I was literally just thinking about this today I see so many black women at my job wearing wigs all the time I've never once seen their natrual hair I also have a sibling that will never leave the house without her wig on unless her hair is pressed it's crazy how a lot of black women are attached to hair that is not theirs they don't feel beautiful enough with the hair that grows out of their scalp
@healwithmareАй бұрын
When you truly think about it, there’s absolutely nothing normal about covering your hair in someone else’s hair. Something is seriously wrong and it is evil. I used to not feel beautiful and now that I fully have chosen to believe God about my beauty, I feel more beautiful now than ever before! ❤
@fruitsarelife7073Ай бұрын
It’s Kind of like body disphoria
@lindav7158Ай бұрын
What she said about the disposition of woman who have over the years ruined their hair with wigs and weaves and glues…. It’s a heart breaking testimony
@chrisharris2367Ай бұрын
I will admit I don’t feel confident w 4c hair I hate the states
@healwithmareАй бұрын
@@chrisharris2367the sad thing is, it’s not just the states where Black women avoid their 4C hair like the plague. I’ve been to both Ghana and Nigeria, where wig wearing reigned supreme 😢
@Chrissy893Ай бұрын
I always find it so weird how someone will transform once they have the wig on and the face beat. It’s like their personality changes and they are a complete different person. It seems so vain. Like you said it’s demonic.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
It is truly so vain. It would keep me in the house whenever my hair wasn’t “done” because I didn’t want anyone to accidentally see the real me. What I presented online was NOT me. Such a bizarre time in my life 🤦🏾♀️
@AhminaIsmaelКүн бұрын
Well maybe it surely is possession… ? Like think about it, putting another woman or man’s hair on your head ,(cells) you’re probably getting the spirits and energy that comes with the hair….. & so like I always say, self love is most important. I can understand assimilation in a country like the US, but there must be balance & true self understanding.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Stay alert and of sober mind my dears. Your hair is a blessing. Don’t let the enemy fool you. Love y’all ❤
@WilliamsPinchАй бұрын
And won’t! 💅🏽💕
@laurendilaurentis6467Ай бұрын
12:44 THIS PART. Natural hair teaches grace, kindness, authenticity. Natural hair will teach you patience BY FORCE 😭 The natural ladies I’ve met and seen have such beautiful souls, beautiful music taste, more elegant and gentle. The women with wigs (mind you I was wearing wigs a mere 5-6 months ago) are sometimes more vain, snarky, ‘Bad Girls Club’ wannabes in my HOENST opinion. pls I’m not trying to be messy that’s just my observation.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I have very similar experiences to the one you have shared. I know its not the case for every Black woman who wears a wig, but unfortunately far too many wig wearers have adopted a prideful, self-centered stance (I used to be one of them). I think it’s important that we discuss this.
@favouro6344Ай бұрын
Can you make a video about black women not wanting to be near you, treating you badly in public, making rude comments, and overall being nasty to other black women who embrace their God-given beauty? The biggest enemies i have now are fellow black women since i decided to embrace myself.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Wow I am sad to hear that you have been experiencing that. I haven’t experienced that as much during the current journey I am on, but I can discuss the way other Black women have a tendency to be negative towards other Black women’s natural hair. I can only speak on things I have experience with. Thanks for the suggestion 💗💗
@favouro6344Ай бұрын
Thank you for the support @@healwithmare
@healwithmareАй бұрын
@@favouro6344 You’re so welcome 💗
@Supanova-ChannelАй бұрын
I wore a wig once & the uncomfortability i felt was insane. It's like putting a mask on your face. I can see how it could be addicting but the process it comes with it not worth it. Sis i would love if you made videos on how you became more obedient & disciplined in your practices. its been so hard for me to remain steadfast & i easily give into distractions.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
You described the wigs being a mask so perfectly. I completely resonate with everything you said here! The distractions come left and right. Holy Spirit truly keeps me in check. I have a community of believers that I am in constant contact with (church, Bible study, entrepreneurship meet ups). Do you belong to a church?
