ME TOO... MY STORY ♡

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Dakota Cross

Dakota Cross

Күн бұрын

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@sandravalle3595
@sandravalle3595 3 жыл бұрын
I found you because of Alexis jayda she’s a beautiful soul and so are you, stay strong mama ❤️
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh I love her so much she’s such an inspiration and thank you babe 🥺❤️ what a beautiful comment
@Jaxonsonny
@Jaxonsonny 3 жыл бұрын
Dakota and Alexis both had similar up bringing and honestly there so beautiful hearted and kind and soft spoken, love them to pieces there getting me through a hard time right now xxxx
@ritzismynamo
@ritzismynamo 3 жыл бұрын
That's how I found her too!!! Someone had left a comment saying that their favorite is Alexis and Dakota. I love them both!
@jessiejennings1871
@jessiejennings1871 3 жыл бұрын
Me too !!!! I found her from Alexis
@stephenievaldez707
@stephenievaldez707 3 жыл бұрын
I found you after alexis jayda story times she has sooo many you need to check her out shes amazing. Your amazing too I've already watched all of your videos! 💖💖
@erinexthree
@erinexthree 3 жыл бұрын
Omg you mentioned Alexis Jayda!!! She’s one of my favorites too, I was actually watching her when I saw you in my recommended!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I love her !!!!! Her and I have a lot of similarities with things we have been through. I love her so much. And Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@kindregards912
@kindregards912 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is so honest, people always want to show the nice side of life but, it can be so brutal. "I did end up making it, so hello" I love that line.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this love thank you ❤️ I absolutely agree things that matter need more light she’d on them ! Thank you for the support babe 😢❤️
@keannas.6257
@keannas.6257 3 жыл бұрын
What’s so sad about this is it’s a family member. My heart lies with you girl and you are so strong ❤️
@olivianewstrom7775
@olivianewstrom7775 3 жыл бұрын
What a strong woman you are! That doesn’t take away from the pain you endured, however, it sounds like it has been your redemption 🤍 I’m a therapist and the part where you were saying you could transport yourself somewhere else when bad things were happening made me curious if you were maybe dissociating from your traumatic events. If that’s the case, I hope you know it is a normal way for our brains to protect themselves when going through traumatic events. Thank you for sharing your story, Dakota!
@sierraforever2954
@sierraforever2954 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate you being so vulnerable with your life to help others 😊
@rivanthefam5395
@rivanthefam5395 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you went through that. But glad you're strong now. I had a family member who would verbally abuse my brother and I and torture us.
@mariamayub212
@mariamayub212 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It was so powerful and you're so brave and I just want to give you the biggest hug. What you are doing is so important and you're making such a big difference!
@vincent82746
@vincent82746 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Dakota, I am a 65 yo woman ( Pisces also) and love your energy. You appeal to the little girl in me who was hurt and abused. I am also a new subscriber and so admire your passion. You are such a light 💡 in the darkness that so many of us had to go through. Thanks so much for your videos!
@marulynn3499
@marulynn3499 3 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! 💗 Thank you for telling your story. I’m so sorry that it happened to you but it’s wonderful that you’re able to take your trauma and turn it into something that made you stronger.
@kimace7854
@kimace7854 3 жыл бұрын
Just found to channel👋🏼 I have been looking for people to watch but it’s hard to find genuine people I can relate to. I love your vibe and you are such a positive inspiration. Im excited to binge watch your videos! 💕😌
@jenlobbins4952
@jenlobbins4952 3 жыл бұрын
omfg dakota your story with your dad is like a carbon of my life. unfortunately my parents are still together but my dad suffers from alcohol as well ( 20+ years sober ) & like i told you in our DM i lost my younger brother but i also have a older brother from my dads prior relationship so i really didn’t grow up with him in our household all the time, but he did come over on weekends. & i remember one weekend i had woken up to my older brother standing over me with his hands in my pants. i was really young ( between 4-6 & he was 4 years older than me ) i remember the cops coming but that’s all. my parents told me when i turned 18 they would explain it to me. years later i learned that my older brother was being molested by one of his mothers family members so after growing up and years of therapy i was able to forgive my brother. iam so proud of youu dakota. & i can’t THANK YOUU ENOUGH for opening up these topics for young people to know and understand it’s okay to talk bout it & MOST IMPORTANTLY TELL SOMEONE. i just wanna give you the BIGGEST HUG, youu are such an amazing, strong woman!! love ya girl!!!
