DITL: 7 Daily Habits for Homemakers | Stay at Home Mom Edition!

[@darius5464]

"I'm going to be such a great house wife after this" - Me, a stay at home dad.

[@RedScareClair]

🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽

[@chrystalbolinger62]

😂😂

[@teacherrosavipkid1224]

Dads can be awesome in helping out too, then your wife will be the happiest in town!

[@tmammas8442]

Get it dad! 💪

[@stocktonking12]

Geyyyy

[@courtneyehalchak]

I’m so thankful you said that playing with your children for 30 min to an hour can be exhausting. Thank you for your honesty.

[@Elemiriel]

Yeah for real, just hearing her say it made me feel way better. I think the incremental play is going to work way better for me!

[@echomcclellan7079]

Agreed! I feel so guilty for feeling exhausted with a big play time

[@agiagiagi5692]

No, 10mins is exhausting... 30min play is a killer 😆

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

I used to think I was the only one who felt this way. So glad it's not just me!

[@missmarjolein92]

I just prayed about this, thinking what is wrong with me? Moms do need each other don't they? Not complaining, lots of excuses or jugdement, but honesty and encourement. And we all need Father's loving guidance.

[@courtneyehalchak]

Also, thank you for your wisdom. I have 4 teenagers and 4 toddlers. But, I have found that I learn a lot from you. You’re not pushing perfection or some crazy Instagram lifestyle; you’re just genuine and sweet. You are so refreshing!

[@isJudgingYou]

The play tip is super good. The push/pull of wanting/getting attention can teach persistence/resistance on ALL parties. Pulling away from work and playing will reduce the persistence, because they know you’re available and that increases flexibility and reduces the level of demand. That was my favorite part! 👏

[@Mrs.LadeyBug]

One line a day journal filled out at the end of each day: *one line for the day’s events *one line for each child; a milestone, a memorable event, story, or funny kid quote, etc *one line of spiritual: prayer, gratitude or a verse This little journal that takes only a couple minutes will be a precious memento when your children are older... it feels like you don’t have the time now, but if you don’t take these moments now, you’ll never capture them in your memory. 💝

[@alexusgolem8756]

Awesome advice! I used to love journaling but it’s become a hassle especially these days with my little one. This will really help to get the things I wouldn’t want to forget without feeling overwhelmed.

[@christinwoodrow9297]

This is beautiful! I love it. ❤️

[@happymamaof5803]

That's a great little formula, and it feels very doable!

[@vheewhy9882]

Really love this idea! Started mine just now 😊

[@elenafaith7813]

This is so true. Thank you. I will try your advice 😘

[@mickidee6714]

As a mom of older kids/young adults and teens, I can definitely encourage all moms to listen to you to “stop everything and play/spend time with your littles!” They grow up so fast. You’ll always be happy you colored with your daughter and played legos with your son....and you won’t regret the times you didn’t get the floors clean by doing so!

[@susuilu]

Thank you! It is hard sometimes, because I feel like I always have stuff to do. ... but must be done ✔. Thanks for the honesty

[@Iamboughtbytheking]

We need this reminder.

[@pattyadams2338]

Another suggestion is try and sit with your children one on one to play, read etc. It’s hard but just take the first step. Every day is a do over. They grow soooo fast!!

[@jmac4538]

Any ideas on how to spend time with teens on a daily?They'd rather be on phones or games.I feel like there are days when we hardly interact.

[@shalom2376]

@@jmac4538 I know someone who takes of the internet for a part of the day.

[@theampski3794]

I know this is basic, but I make my bed every day. No matter how my day goes I walk in my room each night and feel better. It helps me sleep better as well.

[@lucybeachy9271]

Walking into my bedroom seeing the bed fixed, just a Feeling of accomplishment and orderliness

[@RipleysSanatorium]

Ditto!

[@l.williams6249]

A very under rated habit!

[@Shangri-LaGrange]

So agree! I’ve recently taken up the habit of “airing the bed”. (1950’s video idea) I pull the sheet and blanket back to reveal the spots where we slept all night, instead of just leaving covers how they lay when I get up. I let it air out while I make my hubby his cup of coffee and breakfast. As soon as he leaves for work (or sometimes before) I go in and make the bed. For me personally, it’s depressing coming into the room to go to bed and it being unmade.

