STOP CHASING MEN!!!

[@Bakerygo]

If a guy wants to see you, he will take a plan and fly across a continent just for that. Speaking out of experience.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Period !!!!!!!

[@leila9937]

@@AshaChristinaFoster you are the best❤

[@Nicole-fb6fr]

Yep! A guy that wanted to win me over flew from Hungary to Australia in the hopes that I’ll take him back.

[@ajpristine4809]

If a guy really likes you, he'll do whatever he can. Making 10 hour return trips just to see you for the weekends and surprising you with gifts; even though you're not dating. Speaking from experience. But I'll be here stressing my heart over a guy who doesn't care at all😪

[@greywolf7577]

So are you flying across the continent to see him? It seems like you are expecting more of him than you are of yourself.

[@jassylaquay]

I was chasing a guy who was telling me he didn’t want a relationship and was broke, I’m embarrassed for my own self.

[@Theefashionchilld]

Jazzy F we’ve all made mistakes in the name of love girl take this as a lesson and apply it 💕

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Jazzy F We all make mistakes. Wisdom comes from not making the same one again.

[@Babyfacedblackjesus]

Money shouldn't matter in a relationship

[@starr970]

This is me. Lmao. I'm embarrassed for my damn self.

[@yousraammachi9087]

Me too. You not the only one. Don't feel embarrassed 😂❤

[@tvdavis]

I’m nearly 50. This video describes my WHOLE 20s & 30s. Chasing the HELL out of dusty-ass men. Stopped chasing, got my own life, husband chased ME. End of story. Younger ladies, please remember: Men will say anything if they want to bang you: They’ll listen to your problems, they’ll tell you they love you, all that...and then become indifferent once you’re in love with them. Let them EARN your attention. Be busy. Let them like you more than you like them.

[@peppaminttea]

Men go after who they really want. No matter how much you may try to turn them off on purpose, if they really want you, he will still pursue you.

[@kayyoung9242]

Truth

[@ShaunHensley]

That’s toxic masculinity princess

[@i3abikay]

Even with a protective mother in his path?

[@ShaunHensley]

crooked truth83 Persisting after being told ‘no’ is harassment, genius.

[@painexotic3757]

Lol women want men to chase em yet complain about harassment when men do. Liberal feminist logic in a nutshell.

[@CARIBQUEEN916]

A man only gotta show/tell me once he don't want me and I'm gone. I don't ask questions or show any sign that I'm in my feelings. I delete their number and move on. I am the prize and that's that.

[@gmatinky3965]

I Totally Agree My Now Ex Looked Through My Phone & Saw Something He Wasn't Supposed To See So After That He Said He Was Done With Me So I Asked Him If I Can Accept his Flows How Come he can't accept my flows all he said was he is done with me so i left it as that I Refuse to Chase After Him Because He's Used To Me Chasing Him Anyway So I Flip The Script On Him I'm Not Chasing Him Anymore It Is What It Is..... Moving On Now & More Focused On Myself 🙏🙌🙏🙌 🌟

[@greywolf7577]

Do you consider him the prize as well? It seems there are a lot of women who feel that they are more valuable than their boyfriends. It is a really toxic view.

[@0fficialselena__90]

@@greywolf7577 I wouldn’t say that it’s toxic

[@valerievillegas6275]

That’s the self-worth I need.

[@proudexmuslim2354]

I am a man and i am prize too.i don't care what girls think about me

[@292kt]

“let that trash take out itself” -The Quality Queen

[@292kt]

💙💙💙

[@lurly2771]

Yes ma'am

[@yes-qx3ny]

Ah yes, because the world would be so much better without brave men fighting for our lives and safety.

[@manakerenee3930]

🤣🤣this line killed me!

[@bbytrinket9732]

My ex boyfriend didn't even care about me till we broke up but by then I was over him. I learned from that, moved on, and now I'm with a man who's persistent, consistent, and gives me the same energy I give him. Men who realize your worth will work harder, period.