@1211jaz
@1211jaz 3 жыл бұрын
I have no clue how I found you, but I absolutely love ALL your videos! You’re a very beautiful person! Thank you for sharing your story! And I’m sorry you had to go through such trauma. Love you girl, stay beautiful and strong! 💟
@jennyshavarska9101
@jennyshavarska9101 3 жыл бұрын
you are so strong and beautiful! I feel you - my father also was an alcoholic, stopped for 3 years, but sadly relapsed and passed away. You are a real inspiration to me
@reptilequeen4720
@reptilequeen4720 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss! 😔 my older brother is an alcoholic too he has been in and out of jail due to alcohol many of times because when he was drunk he would harass the cops so they would take him to jail its still currently a pattern its hard because his daughters (my mom adopted them so basically grandma adopted them) have to watch him suffer from this all the time
@sammisalami69
@sammisalami69 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a newer subscriber and have recently started watching from the beginning. I’m in a dark place and going through a lot right now to say the least, not necessarily pertaining to this video, but everything you share, everything you’ve been through and you tell us about is helping someone. I feel like I came across your channel when I did for a reason. The way you explain some things like not accepting someone else’s negativity and bullshit into our lives, and you and make it make sense, really speaks to me and helps me to reflect on myself and my experiences. It’s inspiring to see that you’re on the other side of a lot of things and you’re ok and you’re thriving. It’s also cool af to see that you’re still doing the work to help yourself, whether it be with therapy, spiritualism etc. On top of it all, you’re an amazing mom, you take so much time to help others on KZbin, and you take the steps to actively follow your dreams. You’re really out here helping people whether they reach out and tell you or not. It takes a lot of guts to come on a public platform not knowing how people will react or perceive you, and putting your life and your experiences out there. Literally could ✨n e v e r✨ be me. So seriously, THANK YOU. You’re a badass bitch, you’re a mf queen, and you personality give me hope and inspire me to be better and to do better for myself and advocate for myself. There has to be so many other people watching that feel the same way as me. Don’t listen to bitter people and keep crushing it. You’re amazing, and you’re helping so many people. You deserve all the good things that are coming to you and more🙏🏼💕
@ldeb420
@ldeb420 3 жыл бұрын
Your video really helps me get through hard times. I’m really grateful to come across your page, continue to be the string amazing woman that you are.
@elvinyilmaz4313
@elvinyilmaz4313 2 жыл бұрын
Strongass woman. U are inspiring!
@kimm00re
@kimm00re 3 жыл бұрын
We love you! Just started the video and I'm already emotional for you. You've been through so much but I can tell you are made to share your story.
@Itsme-qv1uf
@Itsme-qv1uf 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve gone through so much I’m so sorry. Glad your doing better.
@danielle6228
@danielle6228 3 жыл бұрын
You mentioned the letter and the light flickered here. Please don’t force yourself to do anything. I think that is the message from it. You did amazing Dakota! Love you girl ♥️
@lisagerson7735
@lisagerson7735 3 жыл бұрын
You need to go to school to be a psychologist, or social worker. You are amazing and have so much insight
@haileybad
@haileybad 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@laurabrown7133
@laurabrown7133 3 жыл бұрын
I work with kids & Dakota would be perfect as a social worker or counselor !
@Midlife81
@Midlife81 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I’ve been considering it. This is such a compliment thank you 😢❤️
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
@@laurabrown7133 thank you babe 🥺❤️
@danielle6228
@danielle6228 3 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry that this happened to you. I see a lot of myself in you and what you have been through. I support you. ♥️ You can do and be anything
@ashleycebula9321
@ashleycebula9321 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your testimony. I know it will help so many people. A lot of us have a “me too” story. As women, we need to support one another and create space to share our stories. Thank you so much Dakota! Much love to you and your daughter 💕
@hannahmarie6800
@hannahmarie6800 3 жыл бұрын
You made me cry 😢 seeing you cry! I love your videos Dakota and you're such a beautiful soul 💖
@yogirlsleepy6367
@yogirlsleepy6367 3 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you for getting thorough that.
