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@MsrFaqihah
@MsrFaqihah 4 ай бұрын
We need doctors, nurse, teachers and nanny women. I don’t want to show any of my body parts to men🗿
@zhaoyaolu8468
@zhaoyaolu8468 4 ай бұрын
men think we are robots, we dont get sick or tired and our dream is kissing their damn asses 24/7.
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 ай бұрын
Exactly! I agree with you as a sister
@razamughal4582
@razamughal4582 4 ай бұрын
​@@zhaoyaolu8468you chose to be a dog😂
@Series_here12
@Series_here12 4 ай бұрын
There are non Muslim women for that...
@Mishu-d3l
@Mishu-d3l 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, I'm doctor. I worked in surgery department. All woman use to prefer woman doctor for check up n treatment. Now I'm working in ophthalmology, even here woman tend to get checked by woman Dr. We need career woman . It's not luxury, it's necessity. ❤️❤️
@sana-bz1gs
@sana-bz1gs 5 ай бұрын
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
@Samin41
@Samin41 5 ай бұрын
maybe you do not say it like you should. Like if your having a problem with this situation where i think most of women will have, you should talk to your husband privately. with a cool mind, don't heat it up. but allah knows the best what your going through, i just wanted to help and i do not know if i did or not. May Allah guide us to the right path, Ameen.
@sabaayesha9585
@sabaayesha9585 4 ай бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you! Have faith in him!
@freedom0330
@freedom0330 4 ай бұрын
​@@Samin41 this is a most common issue faced by Indian Muslimahs. And the middle aged ppl mix culture and Islam and make Islam very complicated and harsh on women while actually Islam is not harsh on women. Sometimes they even get angry when we tell them that's not what Islam teaches us. They don't wanna listen at all!! May Allah guide us all
@rasmiyaali978
@rasmiyaali978 4 ай бұрын
Are you from Kerala?
@freedom0330
@freedom0330 4 ай бұрын
@@rasmiyaali978 nope
@fairymoon15
@fairymoon15 5 ай бұрын
In this world, not needing to have a career as a woman are for the privileged. Its a luxury. Its not very practical. In my country, most families wont survive off of one income. My mom is a doctor who speciflizes in a field where very few men work in, becauze of her and female doctors in general, so many people and women feel comfortable in treating themselves. A while ago, there was a flood in my country, and it was female swimmers and divers who rescued women.
@pink_kunafa345
@pink_kunafa345 5 ай бұрын
what field did your mom specialize in, if you dont mind me asking?
@shadmansudipto7287
@shadmansudipto7287 5 ай бұрын
bro you definitely can't have a career as a woman where you can't cover your awrah.
@Larrythethird13
@Larrythethird13 5 ай бұрын
@@shadmansudipto7287 Astgfurallah brother there are a lot of different careers alhamdulillah
@blueapple5274
@blueapple5274 5 ай бұрын
​@@pink_kunafa345I may not be the commenter but my guess is that the mother might be a gynecologist or something similar which involves a womens privates because most women whether muslim or not wouldnt prefer a male over a female in a field like this as to that might make the women uncomfortable.
@ammar8256
@ammar8256 5 ай бұрын
@@fairymoon15 you do understand the underlying message here? nursing was kept mostly for women, a career field where only women worked. this is why working for women is not haram but as you can see the medical field is also now a place of free mix, thus for all the more reason to protect ones aura and modesty.
@misokagigachad67
@misokagigachad67 4 ай бұрын
those who are strict about women having job will look for a women gynocologist as soon as their wives have issue. They will look for a woman doctor for anything actually. And yet they have nerves to say woman are not allowed to work. What women were doing at war in Uhud? Why would they give medical support to men? Many of people don't take a time to think and consider. Lack of empathy and seeing forward.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
How many women need to be doctors to help the community? 1%? Okay the top 1% of women can do that. What about all the other women doing jobs men can do themselves easily? Should they spend their time away from their family listening to her male boss at work doing a mundane job? At that point, you're basically your boss' work wife. Do you like that?
@Ninjaananas
@Ninjaananas 4 ай бұрын
Conservative Muslims are trying to imitate fundamentalist Christians.
@savingday
@savingday 5 ай бұрын
Having a career is not a problem as long as you know your priorities
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Priority is your husband and kids. If you leave them to go hang with non mahrem men, then how can you say "you know your priorities"?
@marsha3254
@marsha3254 4 ай бұрын
​​@@alphauno6614But then again people like you will refuse to take your wife to male doctors but u won't let a female be a doctor.
@s.hjawed9247
@s.hjawed9247 4 ай бұрын
Not all careers require working with non mehram and why are you calling work as a hang out? So nen going to work hang out with non mehram as well???? Makes no sense, at work you work, and get back home. Most people both men women who are in healthy relationships try to wind up work fast and leave as quickly as possible to go back home. No one hangs out with non mehram unnecessarily. And it goes for both men and women not just women.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
@@s.hjawed9247 Men are obligated by Allah to provide for their family. Women are earning as a hobby. You are putting yourself in a non mahrem environment for a hobby. Do you see the difference? Also, what kind of job doesn't require you to be next to or engage with non mehrem men? Please share with us
@الياسمين-غ2ب
@الياسمين-غ2ب 4 ай бұрын
Priorities to your wife and the children it's same ​@@alphauno6614
@saymasultana339
@saymasultana339 4 ай бұрын
As long as my man is ready to provide for my parents too and not taunt me about providing for me and my parents, InshaALLAH I won't mind sitting at his home, cooking and cleaning for him. My parents is my responsibility. It’s my duty to provide for them. So if my husband doesn’t want me to earn then he has to take this responsibility. Loud and clear.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
You father is going to provide for his family.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
If your father has passed away or you are poor then your husband and others can give him zakat (if you don't have money). Your reasoning doesn't make sense. Islam has the answers to all your problems.
@inayajavid8345
@inayajavid8345 4 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 you basically used the word husband in your argument sooooooo
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
@@inayajavid8345 okay and?
@shahanaparveen2413
@shahanaparveen2413 4 ай бұрын
exactly likee whos gonna feed em, you? then okay i will be at home. and no my father will not be able to work when he is 80, not a valid argument.
@Samayes_DigitalWorkspace
@Samayes_DigitalWorkspace 5 ай бұрын
It is simple. You can do both with the right person. Edited*** I knew boys were going to cry under this comment
@razamughal4582
@razamughal4582 4 ай бұрын
and have ZERO self respect...
@fizaAhmed-e3h
@fizaAhmed-e3h 4 ай бұрын
​@@razamughal4582what the hell do you even mean?
@razamughal4582
@razamughal4582 4 ай бұрын
@@fizaAhmed-e3h ANY woman that works like a dog all day only to come home and work AGAIN is a WORTHLESS SLAVE.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
If you have kids you need to take care of, how do you do both? Do you offload your kids to someone else? If so, then why don't you offload your job to someone else, like your husband? How do you do both?
@Samayes_DigitalWorkspace
@Samayes_DigitalWorkspace 4 ай бұрын
@@razamughal4582 For whom or rather for what???
@maryak4658
@maryak4658 4 ай бұрын
Many men mainly want a pure woman despite her career/education but i feel like her educational background matters for the sake and respect of people and how they will look down on her especially today. Also, a woman should have her own income instead of relying on a man all the time
@mohamedhasan6420
@mohamedhasan6420 4 ай бұрын
Hope you find a modernist of your deen
@nilox2823
@nilox2823 4 ай бұрын
@@mohamedhasan6420 It's not about modernism. It's about how dangerous Muslim husbands have become, and how highly unreliable they are, that you need to have insurance as a virgin woman going into marriage.
