meeting my korean fiancee's disapproving parents

[@chicagolowe]

He's Not a crybaby! He's hurt by hearing and seeing you hurt. No man wants to see the woman he cares for and love belittled and rejected on selfishness and skin color. It sucks. I'M very sensitive too. Its okay to be emotional especially in this journey.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you for understanding 😊

[@janetday5431]

I totally agree!

[@trinitygreen1567]

That was one beautiful statement. I have never seen anything like it. God bless you. 😇😇

[@jlsbranding8569]

I agree, I teared up with him. He truly loves you for you. He loves his family too. I can see and feel the pain in this video. As a man he wants to fix the problem and he knows he can’t. Keeping you both in prayer for a blessed, happy, loving, healthy, prosperous and protected life together as a couple and married couple. I’ve learned so much from watching all of your videos over the last couple of days. I’m so shocked and had no idea how strict the society is about other cultures especially African American. Whew! A lot to take in. You both are an inspiration, because you are living in your truths. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@adaywithdeva]

Right!

[@BeautySingz]

This made me cry. I will never understand how the color of my skin can make a person act so harshly towards me or any other black person for that matter. I send you both nothing but love.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Sending you back love ❤️ dont Cry we’re glad there are people like you who can understand:)

[@girlonfire2.076]

It's not the color of your skin it's the low status an negative connotations associated with being black..black people need to level up collectively an things will change

[@BeautySingz]

@@girlonfire2.076 That is very true and also, because of our skin color, that will remain a fact and how do black people level up?

[@girlonfire2.076]

@@BeautySingz no it's not really about your skin color do you think if most BLK people were wealthy an educated an had a high culture do you think anyone would care about your skin color ..your skin color is not the real issue

[@elieteoliveira-janus2416]

Beauty. Singz I believe it is in the heart of man. But I believe we have the power to change it, if we want too.

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

How long is that whole "they've never seen a black person before" thing gonna be valid? They have access to the internet, books, movies, and TV shows with information about black people. As widely consumed as black culture (various ethnicities) is it is shocking that anyone can have this level of phobia towards black people.

[@kimberlykat7552]

Exactly, that and "it's the older generation"🙄Our Black grandparents and parents are the older generation. Yet, they are always open and accommodating, like Bea's family, of other races. I'm beyond over it. Time to start divesting and calling them out like we do all other races who disrespect and outright steal.

[@wangxian5473]

Im tired of being hated because of a skin color I can’t change. It’s like us being uncomfortable and hating people for having light skin. Doesn’t make sense right?

[@caelabrinks2250]

Exactly but media does not show black people in positive light so

[@kimberlykat7552]

@@caelabrinks2250 that's not true in a lot of cases and media is only one avenue. Most Black people don't know any Asians let alone Korean people. But most Asians know that Black Americans are their economic power base. They know that the k-pop stars and Korean pop culture takes its creativity from African Americans. So if we're aware of them and appropriation, it's quite obvious they're aware of us. We're not appropriating their culture and Black women are the #1 supporters of Korean appropriation. When you're willing to have that conversation than you can tell us about how white media portrays us.

[@lindaanyona8407]

Borderline racism

[@karynakarina]

Your a sweet girl and clarily very respectful...stop calling his mom sweet . A racist person is NOT sweet PERIOD. If you two decide to get married and have kids, will you still say she is sweet when she is embarrassed of your child? This is 2020 and she is a grown ass woman. I can respect culture but everything has its limit. Good luck with your relationship. You two are a beautiful couple.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you for your support KC, we really appreciate it :))

[@apple5171]

Period☝️

[@onlylikemindedbw]

This... facts

[@ProgramasespiasNet]

If you knew the consequences you might change your mind. I get in the club, she don't. She register the kids for school, it's full. I register the kids, it's fine. This ain't america. You get attacked Everytime you leave the house. People walking by calling her whore and she don't even know it. And that's seoul, it only gets worse when you get out of town. I used to be a stupid idealist until I realized how much suffering I inflicted on my mixed family. As you get older you don't want to fight with the bouncer cause your girl can't get in the club. Then you realize how selfish you were putting her in that position in the first place.

[@beaandsanghoon]

That’s true I can relate to all of these experiences in korea 100% true. Unfortunately these things Happen often. sorry you went through that too. I wish things were different

[@jackylee9946]

You guys represent what all the human being should be like, for being real and do not diversify each other in groups. Respect💪🏻

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thanks for the positive comment ❤️❤️❤️really appreciated

[@geenagr]

"Black is sinking too low"? My jaw dropped. I get this guy crying now.... what a terrible insult to be thrown at the one you love! By your own mother! What a hearbreaking thing it is, watching a girl say "give me a chance, I am a human too!". Sigh. May God give you strength guys. For what it's worth, I think you look lovely together.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you for supporting us! I guess It is my karma that i need to keep educating my own ppl to be not so ignorant towards other communities :( oh well hopefully at some point we can make some changes...!! Watch us until then :)

[@daydreamerpark9498]

I just don't understand why people make problem with skin color. You guys are beautiful.

[@georgie9722]

Ignorance.

[@georgie9722]

I would like to know why humans beings started to hate skin color, and others, why? My skin color comes from Asian, African, middle east and European. Now my kinds are from more Asian and European, their kids, Jewish, Italian, Switzerland, Cameroon and I love this peaceful.

[@이상훈-k9t4g]

If my son brings a girl like her, I and my wife will be so happy. As a korean middle age generation, I am so sorry about what you, Bea have been felt.. it will be alright. I can't imagine how pretty and adorable your babies are...

[@beaandsanghoon]

Aww thank u so much for your support and sweet message! 응원하고 공감해 주셔서 감사해요 :) 늘 행복하세요! ^^

[@BlackNYellow]

This sounds very similar to our situation.The day human beings start to lead their lives with Logic, common sense and love is the day the world will be a better place. Love you guys , 🖤💛

[@beaandsanghoon]

Love your channel guys! Thanks 🥰🥰

[@theoneandonly5925]

Blasian Couples Rule! Luv Yall

[@shiyelia]

Stay strong.