[@leyland2725]

In other words: a beta loser.

[@kairilyn]

Persistent, consistent, and gives the same energy. This just spoke to me girl, GOD BLESS YOU!

[@bbytrinket9732]

Chanel Badeux sending blessings your way too love ❤️

[@katherinemargeson8082]

bbytrinket There are some men who want what they can’t have. I dated a guy, didn’t work out, but no big drama. When I started seeing someone else, though he was all, “I love you.” I gave him a second chance after the relationship ended. When I was in a near fatal car accident, he didn’t even visit me in the hospital. No flowers, nothing. I haven’t dated since.

[@bbytrinket9732]

Katherine Margeson oh my gosh. First of all, I’m so glad you’re okay. Second of all, YUCK that’s exactly the type of shit my ex would pull too 🤢 we deserve so much more.

[@basicinfo2022]

Remember, the egg doesn't chase the sperm. The sperm chases the egg. Women are the prize. Women have the power. Take it back. "They know your worth, they just hope that you dont"

[@King-ru9ve]

AS the sperm finds the egg that’s in one place

[@AndyArch]

Women ain’t the prize lmao

[@giosjourney56]

J B Please, don’t do that. Don’t put women on a superior position. If there’s not a man and a woman there’s no life. We are equal. The fact that men chase women is because of their nature and because they are usually less trustworthy as to their intentions.

[@Speechiegirl1]

Andy Arch neither are you

[@7Mushrooms7]

@@AndyArch a man who comes to a video directed to women to give his opinion that no one asked instead of moving on is the prize then?

[@gymeni]

Women chase men and settle for being sidepieces because they lack self-esteem and are afraid of being alone. But this behavior has ruined men and, in turn, relationships. We women have SO much power, and don’t even realize it. WAKE UP.

[@gmatinky3965]

AGREE ✔💯♠

[@missmargmillionaire6421]

Love this

[@Acee72]

If I had a prayer, it would be this: "God spare me from the desire for love, approval or appreciation. Amen. " - Byron Katie

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omgosh :”) I love this ❤️

[@user-ib6yg3go6m]

Amen!!!

[@d.y.h.w.]

Perfect!

[@beigelover95]

wow

[@daniellephillips3264]

But Asha why is the title of the video screaming at me?

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Noodleay]

Sean Anthony Men don’t oppress us imo that’s a bit harsh 😅

[@massimapani8951]

@Kierra And Katelynn Also me

[@beyaammahrymahinay9359]

Danielle Phillips hahahahahahahaha we feel ya, sis

[@SNUPE_FOXX92]

😩😩😩

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Please create videos on: - texting and chatting while keeping some mystery - balancing being warm, but not too warm or desperate - how to look more confident even if you don’t feel that way - how many days in advance should you expect a date to be scheduled? 2, 3? More? - is it ok to plan the occasional date one you are in a relationship? - how to date multiple men without explaining yourself to them and dealing with the way society expects women to not have a rotation like men. - what to do when he has a hobby that is more important than you. Is it worth trying to participate in the hobby, or should you just walk? - what to wear for different types of dates - perfume, makeup, nails - good posture -what to do if you are smart and educated and men are threatened by it. - How can you lead with feminine energy without compromising your intelligence or ambitions -how to let down nice guy who just isn’t for you gently, kindly, but firmly. How to turn down someone at work. - how to keep your personal life private at work - is it ever ok to buy gifts pities of birthdays and Christmas? If so, when and what? - An explanation men leave women who put all the effort in to make them look better and more emotionally mature only for that man and then marry the very next woman they date because you’ve built him up. How to avoid it? - should you ever cook for him? - how to build up your own confidence and self esteem if you aren’t beautiful or have something that can’t be corrected with makeup or weight loss. -how to cheer him on without being his mom - how to deal if his mom, sibling, or best friend hates you. In my experience, if 1 or more dislike you, the relationship won’t work - How to spot immature men and misogynists. Thanks! 💕

[@rickimcfarland2269]

Sis, you should highlight this comment! Great video ideas!!