@taylorhardy9566
@taylorhardy9566 3 жыл бұрын
A true light worker! I see you and I stand with you xx
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Wow such an amazing Compliment. Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@jennagoy4004
@jennagoy4004 3 жыл бұрын
I applaud you for telling your story. You will help so many other people who are going through or went through something so unfortunate. Im so sorry that happened to you. You are a warrior ❤ I love your videos keep it up queen 👸
@chrissy25sox
@chrissy25sox 3 жыл бұрын
Yes girl, you truly are an inspiration to young women who look up to you. I'm so sorry you went through that. I love you, stay strong ❤
@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves
@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel brings me comfort 💗
@E.z.b.f
@E.z.b.f 2 жыл бұрын
You are a great mother to your daughter and never be sorry for protecting her from ANYONE or anything. You can never be too safe 💕 I am too scared to even put my baby girl in daycare and worry about my son everytime he goes to school
@Cece-wx8cy
@Cece-wx8cy 3 жыл бұрын
Dakota thank you for sharing this, you are SO STRONG ❤️❤️ the information you shared about this topic is sooo needed for girls and boys to know !! .. and yes you are winning ! , you deserve to blow up and have a huge following and deserve everything good coming to you to share your beautiful personality , youtube needs you on their platform to spread your stories and education to all women , love you❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Alexiax13
@Alexiax13 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Dakota. Love u girl 💖
@leahlang86
@leahlang86 3 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful inside and out!!
@mobilequeen3056
@mobilequeen3056 3 жыл бұрын
I am glad you got through this girl ! 🥺❤️
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@sleepyheadsph863
@sleepyheadsph863 3 жыл бұрын
You are strong Dakota. Don't forget that! Thank you for sharing this story with us!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support my love. It truly means everything to me !!!!🥺❤️
@viviana3792
@viviana3792 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh I truly admire how strong you are.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much beautiful. Have an amazing weekend , much love !!!!🥰🥰🥰
@swayzienicole
@swayzienicole 3 жыл бұрын
You are so strong!! Thank you for sharing this very personal story with us!!❤️
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so sweet and kind ❤️Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@gabrielanaglealverio8430
@gabrielanaglealverio8430 3 жыл бұрын
Dakota, thank you so much for sharing your story. It means more than you know
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening ❤️ Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@999micah2
@999micah2 3 жыл бұрын
you’re so strong, thank you for sharing your story with us. i love you!!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️ I love you more !
@lissettep1219
@lissettep1219 3 жыл бұрын
Girl I was also very good at acting like everything was ok.. as an adult I realized that and my mom also never had any idea of anything that was going on with me .
@uviwemkupa759
@uviwemkupa759 3 жыл бұрын
I love you. You're such an inspiration. ♥️
@rosekraftsprings1992
@rosekraftsprings1992 3 жыл бұрын
Glad other women could hear your story and help out here out there. I know it’s not easy to share. You don’t have to share the letter of it too much for you. Much love to you.
