Married Couple Plays Agree To Disagree!

[@spectacu_lar]

I’m obsessed with the way this is filmed. It feels so intimate & casual. I love it!

[@spectacu_lar]

Love you guys ❤

[@noraaa8479]

I love their relationship and how understanding and mature they are, you can really see the love they have for each other.

[@sanyuktaperumal8423]

yes i agree with you

[@minnie777]

The way you guys talk to each other and the ability to listen and then reply with so much love and maturity is honestly what I look forward to in my marriage oneday. So Godly and pure

[@naomitrollopeillustration]

Wow Jess when you said ‘it’s not marriage that’s hard, it’s life that is hard’ my husband and I (we’re both watching!) we’re like ‘woah!) because that’s exactly what we’ve been saying to each other the last five years of our marriage!! Amazing to hear it from someone else who thinks the same. We also just had our first baby in April and have found doing life together more difficult, but it’s always worth the effort. Thanks for another great video guys ❤

[@jasmineburwag277]

Aww bless you and your family ❤

[@im_just_vidu]

As a psychology student, we get way too many cases of mother getting jealous of the child, cuz dad loves the child more than her. This is so common than you can even imagine. Mom thinks that "he doesn't love me anymore like he used to. Now his love is divided into me and child. Etc." So I'm so happy that Jess feels more love as a mom when she sees Gabriel with their daughter. They gonna be great parents. ♥️

[@helene6686]

That is so interesting. Do you think that those feelings/ dynamics come in as a mother when actual emotional needs are not met by the husband or bf. I have a friend who is in a toxic relationship where needs aren’t met, he is rude and dismissive sometimes. They’re engaged and we were talking about kids and ideally if we would want a girl or boy first and she said she doesn’t want a girl first bc she knows her fiancé would just push her to the side and just see the baby girl as the apple of his eye and won’t even care about her…. She was laughing as saying it but considering everything she goes through with him I was really taken a back by it. I think it speaks volumes that you would potentially feel that way in the future.🤔

They already are great parents 🥰

[@maha1017]

what in the verity

[@florence_ferauge1513]

I really loved that she said “I respect your opinion” before saying her opinion,

[@joiadoiron418]

The camera angles are giving me reality tv show vibes and I love it 😂❤

[@Welcome657]

Gabriel’s humor has been honed in a lot more as he’s grown up I love it😂😂 “ our opinion” done!!! 😭😭😭

[@maiahlouise2467]

Laughed so much HAHAHA

[@annjimenezbrisbane]

I love how open and honest you guys are with each other it's refreshing 💕

[@julieannemcconnell6806]

Love the way you guys filmed this and the honesty in your answers, was so fun! I think what made it so special though was that it felt like we were watching you two experience the conversation, instead of being presented with it in a way that was addressed to us? It was really cool to just see you guys talk through it, laugh about it and be open and honest with your thoughts and reasons why. Definitely a new favourite video. Would love to see another round please. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rnbear]

absolutely agree! I love this presentation and the authenticity of it.

[@savandyy]

Yesss I feel the same way!

[@mateiigrosu]

Wow I haven't watched you guys' content for a while, but I enjoyed this video so much. I feel like the conversations that you post online now are so mature, yet still funny. This really didn't seem like a "we have to make content" video, just an honest fun activity between spouses. God bless you guys 🤗

[@missdamzlroost]

When it comes to cheating I really think it’s about intentions. There’s been a few times where someone assumes I’m flirting or my husband is flirting when we are both just very friendly and talkative. But others have perceived that as flirting. So for my husband and I we go by intentions rather than perceptions

[@racheloshaksmusic]

This was definitely one of the most authentic videos out of the many authentic videos you have, because I felt like I was really getting to know you both more personally through these answers. I love how you both argue gently and defiantly, backing up your own thoughts with great conviction. 😂😂 It’s actually very healthy because honesty in communication makes a relationship thrive and actually get a lot closer. You both are great friends. You guys are perfect for eachother. The opposite for one another. In regards to the relationship argument question, it can be hard to not stress about what your partner is stressing about and what your partner clearly wants to sort out by themselves with God. I love to sort things out on my own too because most of the time I already know what I have to do, just need to get myself together before I do it/to do it. We should never be offended because it’s a personal choice. But sometimes there needs to be a balance, for the sake of communication and the marriage, simply because you are both “one”, no longer separate. But also to be team mates doesn’t always mean do everything together but do everything with peace and respect/understand the other persons desires in a way that produces peace for both husband and wife. It can be difficult crossing that border but God helps us bend towards one-another’s desires and show Grace. Prayer helps a lot too in letting go. I love this video and love the “serious” editing. God bless you guys in Jesus name❤️🙏🏾 love y’all !