[@CupCake-sc9eb]

watch some other Aisha videos i think she gave answers to some of your topics :)

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Great topics 💕💕💕💕♥️

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Cup* Cake* Thanks! I’ll do that. 💕

[@jakxyla]

Katherine Margeson try reading the book “the rules” and also “texting. love. power.” they’re both on ibooks and it’s a book series so there’s multiple books but it covers many of the topics you’re wondering about like texting and dating and etiquette ! :)

[@googleuser4727]

You be saying what needs to be saidddd sis! We as women settle wayyyy too often for less than we deserve

[@kokefran3756]

so what do you deserve? lol it's funny how every human believe they deserve this or that...

[@googleuser4727]

Koke Fran well to me, it’s more funny that some people don’t think they deserve the absolute best lol but that’s just me

[@Nezeville]

Arnesa Kimberly ones worth is entirely what they make people believe it is.. It’s entirely up to us!

[@Babyfacedblackjesus]

Y'all women are a mystery

[@kandy1227]

Yes know your worth because you shouldn’t have to chase a man

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Exactly ;)

[@Nezeville]

Keashia Shoats it should actually be the other way round

[@johnsprince3924]

In modern society men chase money and women chase men who have money. So you must be quite wealthy, or you think that you are a gift to be competed for or something? Fact is that no man with a lot of options is going to chase a female very much. Chances are that her actual worth is very low if she is trying to present herself as some kind of prize to be won. Now don't get me wrong because a man will compete with other men for a girl that is one in a million. Hard working, caring, loyal, hi IQ, selfless, and persistent in her wanting to be with and be part of said mans life direction. However most of you are so lazy getting out of bed is often a chore, and so you have no real worth to a relationship that you don't earn every day. Just like with a guy.

[@starrix4712]

John S Prince All I can say is that you’ve totally misunderstood what we’re taking about and the type of attraction being referred to (not the online dating option-esque thing you seem to think everyone follows). Most people are still more romantically geared than that. But you’re young and modern so you probably think everyone does it like you do - your style is fine but not everyone thinks in that flashy way (the best I can label it). And not everyone just wants money.

[@johnsprince3924]

@Starri: You make a lot of misinterpretations and false assertions. For starters this internet invention you refer to, still seems like quite a new development to me. Also It could be said more like "Men chase achievements and women chase achievers. Its not about money specifically. As for what I "probably think", its actually quite extensive. So I'm not saying you shouldn't do what you find meaningful in life, just don't be a victim of the Dunning Kruger effect. Especialy in regards to an old sigma like me who has forgot more than most of you will ever know, and I have damn sure done more than most of you ever will. Not bragging, just sayin Its good to be me. And you'll never catch a guy like me if you won't chase the 20% of high value men who don't need to chase women. Guys like Morgan Freeman for example, he doesn't have to chase. Its more like a waiting line. So take it for what it cost, because you don't have to like it. And there is still 80% of the men who will always have to be more accommodating to any woman that will put up with or settle for them.

[@ginalienn1112]

“Don’t let your desire get in the way of your common sense.” Amen. I needed to hear this. Btw you look just like young Beyonce back in the early 2000s.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Omg Gina this is the BEST COMPLIMENT EVER THANK YOUUU♥️

[@preddyshite6342]

“Don’t let your desire get in the way of your common sense.” Hopefully men never figure this out

[@d.y.h.w.]

I need to send this to 3 women I know. Women who make 6 figures and still wanna be side chicks and chase men that arent theirs. I'm married and my husband left his home state for ME. These women better step it ☝!

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Yes babe !!!! Do it !!!!! Good for youuu !!!☺️🤗♥️

[@d.y.h.w.]

@Shake Zula exactly. They already wonder why they can't "find a good man" 😒 it's a ridiculous cycle .

[@CiaobellaAmour]

🙌🏾

[@TravelingDiva-vp1gt]

Just stop giving a damn; men love that. I have no interest in dating at all and men are chasing me down.