[@xxdrewxx6]

I know exactly what you mean. It's a must

[@sayhello5377]

My tip: go to bed with a clean house (no matter how tired you are) so today’s mess doesn’t start tomorrow on a bad note. Kitchen cleaned, dishwasher started, toys put away, 1 load of laundry done, Cheerios vacuumed up off the carpet, etc.

[@StasiaAleen]

Geez. No hope on that expectation!

[@MyHam-os4bq]

Searched for a video like this because I am struggling with this right now. I’m a brand new stay at home mom and I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing lol. I’ve been trying this the last few days and I feel so refreshed walking down to the kitchen in the mornings! It’s insane how much this seemingly small tip helps.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

…..or actually get a job lol

[@MyHam-os4bq]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 lmao!!

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@MyHam-os4bq seriously though 😂 we can play like house chores is so difficult…but compared to a real job? Lol

[@amandah6934]

Here are a few of mine! - Tidy the bedroom before leaving it in the morning, including gathering laundry and making the bed. -Have a daily "quiet time" even for kids who don't nap anymore. We have quiet time while the toddler naps and this is when I do self care like exercise! -Meal planning. I keep my meal plan stuck to the fridge and try to batch cook on the weekends to make the week go more smoothly. -Get kids involved in daily chores! After breakfast my 6 kids and I do a quick whole house cleanup before starting our homeschool day. It takes less than an hour and every room gets touched.

[@iaintwonderwoman5720]

Hi Amanda Hart...great ideas🤩 I’m Kimberly Hart We homeschool, as well

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Orrrrrr get a job? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jaylade]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 Think it would cost more having a babysitter for 6 kids than staying home.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@Jaylade how long would your kids need a babysitter? Lol they literally have pre school/ elementary after school programs dedicated specifically for parents to have time to be able to pick there kids up AFTER WORK lol

[@Jaylade]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 Are you a lady or a man? You obviously do not have children.

[@redefinedgoals]

I was a stay-at-home mom of 4, back in the 80's. We didn't have earbuds and podcasts, but we had the radio. We would turn on the radio and have "dance parties", to get exercise and have fun.

[@cynthiagreene-l1x]

Love this!

[@ashlengould8123]

I am so happy to hear someone else who loves being a housewife but actually hates staying at the house all day. I feel like when I tell people if I stay in my house all day I’ll go crazy they perceive it as me being unhappy with what I’m doing. That’s absolutely untrue I love getting to be with my kids but I just can’t stay in one place for a whole day.

[@barbieeee25]

That's because u where never like that as aa child.....u used to go to school everyday......

[@barbieeee25]

That's because u where never like that as aa child.....u used to go to school everyday......

[@barbieeee25]

That's because u where never like that as aa child.....u used to go to school everyday......

[@barbieeee25]

That's because u where never like that as aa child.....u used to go to school everyday......

[@barbieeee25]

That's because u where never like that as aa child.....u used to go to school everyday......

[@LauraP1324]

Getting out of the house is KEY. Both of my boys are in school now and as long as it isn’t below -15 C (I’m in Alberta) or very windy, I get out for at least an hour walk every day. I walk to errands - the library, thrift store, quick grocery pick up, etc. It has kept me sane this past year

[@janiceyoder621]

The idea of getting dressed as if you were going to work, even as a SAHM, is one I haven't thought of. And I have been a mom for 17 years! My babies are no more, from 9-17 years old now. I stay in bed until the last possible minute, then get up and start breakfast, then getting people up and kinda forget to take care of myself.

[@momentsformoms9467]

Yeah I’m in my pajamas all day. I work all night then come home to clean,& try to get in some sleep. My kid entertains himself,I feel guilty but I’ve told him many times ‘clean up after yourself & I’ll have time to play’ but no.....tried chores &’rewards but that didn’t work either.

[@NikiLivi5]

My kids are a little older now but I can promise your babies will remember that Moma always stopped what she was doing when they wanted and needed her attention and spent time with them. Time is our most precious and fleeting commodity. They will look back and think about how special you made them feel. And you made them important to you. I’ve just found you and you are precious. I’m enjoying your video very much!

[@NikiLivi5]

Oh I’m a mom of 5 living in northeast Mississippi. Mine are ages 23, 20, 17 about to be 18, and twin 12yr olds that are about to be 13. Time passes by so fast! Enjoy them!