[@valerietan1691]

This is so fun to watch, do more please! Really love when you guys just sit and talk 💛

[@angelikebudu5100]

Im getting chills at how beautiful the communication is🥺🥺❤️

[@suchislife4333]

I love how intentional you both are about your marriage, especially being new parents ❤

[@carrieli9163]

Love this setup in a Q&A type video!! We appreciate the effort u guys put into your videos!

[@billiegrace68]

I really appreciate how raw you guys are 😊

[@tylerstanway4559]

I loved this video so much!! The way that they can be completely honest and open with each other while sharing with us in a truly humble, humorous and kind way is so beautiful and inspiring. Love you guys!!! 💛💛

[@veroniqueoosthuizen5746]

Wow I love the honesty so so much! Please never stop doing social media, you guys give so much inspiration through your content!❤️❤️

[@shagunkhajuria4454]

I love how positive they are. The way of explaining the situation is just amazing

[@racheldawkins9356]

Gabe and Jess’s answers are so honest, thoughtful, and genuine! I admire you guys. Thank you for your honesty. The end of the video got me 🥺😢

[@MaiaJefferies]

This video was super enjoyable - appreciate getting straight into it and not having ads

[@hiramajeed2383]

This video is just another beautiful reminder of why should one follow you guys! The values you show in respect to your marriage, your families and the honesty in the answers was just a treat to watch 🤩🤩🤩

[@catalinawasmuth1309]

I love how calm they are, its so comforting:)

[@samarachristine8219]

I love that you all published your own ideas and didn't do a couples book or something. This is just way cute and personal to you all furthering my obsession LOL

[@bartholetbay412]

So beautiful to watch, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bring this here for, i can't stop thinking about her~

[@haynesatteh4463]

it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

[@bartholetbay412]

@@haynesatteh4463 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@haynesatteh4463]

@@bartholetbay412 her name is MIRIAM CHAMANI DIETRICH, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer.

[@bartholetbay412]

@@haynesatteh4463 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@leesharg]

I really like this style of video. It’s different what the style you normally go for. And by that I mean the way it’s edited. I really like this, it completely focuses on you guys and what you say

[@notascrabbleword]

This has been the BEST video thus far from you both! I loved the point Jess made about time being the difficultly, not the marriage itself. The wisdom ✨

[@naomiii251]

The way they allow each other to elaborate on every response demonstrates just how much they respect each other.

[@msw1099-c9q]

Love Jess’ view on marriage not being hard…life is the challenge. I SO agree!!!

[@lisaprandi3382]

you guys are incredible, I loved this conversation , loved the way you filmed this, it felt like we were watching you two having an honest and genuine conversation, so sweet ❤

[@iammellbell]

I really enjoy learning communication tips just by listening to the two of you communicate

[@joraa]

i remember watching their first video together when i was kid, thinking that they weren’t going to last cos they were so awkward 😭. but now, look at them!! the comfort they find in and affection they have for each other is evident((: how nice

[@xokelseyxo9238]

Jess and Gabe, I love you both so much. You both are beautiful gifts and blessings to this world. Gabe, I read your book and finished it within a week and a half. It was so beautifully written! You truly have such a talent for storytelling. Jess, I added your new journal to my Christmas wishlist. I am so proud of you both. ❤

[@YamiletteConde]

I know your relationship is nowhere perfect. But I truly aspire to have this one day honestly ❤

[@got7ismyworld692]

more like this please!! this is so entertaining 😂

[@carolinelieser3546]

The best thing about having children younger you get to enjoy your 40s. Plus you have the energy to play with them. I have pre-ordered your book Jess ordered it last week when you first announced it.

[@Solip_i]

But you can‘t enjoy your 20s and 30s when that’s literally the best years for a lot of people. But yea, you’ll definitely have more energy if you re young that’s a real « plus ».

[@kawtaramrani9507]

Jess we need some wife advice sit down videos please! You make it look so easy and organic!

[@sarajamshidi6034]

Omg I would love this !!

