MC v. IC | Libra 4th House - Aries 10th House

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[@applejackzo]

People were saying I was spoiled in HS because my parents bought me almost whatever I wanted and (I went to boarding school) I ALWAYS had groceries. BUT I'm emotionally starving. They never provided that for me.

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Same😪

[@thesteelefamilychronicles3730]

Same ..

[@DedraJenelle]

Wow. I’ve never read anything more relatable. That’s so true💔 & as I grow older, it’s like I don’t even hold much value for those type of things anymore. I value having my emotional needs met.

[@sojournerkarunatruth4406]

Childhood emotional neglect; there are many whom were 'trained' to gaslight (or deny) their own feelings in sacrifice for some one else; and they aren't even conscious of it #bigyikes everyone is traumatized.

[@girlsaturn8621]

So. Be grateful. Some us didn’t get the material thing OR the emotional affection. Be grateful

[@GlitterStar20]

This made me cry...I learned to be strong on my own by preparing to be what I wasn't taught when I was a child

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Hope they were "good" tears. Glad to hear you got to a place of strength. I'm on that same Libra IC journey.

[@specialk3021]

Yep... Never any balance. Narcissists for parents. Walked on eggshells. Yep presentation & a happy face always in public. Accused of everything all the time. Is that why it takes me so long to get ready? Emotional & physical pain & trauma a lot. I was never allowed to feel anything or talk!! They took care of everything for me. I'm a Cancer Asc, Cap Sun & Scorpio moon. I'm trying to get it. We'd get along great! Me too :-)

[@TheCuspAstrology]

+Kristen clausing Yeeeeessss my parents are so into themselves and definitely taught me to deal with the surface first and foremost. I take HOURS to get ready lol... I do think that Moon in Scorpio pulled things in a bit more of an intense direction when it comes to not being aloud to feel/talk. I'm sure we'd click well haha :)

[@specialk3021]

Your so sweet!! It's good to know I'm not alone! I could learn a lot from you. All my big planets are in the sixth. I have the puzzle I just don't know how to put it together. I'm sure we could kick it. My DS has his moon in Aquarius. He's a Scorpio sun, Libra asc. All his planets r in the first. I think Hitler had the placement. He's kind, into occult & rather play fb he's into looking at the birds. Lol!!! Ty for your videos!!

[@siwavemmm488]

I have libra forth and Aries mc I can relate a lot and I'm 16 right now I have so much confusion going out into the real world even at this age when my parents tell me to do simple things like buy something online or go into the store and put money on a card.. They did everything for me and at the same time Dident really want me to do anything now they are saying I need to start learning all these stuff and it's so overwhelming . It feels like when your holding hands with someone that's running while you walk

[@TheCuspAstrology]

I know exactly what you mean! When I was in my teens I used to have damn near panic attacks to just go buy the newspaper for my mom, or take care of something for myself; even today I have to remind myself that not every errand requires company. The best thing to do is "bit the bullet" and do "it". Aries is our power sign, our key into the life we think is locked away. With Libra in the 4th you just gotta charge in, ask questions (if you're too nervous then put the effort in to try and do it right anyway) and just get it done. If you get embarrassed just accept that tomorrow that thing is in the past and is just a bad memory; if someone points out that you got something wrong, accept it, and now you are prepared with how to do it right next time... the list goes on. It's no easy feat, but to adopt an Aries attitude is best done early for this placement; you'll grow up and grow strong a lot faster that way. Good Luck!! :)

[@specialk3021]

CancVirgo Astrology I have Libra 4th & my Midheaven is Aries too!!! My mothers sun sign! The narcissist that she is! My brothers chart is so bad. He was the golden child. He had it all & lost it. Jail.

[@AishaStarz]

This is definitely me ... I’m pretty introverted but people see me as or expect me to be extroverted because of my personality... but I just like to be left alone for the most part 😂

[@sandramcqueen9470]

You nailed it! Libra 4th house, but Leo rising. Thank you.

[@chanyt2364]

My sons placement 🙂

[@emer4lds]

Same here !

[@sagesage5171]

Sameeee, can you resonateee?

