Mother Reveals Dark Secret to Help Abused Teen Daughter | Chicago Med | MD TV

[@carversmith8619]

Finally, one of these videos has an actual decent parent.

[@hkesel05]

Right?!?

[@brendadickson9583]

So true

[@car-c1j]

the best part is she isnt perfect, she has flaws, but hes just human so of course she isnt perfect, she just wants whats best for her

[@mr.d.572]

It's NEVER the woman"s fault. The crime is entirely on the perpetrator.

[@musicalsaber6433]

*the victims

[@freedomcat]

you mean the VICTIM'S FAULT. Not all women are the victime some are the perpetrators.

[@VinVin_31]

Some are perpetrators against both men and women.

[@freedomcat]

@@VinVin_31 and sometimes the perpetrators are women themselves.

[@chrisidornigie]

It’s NEVER the victims fault

[@runsoncaffeine]

I really like that closing line from the daughter “it’s what I want”, so much impact and meaning behind it.

[@stephanieflores277]

its nice to see how the mother was trying to be understanding with the daughter

[@allisonkrueger8330]

Trying? No she is understanding, she said it herself that she was saed when she was Neela’s age

[@ten5h1]

Sad fact is if that boy has a parent with money, or is good in sports, it’ll probably get swept under the rug.

[@Delta_plays]

most likely, that's always what seems to happen sadly.

[@sinqumozuma8751]

The fact that the mother doesn't want her daughter to go through the same pain that she did in the past is really admirable

[@MzTyraB]

I wish my mama was as protective & understanding as this mother.

[@kathconserv]

I’m Sorry.

[@oneleafaday348]

Ooff, I'm really sorry 😢

[@MzTyraB]

@@kathconserv thank you

[@MzTyraB]

@@oneleafaday348 thank you

[@ShayMiW]

Me too. I still never told my mom what happened to me

[@FullTimePatient37]

I'm glad the mother instinct kicked in her 😢 heartbreaking 💔

[@jayleighbear]

when it happened to me i was under the influence of weed. i was 16 and the guy wouldn’t take no for an answer. i was so scared but i was sadly more scared of how angry my mom would react about the fact that i had done a drug so i never told her until i became an adult. parents i beg you to ensure your children trust you and know even if they were doing something they shouldn’t that you’ll be there for them in dangerous situations. i wasn’t able to call for help because i truly believed the anger from my mom would have been worse than what happened to me. nowadays we have a much healthier relationship and i now know my mom would absolutely have saved me but at the time my mom had broken my trust in several occasions to the point where i didn’t feel safe confiding in her or even really talking to her about my life at all.

[@magicinthemundane9527]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry that happened to you, but I’m glad you have a better relationship with your mother now.

[@ApatheticBananas]

I was Saed at 16. I had a kit done and it is painful, intrusive, and traumatizing. It's important, but it should never be forced. This video broke my hear from the love between the parents, and the pain inflicted on them.

[@colonelsarge2797]

I had a co-worker who went through something similar, worse, it was at a KID'S birthday party! That's just sick! I wasn't there but hearing about it was horrifying to say the least. To make matters worse, my co-worker ended up pregnant and had to give the baby up for adoption, and all the while, she kept up a brave front, which was commendable, but I could tell it was taking a toll. I haven't seen her since the birth and hope all is well, plus I hope the kid never finds out how he was born.

[@Zerojustzero]

Damn

[@francostevo9939]

I am so sorry.

[@l.a.3479]

Natalie should call in Dr. Charles on this one.

[@Arianna-i7y]

Fr fr

[@FullTimePatient37]

Exactly 💯💯 where is he!

[@Just_bdfr]

She handled it pretty well on her own

[@Queen_Springsteen]

Yes

[@codekracker8]

Eh, I think Dr Charles is more often called in when someone is likely to have a mental health condition. In this case I think Natalie handled it correctly

[@Revenge_Slayer]

It’s sad that people still do this, remember people know the kind of people you’re hanging out with and always take someone you trust with you

[@joanneaugust1489]

Sadly it's most often someone you trust and know well. Usually someone you thought incapable of something like this. I don't have personal experience, it's just statistics. The entire "stranger danger" mentality opens up people to abuse from relatives and friends. No question; you need to be careful around strangers. But statistically, it's safer to be staying a night at a stranger's house than your own uncle's. This isn't supposed to mean you shouldn't trust anyone or always expect the worst. It just means you should be careful even around family and friends, and trust your guts when it comes to your own and your children's safety.

[@Picassostrash]

There are many cases where girls go with their friends and their friends aren’t worried about how they go home. It’s a sad cycle really. Your friends might not even be a good idea.

[@bleehh]

​@@joanneaugust1489you're absolutely right. In my case it was my own bf at the time. Like you said, being careful around strangers is very important, but more often than not it's someone you trust.