[@kingsaintiv3085]

Actually us men don't love nor like that at all.

[@jaslynjones2282]

@@kingsaintiv3085 your gay thats why

[@kingsaintiv3085]

@@jaslynjones2282 Typical response lol😂, im not gay but aye women are never wrong about anything so I'm guessing your right and I'm wrong.

[@originalstel]

Its so annoying cuz when I care they come in Tens

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

It's the thrill of the hunt....I'm doing an experiment RIGHT NOW, the more I act like I don't give a damn the follow through text messages planning dates, everything.ITS CRAZY 🤷‍♀️BUT OH SO FUN 😂😂😂😂

[@chickynoodles8554]

I just got ghosted by a guy and the new guy I’m talking to has not been consistent. These videos help me build my confidence up because after I was ghosted I felt awful about myself. Thank you for your videos 💞

[@VirgoDluxe]

Gabby B who is for you will find you. Keep on loving on yourself in the meanwhile. You are worthy of all your dreams and desires. Never forget that 🤗 I’ve been ghosted on too, but it gets better! Their loss, not mine .... next!

[@chickynoodles8554]

Ms. Russell thank you 💞

[@VirgoDluxe]

Gabby B you’re welcome darling! All the best

[@akiraelai8053]

Gabby B you’re much better than both of them !! Someone meant for you will make effort and obviously show that they care

[@funnygirlever]

Same here.

[@xpvaalxx9]

This video just made me 10x prettier

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

omgosh I love it !!! yesss positive energy ❤️❤️❤️

[@VybeX-]

We live in a day and age now where women feel its okay to chase men though while men feel they can be chased. The hell?

[@LC-cw2wx]

SιcĸVyвeX what is this world coming too?

[@leyland2725]

@@LC-cw2wx thank feminism

[@Noodleay]

3rd wave feminism gone wrong?

[@avawilliams5827]

Real men don’t like to be chased- hell even half men say they don’t like to be chased😂 a man who’s completely in his feminine energy wants a woman to chase him

[@ShaunHensley]

What’s the problem?

[@celina4357]

I’m recovering from being a pick me patty so this video is coming in clutch

[@AminahMight]

Queen Celina 😂😂 I’m so glad you’re changing, I cannot stand a pick me 😩😩😩

[@Despoina-jk2bp]

Queen Celina I can’t believe it you’re so pretty 🥺💓

[@celina4357]

Your Basic E Girl thank you queen 💕💕😊

[@Despoina-jk2bp]

Queen Celina your very welcome 🙏

[@daphneepaul3737]

Celina Valadez pick me patty. I’m pickmeshia nice to meet you

[@yessierodriguez5440]

I never had a crush liked me back, so I was too interested in him I didn’t put myself first ( a.k.a easy and convenient) so now I’m looking at your videos like 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I DON’T EVER WANT TO BE BLIND AGAIN!

[@glborromeo]

SAME

[@noonaaa6489]

Gosh u look so gorgeous

[@proudexmuslim2354]

@@noonaaa6489 SIMP

[@user-wg3or1tu5y]

Stop chasing men hallelujah stop chasing men amen

[@shaydele]

Men have to fix themselves.

[@angelflower176]

Amen!!!!!!

[@utuben001]

Feels good to be chased by a man! Doesn’t feel good to chase a man!

[@AdelleRamcharan]

OMG where were girls like you when I was this age?? XD *applauds

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww thank you babe 😩♥️

[@Radience100]

Preachhhhhhhh Asha!!!!! The story that you referenced was of Jacob and Rachel. If that didn’t change these Angels minds I don’t know what will! And the kicker of the story is that he promised to work ANOTHER 7 years for the women he really wanted, Rachel! Wake up ladies, if he’s not presuing you, he’s just not that into you. Period.👑

[@leyland2725]

Yar but these women were virgins not sluts with kids and triple digit body counts

[@silas1424]

Those women were virgins. In ancient culture a man (Jacob) had to pay a fee for a mans virgin daughter. That story is not some fairytale out of a Disney cartoon. It was to illustrate that Jacob paid for Rachel who was a virgin.