@zaure28
@zaure28 4 ай бұрын
​@@nilox2823you need to have an insurance as a WOMAN
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Allah has given women the right to be provided for in a marriage. In Islam men and women don't look down on providing for women. I know this may come as a shock to you but not everyone believes in the concept of women relying to men as something bad or evil.
@fehmirahman4784
@fehmirahman4784 4 ай бұрын
Best comment so far. Exactly specially in this generation a woman should be financially independent
@angelina_kuma
@angelina_kuma 4 ай бұрын
why would I care about what man prefer, why nobody ask about what woman prefer
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Because ultimately you'll have to be desirable enough to get married to a man one day. If you are unappetising to men, then you will get all the bad proposals and the rest of your life will be much more difficult than it had to be. This is my guess but only Allah knows best.
@CelestialW_anderer
@CelestialW_anderer Ай бұрын
Exactly, u really shouldn't worry Abt this sort of thing, I mean, take a look at hazrat Khadija, she was a BUSSINESS WOMAN, and regardless of how she managed this BUSSINESS, she was still a career woman. So I u should chose to do whatever u want to do, pursue whatever career, as long as u follow the principles of Islam. Ur so right Abt not caring what a MAN might think😭 cuz who cares?? The right man will find u regardless, I don't think something as simple as ur passion or CAREER would deter him if he truly was the one whom Allah has destined for uu yk?
@afreennabi7909
@afreennabi7909 4 ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with having a career - to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want, focus on what you want and the right man will respect it and follow suite. As women it's essential for us to have a career and make a living because I don't have to be reminding you of the instances where men have failed to support us financially. As for the men in the comment section - women aren't made for you, stop acting like they are, they are made for the same purpose as you; to worship Allah swt - and they can do that whilst being a single woman making a living and supporting themselves - women are you equals and if you even think you have the right to treat them as inferiors by even suggesting them that maybe they shouldn't dedicate themselves to their work, then you are wrong and if you don't fix that corrupted mindset then I hope life teaches you that the hard way, amen
@zaure28
@zaure28 4 ай бұрын
YES💯💯💯💯💯
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Ouch! "to the ladies, do not waste your time listening to what men want". Ladies and gentlemen, this is what a single mum of 11 cats looks like. I hope you're not there yet but if you are, I hope you can snap out of your anger and disdain for your brothers.
@zaure28
@zaure28 4 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 all you guys do is telling women what she should and shouldn't do. get a life.
@zaure28
@zaure28 4 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 we will not do what random man on internet says
@fehmirahman4784
@fehmirahman4784 4 ай бұрын
Best comment!!!I totally agree with u. Someone spoke the right thing. 😊
@Maysha-
@Maysha- 4 ай бұрын
He always has the perfect words, such a wise seikh !! This ummah is lucky to have u
@nidamallick9147
@nidamallick9147 5 ай бұрын
I am so so happy... We are understanding the true meaning of islam ❤❤❤❤ Long live my religion🎉
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
The true meaning of Islam is women hanging out with non mahrem men while her children are being looked after by someone else?
@herticate8579
@herticate8579 5 ай бұрын
He forgot that our beloved prophet (pbuh) married a career woman as his first wife. What a an insult to her honor, he should stop issuing commands on behalf of all men. Edit: I may be wrong in some replies and i apologize for lack of in depth knowledge about Khadija (Ra) and prophet Muhmmad (pbuh) love life and family dynamic.
@salman29ee
@salman29ee 5 ай бұрын
She was not a career woman
@amortalbeing
@amortalbeing 5 ай бұрын
it was a different time back then. they had slaves to do all the chores dear! do you have slaves? who is going to look after the children? after the house? after the marriage? when both parties are working 9 hours a day, are tired whats good in that? I have seen/heard about a lot of infidelity among people in work places, they share their laughter with their colleagues but when they get home they don't give a damn about their spouses. so working for women is very problematic. the main job for a woman is to be at home, raising kids, all other comes next, imho, as necessary.
@Mutaasim
@Mutaasim 5 ай бұрын
One Can Work From Home ​@@amortalbeing
@tariqmostafa
@tariqmostafa 5 ай бұрын
stop lying
@WildTech2028
@WildTech2028 5 ай бұрын
Yeah You are true but in modern world there are so many ignorant people think different
@aashikameen9280
@aashikameen9280 4 ай бұрын
If our women have career mind within Islamic boundaries and pure work environment we should allow them Insha Allah yeah, Also we should appreciate those type of women 👸🏼
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Why should we allow them? Who are you to dictate what we should and shouldn't allow? Who are you?
@m.aryaanamiri2755
@m.aryaanamiri2755 3 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 who are you to say we shouldnt allow them?
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 3 ай бұрын
@@m.aryaanamiri2755 Husbands do have the authority to tell their wife many things. If
@NanazeeLam
@NanazeeLam Ай бұрын
best reply deserved to be pinned
@sakura142
@sakura142 10 күн бұрын
​@@alphauno6614 I see you in all comments lol
@irumbatool6901
@irumbatool6901 3 ай бұрын
I am female and I am an engineer and your answer just boosted me up alhmdulillah
@NanazeeLam
@NanazeeLam Ай бұрын
same here proud software engineer alhamdulillah
@Azothoth827
@Azothoth827 5 ай бұрын
i recommend any women that has no job yet to get a online type work if she feels like she needs to take off burden of her husband's shoulder ,online work has *ENDLESS* opportunities that way you can manage both house duties and assist your husband,AGAIN *IF* you dont have a job and wish to help, but do talk to you husbands about it,if he doesnt wants to ask him his reasoning,and there is nothing wrong with doing work especially if your intention is to help your husband.
@nassifaminko3557
@nassifaminko3557 4 ай бұрын
It’s simply because he wants to have a certain toxic control over his wife by saying “I’m the bread winner so you obey me” whenever it’s unnecessary and uncomfortable
@PEACEWITHIN114
@PEACEWITHIN114 4 ай бұрын
The fact that you are calling a RIGHT given to the man by Allah as toxic shows your ignorance my sister. The wife must obey her husband, within the boundary of the shariah, as Allah and his messenger command. If a husband is fulfilling his obligations I.e. providing food and shelter etc... then he has every right to tell his wife not to work. Truly liberalism and Feminism has penetrated with our Muslim community. Sad :(
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Assalamualikum sister, I hope you are having a good day. Obedience of wife to her husband is ordained by Allah and thus cannot be deemed toxic by definition. Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) is the best of Allah's creation, the best human who ever lived and even his wives obeyed him. None of our beloved Nabi's wives had a problem with obeying him. I hope whatever poison you have been injected with against men will leave your brain and once you are free of this indoctrination, you will see the Wisdom of Islam. May Allah give us all the wisdom to see the beauty of Islam. Allah says: "Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly]. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand." (Quran 4::34) Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Any woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah". (Riyad as-Salihin 286)
@arkifex7514
@arkifex7514 4 ай бұрын
@@PEACEWITHIN114 I absolutely agree, calling the duty of men to provide for their wives toxic control is stupid. However, it's fine if she still wants to work, I believe. I don't know why you would PREFER to work when you already have everything provided for you. It's kind of dumb in my opinion. Just an extra burden no rational human being should want unless it's just out of pure interest for a line of work.
@Cherries6984
@Cherries6984 4 ай бұрын
​@@PEACEWITHIN114yeah but a man doesn't need to say it like that. It's like if I as a girl look into my husband's eye and said "I don't need to give you a single penny if you're struggling or sick because you aren't entitled to my financial support under any circumstance." Is it my right to withhold financial support from my husband? Yes it is. However does that mean I should say it so bluntly to his face? No.