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Well….momma also didint have a job and was unemployed so duh? 😂😂😂

[@UmmPoopie]

@@hawaiianrussian1047Oh here’s the prick again without a life

[@hgval6146]

I love that you are promoting The Bible Recap! And I love that you start your day that way. We have incorporated this into our homeschool and my nine-year-old and six-year-old son have now read through the entire Bible with me one and a half times! It is a game changer! My boys know more about the Bible now than I did when I was 35 years old.

[@amyhutchinson3170]

I found something soooo simple as putting hooks at their level by the door leading to the garage helped so much..now I can say..”Go get your coats on- mommy will be there in a moment to help with zips and shoes!”

[@clarissacolson4784]

My 2yo loves being able to "do it", all day she wants to do as much as she can. Putting things at her level helps her Independence and my sanity🤣

[@brittneyrobinson9]

Here in 2023 and I really needed this video! Thank you so much for this. A SAHM here that’s really been struggling lately… I never get a break from my 2 toddlers and spend most of my days just exhausted and feeling guilty for not doing certain things. Implementing a lot of what you shared here is going to help a ton for sure! Thanks again.

[@monicasmadeinmaine1114]

I knit once a day for a relaxing moment. The rhythm of the needles in the car parked sans electronics while the kids nap can be so calming. I take my current work in progress with me everywhere. I sometimes forget the diaper bag (he’s 2.5) but I never forget my yarn 😂.

[@1siping]

Always leave places, people, and things better than you found them. Someone already said a version of this, but this is my version. I like to be conscious of how people feel when I walk away from them. Did I dump on them, did I make them feel heard, or was I uplifting in some way?

[@Mrs.J.D.B]

I LOVE this! Thank you so much for sharing!

[@giirlchan]

Love that!!

[@thehomesteadontheridge]

We live too far from town to make a trip every day, but luckily our daily animal chores get us up and moving outside.

[@TheEllaTB]

Same here. And a walk down the street or a bike ride helps too! Definitely, getting out of the house for a little bit every day is a must. Even if it's raining, I'll bundle them up and send them in the yard for "laps". A lot of time when they are misbehaving they just need some fresh air so their "punishment" is laps in the yard. But it's really more like pushing the reset button for their brain, their mood, their body

[@jennylhenry78]

1 Bible study 2 dress and facial routine 3 listen to something for self development 4 drinking water 5 cleaning surfaces 6 stop and play with children for just a few mins 7 leave the house Okay so I don't do any of these (except cleaning surfaces, but not even my floors) daily. 😭 The only thing I absolutely do daily is drink coffee.

[@anacastillo9247]

🤣

[@AQKuilan]

Coffee is a Must!

[@momentsformoms9467]

So much coffee. I work nights 5x’s a week & my two off aren’t even consecutive 😪. Come home to clean a little,get my kid up for virtual school,clean some more,make dinner (half the week or so)and then afterwards shower & pass out for a couple hours until it’s time to get up for work. He’s going back to actual school in the fall which will help but I still worry about him & his dads parents have him Thursday night-Sunday night which also helps. I’m working on getting stuff done but it’s been a stressful struggle,making progress though 🙂

[@alicia.michelle]

I start my day with a hobby like painting. It gets me motivated for the rest of the day :D

[@cassandraswindell3656]

Girl me too, lol 😂

[@Heyitskatiekindred]

I’m not a mother or a Mennonite but I stumbled upon your video and I fell in love with your personality. Excited to see more from your channel. :)

[@sjking1111]

Me too! I think I'll subscribe! ☺️

[@rachelalexander685]

Same! Just a stay at home momma over year! I love seeing how other mommas go about their days!

[@tonyarolfe6107]

Me too I subscribe 💜😀

[@sheels3893]

Excellent attitude, blessing & encouraging!

[@kerilaverty]

Same!!

[@rkam2018]

My daily habit is getting sunshine! I live in the upper Midwest where it gets well below 0 in the winter, but each morning I make it a priority to open all of the blinds and get as much sunshine as possible!! It greatly improves my mood and is so good for your sleep cycles and immune system. Obviously getting outside is ideal, but if that’s not an option, just get sunshine however you can!