[@sagesage5171]

With this video

[@queenellieimani]

Same sis! This is cathartic.

[@Kristen10-22]

Holy moly! Yep that’s me. I’m a chameleon.. I don’t know who I am without them! Spoiled? Yep materialistic.. had to “fit in”.. “pay attention”.. “look people in the eye even if you don’t care what their telling you”... eggshells is an understatement.. everyday she’d go into a rage. “You better be afraid of me” & “you think you have it bad?”They raised a girl with cptsd & Bpd.

[@Kristen10-22]

I have so much empathy it affects my emotions.

[@sophiaraine7554]

Thanks for sharing! My son isnt quite 2 and Ive been looking into his birth chart for ways to improve my parenting to cater to his individual needs. He has Libra 4th house and even though its hard to admit, I can totally see how my and his father's personalities could influence him in this manner. Ill definitely keep all this in consideration to lessen the possible negative influences of my parenting style.

[@everyone]

So cool you’ve decided to do that! I have this aspect and I’m 30 years old. I went through this exact experience with my parents. My biggest advice would be to never embarrass your kid in front of others. I am glad my parents taught me good manners but they would also call me out in such embarrassing ways (they even do it to this day sometimes!) when I don’t act exactly as how they expect/taught me. This has lead to me to being so self conscious in social situations ESPECIALLY when meeting new people because I have it instilled in my head if I’m not wearing the right outfit, not groomed perfectly, didn’t say the proper greeting then they’re going to dislike me and I feel immense shame. And just like this guy said, once I do overcome that initial meeting I then find it hard to break free and be myself because I’ve just presented myself in a way that my parents instilled in me, not how I am naturally. I’m trying to break free from it but believe it or not it’s hard.

[@girlsaturn8621]

My brother has this. We were poor but my mom did everything she could to buy him the clothes he wanted. He would feel entitled to it and say he wasn’t going to school of he didn’t get it. She’d give him money to hang out with friends. He was very materially spoiled and now has grown up to be just as materialistic and almost narcissistic. I have Leo IC with aquarius MC and I got nothing. Absolutely nothing. Materially or viscerally. My mom would hide food from me and make me starve. She never let me hang out with people and completely isolated me. Never even let me go to a single homecoming. I grew up to use money as tool but not make it my end goal. I’m in social work, a lot more compassionate than my brother. It’s crazy how two people under the same roof can have completely different upbringings

[@ztswagger]

I’m the rare Aries MC with a Leo Asc

[@caraissoclueless]

samee

[@justinroze]

saaame

[@mizzteelivingston1383]

Ok... I'm da same... Dis applies to me on steroids.... My up bringing wuz fkd up...!!!

[@ajayyy_3]

SAME OMG

[@queenellieimani]

yep darling!

[@Frogsickle42]

You got me when you mentioned tact. Tact is something I've always valued, but in our society today it's kind of gone away.

[@manangmambobola3252]

I agree

[@tresss.9348]

Your smile is so beautiful!

[@mojo1994]

I also have liba ic and aries mc but with a leo asc.. I'm currently going through a hard time and I randomly came across this video on youtube only recently having really delving into astrology. Your video made me tear up because it rings so true and its like an acknowledgement of issues I've had that I've never had a logical explanation for.. Thank you

[@wackywagners3463]

'Groomed to be a well oiled machine.' Wow. This is a very powerful message. Thank you

[@carolynemonroe6195]

Wow I’m so shook! Leo Sun / Cancer Ascendant you labeled my entire upbringing to my core!!! The balance of poverty to royalty within months and years I can’t believe so many of us are out there

[@Ava-vu6hn]

I have Libra IC and Aries MC :)

[@gummamuhumza6446]

Libra 4th house, Cancer Rising

[@christamays1944]

This is the most accurate information that I’ve ever came across. Thank you so much I needed to hear this. I keep replaying it, it motivates me to get things done.

[@khenti7]

Thanks for the information, i also have cancer rising with a libra in 4th house.