@muhammadnabeel2200
@muhammadnabeel2200 4 ай бұрын
I think there's a difference between a woman with a career and a career woman...I think the general sentiment about career women always comes with some sentiment of them sacrificing their family for their career...and if that's what defines them, I don't think anyone wants that...
@ShahanaIslamHridima
@ShahanaIslamHridima 5 ай бұрын
I am Proud of a Muslim
@ArturJohanson29173
@ArturJohanson29173 4 ай бұрын
🇮🇱♥️
@anikaasmr8388
@anikaasmr8388 Ай бұрын
my mother fully supports her family by her earning she don't spend money on herself but she supports my father I know a lot of women who are running their house
@alwayshasnain09
@alwayshasnain09 4 ай бұрын
Work hard until you become independent - sisters no one else will fullfills your needs untill you are capable or have a good & understanding parents/ partner. (just keep Allah in your each journey & the life will be sorted wid lots of joy) Ignore everything else!
@Solace__123
@Solace__123 5 ай бұрын
we need this kind of scholars in our society...who stand with just side... I am Indian here Islamic scholars picture a woman as villain... here Muslim family and men are not at all interested in marrying career women because they associate it as prohibition in Islam... I met a boy when I ask why you people don't educate women n keep them isolating, he replied "those women who go outside of home their generations destroyed because of her" I was broken totally after listening to him... and he belong to very practicing family... I would say if your wife is working you have to help n support her if u want an domestic worker them this video n comment is not for you ! A marriage is a relationship of balance n efforts for both sides not only women side... now marriage is my fear I am 25 n want to keep my own family happy thats it...
@shahidX8
@shahidX8 5 ай бұрын
I get your point. I'm also Indian Man what he said was wrong that women who go out then their entire generation is destroyed. It's too extremist point of view. Well when that's boy's wife conceive or pregnant or have some gynac issues then they Run whole city to find "Best Female Gynacologist" what a ignorant one can be. I was having same mindset as him which was too extremist but I came to know that about having female Gynacologist or nurse or doctor or teacher any field is essential for society as much as male. What actually men fear about career oriented women is that women start to prioritise career over what's her role stipulated in Quran by Allah that is first obedience to Allah by following commands, obedience towards Husband, raising kid (career women usually argue that it's not solely job of women to raise a child n I agree with this father's role is also important but point must be noted here that Allah made obligatory upon Man to provide financially to his family not women so if man has to balance his work life. Allah made favour on women they don't have to provide financially)
@shahidX8
@shahidX8 5 ай бұрын
In my opinion women can have any career but it should not go against the Law of Allah that is free mixing with the opposite gender, covering awrah issues in the workplace, neglecting children's needs such as social physical emotional. Children raised upon Islam so that they will make dua for parents after they leave this world, guarding private parts, staying chaste with halal provision.
@sana-bz1gs
@sana-bz1gs 5 ай бұрын
In India many Muslims don't have much Idea about halal and haram..they use religion according to their needs..they think if a woman works then she is doing something haram on the other hand they make women stay in joint family system after marriage where lots of haram mingling of non mehrams happen in the name of family bonding and relationships.. it's so hard to maintain hijab for women after marriage as non mehrams roam around the house half naked and women are forced to talk unnecessarily with those non mehrams in the name of creating a "happy family image"...I am suffering from this torture daily after marriage... When I protest I become the villain.. Only Allah can save us Indian Muslimahs...May Allah protect us from haram and guide everyone around us to the right path..🤲..Ameen
@MonowaraAhmed-k3g
@MonowaraAhmed-k3g 5 ай бұрын
Indian and Pakistani are the worst. They try to portray their society through religion. But Islam is far away from the dirty culture. Forget to mention Bangladeshi... But some of our Bangladeshi scholars are getting educated from abroads Islamic school and,letting us know the real facts Nowadays. Im happy about THIS.
@MNoorMirza
@MNoorMirza 5 ай бұрын
No, it's not. 4 marriages in Islam is permissible but it's not encouraged. Like This way - working in a halal place is permissible but it's not encouraged in Islam. In our Indian society 4 marriages also don't accept in general though it's halal, Why don't talk for it because of jealousy or you have no business in it ?
@Azothoth827
@Azothoth827 5 ай бұрын
Correction :i MEANT more like a buisness owner,Khadija(RA) never talked to non mahram men to do buisness and mostly had other workers , the modern day 'buisness women" talk to non mahram men and free mix when i said H.Khadija was buisness woman i didt mean it like that.she was owner more than actually dealing with the buisness. Hadrat Khadija was one of the richest business women(owner) in all of arabia( just a reminder),i feel like many men *NOT ALL* may be pressurizing themselves to the SOLE providers despite economic hardships because they believe that it is a masculine trait or dont want to pressurize their women they may say they dont want working wife but at the same time they need help as too much burden can make them mentally un healthy or unstable even.
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 5 ай бұрын
It got nothing to do with masculinity, please don't bring feminimus into our Deen. Muslim Man have been appointed to be the protector and have the authority inside a family. It is insane to read how many sister of mine are missquoting information about khadija(ra) without evening checking what sort of business she had and how she shifted her work and business over to her husband our prophet Muhammad ssaws. If a Muslim women wants to work for intention of good to there family and Allah then the least we can do is to be picky about our workspace and working hours. It can't be that we have no issues working male colleges while we are married and its a no go that our children suffer because of an empty house. ❤
@bliewhale
@bliewhale 4 ай бұрын
She got her business from her husband who died. She did not establish it herself as many women wish to do to "prove themselves".
@tahsinislammahi7346
@tahsinislammahi7346 4 ай бұрын
​@bliewhale whatever, she was still a businesswoman.
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 4 ай бұрын
@@tahsinislammahi7346 yeah "whatever" my argument still counts regardless of your "facts". ...sigh really?
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
Was Khadija (ra) leaving her home to hang around non mehrem men from 9 am to 5 pm everyday? Don't insult her by using her name to push your narrative. The wives of Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) are the Mothers of the believers. Don't insult my mother.
@32.warishafatima83
@32.warishafatima83 5 ай бұрын
The whole video is just his opinion. No reference to the quran or hadiths at all.
@shadmansudipto7287
@shadmansudipto7287 5 ай бұрын
well, the person he is talking about, the entire topic is an opinion. Like "most Muslim men think", and yeah I agree. Practicing Muslim men don't want a career minded woman. And the sister was talking about intentions, but that's not the reason at all. You can have the best intentions. But Muslim men don't want you around male coworkers and stuff, and also not have time for family. Of course with not having enough money sometimes we have to.
@rafatmunshi3572
@rafatmunshi3572 5 ай бұрын
When there's no problem in something, what evidence you need? Not 100% things will be clearly mentioned as halal in Quran and Hadith. It's about marriage preferences and he said there's nothing wrong in preferring one over another in Islam. What verse or Hadith is required for this? Rather if anyone wants to refute, then they will need specific proof to make it Haram or non preferable.
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 5 ай бұрын
​@@rafatmunshi3572 sis there are several references about the muslim brother being the protector and authority of the muslim wife inside a family. If we let the femine religion inside of our Deen then this will change. For example: if I am working as nurse and I'm making around the same as my husband, won't Shaytan use feminists ideals to let me think that because of how much om earning I should be the authority in the house? Maybe I'm too worried but I see feminimus as great fitna inside our ummah.