@Supanova-ChannelАй бұрын
@@healwithmare Im actually an ex-muslim who found jesus (still have a hard time accepting my truth ) and have not openly sought out a church or befriended like minded people. Im hoping to put myself out there more & stop hiding. ♥
@winnifrednanyange7548Ай бұрын
@@Supanova-ChannelPraise God for coming to know Him through Jesus! I’m praying that you get settled into a church soon, and make good, godly, kind friends. This journey is not easy and we’re not meant to walk it alone. God bless you. :) ❤
@munchkineatsalotvent9899Ай бұрын
i always wanted to try a synthetic wig I think wearing other ppl DNA is nasty n weird
@Supanova-ChannelАй бұрын
@@winnifrednanyange7548 Awh thank you , God bless you too♥♥♥
@quayporter4526Ай бұрын
Spiritual warfare is real! I look forward to your videos, but recently, you stopped coming through, and I wasn't receiving notifications. I searched, and I've missed 2 of them. Your videos are life-changing, and Satan knows it! Keep going!
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Wow! I have been feeling the spiritual warfare picking up lately and increasing. My channel is tearing down alters and the enemy is shaking. I am glad you went searching for my content. I post every Tuesday now! ❤
@callmechichi1711Ай бұрын
You look stunning 🤩. The mustard color looks good on your skin & I love the back puff.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you so much. I love when my hair gets to this length and I can start doing back puffs. They are my easy go to style 😍🥰
@callmechichi1711Ай бұрын
@@healwithmare We love simplicity over here!
@NovaAdachiАй бұрын
Thank you for reminding me that my 4c hair is beautiful. ❤ Lately the pressure has been so heavy to manipulate or hide my hair to fit in, but then your video appeared on my timeline. Thank you ❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Don’t hide who God created you to be. You are a blessing to this world just the way you are. I’m glad this video came on time for you ❤❤
@charlesbiel2082Ай бұрын
exactly! no other group of people lives as unnatural as us. we're under permanent attack but the light in us is greater than what they're planning against us. There's simply nothing they can do to stop our glory as a people.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Our light will continue to shine! ✨ A lot of Black women with type 4 hair are starting to wake up, myself included. Glory to God 🙏🏾
@Deja-gg4dgАй бұрын
Yes! The artificial hair, hair products, cheap clothes, makeup, over sexualization in the videos and music, etc. The collective needs to do better.
@charlesbiel208229 күн бұрын
@@healwithmare There must be something powerful in our hair that the enemy doesn't want to see. So when we wear it proudly, it tortures them. That's why they make it socially (work, school, ...etc) unacceptable for us to be in our purest form.
@charlesbiel208229 күн бұрын
@@Deja-gg4dg For real. Even the common comb we use everyday is not really designed for our type of hair. Everything must be rethought and redesigned to fit us better. Even in the vocabulary. It's everywhere!
@Deja-gg4dg29 күн бұрын
@ So true! You know, even picks, in my experience, didn’t really seem conducive to my hair, and they are marketed to black people with Afro hair! Wide tooth combs seem to work the best for me. I’ve tried finger detangling… but that was a while ago. Anywho, language is a big one, and sometimes I believe we hurt ourselves with language we take on from people who formerly oppressed us. Like some black women will call another’s hair nappy… and I think that’s probably a bad thing. We need to use more empowering language.
@Puffpuff-30Ай бұрын
This is great content. I agree that hating your natural hair is demonic and self sabotaging.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Your comment is so spot on! The world puts hate in us. God never gave us a spirit of fear. Fear comes from the devil. Anything from the devil is demonic. Thanks for engaging with my content ❤
@alanekekАй бұрын
The title sent me 🤣, however you’re not wrong. I started embracing my hair as a tween bc of the same feeling. Now I have long 4c hair that I don’t really even think too much about, just another piece of me. Thanks!