@katie-annewatson7055
@katie-annewatson7055 3 жыл бұрын
I've been through the same im so so sorry you went though it all I love you ❤ stay strong and be beautiful i love you ❤xxx im so proud you darl xxx
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
We made it out to show others They can too ❤️ sending you soooo much love and healing energy. And Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@katie-annewatson7055
@katie-annewatson7055 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross we are both strong and I know how much hard work we have done to get to this point in life I'm always here ❤❤
@haileybad
@haileybad 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you...you are such a strong woman and you have a lot to share and give back to this world. Your story is a great testimony on what you had to deal with and what you overcame. God is definitely going to use you in so many ways...❤️
@ashleysalazar2012
@ashleysalazar2012 3 жыл бұрын
Dakota, you do not need to share that letter. That is private and although this story is I'm sure helping many young people, I don't think reading that again will help you. This storytime made me so angry. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my love I needed to read this ❤️
@danielam8298
@danielam8298 3 жыл бұрын
Queen 👑 I clicked the like button and haven't even watched the video ❤️
@gloriawells997
@gloriawells997 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of hugs and love. You are so strong and beautiful ❤️🤗
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@sionaaa_
@sionaaa_ 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a strong and beautiful soul. I am going to school to become a teacher and i want to be someone who understands that children sometimes go through things that make them act out and there maybe a deeper rooted problem. I hope i can help children feel safe and comfortable to come to me. Thank you for sharing your story and reminding me of all the things i want to do to help children grow and succeeed.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
You’re going to be the reason someone continues with life ❤️ thank YOU
@whatmorecanisay2427
@whatmorecanisay2427 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry❤️ you are a strong woman🌼
@rociosalgado2020
@rociosalgado2020 3 жыл бұрын
I got hooked on the “Adrian” saga…..but this video made me subscribe…..listening to your story is so raw i relived some experiences on my childhood that weren’t as bad….i think…..but i have a daughter and i am terrified for her all the time that i am so over protective!….i think i need to talk about my experience more to heal because it has been buried for many many years! You have a beautiful soul! Blessings to you and your baby!
@shamshadsayed6400
@shamshadsayed6400 3 жыл бұрын
You're such a brave, beautiful , positive woman ! I pray you continue to strive 🎉🎉🎉.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@chefsnichte
@chefsnichte 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear what you had to experience as a child, you are such a great person ❤️
@NikkiScari
@NikkiScari 3 жыл бұрын
You are a strong woman not only for sharing but for going through this! You’re doing wonders for those going through it now by telling your story ❤️ xoxo
@jackieolea8994
@jackieolea8994 3 жыл бұрын
Miss you Dakota... 😊 Ur sooo inspiring 🙏🏻😊 Thank you always being sooo positive...
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my love ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending your so much love and positive energy
@rmw2461
@rmw2461 3 жыл бұрын
I truly believe a good amount of ppl who get abused are the ones who have the brightest light inside. There seems to an underlying force of darkness that comes through people and they will do whatever they can to muffle that light. A lot of times they sense that light before the person does! And want to muffle it before they find out whats inside. I wish all kids could know this. They arent getting abused bc there is something wrong with them, its bc they are special. Once our light shines bright enough the person loses all control and power. Its getting to that point where we are most vulnerable
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
This was such an empowering and Beautiful comment. Thank you 😢❤️
@CieraCherry
@CieraCherry 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so brave and beautiful! Thank you for sharing this ❤️ you’re a real one!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺 it really means the world To me. Have a wonderful weekend beautiful ❤️
@CieraCherry
@CieraCherry 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross of course! We love you❤️
@ginaaguilar6453
@ginaaguilar6453 3 жыл бұрын
You at so beautiful and so strong to share your story I definitely feel so inspired by you , and girl Omg yes alexisjayda is BOMB !! I love her !!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh isn’t she the best ?! I look up to her a lot. Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@jenng6145
@jenng6145 3 жыл бұрын
This happened to me from more than one family member. Getting attention from older family members who you trust makes you feel so confused. Sending love to you and all the men, and women that has experienced s.a, rape, any form of abuse. ❤❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰
@jenng6145
@jenng6145 3 жыл бұрын
