She truly makes sense and gives hope, so many therapists could learn from her methods. As a parent it helps so much.
@marybarbera2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your support!
@VerzosaTV3 жыл бұрын
My son has autism and he is now 10yrs old. He was echolalic during his early diagnosis at 6. what we did is we keep on conversing with him and talk slowly so he can grasp things at his own pace. We also treat him at his age and don't baby talk. He only takes an Occupational Therapy because we can't afford a speech therapy. So we really strive conversing with him. As of now, he can now communicate with us and express his feelings and continue improving.. Thank you I found your channel and you are a great help to us.
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@KellyLeAnne6 ай бұрын
My son didn’t really start talking until he was four. He is almost six now. The way I get him to say “I love you” is through the song technique. I use the “skinamarinkydinkydink” song and have him finish the end. He really loves the moon so that was the first part I left out. He still only speaks with echolalia but it’s very expanded now. It’s so nice to understand more what he wants and his perspective. He’s very rigid though in that he needs us to repeat everything he says or he melts down. I’m not sure if that will ever go away and it makes it difficult to talk to others because most people don’t respond that way.
@marybarbera11 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Hope you can join my courses to help him really expand his language and reduce problem behaviors.
@naeemawladmohammedawladmoh87744 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for this wonderful program, and I hope that my son will get better. I’m tired for more than four years, and I know I’m going to score zero in front of this stubborn child.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
good luck! I talk about this more in my online courses. Have you watched my free workshops yet? www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@---fy6ps4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge. Your videos have made such a difference in my sessions.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@AliyaYagafarova4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing such a valuable information in a very clear and understandable way!
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
I am happy you liked it!
@patriciaaimah38464 жыл бұрын
oh my!!!! Mary that's exactly like my son, he has words at 18 months and lost the words at 21 months and his behavior changed totally, we haven't been assessed because of the long wait but i would really appreciate your help like you did for your son.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
I'd love to help! I have online courses for while you wait. Check out www.marybarbera.com/workshops for a free workshop.
@sikititoga87953 жыл бұрын
So much to learn Many thanks for the information with full of knowledge to help in servicing
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Glad to help
@letyhr37419 ай бұрын
Amazing way to teach it! Thanks
@vickilea70513 жыл бұрын
When my kids was small and had to teach them our phone number and address and I made a song out of it works amazingly well
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@tamaraegoble42093 жыл бұрын
Im in Indiana and I feel like this state is lacking alot for families like mine. Centers are only in certain areas so long drives to therapy are a must. We have been pushed around for medicaid waiver still waiting and its been 3 years. I feel like im not getting the help I need. Ive tried getting the center to teach me but they dont do much of that hands on just talking at me
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
That is really frustrating!
@krishajaneparel16893 жыл бұрын
My child doesn’t have any signs of autism, she follows, copies, dances and a lot of times say a word from her nursery rhymes. She also calls her daddy a lot, says cat, dog even says animal sounds. I think she has speech delay. I hope this works for her. She just turned 2 last December 😇. I wish I found your videos earlier
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@naeemawladmohammedawladmoh87744 жыл бұрын
I discovered that my son suffers from autism at the age of one and a half, and today he is about six years old, and since that day, while I am treating him today, I feel that he is smart, but he does not speak, and does not go to the bathroom for the day. How does he turn on the computer but he cannot control the mouse, he knows to open KZbin on the phone, and if he does not find it, he searches for it around the house until he finds the things he wants, he searches for it at length until he finds it. A reference to everything, knowing that the hearing and speech examination indicates that he is healthy. I used a lot of means, but the improvement is small. I am a worker. I just sit with him all day on holidays and send my son
@naeemawladmohammedawladmoh87744 жыл бұрын
I send my son daily to the Autism Center, and the center contains all the specialists in this field, and despite this the development is little and times I feel that it is zero I do not know how to just teach him to like to use the bathroom and get rid of the towel knowing that he loves to shower and he sits more than an hour in the bathtub
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
it sounds like he has some good skills. Like I said, my courses can help with his struggles.
