Effective Discipline : 10 Tips for Parents | Gentle Parenting Tips Malayalam | Dr. Mary Matilda

Disciplining children is essential to parenting. Even though it is often equated with punishments, effective discipline involves training children to gain self control and develop character. Studies on the brain have shown that people learn effectively when they feel secure and connected to others, in a safe environment. Positive discipline aims to teach children by first establishing a safe and secure relationship with them. In order for discipline to be effective in the long run, connection must come before correction. Parents must make sure that the discipline methods used do not damage the child's attachment to them. It is also important to prioritize long term goals over immediate compliance in parenting. Asha discusses 10 ways to achieve effective discipline in this positive parenting video.
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Asha is currently a researcher in the field of Positive Organizational Behaviour. She has a master's degree in business administration and a bachelor's degree in engineering. After working as a business analyst for a few years, it is her passion for teaching that motivated her to qualify for Junior Research Fellowship and pursue PhD.
Dr. Mary Matilda is the former Principal of Maharajas College Ernakulam. She is a well known motivational speaker, corporate trainer & life skills/soft skills coach. She has Master’s degrees in Mathematics (MSc & M.Phil), Education (M.Ed), Business Administration and Management (MBA), Women Studies (MWS), Applied Psychology (M.Sc), and Ph.D. in women’s studies. She is also a Graduate in Law (LLB)
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[@varsharenjith4814]

എനിക്കും maaranamennund എപ്പോഴും ഞാൻ vazhakparayum ദേഷ്യപ്പെടും പറയാൻപാടില്ലാത്തതൊക്കെ പറയും പിന്നെ സങ്കടംതൊന്നും ദേഷ്യം control ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റുന്നില്ല

[@alwinalexjohn]

ഞാനും same

[@NishaNithin-nz3ne]

Njanum

[@SAKEENAPK-p1t]

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[@ashamathew8981]

Thanks for commenting. kzbin.info/www/bejne/j17RfXmsZ7uLqsU Please see if this video helps. In addition you can reassure your child that he can approach his teacher in case he needs anything at school.

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Same problem

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Ente monum ee problem aanu

[@TechyMom-ft]

Useful video. Thanku I try really hard to be a gentle parent , butsometimes all the stress burst out. One day when my 4 year old came back from school I made her a juice and she suddenly started shouting that she dont want juice but choclate. I was angry bit but controlled , she continued shouting and spit the juice in the table I lost my temper and started beating her , her face was like "ouch" and angry.Later on I was very much guilty and said sorry to her and she told me "mamma samadhanathil aanu vazhakk parayendath "!! And I come to know that she got a bad day in school thats why all the tantrums happend. Even now I feel guilty of beating her badly 😔

[@roohi6495]

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[@__na_ji__]

ഇത് കേൾക്കുമ്പോൾ ഇനി അടുത്ത തവണ ഇങ്ങനെ ചെയ്യാം എന്ന് വിചാരിക്കുന്നു.പക്ഷേ അടുത്ത വഴക്കിൽ പഴയത് പോലെ ആകും😔

[@amananwar7800]

Thanku for these informations..mon cheriya karyathin vashi pidich karayumbo nammalum upset avarund..ipo i can relate it nammale care n attention kuranja days okkeyayrnnu vashoyokkenn..thanku so much

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you so much 🙂

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Very Useful for parents. Congrats Vadayar sasi

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Food yeghane kodukkam yennulladhine kurichu oru video cheyyamo

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Teaching kids to face all difficult situations with cool mind. And to give respect to others. Never teach narrow minded religious belief..

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[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you for the constant support dear aunty 🙂

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Mam, siblings thammilulla vazhakku engane handle cheyyam ennathinekkurichu video cheyyamo. It is very difficult to handle.

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I'll try. Thank you 🙂

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Uyo sathyam enthoru vazhakkka

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Pay attention to what your father and mother tell you,. Their teahing will improve your character, Thank you for your knowledge and experience congratulations on your great succes 👍

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Thank you🙂

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Thank you mam... remember you with lot of respect and gratitude...