[@meditationlibrary-musicfor1453]

@@beaandsanghoon Stay strong and do not let anyone or anything come and try to destroy your beautiful, loving relationship. Your husband is not weak because he cries. He is a strong man. You are there to build him and keep him strong. Trust me, both your families will come around give them time. Focus on the best outcome and watch what happens. 💙

[@miamagnolia2604]

The end was so hard to watch, but at the same time knowing that she has someone who loves her so fiercely that the thought of her unhappiness literally brought him to tears solidifies that his the one no doubt, adore you guys, stay strong always! 💖

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you so much Mia, we both have taken turns to really take care of each other and support each other in the times of when we need one from each other (well it sounds sth special but I assume that's what every good couples do haha) but it is very special to me, so we will always try to have each other's back and support! but when it's time that we have suffered too much from our circumstances, a little encouragement or mental support from people like you is very very helping! :) Thank you so much for the positivity! we really appreciate that! :))

[@miamagnolia2604]

@@beaandsanghoon good morning you guys 💖 from the bottom of my heart I wish you all the best, if you haven't noticed, you have an army behind you, all of us who follow and support you want you guys to be triumphant in all your trials and at peace in love and life in general, you are such an inspiration to me 😊

[@nano381]

제가 원래 댓글을 잘 안다는 사람인데 요사이 사연들이 기구해서 몇번 쓰게되네요... 제 아들이 흑인여자와 결혼하겠다고 한다면 어떨까 생각해보았습니다. 근데 신기하게 피부색 같은거는 떠오르지 않더군요. 여자의 인성이 어떤지 정말 서로 진지하게 사랑하는지 평생 배우자만을 바라보며 어떤 난관도 서로 힘을 합쳐 이겨나갈 성숙한 마음자세가 되어있는지 등등을 볼것 같더라구요. 그제서야 제가 인종에 어떠한 편견도 없는 사람이라는걸 새삼스레 깨달았네요. 제가 아직은 50대지만 곧 60대라 부모님이 저랑 크게 차이나지는 않을것 같은데 심하게 반대하는것을 보니 참 가슴 아프더군요. 관심이 있어 2편 모두 봤습니다. 반대 이유가 아마도 한국사회에서 살아갈때 빈번하게 겪게될 뒷담화와 모함에 가까운 루머들 차별들..그리고 혼혈 손주들이 겪게될 아픔들을 우려하셔서 그런것 같은데...같은 결혼 적령기의 자녀를 둔 부모로써 충분히 그 마음 이해합니다. 그런데... 남자분 아버지에게 얘기해주고 싶네요. 인생에서 진짜 사랑하고 이 여자를 위해서는 내 목숨도 줄수 있겠다 싶은 여자를 내 아들이 만났다는데 그걸 정말 기뻐해주고 축복해주진 못할망정 내가 그걸 방해하고 헤어지도록 욕하고 막말하고 상처주어서야 되겠습니까? 물론 여자에 품성이나 인격에 심각한 문제가 있다거나 무슨 마약중독자라거나 하는 심각한 문제가 있다면 목숨 걸고 말려야지요. 내 자식의 행복을 위해서요. 근데 그런게 아니라 단지 흑인이라서라니요? 그건 좀 아니지 않을까요? 가벼운 반대도 아니고 몇년째 줄기차게 강하게 반대하신 모양인데....솔직히 비슷한 세대로써 말해봅시다. 살면서 일생에 몇번이나 그런 운명같은 여자를 만날수 있다고 생각하세요? 아드님은 운좋게 만난거 같지만 평생 못만나는 사람도 많지요...아들을 그저 때가 되서 적당한 배우자 만나 연애하고 결혼했으니 책임감으로 정 붙이고 사는 그저그런 인생을 강요하실겁니까? 그렇게 사는것이 행복하다고 생각하십니까? 요새 같이 많이 타락하고 돈돈거리는 세상에서 그정도 믿음과 사랑가지고 잘 살거라 생각하십니까? 여자를 보니 좋은 대학에 좋은 집안에 행복한 가정에서 구김살없이 큰것 같은데 단지 피부색때문에 반대한다니요? 저보다 연배이시긴해도 그렇게 차이날거 같지 않은데 같은 시대 같은 한국에서 자랐다는게 안믿겨질만큼 꽉 막히셨네요. 좀 답답해서 나만 그러나싶어 친구들에게 물어봤습니다. 니들 같으면 어떻게 하겠냐고..참고로 이미 결혼한 자녀를 둔 친구들도 있습니다. 대부분이 그러더군요. 아무래도 처음엔 간단치 않은 만남이라 반대하겠지만 이미 몇년을 계속 사귀며 서로 죽고못산다면 받아줘야 않겠냐고요...반대도 지 행복하라고 하는건데 계속 고집스럽게 반대해서 내가 내 자식의 불행이 된다는게 말이 되는거냐고요...자식들이 지 걱정해서 해주는 말인줄 알면서도 주의깊게 듣기보단 불손하게 받아치고 불만스럽게 행동해도 노여워하고 똑같이 행동하지는 맙시다. 자식 이겨서 뭐하겠소? 진짜 우리가 바라는건 걔네들이 행복해지는 거잖습니까? 박정희 전두환때 기성세대가 우리에게 행했던 그 억압과 폭력을 우리 자녀들에게 비슷하게 행하다니 그게 말이나 됩니까? 우리 멋있게 늙어갑시다. 열심히 살았고 그래도 이만큼 자유로운 세상이 되도록 일조한 우리 세대인데 젊은이들에게 고리타분한 고집스런 기성세대라는 말은 듣지 맙시다. 이 유투브를 보고 생각이 많아 이런저런 생각도 해보고 친구들과 얘기도 나눠보고 난 뒤 몇일 전 최종적으로 내 아들에게 그랬습니다. 아빠는 외국여자도 상관없다고요. 제 자식놈도 어려서부터 외국에서 국제학교를 다녀서 의식이 반은 외국놈이거든요. 그랬더니 절 바라보며 의미심장하게 씩 웃더라고요. 자기는 한국여자들이 잘 안맞아서 원래 그럴 생각이라더군요. 같이 서로 얼굴 바라보며 웃었습니다. 이놈도 곧 누구 데려올것 같습니다. 그래서 제가 요새 국제커플 유투브를 자주 봅니다. 미리 준비하려고요. ㅎㅎ 부디 넓고 좀더 깊게 생각해보세요. 결국은 내 자식놈이 행복해져야지요. 그게 제일 중요한거 아니겠어요? 자식 이겨서 뭐하겠어요? 마누라 이겨 먹을라고 하는 놈이 세상에서 젤 어리석은 놈인것과 마찬가지 아니겠습니까? 상훈님 비아님께도 당부드려요. 어렵게 결혼하는 만큼 평생 한눈 팔지말고 배우자만을 바라보며 살것. 불평과 요구보다 이해와 배려로 살것. 의심과 짜증보다 믿음과 사랑으로 살것. 서로 위로해주고 격려해주며 인생의 동반자로써 존중하며 살아갈것. 그래서 반대했던 부모를 더 부끄럽게 만들고 그래서 더 열렬한 그대들 지지자로 변화되게 만드세요. 두분 앞날에 하나님의 축복과 가호가 늘 함께 하시길 기도드립니다. 두 분 모두 힘내시고 격하게 응원드립니다. 화이팅~~!!