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Yesss! That is exactly what our hair should be, another piece of ourselves. I hope we can all get to this place someday 💗💗
@HandleBerriesАй бұрын
Just got my last pair of braids then I’m going back to my headscarf my hair needs to actually be loved again(just some stitch braids to the back not too many)
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Yess to loving your hair again! The more you love your hair, the more you will notice it begin to heal and thrive. God bless you 💗
@4blikeme165Ай бұрын
Tell it like it is! Mare doesn’t sugarcoat! God blessssss ❤❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
The truth shall set you free. There’s no longer time to people please. No time to waste! ❤
@lydiaempowers7070Ай бұрын
It hit home that part you said the hair was not done while it was in twist, I think most consider hair being done once it’s under a wig weave or extensions sad truth 🙁
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Yeah I rewatched my old video where I said that my hair wasn’t done and now I see that I was truly struggling. I have come such a long way and I know if I did it, others can do it too 💗🙏🏾.
@LovingZeeАй бұрын
Yes! So good. The Lord also convicted me about extensions years ago and recently about taking out my nose ring. Ive felt so free even just washing my face without a piece of metal sticking out of my nose. I feel refreshed
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Wow! God is working! Happy for you sis! I love being able to wash my face and play with my daughter without fear she will accidentally rip out my nose ring. I feel so free too🙌🏾💗
@LovingZeeАй бұрын
@healwithmare Happy for you too !!
@EtherealSolanaАй бұрын
I want to get out my braids because of the intrinsic toxicity!
@lauren-ty1lfАй бұрын
Yes I took out my nose ring too!!
@jasminscarbrough2596Ай бұрын
It’s psychological/ spiritual warfare for sure
@healwithmareАй бұрын
100%. No one can tell me otherwise. Especially after experiencing what it feels like to be set free. Now that I am on the other side of bondage, I know I was literally under some sort of curse.
@jasminscarbrough2596Ай бұрын
@ this is going to sound racist but I have to ask bc it’s really holding me back. This all started bc of yt supremacy. Why did God give them so much power over our psyche? In history in general. As I try to enter into Christianity I’m not going to lie… that part bothers me a lot. You don’t have answer either if you think it’s going to mess with viewership or if you don’t have the answer.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
@@jasminscarbrough2596 What I can truly say is that God is fully sovereign and allows many things to happen, things that our human minds cannot conceive. Christianity was in Africa way before colonialism (you can research it in your free time). Jesus is real and He has been saving my life since birth. I pray you have an encounter with Him 🙏🏾
@EtherealSolanaАй бұрын
God didn’t “give them power” they took it. Since genesis, humanity had free will… they could follow goodness or not
@hermig6295Ай бұрын
I really love your content. God bless you sis.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗. God bless you too 🙏🏾💗
@yousuredАй бұрын
I’m learning to talk nicer about my hair and to myself about my hair… it’s super difficult, I thought alcohol was hard… this natural hair embracing takes the cake .. I hope to make it 30 days with no heat / straightening
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. I pray God delivers you from the negative self talk about your hair. I am happy to hear that you are trying. You are headed in the right direction 💗🙏🏾
@docfabzАй бұрын
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@4blikeme165Ай бұрын
Nah, but why did your father Abraham remix go SOO HARD?! 😂😂😂. Love you girl ❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
LOL your comments always have me laughing 🤣
@fruitsarelife7073Ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining it in a spiritually!! ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾 It’s very much a curse
@healwithmareАй бұрын
It truly is a curse that I hope we all wake up to. Insecurity comes from fear. Fear comes from the devil, therefore it is demonic. If Jesus set me free, I know He can do it for others 💖🙌🏾🙏🏾
@tbyah7425Ай бұрын
Keep the kingdom work going - more power to you. 👏🏾
@healwithmareАй бұрын
I will do anything for God’s glory 🙏🏾💗
@Michelles_DaughterАй бұрын
Most of us are still learning to love our hair especially if it’s a 4C texture. I’m 43 years old and I can honestly say only in the last few years have I been growing to love it more and more each day. Thanks for posting this message 🙏🏾 💜