@Lampsofmotivation
@Lampsofmotivation 5 ай бұрын
Well actually we can find solution to this debate in seerah of Hazrat Fatima and Hazrat Ali where at the time of Nikah, our beloved Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) assigned duties to Harzat Fatima to do the work inside the home and Hazrat Ali to take care of work outside the home. But with that, He (صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم) taught us by practically helping His wives in household chores which is like a guidance to us. Now, when i say women to do the work inside the home, in this global village, there are a lot of opportunities now available for wives to do business or to continue pursuing their studies or whatever they want to do which they should do. Hope you could understand my point.
@AlinaZafar-lj7ib
@AlinaZafar-lj7ib 4 ай бұрын
@@Lampsofmotivation
@MerandaYt
@MerandaYt 4 ай бұрын
If a woman doesn't have financial security then she's at risk of being used, so it's always better to have a career, a side hustle, or a small project.
@Itsyowoo
@Itsyowoo 4 ай бұрын
I'm planning to marry a career woman.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
If you need more money in your life then get a second job.
@Itsyowoo
@Itsyowoo 4 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 then I'll marry a career woman and find a second job. Sounds about right. But I want time with friends, family and children.
@rakinrahman890
@rakinrahman890 4 ай бұрын
Dayooth
@Stxrria
@Stxrria 4 ай бұрын
@@rakinrahman890astaghfirullah. That’s a loaded word, you have sinned by saying that without actual evidence. Apologise to him brother
@rakinrahman890
@rakinrahman890 4 ай бұрын
@@Stxrria No I won't
@sabaabidi133
@sabaabidi133 5 ай бұрын
Dear Ladies, If you want to work Work! If you want to be at home be a housewife But Remember your primary responsibility is to look after your children & Husband & not to earn Money You are too responsibile to give a good upbringing to your children If your work interfere in your duties as a mother & wife Leave it for the sake of your family & Allah For a mother children is more important than Money ❤
@K_idk
@K_idk 4 ай бұрын
Sorry brother the world is not the same both of us have to work to give our kids a future and happiness i know my responsibilities okey
@sabaabidi133
@sabaabidi133 4 ай бұрын
@@K_idk That's great dear If you are balancing both May Allah make it ease for you
@ArturJohanson29173
@ArturJohanson29173 4 ай бұрын
​@@sabaabidi133🇮🇱❤
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 ай бұрын
@@ArturJohanson29173 🇵🇸💕💕💕💕. 🇮🇱👹🤡
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@sabaabidi133you’re so well spoken! I’m a sister, thank you for the reminder ❤ I’d like to work and have a family ❤
@wcuucw
@wcuucw 5 ай бұрын
Everyone is mostly using the example of only woman - Khadeeja RadiAllahu anhaa, who was continuing his father's business after his death - to become a career woman :) Yet nobody is using the example of Maryam RadiAllahu anhaa, the only woman in whose name there's a whole surah in the Qur'ān , describing the best woman on earth, who was in love with Allāh ﷻ, abiding in her residence and only doing Ibādāh - to become an submissive Ibādāh woman :)
@clipflips9204
@clipflips9204 4 ай бұрын
Right. And not only that. But All of the wives of the prophet and daughters of the prophet peace be upon him, were housewives. And used to do house chores. Including the leaders of the ladies of jannah, Hazrat Fatima RA. But they run for exceptions and even lie on that too.
@zhaoyaolu8468
@zhaoyaolu8468 4 ай бұрын
@@clipflips9204 In your narrow world, women can't get sick, they don't need teachers or anything like that? If there are no working women, who's going to treat sick women and teach young girls to read and other subjects? Do you think women only need gynecologists? No, we get ill just like men do; we have different interests, and not everyone loves to do housework. I would rather work 15 hours a day just not to do the dishes, not to cook, etc., because those house chores make me so unhappy and irritated that I want to die. Men, as always, are selfish to the cell level, and don't see anything outside their noses. Men design the world only for their own comfort. You never think about women's comfort. And thats why we need women who work in different fields, because only woman can know what other women needs, how women suffer, etc.
@barosimple
@barosimple 4 ай бұрын
@@clipflips9204 and yet they all used to go to wars and help their nation and their were many women that worked different businesses so why don't you stop accusing people of lying?
@KhadijaNgunga
@KhadijaNgunga 4 ай бұрын
and both women are great women, theres nothing wrong with working or being a housewife so long as you keep to the halaal and stay away from the haram
@KhadijaNgunga
@KhadijaNgunga 4 ай бұрын
@@clipflips9204 and both women are great women, theres nothing wrong with working or being a housewife so long as you keep to the halaal and stay away from the haram
@rmsha.5065
@rmsha.5065 4 ай бұрын
Obviously Khadija RA was a working woman and so was Ayesha RA if people observe well. She was a scholar and Allah gave her the wisdom and memory which continue to help us even today. There was also Maryam (peace be upon her) who was praying day and night to Allah. We have not read about her doing hiusehold chores too. So I think we need to understand things deeply in our Mislim community rather than see on the surface.
@Octa-x5m
@Octa-x5m 5 ай бұрын
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You will follow the ways of those nations who were before you, span by span and cubit by cubit (i.e., inch by inch) so much so that even if they entered a hole of a mastigure, you would follow them." We said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! (Do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?" He said, "Whom else?"
@Amine_0-9_
@Amine_0-9_ 5 ай бұрын
Machaellah, 2M subscribers. Congrats 🥳
@Wasp342
@Wasp342 4 ай бұрын
Masha Allah he always forgets to mention that one Quran verse where Allah swt says we created women so you can find peace in them
@snypc
@snypc 4 ай бұрын
The fact that you replace eyes with the letter عين which also means eye in arabic 😅
@asiyaheibhlin
@asiyaheibhlin Ай бұрын
As a revert who grew up with bith parents working (my father forced my mother to work even though he made enough for us to be MORE than comfortable), I say: Don's choose your ego and career over raising your children. Homeschool your children as this is best for them (even Islamic schools are having issues). That is the issue. I wished my mother could have stayed home... my education suffered, my mental health suffered - it was a horiible situation not having a parent at home. I was raising myself from 11 after school. Cooking my own meals. I'm thankful that I was too much of a gaming addict that I didn't go out of my house to do illegal things with peers (which were easy to do). If your kids notice your absence, then you're failing them. I'm tired of these feminist, girl-boss sisters. They dont understand the power and the blessing of being a stay-at-home. And some even have the audacity to try and force their husbands to split housework 50/50 just so they can pursue an unnecessary career (i.e. the husband has a high salary). May Allah bless us for everything we sacrifice in His name. Ameen. -Revert studying to become a sheikha bi'ithnillah
@mihawk_san
@mihawk_san 4 ай бұрын
Daniel was absolutely right.
@mihawk_san
@mihawk_san 4 ай бұрын
@HudaKhizar Did he make any rulings? If so, can you mention some, please?
@mihawk_san
@mihawk_san 4 ай бұрын
@HudaKhizar I think you misunderstood him on this regard. What he said was that education should always come after establishing a home (becoming a mother). What he criticizes most is the mindset of women being career oriented up until they are in their forties then expecting to get married then. The other point he makes is that women who have gone down this path not being satisfied with their spouses because they basically have no need to full heartedly rely on their husbands. And relying on one another is what fosters a strong bond and attachment, which is severely missing on most married couples nowadays.