[@MichaelHollon]

You guys are truly couple goals seriously. The fact since day one you have put God first in your relationship and honestly did not care what anybody else thought I feel like is very humble and is very Noble and is how relationship should be with God being the Center focus of it. I have learned so much from you guys since I met you guys and since I started following you which feels like forever ago now.

[@francesaprilrheavillanueva765]

absolutely love the trust, love, and maturity in this relationship! 😭 from Vine era to now, you are still my top ship!

[@victoriareed22]

I love that you guys didn’t answer everything the safest way. You were honest with each answer, and even the stuff that could be perceived as negative answers had a lot of logical thought behind it. You guys seem to have a very mature, honest, and loving relationship. It’s so inspiring to see ❤

[@dorothyseldura8850]

Ohmy! Love this new setup 😊 It’s simple and chill. Your personalities really continue to shine here.

[@mimiyee28]

I love these types of videos! Hope you do more these kinds of videos! Also, I already pre-ordered Jess’ journal. Can’t wait to get it!!! 😊🫶🏼

[@damaris_mx]

This was such a good short and substantial video. Love this style of content!

[@JessicaGarcia-jz3ek]

I totally understand Jess! I don’t want to talk about it at the moment when there’s an argument, I want to go cool down first and then come back to resolve the issue

[@rosaelenatorres54]

please do more of these videos you guys are hilarious !!! you guys are so in love with life and with each other it's contagious, never stop being who you are and who God want you to be 🙏❤

[@mariafernandameneses9165]

Jess is so wise, I loved her answers ❤

[@pratyushakoratala8781]

I was about to sleep and i checked KZbin randomly and was so happy seeing your video!! This was pretty interesting, loved listening to your insights

[@rts4097]

“I think I love you more now than I have ever have.”

[@Ahmad67475]

I love how open you guys are ❤

[@fimja]

I’m loving these super honest moments!!!! Keeps bringing me back🥰

[@laurafreeman3335]

You guys are so open about you guys' relationship and a little bit of a different way than some other people I watch so I think you guys are awesome and I really enjoy you know you're you're openness

[@ramisaahmed8531]

Such a cool video! Love how honest and mature they are in their answers

[@pinkmacprincess]

when Jess said, I have to be honest about the Divorce Question and Gabe's like, when?! No, no, no, like considered what would happen if it did occur. 😂 Could they be any cuter!

[@mercyapolot7757]

I love the honesty in these answers.

[@claramay1814]

I really loved the set up of this video! I'd love to see you do this again!

[@raw8565]

Wow I didn’t realize me and Jess r the same age wow I’m just at a different stage of my life and not ready for marriage and kids but u guys r and just seem more mature i love that for u guys !!

[@_KendraChristine]

This is so wholesome and sweet❤

[@gretavanfightme]

I could’ve watched this for hours! Love you guys!

[@carinaconnecting]

i love how high quality this vid is! amazing production!

[@ЕленаЗакирова-э3н]

They're sooo cute an open with each other 😍😍 couple's goals!

[@ynaffitt]

i love hearing you guys talk about your guys' insights and how they're similar or different to one another, this video and the last!

[@xZotiC454]

Genuinely enjoyed each of your perspectives on those questions. Realistic views, and semi intimate but not too deep. I do hope you both continue to talk to one another (off social) because I feel like it’s so healthy for any relationship. Great vid 👌🏽

[@kanupriyabhardwaj9731]

You guys are a beautiful couple! Couple goals all the way ♥️

[@juliejones7358]

This happened to me in the U.K in 1988. When I fell pregnant with my 1st child in September 1988, I had the month before turned 26 years old. When I went to my 1st hospital appointment with the gynaecologist, I was called a geriatric mother. I asked why have you called me that I’m only 26 and I was told that the average age with your first child is 18-21. I thought that was absolutely ludicrous. I think you were both sensible learning about each other and enjoying being married to each other, building your bond as a twosome before having children. I think 6 years was an absolutely fine amount of time. You both married young and waiting to your mid 20’s to take on a family was right. Make sure you keep communicating with each other and make time for each other with a date night at least once every 2-3 weeks. Remember it’s great being a mother or father, but one day your children will grow up, leave home and you will be back on your own again.

[@caribeth4705]

Thank you for sharing your life with us. I really appreciate it. Love y’all. God bless.