@TheMinot603 жыл бұрын
I tried to watch the web inarticulate today and the phone overheated and I lost it. Watched the 3 kids synopsis and all of it relates to my primary pediatric night nursing assignment, I've had him for 10 years and there's so much locked in there. Also a grandson with microencephalopathy but also some subtle autistic traits and non verbal. I keep watching your videos and hear you saying you have techniques, but never see them demonstrated. Is there a meat and potatoes video I can look at before I think about investing in your book? Both kids go to a special needs school in Delaware and I've been through special teachers st ot pt without being impressed with any tools they had for nursing staff or family members..
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
You can google shoebox mary barbera for one of my techniques in my book and I also did many lives during the book launch month here on you tube and that should be in my channel.
@lissettcampos544 жыл бұрын
My son is 21 months in June 23 he’ll be 2 years old He doesn’t speak at all But I realize that he understands everything I tell him to do for example I tell him go get your shoes and he’ll go and get his shoes and he’ll try to put them on He also points out everything whatever he points at I’ll tell him what is call Every day I do that I told him the ABC’s numbers He pays attention but he don’t say it he wants me to say it so he at points me.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Thats good that he understands. I have techniques that may help get him talking. check out a free workshop www.marybarbera.com/toddler-ws
@roselinendegwa21582 жыл бұрын
My son too is 21 months and he's behaviors alike your son. Would you please share how he's doing now and the measures you took. 🙏
@tylerjones90733 жыл бұрын
My son is two . He regressed at about 16 months . I took your toddlers course but could make much progress on my own ,I don’t know why. I got him in a verbal behavior program founded by Dr Carl Sundberg. My son is making progress with with sign . Also if I say “ ba” he will say “ba” if I say “ma” he will say “ma” . I do the shoebox with him at home and as much as I can remember from your course. But I feel like we should be making more progress. Am I wrong to think that?
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Did you participate in our community and get feedback from our advisors. My program is about much more than shoebox so you may be missing something. My new book may also help www.turnautismaround.com
@vivianverassyou83393 жыл бұрын
Can we do colors as well ?
@driftonline54613 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this informative video. I live in Nigeria where aid is limited for kids with a developmental delay. Is it advisable to send my 4-year-old to a boarding school ( for kids with developmental delay) with a facility for speech therapy? One of my major concerns is that this school is in a different state. Thanks
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
That is a very challenging decision. Parents being involved in their children's programming is quite important. I do have an online course where you can learn how to help him at home. www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@edwindewantoro50314 жыл бұрын
Hai Dr. Berbera my daughter 4 years old have mild autism, she's talk alot and always answering(not echoing what i said) when i am asking her something, but she's most of the time starting conversation with she's pointing at object and ask what is that object doing, or what color is that? She know the answer already, but she's still asking me that. Can you share me some tips so she can start conversation more naturaly?
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
If you google mary barbera conversational you will find a vlog on the topic.
@moonakhan12923 жыл бұрын
Do you suggest PECS for communication?
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
You can google mary barbera sign language to hear my stance on that. Usually i suggest my techniques to gain some vocals or sign language to start ! you can also learn more about my approach for free here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@NeilKearney13 жыл бұрын
Im finding it very hard to get my child to take interest in this activity - can you advise any tips to get her to be happier to be more involved in this activity? She may engage for 10 seconds but then off busy doing something else - any advise on this?
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Yes! My whole online course and book is dedicated to this. go to turnautismaround.com to check out the new book.
@shikhaasthana59034 жыл бұрын
Very informative video.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@naeemawladmohammedawladmoh87744 жыл бұрын
I send my son daily to the Autism Center, and the center contains all the specialists in this field, and despite this the development is little and times I feel that it is zero I do not know how to just teach him to like to use the bathroom and get rid of the towel knowing that he loves to shower and he sits more than an hour in the bathtub
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
check out my free workshop as many parents have been here and saw success.
@shyskye92544 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the insight!
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@ashlymammen15964 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Barbera, I am an SLP and has benefited a lot from your KZbin videos, free workshops etc. I work with young and middle aged adults with intellectual disability and some of them has autism. I used to feel helpless at times when got stuck...I could relate more to my guys in this video...A 25 yr old young man has only initial syllable production cu/ for cup, ta, sh, etc. receptive language good for vocabulary. Will the early learner program be still good as I saw it was for 0-18 months language age group?? So Tip 4&5 VM might help right To expand to one full word utterance? I’m going to share your channel and this video to his father. Any more suggestions please? Thank you
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Yes. You will want to watch the workshop for the vb bundle so the one for parents 5-21 years old www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@cherijones79644 жыл бұрын
What is your experience with toddlers exposed to two languages? My 14 month old granddaughter has us as English speaking and her other grandparents speaking Spanish. She is saying maybe four words and then grunts and points. Is that normal?