@الياسمين-غ2ب
@الياسمين-غ2ب 4 ай бұрын
Do whatever you want ... Family is first to man first and woman both, he marries you the way you are ...you don't want work or you want it , it's your decision....stop those ignorant men from exercise by accepting them ...men who say this use religion for their own benefits, they don't accept their duties ... You married to a woman, you're he provider ! You don't choose her lifestyle ! She's free to work or not ... Please please don't say in religion whatever you want
@laaibahashfaq3787
@laaibahashfaq3787 4 ай бұрын
These men in the comments are like Khadijah r.a used to work and she was rich at that time but after marrying our beloved prophet she left the business cuz thats not right foe women and all , Listen here she didn’t left but donated all her wealth cuz of islam cuz prophet was poor to set an example to his ummati Allah made him poor he did live and followed each and every step what Allah told to , if he would have been rich then people would have said ohh he was rich he had many he ate three times meal , he had good health cuz he had medicine to eat , he had luxury thats y he followed what allah told , people would have pointed at our prophet but even tho he was Allah’s beloved prophet Allah would have given him everything but he didn’t cuz prophet itself denied it …… plz try to understand it and ask me if u have any doubt in this ….
@HawaiianMuslim
@HawaiianMuslim 5 ай бұрын
i know mufti menk voice when i hear it
@YessoSli
@YessoSli 4 ай бұрын
2:42 علامة النجوم تلك هي علامة الصليب و ابحثوا عن مختلف أشكال الصليب و ستجدونها منتشرة في المواقع
@AdamIslam-mc5nd
@AdamIslam-mc5nd 4 ай бұрын
Having a career is not a problem as long as you know your priorities, And many forget that due to being indoctrinated by Western culture in the west.
@oktovinessa3443
@oktovinessa3443 5 ай бұрын
Khadija R.A was a successful woman entrepreneur
@homeschooling-4302
@homeschooling-4302 4 ай бұрын
Wallahi you are lying. Is she was going to meeting and working in mixed environment outside of her house?
@oktovinessa3443
@oktovinessa3443 4 ай бұрын
@homeschooling-4302 she had a servant or representative to deal with outsiders/clients for trading and commercial transactions, so she managed for not mixing with non mahram.
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@homeschooling-4302careful with that word. You are wrong. Have you not researched Khadijah RA whatsoever? You are only speculating that she might’ve needed to go outside. But this was 1400 years ago. Did she need to go into office to hold meetings too 😂
@Mahira-nx8df
@Mahira-nx8df 4 ай бұрын
@@snowecaddel9454 Works was much harder then.
@haseebazad1685
@haseebazad1685 4 ай бұрын
I don't think its mostly because of work, its because what they wear, how they interact with male colleagues and how open and friendly they appear to the other men. Thats most problematic then the work itself 🙏.
@Minecrafter-rr3zr
@Minecrafter-rr3zr 4 ай бұрын
Do you think a married Muslim woman would sleep with her colleague or smth? Get your mind off the gutter.
@Samm_345
@Samm_345 4 ай бұрын
Amazing video Allahuma Barik
@haticesultankalnloglu9497
@haticesultankalnloglu9497 4 ай бұрын
The same man who said women should not work and male doctors should not treat my wife.
@mr5064
@mr5064 5 ай бұрын
he did not refer to quran or hadith at all
@WildTech2028
@WildTech2028 5 ай бұрын
who?
@WildTech2028
@WildTech2028 5 ай бұрын
Hadith and Quran allow women to work. During the Prophet's time, women were engaged in trade. Those scholars who say that women should not work are ignorant and not scholars
@aaliyaahmed4975
@aaliyaahmed4975 5 ай бұрын
Are you stupid??? That was actually a very logical question and sensible answer Like "Use your intellect" This exact word is written in quran itself Bro please use it Or else it will just go in vain
@ayaan9094
@ayaan9094 5 ай бұрын
Mufti menk the speaker here
@Puspita2007
@Puspita2007 5 ай бұрын
Khadija r.a was a working women too, what else do you need? And In this video mufti manek is the speaker, you really questioning him?😂
@khusbukhatun6817
@khusbukhatun6817 4 ай бұрын
Dear women whatever you do but for the sake of Allah please study and acquire knowledge of Deen and dunya. Also learn some skill which you can implement if you are alone and you have no male mehram in your family.
@mayg7415
@mayg7415 4 ай бұрын
I'm sure most western men would like a career woman. As for the rest of the world especially in Saudi where the men have more money, even the women themselves choose to stay at home
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
greed is too real nowadays.
@SalimRufais
@SalimRufais 5 ай бұрын
Love how woman is misspelt
@okalaksana4873
@okalaksana4873 5 ай бұрын
Very wise
@FreeQuranEducation
@FreeQuranEducation 20 күн бұрын
😁
@hamzazahidulislam3490
@hamzazahidulislam3490 4 ай бұрын
Jazakallah Khair
@ich789
@ich789 4 ай бұрын
Everyone has their preference but I won't take risk on boss baby.
@FizaWaris-g2r
@FizaWaris-g2r 5 ай бұрын
Great lesson mashallah
@mohd.shaheersiddiqui6792
@mohd.shaheersiddiqui6792 3 ай бұрын
Acceptable to
@mdsaidulislamsayed1136
@mdsaidulislamsayed1136 4 ай бұрын
A woman working is not a problem at all. Problem is, many sisters these days want to earn money, keep it all to themselves while making sure the husband fulfills all his financial obligations as well as helping around the house. Dear sisters, that is not how things work. Make sure you are not a leech to your partner.
@syrasafdar
@syrasafdar 4 ай бұрын
haha, clever way of victim blaming, but the fact remains the same that men like you are called "gold-diggers". you gotta provide for your wife even if she is a multi millionaire and she has full right to keep her money to herself. tadaaa keep crying :((
@Anisha-r5f
@Anisha-r5f 4 ай бұрын
Ladies don't get discouraged with what was the brother saying. CONCLUSION - Islam gives us full rights. ALLAH has given us full rights so just focus on your education and goals whatever you have thought of. Education is the only thing after your parents which will stand by you every thick and thin. Just focus on your independence. May Allah ease our hearts my dear sisters.
@lovemamahouse
@lovemamahouse 4 ай бұрын
A man set a business so that he can be with his wife and family. If a man like Mufti Menk, I don't think he would mind if his wife working, he is busy working himself, got no time.
@LEGENDARYN_MUSLIM
@LEGENDARYN_MUSLIM 5 ай бұрын
Most practicing muslim men in the west which is a small fraction of the muslim men of today don't want career women as their wives. Because the work environment is not suitable for muslim woman that wears hijab etc, now i'm doing everything i can to guarantee that my future wife won't have to work.
@Joseph-o7x
@Joseph-o7x 4 ай бұрын
So you will have to provide for her parents too
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
@@Joseph-o7x Why? Where can't her father provide for his family?
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 5 ай бұрын
It truely is a preference for muslim man, generalizing it is a bad idea. I can understand after listening to several lectures on this matter why muslim man might deslike the idea of a wife working be it family or community wise. But please dont just write it of simply, as long as im not in any mixed workspace and im not working full hours it hopefully might not be an issue and a blessing instead❤ P:S: just because im earning money for the household won't take away any of the authority my husband has inside our home. I strongly deslike how feminimus invaded our deen and communities.
@monke6157
@monke6157 5 ай бұрын
Most muslim women in western countries don't pursue an education to help the ummah, its either because of the ideals of feminism in the west, parents pressuring, the condition where you can't afford crap (so now even if both work they can barely afford anything) or personal desires.