[@katsuarezm]

AUGH thank you! you pierced to the centre of me. I have cancer rising, and everything you described is exactly my experience. thank you for seeing the true me, without even knowing me.. :')

[@TheCuspAstrology]

+Kat Su Aww thanks. I'm happy to resonate with you! I have a Cancer rising too so we can definitely relate on a video like this.

[@skyogrady3199]

+CancVirgo Astrology are you virgo sun? I seem to connect well and understand you well. I have a Sun in virgo Moon in Pisces and cancer ascendant

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Yea I'm a Virgo Sun, Leo Moon, Cancer Ascendant :)

[@sleepyholloway4241]

are you a scorpio I have a cancer rising too

[@davidcline9677]

Cancer rising here too with the same placement. Spot on read!

[@manangmambobola3252]

😱 spot on. I tought we were rich when I was growing up but I realized it was just a facade.

[@AngelicaMelara]

yup story of my life . its a crazy cycle.But in my cause, i need to learn on my own cause my parent didnt want me to know the truth about life and made look like it was perfect. Thank god i had some street smart and logic and friends that told me how it is.

[@tarotbytina443]

I am also a cancer rising, libra ic , aries mc. Thank you for this video. It was very helpful. ❤️ youre the only other cancer rising ive seen so far so its kind of cool to watch you. I am just starting to learn astrology and break down my chart, but its pretty cool when you begin to see the signs energies working in others. ❤️🙏 😊😊😊

[@whitneyjoy4744]

I have this placement, Leo rising though. I'm in my thirties and still have such a hard time being open and transparent with people and really being myself. I'm working on it, though.

[@TheCuspAstrology]

@Shanki Sama I totally agree! Others need to move out of the way after I've been home stewing over what to do; once I [FINALLY] make my mind up my Aries MC is nooo joke haha With Jupiter (I'm assuming in Libra) in the 4th house it basically shows that the more time you take to actively make your mind up and do what's best, the better the payoff. The key is that you need to actually actively work and prep, not just wait for the right moment; create the right moment and then you'll be golden!

[@ciudadanodelmundo9558]

I am double ♋ with 🌒 in ♊ (in 12th house), I have north Node conjunct MC and south Node conjunct IC, Pluto in Scorpio in 5th house, I think in my past life I was a mother and in this i must be a parent because the north Node is in the 10th house, the house of the father

[@JB-tw5bc]

Thanks bro 🖤✊🏾

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

this is the truth and how i ended up with a fearful avoidant attachment style this was therapy and church people tell me these things all the time outside astrology in regard to the advice i get i heard you cry too you are not alone at least you know and there was nothing you could do it was in the stars at least that's how im seeing it

[@kaashkaash8695]

Wooow thank you so much!! This helps tremendously!!!

[@marijabu]

Thank you. This explains a lot !

[@SartoriallyBlack]

OMG this was SO on-point!!! WOWWWW

[@Mia-xz2fm]

Wow. This opened my eyes beyond belief...

[@Kevin-hf7xg]

I've never ever resonated with a reading as much as i did with this one. I learned so much from this and it made my upbringing so much clearer. And the fact that the videolength is the same as my birthtime is actually blowing my mind. Thank you so much for this video!!!

[@StephSlice2389]

A friend of mine had Libra in the 4th House; she took her life Oct 4, 2015. I guess I'm looking for answers by studying aspects of her birth chart. This video is very interesting. She definitely was forced to hide herself away and I believe it smothered her

[@ellle8485]

I literally cried watching this... thank you.

[@moonlytemuse392]

This is so on point... that's all I can say. Mind blown!

[@DerraD12]

Wow great video, thank you💗

[@annmarie9066]

Crazy, crazy accurate. Wow. Spot on!!

[@queenellieimani]

Thank you!✨✨✨🙏🏾🥰 Spot on and super on point!

[@esskaypeet]

Wow, awesome. Great vid.

[@lakimburley]

Everything you said was true. I totally relate!

[@jazzy2093]

umm u just readed my complete upbringing this is scary

[@brittanyr821]

brilliant brotha great explanation

[@serennadavis9543]

Recently getting into researching what my houses really mean and this hits home. I'm shocked at how spot on this is for me. Amazing video!

