Marriage & Money Ep. 3: Drs. Contessa & Scott Metcalfe: Doctors Need Healing Too

[@lawestphilly]

Dr Contessa is the total package brains beauty and financially responsible. My kinda role model 💯🖐

[@vintagelove7702]

Wow, when Egypt and Mike explained the "Manish" part, she hit the nail on the head. I found myself being masculine because I didn't feel safe. I always felt that way but never could put that into words. She and Mike explained it perfectly, so thank you for that truth that so many couples experience. #thatpart

[@sandragibson4173]

I agree. Wish I had understood that earlier in my life.

[@egyptandmike]

Yes every action stems from something... an emotion. If we can learn to articulate the emotion versus acting it out, we can communicate our needs better and in a way that can be reciprocated.

[@Mochadee2003]

❤ The Metcalfes I’m so glad that they did the work on rebuilding their marriage. I ❤ the show. The hosts are so transparent

[@karenplater6350]

I'm so happy that Contessa and Scott went to counseling and is working things out in their marriage.

[@egyptandmike]

Yes the big "T" has proven to work.

[@elainepalmer7979]

Egypt and Mike, this podcast is so rich and important to family. Keep up the great work.

[@egyptandmike]

Thanks a mil!

[@QueenC89]

Married to Medicine has done this couple an injustice. They are engaging and I have truly enjoyed this segment. ❤

[@egyptandmike]

Yes on reality tv you only get a snapshot.

[@madameclark3453]

I’ve been stressing about being homeless since I was 4 years old. I get it. I did become homeless in my youth. Today, I’m going to retire with a warm and safe place to lay my head and a meal in my tummy.

[@thebattlesbelieversgroup7951]

Wow!! Thank you for sharing. This gives me insight to my own children’s lives, and memories. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@FloJoBum]

@@madameclark3453 happy for you and God’s blessings upon your retirement life!👏🏼😊

[@danielleh4998]

Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott are amazing! I’m so happy that they chose go to therapy and make their marriage work. They dropped some 💎

[@MrsDMG2024]

QUICKLY becoming one of my favorite podcasts. Thank you for your transparency!

[@egyptandmike]

We appreciate the love.

[@Kedia12]

So Contessa speaks so much better here than she did or what was shown on married to medicine.

[@Konkretelotus]

I love it here! This is so needed even for us “SINGLE INDIVIDUALS”

[@Tgallager2742]

I love Contessa she's my favorite on 'Married to Medicine' love her

[@rai55]

When I tell you I’m OBSESSED with this podcast since discovering it 4 days ago!✨❤️ Keep dropping those jewels 💞

[@egyptandmike]

That is such a compliment we don't take lightly. Thank you for being a part of our tribe!

[@diquecannon]

So happy to see Black ⚫️ Excellence in love from both couples, thank you kindly 🙏

[@moormorebooks5103]

Just subbed. Didn’t know they had a podcast. I think a great unspoken takeaway from this….you first have to have a good foundation in a relationship. Dr Contessa and Dr Scott were very compatible. My husband and I both come from previous marriages. We were living the ideal life just a few days ago and I got some really bad news. Because we have a good foundation, I’m surprisingly not devastated. I actually said today, “When we get through this it will be a testimony”. I think in our community many couples come from dysfunction and bring that into a marriage. And one thing that’s certain is challenges, crisis will come. If you’re already on shaky ground (marrying someone whom you’re not equally yoked or not compatible) it will be almost impossible to stand.

[@jantoles]

You guys just keep getting "gooder and gooder"!!! 🙂I LOVE IT!!!! So far, ALL of your guests gonna have to come back!!!

[@toniwilson5832]

I love gooder too lol! I usually say more gooder from the commercial 🤣

[@FloJoBum]

This is a great wonderful show that young singles should listen to to learn how to become husbands and wives. It really prepares you for a relationship and not blindly enter a marriage and learn from the school of hard knocks.

[@RobynHeliece]

Great episode. This is what we want to see on black reality shows. Contessa looks gorgeous!!!

[@sigma_man886]

I really enjoyed hearing the husband perspective. What I got from this was don't be stuck in it but grow from it ... powerful episode!!!

[@elles.6768]

I love the show, the episodes are never long enough! Please invite Kandi and Todd.

[@egyptandmike]

Noted and thank you!