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Antoinette Gardner and Leah loved him, gave him many children etc, but Jacob loved Leah the best.

[@silas1424]

Katherine Margeson Yea she was more beautiful according to the scriptures.

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

I love this Bible story. Also, Isaac and Rebecca's story even moreso than Ruth and Boaz.

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

OMG THE DRAMA GETTING THIS VIDEO UPLOADED!!!!! gosh!!!! ANWAYS IM JUST GLAD ITS UP !!!!! I LOVE YOU ANGELS!!!! WHO IS A New York SUBSCRIBER HERE??? Lastly, who can you share this video with and help shift their mindset !???? 100k !!!!! NEXT GOAL WE GOT THIS ☺️

[@carleighcivil721]

Asha C. New yorkk subbbieee🙋🏽‍♀️❤️

[@nithya1372]

Yes, you know how excited we've been for this video!! 🐝

[@sophie_j4482]

Hey babe! New York boss woman here!

[@queendivalifestyle]

Me

[@roselimonta]

Asha C. Long Island in the house 🤪

[@nolife6811]

After watching your videos in just days I feel like I’ve leveled up already💗...

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awww this makes me so happy !!!♥️♥️♥️

[@j.rod8]

Shit got so real I exited because i was offended and then opened the video again cause i knew I needed to hear the rest of it. Sis... you preaching!!!!!!!

[@i3abikay]

This was aimed at me. God is telling me through you that I am worth it, I am precious, and that I deserve the best. No matter what obstacles are in his way (like my mother lol) should not deter him from pursuing me to be his wife, and not just a play thing he can mess with for a day or so. I will keep myself for the one worthy, and to keep my values and belief sound.

[@kaylalawon679]

I can tell Imma have to keep this video saved and engrained in my head lol!

[@meeyahfarley8076]

Kayla La'Won Yes! Same here. 💯

[@gakiikinoti4514]

And meditate upon it I've been here so many times 😂

[@melanieelston6385]

Me too I have this saved on KZbin under “listen to me” lol

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

I totally agree!! Don’t even go to his place for awhile!! Ladies seriously stop with the “only Looking at the positive” bs! That’s how you end up in these situations...

[@redevous]

Exactly

[@Greenmango22]

I needed to hear this! Now I understand the pattern I have and why it never goes anywhere w guys. I don’t want no one that doesn’t want me more, period.

[@Chinyerre_]

I’m so glad I found this channel!!💟 Let me avoid the dusties as mush as I can whooo chill

[@giuliamaria2425]

can you make a video on how to play hard to get while in the "dating" stage? love u btw hehe

[@hollywoodteee]

Giulia Maria yesssss

[@peterkirk8510]

No guy is going to like that, it’s just annoying

[@leonabanks5591]

@@peterkirk8510 All guys are going to like that because they like to PLAY GAMES...If you don't play GAMES, they get BORED so easily. Trust and believe. I have 5 brothers, I KNOW what I'm talking about.

[@peterkirk8510]

Leona Banks I’m literally a guy. No dice.

[@candaceangel1]

Peter Kirk So in conclusion you like everything handed to you with no effort. Life doesn’t work like that sorry!

[@moniquewill5038]

This is so freaking deep! I just dropped him. I had enough of the bullshyt

[@Nezeville]

Monique Will always do whats best for you sis and resist the temptation to run back! Love from a Nigerian KZbinr

[@Nubiaa78]

Monique Will good for you 🙌🏾💪🏾

[@charibel]

Hey Asha💗 love your channel and you!!💗 just today i had to check a dusty trying to come over my place and “chill” mind you, he hasn’t even asked me on a proper date😒 BLOCKED!! it’s hard being an independent young woman with your own place cause these men think they can skip on wine and dine and just come over to your place. 🙄

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

omg yuck!!!!! blocked!!!