[@amyriley3236]

I do this as well! We have over a foot of snow right now but opening every window shade brings in so much light and brightens our home (and my mood)

[@jacklynnsmith5668]

I am able to leave the shades open...and yes, natural lighting is beautiful and so uplifting!! 😊

[@lifestylewithgretter7325]

This is actually great!! Vitamin D is extremely important and improves our mood ❤️

[@brittanyyoung8998]

Love this video! Thank you for sharing. One thing I try to do a couple times a week not daily but remember nap time isn’t always work time for mommy. Sometime mommy needs some rest/chill time and that’s actually a good thing to do. 😊

[@Sisterlisk]

My mom drilled it into my brain to not step over things. To this day if I step over something instead of putting it in its correct spot (or in the garbage if that's where it belongs), I get this guilty-ish feeling. The amount of times I heard "How many of you just stepped over this instead of picking it up??" Lol

[@nel9732]

This cracks me up; my mom still says this to us and most of us are grown and adults and she could never drill it into us🤣

[@Elemenohpea440]

If you see something, do something! I’m the worst about this...I can step over things 100 times before the Holy Spirit moves me to put it away!

[@victoriabulger9589]

I read this comment a few days ago and I haven't stopped thinking about it since. It's such good advice and I'm trying so hard to implement it...... trying! Ha! Thanks for sharing!

[@Sisterlisk]

@@victoriabulger9589 Haha, you're welcome!

[@glasgowchiropracticpaisley7340]

I’m not sure why going outside is controversial? It’s an absolute must for my son and I. I need that fresh air and sunshine. Even if it’s raining it makes me feel more rested and relaxed and like we’ve done something without day. My son asks where are we going today as it’s also in his routine if we’ve been in all morning, he’s ready to get out too. Loving these videos 🙌🏼💗 Thank you 🙏🏼

[@emmyt9304]

Going out was a life saver many times for me and the kids! It redirects everyone's attention and reduces stress you didn't even realize you were feeling! I went on lot's of walks with my boys or we would go "play" at Toy's R Us.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Now just imagine the stress of actual employed people but unfortunately at actual jobs you don’t have the free time to just leave lol

[@UmmPoopie]

@@hawaiianrussian1047No but you have all the free time to hate on KZbin lol I guess working ain’t that tough after all 🙃

[@StFrancis9]

I love the suggestion to play in increments with the kids throughout the day... I never thought about that. I will try that.

[@annettebartels2061]

Read a children’s bible story each day. Ask questions about it throughout the day or refer to it a couple times a day

[@Shangri-LaGrange]

Love this! Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@IceyFireSpiritDragon]

Such a great idea! Do you think this would be effective with toddlers as well?

[@annettebartels2061]

@@IceyFireSpiritDragon I have done it with all five of our children. It is very effective, starting at the ages of two or three, using an age appropriate bible story book. It’s amazing what they retain

[@IceyFireSpiritDragon]

@@annettebartels2061 awesome thank you!

[@annettebartels2061]

@Peanut but let’s be clear: the Bible are not fairytales. They are real historical happenings.

[@emilyvilla8224]

Honestly, I didn’t realize that it was a habits that I implemented, but when you pointed it out, I also realized that I stop and do stuff with my kids here and there rather than after things are done. I also started because after I got everything done I always wanted me time, not to go play with kids. I always felt guilty for this. But hearing and seeing someone else do it, it actually makes sense. When they are older, kids are going to think, “Mommy frequently put me over her work to play with me and make time for me” instead of, “Mom gave me the last bit of her time when she was just exhausted.” Kids don’t have the longest attention span ever. They are going to value quantity more than how long each time.

[@clarewilliams1248]

The last tip is actually so helpful I find that just leaving the house helps so much for just resetting your mood or the kids mood if they need it.

[@momentsformoms9467]

Agreed. I wish we had a yard but we rent so it’s a no go. I did just get him a spider rc for Easter so we can at least go out for a few minutes. We have a little patio so I can use the chair & table to get stuff done or relax and I’ll put down some cardboard boxes for him to play on the grass with it too.