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
at 14 months it may be ok. That is good she is pointing. It is best to check the cdc guidelines. you can also google mary barbera billingual for a video on the topic.
@specialinktattoo4 жыл бұрын
Hi :) I bought your book and try to work on the "abc" of bad behaviour my doughter is nearly 3 years old she can not repeat NOTHING and don't listen much if you try... witch program ore tactic would you try ????? she say dadada zzzzzzzzz dissssssissss like randomly but if you ask for a any animal ore number/ letter on a book she show you with the finger I'm confusied because she learned that but shut down all other knowledge of comunication please please tell me what I need to try program capitle of you book ore program on the website ?!?! Thank you :)
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear that she shut down. I would recommend my online courses as I go over all these issues and my techniques have been proven over my many year in the autism world. Check out a free workshop at www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@alisamowry17212 жыл бұрын
Do your workshops and courses count as CEUs?
@marybarbera2 жыл бұрын
Not the workshop, but my online courses do!
@disabilitythis3 жыл бұрын
Do you have any suggestions for families who are doing bilingual? We are doing Chinese and English, my son is 3 and he saids all the numbers up to 50, letters, phonics, colours in English but he won't say simple things like eat, drink, milk.
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Google mary barbera billingual for another video on this topic.
@catinaclaytor32454 жыл бұрын
My son has pop out word's and some time he can say and I want when he asked for something my son lost his words on his 2nd birthday he gets speach and it at school and outside speach and ot at school each child grand a picture of a face my son will show the teach happy my son is going to 8 this summer he has receptive language disorder
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
That is great he has popout words. Check out www.marybarbera.com/56 for a full podcast.
@martharamos70194 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Barbera, i love your videos and i am interested in joining your online courses, I have a 3.5 grandchild Autistic, non verbal and it has been really hard to learn how to comunicate with him, he does not have behavior problems, when he was diagnosed last year the doctor said , mild non verbal but we really have gone nowhere when we try to implement learning methods for him..
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
I would love for you to join us! Check out the toddler workshop here www.marybarbera.com/go or email info@marybarbera.com if you have more questions.
@martharamos70194 жыл бұрын
@@marybarbera i joined the online course!💙💙 I love it so far!
@camilletm3042 жыл бұрын
Hi, any updated on how the course helped?
@renukaSV63244 жыл бұрын
Hi mam, Please suggest the next step after achieving echoic control
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
I have online courses that go through the next steps and how to assess more. Check out a free workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@dianakümmel2 жыл бұрын
our little one has no words . Do you have a video on that as well ? We have no pop up words and no sounds .
@marybarbera2 жыл бұрын
I have a guide on how to bring out those first sounds: marybarbera.com/first-sounds/
@sengsopheak3 жыл бұрын
What to do? my son is ignoring me teaching him or talking to him. He only does anything on his own and ignoring everyone... I'm really scare now. please help!!!
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
my strategies can help! check out a free workshop at www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@priyamanoharan20924 жыл бұрын
Hi, my son is 2.7 months and started speaking recently. He is able to say all words and alphabets and word approximation rhymes with tunes matching.. He understands our talks but does not respond all the time unless he is interested. Our worry is he never reciprocated to anyone include me and my husband.. can you please suggest any online course for reciprocate behaviour
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Im not sure what you mean by reciprocate. My online courses teach imitation and echoic control to help build this back and forth.
@hannahsdolluniverse91144 жыл бұрын
Matter of fact I’m happy
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@badrilamsal50034 жыл бұрын
Dear Madam, how to control delayed echolalia?
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
google mary barbera scripting for another video on this.
@tamaraegoble42093 жыл бұрын
I would love to take the courses but unfortunately we are low income and I havent be able to work to care for my daughter she is autistic nonverbal and 6. Shes not ready for school and to be honest the schools here are in no way equipped to teach autistic kiddos. Im lost
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Try reading my new book www.turnautismaround.com as it will give you some step by step action guides.
@dhoffman21604 жыл бұрын
If a child can babble and say a few words would they still be considered non-verbal? Do they have to be completely silent to be non-verbal? I'm having a difference of opinion with a principal. Thanks for your hints here.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
People certainly vary in their opinions of this. It is very rare a child is totally silent. If they have no functional language they may be considered non vocal.