[@beaandsanghoon]

안녕하세요! 와 읽으면서 약간 눈물날 뻔 한 댓글은 처음이네요 ㅠㅠ 먼저 응원해주시고 축복해주셔서 너무나 감사드립니다! 맞아요 저희 부모님께서 걱정하시는 부분이 그런거더라구요....한국사회에서의 뿌리깊은 차별적 시선과 언행들에 대한 우려가 크신거 같다고 느꼈습니다. (저번에 특히 티비에서 한현민군과 또다른 흑인혼혈 모델 하시는 여자분이 나와서 어린시절에 학교와 친구들로부터 따돌림 받고 힘들어했던 과거를 이야기 하시는 걸 보시고 그런 생각이 더 커졌다고 들었습니다.) 그러나 제 생각에 어떠한 이유가 되었든 다른 누군가를 괴롭히고 차별하는 것에 '정당한 이유'란 없으며, 그러한 행위가 용인되는 사회란 성숙하지 못한 사회라고 생각합니다. 따라서 우리 한국사회에 그와같은 불의가 있다면 저는 그걸 맞서서 고쳐나가고 싶거든요. 이 부분에 대하여 부모님이 우려하시는 부분은 저도 이해가 되긴 합니다. 아직도 한국에서는 많은분들이 인종관련해서 조금 편협한 시각을 가지고 그것을 공공장소에서 적극적으로 표출하는, 또 이것이 용인되는 사회적 분위기가 있기 때문에요 :( (저희도 직간접적으로 종종 겪어왔구요 한국에서...) 그러나 이런 부정적인 우리사회의 단면들이 저와 비아의 행복을 좌지우지 한다는 것은 저로서는 말도 안되는 일이라고 생각합니다. 아무래도 우리가 교육 받아온 문화란게 다른 사람들의 눈을 많이 의식하면서 자라온 영향도 있는것 같지만, 저는 저에 대해서 1도 모를 타인의 눈에 제가 행복할 권리를 넘겨주고 싶지 않은거죠 :) 세대간 개인간 가치관의 차이인것 같습니다. 그런면에서 명수님께서 해주신 좋은말씀들을 저희 부모님께도 전해드리고 싶네요 ㅠ 저도 대학교때 유학은 했지만 기본적으로 한국에서 나고 자란 사람으로써 사실 한국의 교육과정이 다른 문화에 포용적이거나 다른 가치관에 그렇게 열린 사람이 될 수 있도록 설계되어 있지는 않다고 생각이 들어요. 그런면에서 아드님은 보다 넓고 다양한 세상에서 교육을 받으셨으니 부럽습니다 ^^ 정말 동의합니다. 사실 우리가 사는게 그냥 행복하게 살려고 하는건데 어떠한 이유가 되었든 서로 너무 미워하지 말고, 너무 눈치보지 말고 하나님의 가르침과 가호안에 서로 보듬으면서 살 수 있는 사회가 되었으면 좋겠어요. 좋은말씀 많이 해주셨는데 명심하면서 살겠습니다 명수님 :) 앞으로도 열심히 사는 모습 재밌는 컨텐츠로 만들어서 많이 보여드릴게요! 즐거운 주말 되세요! ^^

[@orchid405]

She is so beautiful. Why would they be embarrassed?

[@beaandsanghoon]

thank you so much! wish they saw it too:))

[@tag3893]

Because it has nothing to do with her looks, it's has everything to do with the color of her skin..

[@Meme-qo4qx]

They racist, how long before he sides with his parents. I couldn’t best of luck, if you were white they be planning a wedding

[@denisepaul263]

When a man Knows that his parents don't appreciate his partner, he Just has to keep the girl away from them, that's all. He should not allow her to be humiliated by them. This girl doesn't have to prove that she is a human being. It's humiliation at its summum.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Not on my watch! Thanks for supporting :)

[@cmyy2j]

Tho this was a month ago know that. When a man loves you he cares for from his soul. It’s a shame that people let color hold the. Back from accepting other’s as they are. We are all mixed with something no one is 100% of anything. I know you didn’t mean anything by calling him a cry baby...he is hurting on multiple fronts..he is for you, his parents ignorance, and why they feel he sanked low.. African women and men, know that you are beautifully and wonderfully made and that goes out to all people..but all aren’t being persecuted for the color of their skin.. no matter the color we are all of the same race and that’s the human one. Your parents still love you young man they’ll just have to come around..and miss lady..don’t let anything make you feel ashamed, hurt, or small or anything negative. You have a man that loves you and you love him ..the both of you go on and become great together and grow..you’re not the first to be in a interracial relationship and you two won’t be the last so live your life to please God not man. I am Praying for you both and BOTH of you stand strong and tall together

[@chicagolowe]

Diannainkorea. KZbin channel? They are in Korea too. Jay and maleea also. You need a support group.