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing a bit of your story. It took me a long time to get to this place too. It’s something I feel like a lot of us struggle with. I’m glad it is coming to the forefront finally so we can collectively heal 🙏🏾
@Dagai18Ай бұрын
God bless you and the work you continue to do. Never give up 🙌🏿
@healwithmareАй бұрын
God bless you & thanks for the encouragement 🙏🏾
@Naturallyrose86Ай бұрын
An other amazing videos my sister! It’s not normal to hate the hair God bless you with. I find every style I do with my hair is gorgeous maybe it’s me but am just inlove with my hair ❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
All of your styles are beautiful. That is the right attitude to have 🥰😍
@keyahninaylor4974Ай бұрын
Facts ❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
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@healwithmareАй бұрын
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@A_WilsonАй бұрын
Doing the Lord’s work as usual Sis!! 👏💖😘💜
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Always. I wish I had someone telling me these things back when I didn’t love my hair 💗
@jjbouthАй бұрын
💯🎯keep talking about it!
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Always! God is working. He wants us to seek His face and turn from our wicked ways 💗
@sd8150Ай бұрын
This resonated with me so much! I too have been called by TMHY as well. It has not been easy, the attacks are so crazy. I would never go back. The peace in my life is indescribable. It is just amazing. Learning to walk away from vain things has been such an experience. It has humbled me to my very core. I repent daily for how led astray I was. Im so grateful that wisdom has been bestowed upon me. May God continue to cover you and bless you on this journey. May this ministry bring many souls to Christ and grow exponentially.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
You are so highly favored. I am grateful that you are able to feel the peace of God. The peace truly surpasses all understanding. I want this for everyone. Our world would be a much better place if we all accepted the peace that Christ has to offer us. Thank you for speaking life into this ministry. Amen amen 🙏🏾💗
@Pablo-h8bАй бұрын
What a beautiful woman you are❤ i love you and respect you 🙏
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you. Love you too 💗💗
@DarlineLobriАй бұрын
Self-hate is demonic period. Overly confident and arrogance is also demonic as well. Self love is godly so don't be afraid to love yourselves and how God created you and be humble while doing it. 💗
@healwithmareАй бұрын
This comment is absolutely spot on! God didn’t create us to feel inadequate or insecure. Insecurity is a spirit of fear. Fear comes from the devil. Anything that comes from the devil is demonic. Period. God bless you! 💗💗💗
@lindav7158Ай бұрын
Stand hard on this girl❤❤❤❤❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Ten toes down. God is going to get the glory 🙏🏾💗
@SuperSweetEJКүн бұрын
I’m so glad I found your channel. God recently started convicting me about wearing weaves and wigs. I’m now growing out my natural hair and learning to love it. 😊
@healwithmareКүн бұрын
God convicted me too sis. I know He has been calling a lot of us back to him through our hair journeys. I’m proud of you for answering His call. I know it’s not always easy, but it’s so worth it. I’ve been on this journey for 9 months now and I truly love how God has transformed me 💗
@MindfullyRootedАй бұрын
This video resonated with me SO much. Thank you for sharing, please continue to spread this very much needed message. God bless🙏🏾
@healwithmareАй бұрын
I am glad this video resonated. I’ll be posting new videos every Tuesday, God willing 🙏🏾. Thanks for the support ❤
@candaceyoung7498Ай бұрын
Amazing video❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you for watching, Candace 💗🙏🏾
@Sisi-IsisАй бұрын
That’s beautiful daughter of Yah , I will share this with my adult daughter and teen daughter. I brought them up on natural hair however they no longer wear their hair naturally and naturally their mental health has suffered also.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Good morning. I will lift your daughters in prayer. I pray they return to their God-given beauty. My mental health was in shambles while I was hiding from who God created me to be. They will return to their true beauty, in Jesus name 🙏🏾💗
@callmechichi1711Ай бұрын
Tfs girly! ❤️🩷💜
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thanks for watching 💕💗💗
@xomi-q3zАй бұрын