@@LadyVSC13 thank you, I definitely got help ❤❤
@number1momvlogs
@number1momvlogs 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Kota! It’s so true when you said you never know what someone is going through. I am so proud of you. The fact that you spoke up when you were ready.. what matters is that you told your truth. You always came off strong and confident to me. I’m sorry that you went through that. I’m here if you ever need to talk. Keep pushing forward, you got this! ❤️
@alexisd2379
@alexisd2379 3 жыл бұрын
Very similar situation but mine was a little less traumatic. I didn’t know the things my uncle did to me… until he told me at 18 years old. He thought it would be a good idea to tell me in detail what he did to me between the ages of 1-3 years old. He was 10-13 at the time he was doing these things. I found out my moms entire family hid these things from me for my entire adolescence and NEVER addressed it with him besides a slap on the hand. The second I read the messages I went straight to the police. My moms side is VERY high up in the LDS church and in AZ… they basically run the police dept. so when I went down to file the report… the police were on my side until the second they realized he had “elder” in front of his name on Facebook. The room completely switched on me and my case was “dismissed” 3 months later even with his confession in text AND his confession one on one when they brought him in. Another slap on the hand. I was already separated from my moms side for 8 years at this point but the family started attacking me for turning him in. TWO months earlier my other uncle (his brother) was sentenced to 11 years for recording him mole… all 6 of his adopted children, two of those being my siblings. Since this was something that was brought up to me and not something I remembered… I know NONE of this was my fault. I’m not ashamed of the things he did to me. Yes I felt absolutely disgusting and tainted and that my innocence had been taken from me well before I even knew what happened. If any one who reads this thinks that “well he’s underage, he didn’t know what he was doing” I promise you they do. I promise they will do it to someone else if you don’t report and get proper mental care. Now 2021 4/5 of my uncles have been accused or sentenced for crimes against children. My aunt said all the boys were touched as kids… NOT AN EXCUSE. We have to hold everyone accountable in order for these things to stop happening. Most of these situations happen in your own family… pay very close attention. Be safe. Protect your babies. Dakota, thank you for sharing. You are strong and none of this was YOUR FAULT! I am so proud of you and I loooove your content. I have shared my story on tiktok (@alexisjsprig_) and have started my own channel here but have probated my original video I posted going into detail. I also love Alexis Jayda… weird because her and I have so much in common as well and my name is Alexis jade lol!! All the love ❤️
@gwen08g
@gwen08g 3 жыл бұрын
Listening sis. I love you!
@jessical8335
@jessical8335 3 жыл бұрын
yess, you & alexis jayda are my faaaaavs
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support babe 🥺❤️
@nicolajoubert4991
@nicolajoubert4991 3 жыл бұрын
You are so so strong, as a mental abuse sirvivor i respect you, i respect that you can take it as a lesson and not be bitter and let it rule your life, its so so important ❤ You have become a wonderful wonderful person and i love you so much, you are a great mama and a genuine person and that takes alot to go through what you went to and make it out so strong and beautiful ❤❤
@annao2811
@annao2811 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your stories
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️ this is such a compliment and I’m so happy that I can be this for you. This comment really made my day thank you 😢❤️
@moons4363
@moons4363 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😞
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
It’s ok babe I’m in a great Place now ❤️🥰
@MaryJane-tq5gm
@MaryJane-tq5gm 3 жыл бұрын
21:59 that sounds like dissociation a lot of abuse victims do this to survive the abuse they endure I’m sorry you experienced such horrible things as a child you’re such a beautiful and strong woman 🥺❤️
@Watagatapitusberry426
@Watagatapitusberry426 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, dissociation rather than manifestation.
@valentinavilla-vanzyl3155
@valentinavilla-vanzyl3155 3 жыл бұрын
Brave and beautiful!
@samanthacalcano5318
@samanthacalcano5318 3 жыл бұрын
SO STRONG & INSPIRATIONAL 🙏🏻🙌🏻🥰
@marleypereira1908
@marleypereira1908 3 жыл бұрын
You have such a great soul ❤️
@brianaschlagel
@brianaschlagel 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Dakota. Sending you hugs ❤️
@TriniteeB
@TriniteeB 3 жыл бұрын
i found you because of alexis and im honored to be able to come across both of your channels
@laurabrown7133
@laurabrown7133 3 жыл бұрын
In the beginning where you were talking about how you had body dysmorphic disorder it broke my heart because I went through the same thing with my family members. I remember thinking I was big no matter what I wore and we have a similar body type. I swam & did martial arts and back then I was like 130 pounds... I was also bullied by girls and boys at my school. I should make a video as well about my experience. I’m so glad being stick-thin is out and being thicker is in now.
