Managing Grief

How I'm managing my grief and the depression, anxiety that has tried to latch onto the grief. I'm looking forward and working towards happy tomorrows. There's a new puppy in the family, RJ is on top of the world with his pack of female pups. And I salvage damaged valances and make them better than new. Hope to see you in the comment section:)

[@nancy-acronesintuition4614]

Kat, it is wonderful seeing you and RJ again! I missed you! I am 74 and I struggle with depression. When in a slump it is hard to bring yourself out of it but it can be done 🙏💝. We learn from each other and I believe it is very important and timely that you shared this. Thank you. There is joy all around us….we just have to grab ahold of it and soar. 🤗

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

So good to see you Nancy. You are so right! Thank you for your wise and encouraging words. I've missed you too! So glad you're here!

[@sherrie9241]

I understand everything you've said. I am 62, haven't worked in 10 yrs, In the last 15 years, I have lost 2 husbands and my 36 yr old son all too cancer...The grief, depression and general numbness can really play havoc in our lives.. Its a good thing you now have a part time job, and doing just part time may be another blessing is disguise. You are going to be ok, i am going to be ok, we are ALL going to be ok....

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

OMG! You have really been thru some hard times, I am so sorry for all your hard losses. Cancer is the worst. And the loss of a child, I can't imagine anything harder than that, no matter what the age. My heart goes out to you. You have survived it all which tells me life's trials have forged you into a strong woman. Someone I would love to meet, get to know and soak up the wise words I'm sure you have to share. I will keep you close in my heart and thoughts. Thank you for sharing.

[@dorindas7330]

To everything there is a season. Glad you are climbing back up to higher frequencies and feeling better. You were missed! As always sending love ❤

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

My sweet friend, sending love back to you.

[@kateburk2168]

Good to see you back. Depression is a maze in a deep hole. Keep fighting it!🤨 Want to add, there is a fear of letting go, too. Have heard it said, "as long as someone remembers you, you live on." That's a death sentence IMO, to your loved one. It takes joy out of your life. I haven't forgotten loved ones that have died but dwelling on them constant is not a good thing. Yes, mourn, cry, grieve but do get back to life. And when the memory of something they said or did comes to visit, it is a thing of joy & beauty.❤💕

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Such wise words Kate, worth taking to heart. Thank you for sharing, I'm so glad you're here.

[@jaggjagg5928]

You are a very strong and resourceful person. Life surely did hand you a lot to deal with at one time. We have all had our ups and downs in this journey. One thing I have learned is that I was never handed anything I couldnt handle, nor did I ever "walk alone". We all have so many blessings we take for granted. Im glad you reminded me to be thankful. We are all here for each other! Take care.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Oh Jagg, it's so good to see you. As usual your words are so uplifting. You always give me a boost:)

[@billyhill101]

Great to see you glad your doing better you were missed and you are cared about and a very special person👍

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Awe Billy, I love you too:)

[@laurie5098]

Kat, we all go through ups and downs. Not everyone admits it though. Depression is real and I have to fight it off sometimes myself. I am so happy you have a job! Love seeing RJ! Best wishes and blessings!

[@Nivasi]

Take care of you Kat, we all have experienced all of the things you're going through, we're RIGHT HERE with YOU .

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Hi Nivasi, good to see you. Life's struggles give us all so much in common. We can be so different yet so much the same. Thank you for being here.

[@BusterTheCockatoo]

Glad you're back! Love and prayers always.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you:)

[@johnwinden8511]

Hi Ya Kat! Good to see you. The little puppy is so cute, you can’t help but smile watching her. Don’t push yourself too hard to post, we all understand that life is busy. If you feel pressured to get a video out it will rob you of the fun of doing it. Take care, hugs to the mutts! John

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Hi John, good to see you. I'm excited to get back to posting videos. I enjoy the whole process and I've missed the communication with you and all the dear friends I've made along the way. I'm looking forward to meeting as many of you as I can in person in my future travels. You've all become a normalcy in my life that I value and want to hang onto. And yes, the pups all make sure I laugh everyday:) Stella is adorable. All the dogs want to hang with RJ, and he hangs with me so I am surrounded by dogs most the time:)

[@amberheart4195]

Life is precious and incredibly fragile; hauntingly apparent these past two years. I believe you guide us to be gentle with ourselves every day, and encourage us to do everything we can to focus on love, forgiveness, joy, and the people and things that truly matter most. Your videos challenge us to expand our understanding of how things work, and connect us with one another in a profound way. We’re all in this life thing together, and time is our most precious resource. If we are willing to embrace it, we can tap into our spiritual connection in an authentic and open way. My perception of your reality harbors a deep admiration for your tenacity, your extensive skillset, and your ability to prioritize & tackle whatever you choose to put your blood, sweat, and tears into as you grow stronger with every pursuit. Thank you, Kat! 💜 Welcome back!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Wow Amber, I don't know what to say. You have such a way with words. All I can do is try and live up to your praise. I don't think I'm there yet but you gave me much to aspire to. Thank you Amber!