[@Nothemomma904]

This is what a good mother looks like

[@AmberPatterson-x7v]

I was 15, at my parents' reception, my older brothers friend, and my mother could not have cared less. Bless this mom for doing right by her daughter.

[@da_h1i_aa]

I am so sorry

[@Katharina14031982]

I hope you have recovered. I am sorry this has happened to you!

[@meliss1123]

I'm so sorry 😢

[@carnationemerald]

@AmberPatterson-x7v I'm sorry that your mother was cold hearted in this situation with you.

[@SCK-1231]

Horrible situation for mother and daughter both. , but love how mother is supporting her daughter. Doctor also handled the situation sensibly.

[@miranda13c]

Natalie was so kind and understanding with this patient and her mother.

[@bellerain381]

One of the very rare times she actually helped her patients

[@kevrink5605]

This does a great job of showing the trauma of such an experience. Natalie said she should tell her daughter what happened. So many years later, thinking about it still freaks her out. She was afraid to talk about it. It's kinda like what Zemo said to Bucky in Civil War: "You fear that if you open your mouth, the horrors might never stop."

[@IcyTheMediumKendrick]

People wonder why I watched my children so hard. This has happened to me a few times sadly throughout my childhood. I haven't made any videos on my channel about it. Something tells me I may soon. I was like her mother. I didn't report out of fear that no one would believe me. I tried to tell my mom about the first time and she didn't believe me. So I stopped telling to tell. Sometimes I think back and pray they were all caught. That someone else was brave enough to keep pushing and telling whoever would listen. I just hope they were caught or they stopped hurting young girls. :(

[@im.claire]

Im so sorry you had to go trough this

[@IcyTheMediumKendrick]

@@im.claire Thank you, The Transformation that comes from healing SA is Powerful

[@journa29]

I'm so sorry babe ❤ you deserved better

[@lizodus]

The mother is such a fabulous actress, the force of the shame she still felt after all this time really made me emotional.

[@brendadickson9583]

I wish no girl or boy had to go through this evil n even feel ashamed to tell, I still can't tell.

[@barbaragenshin9848]

Well said

[@TheSoundita]

I was just a kid (even before my periods) when it happened. It was a group of them - boys of my age (I thought of them as my friends before that), older boys. And it wasn't just one time - it happened at least half a dozen times because they threatened to tell my parents in the light I won't like. And I didn't tell them myself because I knew they're not gonna believe me. Everything that happened to me is my fault - that's what I learnt since the earliest childhood. To make things worse, these bastards gossiped about me, spread lies and dirty slander which is why I completely stopped going for a walk, ruined my socialization - I thought everyone knew of my shame (I am from a small town) and felt nothing but disgust for me. But what's the worst is? When I told everything to my mother - when I was an adult already - she didn't believe me. And OFC no one was punished - and how would they? no proof but my words remained, - OFC I didn't tell anyone else. If my mother thought I was lying - who was gonna believe me? It was awful. It is still awful. Trust your children, please.

[@cynthiandlovu4502]

I hope you've healed from the. Pain, shame and trauma you experienced.. just know youre beautiful inside and out and youre going to overcome ane be blessed with people who love you, will protect you and always be there for you ❤❤❤lots of love 😊😊

[@nerdydrawer7265]

It really is sad that the mothers that will understand are usually only the ones that also went through with it. If not, the mother most likely will just write it off as the girl’s fault

[@IonnaEchols-o8d]

Dude it's not your fault Natalie is in the hospital she needs to calm her down for getting out of control with herself like this right now her mother is always be there for her

[@thevagabond1314]

0:53 That was a smooth AF transition

[@Vee_breeze2767]

Wanted to comment this

[@rosamariabest6069]

Let's just hope the r*** kit doesn't get lost or forgotten.

[@JessT-vg7ib]

its nice to see u used a lot of ********* in ur writing

[@SandraNelson063]

Processing the kits takes MONEY. That's why they get shelved for years.

[@midnight_x_edits]

@@SandraNelson063oh well pay the fucking money and get the kit processed

[@joewhitehead3]

You think the mother woulda been more understanding as to why she didn’t want the exam

[@averycheesypotato]

She never had the exam done herself, only lived with what happened as a secret. She’s too focused on preventing her daughter from going down the path she walked to see the harm in forcing her to “do the right thing.” She’s trying to protect her daughter, but needs to slow down

[@ameliaflynnhayes]

Poor girl she was really upset

[@Vee_breeze2767]

Even if you’re going to a party with loads of people. Go with someone you trust. (Women or men)

[@averycheesypotato]

Sadly, trust can be misplaced

[@Shedoesdiy]

​@@averycheesypotatofacts

[@Kayleigh_is_a_dog_lover]

This is so heartbreaking😢❤😊

[@ladennayoung2939]

