6 Sexy Ways to Drive a Man Wild in Bed!

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[@BelindaKambuanga]

Wow I have learned a lot from you, thankyou for sharing

[@songbirdqueen_CEO]

Thanks Mat

[@joshangout9609]

OMG. These are wonderful and so helpful. A few days ago, I locked eyes with my partner while in bed and it got so intense I could hardly stand it. That sustained eye contact WORKS! I've NEVER been with anyone like him. Holy crap. He can hold off for hours and I can take as much time as i want. I've NEVER been with someone that cared about how I feel or what I need during intimacy, and who will talk about it, ask me how I'm doing, tell me what he's loving, etc. Like, the perfect sexual partner. That, in itself, is the sexiest thing in the world. And hell yes, I tell him. I can't hold my tongue. He's amazing.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

AMAZING SHARE!!! congrats my dear what a beautiful connection, that deep vulnerable communication is gonna ensure that you two have incredible sex for years to come!!

[@mimosa27]

I hope more men take a lesson from this. Alexey Welsh's videos are great

[@joshangout9609]

@@mimosa27 agreed!!! I am so floored by him. And he's only 31. EVERYTHING he does is exactly right. I could write a book about it

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How delightful 🎉 Every women wants a man like this.

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@@joshangout9609 Maybe you should write a book? To inspire other women and men

[@leandrastander18]

I find this page helpful. Me and my fiancé are both in our sixties and still need ways to make our love life interesting

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[@PrettyTasha-k8q]

Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

[@Mia1827]

It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

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Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

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His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

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Wow. The topic, the video, the editing,the audio… superb! Thank you matt for giving us not just a very helpful topics for us ladies but also for the quality and effort of your videos. Im just a lowkey subscriber here but im always watching and waiting for your new uploads ☺️ you’re the best! I Really appreciate your POVs as a man. 😊

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[@geraldinehughes4490]

Stellar Sir Mat! Some women need to hear this and men too. Teach us, how to ask, how to give and receive. Holy suggestions that bring a glow on, we all need “good lovin”. Your fan, granny G

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[@Cat-jn7hg]

Thank you!! You have enlightened me! Very informative . Appreciate your teaching and time.

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[@brightpage1020]

Matt! You’re bringing sexy back! Great to see you! 🎉

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heck yeahhh its time to have some FUN!! ;)

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[@Juamericangirl]

Thanks mat I'll try it!😊

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awesome try it and let us know how it goes!! :)

[@Futuratelevision]

The best tips, thank you!

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[@skeeterdebeaux-stibick7406]

I haven't seen anything online, "Can a person fall in love with someone online, before meeting them"? Can you touch on the subject, if possible? Thank you Matt.

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[@cryptointegrations9854]

I have!

[@cryptointegrations9854]

Yes it is possible. And what you seek is seeking you.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Absolutely! It’s comforting to think that what we want is also looking for us.

[@joanc7816]

Yes! We started talking about 3 months ago. I'm flying to him next month for our first meeting. And an engagement ring. The wedding's in February. 😂😂

[@KarlyHiney]

OMG!!!!! Love it!!!!

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[@juliechildress8905]

Back in college, I dated a guy who expected me to initiate everything because he was inexperienced. It got old very quickly and no matter how much I asked him to initiate, he refused to do so. Since that relationship ended 13 years ago, it has made dating extremely challenging to put it mildly.

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you are WORTHY of a guy who initiates with you! how has it made dating difficult?

[@juliechildress8905]

@@Mat_Shaffer My last relationship was toxic with him gaslighting and love bombing me. It was like being on hamsters wheel. There was only one bad physical altercation after which I ended things. However, that period in my life really did a number on my confidence and self-worth. I think that may be why I'm so hesitant to try dating again.

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I’m sorry to hear this. Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to feel this way. We’re here for you. 🌹

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[@KpoorHope]

Thank you for your enlightened I really appreciate 🙏

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Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉

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Best tips ever 😊😊😊 I'm learning a lot from your coaching ♥️♥️♥️♥️ thank you a lot ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

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I love it! It's really enticing

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Love this

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[@margo3367]

I vote for enthusiasm. ❤

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yes! Enthusiasm is everything! ❤🔥 With the right energy, these tips will have him absolutely hooked. Let’s turn things all the way up! 😄😉

[@BeautynBrainz2]

Now if only we could find more sexy guys like you Mat to try these out on! 🤩 Love this topic! Great video as usual!