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@geethujoseph7986]

Asha Chechi വായിച്ചിട്ടുള്ള, Positive Parenting ന് helpful ആയ available books ഒരു vedio ൽ suggest ചെയ്യാമോ!? @Asha Mathew

[@archana3385]

Parentsine kunje physically attack cheyyunnundenkil engane react cheyyam?

[@nishaneelakantan7874]

Thank you for these tips. Some of them I use personally and it’s effective. Lots of love to mom and daughter for helping the world because literally we are responsible for next generation’s emotional and mental health. Thank you for great tips ❤️❤️

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@vijayalakshmikk6623]

Thanks a lot .Very intresting. You know about Children's psycologey.. Like a Mother Like a Daughter.

[@ashamathew8981]

​@@vijayalakshmikk6623 Thank you 🙂

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Thank you Nisha🙂

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No കേൾക്കേണ്ടതും ആവശ്യമല്ലേ... കൂട്ടി ഒരു കുടുംബത്തിൽ മാത്രം ഒതുങ്ങുന്ന വ്യക്തിയല്ലല്ലോ...ഒരു സമൂഹജീവിയായി ചേർന്നുപോകണമെങ്കിൽ എല്ലാം face ചെയ്യാൻ പ്രാപ്തമാക്കണ്ടേ... വേണ്ടാ, അരുത് ., അവഗണന,ഇത്യാദി നെഗറ്റീവ് സിറ്റുവേഷൻസ് വീട്ടിൽ നിന്ന് തന്നെ കിട്ടണം... പക്ഷെ അതിന്റെ കാര്യകാരണത്തോടെ.... അല്ലേൽ അവൻ / അവൾ പൊതുസമൂഹത്തിൽ പെടുമ്പോമ്പോൾ അവിടുത്തെ നെഗറ്റീവ് റിയാക്ഷൻസ് താങ്ങാൻ പറ്റാതെ വരുമല്ലോ... എന്റെ ഒരു അഭിപ്രായത്തിൽ, അല്ലെകിൽ അനുഭവത്തിൽ വീട്ടിൽ നിന്നു അത്യാവശ്യത്തിനൊക്കെ ഇപ്പറഞ്ഞ നെഗറ്റീവ് ഉത്തരങ്ങളും കേട്ടും അനുഭവിച്ചും പ്രബലവ്യക്തിത്വങ്ങൾ ആകണം

[@ashamathew8981]

Having the security of unconditionally loving parents is what gives children the confidence to face the world. When they face problems or make mistakes, they know they have a safe place to go back to, which gives them the courage to overcome difficulties and to explore the world🙂

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Avarillathayalo

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Njan oru adyapikayanu.Now carrying 3rd child.As per my current situation my emotions are in high level.So I can't be punctual towards them.😢

[@LoveToAll583]

Well explained. Thank you so much dear

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@divyav7479]

എന്റെ മോൾക്ക് ഇപ്പോൾ 2 അര വയസ്സ് ഉണ്ട് അവൾ ചെറിയ കാര്യത്തിന് പോലും വലിയ ഉച്ചത്തിൽ കരയുക ആണ് പതിവ് എന്തിനും ഏതിനും കരച്ചിൽ ആണ് അവളുടെ ഒരു കളിപ്പാട്ടവും ആര് എടുക്കാനും പറ്റില്ല. എപ്പോഴും വാശി ആണ്. ചിലപ്പോൾ തറയിൽ കിടന്നു കരച്ചിൽ ആകും

[@alainaalan7822]

Tv kandale food kazhiku enn paranj karayum ente mol ennit kazhike ila. Tv kand irikum food otum kazhikula. Etra paranjalum kelkula. Ingane vereyum situation undagumbo enk handle cheyan aavunnila..

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Ente makal aalkoottam theere ishtappedunnilla. Ethenkilum function il poyal karanj aake bahalamaakum. Pne grand parents nte aduth polum theere snehamillatha pole behave cheyyum. Oru solution paranjntheraavo.