[@cindyramos5957]

Being a housewive is so hard 🙃. I just do what I can and when I feel overburdened I order a pizza and call it a day

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

Sounds like you've found a healthy balance! Love it!😆🧡

[@sheels3893]

Love pizza! Even if all I do is eat the leftover crusts w/ some ranch🙂

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

Now try getting a actual job and see how difficult that is 😬😂

[@cindyramos5957]

@@hawaiianrussian1047 I have worked before I had kids. I got off of work and had time to relax and sleep. As a housewife I'm the first to wake up and last to go to sleep, I rarely have time to relax or me time. You need to be a homemaker to understand how much time it takes. If you're not cleaning or cooking, your doing homework with the kids, reading to them, helping them change, breaking up a fight etc. Don't put down housewifes it's one of the most stressful and undervalued jobs in history. You're also lonely and secluded with little to no time to socialize or keep up with friends or interact with other adults.

[@hawaiianrussian1047]

@@cindyramos5957 ….and your also at home the most not having to actually leave the house and go to a real 9-5?? Hmmm if you have anyone the option to have to go to work all day or stay home and do basic chores that teens do without have to worry about actually going out and earning money and paying bills … I wonder which one everyone would choose 🤔🤔I mean for fucks sake even the kids atleast have to go to school for 6 hours of the day while mom……….is at home…doing “chores” 🙄😂😂😂 as much as you can say I’m putting down the “hardest and most stressful job” it’s almost sad watching all these unemployed grown ass women try there hardest to say all us employed adults don’t appreciate how hard you all have it ….at home all day not even having to get out of your fucking pajamas while we actually have to ya know leave the house and go be productive members of society 🙄😂 but know pls tell us more about how stressful it is vacuuming and taking breaks watching tv all day while actual grown ass adults are working lol

[@MountainRiverRunner]

I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciated your video. I am 75 years old and worked my entire life and just recently quit working. I all of a sudden had time to do the things that I have wanted to do for years and didn't know where to start. Your video reminded me that I needed to start the day out taking care of myself, which has helped me tremendously. Also because I have worked from home for the last few years, I haven't been getting out of the house and because my house has so many projects that have waited for me, I feel guilty leaving. Thank you for reminding me to get out every day, I will probably be really great for my mental health ♡

[@jonihaworth7016]

I really need to start getting myself ready every day. I love how you say to treat motherhood like a job and get dressed for it. I'm straight up a wash face, brush teeth, comb hair and done person and that's it lol 😜 I would like to step up my game.

[@MustardSeedish]

I wish you were around when my kids were little. I've been adding at least 10 minutes of exercise daily. It's just enough to get my blood pumping and revive my energy.

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

Thats a good habit!

[@jerrypeg3475]

Great habit! Love it.

[@hillarydillin9099]

Love this! I do the same. I have 4 young children I’m homeschooling and we get out every day. Usually a long scooter ride/walk at least once a day and then an errand or activity every day. We all look forward to the change of scenery!

[@brendaelledge9702]

My kids are 21, 19, and 14 now but I totally agree to get out of the house everyday! I almost always got of out the house Monday - Friday (and of course on Sundays, for church. I usually went to the YMCA in the morning to exercise and hang out with other moms. Free events at the library or picnics were always a part of our life. Thank you for being such a great example of a loving Christian wife and mom. The Lord has given you a platform to witness and you are faithful to it. Blessings from Texas!

[@finleyflock]

I always exercise in the morning before my kids get up. I also make my coffee pot the night before so when I come downstairs in the morning, I just have to turn it on and hit the brew button.

[@phyllissweetpea4926]

I am a grandma and I get out most days for exercise and and big up lift to my day. I walk 2 to 3 miles and take the dog out for a short sniffing trip. Love your positive attitude.

[@t.j.7574]

I am a single mom who has been working from home for about 5 years now and homeschooling for 8 years. I get up and do my bible study and prayers first after that I get a shower and get ready for the day. It might be yoga pants or leggings but I am dressed lol. By 7:00am I have 3 kids dropped off to me that I nanny. I have my oldest son help with dishes and chores. I try to keep the house cleaned up daily. Saturdays are my “deep cleaning” day. Sunday is church and rest day.

[@jennyf2964]

LITERALLY theeee best “stay at home mom” page that I’ve seen. SO realistic and such a practical video. Keep it up momma!

[@lifewithlaura7265]

I love having my "me time " in the mornings! Unfortunately, I've noticed I'm more irritable the days I don't make myself get up early enough to have it.. I also agree with getting out of the house!