@lshz
@lshz 5 ай бұрын
if you hate women, just say so
@jannahtasnim1622
@jannahtasnim1622 5 ай бұрын
firstly id like to ask you why do you want to pursue a carrier? why do you even go to school to study? ideals feminism of west? can you please tell me what are the goals of feminism? feminism is about insuring equality of women not anti-men or you cant be a housewife a women can pursue a carrier because she doesn't want rely on her partner financially
@maazabbasi9174
@maazabbasi9174 5 ай бұрын
​@@jannahtasnim1622 I find feminism to be incompatible with Islam. Not because feminism allows women to work, Islamically there's nothing wrong with that. But when it comes to what Islam allows for men and women (hijab for women, 4 wives for men, etc.), it's fundamentally incompatible with feminism, since feminism advocates for equality for both genders whereas Islam advocates for EQUITY for both genders, not equality.
@marah_33
@marah_33 5 ай бұрын
I think most of them have really high aspirations and a hardworking spirit. Many women want their parents to live in a comfortable life. Good for them!
@maazabbasi9174
@maazabbasi9174 4 ай бұрын
@@jannahtasnim1622 Idk if Islam is compatible with feminism. Feminism is abt equality between the genders but Islam has different roles and rights for both genders (ex. hijab for women, man is the main provider, etc.), which is something that feminism is fundamentally against.
@mickeysherman4268
@mickeysherman4268 5 ай бұрын
Can you please help me out there? Can a true Muslim really study Law?
@WildTech2028
@WildTech2028 5 ай бұрын
Of course, there is no problem with that. It is true that it is not recommended to become a lawyer in non-Sharia countries, but there is also no prohibition. because you judge based on a certain law not your not by your choice
@ay-tj7pj
@ay-tj7pj 5 ай бұрын
What kind of question is this? Of course they can, they are human.
@shadmansudipto7287
@shadmansudipto7287 5 ай бұрын
Becoming a lawyer also takes an incredible amount of time and effort, like you don't have time for anything else. Soif you're fine with that..
@aanishas1925
@aanishas1925 5 ай бұрын
But think what kind of work u will be doing once u become a lawyer, dont support the wrong side..but If ur intention is to help people , sure..it's a way to go
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 4 ай бұрын
You’re gonna be a lawyer?! I’ll pray for you ❤
@Unusualkangaroo
@Unusualkangaroo 3 ай бұрын
what about women working in a free mixing environment? Subhan Allah no mention!
@fatimafarhana3792
@fatimafarhana3792 4 ай бұрын
Do you have any arabic channel?
@CHtaseer240
@CHtaseer240 5 ай бұрын
Subhanallah❤
@saraazul513
@saraazul513 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@blue-fv3eh
@blue-fv3eh 4 ай бұрын
Woman needs to have a career and be independent. what if her husband passed away. what if he turned out to be a bad and abusive man.woman needs to have their own money, freedom and independence to be able to protect themselves.the only man that will tell woman not to study and have a Career are insecure men that wants to control a woman financially and mentally a man that is confident and secure wouldn't be intemidated because a woman is educated and smart.
@Commandermuhammad
@Commandermuhammad 4 ай бұрын
Watch the MUSLIM SKEPTIC on this topic and feminism. He's much more educated and makes more sense than such companionate imams. He's clear and unfiltered. Unlike mufti menk
@FrontlineMine
@FrontlineMine 4 ай бұрын
I advise for the sake of Allah, not to use the symbol in which the greeks used for women which could be found in the thumbnail of the video because to its historical background.
@CharlotteAgee-p8y
@CharlotteAgee-p8y 3 ай бұрын
Paul Overpass
@abuDojanaTahmid
@abuDojanaTahmid 4 ай бұрын
Fact is, I don't mind wife working or having a career if these things are ensured: 1. An workplace or environment where she can maintain Mahram and non-mahram. 2. She can maintain her Porda ( hijab/ vail - hijab is not just covering yourself with a scarf. It is so much more than that). 3. There is no worry about husband being daiyuth. 4. She can have her prayer and perform Islam without hassle. 5. Does not deprive her from her motherhood and motherly duties. 6. Does not deprive her and husband's from spending quality time together with family. 7. A safe workplace that is not exposed to any ism (i.e. feminism, individualism, secularism, lqbt etc). 8. Workplace which does not exploit her femininity. 9. A safe workplace which ensures no Islamic rule violation is occurred. 10. No cheating and haram things and no infidelity.
@Joseph-o7x
@Joseph-o7x 4 ай бұрын
So you should also help her because halping your wife is sunnah of our beloved propet
@Joseph-o7x
@Joseph-o7x 4 ай бұрын
Feminism means equality ok and it should be there
@abuDojanaTahmid
@abuDojanaTahmid 4 ай бұрын
@@Joseph-o7x nope. The very core idea of feminism is flawed.
@alphauno6614
@alphauno6614 4 ай бұрын
@@Joseph-o7x Does that include the concept of wife obeying her husband as Islam stipulates?
@Joseph-o7x
@Joseph-o7x 4 ай бұрын
@@alphauno6614 no if husband is oppressing her and destroying someone's career is like oppression ok and any woman can't live with a man like this you men oppress women in the name of religion you men are oppressor and one more I am not interested to reply your kind of people whose minds are full of hit you men never want women to study and do something in their life women are also human beings but you men treat women like an animal and you think everything is good but you forget that she can tell Allah about your oppressing behaviors on the day of judgement and Islam is not like that , that your kind of men are trying to show Islam doesn't oppress women Allah have told women to obye your husband but he didn't told women to being oppressed by you husband or let him torture you and you know destroying something dreams to be something in life is a biggest sin if someone have done lots of hardwork to achieve something and you enter in there life and destroyed there dream so you are a sinfull a woman can do anything in veil but you men think women are made for only and only household and they are machine to give birth and they are your sexual objects right you men always want women to depend on you buy bejng independent is not a kind of sin you men want women to do slavery and you forget about the judgement day if your wife is crying because of you and she tried to do suicide and she lost her believe in Allah because you don't let her to fulfill her dream and treat her like a slave so you are responsible for each and every tears of her and remember our Islam doesn't oppress women you men like oppressing women not Islam so don't throw your opinion here a women is not made only for doing slavery of you men and you men never recognize her hardwork she does in the house and continue treating her like a shit and you bring concept of Islam no bro Islam is not like that I don't know why in Iran men kill women if thir single hair get visible but no one will punish you men if you done r@PE of a women and you will blame that girl you men always force hijab on women but no Islam is not like that Allah have told you men to lower your eyes first but no you men never do so but yes you will force hijab on women and you men hate feminism but do you know feminism is a weapon that allow women to vote feminism is more better than you toxic kind of muslim men and do you know after listening to you shits no women will want to convert to Islam and yes but a Muslim women can lose her hope and faith from Allah their was a time that I had also lost my hope from Allah because of your kind of men and I use to cry cry and cry for continue some weeks but one day I just opened my phone and I reseved a message in front their was written that some times Allah gives you tears without any reason just for erasing your sins, and do you know on that day I realized that Allah is not toxic like you men and Islam is not like that you guys show us you all should stop this kind of things ok nither you ......Allah knows best what he will do to you men
@hilinabanana
@hilinabanana 4 ай бұрын
Someone PLEASE send this to FaiyadFit. He is spreading so much misogyny in the name of Islam, and does not consider men and women equal as spouses at all, but rather someone to serve men and basically act like a pet -- obeying everything and not caring about her feelings. He's a big youtuber too, please share this with him.
@masterbaits4108
@masterbaits4108 4 ай бұрын
He doesn't even say that. I watch him and all this content is about promoting healthy halal marriage and self-improvement. Yes, he does shame some clowns but he even censors the faces of the women.