[@delorisnixon444]

That would be interesting. I might be a little nervous about that one.

[@delorisnixon444]

I'm not really a fan of podcasts, but I'm hooked! Glad I stumbled upon this. Your genuineness and transparency with your guests and audience, as well as the guests transparency, has destined this to be a success. PLUS, I love everything that you guys do. Good people. ❤

[@Justnik05]

Wow! I'm really enjoying these. Love you two! I've followed Egypt since (for me) her early days on HGTV. So glad Mike had the idea. Blessings on both for keeping God and true-to-life decisions in the conversations.

[@egyptandmike]

Love and light to you.

[@chanreka]

Such a beautiful conversation!!!

[@cynthiajackson3038]

Thanks Mike and Egypt for having my two favorite doctors on. Keep it Real!

[@Finishedin52Insurance]

Thank you for your transparency. I pray many blessings over everyones marriage and family in Jesus Name.🙏🙏🙏

[@robinchism8704]

I am loving this podcast I was married to my husband 18 years got divorced for 7 and remarried him again now we have been married since 2011 I agree with most of what you are saying I like and love my husband now more than ever we pretty much grew up together and learned a lot about each other

[@sandragibson4173]

That part! You can love your spouse but not like them!

[@jacquih8804]

This episode was "soooo" GOOD!

[@stacyo.1080]

That happened to me also. Citibank was waiting for me freshman year in the student union and I had no money or clue about money management because my parents didn’t talk to me about money . I didn’t get on track until my late 20s and fast forward many years, my credit score is excellent and I have been able to show my daughter the road to money management and 2 years after college, her score is fantastic. I just love your show and the topics you bring to surface.

[@jerralynh7335]

Love this episode and the transparency!❤

[@lindak3545]

Yes!! They all kept it REAL real!! ❤👍🏽

[@bobbie4165]

My new therapy session. Love this my husband is really getting Into this so thankful he's talking about his childhood through this podcast.

[@egyptandmike]

Thank you for saying so.

[@susancastro2261]

Dr Contessa is a great communicator I love that she worked at her marriage and loves her husband. Egypt & Mike are so wonderful love watching them keep God in the center 👏🏼🥰👏🏼🙏🏼

[@cherylwalker7923]

This was such a great interview. Giving thanks to both couples for your transparency.

[@c.r.1940]

I always loved them! Thank you for being so transparent. I love to see our beautiful black queens not only mothers, but successful, brilliant, courageous, and willing to not assist with bringing their kings to the top with them. Teamwork makes the dream work. Keep doing phenomenal things. Much love and respect ❤❤

[@darlenewilliams-moore9569]

Hello Mike & Egypt: You guys are so down to earth and keep it real and in perspective, most definitely your the (Power Couple)❤💯, Luv your podcast, Good Luck, Luv this Session with the Doctor’s ( Black Love)❤

[@diquecannon]

Men we Ladies don't want to be mannish, we want to be soft, as long as you prepare for the leadership ❤

[@lashaundadiaz7453]

I have always loved and admired Dr. Contessa. I am inspired by her the most out of all of the women on M2M!

[@latashawesley2198]

This is so on point. I totally love this episode. The viewers need more of this ❤😊

[@egyptandmike]

Yes they were sooo honest.

[@crystalharris-thomas1939]

Dr. Scott that was beautiful. Go get your wife. Don't ever let her get away.. That's right she is a queen and your her king. I love you two ❤️ All four of you are awesome ❤️

[@egyptandmike]

Received and thank you.

[@ADivaAlways]

Keep this up please! I loved the one to go on and grow on tips at the end. I wholeheartedly agree with both of you. This podcast gives me that warm cozy feeling you have when you’re in a spiritually sound environment. ❤

[@becausewesaidyesmrs.wilson984]

I LOVE THIS PODCAST… I am Relationship Coach and I am always searching for content, resources, and other materials that are thought provoking. It has also helped me understand and find some new tools for my own marriage! Thank you!!!

[@travelwithsouthernchick5112]

Really like to see shows like this! It put light on family issues and how to reprogram ourselves to do better!!

[@kellyguy7990]

Yes!! Mike and Egypt, thank you. I'm loving this

[@stylesbyp9137]

True words at the end Mike! You must love and like the person who you are married to.

[@sandragibson4173]

That part!

