Married Woman Is Jealous Of Single Ladies Living their Best Life

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[@kimberly8695]

I always find it interesting how women generally think life doesn't begin until you're married, as opposed to men thinking life ends with marriage.

[@trulykey8106]

Hmm this idea is new to me tbh..Im a woman and never ever thought this wayy

[@trulykey8106]

And my parents never made me feel that way..not my family or friends..

[@ladybug3380]

Mind you it’s our lives they end in marriage

[@mammajamma4397]

Meanwhile, math tells me she's 52, but the face is still giving 35. She looks GOOD!

[@ceegee5287]

Ikr!!

[@glitter4592]

Yes she is beautiful

[@bm5_5_5]

Agreed she looks fab

[@ToniaAlex13]

Right!!

[@Rice10120]

Yes, she probably would have aged even better if she was single.

[@michelledirelle]

She is very honest. Let's please not bash on people who are honest. Better saying it then being passive aggressive towards others. I appreciate that.

[@smlorrin]

I agree.

[@sg5720]

I’m a happily married woman of 21 years, and I can tell that she is tired and bored in her marriage. She probably does all the house keep by herself. And I bet her husband does not have fun with her and her family. I feel bad for her. I wish women would marry the man that loves to be with them and loves doing things with them. A man who understands alone time. Marry your best friend, and make sure he considers you his best friend too. She is tired cause her marriage is simply not a good one. I get hated on for enjoying my family and enjoying travelling and having fun with my own husband. Apparently, being married should look like this woman. Sad 🤷🏽‍♀️😞

[@smlorrin]

@@sg5720 I'm not sure what the "Apparently, being married should look like this woman." means, but I think everyone thinks that being married should look like your life. It's just sad that it just as often looks like what this woman is experiencing. I think that all the woman in the video is saying is to truly enjoy your life while you are single rather than just *existing* until you get married.

[@peachesandpoets]

​@@sg5720 I don't mean to invalidate your nonsense but I guarantee you don't sit around getting a bunch of hate for being happy with your family. That's ridiculous.

[@shaypope4732]

I'm glad she's being honest but she only gets one life she should be able to enjoy it regardless

[@harishussein3270]

There would also be many married men who would be jealous of single ladies living their best lives 😂

[@kattodoggo3868]

😂

[@ritamccain7064]

You ain't never lied! Lol

[@shaypope4732]

So true

[@shanicrystal8671]

There is, that’s why they get nasty to single women, they jealous of our freedom while wifey makes them stay home every weekend 😂😂

[@laulutar]

If anyone tried to tell me that my life before my marriage wasn't real, we'd be having words 😂 My life began when I was born, not when I got married when I was 30. And I met my spouse when I was 18, and I told him, point blank, that I wouldn't be turning into his maid or mother, just because I'm a woman. And I told him that I was my own full person, not someone's "other/better half", thank you very much 😅

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

She's honest and I respect that. I'm divorced and BABY, I'm running, you hear me! 🥴😂 Single life is LIT for me! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@lovelymill]

сongrats hun! with you the best only~

[@AmusedGuitarPedals-pg9tk]

This is what a lot of married women are afraid to say. Notice how everyone who is hating on single women are men and other single women. Most married women are not speaking out.

[@jolomillaclothingline549]

Thats why tell young folks don't get married early in life wait till you in Your late 30s 40s by then you been had done Everything you wanted

[@Childfree334]

How about NOT getting married and being in control of your own life ALWAYS? Marriage and children are not a requirement.

[@BetterNBetter]

@@Childfree334 FACTS! Marriage and kids aint for everybody. Just let your life guide you where it guides you. 💯

[@claudidadi6633]

I saw this all the time.

[@PINKBOIKWEENOFSOUL]

No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no! Maybe the woman has done everything that she wants to do but ... BUT TRUST AND BELIEVE MEN CAN SCREW FROM NOW UNTIL IT DOESN'T WORK! 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ToniaAlex13]

Not a great odea if they want kids

[@meganrenee5581]

Husband and childfree can be a beautiful thing. I love it here.