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[@ulrikaa1581]

…and all men are different so communicate with each other. ❤️

[@nadege0582]

The whole point is to surprise him and trying new things. I think he’s speaking for the majority of men not all men. Try it

[@Mat_Shaffer]

mmhm communication is the most important key to great intimacy!

[@ljroberts3739]

TY SO VERY MUCH, MATT 🎉🎉🎉 I NEEDED TO HEAR AND SEE THIS ❤

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[@LoriR-yk9qv]

Thanks so much for sharing these tips about sex from the guys perspective! 🎉❤😊

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[@awakenacres]

Damn, if only I had a man 😂!

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[@KatWaite-Gracie]

Great, effective and sweetly sexy advice! Thank you

[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

Withered im missing youand what are you doing

[@kimfrederick7710]

I loved this video. I enjoyed your tips. Some of them were right on and some weren't even on my radar, like going to a sex shop with him

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yesss try some of them out and let us know how it goes! ;)

[@High_Priestess1111]

Purring in his ears 🤔🐱😹 Gentlemen, please weigh in

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Haha, purring might just be the secret weapon! 😏🐱 Let’s hear it, gentlemen-does this move drive you wild or what? 🔥

[@Cantetinza17]

Another one is don't judge his kinks.

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Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@scarlettray5054]

Exactly! Actually I'm very excited with my partner's kinks... they're such a turn on... and he's also excited with mine! 😂😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!

[@olgaramirez4569]

Good point love it

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

[@vernitajames8541]

Hot stuff! Perfect 👍

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[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

Me and him had a cover sasion on what's up and iwhas folling in love with him and me and hi. Whas just talking right tru the morning and he deser peridot nou he put me thru alots of things and he ranch my live im stil waiting and whas loking for him but idont nou any more

[@janismlka5106]

Been there doing that so need more tips!

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[@DonnaClevenger-o9h]

I just sent him a text, he was in a meeting with his boss! His imagination is running wild!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Haha, mission accomplished! 😏🔥 Now he’s stuck in that meeting, trying way too hard to focus. Well played! 😉

[@wingsphysio]

How awkward for the lingerie shop sales associate

[@susiem6257]

Not at all, they experience it all of the time. During a road trip, I teased my inexperienced new boyfriend about going to a sex shop. He's analytical and had lots of questions for the associate who helped us. She was matter of fact and answered his questions. I'm working on loosening him up so we can go back and just work our way through everything.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

haha she loved it actually! they generally work at places like that because they are super sex positive and open (this place was a legit sex shop that specialized in lingerie, not like a victoria secret)

[@wingsphysio]

@@Mat_Shaffer that’s really cool then! I guess I was imagining more of a Victoria Secret lol 😁 That’s great!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

You’re lighting up the comments section! Thanks for being awesome. 💖

[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

Im not doing it I'm doing it that with my husband sorry for you

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❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤yessss

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[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

Canyon give that smile for me agan and what you doing to me you nou what I mean and I'm waiting g for that moment that special moment that you and I chare when when we meet you remember the fist time when we meetit whas sweet and beautiful please connected me thank you

[@mariapeabody1549]

This all depends on age. I try everything to turn him on but "things" don't do what it should do.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I get it-sometimes things just don’t respond the way we want them to, and that’s okay. 😊 It’s not always about the "goal" but the playful journey together that keeps the spark alive. 💖🔥

[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

He let me cring night after night me an d him had a beautiful reaction chip we talking from night tel morning and we have long chats ilove him but idont nou where I. Standing nou

[@JWms12011]

. On another video that you did where you gave "6 ways to drive a man wild in bed" . . . I was very surprised that you did not mention "dirty talk." Is there are reason why you did not mention that?

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for watching! I didn’t mention dirty talk because I wanted to focus on other ways to build connection. But it can definitely be a great way to spice things up if both partners enjoy it!

[@DoreenLottering-r2s]

Sorry im not doing it I'm not doing it sorry for youmbed room is my preverd okay

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Nothing new.

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Who cares???

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The people watching this video that COMMENT that it’s helpful….. duh