[@riagreen9294]

Number deleted, because it was never even saved.

[@amberpalmer3708]

The only “man” you should be chasing is God

[@Beloved-Ang21]

Amen amen and amen❤

[@launicaastrid]

so grateful for your wisdom and advice, recently a man I was weak enough to allow him to verbally and emotionally abuse me. Now I've seen the error of my ways, self love always comes first. Thank you Asha

[@lindacapri6591]

Keep those men in rotations ladies... it will bring you peace😃😇

[@lettysegura4123]

I need to hear this every day to get through my thick head! I know everything she’s saying yet I still chase this guy who has no interest in me. Why do i do this to myself. I know I need to value myself but i don’t know how. I’ve tried everything and loving myself is the hardest. I’ll continue to work on myself but it’s freaking hard.

[@ninah5938]

Letty, don't give up on yourself. One day it will click. Xx

[@enadine6405]

I have a tip. Whenever you feel like you don't deserve happiness or respect, because you may think that you lack something. Remember that you are human, and if you believe all humans deserve respect, then by default you deserve it too

[@basicinfo2022]

You know how to let others take advantage of you which is masochistic. You need to work on yourself. Heal so you can be ready and attract real love.

[@Joythealchemist]

make the mistake and then u will truly learn. dont worry your young.

[@CiaobellaAmour]

Been there done that..just let go. Yes, it’s hard but trust, just let go & invest all that effort on yourself 🙏🏽♥️

[@TheConvictionCorner]

“Let the Trash Take out itself “ ~ This is the quote I needed to hear. 🙌🏾

[@schnioula]

You give me Beyoncé on the Lion's King red carpet vibes! Hi from Germany, sis! :)

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Awwwww thank youuuu♥️♥️♥️

[@dynasty.b]

Asha, you are God-sent! Your content is what the young women of our generation needs! I love watching your vids - keep growing and glowing, sis! You’re destined for greatness! 💕✨

[@nailahcofficial3498]

“I’ll be home around 10 pm, you can come over then” Asha, you know men wayyyy too well 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@wandag.2073]

You hit it on the nail.... Goodness knows I'm not at my best and have just been trying to fill that void. I need to stop trying to make men fit, who don't belong in my life.

[@gracec6736]

Ok but how did you know I needed this ??? 😱😍

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

Honestly it was in my spirit seriously !!! That’s why I filmed it yesterday but the footage was messed up for some reason so I had to re film today ! ♥️

[@ixtalgonzalez9626]

I found your channel two days ago. First day I dumped this guy I was dating. Today is the second day and I just feel SOOOOO empowered by YOU ❤️ thank you for everything you do 💕💕💕💕

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Preach! No other person can make us happy. We have to build our own lives. That way we can be happy single. If a good man comes along, bonus, but it’s not necessary. Realizing this fact changed my life.

[@CEL4581]

I completely agree with you. I've always taken care of everyone in my life. I have yet to be taken care of by a man. You truly shown me the error of my ways. Keep up the good positive work.

[@KMBrown-ro7dh]

Jacob. One of the greatest stories of love stories in the Bible! Thanks for these gems 💎 Sis!!♥️♥️♥️

[@radlyn7234]

Thanks for opening my eyes ... it hurts but so true ...

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Thank you for keeping it real, Ms. Asha. These tips work for all ages. I’m in my 40s and most of it still applies. The gold tones in your hairpiece make your complexion glow!

[@danieneit6830]

When I was scouring the internet 4 months ago at the start of my journey into embracing my femininity, I stumbled upon your videos, got upset and offended, and decided I didn't want to watch. Now, two days after an emotional breakdown and a lot of looking at my relationship for what it is, I'm back. I didn't want to hear that I was the one chasing. I didn't want to hear that I was so obviously being taken for granted. Because I couldn't admit it to myself, so I got mad. And now, watching your videos, I can clearly see how real the advice you give is and how genuine you are to be sharing your knowledge with these lovely ladies out here. The truth hurts sometimes, but it is NECESSARY to grow. Lots of love

[@pianotnt]

I did that when I was 18 years old and never did again the last 4 men chased me not me chasing me

[@firstclasslady1719]

I don’t care about who don’t not care about me ❤️

[@dharma_tour_]

That's the best relationship advice. If you want them to chase you...run!