[@nessamunik2044]

Patriarchy told women that our only sole purpose is to be wife and mother, that's the only time women are seen as being "worth" something... This is why many women believed life only starts once you're married and have kids, being single meant simply just existing. It's also the reason why it's so easy for married women to lose their identify, heck some didn't even have an identity before because they never actually got to explore and get to know themselves. And one day some of these women wake up years later, bored, burnt out, feeling like they cater to everybody but nobody caters to them, feeling like they never really got to know themselves, etc... It's quite sad🥺 Ladies please live, be in the moment, romance yourselves, follow your dreams, invest in your mental health, explore new hobbies, also don't wait until you've hit a milestone to be happy, create your own happiness, find joy in the journey not just the end game, dont just exist, life's too short to NOT be living❤

[@caramelmocha7680]

Beautifully said. 🙏🏾

[@shaypope4732]

So true

[@PlanBPills]

Patriarchy didn’t say anything your parents and family told women to get married there are plenty of women living their lives for themselves. The patriarchal structure is held up by women it can’t hold up on its own

[@nessamunik2044]

@@PlanBPills Did you even read or comprehend the comment???? "Your parents and family told women to get married" well no shi-... Our parents and families make up part of the society that were taught that men are to have more power than women. And that women's purpose is to serve their husbands and children... Guess who put that system in place? That is why GENERATIONS of men and women believe that a woman belongs in the home. Also why a large number of grown men bully and ridicule childfree and single by choice women, talking about "they're useless to society". You say women are living their lives for themselves, um, have you forgotten that women had to fight to live a life they wanted?? And guess why women had to fight? Oh right, men had all power and all say and were deemed superior and all knowing, so only they knew what both men and women wanted and what their life purpose was. Also no the patriarchal structure is NOT just held up by women it's held up by BOTH... And we still live in a time where men in power make decisions over women's autonomy.

[@nessamunik2044]

@PlanBPills Did you even read or comprehend the comment???? "Your parents and family told women to get married" well no shi-... Our parents and families make up part of the society that were taught that men are to have more power than women. And that women's purpose is to serve their husbands and children... Guess who put that system in place? That is why GENERATIONS of men and women believe that a woman belongs in the home. Also why a large number of grown men bully and ridicule childfree and single by choice women, talking about "they're useless to society". You say women are living their lives for themselves, um, have you forgotten that women had to fight to live a life they wanted?? And guess why women had to fight? Oh right, men had all power and all say and were deemed superior and all knowing, so only they knew what BOTH men and women wanted and what their life purpose was.

[@TheSolitaryWitch1]

Yes! it is bliss being single! I've always been single and very happy and comfortable. This is the way it is supposed to be for me and I am NOT a people person at all-I never will be. I never been married, never had kids and never will - and I will forever remain this beautiful way. 💯💯

[@iluvdant]

Thank you! On the outside looking into marriage ha made me feel like ill never marry. These men are possessive & draining. Im loving my best life making my OWN decisions, idk if im willing to give that up

[@user-jc2ds3xw4u]

How much more proof that do women need that single life is a blessing

[@jessicanorris3614]

I wish i were single again I wish I were single again For if i were single my pockets would jingle I wish I were single again

[@DeneseJamerson]

I'MMA STEAL THIS POEM!

[@LaBelleJouJou]

Many women feel they have arrived once they were married. They soon learn that they are at a stand still and their husband’s are living their best life without them. The issue isn’t marriage The issue is who you marry and what marriage looks like to them. Girls are focused on the dress shoes venue cost of the wedding etc Very little focus on the actual marriage that lies ahead What does marriage entail for you and does that match your partner’s view of marriage. Less focus on a fantasy and more focus on what you are looking for long term

[@Diana734]

If the majority of women knew what marriage and children involved then most would make a different choice. They think they can handle it but once children are involved you no longer have the freedom to think only about what you want for yourself because you have others depending on you.

[@StarryWaters-gq1oj]

Even without kids, it's a shock. I truly was unprepared for marriage meaning I was expected by a lot of people to mommy, manage, and change my husband and that I would be the one blamed if he was sloppy, lazy etc. after marriage I really realized how much had been expected of me as a single woman and how little has been expected of him

[@omphilemoerane2569]

​@@StarryWaters-gq1oj very true. For the rest of your marriage, YOU will be blamed if he's not dressed properly or if the house is messy.

[@trulykey8106]

​@@StarryWaters-gq1ojThat is just soo weird and awkward how you were expected to do all this..Ivve been hearing women say this but I havent experienced it .😮😮😮

[@trulykey8106]

​@@omphilemoerane2569Thats also weird..Why do ppl care about this?