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New subscribers annu. Useful vedio annu medam. Thank you

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Thank you so much for this video❤

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Very good content...Iam a mother of two and raising them using gentle parenting..it's really really effective...

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Thank you madam for your vedios and effort. I randomly found your vedio once and then watched it all within few days.its very informative and practical. I really felt I need to appreciate you and meet you one day in person.

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Aleesha thank you very much❤❤

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Thanks for this informations.

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Very useful tips!. Thank you 🙏

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@ashamathew8981]

Glad to hear that 🙂

[@raziaansari479]

Nannayittundu.. .Enikku thonniya oru karyam parayatte. ..Kutti food kazhikkathirikkumbol njan kazichu theerkkumennu parayunnathinu pakaram molu ammayude i vayil vechu tharumo amma molkkum tharam ennu paranju playful ayi kazhippikkanam..kuttikalil mattullavare koodi care cheyyanamennu manassilakkikkuka.Madom paranja reethi..kutti selfish akum

[@ashamathew8981]

It is a valuable suggestion. Quite thoughtful of you, Razia. much appreciated🙂

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Very useful 🥰🙏🏻

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Extremely important and useful tips

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Thank you

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Nalla useful vedio anu.. thanks alot for both of you

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

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Very blessed an effective video.May God bless you all

[@MaryMatilda]

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Thank you

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Thank you ma'am

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Thanks....

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Valare nalla arivaanu

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But there is one problem..parents can do like this.but when they go to schools teachers behave in a different manner

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Having a secure attachment with one positive adult will make a huge difference.

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​@@goodvibezpsychologist9648 I'm not a psychologist🙂

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thank you so much for this video

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Yes, parenting videos are very helpful

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So happy to hear that 🙂

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Thanks much needed at present

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I m a new lkg teacher I m nt able to make discipline in class

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Informative video, God bless you🌹🌹🌹

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Thank you🙂

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Ammede mol tanne super lady🙏🙏🥰

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Super ❤

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Nalla vedeo aayirunnu

[@MaryMatilda]

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[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you

[@piusdane]

God Bless 🎊 Teacher, Asha & Niya😇 It would be very helpful if you can do a video about handling the mental health of parents with a differently abled 🚸 child ...

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

[@najmasajidsajid843]

Hi teacher,how are you

[@mariathereseemmanuel6818]

Very good video, all points are relevant, explained with examples, matured presentation 🙏 I appreciate both of you 🙏👍🏻💖

[@tinturenji4932]

Well said..

[@MaryMatilda]

❤❤❤

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you 🙂

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Plase more parenting N study tips idoo

[@ashamathew8981]

Will definitely try. Thank you.

[@angelsworld8465]

@@ashamathew8981 teenagers aayavareyum pinneedu pariganikkane. Ippol muthal avarkkum nalla changes aavasyamanu. Ithrayum nal care cheyyan ariyillayirunnu. Ente makan 12 years molkku 8 years. Valare useful aanu keto madam rantuperudeyum videos. Thankyou so much.

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Nice.... 👍

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Very informative video

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you

[@ashapriya560]

Good video Asha

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Thank you 🙂

[@adithyaswonderballoons3404]

Thanks a tonne...my 3 year old baby is mobile addicted...please tell me a solution to bring him back to the realistic world and start to learn useful things

[@honeyrose1331]

My 2 yr old baby was also a phone and tv addicted..... Morning to night 3 o clock she will watch. One day suddenly i stopped it by saying yesterday police came and take off our net connection and scold mama. Definitely she will ask y they did so. So i told that yesterday one baby was watching the phone and she got an defect in eye. Dark circles like that.Initially one or two day or suddenly they will cry or act like very rude. Once you decide to stop then it must be very strong. They will cry or behave like very rude or aggressive. Its just temporary. If there no choice to get it back. And then they will realize that parents can't do anything in this. Its a police rule. And also show empathy about this. Tell them don't worry we will play with u.

[@inspiredbylife1774]

My daughter is not addicted to mobile but she asks for it sometimes. She keeps scrolling through the reels. So my wife sometimes turn off wifi and data after 5 mins. She watch till the buffered content runs out and when it stops she put the mobile aside and moves on. This works now as she is only 3. I am hoping I could put these 10 tips to action soon..