[@Msgroovystyle]

Such good honest and open dialog. I have been married 25 years and I'm learning some jewels from your podcast🥰🥰🥰

[@marywilson7651]

Love the show. So heartfelt and informative. Keep it coming.

[@ThePhoenix-me5ni]

I’m really enjoying this series!

[@deeCheeBee5]

This one made me smile the whole time! Thank Scott and Contessa. I used to watch the show. I stopped watching for my own personal reasons! I appreciate your honesty and growth! Keeps shining. Mike and Egypt we adore you!

[@teresacathey8189]

Hello. This was a very good episode. Enjoyed your guest. Young people should be listening to this because nowadays people don’t put in the work to try and stay together, they get mad, and want to break up at the least little thing. Another words, they don’t want to listen or communicate with one another to try and solve the issues. 🥰🥰🥰

[@egyptandmike]

Yes that's why we started this podcast, to build community and show people LOVE and MARRIAGE can work.

[@MsMekia-yy9qb]

I loved everything about this episode. 💜

[@realtalkwithtammycooper2318]

Truly a fantastic inspiring transparent show. Thank you, I pray your platform and reach of influence will experience abundant growth.

[@egyptandmike]

Thank you for your prayer.

[@buhakeg]

This is so good and revealing of so much for me in my past and current relationship. Thanks Egypt, mike and Drs Contessa and Scott!

[@jerlynnghee207]

Love the transparency in this episode. I am the overly communicative, and my husband internalize. This helped me see how my childhood affects how I am in my marriage. Thank you!!

[@denital7666]

This is great! It goes to show if you are willing do the work to be a better you as an individual and couple with the understanding that holding yourself accountable via the lens of transparency built on a strong foundation of faith will grow that union. When you two agree that ignorance within your marriage is not an option, marriages can grow. I will be subscribing to this channel.👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏

[@juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080]

OMG...This was Extraordinary!! I sent it to my husband, friends, clients, children. There is soo much in here for everybody. Especially if we choose to do the hard work, after acknowledging the fact that there is indeed a problem...Thank you!!

[@egyptandmike]

Yes spread the word!

[@tonyatalented4275]

God bless their marriages!!

[@teridavis5050]

Thank you for sharing this information. Transparency is important for financial stability in marriage. Secondly, the humbleness from this successful couple is important. They could have hidden their financial information.

[@richardgreen8950]

OMGoodness I absolutely love you two..

[@PatriciaShortsColbert]

Thank you for this yall real and raw .

[@lolitaforest6197]

Congratulations on this show I'm enjoying it. I'm not married but, it's giving everything.....

[@lizt.3176]

Me either sis. However, I really enjoy the topics and open conversations between the hosts and the guests.

[@kayl7189]

Awesome awesome awesome!! Please rehearse the “femininity” part again women need to hear that. I can tell when my husband is turned off with me so I know when to back down but my sisters don’t and their husbands “do the most” 😳🙁

[@HealthPursuits]

Thank you for the refreshing transparency and laughter!!

[@princessbc9791]

I agree w/Contessa on a lot of things, especially money. Most of my friends know if you ask me for money and I don't see you that day to return it, I will be calling you the next day. So, when I've given money, they call me immediately if they can't pay it back. And when they find out I move that way, they always stop asking.

[@julielove8932]

After watching this today, hmmmmm....i pray for this union. 🙏🏾

[@focused0002]

It's sad for me to see this...Dr. Scott definitely seems insecure in this marriage 😢...he seems terrified that she is going to leave...this brother has ptsd...he is clearly traumatized 😢 And I so Love Dr. C...I feel she is the ENTIRE package 😊... I will that they figure it out and work it out

[@TOMMYBITESHOMESTEAD]

My husband and I both had bad credit for the same reasons. Well my husband first started building his back better and placed me on his and now mine is almost Better then his. We aren’t really taught about credit like that.

[@sugraliaferrell9030]

I love me some Dr. Contessa

[@jhurbon12]

I am really enjoying your podcast Egypt & Mike!!!❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@sentherengmotshwaiwa813]

I'm really enjoying your podcasts. Dr Contessa is my girl, I think I'm more like her when it comes to life and money. Thank you, we are learning all the time 🎉🎉🎉❤

[@roxannewilliams7913]

I love watching these videos. You guys give great marital advice.