[@Olivia-rm6si]

I watch them too

[@LanceCorporalKitty]

Yes, they should definitely link with Jay and Malea they're really chill and great

[@beaandsanghoon]

Yes maybe we will haha

[@chicagolowe]

@@beaandsanghoon support and other couples like you will truly benefit you both. More hope and joy and less worry and stress.

[@kierrarichardson80]

Megan Bowen too

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

There are no excuses to justify this level of ignorance but im glad you are so strong amongst all this "black phobia". Thats what I would call it

[@beaandsanghoon]

I agree. there is no justification or any excuses to discriminate other human beings. I mean I love my family and no one is perfect sure but wrong is wrong, Ill have to keep trying to educate them time to time I think...that's my karma i guess... but always ill support and protect my love no matter what!

[@francisimanuel7121]

I did not really feel accepted by my in-laws when we were first dating and living together, but things got better after we had our son. My husband is adopted and after we got married went to see his biological parents in Korea, and was accepted right away. When I came back years later with a grandson to Korea and that brought us even closer. It sounds unfair but grandkids do melt hearts. Either way it is about you guys. I am Blasian myself and have a tiger mom I wish you well. Phighting✊🏾

[@beaandsanghoon]

oh man I totally can relate to tiger mom lol every moms in Asia are very tiger-ish (well i dunno how to say it properly but u get what im saying haha) and wow thank you so much for sharing your story with us Francis! we really appreciate hearing others experience :) hopefully they can find their inner peace at some point too with us (yea maybe babies can melt their heart true true :) cuz we are trying to find our own mind in peace gradually. Thank you for suppoer! :))

[@janainsley2988]

A lot of the asian black channels- mazelee, lilypetalsworld diannainkorea etc their korean families didn’t accept the interracial relationships but after the marriage or the kids they figured out they could lose out completely. Seems a desire to control outcomes via disapproval. Some people may be truly stuck and rigid. Others had their family come around right away- skycedi,malea and jae, kimchi and jollof, rice and slice, jin and juice, tokyo and brooklyn etc. .They wont give up their dream for your bf to have a korean wife, they cannot get it out of their head, one of them, their own culture they can communicate with and set down traditions. I am sorry for your bf. You guys are very mature to try to meet them and try to patch things up. You cannot say you didnt try your best. The other side wasn't ready at this time to concede. They think they get to control your life. They haven't separated your identity from their identity. I wish you peace. You are mature adults, not them.They are stuck in a dysfunctional family pattern. They will be hurting themselves. Guess we’ll see how stubborn they are.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Hi Jan thanks for your support :) yea lol we watch all of them too lol hope that we can build our relationship as fun as them eventually and be happy! watch us the journey and god bless!!

[@nicolen3177]

Damn you know all of them lol, I love Jin and Juice

[@ashleysleepyy]

There is literally a KZbin who's Korean Mother with two daughter who are mixed and she's married to an African man and the mother supports her choice. I don't understand why skin color has to be an issue you love each other you bring the best out of each other.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Yes it shouldn’t be 😭

[@chicagolowe]

You talking about Lilly ?

[@ashleysleepyy]

@@chicagolowe I forgot her channel name I think so

[@esternwairimu4959]

Lily petals ,am l right

[@cooky_2076]

You can't control how other people feel, but you can control how YOU feel. Don't let other peoples negativity affect how you feel about yourself.🌞🙏

[@beaandsanghoon]

Amen!

[@shiyelia]

I honestly think you just keep on standing together as a couple. Parents will gradually open up. I actually believe love conquers all! The good thing is Sanghoon knows what he wants, he loves you Bea! I think from now just keep your positive vibes they will they will definitely welcome you.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thanks as always shielah ❤️

[@AA-ek5kz]

All this racism Will fire back on Koreans, honestly the more i hear this type of ignorance the more it puts me off these people.

[@beaandsanghoon]

and As a Korean that's what I am worried about....what if it hits K pop and stuff even....I just am here trying to tell people we've got to fix our attitude and mindset before all this karma hit us back. tbh, i have had a conversation with all bunch of koreans here and there online and offline and usually the ratio is like 1 person out of 20 agree we are not dealing racism good at all as a country and agreed we need to fix ourselves. and usually these people are lil unsure about raising their voice cuz they are afraid of what other people would say to them and call them a traitor or sth (this happened to me so many times lol only because i was calling out we need to fix our racism issue toward other ethnic groups) so they ended up sending me private messages or talked one on one....I just don't understand why the good ones have to fear raising their voice and the bad ones are always proudly loud....u know, I will keep trying to educate my own country (seriously I have gotten so much cuss and swears from these Korean trolls. I will try to catch the good ones more too!) thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@AA-ek5kz]

@@beaandsanghoon ignorance flourishes because good people remain silent but sooner or later everyone will pay for that ignorance.

[@wendythomas9701]

Not all Koreans are like this mainly the older generation as Western culture becomes more popular the younger generation are more accepting

[@kylelee6164]

@@wendythomas9701 Some black called me a chink the other day. Am I suppose to be okay with that?

[@Justbrowsing4lunch]

First of all what do you mean by these people? And second of all you’re speaking as if it’s all of Korea.

[@분홍연꽃-q4p]

여자친구가 정말 미인이세요. 항상 행복한 삶만 가득했으면 합니다

[@beaandsanghoon]

칭찬 감사합니다! 언제나 즐거운 일만 가득하세요!

[@beccaandmicke]

I hope you know that you are amazing bea. The color of your skin doesn’t make you less than anyone.. You are beautiful just the way you are and if they don’t see that, that’s on them not you.❤️❤️ Love you guys

[@crazyyym8]

It’s sad that this is the world we live in. Hopefully we’ll all change in the future❤️

[@beaandsanghoon]

Yes hopefully 💖

[@서진원-w4b]

여기에는 한글이 없네요. 두분 말씀에 동감합니다.저도 많은 생각을 하게끔 합니다. 모든 상황을 떠나서 두분의 사랑을 응원하겠습니다.

[@beaandsanghoon]

응원해 주셔서 감사합니다 진원님! :) 즐거운 연휴 되세요!