[@katlin.christopher]

Relationships should be work. But to think a relationship is hard, that's a very big sign to take a deeper look of what you're really doing.

[@annabel2794]

i always appreciate that you guys chose to put the ads at the end of the vid !!

[@jessicaa.m.harper1727]

Loved this! And loved the honesty!

[@SabGuerrero]

I feel as that it does not matter when or what age you’ve had a baby/child. It doesn’t not matter what other people say or think. Nobody has the right to tell you how to live your life and the choices you make. I feel it matter what you do with it. If you think you’re a good fit and ready then have a baby whenever and how many ever. I’ve seen so many of my family members get shamed by their own parents only to turn out to be amazing mom’s and dad’s!

[@karishmakayal]

This is my comfort channel! Love you guys❤

[@lilyw9324]

Congrats on the book Jess!! So cool!!

[@SharonRuth]

I nearly unsubscribed when I saw the title of the vlog. Coz I strongly hate divorce and you guys are a couple I look upto sometimes. However,I'm grateful I watched. Thanks for being vulnerable and honest ❤️God bless you

[@lys23nyx]

I preordered your journal and I’m so excited for it!!! 🎉congrats!

[@victoriaparks1288]

I pre-ordered your book the same day you came out with it!! So excited to get it!!😁

[@Thescienceguy-a]

*_Everyone who’s reading this comment, Please keep on pushing in life and never give up. Can't wait to see you successful one day and May God always bless you with love and happiness!!!_* 🙏💙

[@kxmii]

Thank you for this.. 😔🙏🏻

[@rosinerugorirwera5934]

Amen

[@rosinerugorirwera5934]

Likewise more blessings

[@soycabian]

I needed this, thank you!

[@tabithastephen6148]

Thank you very much 💙

[@megan_1]

loved the way this was filmed - such a fun video! Jess' answer on the divorce question caught me off guard 😅

[@AlishaMorgan9]

Ahh I loved this please do some more of these xx

[@nianjugu1787]

Watching this again after watching Matt and Abby's version, and it was so cool that they mentioned you guys! You guys are the sweetest people!

[@lexievoeltner4558]

Loved the format and playfulness of this video. Also I pre-ordered your book Jess!

[@camdenmason6728]

So glad you guys are back!!

[@haleyjoirwin]

One of my favorite videos of you guys! Since y’all became parents, I think you guys have changed but IN A GREAT WAY

[@positivelypurposeful8522]

The way you all filmed this was so neat and different! I love it

[@MeiMorgan]

Easily the best videos y'all have ever made ever because I love hearing about your relationship so honestly and its really fun because its real!!

[@CrystelMckinney]

Love love this video, you guys are the best!!!! And can’t wait for my journal to come so excited!!!

[@jennylambeth4378]

Super early! Yay! Love yalls videos 💜 God bless yall and your little family

[@desssttiny]

you guys are so wholesome and sweet

[@mada7393]

So so grateful for the honesty! Jess is such a good role model❤️❤️❤️

[@sarajamshidi6034]

This is by far my favourite video of your guys 😍

[@madelinerosemarie]

Jess you look so beautiful! Also, love this video and seeing how you have grown together. Sending much love and many blessings xoxo

[@wkejnwelfvnwklnv]

I'm in love with the new video ideas! My admiration for you two just grew more. I loved watching it and learned a lot new stuff about you. 🤗🙏

[@thetashamorgan]

It's so interesting how different the society is. Jess says it's probably looked at as too young to have a baby at 25, while where i live it's considered a bit late to have one 😂 I'm 25 this year and seeing all of my peers have families just blows my mind because i personally am in the headspace of having kids around 30

[@daneekamekisic7850]

i love how it doesn’t feel like a video or a trend, they talk to each other and listen too their opinions whether they agree or disagree, i also love how they talk too each other and not the camera.

[@Toria_official_1]

Yall are the most unproblematic couple. I love it 🥰

[@lauragrace2608]

i just preordered your book! Loved the idea and can't wait to use it xx

[@phoebee.2393]

I’m DEFINITELY the one to “start” the argument by going quiet 🤦‍♀️ Also, really love the filming style of this video!

[@LifeOfKirstie]

Loved the simplicity of editing with this video!

[@kaitlinballew4829]

I love the communication and explanations in this ❤️

[@popcornsunday1830]

I loved this video you guys 😍 thank you for your honesty ❤️