

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[@moestein6972]

If someone is unwilling to give full attention to their relationship, then they can't expect it in return.

[@jeffreyosawe4544]

Man give him a chance to talk

[@mercyroland1108]

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[@tallazzmikeon2s793]

I’m going thru the same shit!!! And really on here to find help and all women do is bash me for my addiction 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kiwi8476]

Approval Addiction, is what he is troubling with. He needs to be validated and validation from someone random can go far with someone who struggles with approval addiction.

[@jojothecuzo]

Only 5 times in 8 years you good in my book lol

[@KinkyAssignments]

@Raul... if you read this.. get into the habit of sharing what happens with your girl. Creating this honesty in between you makes it so much easier for you to share with her what happens, and then you can face it together. And besides, the moment that your girl knows you're interested in someone, you'll think twice before doing something with her:) (talking from experience)

[@cosmicimmunity]

He does not care. He has that face of “I’m being lectured by my mom right now so I’m gonna shut down”.

[@raulcelaya9410]

cosmicimmunity they wouldn’t even let me talk and they lied to me AND SAID THEY BROUGHT ME THERE FOR COUNSELING NOT A BASH SESSION

[@sakuraogami6885]

The Raulacious69 show Deserved it

[@willwowxdrice642]

@@raulcelaya9410 you tell em bro I came hear to learn only to watch them tear you down … sick

[@tigeress699]

The girl behind when he said "I don't think I'm ugly" 😂

[@timeallofgreatestthe]

The man has a sexual addiction and the advice is JUST STOP… 🤨

[@Joeyblondewolf2]

They didn't even let him talk. He admits his wrongs and wants to change. This is a sick addiction and it's not going away by saying "just stop" it's like telling a smoker to stop smoking. There are deeper issues. Maybe he had no love from his mother and that could be the source. We don't know because these women wouldn't let him speak.

[@emmanueldennis4622]

Let him talk

[@mercyroland1108]

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[@PGLos]

Technically if you only cheated 5 times in 8 years that's still an A minus my guy 😎 stay blessed king

[@whathadhappenedwas4201]

So gross 🤮. Men struggle with infidelity and should remain single instead of dragging some poor girl/woman through the mud for their own benefit.

[@talicia18]

He needs to just let it go

[@raulcelaya9410]

talicia18 let what go

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[@KaoticIndustrial]

Wow this is the worst advice I've seen and heard. "Just don't do it" what is this the 80s? Lol Man it's a lot deeper than that, there is obviously some sort of trauma that's stopping him. It's just trying to understand that trauma is what people need help with not dick heads victim blaming

[@lottiemae9195]

Advice: Breakup with your girlfriend.

[@mercyroland1108]

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[@alisadeadwilder5665]

'Just stop' is lazy advice. There's a reason for everything

[@emilygee2911]

Not getting on ig is not a solution. He could delete the app or his account but eventually he will go back to it one way or another and end up cheating again.

[@Keylez1731]

I think they didn't understand him, he must get some other guys to help him they will understand

[@shelbywasheere]

lol the absolute audacity of the guys commenting on here about how it’s an “addiction”. I can see it now, the guilt trip being laid on these women: “Baby, I have an addiction! You won’t kick out a drug addict would you? Baby, I luv you!” (cue manipulative sobbing) Give me a break, the selfishness of it all!

[@victoriaogunsanya9074]

They didn't do well at all... He wants to learn to stop cheating. It can be learnt. Not easy but possible. He just needs a mentor who has succeeded in this.

[@andzagatsheni521]

Thought they would help us men who actually searched for this but they keep on saying the same thing , you are bad . Yes , I know and wanna do right , help me

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[@Olacoker]

Not surprised. They attack their guests and don’t make much of a difference.

[@damiagunbiade]

I wish there was another season but who knows maybe there will be a consideration especially with so many shows being cancelled. Who knows

[@raulcelaya9410]

Dami Agunbiade it’s fake get over it

[@damiagunbiade]

Its not fake. There are actually real life situations on there. Regardless of what you think.

[@massy8508]

All this advice could have come from his girls parents lmao. This is not professional advice for someone who already realizes he has a problem. They won’t even let him talk.

[@carlosvasquez3686]

first thing he f'd up on to bettering himself is the fact that he asked women for the advice. He knows he's suppose to stop yet they bash him for it. Its an addiction, and an addicted person doesn't just "stop". How do you get a crack head to stop smoking crack? Do you tell them to "stop!"?? The issue isn't the IG app where he meets and finds all these people to cheat with smh.(he's just going to find other ways to cheat like tinder, Facebook, public interactions) The issue isn't that he doesn't love her enough either... Listen.. to most men, sex with strangers is meaningless (its not right, but it doesn't mean anything on a deep level) What this man needs is to understand its an addiction and many males fall under this issue. Next he needs to find some type of discipline, its okay to look, but remind yourself that you're absolutely happy with the woman you have because you know hurting her when she finds out hurts you more than anything. Spend more time with your woman, connect deeper if you could. Create distractions that keep your mind away from sex. join the gym, find a hobby, and discipline yourself from sexual thoughts. Sex addiction is the biggest demon that 90% of men can't overcome. Men literally go above and beyond for it like, pay good money for it, r@pe, traffic, etc.. if you can break the habit im proud of you. Little by little man. Keep pushing

[@lilquise17]

Yea it’s definitely possible. I use to cheat till I got tired of hurting women and I wanted to seriously change, & I did

[@je0ncena970]

thought i would get help from watching this but nah. as a woman, what you think you doing ask females for advice. they will not understand of course they gon point fingers at you. this could’ve been a great interview man

[@loveyourself1803]

Poor guy

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