What Men Really Want To Hear

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Dr. Matt Townsend

Dr. Matt Townsend

Күн бұрын

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@johnryan3374
@johnryan3374 5 ай бұрын
Great comments. This needs to be taught to couples before they get married.
@TheWilDOn31
@TheWilDOn31 6 жыл бұрын
I must be a man! I'm tired to be dragged to all these social encounters, and to be told how to use my time, and how I didn't make it up for that one time when I couldn't go to the mountains with him, and to be asked a million questions everyday and to be expected to answer each one as if I'm on trial for my life, and never get some time for myself because my man gets upset if I don't go with him almost everywhere ...
@jonsmith919
@jonsmith919 5 жыл бұрын
Damn. That is the exact fight my wife and I always have. I just want sometime to chill at home without having to got to so many social gatherings, it’s so draining
@CJ-ft9yo
@CJ-ft9yo 4 жыл бұрын
too bloody right, women need peace from the egoic bluster
@AKUBARIKI
@AKUBARIKI 3 жыл бұрын
I suffer this every weekend! Those gatherings with his relatives...who don't even say thank you for the meal that they saw me sweat for...(instead they clearly say the thanks to only my husband) energy vampires 🧛‍♂️ 🧛‍♂️
@The_Struggling_Christian
@The_Struggling_Christian 4 жыл бұрын
I call bs..I am very specific.. and he still denies me. I swear i'm married to a frigging woman. He's the drama king. He's expected me to work with work, with no time for me, but he doesn't punch a time clock so he had all this free time
@CJ-ft9yo
@CJ-ft9yo 4 жыл бұрын
I could not wait to be alone this weekend after a boatload of male criticism ...
@isacorfi8115
@isacorfi8115 7 жыл бұрын
I blame their mothers.
@lor3999
@lor3999 5 жыл бұрын
😆🤭
@elizabethiloveelohim137
@elizabethiloveelohim137 5 жыл бұрын
In my house it's the other way around
@mystiquelou1277
@mystiquelou1277 6 жыл бұрын
They want to hear silence ...and ..
@edunlap6594
@edunlap6594 5 жыл бұрын
Then don't be with women.
@EvaCFricke
@EvaCFricke Жыл бұрын
Don't get married until you learn about the marriage through real marriage workshops, read books on marriages and watch videos. Nobody gets help about marriage until it is completely broken. Most of the people don't know how marriage works. It should be taught in schools and colleges and Universities and before marriage.
@suzannecoultard7763
@suzannecoultard7763 2 жыл бұрын
IM SORRY BUT COMMUNICTION IS PRETTY STRAIGHFORWARD. IF I HAVE TO BABY A MAN OR HANDLE THEM WITH KID GLOVES THEN NO THANKS
@jonsmith919
@jonsmith919 5 жыл бұрын
Women live their entire lives ruled by emotions. Men have the NEED to make practical sense. This is why we don’t communicate well
@edunlap6594
@edunlap6594 5 жыл бұрын
#NotAllMenMakePracticalSense
@CJ-ft9yo
@CJ-ft9yo 4 жыл бұрын
entire lives ruled by emotions ? Wonder how i learnt how to drive with this albatross of emotions.
@reginasemenenko148
@reginasemenenko148 Жыл бұрын
Lol.
@reginasemenenko148
@reginasemenenko148 Жыл бұрын
@@CJ-ft9yo I know. I don't know how I manage to do anything what with my emotions.
@linagartner1987
@linagartner1987 3 жыл бұрын
This is gold
@isacorfi8115
@isacorfi8115 7 жыл бұрын
We need to get used to living on our own. I could go for renting a companion for Saturday evening eat out. That would suit me.
@nickdipaolofan5948
@nickdipaolofan5948 6 жыл бұрын
the answer to "what men really want to hear" depends on if women want answer based on reality or the answer based on if we lived in a perfect world: If we lived in a perfect world, women would be able to connect with men on their level. If this were possible, men would like to hear his woman discuss politics with him. He would like her to engage intellectually and philosophically. He would like her to have interesting stories to tell, not some bullshit about how suzie said this and Karen did that, and now she is not talking to them...... Men would also like it when his woman called his name, is wasn't just a precursor to some nag request from her. He would love it if she asked his opinion on things, with actual intent to try his advice. Men would like to open up to his wife without the fear of her using that information against him years later when they are fighting. Men would like to be open about their physical needs so that way his wife could adjust so he is sexually satisfied, rather than her calling him a pervert and then give him even less sex. But because we don't live in utopia and women in general are not willing or able to behave this way; men just want to hear silence. That's all, just silence would be nice.
@jonsmith919
@jonsmith919 5 жыл бұрын
Nick DipaoloFan they only operate on their emotions. The worst decisions I’ve made in life were when I was emotional.
@edunlap6594
@edunlap6594 5 жыл бұрын
Rent a man for longer than 1 minute? Girl, you should start a business!😁 Notice how they'll do things that have a monetary value established. Plus, they get to go outside the house to do it. Perfect!
@thisisbob1001
@thisisbob1001 6 жыл бұрын
Tooooo right.!
@nickdipaolofan5948
@nickdipaolofan5948 6 жыл бұрын
the answer to "what men really want to hear" depends on if women want answer based on reality or the answer based on if we lived in a perfect world: If we lived in a perfect world, women would be able to connect with men on their level. If this were possible, men would like to hear his woman discuss politics with him. He would like her to engage intellectually and philosophically. He would like her to have interesting stories to tell, not some bullshit about how suzie said this and Karen did that, and now she is not talking to them...... Men would also like it when his woman called his name, is wasn't just a precursor to some nag request from her. He would love it if she asked his opinion on things, with actual intent to try his advice. Men would like to open up to his wife without the fear of her using that information against him years later when they are fighting. Men would like to be open about their physical needs so that way his wife could adjust so he is sexually satisfied, rather than her calling him a pervert and then give him even less sex. But because we don't live in utopia and women in general are not willing or able to behave this way; men just want to hear silence. That's all, just silence would be nice.
@lotuskoko
@lotuskoko 6 жыл бұрын
Nick DipaoloFan Honey, that’s not utopia. You’ve just been with the wrong women.
@allisononyoutube5794
@allisononyoutube5794 5 жыл бұрын
So when are you going to file for a divorce and find the woman of your dreams?
@perciousmatter7001
@perciousmatter7001 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I never thought it like that, thanks for the advice, even though Im not a male.
@nickdipaolofan5948
@nickdipaolofan5948 3 жыл бұрын
@@lotuskoko Apparently 90% or more of married men have "just been with the wrong women".....
@nobodykn0ws520
@nobodykn0ws520 4 жыл бұрын
1:53 lol
@mariamadam-noor140
@mariamadam-noor140 5 жыл бұрын
I thank god for the Islam ☪️
@jonsmith919
@jonsmith919 5 жыл бұрын
We want simple things: food, sex and silence. If you can supply these. You will have a happy man
@loki6253
@loki6253 3 жыл бұрын
This guy doesn't have a clue about the "real" men
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