[@missionbasedastrology1013]

I SHOW ALL MY CLIENTS WHO HAVE THIS PLACEMENT. This is a POWERFUL VIDEO

[@wiscochic861plutochic5]

My son has this ok I spoiled him but not to hurt him he has muscular dystrophy duchennes so I have had to spoil trying to teach him things he needs and to be positive and optimistic no matter what the outcome no matter how much u must struggle you have to care about you and be who you are and still be outgoing and make friends and always be positive and push to learn whatever you can so yes he might be spoiled but this was to push his self esteem thru the roof basically to be as positive as he can in his times of struggle where he feels no one understands him. So if that makes sense he was spoiled to make him be someone who knows he is loved and isn’t ignored even if his walking ends and he feels like giving up we can never give up and we have to care

[@axhas6956]

Thank you soooo much! Can't tell you how accurate this is! I'm a cancer rising & everything you described! So hard trying to fix that Aries attitude but i know what it means because I've felt so good when I just go for it and get it done

[@monishalopez954]

It's a full moons energy, so this video especially put me with Team Cry right now lol. And I felt, you felt this journey lol. Much Peace and Light to you brother. Very on point.

[@TwanTheMystik]

omg this is me!!!!!! so on point. thanks for sharing!

[@TheCuspAstrology]

+Twan Kaikpo Thanks for watching! :)

[@deelicky9111]

Libra 4h conjunct Chiron. This video gave me the motivation I needed. Thank you🌸

[@facobasten1984]

Thanks so much. I have been into astrology for the past few years. I always hv issue for expressing my true self because i already groomed into a specific mannerism when i relate to ppl like you said. Its so difficult to break frm the mould .... And ppl seek for my genuity but am so afraid to offend ppl idk. Thanks you nailed it. You seem to be very young. Thats a lot of knowledge you have to posses that most ppl searching for so many years.

[@nom3270]

This is my placement and you are spot on.

[@michellestevenson5728]

I wish I could like this 1,000 times. Spot on for me. Cancer rising, stellium in the 10th house so I'm working on understanding the 4th to find balance ♡

[@pinguflap]

Very true...great video!

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Thank you!

[@heatherhancock6231]

Thank you! This is my husband's placement (with a leo asc) and I've been trying to understand what he means when he tries to explain these things to me but this makes it so much clearer. My placement is flipped with Ares ic and Libra mc so its interesting.

[@roxannadorsey9716]

Hello dear , Love the charm & the Real of it all. You’re on hit, Thank You Beautiful for saving me MANY hours with my mental Health Therapist every week.Because now I understand this placement of ours & how

[@XoihaOsla]

my mom is aries sun, my dad is a libra sun. ahaha. wow. I’m a draconic virgo sun and cancer midheaven & I can relate to the way you speak! I relate to monarch astrology’s video on 4th house virgo as well however! It’s tough I feel like them both. my natal chart is cancer rising but my vedic is in gemini rising. I think that is why and my virgo draconic sun remembers my draconic cancer midheaven.

[@yomi1918]

I have this placement and everything you said resonates! Especially the part where you stated we care what others think about us.. its a hard and confusing placement I think! lol

[@_N0_0ne]

Thank you kindly

[@sechale]

Fascinating thank you, so instructive. So so so spot on, thank you. Can tell from your face actually that you are this (i am too) ... you have a kind of ... refinement in your manner that is very Libra-on-the-deep-inside. Think a lot of people don't get this combo ... but you put it into words well. Especially ... being spoiled in some ways and painfully neglected in others. Always being forced to keep the peace, make the balance. that people teach you how to be socially acceptable whether THEY are or not (possibly not) ... and that people expect a depth from you which is in fact there, but that you can stick to the surface in social situations because peace is just so danged important to you ... gonna listen again. Please do keep making videos :)

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Thank you for your kind words! Glad to hear you enjoyed and took something from the video. You sharing the placement with me is especially cool; you can get that double layer of info from knowing exactly where I am coming form with my interpretation.