[@amberheart4195]

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[@jhemnes1]

I'm so glad to see you back... I've been a little worried. You hit the nail on the head in this video and girl I'm right there with you. I've had some craziness going on but that conversation can wait until we meet one of these days😊 Me and mine wish you and yours a wonderful day. That RJ is just regal

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

So good to see you Janet. I hope you're keeping your head above water in these hard and crazy times. I'll be thinking about you and sending positive vibes your way. Love back at you from me and mine to you and yours:)

[@gnostic268]

Congratulations on your new job! I can relate to caring for parents and the grief and depression process. It's especially hard when things happen all at once. Wishing you more blessings in the future. Love seeing your all your pups 😍

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you! Many blessings back to you. You are appreciated.

[@sandyallen9403]

Your curtains are very cute Kat. You have an artistic touch. I'm so sorry you've had so much grieving this year. You are handling as well as can be expected. Good luck with the Walmart job. It's good to keep busy if you're able. RJ is looking good. May God bless you both 💞

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you Sandy! Blessings to you too.

[@robguerrero685]

Oh my god those beautiful dogs you have. Nice video by the way. God bless and stay safe.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you Rob! I agree, they're a good looking pack of dogs, very sweet too:) I appreciate your positive feedback, glad you're here.

[@johnpagejr.7628]

Yes I understand I lost my wife to cancer 10 yrs ago and all of my parents are gone also. I lost my dad to cancer the year after my wife and the year after that I lost my father in-law. It took me years to get back on the horse. But I agree with you a 100% Thanks for sharing for the benefit of us all and your self.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Oh John, you've really been thru it. So sorry for your many hard losses. Thank you for sharing. My heart is with you.

[@carmelbynum8049]

Hi Kat! Great to see you again!!! Thanks for the video cause your words of wisdom always helps me out so much, thank you for being you.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Carmel, it's wonderful to see you! You're so sweet, thank you for being you. It's good to be back.

[@katieclay3641]

God bless you young lady you have a good soul!!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Now I have 2 angel dogs traveling with me.

[@clubmike2910]

Back in the saddle again, I want to give you a big ole cowboy hug. You will be ok, just a pattern of life. Travelling sounds awesome, I need a rv and get out there myself. :)

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Hey Charlie, good to see you! I'll take that cowboy hug:) Ya you do! Then we could meetup during travel.

[@clubmike2910]

@@KatandDogsonWheels So dreams can come true, looking forward to it. :)

[@theramblingeorgian1774]

OMG, it's wonderful to see you back, you just made my day! Love your attitude and creativity. If you're laying around you can't turn that door knob to see what's on the other side waiting for you. Glad you'll have some supplemental income, it always comes in handy. You make my heart smile.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

It's good to be back and good to see you too Don!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Hearing from you always makes me smile too )

[@redlily8101]

Wishing you all the best, never give up.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you Redlily. I won't. Never say whoa in a horse race or a hard pull:)

[@1cosmocat]

So glad to hear you are doing better. It will be good to be out around people and also make some money . So happy for RJ also that he has new friends to keep him happy.Hang in there girlfriend

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

So good to see you Cindy. You're right on all counts. We are so very fortunate.

[@MaxMiniTV]

I see your guardian angels, all around you! So glad you made this video!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

I listen when you talk:) Thank you for steering me back on track! You have a special way of opening my eyes so I can see my path again. When it comes to friends, you're the best!

[@myvantirement9073]

Glad to have you back! But so sorry you've had so much to deal with lately.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

It's so good to be back! By your handle it sounds you have retired to vanlife. Are you traveling?

[@myvantirement9073]

@@KatandDogsonWheels I do travel in my van, but still not as much as I would really like. Seems like some responsibility is constantly getting in my way! I will be heading out to Arizona in January though! Travel is my therapy.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

@@myvantirement9073 Responsibilities have kept me from traveling also, but I'm getting closer, this spring is my goal:) Safe travels to you in January.

[@betsypower7850]

Wow , you are a shining star 🌟 this is a wonderful video , thanks for sharing you and the crew have been in my thoughts and prayers it is so nice to hear from you. The valance looks beautiful 🌿

[@betsypower7850]

🦎much of what you shared I really took to heart and your words offered direction. good vibes headed your way 🌿

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you Betsy! Your prayers and encouragement lifts my spirits and helps keep me going in the right direction. You are a positive force in my life and very much appreciated.