[@Naimah0914]

I love this! I’m a first time mom to a one year old and definitely need help on organisation and time management. I loved the tip about stopping what you are working on if your child wants you to play. It can always be done later, whatever it was 💖 I plan to do this when my son starts to do this.

[@childofthemosthigh1956]

This was my most important part of what i did daily with my 4 children... teaching my kids about Jesus and His love whether you sit or stand or lie down....Deuteronomy 6:7....teaching them about living for Jesus and teaching the scriptures, "whether you eat or drink or whatever you do do it all for the Glory of God "1Corinthians 10:31.I know they are young but they learn so fast..

[@johnandkitty]

I am daily writing in a notebook three things that I am grateful for.

[@ETallent]

I agree! I agree! Definitely... your last tip is spot-on. This coming from a mom whose kids are now grown. I found that to be a real sanity-saver... also, in the mix, one day a week we usually ended up visiting great-grandparents. I can not say enough good things about that. I want to encourage you regarding your second-to-last tip... I called it the “5 minute” rule. Just take “5 minutes”, and stop what you are doing to enter their world... really, really look at them. It’s so worth it. Even now, with grown kids, the “5 minute” rule still applies. It’s just deeper now. My kids tell me that they’ve always felt like they could come to me at any time. It’s a habit that you are starting now, that helps your kids communicate with you more and more the older that they get. Well done!

[@rcoretsky]

I love the idea of keeping my kids socks near the door! I never thought of this. This will make getting ready SO much easier. Sometimes I just don’t want to have to go find socks 🙈😂. No lie. I will start doing this today! Thanks !

[@GlamourBySophia]

It's genius!!! We are always running around looking for socks.

[@Krista-marieT]

Getting out of the house us probably the best advice. The days can really blend but going out feels good.

[@kaelaward6588]

I love videos like this, and especially ones that ring true that you can stick too! I always enjoy watching your content. As of mom of 3 myself it can be challenging but I find you’re always upbeat and encouraging about the season God has you in! That’s a wonderful testimony.

[@jessycassidy4325]

I love tour videos. I'm going through a tough time right now and your videos are always uplifting, encouraging and helps me to not feel alone on this housewife journey in this era. Thank you.

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

So sorry it's tough. 🙏

[@holly9652]

I agree with you. Getting out of the house can be a hassle but after I am out and about I feel so refreshed

[@kathylanders1492]

Thank you for sharing. I’m a grandmother and my grandson are almost grown. I love the way you interact with your kids. Time is so she and one day they want be little and you will wander were did the time go. Just always make the time for your family. Live you.

[@Iamboughtbytheking]

I started this about a month ago, I get up eat breakfast with my 8 month old and 3 year old then I do a 45 to 60 minute workout, I’m usually done by around 10am and so far I’m loving it. I’m hoping that I will stick to it all year long.

[@vheewhy9882]

How do you keep your children entertained while you do a workout like that?

[@idepartasair]

@@vheewhy9882 I'm wondering the same thing. I have a 4yo, a 3yo, and a 6mo, and I can baaaarely get in a 15-20 minute workout without the frustration of my 6mo beginning to fuss or my toddlers fighting. That is even with me waking at 5am every day. There is absolutely no way that I could fit in a 45-60 minute workout, unless I made my husband try to watch all three after his long day at work...

[@Iamboughtbytheking]

Hi ladies I hear ya it is kinda hard sometimes and sometimes they do fight or my baby gets cranky cuz she needs a nap but for the most part it works pretty good. I have a big space we’re I work out on one end of the room and they have all their toys on the other end so that helps a lot, I usually have all the toys picked up when I start since dumping them out is the most fun for them so that helps. Also I find that having a routine for your kids makes it all a lot easier too. Plus in the morning my kids are usually happy so mornings just work better, so I encourage you to try it for a week or two and see if it doesn’t get easier once they are used to it a bit.

[@idepartasair]

@@Iamboughtbytheking I have a very steady routine, and my two toddlers are usually pretty cooperative. They'd probably let me do a longer workout, but my 6mo absolutely would not. I do try to incorporate mini exercises outside of my 20min one, though. For example, if there are five minutes of free time for me, I'll do 100 squats, elevated push-ups, or calf raises. Physical activity is definitely a great energy and mood boost.