@masterbaits4108
@masterbaits4108 4 ай бұрын
You are clearly too young to understand. Stay away from politics for now because you are dumb. Wait till you've grown up if you want to have a say so bad.
@JUST_A_FAN_OF_HYUNJINH
@JUST_A_FAN_OF_HYUNJINH 5 ай бұрын
Example example example ,reference to quran and hadith . Reference is learning about the mothers of islam , their role included mixing in the society they lived with guidelines . We have the examples first person that embraced islam was a successful entrepreneur business woman , first imam was a woman , warriors on bartle fields were women , during our prophets time (saw) women addressed wuestions directly travelled to the mosque . Men have guidelines when outside their homes placed lowering eyes ,only talking in a linited manner to essential topics same applies to women , hijab is not just clothing first meaning of hijab is intentions. Islam is not a cave man religion its the religion that tells us to learn not just spirually but worldly to and its for botg gender . Alot of this men not wanting xyz is more based on cultral upbringing with the cover of islam . The veru same men who dont wajt their wife to educate or work at times are the very same men that are happy to attend university that was establiahed by muslim woman based on the teaching of islam to educate oneself and the other end of the scale is men whom limted their own education mentally and have clouded yheir voews with xyz upbringing . Behaviour is influenced by intentions. A strong faith person can be surrounded by a millions glasses of milk with a drop of alcohol plsced in it and even their thirst will not allow them to drink it knowing that the one drop of alcohol in that milk will not effect their mind , yet there will be another that will think its ok as I'm thirsty and 99%is milk and that 1% Allah will forgive me as I'm only in a situation of desperation. Will power (disciplibe) and faith go hand in hand in islam . Hiding behind the bushes during a war situation shouting out to warriors and cheering them on doesnt make you a warrior cause your there , makes a warrior is the one that goes out there in the mist of the war (surroundings) and has the ability to fight the enemies (temptation /obstacles) with the armer of your faith . Nothing else matters Muslim men are around non -muslim women yet cause they fail 5o folllow islams guidelines they do thiings against islam yet go home acting according to the religion . Muslim women who dont know their rights islamically will fight for feminist views to a point without knowing they have no reason to fight as islam gave us the rights that the western femist fight for examoke votes,political expression,right to education ,right to work earn and keep all without sharing financially but also tells us to priotise our family . Sometimes knowing that taking a break for a short period from the rat run in modern world is beautiful while we raise and build a faoundation that will forever remain important our marriage and children. Children need the good exampke of muslim parents as role models . Remember our propher used to help with house hold chores ,this is a man of islam (saw) so the mebtally a womans place is inside thats it is inorrrect if those who learn are not willing to twist it with male cultural aspects . Do your own reasing instead of seekinv the opinions of the world around go back to the teye source and not selected sources that are weak in foubdation as evidence
@Joseph-o7x
@Joseph-o7x 4 ай бұрын
But now days men are using Islam to attack on women and they will never understand this things may be this is the reason Allah will ask to the wife first about the behavior or her husband towards her on the judgemental day
@abuhuraira1
@abuhuraira1 4 ай бұрын
Mufti Simp is telling woman to go work while Allah tells them to stay home. Choose who you want to follow.
@momedicoproductive2447
@momedicoproductive2447 4 ай бұрын
But the environment of the work must be adapted to conditions islam accepted.. don't speak openly with men .. wear modest .. and so on And women first priority is to give rise to children and raise them correctly.. if she can't handle with work she has to quit it
@Wasp342
@Wasp342 4 ай бұрын
I wouldn't marry a career woman because I don't need a man when I come home after breaking my back ! And I have Gheerah I don't want my wife serve coffee to another males looking at her I have been working as an HR manager for 1.5 years in my country I know how things happen here even married people choose to forget they are married talking casually, casual touches going to parties together for Males it's a necessity cause they don't have a choice but females have choice to be a homemaker
@Theskyisblue8
@Theskyisblue8 5 ай бұрын
Sayida khadija went to events networking with men to choose the best men who trade She also studied in college 4 years She left her children to the nanny or sometimes to the prophet She didn't clean the house the prophet cleaned it She didn't cook also We were feminist before feminism came 😂😂
@bronzebueno
@bronzebueno 5 ай бұрын
Bring the evidences from the Qur'an and Hadiths that prove what you're saying is legit.
@magdy_01
@magdy_01 5 ай бұрын
Do feminists have no shame in lying? There was no college at that time. Prophet pbuh used to manage her business she wasn't the one networking. After marriage she gave away everything and became a housewife. Islam is the polar opposite of kufr ideology like feminism. Do whatever you want to do with your life but Have some shame before attributing lies to family of prophet pbuh.
@m.hassan8145
@m.hassan8145 5 ай бұрын
@@bronzebueno ya college exists 😂
@ammar8256
@ammar8256 5 ай бұрын
if you are a muslim, i am ashamed, if you are a non muslim get your facts staright. there were no nannys, no college, no social events with non menhram, such fabrication of islam saddens me to my core. yes, she was a business owner before she got married, she was alone thus she needed to take care of her, yet she did business through mehrams and a chain of command. after she got married to our prophet pbuh, she did no business of any sort, none. this is the same as if the man is unmarried he has to take care of himself by cleaning and cooking for himself, after not so much.
@ProGamerSadiq
@ProGamerSadiq 5 ай бұрын
​@@ammar8256i think maybe the guy is saying sarcastically that all these things didn't exist back then
@shunkanco
@shunkanco 5 ай бұрын
which brother said it? who???
@AndersenTrades
@AndersenTrades 4 ай бұрын
As long as she doesn’t prioritise her career over her children
@autisticwoman665
@autisticwoman665 4 ай бұрын
@AndersenTrades you should also take responsibilities of your children.
@MotleyMagee-o4s
@MotleyMagee-o4s 4 ай бұрын
Brown Jessica Moore Mark Perez Anthony
@нкто-ч6щ
@нкто-ч6щ 4 ай бұрын
Если мужчине не нужна работающая женщина, то мне не нужен муж.
@Commandermuhammad
@Commandermuhammad 4 ай бұрын
The cur$e of modernism and feminism. You shouldn't even ask such questions from these compassionate imams.
@PullmanLeopold-f8p
@PullmanLeopold-f8p 5 ай бұрын
Morton Burg
@Arwha-x9y
@Arwha-x9y 5 ай бұрын
Is making animations of living beings haram? I am a fellow Muslim who loves to draw but stopped it because it's haram
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 5 ай бұрын
Please don't take a youtube comment on such an important matter, look it up. I can recommend Channels with scholars that can help you understand the full "picture" 😊
@Arwha-x9y
@Arwha-x9y 5 ай бұрын
@@Leenia18 pls recommend..
@Leenia18
@Leenia18 5 ай бұрын
@@Arwha-x9y 1. Sheikh Assimal Hakeem 2. Dr. Zahir Naik . I hope it helps and clears any doubts you might have about drawing pictures brother inshallah.
@NotLazy.1
@NotLazy.1 5 ай бұрын
Please someone reply,I have a doubt are making these animation videos halal I am interested in 2d and 3d animation please someone clear my doubt if it's halal what part should i have to remove for example: from face If i create eyes and mouth only is it permissible.
@bahjatullah1156
@bahjatullah1156 5 ай бұрын
u can animate it just like they do this video
@NotLazy.1
@NotLazy.1 5 ай бұрын
@@bahjatullah1156 thanks
@NotLazy.1
@NotLazy.1 5 ай бұрын
@@bahjatullah1156 For 3d also?