[@seongepark6014]

여자친구분이 무척 아름다우시네요 부모님과 관계도 한국서는 무척 중요하죠 ㅜ또 다문화사회라지만 아직까지 백인 혼혈에 비해 흑인혼혈이 겪는 어려움도 크고요 ㅠ 부모님 입장서 마음 복잡할듯 싶네요 아무튼 설득이 필요하다면 부모님 마음 돌아서도록 인내와 사랑으로 잘 헤쳐나가시길 기원합니다 잘되시길 바랄게요!!

[@Football_Fan693]

여자분 진짜 예쁘시다😍

[@dayoafolabi3551]

Each time I hear this kind of stories my heart breaks. It's too sad that in this age. We have people who are embarrassed because of someone color. I know that love prevails in the face of any obstacle. Guys I wish you both just what you wish yourselves and a lot of goodness. Love you guys!

[@AmberO]

Thanks for being vulnerable enough to share this with us. Maybe the parents will become accepting, maybe they won’t. What matters is that you have each other. It’s great to see Sanghoon wrap his arms around Bea like that. Stay strong❤️❤️

[@beaandsanghoon]

haha maybe

[@garbem5511]

서로만 사랑한다면 부모님을 설득하시고 설득이 안된다면 두분이 열심히 사는 모습을 부모님께 보여 주세요 언젠가는 돌아서실 겁니다. 자식 이기는 부모 없거든요 후회 없이 사랑하세요 여자친구분 외국분이시면 한국적인 이미지가 조금 있어 친근하네요 ^^

[@beaandsanghoon]

네 좋은말씀 감사드립니다 :) 후회 없이 사랑하라는 말씀 너무 멋지네요^^ 즐거운 주말 되세요!!

[@sarahelvetral3710]

I'll keep you guys in my prayers 🙏 I hope the family story will eventually have an happy ending years down the line. It hurts but I hope you can find all the comfort you need in each other's love.

[@nana_mood319]

you are a nice girl Please support her a lot in Korea don't let anyone hurt her🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@beaandsanghoon]

💕💕💕💕okay! And adding arabic subs! I’m sorry we didn’t have them

[@nana_mood319]

Bea and Sanghoon ambw 국제커플 Ok because they love to watch the stories of the international Couple

[@dotblu7326]

I'm the parent of two young adults and can't imagine hurting my children with this level of ignorance and selfishness. My daughter came out as a part of the LGBT+ community. It wasn't a space I had much exposure to beyond media. But I LOVE my child more than I fear opening my mind to understand life beyond my own walk. Any parent should not hesitate to take on the world for the sake of a child's right to choose their own happiness. Kids aren't a reflection of ourselves they're a brand new being we are blessed to be a foundation for. You never stop putting the work in and that includes on yourself. Shame on these parents for bailing when things got challenging to their narrow world view. They both look so hurt so this went from comment to rant. Hope your folks get it right and your commitment to each other endures.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you so much for rooting for us Demijo! :) and sharing your perspective as a parent :) and yea I do hope that they can see eventually what they cant see now..

[@counga2003]

Fighting 😘 love conquer all.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Will do!🙏🙏🙏💖

[@annansoha8822]

Everyone needs themselves a man like Sanghoon. Like he is so sweet and caring and is always there for Bea. I'm also loving Bea. She is such a strong powerful black woman and that inspires me to be stronger mentally and physically. Thank you two for such a great and loving channel. I hope that people come to understand that love has no race/color. Stay strong!!!!

[@Summer_Sunset15]

When you fine your person don’t let go no matter what. Especially if they are a good human. You have one life and nobody get do overs. Best wishes!

[@sweettand2957]

Their could come a time that his parents come around however even if they don't you still have each other...continue to support each other with love and respect and communicate your feelings to rach other..STAY STRONG❤

[@quincejackson1854]

Your parents will come around. Love don't come color and you can't help who you love. Stand your ground, life your life and stay positive.

[@latresiaharris1298]

He is not a crybaby. He is morning the loss of his loved ones. He is also morning the things they will miss in the future, like his future children and

[@latresiaharris1298]

And their relationship with their grandparents. He loves you so much. Please comfort him, be there for him and stand by him. You are a beautiful woman and you two are so blessed to have found one another.

[@jeny4061]

You are so beautiful, and if he love you don't worry about his family's.

[@lindaanyona8407]

Sanghoon I have so much respect for you. Most people would have caved in. I admire you courage. Don't stop. What you have is special. Love you guys.

[@stacey5680]

Soon the parents would come to realize that the love y’all have for each other is what matters ❤️ Don’t let it get to you!

[@sag5278]

Interracial couples have been in this situation for generations. It really comes down to your ability to withstand the pressure, not let their opinions have power over you, and press forward.

[@maraeacookson1573]

I love Bea’s comments about how awesome you describe your Man. BEAUTIFUL 💙♥️💙 Love from Aotearoa NZ

[@ellenrics]

No one can live your life but you so if he makes you happy that's wonderful continue to ENJOY YOUR LIFE TOGETHER !!!

[@arienettebanks3193]

So sorry about the heartbreak. Everyone wants to share their family and what they are feeling and future ideas and moments. Hold each other close.

[@cheryljones3507]

You have a good man !!! He’s a keeper! True love IS color blind. Praying for you guys 🇺🇸💜💋fla

[@craytowns9479]

Sanghoon stay STRONG! I know it’s really heartbreaking to realize your parents are racist, I could never imagine what you’re going through but I hope you can heal from that deep disappointment and focus on what can control. You have a wonderful woman by your stay that will support and love you no matter what happens with your family. I have friends that have learned how to remain happy and content even without their parents approval. Parents approval is important but it’s not EVERYTHING. You can’t change them so just focus on your life with Bea. ❤️❤️❤️

[@latanyacochran5279]

Your love will grow stronger and forever. Sometimes love is tested but with the support of each other you can accomplish anything together. I pray for your love to stand any storm.