Good acting. Thanks for sharing. God bless. 💜💜💜

[@rosariodagosto6484]

Call Dr House for her asap.😊

[@connie-michelleharris]

Anyone gonna address how...flip-floppy Manning is in this episode compared to usual? Particular when the mother tried to have the exam done without the daughter's consent? I was thinking, okay and here comes Judge Manning to condemn this poor woman's parenting because she wasn't respecting her daughter's choice, or arguing the ethics with one of her co workers or even trying to have the mother reported, but imagine my surpriae to the contrary; I get Manning most likely wanted to get the kit done too, so the mother was actual on her side and did drop that dark truth, but, really I wasn't expecting Manning to be so...calm for lack of better word

[@Linaelinaeya]

Ikr

[@MatthewWatson-b2l]

As much as I appreciate the ‘it’s what I want’ line from a certain perspective, if this is implied confirmation that an assault did happen, would it not have been better for her to just say ‘yeah it happened’, and thus not need to do the procedure in the first place?

[@graceglasgow5015]

You would still have to do the procedure if you wanted to press charges.

[@MatthewWatson-b2l]

@ fair point. Thanks

[@matthewbarabas3052]

a refusal to open up is generally a bad thing....

[@Linaelinaeya]

Because parents start having a worse break down and taking their autonomy and freedom even more after that. 2:38 bruh she wants to do the same thing that the assaulter did to check if it really happened. Really. No wonder she didn’t say. If she had been assaulted she should be even more sympathetic towards what the girl is feeling. Not the other way around. She would have been assaulted for the second time if it wasn’t for the doctor. I know because a lot of people for whom this happens to doesn’t want to go through the whole court process and specially this testing. It’s a huge trauma. Even more if you are forced. I had a friend who couldn’t stop crying for like two days after her mom forced that on her. Got that guy in jail for 2 years, before they had another court process by the time she was 18 and refused to testify or go through the court again and just cut ties with her family. She’s living her life fine and well now. All she wanted to do after that incident was get away from her mom. I remember her crying to me “he was someone I barely knew, why did SHE have to force and restrain me after knowing I’m destroyed down there” all she wanted to do was be away from all the attention and just live her life. I bet she didn’t hate him as much as she did for her mom.

[@matthewbarabas3052]

@@Linaelinaeya two years in jail, with the stigma of having been in jail for the rest of his life, plus also on the sex offenders list. acceptable tradeoff. it would have been better if she willingly went through the process... less additional trauma that way.

[@honeybee2587]

Um... Where is the lovely Dr. Charles for this? He should have been called in help both of them process this pain and trauma.

[@FunkyLittlePoptart]

You don't bring a man into a teenage girl's SA trauma. She's already closed down and now you want her to tell her tale of woe to someone who will get off on it? (Not putting that on Doctor Charles, but a strange man is a strange man, and even teenagers know men *love* female pain.

[@allisonkrueger8330]

@@FunkyLittlePoptart Absolutely, it would be best in this situation to bring in a female Psychologist. It probably helped that Dr. Manning was the girl’s doctor.

[@Mandalynn_Bay]

Wow, I wish I was loved that much, but I wasn’t. This is so so sad. 😭

[@joannefrancescajilig6954]

Kindred souls...🦱

[@brookeferguson5301]

Natalie is a good person here she just wanted to protect me

[@ZoeyBullington-gd1cf]

naila was just playing with her friends from school from her classmates

[@NoudlePipW]

GOOD MAMA🎉

[@brookeferguson5301]

I was pregnant with ethan for awhile now since I got sick for my stomach pain in my belly for years now I was just trying to sleep and not only way to keep paying full rent and not being charged for any other cost or extra cost for any kind or extra time to myself

[@obruchecarson]

Can someone please tell me what season and episode this is?

[@christine8629]

Season 4 episode 5

[@obruchecarson]

@@christine8629 OK thanks

[@christine8629]

@@obruchecarson no worries

[@heatherbowman9450]

LOVE THIS SHOW 🎉 1:40

[@Alanaleft2013]

OK SO IM QUITE EARLY WHAT EPISODE IS THSI?

[@kaiulanidilworth1619]

I read on it season 4, episode 5 try that.

[@ChristinaWhitter]

Natalie should call in Dr. Charles on this one. Christina Whitter

[@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle]

In a situation like this, especially if there's severe trauma you don't bring a man to see a woman who was SA'd. The alternative would be to bring in a female psychiatrist as well as a female cop if they report it.

[@christyemmons7279]

Thank You ❤ For Sharing This Very Important Part Of This Show!! There's So Many Of Us Women Who Have Gone Through This 😢, Just As I Did!! We All Have To Make Sure This Is Talked About!! Even Though This Was A Show It's Happening Everywhere To A Lot Of Woman & Even Some Men 💔!! So That Way We Can Let Everyone Who's Out There That This Has Happened To They Are Never Alone!! I Pray 🛐 For GOD 🙌 & JESUS CHRIST 🙌 To Comfort Them 💞 & Send Them The Support They Need!! In JESUS CHRIST 🙌 Mighty Name I Pray 🛐 For All These Things Amen!!