[@godisamazing6448]

Thank you! My daughter has part Virgo, majority libra in her 4th house. I’m a single mom (for now) lol but I make sure that she has structure, she is spoiled, but I do not play the radio as far as discipline goes. I have n. Node in 4th house Aquarius and S. Node in 10th house leo, so I always worry if I work too much and then making sure that she feels like I’m there, I hate when she misses me. This video helped me out a lot! I am not as worried I know that my efforts are steering her in a great direction. Thanks again! 💜💜 also, after reading comments I’m sure that other placements determine other things as well. My daughter has an Aquarius Moon, Cancer ascendant, Cap sun. That aquarius moon shows how logical I am and I teach her a lot of things. In case your wondering I’m a Scorpio rising, leo sun, leo moon.

[@iliketulips13]

I have an interception and my ic and mc are Virgo/Pisces but I resonate soooo much with your explanation of libra/Aries (what mine would be if I didn’t have an interception) on the ic/mc where I usually have resonated more with the Virgo/Pisces interpretation.

[@ntranull629]

thank you

[@SMB3323]

YES! Thank you for this! I'm an Aries sun, Scorpio moon, Cancer rising with of course a Libra IC and Aries MC.

[@Iamdannilove]

I’m the same except Taurus Sun sign

[@adrianavazquez4700]

Nail on the head!!

[@bloomflora1105]

thank you tha helped a lot

[@Novaknet]

Very interesting!

[@modestmouse224]

WOW you are so talented and insightful and right on that needle point. I’m so glad I found your channel in the sea of the internet thank you!

[@modestmouse224]

I feel seen. SO powerful

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Thank you, and welcome aboard!

[@suprbonnie]

Wow very well said. Cancer sun, leo rising, libra moon. Aries MC, Libra IC. So much balancing I can't even. Might as well be the ☯️. I wonder what can be said for Pluto and the North Node in my fourth house?

[@TheXaNaXFairy]

and this is why I have horrible anxiety lol

[@NataliaOliveira-dj4nt]

That was so accurate Im shocked

[@seanelliot22]

Your the man

[@Cc07]

Libra sun with this placement and my asc at 29♋️ I focus on dwads and Decans a lot bc majority of the traits for libra don’t match up with me at all. I’ve spent majority of my life in isolation but prefer extroversion. I’ve learned I’m just a statistic tho even if maybe this was in the stars🤷🏻‍♀️ Everyone jokes that my life is like a sci fi horror or karmic punishment bc of how unrelenting the waves of bs are. I turned 35 this month and still have it around me and the toxic family.. so many live with their shoulders up and clenched fists just waiting for the next shit, I definitely see myself as a cog in the system.

[@Dorian-lt5jb]

Aires Sun, Virgo Moon, Cancer Ascendant, Mother is a Pisces and Dad is a Sagittarius. He signed his rights away when I was 3 and my mother is an addict. Aquarius in 8th house and been to jail 3 times bc of protection orders and miscommunication/lack of understanding in the household. I'm 22 years old, and just moved for the 10th time within this past year, had 3 jobs but am getting my financial goals in check right now and especially in Jan. 2021, overall this was hella accurate!!!

[@roxannadorsey9716]

To cope. You Rock😎

[@THECANADIANVIOLET1]

Hey. Lets chat :) this is the second video ive watched of yours and it seems we have similar aspects. Im a Virgo sun, leo moon, and cancer rising. Im also huge into astrology.

[@breanahayes3030]

I'm a libra IC and i feel like he knows me because he was spot on with my life

[@introrizing4539]

My nn is on ic in ibra. I also have saturn on mc and sn in aries.

[@MaGestic1]

Damn I got this in my Chart WtF! I'm A savage in public

[@dulcemichii8057]

All facts

[@karrenmoorer6585]

this hit right

[@p0pular.lonerrr]

💯💯💯

[@jessicanifong5374]

Hi Seth! I know this is an older video but I'm new to studying astrology. My N.Node is in Aries and S.Node is in Libra. My 8yr old sons placement is Libra in 4th house and Aries in 10th. My 5 yr old sons placements are Aries in 4th and Libra in 10th. Is this a signal of inconsistency in parenting or how would you interpret this? Thank you in advance.