[@goddessofpeace4133]

Im so amazed at how young and wise you are ! I wish i had your mindset when i was 25 but i have it now and better late than never!!lol

[@khayymeshell4244]

No one ever taught me this or anything even CLOSE to it and I’ve been suffering from this idiotic crazy mindset for years with the same man who has proved more times than I can count that I should move on. Yet here I am...but I’m finally starting to see the light and make the right decisions for myself!

[@enadine6405]

OMG YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT DATING WHEN YOU ARE NOT AT YOUR BEST! LADIES LET'S DO SOME HEALING BUT ALSO REMEMBER THE LESSONS WE LEARNED! NEVER LET A GUY TREAT YOU BADLY!

[@moniquewill5038]

I love that you touched on the Steve Harvey book. I have it on my bookshelf and now I’m going to read it. Speaking of the bookshelf you should do a virtual book club. Where we can all get the book and learn from it while building ourselves. Just a thought.

[@Jahshona]

The fact that this was my conclusion yesterday and I slept like a baby and now I'm seeing your video suggested. THAT is divine energy

[@marimarihas5629]

You deserve the best❤each one of us deserves the best .So greatful for your advices .We know our worth deep inside but Asha is helping us to behave like wise

[@caseybotha4191]

And then they say women are confusing when clearly they are out here doing the most.

[@trudy_triad]

My point exactly.

[@alexaarrah696]

I come from a traumatic upbringing haven't experienced alot of healthy relationships. I'm 26. I barely know my extended family there mostly acquaintances. I've gotten better at not chasing potential friends.

[@Helloo_oo]

Damn Asha! That conclusion, those last 5 minutes.... 🙌 If you are someone who feels like a man should not work for you , 1 you have never experienced someone working for you and 2, you think you don't deserve it.! Wuuuhh!

[@Whoissylvia]

Your so smart and Intelligent ❤️ Love how you know your self worth🥰

[@Beautyzxz]

Asha always has perfect timing 😩

[@kruciannadadon]

Damn, I’m not going to the lie building a man up just for him to leave me and give someone else all the things I wanted or for him not just wanting me after I stayed and waited is really hurtful a 6 year span of on and off but I’ve finally decided to let go , and when I watched one of your older videos where you had said block their numbers and socials and really let go and I’ve actually been doing it and everyday gets easier and I’m learning so much about myself and not chasing a man. I’m so glad I’ve came across your videos you have made me stronger already with your encouragement so glad you giving raw truth it hurts to hear when you have do so many of these things. But it’s great when you can learn and grow from it.

[@DaesungMars]

Asha, your channel is so important. The information in your videos may be a hard pill to swallow but it's very needed. Thank you.

[@Yasmeen889]

All of this great information needs to be documented in a book because it’s changing lives sis ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alanamelrose6540]

This hair on you is everythinggg you look beautiful!

[@traceylennon1204]

No lopsided relationships for me!!

[@deajonez90sbaby]

I love how clear and concise you speak. New subbie xx

[@khadidi2955]

You're amazing. I love the way you say the bitter truth without holding anything back. God knows a lot of us needed to hear this and people around us won't just summon courage and tell us

[@vershatalwar6410]

Your words are so true and valuable. I had suffered from relations. One who doesnt know self worth is bound to suffer. Your videos give me confidence . 🌸🌸

[@jammydoughnuts]

SIS...I LOVE the way you call us out like this! There is NO WAY, absolutely NO WAY that I will ever chase a man ever again after watching this. They should be chasing ME! There's no need for me to give out all this unreciprocated energy towards someone who doesn't even care to pursue me in the first place.