[@omphilemoerane2569]

@@trulykey8106 that's just the patriarchal society we live in. Everything is the woman's fault.

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

34 and living my best life!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@user-dq9rr9mv3f]

I’m so happy I had so much fun when I was single. I did what I wanted, when I wanted , with whom I wanted.. I’m married now 20yrs…I had no parents, so no one to disappoint, and no one to answer to… I never even saw myself married with children..I did zero work to be a wife.. Didn’t really even give a shit about men like that.. I just literally lucked up on meeting my person..Too be honest I had settled in my mind that I would settle in with my cat.. (I’ve always had cats) With this said.. I’ve always been about doing things I like to do, last week I went to a Rock concert SOLO.. Left the hubby with the kiddo, or is it kiddo with the hubby.. The one thing I regret is not making friends, I’ve always been a loner, I wish I had girlfriends to do some things with..My friends were family members

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

My Mom always said I don't care if you have kids, but I want you married. My response has always been that if I don't want kids, there's no point in marriage. I don't need any XY trying to boss me around. I'm the boss of my house. 4B.❤

[@kimberlymatthews4480]

I got married young and honestly I’m so happy women are having these conversations for other women to hear I also thought marriage was just what you were supposed to do and I’m so happy to be living my best single life now while I’m still young enough and financially secure enough to do so.

[@nolia920]

Im happy she share her struggle for this path shes taking, because as a single person we still do ask those questions we just choose ourselves instead of what society tell me to pick.

[@daebak_hana]

Some women want to be married some don't. Everyone should be living their best life no matter the circumstances. Every situation is not for everyone. Judging and/or attacking other people's lifestyle is dumb.

[@macky1847]

How about we all just mind the business that pays us and enjoy our lives!

[@chamab.6800]

The question then becomes why did she believe her younger years were just placeholder years? It’s what women were taught in the 90s. Now that we’re older, times have changed and women are allowed to say that things aren’t what society told her it was going to be. It was the same thing when women that grew up in the 50s/60s saw young women in the 80s/90s. We had more knowledge, as it were, and more freedoms and they felt that same envy and jealousy. The only difference between then and now is that most women from the 50s/60s wouldn’t admit that they had a level of jealousy back then. If you speak to them now they’ll speak more freely. I’ve heard many women in their 80s and 90s say that they wish they had had the knowledge and freedom we have now back then. That they would have made different choices and their lives would have been so different.

[@user-vz7pf6tm1q]

I used to feel jealous of women who have a partner and have children and have a home but now I'm so grateful that I get to see now that kind of life is ,and it is not me I have a son and I'm grateful for that but men can be so miserable and demanding I'm so happy that is not me I'm grateful that I can go in and come out as I feel like that I don't have to be old accountable for anything but my son anybody else but my son

[@user-vz7pf6tm1q]

sorry my eyes

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

I’m married, but I’m not jealous of single women because I have no kids yet & I have pushed back against societal expectations of married women. I refuse not to care for myself and indulge in what I want and like. You don’t cease to exist when you get married. That breeds misery. I started down that route, but woke up. I hated my life that way. Honestly, if my husband takes issue with that then we will not be. I am not a servant. I am a person with needs too.

[@DivineIshma]

That's facts married women do not like me because I am not married and I don't feel the need to be married. Meanwhile, they're miserably married assuming they needed a husband. I feel bad for them because they really are unhappy. I never met a happily married woman.

[@TanyaBrightFuture]

I don't understand what is her problem - get divorced and be single again and enjoy your single life❤😂😂😂

[@Amethyst454]

She made the vow, some people take it seriously. As they should. Plus she sounds like she still has minor children.

[@olikah4667]

I appreciate her honesty. If other women would just say the quiet part out loud, we’d show them grace. But they’d rather come from pickme/misogynist talking points and get mad when the internet deals with them.

[@Beautyroom300]

It depends on the marriage. Her marriage seems like hell.

[@caramelmocha7680]

Well… as a single, childfree woman, it’s very hard to have even a little bit of sympathy for women like her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with marriage, relationships, etc. However, society glorifies these things and rather than being honest about all that goes into maintaining a marriage, let alone a relationship, people jump into relationships with rose colored, glasses on while being stuck on the fairy tale of “happily ever after”! I feel like these are the same women who on one hand, regurgitate red pill, talking points and perpetuate pick me, behavior but on the other hand, start to feel regretful once they realize that marriage isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be. Society makes single hood and wanting to be alone seem like a curse.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Doesnt hur having compassion. Everyone was brainwashed, somw with heavier pressure than others.