[@kimone99]

I think out of all this I absolutely love how he stands up, speak's out, and protects you. He is setting the standard of what you mean to him and how important you are in his life. If he didn't I would be highly concerned...but to quote him "Not on my watch!" Now that's a keeper! I'm sure he loves his family and is disappointed but still working on them to see if things can change. However, he is not holding his breath at the same time and chooses you. These situations happen more often than you think, it's just the way it is sometimes. We love our family but we can't live for our family. If they come around great, but if they don't it really will be their loss and life will go on. Life is too short for nonsense like this, we have to wake up and realize what truly matters.

[@trob1781]

Its their loss. U two r a beautiful pair and im sure the children God will bless u with will b amazing and have no short of love around them.

[@rmismypresident1567]

You’re both very mature 💜 stay strong and don’t let any negativity change your relationship no matter what.

[@lilumartini]

This really bodered you both alot. This is the first time i heared you talk with a accent girl. Just know that you two are going strong

[@hoddy1368]

No man is stupid enough to give up the most beautiful woman he is ever seen and her personality is amazing my friend am telling you right now don’t ever give up because you will never have a second chance with someone like her and so what if you’re family dose not like her because of her skin colour god if literally giving her love and the love of her family and I know it’s not the same but imagine what they will say to your kids that would be more hurtful see or experience as a parent 💪💪

[@amangola1103]

Sis I am indian and in my opinion you are really beautiful i am really happy that you met your love and you are lucky only some person find true love in this cruel world

[@rhonda5056]

There is a couple in Canada "Love Withstanding," he is Korean and his wife is Blasian, I believe. His mother has been withholding her relationship and he keeps trying. You may want to connect with them.

[@Angelica-ym4vx]

You are a beautiful couple. It’s sad that People are always quick to judge others. I am Mexican and have a daughter who is half black. My father used to be racist towards black people. Once my daughter was born, his whole demeanor towards black people changed. My daughter is now his favorite of his grandchildren. Your boyfriend loves his family and he loves you too. It is very difficult for him as he is stuck in the middle. Give it time. There is no doubt in my mind that His parents will eventually come around. Have faith and just be the best that you can towards your man. Wishing you both the very best always.

[@NordousJ]

Bea you are so pretty! 💕💕Protect this relationship and prove them wrong. I can see your future is bright.❤️❤️❤️

[@4mydearlady]

I’m so glad that one Korean parent agreed to meet you! First step in the right direction. Must have been a nerve-racking meeting.

[@Jujutsufan810]

So adorable♥️. You can tell he really loves and it's just so adorable to see that.

[@박영상-r5l]

진실된 사랑을 하는 모습이 보기가 좋네요 인종 문제로인한 부모님과의 갈등은 가른 국제 커플들도 다 있을거예요 부모님도 한국사회에서 흔하지 않은 경우 이어서 두려워하시는것 같고요 어찌되었든 두분은 한국 사회에서 다른 인종간의 국제 커플의 개척자 라고 생각하시고 어려움이 있더라도 참고 두사람의 사랑을 이어나가세요

[@beaandsanghoon]

와 그렇게 까지는 생각 안해봤는데 갑자기 이 모든 과정이 의미있어 지네요 ㅠ 좋은 말씀 감사합니다 :)

[@imeldadietz]

I have teary eyes upon watching this, I know how painful could it be for both of you. I am a Filipina and married to a German. I am kind of struggling until now because of my mother-in-law, but I can barely handle it now the way she's treating me. For you, it was your complexion but for me it is the facts that I am an Asian and came from a poor family. Even though my in-laws are friends with colored Americans, they still think that they are a better person's because they are westerners. I want to give you an advice to concentrate on your kind and lovely boyfriend for now to continue and focus on your relationship with each other. Just wait for their acceptance and if they won't, you still have your parents who are on your sides. I am so sorry for him because he's the one who really suffered most I hope you could comfort him and let him know that you are worth it to be fighting for. I really feel and see how you love each other and I wish you the best in the future ❤️❤️❤️

[@asnappinturla]

Colored American? Elaborate please..

[@imeldadietz]

@@asnappinturla I don't like to use black Americans. I don't like to identify people because of their skin. We are all created by God❤️❤️❤️

[@beaandsanghoon]

Wow.... I’m really really happy to hear your story. Gosh that sounds hard and that’s terrible...you must be a really really strong person . I struggle with having to keep being the bigger person. I hope he can talk to his mother and you guys can work discuss this issue .... it’s really hard to change people’s hearts. Hang in there !!!sending buckets of love 💖💖💖💖and thanks again for sharing your story with us too. I guess this is happening to people in all different cultures. Filipinos are very warm people they are certainly missing out on your culture

[@imeldadietz]

@@beaandsanghoon I have a very kind husband and that is one of the reason we're still together. Our son is happily married and we're really proud of him and despite that he's still young, he's also a very responsible man to his own family. My relationship with my in-law is a lot better now, not because she has changed her attitude, but I've learned to accept her the way she is. I don't know if you're both believers, but my marriage is also successful because we put Jesus as the center of our lives not only as an individual but most of all, as a married couple. We've encountered a lots of ups and downs in life, but we hold on to each other until the end❤️❤️❤️

[@prettysemiD]

It’s really unfortunate that this is happening to you both. Similar issues happened with my best friend and her ex-husband. I hope you will be able to continue to be good to each other and have a healthy relationship. I really empathize with the experience of people being embarrassed as well as people seeing “black” as the bottom of the barrel that would bring negative impacts to them and their family/friends/business. Wishing you both nothing but the best.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Gosh sucks to hear it happened with your friend. Wishing you guys well too💕💕

[@AmberU]

You two are together for a reason. You are from opposite sides of the world and you found each other.... He is a real man in every sense of the word and so why would you throw that away? You have each other and if you two love one another then there is no reason you two cannot overcome this. Besides if you separated they would win and you two would be unhappy still just not together. Someday they will get over this, they will see that caring about what other people think cannot be more important than having a relationship with their son!

[@cindyglanenweygel9090]

My goodness i got soo emotional after watching this. This is soo sad😢 You guys are a beautiful couple and i wish you all the best 🌹 Someday his family will change and they will come around👍🤞

[@martinataylor7702]

Just be happy and try and get on with your life because this is not about you and I hope people understand that this is not him

[@쏠리트]

두분 응원합니다 .

[@beaandsanghoon]

감사합니다 :) 항상 행복하세요!!