[@reggiecoburn3626]

Any advice for a 4th house Libra stellium sun mercury and Mars also how do you balance out the 4th house and 10th house

[@daphneharden549]

I have a Libra IC, Aries MC, leo rising. I want so much that you talk about this combination. I also have a Sun in X Taurus. I am not sure the video fit me. Some of it does.

[@ambercarroll5421]

Accurate. Venus in libra (4th).

[@SG85917]

And my south node...oh boy

[@SG85917]

I have this but with saturn in libra in thr 4th

[@tiarobin3516]

My Saturn in Libra is in the 3rd

[@mpoemp4703]

wowYour A CUTIE!

[@Himeko-wv7fu]

The accuracy of this is scary.

[@sweetjr25]

truth.

[@iamductri]

is that a knife you use to hold the yellow note on the wooden board behind you?

[@latina1425]

I think I fell in love with you 😍😍 😂

[@MsSola999]

Right On the money again! how can i get you to look at my chart!

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Thank you; I'm glad this resonated. You can check out all the readings I offer on my site: cancvirgoastrology.wordpress.com/services/

[@arialkann8575]

For me, it was that my parents were polarized: one is a hippie Wiccan and the other is an Evangelical Christian, and they didn't figure this out about themselves and each other until I was about 10. I spent a lot of time keeping my siblings away from the yelling and making sure they had what they needed. Anything I said that came out as a criticism must have been a product of the other's bashing or I didn't have the whole story. But, in a lot of ways, I've been able to use that experience to understand different perspectives in a way that has been beneficial, when I remember to look out for myself in there too. That has been the hard part - remembering that it isn't up to me to fix things that happen between other people. I have a Leo Ascendant, a Virgo Sun, and a Libra Moon, so I think sometimes I get focused on needing to have it all figured out for everybody else too. I also have a lot of Sagittarius in my chart, so I'll dive right into things where vastly different personalities are involved and then immediately regret it because, damn, it's a lot of work and I just want to be free!

[@TheCuspAstrology]

What a wonderful glimpse into the balance and possible outcomes of your energy. It is interesting to hear of how Libra took on a different, yet recognizable, shape than I experienced for myself with the same placement. The emphasis on difference and opposition and temperance seems to shine a light on that Sag energy you speak of. Where I am concerned, with an abundance of Leo in my chart, the themes surrounded ego, greed, and self-image. I'm fascinated! Thank you for sharing!!

[@arialkann8575]

CancVirgo Astrology, thank you. I’m also fascinated with the way you lay out the different combinations and the emphasis that these energies may make up part of you, but that doesn’t define you. Your video on Libra, in specific, really helped me deal with a situation I was in by helping me recognize that the part that was driving me crazy was that this person didn’t like me and there was nothing I was going to be able to do to change that. And your video on why the signs might hate you made me laugh. It was a very interesting exercise in self awareness and others’ perception. I love what you are doing here.

[@implespaynter]

I don't know what your north node sign is but you should read the Aries north node in North Node Astrology book. It really helps with this placement. =)

[@TheCuspAstrology]

+Imples Paynter I'll have to check it out, thanks! My North Node is in Capricorn (6th House).

[@XIM0719]

So handsome 😭😭😭

[@Xdlexi15xp]

I don’t feel spoiled in any aspect the scale has always been tipped negatively especially with my Chiron in libra and north node. I have a Pisces moon and an Aries sun

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Take the time to check your privilege. You have the ability to watch my videos and create a conversation with me, that's leaps and bounds ahead of a large portion of the world. This isn't an attack, but it sounds like you need to check your perspective and humble your POV.

[@krystalice1792]

Wow! doesn't help that I'm a Capricorn Sun. My problem is usually with women though. I've struggled with making female friends especially within my own race...?

[@ChoctawNawtic4]

How much does Venus in the sign of Libra (exaltation) in the 4th, change this position?

[@mustaphamuhammad1440]

Choctawnic this is two years later and I’m pretty sure you meant domicile but in a sense you treat others like family. Your relationships are a staple in your day to day bases. The aspects count too and the dignities

[@Mrbillionaire1011]

Fucking love this!!!!!! Facts of my life

[@TheCuspAstrology]

Thanks so much! :)