@Gothy_Baby
@Gothy_Baby 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you every one deserves a chance to tell there story. I myself was r@pëd at 5 1/2 around 6 years old and have been m0lestēd many times and I’ve only told a couple of people. I have also experienced @bused Mentally, Physically, and emotionally. To anyone who has or is still dealing with trumm@ like this stay strong and it will get better eventually 🦋❤️❤️
@marinamarinamarinaa
@marinamarinamarinaa 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you love! 💕🌹
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe ❤️❤️
@Midlife81
@Midlife81 3 жыл бұрын
Hey beautiful Dakota...i hate leaving a thumbs up on this video due to its heart breaking content...but i gave a thumbs up to you for being so strong and brave for sharing it with us. Much love
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so so much for the support beautiful 🥺❤️
@olabuk2000
@olabuk2000 3 жыл бұрын
You’ve been through a lot Dakota. Statistics by itself doesn’t help us but my worry is that you never pursued it legally, what if this person because he got away with it he continued and continues to do it to other children😭
@rlexx018
@rlexx018 3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t. This is not what victims need to hear. You can’t understand what reporting it implicates. She’s thought enough about this already I’m sure.
@olabuk2000
@olabuk2000 3 жыл бұрын
@@rlexx018 that’s your sentiment and sentiments don’t change facts. It doesn’t change the fact that this victimization continues because it goes unexposed.
@rlexx018
@rlexx018 3 жыл бұрын
@@olabuk2000 have a heart please
@valerielinares2068
@valerielinares2068 2 жыл бұрын
I just want to say, I am so sorry you went through what you went through. But, I'm also so glad you're using your platform to help others through those things. I don't know if you read the Bible, but, there's a passage that says we're supposed to comfort others with the same comfort we received through our Messiah, Yeshua (Jesus). Helping others through similar struggles is such a beautiful thing to do. Keep doing what you're doing. Even if you help one person or save one life, it's worth it. If anything, the hate comments just serve as a reminder as to why you're doing it.
@Victoria.Michx3ll3x
@Victoria.Michx3ll3x 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!
@HughMadBro
@HughMadBro 3 жыл бұрын
You've givin me the courage to respond to my abusers fb request with a message, kinda crazy those days he has a GF with my freaking name... I let that request sit for months & have tried so many times to write a message but couldn't.. so thanks 💜
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Girl I’m so damn happy for you ❤️ I’m so happy in some Way I could encourage you I’m always here for you ❤️❤️❤️
@BeeTeaDubs
@BeeTeaDubs 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't link the stats :( But love everything you said at the end! Thank you for all you do to help people! Not only is it needed, its SO important! If more people were doing what you are, the world would be a better place. And also, you're an incredible woman, human & mother. You really are! I'm sorry you went through this but thank you for using what you went through in such an important & beautiful way. The world needs you, girl!
@laurabrown7133
@laurabrown7133 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this person did this to you. Crazy finding out they were “in love” with you. I wonder if they truly felt “love” or was doing it as a manipulation tactic. So glad you’re doing well and you are protecting your daughter. I know someone through someone else who has gone through severe childhood trauma and they are repeating the cycle to their children instead of learning from it and protecting them. Love to you ❤️
@gwen08g
@gwen08g 3 жыл бұрын
#1 This is one of the most gut wrenching stories coming from someone who I dearly love and respect. I cry everytime you cry. #2 ANY person that wants to say you "love drama," well, they know what they can do with that crap. & #3 My daughter is going to start listening to you. Dakota, I had no idea baby. I'm still crying. I have said things on your IG like "why can't I have a booty like that?" Babygirl, if I offended you in ANY way, please let me know. You are a beautiful human. Inside and out. I really do care for you. You have been through a lot during your short 27 years. But YOU have taught ME so much. Remember that my dear. 🥰
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg love no you have never offended Me sweetheart ❤️❤️❤️ I love my Body now it took a long time but I truly do ! I love you deeply you have nothing to worry about. You’re an amazing friend ❤️❤️
@edithgonzalez3260
@edithgonzalez3260 3 жыл бұрын
Hey babe. I think on minute 21, what you were referring to is called Maladaptive daydreaming. My little sister actually enlightened me on this, as we both partake in some form of it. It can be a type of defense mechanism that we develop. I do not know too much, but I felt you may want to look into it yourself 💜 thank you for sharing.