[@soleiloshun]

I’ve literally binged watched your videos this weekend. You’re my new favorite sister-cousin-friend. Lol Thank you for saying the things that others wouldn’t. Thank you for teaching us the lessons our mothers and aunts failed to, new lifetime subscribers here 💙

[@katherinemargeson8082]

Hello, Ms. Asha! A few other videos that would be great about leveling up: 1. Deportment (how to walk with good posture.) 2. Speaking well. I found a good book for actors and broadcasters, titled “Speaking Clearly.” 3. Modern good manners that are elevated 4. Dressing elegantly on a budget, colors that look good etc. 5. DIY beauty hacks 6. Since you’re a vegan, good vegan food and beauty products that aren’t goop level $$$$ I also highly recommend these books: - Calling in the One (how to love yourself) - The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k - Real Beauty by Kat James focuses on natural beauty and eating. I’d love to hear what you think about them. God bless and best wishes on health, happiness and prosperity.

[@Indigobliss377]

I just need you to understand how much you are saving my life! I truly love you

[@daniels3974]

Thanks, Asha I appreciate this. I think the biggest takeaway here is a relationship should just flow. I do my damn best to think of ideas for dates to make them feel special, but I get a mental block with women I just don’t have a connection with. For women who I click with my creativity just happens for where we can go, my confidence increases and there is a 100% follow through. I’m also not too much of a sexual person, so it’s been easier for me to identify who is good for me and who is not. In the event where I know it won’t work out (this happens a lot as we all know), and as difficult as it is for me to let a girl know this, I feel better telling them straight up rather than ghosting them. It’s also helped me grow as a person.

[@daydreamer6113]

“Let the trash take out it self “ sissss

[@tianamarie1995]

THIS! we gotta have more women like you.

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

“They leave the ride or dies” realist shit ever! You’re so right. They shouldn’t “have love” for you, they should be IN LOVE with you!!!

[@Hopeful12421]

Girl you got so many points right on im embarrassed 😂🙈

[@merite.3764]

My internet mom! I love you mom and continue the great work😘😘

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

hiiii angel !!!!! thank youuuu ❤️

[@merite.3764]

I really appreciate your response! This just made my day 💗💗

[@meganhey2582]

I feel like im taking advice from my older sister. thank you for reminding me of my worth ❤❤

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

You’re so welcome babe !!!! You are worthy 👸🏽

[@breekwhal]

This independent thing you touched on at the end was me!! But then I realized, yes I don’t NEED a man to do anything for me, but HE NEEDS to show me he cares so I took my feminine place while still feeling empowered

[@annananaboo1829]

I love how you’re so positive and don’t use foul language when you speak! That’s amazing and shows that people don’t have to cuss or use very negative words when communicating heart felt topics. ❤️

[@Jessa_Says]

You & your vids always make me feel so empowered! I’m so thankful for you , and your channel. I just broke up with my child’s father last month and your videos have been helping me so much. Love you girl 💕✨

[@lilnawty3926]

Wow, thank you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I needed to hear this.

[@MsPanda156]

It’s always nice to have a reminder! Thanks big sis 💕☺️

[@AshaChristinaFoster]

your welcome little sissss 😘

[@rubyrhodes1135]

New York Baby! Love the topic Asha

[@christeljoelle8358]

A video about: Finding a man in this day and age? (Where and your advice like concerning apps or real lofe events ect.) Thank you so much angel!

[@gakiikinoti4514]

They leave the ride or dies😂😂😭😭 I then heard that meme, "You're a victim!. Mmmh, there you go csi"😂😭

[@beatricesarpomaaosei459]

Why are you so knowledgeable? You speak so much sense

[@user-gd7mr5bx1l]

23:15 - where's your roster? ... next sentence, retells a bible story 😂🤣

[@bambam6231973]

So True!! They leave the ride or dies? True!!!

[@t.l1357]

Not even dating but just need to make sure my boundaries are in order hahahaha. Thx sis!