Last year I started to feel very conflicted about how I would hide my hair in soft locs and other protective styles. I felt so guilty that it would keep me awake at night (I know dramatic but I’m being so serious lol). Back then, I had no clue why but I am so glad that 16 year old me took a brave step forward to start embracing my hair. I say that it was a brave move because where I live, no one really wears their hair out. I should also mention how I agree with what you said about how said it is that older women who depends on wigs can be the most mean people (literally all the women in my family who has something to say about my hair are MEAN.) For the longest, I felt like an outsider and I still do sort of do.The women in my family always has something to say about my hair. I’m glad that you mentioned how you would view your hair as “not done” when it was very much done. It made me feel better because that’s exactly how I feel too! I’m 17 now and I’m having a lot of doubts about how I am going to be perceived once I step out into the real world (because I know how wicked it can get when you choose to not follow society’s beauty standards). Edit: I feel so convicted when I try to put weaves in my hair, I feel so guilty because I know deep down that the weaves aren’t going to make me feel any better about myself if I do install them. But I appreciate you for making this video, it made me want to look deeper into the things I feel like I “have” to do to “fit in”, but in reality who is making the rules to “fit in”. I’m looking forward to watching more of your videos!
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to write this comment. Everything you said really spoke to me because I can completely relate. When I was wearing wigs, I truly felt exhausted. I didn’t like the fact that I felt like I needed them. I became so dependent on them that I wouldn’t even feel pretty enough without them to leave my house to do a simple errand. I was truly a prisoner in my own body. I don’t ever want to feel that way again. God delivered me and I believed Him. I moved forward and chose to believe that I was beautiful. I didn’t wait on society. What people have to say or don’t have to say will never stop me from loving who God created me to be. It is a sin to be insecure. Insecurity is fear. Fear does not come from God. Fear actually comes from Satan. When we worship fear and insecurity, we are worshipping Satan. I don’t have time for that. Life is too short. I am set free! I pray my content will set other girls/women free as well. God bless you! 💗🙏🏾
@fruitsarelife7073Ай бұрын
You Are so pretty 😍🩷🩷🩷
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you ☺️💗
@kingdom_journey1484Ай бұрын
I love your testimony about the nose ring sis. Great video. God chastens those who He loves. We must have the ear to hear and the heart to obey.
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thank you so much. God is doing a new thing in me. I have learned to be obedient even when my flesh doesn’t want to. Obedience is so important!
@Carlton-m9mАй бұрын
Heal with Mare Beautiful in the Video My Left Leg doing ok Happy Wednesday and Happy Thanksgiving love You lol Have a Safe Thanksgiving Watching Football and watching the Ohio State and Michigan Game lol 💙💙💙
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Hey! I am glad to hear your left leg is doing okay. Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁 in advance. Thanks for reminding me about the game. God bless you! 💗
@drizzyhanns1303Ай бұрын
Thank you Mare ❤
@healwithmareАй бұрын
You’re welcome love 💕
@InSyncWithJesusАй бұрын
❤❤❤🎉Very True sis JESUS CHRIST 🙏 REIGNS FOR ETERNITY
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Jesus is Lord ❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
@gigi4874-w3wАй бұрын
It's the same with makeup.🎉
@healwithmareАй бұрын
I created a video recently about the things I gave up as a Christ follower, and excessive makeup was on the list
@sikadeborahtelou728Ай бұрын
@Healthwith mare . I agree and understand what you're saying but i have started my natural hair journey last year i it's difficult to maintain especially when you don't have a good routine or the means to take care of it . I also hate these human hair wigs and find them repulsive.. but i also understand girls that put on the synthetic wigs because not every day is a good hair day and some jobs as controversial as it seems does require having a professional look even in Africa because they will look down on you for having your natural hair out not perfectly done not that i care much but i just like being discreet. I'm currently thinking about chopping my hair or relaxe it because I have some much broken ends and sometimes i just want to comb my hair without feeling any pain. I do like my hair but sometimes i don't .