[@Iamboughtbytheking]

@@idepartasair maybe in a few months when you’re baby can entertain him/herself more it will work better. Hopefully.

[@sunshinegalkw9675]

I love your home, is so very welcoming. Your channel is one of my favorites, I’ve learned a lot from you! I value the content. I always finish your videos feeling a little bit better than I did when I started. You make a difference and I thank you! Bless you and your family. Thanks for sharing your light with us.

[@BargainBridget]

I have to make my bed daily. Even if the rest of my room may be a disaster, this daily habit gives me a little peace of mind and a boost to tidy something else up.

[@janechiew384]

Pick out my outfit, including jewelry and accessories like a scarf the night before.

[@amjhahn91]

I wash, dry, fold, and put away one load of laundry everyday. (That's the goal at least)

[@RFblank]

A load a day keeps Mount Laundry away😂😉

[@sayhello5377]

@@RFblank I’ll wash, dry and fold... but I hate having to carry it up 2 flights of stairs from the basement to our bedrooms. Our laundry mountain is at least folded... in the basement... 😬

[@RFblank]

@@sayhello5377 I get that. Always look at what you've accomplished. i find that more motivating than looking at what still needs to be done.

[@Julie-si3hi]

Found you from yt recommendations:) Getting out is so important, fresh air,clear my head.

[@amyfretz3387]

Great tips Megan! My tip is to load the washer the night before adding detergent but not starting instead set the delay button for the morning with the load to be done when you wake up. Also the night before set a reminder bell on your phone to put clothes in dryer near the time you wake up. After putting clothes in dryer set another alarm bell on phone for when dryer is to be done usually around an hour later even if you can hear the bell from the dryer the phone reminder keeps it at the fore front of your mind. When phone alarm bell goes off fold warm clothes from dryer, fighting to make it a priority (at least I need to-ha). This is when they are most wrinkle free. Put away folded clothes that you can. If kids are still sleeping obviously wait to put their things away if they are light sleepers. I find that getting a load of laundry done this way puts me ahead of the day and feels as if someone helped with the laundry even though it was me the night before. You can also set the washer to be done when you get home from errands or work and set alarms on your phone to remember you started a load.

[@stephens4638]

Love these tips! Not going to lie, I am always rolling out of bed last minute and then stressing about having to hurry and get dressed in about 10 minutes before getting the kids up for school. You have given me the motivation to get up early and have some "me" time.

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

Hey even just a little bit always helps I find!

[@johnlong1990]

Never leave a room without making it look better than when you entered. Laura

[@halesrus7]

Love it!!

[@leaht4505]

Yes💛always be working towards making the world (your home) a more beautiful place 🤗🙏🤗

[@melaniepalmer4206]

My Daddy taught me that and it has stuck ever since:)

[@gypsierose3611]

Or worse if your a toddler

[@leaht4505]

@@gypsierose3611 🤣

[@spunkycat6144]

I write down a summary stuff that happened during the day in a planner. I even write what I wore. I draw it.

[@bellex05]

So creative! Love that

[@fourleaf8055]

But why?

[@ifigeneia149]

Thank you Megan for your honesty.I have never met a mom admitting something like that!!! I personally would not dare telling it because i would be afraid of what others will say.you rock!!!

[@amyc.6115]

I always feel like I never have the time to clean my floors. You make it sound so easy having a stick vacuum- maybe that’s something that would help me too!

[@kempfreehold9450]

I love my stick vacuum. Its light enough that my kids can use it too

[@MamaInSurvivalMode]

I was just thinking the same thing!

[@kasiatobias905]

What a brilliant video! You are such a good mum! I couldn't agree more with everything you're saying! I do all of it daily, ever since I became a mum and I swear by it. I don't read the Bible, since I am not a Christian but I listen to inspiring spiritual materials, when I do my morning skincare too 🙂. I would add 3 more: 1. as you said, taking some time every day for planning, writing lists, prioritising, making appointments. I call it a quiet time. 2. Every day, checking for things we could throw out or give away. Having no clutter, only keeping what we really need and love. 3. Keping toys away in small bundles. Only taking out 1 bundle at the time, and swap when they get bored. If all the toys are out ironically the kids don't know what to play with and it's chaos. I hope you don't mind me adding my nuggets of wisdom. Lots of love, thank you 💓

[@reneeunger333]

100% agree, change of environment super important for everyone!