[@kimberlykat7552]

Interesting, Koreans appropriate Black African American culture more than any other culture in the world...yet, conveniently removing Blackness from it. These videos are really starting to be cringey because they're proving what we've always known.

[@sharonthomas816]

I'm very proud of the both of you ❤️😘💖

[@hope4937]

sharonthomas816 ?

[@kimberlykat7552]

@Jay Philip Seo your point?

[@caelabrinks2250]

In what way if you don’t mind explaining

[@kimberlykat7552]

@Jay Philip Seo pick up a dictionary...APPROPRIATION is not APPRECIATION

[@lorenavalencia8468]

Stay strong together no matters what . A big huge to you guys.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Will do😍😍🥰 thanks for the kind message! Stay safe !

[@amandanichols08]

I have been watching your videos for awhile as I use to be in a ambw relationship. I envy your relationship as the person I dated chose his dads racism and money over me. One day I hope to have a relationship as strong as yours that is supportive and loving. I hope his parents see how much you guys truly love each other and that nothing will be able to come between you guys. Keep strong and I know you guys will be ok ❤️

[@beaandsanghoon]

ouch! thats really tough... i think because of culture... a lot of the guys still live at home for a long time, and their parents pay for everything... including their houses and weddings.... so if they're in that situation it's hard to turn down everything, and they usually don't make their own life decisions. Good for you though, better not to waste anymore time on a situation like that. You seem like such a sweet person!! you'll find someone much much better!!

[@llime6639]

I am so touched by your story, it's good to see you have a man who love and support you, be strong you have my support and cant wait for the wedding and beautiful babies love from London

[@Ch-ch-ch-chia]

He said uhn uhn not on my watch. A real man, he was going to bat for you sis. God bless yall from now and moving forward 🙏

[@cynthiadevault9263]

Well he Loves 💘 ❤ you very much and protects you so stay with him. Ig the family will not except you your family does and you have friends that Love you and that is all that matters . Stay strong and stand your ground. You can tell you are Soulmates

[@ayamewong2103]

This brought tears to my eyes - you can tell that Sanghoon is hurt that the woman he loves was treated badly by his parents. Bea is hurt by the family members that he loves. His heart is broken - that’s why he is crying. He can cry if he wants - was is wrong with that. Nothing. Wish more men would express feelings like that.

[@missfirefox42]

This is so sad guys and I really hope things do turn around for you both. Let your love be even stronger in the face of adversity. You're a young couple and these are trying times. Not only is my fiance white, he has a physical disability. His brother is racist, but I've never met or had to deal with him. I know it's harder because it's parents involved. I wish you both love and strength 💕💞

[@beaandsanghoon]

Wow I’m glad you haven’t been affected by his brother and you guys were able to work this out😍😍😍❤️always good to hear about other happy couples!!!

[@soul9841]

It's just a preconceived notion that people have because they haven't experienced it. I also did. until I meet my friends. i feel sorry but don't blame them, you should calmly persuade them 늘 두분이 행복하시고, 예쁜 사랑 결실을 이루셨으면 좋겠습니다

[@ellym9530]

I didn’t experience a lot of cultures before traveling and getting to know the people but I still met them with an open mind. No experience is not an excuse for rudeness... no one should be naturally expected to “calmly prove their worth and humanity to someone” just because of their skin color. People are not to blame when they don’t know things but they are certainly to blame and responsible for their actions and the way they treat others of all races no matter the difference.

[@soul9841]

@@ellym9530 🙂 I totally agree with you. but, to my shame, I couldn't do that in the past. the older people are, the stronger the stubbornness and prejudice. i am one of them. but all can change. that is the strength of people.

[@beaandsanghoon]

안정호 yes that is the strength. Thank you for sharing your experience . I also agree about treating people well even without knowing about their culture.If more people treated eachother better (from all backgrounds) and are able to change like you’re saying then maybe soon we will live in a better world.🥰♥️♥️♥️ thank you for your warm wishes

[@pattenb1]

Be strong and be happy. You are a beautiful couple!

[@yeonginlee5944]

여자친구분 너무이쁘고 선해보여요. 두분의 아픔이 저도 느껴지는거 같아서 마음이 안좋은데(저도 조금은 비슷한 상황인지라 더 공감도 되구요.) 꼭 지금을 견뎌서 웃는날이 오시길 기도드릴게요. :)

[@beaandsanghoon]

ㅠ 비슷한 상황이라니 우리 모두 힘내면 언젠가 좋은날이 올거에요! 응원해 주셔서 감사드리고 늘 행복하자구요 ^^

[@amandalove3368]

I'm sorry to this beautiful couple. I wish everyone is open minded but sadly that isn't always the case.

[@rebeccadenise8637]

If your Love is real Get married and there’s nothing they can say move forward you have each other God Bless you both ❤️

[@rasheenwarmington]

One of my favorite KZbinrs are Jay and Sasha international couple. Jay is Korean and Sasha is Russian. They are married and living happily with a dog and a cat. They don’t have their family’s approval, especially Jay. They got married with like two people there. As long as you are both in love, willing to go the distance no matter what, you will be just fine with or without approval. Fighting!

[@beaandsanghoon]

Thank you for the positivity!!! And wow we know this couple but didn’t know that about them! Thank you for sharing that with us

[@wallerabbit2034]

You started a journey together and every journey has it's moments of bliss and difficult moments. If your parents are not willing to be a part of that journey then too bad for them. They'll be missing out on being a part of your life and it's on them, not on you as a couple to be burdened by their decision. You really don't need to keep people like that in your life even if they're family. All you need is each other and people who are willing to be a part of your story, your life. Live your life to the fullest and create amazing adventures so you can tell your children and people who need inspiration. Let them know how you overcame hardships and made amazing memories through love. By the way, you guys are a cute couple. Loving that beautiful hair Bea although Sanghoon, dude... you are long overdue for a cool hair makeover.