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Thanks for this comment. Our hair does look professional. I wear my hair pulled back and it takes me 3 minutes to do, very easy. I used to make a lot of excuses about why I couldn’t wear my hair. I decided to stop making excuses and embrace my God-given hair. Life has gotten better for me since I started loving my hair. My hair is also growing and the breakage is fixing itself so I don’t have to cut it. I pray you will wear your hair 100%. God bless ❤
@chrisharris2367Ай бұрын
I got my hair pressed since age 3 and permed since age 8 I enjoy straighter hair because growing up in the 90s this was celebrated I feel most beautiful with straighter hair in a long Bob style I always get compliments when I where a straight long Bob like to my shoulders from men and women Before I wore wigs I had medium length thick hair I regret stopping my normal regimen which was pressing my hair I think for me Tex lax is healthiest I applaud ppl that are brave enough to wear their natural hair year round I did go natural before btw Also btw I have very thick 4c hair Actually mine is probably 4z
@healwithmareАй бұрын
4z hair is beautiful 🤩. Going natural is a blessing. Returning back to who you were made to be is a blessing. Thanks for sharing your journey with me. Your God-given hair will always be best 💗💗💗
@OdumaseАй бұрын
Type 4 hair becomes easier once it’s washed and moisturized regularly (weekly)
@healwithmareАй бұрын
@@Odumase 100% agree. Also becoming a more patient person will make natural hair care easy as well
@chrisharris2367Ай бұрын
@ true but due to constraints and demands of daily life some black women don’t have the spare time to do this w their hair Again I applaud those that go all the way natural But for me Training my hair w a flat iron I felt my best
@OdumaseАй бұрын
@@chrisharris2367 wigs and straighten hair takes longer than natural hair also it doesn’t take long to wash hair once a week and apply a moisturizer that just sounds like excuses to me 🤷🏾♀️
@Cocoabrown25Ай бұрын
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@healwithmareАй бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@Simply_Deanna_726Ай бұрын
Do you have the same thoughts about synthetic hair?
@healwithmareАй бұрын
For me personally, I don’t put any hair on my head that isn’t my own anymore. I don’t mind wearing head scarfs, yarn, cloth etc. I also believe that God looks at the heart posture of a person when they do their hair. If you’re doing your hair because of an insecurity, that does not come from God. God does not give us a spirit of fear (insecurity), because insecurity is a form of fear. Satan created fear. Being insecure is a form of worshipping the devil. Hope this is helpful 💗
@EtherealSolanaАй бұрын
There is a doctor online who went over a study on the toxicity of synthetic hair. It’s the vast majority of it… I’m taking out my braid. Not worth messing with my reproductive, hormonal, and overall health!!! 😮
@healwithmareАй бұрын
@ proud of you sis. It’s not worth it at all. Especially because we are beautiful with our God-given hair. I used to do all that extra stuff for absolutely no reason 🤦🏾♀️
@Cocoabrown25Ай бұрын
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@healwithmareАй бұрын
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@chrisharris2367Ай бұрын
Anyone hear the comment trump jr said about the beauty pageant Very racist comment
@Sophia-angelАй бұрын
What no what did he say ????
@healwithmareАй бұрын
I didn’t hear anything about that. What was said?
@joyceg7859Ай бұрын
Obediana for Jesus lolllll 🤍
@healwithmareАй бұрын
Hey Joyce! I’m not sure what your comment means. Can you explain?
@joyceg7859Ай бұрын
@ thotiana for club. Obediana for Jesus ! 😂🤍it’s good . Happy holiday enjoy !!!