[@Charlotte_Knott]

Wenn Sie sich ansehen, was Sie im Leben haben, werden Sie immer mehr haben. Wenn du dir ansiehst, was du im Leben nicht hast, wirst du nie genug haben.

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Good one

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Useful vedio mam

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Thank you

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Parenting✌ tips🙂

[@kochumarymr8430]

ആദ്യം മാതാ പിതാക്കളും അപ്പൂപ്പൻ ,അമ്മൂമമാരും സംയമനം പാലിക്കാൻ പഠിക്കണം

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Good ideas mam

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Thank you

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,ma'am. Parayunnathu👍

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Madam, FANTASTIC 😊 but would always love to hear you more than your daughter 😽

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😀

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Waiting 4 ur videoss

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🙂🙂

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👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻

[@ashamathew8981]

🙂

[@gangadharannambiar7228]

You forgot to say her age.

[@ashamathew8981]

My daughter is 2 years 10 months old.

[@ansonvarghese8428]

ആൻസ ൻ ആണ്..... ക്ലാസ് കൊള്ളാം

[@anusreepraveen5841]

Super cool

[@ashamathew8981]

Thank you🙂

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Adhd preschooler video🙏

[@ashamathew8981]

Njan athinu equipped allathathu kondanu video cheyan patathathu. Sorry.

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Mary Matilda M'am അല്ലല്ലോ speaker 😭

[@MaryMatilda]

മകളാണ്.

[@ashamathew8981]

😀

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Valid points asha..🙂

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Thank you🙂

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Good

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Thank you🙂

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👍

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Very useful

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Thank you

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എല്ലാവരും അനുഭവങ്ങളിലുലൂടെ കടന്നുവരുന്നവരാണ്... ! അവസാനം ജോലിയുള്ള ഒരാളെ അന്വേഷിച്ചു വിവാഹംകഴിച്ചു കൊടുക്കും... പിന്നെ സ്ത്രീധനം കുറഞ്ഞുപോയി ആയതിനാൽ കൊന്നുകൊലവിളിയും നടത്തും ഈ നാട്ടിൽ കണ്ടുവരുന്ന കാര്യമാണ്. കണ്ടറിഞ്ഞില്ലങ്കിൽ കൊണ്ടറിയും. ഈ ജനം എന്നു നന്നാവാൻ.....

[@sush4084]

സ്ത്രീധനം തെറ്റ് തന്നെ ആണ്. പക്ഷേ ജോലി ഇല്ലാത്ത ചേക്കനെയോ പേണ്ണിനെയോ കല്യാണം കഴിക്കുന്നതും നല്ല idea അല്ല. ഭർത്താവും ഭാര്യയും ജോലി എടുത്ത് ജീവിക്കണം, അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ഒരാളുടെ ജോലി പോയാൽ കുടുംബം ആരു നോക്കും, പിന്നെ ഒരാൾ മാത്രം full financial pressure വഹിക്കുന്നതിലും നല്ലത് 2 പേർക്കും ജോലി ഉള്ളത് ആണ്. പെണ്ണിൻ്റെയും ചേക്കൻ്റെയും കുടുംബ സ്വത്ത് മാത്രം നോക്കി ഇരിക്കാതെ ആണും പെണ്ണും ജോലി ഉള്ള ആളെ കണ്ട് പിടിക്കുക ആണ് നല്ലത്.

[@Parvani2006]

Please add English subtitles

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[@ashamathew8981]

🙂🙂

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👍🏻👍🏻 but oru suggestion und Ee thumbnail style onu matan patumo? Aa aarch type design boring anu

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Thanks for the suggestion🙂

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Our society is far behind in respecting our children and considering them as individuals. We behave as though our children don't deserve respect which is completely wrong. If you are a believer in God always keep in mind that you will have to face questions from Him regarding the humiliations towards your child. I always remind myself that my son is not my private property. I am just a Guardian chosen by my Almighty to take care of his creation

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