@tammytodd16643 жыл бұрын
How do I get ahold of you?
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
You can email my team at info@marybarbera.com
@olenarogova242 жыл бұрын
Hello, my son had a handful of words and a number of pop up words, but 3 months ago stopped using them and started just saying mama for everything. He does not have signs of autism. He is very social. You mentioned getting them back. How do you do it?
@marybarbera2 жыл бұрын
If you're concerned about speech development/speech regression, my online courses can help! My strategies can be used at home on your own time. If you're interested, feel free to join me for a free workshop at www.marybarbera.com/workshops.
@honeydrippp913 жыл бұрын
My son has very good receptive language.he can mand combining 2 words..He uses his language pretty well. But his articulation is very bad.and he is 3 now.what can I do?
@ashlymammen15963 жыл бұрын
Early speech language therapy surely will help him to improve his articulation. As Dr. Barbera mentioned, we also have to assess his oral motor skills, see if he is using open cup/sippy cup, textures of food he takes, any drooling etc. as these all impact his articulation skills. Good luck
@honeydrippp913 жыл бұрын
@@ashlymammen1596 he can drink from a cup and his oral motor looks fine.that’s why it’s very confusing. I can’t assume the reason why he is not pronouncing the word correctly.
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
check out my podcast with an slp on apraxia. Google mary barbera apraxia podcast.
@annaw74374 жыл бұрын
what's the earliest I should start practicing words with my boy? He's not interested in echoing or "chatting" with me (babbling) at all. He has very little understanding, I think (he would understand 'where is apple' - would look at it, if it's obviously around, but would not go to look for it, if it wasnt in his eyesight). but if I ask him can you get me this ball, he will not react at all... He's 18mts.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
At 18 months you can practice words for sure!! Echoic control actually has nothing to do with understanding or following directions. Echoic control is about the child repeating you. Check out this video of something you can do with him kzbin.info/www/bejne/boexlYaVmaqal7c and also check out my free workshop at www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@pranavikapulluri79614 жыл бұрын
Hi Mary..i will say one situation when my kid wakeup in the morning if he can't find me.. instead of calling as mamma he will call with his name..pls give me solution for this..
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Please take my quiz to get to my free workshops www.marybarbera.com/quiz
@hannahsdolluniverse91144 жыл бұрын
Choice
@BeatrizMartinez-dy3oy3 жыл бұрын
i do dame with book and short words. an animal book show a cow picture and ask how the cow go moo , I try my best on the 2 years old boy that I care for. I work with him for at list 10 months and no 1 word come out of his mouth 😭
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Try checking out my new book. It will give you lots of strategies! get it at turnautismaround.com
@gembennett40314 жыл бұрын
Hi, my grandson is 2 and a half and not talking other than pop out words about once a week. With the Covid his early intervention has been put on hold so I'm trying your strategies but the hardest part is holding or even getting his attention. Any suggestions?. Thanks!.
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Yes. My online course is all about this. Pairing the table with reinforcement is so important. Learn more at my workshop here www.marybarbera.com/workshops
@jujuel.9784 жыл бұрын
If my daughter can't repeat the words after me .there is no reaction from her side she even doesn't care . Could you please tell me why she can't repeat and react with me
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Echoic control can be a difficult skill and often needs a lot of practice. My online courses will help you get echoic control and get more techniques to help your child. Take a free workshop www.marybarbera.com/quiz
@hannahsdolluniverse91144 жыл бұрын
Czech
@BeatrizMartinez-dy3oy3 жыл бұрын
now a second teacher come 1 hour a week, she try signs language.
@marybarbera3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@BeatrizMartinez-dy3oy3 жыл бұрын
@@marybarbera I will try to do the workshop online but I am in New Nersey and I don't know if we have same hours. I checked just now and it say Wednesday 7am . I can do it Monday to Friday after 7pm. I didn't do it before because I get home tired, I am 73 almost 😊 still have lots of energy. now I'm living for work.
@asiaamir80684 жыл бұрын
My son talks alot in his imagination and do talk with us too when he needs something but mostly his talk consist of rhymes....
@marybarbera4 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is called scripting. Here is a video www.marybarbera.com/reducing-vocal-stimming-scripting-children-autism/