[@nerdydrawer7265]

3:55 That is such a painful thing to see, she's reliving that awful moment and also realizing that's what her daughter's also going through

[@The_New_IKB]

Bring Bach hat pins!

[@Aircombat0888]

What episode is this

[@allisonkrueger8330]

It’s in the description. I don’t understand why nobody checks before commenting.

[@JamesPrima-m6q]

Williamson Lock

[@dukeelmers6045]

Judy Flats

[@thetruther954]

4 x 5 chicago med

[@jadeybaby007]

Paging Dr Charles…

[@allisonkrueger8330]

No, definitely not, best to bring in a female Psychologist. She was used by a male I don’t think a male Psychologist would help.

[@artastic_23]

@@allisonkrueger8330it depends on the patient. Some are comfortable talking to males about it, some aren’t. Dr. Charles is an expert and he could determine if she needed to see someone of the same gender or not.

[@lisamitchell15]

What was the secret

[@Ultra_Star973]

The secret was the mother got SA

[@Nura-mochi]

@@Ultra_Star973what’s SA?

[@neva7369]

@@Nura-mochi it's a form of violence that they discuss in the video. I'm not sure if you tube will censor it or not if it's posted in comments.

[@Nura-mochi]

@@neva7369 ohh okay thanks

[@meraribonilla9561]

Did u not watch she literally said 🙄

[@MHall-BlueGlass]

Manning is the worst

[@jilltraver69]

Paging Dr Charles ...

[@shannonsmith4174]

DON'T LET YOUR 15 YEAR OLD GO TO A PARTY AND DON'T LET THEM BE AROUND ALCHOCOL I WISH I WAS 15 WHEN IT HAPPENED TO ME INSTEAD OF 6 ATLEAST FOR HER IT ONLY HAPPENED ONCE FOR ME IT WAS 3 YEARS...... AND THIS SHOW IS FAKE MY LIFE ISN'T....

[@austenhead5303]

Kids need to go to parties. Just make sure they're not wild, unsupervised parties. Let there be dark corners where they can sneak off to make out (teens will be teens) but that aren't out of hearing range of responsible adults. The loud music should be limited to the open space where visual supervision can suffice, whereas the private corners should be away from the noise and within hearing range of supervisors, so that if a kid makes a loud noise, they WILL be heard.

[@SamiR1114]

kids lie all the time. she could have told her mom that she was at a friend's house. I lied about going to one friends house when I was actually going to another's all the time. I never went to any parties, it was always just me and my 3 friends at their houses, but I still got away with it a lot. it's not always about "letting" your children go to parties

[@ayezay2677]

JESUS IS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIGHT IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER THE SON AND THE HOLY SPIRIT IN JESUS NAME AMEN

[@paulsoaresjr12345678]

The women in these show are always showed doing some of the most crazy things, like showing them like they know everything and there decisions are the right ones. But in reality it just creates more problems and more issues. I think that these kind of show kind of show the reaility of life a bit, were a women can do some really crazy stuff, make things up, false claims, ruin men, ruins kids do whatever they want or feel like doing and will get zero to littlte punishment. Just the reaility of the world, of how easy it has gotten for women. The amount of rights and privilages they have is insane. Most of these women play there charachters perfectly, they are so horrible and hard to stand. Just horrible, the women did a perfect job of potraying them. But the show does one issue and it is a big one, it shows women being the good ones to often, like for all the wrong they do they get very little punishment. Like the amount of times the women did bad things in these show they should of been long time fired or even in jail.

[@Linaelinaeya]

2:13 this is exactly why they don’t tell. Because parents start having a worse break down and taking their autonomy and freedom even more after that. 2:38 bruh she wants to do the same thing that the assaulter did to check if it really happened. Really. No wonder she didn’t say. If she had been assaulted she should be even more sympathetic towards what the girl is feeling. Not the other way around. She would have been assaulted for the second time if it wasn’t for the doctor. I know because a lot of people for whom this happens to doesn’t want to go through the whole court process and specially this testing. It’s a huge trauma. Even more if you are forced. I had a friend who couldn’t stop crying for like two days after her mom forced that on her. Got that guy in jail for 2 years, before they had another court process by the time she was 18 and refused to testify or go through the court again and just cut ties with her family. She’s living her life fine and well now. All she wanted to do after that incident was get away from her mom. I remember her crying to me “he was someone I barely knew, why did SHE have to force and restrain me after knowing I’m destroyed down there” all she wanted to do was be away from all the attention and just live her life. I bet she didn’t hate him as much as she did for her mom.