[@joyfulautisticjesus-freak1609]

My heart hurts to see this. I've seen similar videos about this situation that Korean parents dislike foreigners and insult their son/daughter for dating foreigners. I'm glad that this doesn't always happens. But when it does, like here, it hurts my heart. All I could do at this point is pray. At the same time, I feel like they're judging without knowing.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Yes !!! Grateful for the cases where that doesn’t happen!!!💕💕 it’s not always !!! You’re right ! Prayers for sure ! Stay safe :)

[@1tzae_]

Huy feliz por los subtitulos en español aqui estare biendo el contenido de los videos que suban saludos desde México

[@chinarose9171]

well one thing that I know no one can't fault of whom you fall in love with no parents no siblings no uncles and aunts of friends you guys make a lovely couple and I seen your husband at the end crying because I know that he wants your parents to love you but long that he loves you and you love him back that's all it counts and remember the honeymoon is never over stay encouraged let God work through it he will make a way watch what I tell you

[@deandean926]

Please be okay w/ yourself & with your mate. You guys are such a beautiful couple but if you guys are over conscious about what others think, they will continue to try to undermine your relationship. Be strong, be happy, ignore that crap. Let the naysayers earn your respect! I’ve in interracial relationships. My man fought for me and would NOT put up w/ anyone who disrespected me. In the end family & friends all came around and couldn’t get enough of my presence. Stay a strong & positive couple- you will see !

[@Dark0Nytemare]

You guys are a beautiful couple. In the end? His parents are missing out - and you're absolutely right to say it makes no sense to punish him for the parents wrong doing. You guys move upward, onward, have a beautiful family and relish in the love you have for each other. They'll either stand in the shadows of your happiness, refusing to LEARN better to be better - or they'll take that step forward to accept. Much happiness to you both!

[@chicagolowe]

Hi guys. Have you watched on youtube a channel called ? Love withstanding. (Justin and Sarah Park ) and maleea and Jay . They have great in site and honest opinions of love,relationship and marriage. It take heart to stand up for whats important to you. Guts to withstand the bows and arrows of disapproving family members especially dad and mom. I respect you dearly and root for you both. Because the one you love cherishes you the most and is more worth the fight for love and marriage. I'M a big fan.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Okay will check!! Thanks bunches😊😊😊

[@pollychauunlimited4296]

Very brave for sharing and incredibly sad , hope you will both be ok 😍

[@mnm7647]

Would you please kindly upload HD 1080 quality videos. The 360 resolution devalues your nice content! Otherwise all that matters is you two care, respect and have a strong love for each other. No one can break that if it’s real. Bless

[@beccaandmicke]

At the end of the day we are all humans. The color of the skin shouldn’t matter. It’s really sad to watch you say these things. I’m happy sanghoon is a really supportive and loving partner! I really love you both together and I just want to see y’all happy.

[@beaandsanghoon]

Aww thanks! and yes I will always have Bea's back no matter what! :)

[@ameliaocampo3581]

Hello I listened to you both I congratulate you both I'm happy for both of you it is so good that he loves a relationship doesn't t matter what race it is. From experience it takes two respect live and understanding the main one is TRUST in one another no lies even now whether is being rich or poor it doesn't t matter your problem is minor you can work it out go forward God bless you both sincerely from amelia ❤️

[@beaandsanghoon]

Amelia♥️♥️♥️ I see. Thank you so much for watching first of all, and second for your piece of mind with your experience. You’re right trust is a big thing. That makes sense.♥️♥️♥️♥️thanks bunches for being sincere with us! Blessings to you and your family as well:)

[@donnabellingerryan7023]

Love and light to you both. Your a lovely couple.

[@썬-c9i]

당연히 낯설수있고 긴시간을 그러한 생각들이 박힌상태로 살아왔고 살아가고 계시니까 반대할순 있다지만 처음 만나는 자리에서 너무 무례한 언행을 하셔서 같은 사람으로서 솔직히 부끄럽네요.. 우리나라 사람들은 왜 남이 보는 시선에 갇혀사는건지 이해가 안되요. 남한테 피해 주지않는 선만 지키면되는것인데.. 지구엔 다양한 인종이 살아가는데 서로 사랑에 빠졌을뿐이지 그 누구에게 피해를 준건가요..? 어느 나라건 인종차별이 사라지고 한명 한명의 다름을 받아들이는날이 빨리 왔으면 좋겠어요🙏

[@beaandsanghoon]

공감해 주셔서 감사합니다 :) 저와 생각이 똑같으시네요, 우리도 시야가 조금더 넓은 사회가 되었으면 좋겠어요!

[@KenzoBeanz]

Honestly I felt this way too hard. I’m sorry you both have to deal with this and experience this. My boyfriend is white and his family is not fond of me at all, his brother even put his hands on me. It’s nice to watch this and read the comments and see that I’m not the only one that deals with issues of being treated wrongfully just because you’re not the color/race they want you to be. Thank you.

[@mervielledejong5685]

Hi . I understand your situation completely. I am married to my Dutch husband it’s been 25 years all ready, he’s parents were against us being together but please remember it’s your love for each other that matters and love will make your relationship strong ! He is not a crybaby he is hurt and rightfully so he loves you so much and wish that he’s parents loved you as well also it is beautiful that he is emotional a man that cries is beautiful no need to apologize for him. Love him for all he is .all the best from Switzerland much love! please don’t give up on love ❤️

[@ivyd5485]

I’m really sorry you have to go through all of this. I wish you well.

[@bellathebee9361]

One thing I’ll say is to NEVER apologize for who you are. You’re a humain being just like everyone else. It’s not math, it doesn’t require a formula to understand the fact that you eat, sleep, bleed and die just like them. The only difference is the amount of melanin on your skin which is a blessing cause it makes you more protected from the sun. This idea of “older generation”, or “never met a black a person before” is just a stupid excuse. You’re a HUMAN. That’s it! He’s not in an inter-specie relationship. What’s there to explain or understand? You don’t have to explain your blackness to anyone. Anywho, let him have his own relationship with his parents. As for you baby girl, never lower yourself to make people accept your blackness as if it’s something bad. That would be just proving their point. If he makes you happy, he’s all you need.

[@gedijonez8759]

😍😘💕💗💙💚💜💞❣ lovely couple you guys deserve the best. 👍👌👏✊