[@shanna2.2.2]

Yeah but that’s exactly how women have ended up in those situations, because society sells a dream and also makes you believe that marriage and children is just the end goal. It’s wrong and it’s gross but that’s how things are perpetuated.

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

Thanks my beautiful sister... Loving the looks.

[@user-jc2ds3xw4u]

Why don’t we have more women being this honest why are more women not talking about the burden of motherhood and being a wife

[@loriparks8657]

To all the married females you made a choice you made a decision about how you wanted to live your own life . The same goes for the single females who doesn't want to get married they too are making choices decisions about how they want to live their own lives . By viewing this video is a prime example deeply think about your decisions and your choices by living your own life the way that you truly want to live it Instead of letting others tells you what you should do about living your life the way that they want you to live it .

[@analiseferguson]

35 years of your life….a placeholder….lol some ppl really are delusional.

[@trulykey8106]

Im soo glad and thankful I wasnt grown up thinking marriage is the goal..In fact, my dad discourages me to date..Also glad the ppl around me don't view me as a nurturing creature whose purpose is to give birth. That is just weird to me

[@sushisue42]

If you are living your best single life, but at so.e point you meet a good man, no need to get married - you've found a equal life partner to share life with.

[@the_agate_gate3782]

Sounds like a you problem. No one made you live that way-You chose to. You should’ve thought about what effect marriage and kids would have on your life before you did it.

[@claudidadi6633]

Exactly

[@StarryWaters-gq1oj]

No one can truly know exactly what a situation is truly like until you actually live through it. It's just wrong to expect people to have a perfect, full, complete understanding of what X is like until they lived it. I spent many single years reading about marriage, talking to married people, thinking through married topics. My husband and I had a lot of talks before marriage about things. And still a LOT of things took me by surprise. Not because I was ignorant and ill informed but because I was inexperienced. Please don't believe the common myth that you can completely prepare for and understand a brand new life experience so that nothing about it surprises you. There is no way to 100% fully understand marriage/parenting until you experience it

[@THErealOGse]

While I appreicate her honesty I do not really feel bad for her. She literally made choices like everyone else in the world and is living with the consequences. She apparently is a pick me who is finally waking up and it is probably too late.

[@no-uhuh]

I feel her.

[@theafroassassin2535]

That's her decision , she can think what she wants for it. For me, my life is right here and now. Marriage and kids isn't real life for me. But again, that's for me. Hers is for her.

[@prettytings8216]

That's because he hubby boring.

[@lilpandanesegirl]

Honestly, single women want to be married, and married women want to be single. not all but the majority. we usually want what we don't have lol in everything. and honestlt don't believe what you see on social media. anyone can fake that they are having fun. in the end I love being in bed with my husband by the end of the night. I just hope both men and women fins their happiness or give their thanksgiving to what they have.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Lol those single women also love being in bed with their boyfriends by the end of the night😂 They've got the best of both worlds.

[@Gia-mg5nx]

Oh please. How about you bring the single jealous women who take cheap shots at married women. The single women who lust after married men, bring them. Yes, miserably single women will always be a toxic pain. However, same can be said about miserably single women who are mad no man is claiming them. Many single women arent living their best life because their envy manifests into petty drama. Happily married women pay single women dust. People want to so bad come after married women. That married woman in the video is an outlier. If she wants to be single she can do that but she doesnt. She aint trying to be like these tiktok women who post up facades.

[@everythingbeautyboutique5002]

Who wants to be claim by a man that brings nothing but misery and expects the woman to do everything. Not interested!!

[@smlorrin]

Your use of "no man is claiming them" shows your attitude. 🙄 I bet you never refer to a man getting married as being "claimed" by the woman. I know *many* married women who are like this woman, especially if they have children. These women are basically servants for everyone else in the family, including their husbands. This isn't the case for most of the married women I know who either don't have children or who have a husband who does his share of the work at home.

[@zr9145]

You sound miserable..

[@kylieking8163]

Why so mad

[@bethanycoleman426]

If you're so happily married why are you so triggered by single women who have done nothing to you?! You sound so angry, bitter and resentful towards single woman. They're are far more married men pursuing single woman than in the reverse. Like the saying goes, "ain't no one more single than a married man." Your issue isn't with us.