[@marilynrenaud1892]

Yup... I get it. My mom died September 2015 and 9 months later June 2016 my dad died. I was grieving horribly for my mom and then lost my dad on top of it and went into a headspin of horrendous grief for 5 years straight. I didn't care about anything... My house was a mess and I was a mess and I didn't care about anything... All I did was cry all the time every day. I fell into a deep depression, I ate all the wrong foods and didn't care about myself. Along with my mom and dad, I also lost my brother-in-law, two uncles, and my aunt all within 2015 through 2016. I felt like death was all around me and I couldn't escape it. Eventually over time I would skip a day of crying and then two and then three and so on until I finally came out of it five years later. Grief is the most difficult thing to have to deal with and I don't do it well. I'm good now though even though I will miss them for the rest of my life. I have moved on and yes, every now and then I will tear up but I can get over it much quicker now. After they died I became very lonely but I have learned to cope with the loneliness and accept it as a part of me. Life goes on.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Oh Marilyn, what a hard road you have traveled, I can't imagine... I'm in awe of the strength and courage it has taken for you to survive it and carry on. Thank you for sharing your story. You're an amazing woman I would love to meet! So much to be learned from you. I'm so grateful you are here! Sending my love your way.

[@janina8559]

So sorry for your loss! I have been taking care of my parents lately and been feeling very down. I dread what is going to happen so know your not alone. Also I am sure you know your eligible for a food card. Hopefully you take advantage of that!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Good to see you Janine. I hear where you're coming from. Try not to dread the future. I know it's hard. Caretaking our parents isn't easy, but it's time you will cherish and never forget or regret. You'll find it is a blessing and those memories will be a comfort when they're gone. I will keep you close in my heart and thoughts. Feel free to email me if you ever want to talk about it, I can relate to the struggles involved in caring for our parents. Just venting and talking to someone who knows what you're going thru helps. I'm here for you if need moral support.

[@janina8559]

@@KatandDogsonWheels the hardest part right now is my Dad can’t remember his name and my mom thinks she remembers everything and that I am the crazy one! She is batsh!t crazy and he just smiles and agrees with everything! In the last 6 mos they have both lost it in different ways. One is sweet and the other is mean 🤣 crazy world I tell ya!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

@@janina8559 Oh girl you do have your hands full don't you. Dementia is so hard to deal with. It must be a struggle dealing with your Mama especially. It is heartbraking to watch dementia claw it's way thru our parents. My heart goes out to you.

[@janina8559]

@@KatandDogsonWheels yeah I bought a shuttle bus 2 years ago thats just sitting in my yard waiting to be finished. I won’t be able to go anywhere for a while now but thats ok. One day I will get out there and I know I will have a clear conscious when I do. Just like everything you did for your parents. I know your loss but don’t waste your life now! Live the best one you can!

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

@@janina8559 You're right, life is a gift that shouldn't be wasted. My hope for you is that you find the time to work on your bus little by little, bit by bit while you are caring for your parents so that when the time arrives you'll be ready to spred your wings and fly, realizing your dreams with the comfort that you did right by your parents. As you take care of your parents, don't forget to take care of yourself:) I will be keeping you close in my thoughts.

[@spiritwindvue8038]

Hey Kat, so good to see you again. It’s so good to hear you express what you’ve been going through and recognize how Satan tries to turn grief into despair. But God through the power of Jesus Christ took control and sets you moving forward once again. God Almighty bless you and keep you. ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗🙏🕊🙏

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Awe sweet friend... I'm so grateful you're here. You're encouraging words mean so much! Thank you for sharing your heart with me.

[@spiritwindvue8038]

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[@spiritwindvue8038]

@@KatandDogsonWheels ❤️🤗

[@WhidbeyIsguy]

Sorry about your Dad. But I think you have it going on the right track now. Remember most of all to jyst smile.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Thank you Lyle. You're so right! Laughter is the best medicine.

[@kristinnorth8699]

Hi Kat!!! Was wondering how your doing just today (other days too) knew you wouldn't just disappear... However you are or aren't I've got a space in my heart for you and your gang... I to live on a small SS income. and have learned to budget!!! I got pet insurance for Bella and set aside some for the other stuff ( luxury item a bra) Hey cool about the job they are lucky to have you!!! I better sign off before this becomes a novel... Love Kris and Bella

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Hi Kris, good to see you! You're so sweet. We do have to get good at budgeting on that SS income don't we? I'll exchange that space in your heart for a space in mine:) Give Bella a hug for me!

[@RevGerryRM]

I went through that situation last May when I loss Tanner, my PTSD support dog. I went through a terrible time, having a anxiety breakdown. My Therapist still has me on medication that help, but not cure. I don't know if there is a cure😢.

[@KatandDogsonWheels]

Gerry, I'm so sorry about Tanner. It is so hard to recover from such great loss, my heart goes out to you. I don't know that there is a cure, our grief becomes a part of us. But I do believe with love and time we can heal the wound. The scar is our reminder of the love shared. You can't ever replace Tanner, but you can love again. That love is our healing force. Maybe in time you can open your heart to another pup who needs you as much as you needed Tanner. I will keep you close in my heart and thoughts.