@Jaxonsonny
@Jaxonsonny 3 жыл бұрын
This must have been absolutely terrifying to live so sorry babe 😢
@lissettep1219
@lissettep1219 3 жыл бұрын
That family member of yours knew that you were beautiful and talented and amazing in general and they did not want you to realize how Amazing you were so they tried to put you down so much so you never blossomed into the beautiful woman you are today.. F them seriously.. they are definitely sick in the head .
@Mm.kay.
@Mm.kay. 3 жыл бұрын
You mentioned wanting to be a teacher but that it wasn’t the path you took. What about mentoring? I started mentoring ‘troubled’ youth a couple of years ago. It’s very rewarding in many ways. You should consider it
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this is an amazing idea !!!!! Would you be able To contact me either Instagram or email and give me Some more info on it ?!
@Mm.kay.
@Mm.kay. 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross absolutely. I’ll message you❤️
@catelynnemilia3303
@catelynnemilia3303 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you went through this I told my family when I was 22 or 23
@shannington
@shannington 3 жыл бұрын
proud of you
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@shannington
@shannington 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross
@kriti1466
@kriti1466 3 жыл бұрын
hey Gurl! new subscriber here! keep the content coming
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support 🥺❤️
@leannedominguez9012
@leannedominguez9012 3 жыл бұрын
Love you thank you my daughter needs to see this after ten years she just told she’s almost 14 and having break downs I’ve been talking to her because this was also family and it makes it hard n I’m so proud of her for telling me, it took me to sit down n have the stop means stop n no means no she didn’t hesitate to say mom I have some tell you I then told her how I was raped and in won’t be a victim nor will she be I’d love to hear this letter because I’m so in this situation now as off a week ago. Thank you I love you
@VV-yj5qc
@VV-yj5qc 3 жыл бұрын
I love alexisjayda but I’m sorry for all that happened to you. God has kept you strong and has been with you all along. He loves you and sees you and has blessed you and I pray he continues to bless you even more.
@linna3179
@linna3179 3 жыл бұрын
We love you ❤️❤️❤️
@v29j24
@v29j24 3 жыл бұрын
Omg! I love Alexisjada tooo.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
She’s the best !!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lalizscorpio82
@lalizscorpio82 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! I was 10 yrs old, also a family member. Also blamed drugs. And also gave a bullshit apology "if I did something to hurt u" nooo u did do something. Pathetic excuses. I'm sorry u went thru it. But we are better than them.
@Jaxonsonny
@Jaxonsonny 3 жыл бұрын
Your the best 🙏 💜💞
@SandiHartke
@SandiHartke 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so so sorry you had to go through all of this. 😿 Where in NJ did you live?
@jgirlbyootymua1097
@jgirlbyootymua1097 3 жыл бұрын
I found you thru this you tube streets & I got molested at the age of 11 by my uncle & when I finally told my parents because I was struggling with nightmares etc... My mom called my aunt n she told my mom I provoked him to do what he did & then she started saying that also so I blamed myself for it until I went to counseling... I build up a lot of anger & bitterness & resentful towards my mom & everyone around me... Thanks for sharing your story, cuz it does help others that have been in the same situation, I shared my story on my KZbin channel also n it’s to help people out to know it’s not your fault, that person is just sick...
@Midlife81
@Midlife81 3 жыл бұрын
Youd be a fantastic school counselor. I spent a lot of time with mine...
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Wow this is such a compliment thank you 😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰
@everdeenxoxo
@everdeenxoxo 3 жыл бұрын
❤️ I think we need to spread more awareness on these men that keep sexualizing children I just saw a TikTok last night about Paul walker in his late 20s dating a 16-year-old. And the comments had all these men trying to justify why a 16-year-old is ready to be with men and it was so sickening reading these comments from these men and it scares me to have my teen out there in this world.
@shayla7844
@shayla7844 3 жыл бұрын
Bro- 1-you’re gorgeous xx and 2- BDD was on Tv lastnight
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