@Minecrafter-rr3zr
@Minecrafter-rr3zr 4 ай бұрын
Bro it’s very haram, you should just stay home and sleep. That’s very halal
@anumabid8937
@anumabid8937 4 ай бұрын
what scares me the most is that a man marrying just because you have a career so that you can contribute in the household (men usually stop working and start using woman's money for their needs) Most women opt career to be financially independent and mostly because they like what they are doing however when that career becomes a responsibility like its the income on which ur house runs, even if she gets tired she cant leave that job.. Hence she gets both physically and mentally tired.
@shakilhasan3397
@shakilhasan3397 4 ай бұрын
Those who are giving example about Khadija ra: you are totally wrong. Yes she was a business woman before she was muslim. After marrying prophet Mohammad pbuh and become muslim she gave all her wealth to Mohammad pbuh.
@itsLaPRO
@itsLaPRO 4 ай бұрын
W
@Wasp342
@Wasp342 4 ай бұрын
Feminist Imaam
@TasnimeELMI
@TasnimeELMI 5 ай бұрын
I'm not happy ! I can access to the link because my country are banned ! But whyyyy 😭😭😭😭
@MithilaFarjana-c3v
@MithilaFarjana-c3v 6 күн бұрын
Are you from Afganistan ?
@tariqmostafa
@tariqmostafa 5 ай бұрын
No wonder he is Mufti Pink .. UAE favorite imam
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
@@tariqmostafa the fact that people are actually liking such a comment about a respected scholar j shows how brain dead y'all are ,
@OiledOttoman
@OiledOttoman 5 ай бұрын
Please stop sharing these kinds of modern liberal trash. The prime duty of a wife is to take care of the children and the household. If there's room then ofcourse she can work. But that's totally different than chasing after a career. Because it is impossible to have a career and fulfill your duties at home. Allah created men and women differently. If everyone fulfills their role the marriage will be in balance in shaa Allah. That still means that the man has authority over his wife.
@atiqazi
@atiqazi 5 ай бұрын
Do you know who the first wife of the prophet pbuh was? She was a working woman who bankrolled the spread of Islam. Obviously you are not a successful man because you need women to be less than you. Too bad your version of events is not Islam.
@rainforestmusic7032
@rainforestmusic7032 5 ай бұрын
Instead of handing all household duties to the wife, just go and help them. Don’t tell me men are so lazy and weak that you can’t do housework. It’s not easy at all. A woman is a human before a wife, a daughter, a mother or a sister. She is a human who has her own dreams and life. What makes y’all think that she will have to sacrifice everything she has or wants just so men can lead an easy life? Fools
@Allinone-mw1ev
@Allinone-mw1ev 5 ай бұрын
@@OiledOttoman oh, man has authorityy. They just change the word responsibility with authority..Authority is only to Allah
@OiledOttoman
@OiledOttoman 5 ай бұрын
@@Allinone-mw1ev With authority I mean that the man is the protector and mainainer of his wife and his wife needs to obey him.
@marah_33
@marah_33 5 ай бұрын
It's really not that hard, both my parents worked while I was in school, then we would all reunite at home and live like a normal family lmao idk why you want to make things difficult
@viralforeverr
@viralforeverr 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@needbettername8583
@needbettername8583 Ай бұрын
Do Muslims actually believe this? What an absolute load of crap.
@AAhmed-t
@AAhmed-t 5 ай бұрын
Mufti menk 🤦
@tariqmostafa
@tariqmostafa 5 ай бұрын
Anxiety increased after women working and left the kids alone for 8 hours.
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
Why so triggered 💀? How about helping her out with the kids and the house work instead of complaining?
@WildTech2028
@WildTech2028 5 ай бұрын
instead, you can hire a nanny
@m.hassan8145
@m.hassan8145 5 ай бұрын
@@amigaa9926why woman do what Allah told them to instead of 9 to 5 jobs
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". Pretty sure the woman's money comes from her job. The Prophet (PBUH) 's wife was a business women too
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
​@@m.hassan8145 in Surah Nisa ayat 32 there is a line " To men is allotted what they earn, and to women what they earn ". What the woman earn came from working
@talhaikram9191
@talhaikram9191 5 ай бұрын
These compassionate and feminist "Imams" are getting out of hand totally disrupting the principles of Islam and sunnah of the prophet, People should stop assuming that they have even an inch of authority in explaining islam, they are grass feed by western feminists.
@talhaikram9191
@talhaikram9191 5 ай бұрын
It appears that freequraneducation has also been bought by the same people whose intent is to destroy the family household
@clipflips9204
@clipflips9204 4 ай бұрын
Fellow muslim skeptic student? 😅
@zhaoyaolu8468
@zhaoyaolu8468 4 ай бұрын
get over yourself. women are not robots, women get sick, if there are not working women like doctors, surgeons, teachers, who's going to treat sick women, and teach women? Or you and your like want to let your wife to die and marry someone else instead?
@talhaikram9191
@talhaikram9191 4 ай бұрын
@@clipflips9204 I'm just innit for the truth and to preserve the traditions and teachings of Islam, not to support some grassfed westernised, modern, feminist so called scholars.
@razamughal4582
@razamughal4582 4 ай бұрын
​@@zhaoyaolu8468you carry on living like a dog with ZERO self respect
@AAhmed-t
@AAhmed-t 4 ай бұрын
So what mufti menk is saying is just that he is talking about himself. Talking about career minded wives , it is destroying the homes in reality . Such a generic response from a mufti is problematic really. Sheikh is promoting the idea of the west.
@Teeno86
@Teeno86 4 ай бұрын
Don't use our beloved mother Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) to justify feminist desires. Feminists go so far as to straight up lie about her. Why don't you tell the truth? Wasn't she obedient to her husband, the best of creation (Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam)? Wasn't she a home maker? Wasn't she modest? Didn't she have many children whom she looked after? Didn't she go above and beyond to serve her husband and home? She isn't to be used to fulfill your lowly shaytanic desires. May Allah make it easy for Muslims to be in modest traditional homes, communities, and environments again, and to be able to fulfill their natural roles Allah created them for again. May Allah guide the men to be real men with good character that the women folk can truly look up to and follow. And may Allah free everyone from this backwards western liberal feminist athiest secular demonic system that destroys human families, human nature, and all that which is good.
@555gggg
@555gggg 4 ай бұрын
nice lecture. But, may Allah save me from "career" oriented women.
@mohamedelhaddade6371
@mohamedelhaddade6371 5 ай бұрын
mufti simp 😅
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
@@mohamedelhaddade6371 does helping your working wife with housework decrease manliness?
@idrk1507
@idrk1507 5 ай бұрын
Never taint the name of a scholar. He is better than you. Never utter such disgusting word choice out your mouth
@m.hassan8145
@m.hassan8145 5 ай бұрын
@@amigaa9926who said that ? He is talking about letting women work outside
@amigaa9926
@amigaa9926 5 ай бұрын
@@m.hassan8145 where does Allah forbid women from working inside or outside?
@mohamedelhaddade6371
@mohamedelhaddade6371 5 ай бұрын
@@amigaa9926 the main job of a women is to raise her kids home in an Islamic way ..that's the most important thing ..but Muslim women's sadly have been indoctrinator by liberal feminism ideas to pursue work and career as the main goal ..stop using liberal argument as it's kufri ideology
@zeeinvest9473
@zeeinvest9473 5 ай бұрын
This kind of proves the stupidity present in people speaking about what they shouldn't speak about. Understanding & memorisation are 2 different things.
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