[@log...]

Love your segment! I'm learning so much! Awesome interview

[@SeyoDeline]

This was the best! When you hear people that make you realise you're not crazy. I was on their wavelength even as a teenager! 🦉

[@ayannagrant3668]

This episode resonates with me. Being married 23 years. Counseloring was very important to us before we got married. Also couples marriage retreats helps as well. I look forward to more episodes. My Take away on finances . We are stronger when our strategy of savings are together.

[@egyptandmike]

That seems to be the strategy working for many of the couples.

[@Sandra-ly1ss]

This was such a great video/discussion! Thank you for sharing these dynamics, these are real issues in marriage. ❤

[@Sojournerofhope]

Love the transparency

[@deborahwhaley6395]

I love you guys, Egypt and Mike! ❤️❤️

[@dlfaulkner1]

Ya'll are funny. Sounds like my hubby and I. We work together everyday too. I'll finish looking at this tonight. Have a blessed day,

[@ladonnaspencer340]

One my favorite relationship podcast now!! I love Mike & Egypt and all of the beautiful couples that come on the show to share their stories…💕

[@natashawashington7834]

I really enjoyed this episode. 🎉❤ I enjoy them all immensely.

[@tanishalavernegrant9774]

Wow! Just Wow! Whew! Another great show!

[@deyaonsotti9594]

Excellent episode! Grateful for their transparency.

[@egyptandmike]

They indeed brought it all to the table!

[@anniehall1919]

Beautiful couple the Scotts💕

[@tonyatalented4275]

That's was Fire Scott!!

[@kimbranch4242]

This was amazing I learned a lot

[@jessicam7872]

This is why my husband and I have separate bathrooms. Lol

[@egyptandmike]

We do too!

[@sharonchilds3871]

I wish we did😊

[@thisisHowHedidit]

FANTASTIC EPISODE ONCE AGAIN!! I JUST LOVE YOU TWO!! AND YES, SHOUT OUT TO THE SCORPIO GANG!! 11/10 🦂♏ #SCORPIOSARENOTCRAZY LOL

[@rubyredd6366]

Enlightening interview! Liked them on Married to Medicine! Very profound and lovely business educated loving couple! ✨️✨️

[@lynnettereid424]

This was excellent!

[@nakitapurrher]

Great platinum. Thanks for the time and transparency.

[@diquecannon]

Joint account for bills and separate accounts for personal purposes ❤

[@hellenstrong8628]

Loving the shows and Your guests 🙏🏾♥️💯🌹💯♥️🙏🏾👍🏽🤟👌👋🖐🏾👀👊🏻🙏🏾

[@egyptandmike]

Thank you! We love them too.

[@avisrobinson1150]

@@egyptandmike I am truly enjoying your podcast, I am so thankful you both decided to do this. I would love to see Samuel L. Jackson & LaTanya Richardson. Denzel & Pauletta Pearson-Washington, Cameron & Lauren Hamilton from Love is Blind. Just a few for now🤣.. Seriously this is the best Podcast on KZbin for me. Congratulations and keep up the great work!!

[@jenniferu5955]

Love this show !!!!

[@shonbond8074]

I am in marriage counseling before I get remarried again thru this podcast. I guess my husband to be need to show up.

[@lynetteprice360]

This is episode 3 according to the topic

[@rosaborian]

Thank you coz Man always say am menish but now i realise that i have never had someone to lean on

[@ylondascott6789]

I respect and love them both even more❤

[@cruellerdevil267]

I love to see people win!

[@AllOfKee]

Luv Dr. Contessa

[@ninaprior49]

I ,over this video Scott and Contessa are great and the bomb. So authentic, loved it.

[@Beautifullymade13]

Awesome episode 😊

[@nahomieriche4827]

I so enjoy you guys podcast Mike and Egypt😊

[@chanellsmith3204]

Dr. Contessa looks fabulous, she really slimmed down even more than I can recall. I admire her. Listening to her, she is brains & beauty ☺️. I'm going to look into Dave Ramsey financial classes. I'm glad they are still together 💕. A Wellness Center is fantastic..self care & mental health is priceless. I'm at my holistic place for my birthday today. Holistic ear candling and foot detox 😉

[@egyptandmike]

She is fuggetaboutit drop dead gorgeous!