[@isabelnieto5189]

“Treating motherhood like a job and dressing for it” was a total game changer for me - Ty! In fact all your tips were awesome ❤

[@avance3949]

With my first child we tried to get out of the house everyday. My daughter loved seeing new people and going for long car rides. My second child was a different story. She screamed every time I put her in the car, screamed every time we went into a store, screamed every time I put her in a stroller. It just wasn’t worth it.

[@stillyourb]

My fourth was that way, we became home bodies until we could turn his seat around! Going for walks or just going in the backyard in warm months still helped my sanity though :)

[@carissafitzgerald5351]

Love your videos! I’m a Christian stay at home mom from Texas! I work part time as a massage therapist in a room in my house, but transitioning from a full time Physical therapist assistant at an outpatient/hospital has been a huge transition. Thanks for the encouragement. One thing that I’m trying to do every day is a quick exercise routine before the kids wake up, after my devotions, before I get ready for the day. I feel so much better the days I do it. And many times, I just do a quick KZbin video.

[@hopemccoy9983]

Sit during my entire first cup of coffee. Definitely helps me mentally prepare for the day. Usually ends up doubling as my devotion time.

[@erynnmoore9400]

I’m in tears watching your video. Your help is like water to a parched person. I needed this SO much. Thank you!

[@jessicabulloch5302]

I'm a mom to 8 kiddos, 4 teens and 4 little ones. When I had my first 4 kids in 5 years I was very overwhelmed and needed to get out for a drive a lot mostly daily ,Now that I'm older I hate leaving the house we try to stay home for 3 days a week and when we do go out its not an emergency for my sanity we jist enjoy hiking or going to the park. And stopping to play with the kiddos I totally agree . my 19 year old doesn't want to play legos with me anymore😞

[@brianamatos2607]

Nap time for the babies is also quiet time for the big kids so I can have peace and quiet for a little while to do my devotion, rest, exercise, shower, get extra chores done. Just whatever I need to get done that day.

[@katelyse]

The stick vacuum is a game changer. I was sweeping daily and it took so long.

[@subaikafaraz5264]

The most realistic and totally doable routine I found. Thank you for the wonderful tips. Can't wait to try them out !

[@threearrows6906]

We are doing the Bible recap because you mentioned it in a previous video! We are really enjoying it!

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

So glad! 🧡

[@AngelaPuccinelli]

Me too. And I'm actually caught up...... On the reading, way behind on the podcast. I have 5 kids and I just can't hear it with them all. Hahah

[@jeannieplett878]

Me too! I’m sure enjoying it!

[@joannaacevedo6282]

Wow! I loved the tip about stopping in small increments to spend time with your kids, and not make it a huge deal and then run out of time ! Great video !

[@Barbara-pz8ky]

This Nana says “great ideas, Megan”...when my kids were young I used to call it “airing the children”...no matter what the weather (we lived in Northeastern Pa like you) we went outside for a bit...question -how do you get the kids to take such long naps and still settle down for bed at a reasonable hour...?

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

Not sure! They just must need their sleep.

[@jacklynnsmith5668]

I love it- "airing the children" 😅

[@carolynmills513]

My mom always told us to get outside and let the stink blow off of us! Lol

[@lindsayscraftyplans]

I just looked up morning routine videos. I found yours and I am doing the bible recap. I have a hard time waking up in the morning right now, so I don't get anything done before my son wakes up yet. My goal is to get up early so I can read the Bible and journal. I am glad I found your channel. I am going to watch more of your videos. Before I had my son, I was a teacher. I still am because I homeschool him. Great video!

[@mackenzieking3644]

Personally, I love the last tip! Getting out of the house everyday is something that I have often felt guilty about because maybe I don't "need" to everyday but I really do NEED to just for me! It's worth bundling up my two year old to even just run to Target or the grocery store. I always find a reason to get out!

[@shawneeswanson3819]

rgetting out of the house is a great idea. It gives you and the kids change of scenery. Plus helps with boredom. I didn’t do it everyday when my kids were young but at least 3 times a week. Great job mom.

[@aepark24]

I NEED to try the “get out of the house” habit for sure! Thanks for adding this one!

[@marywatson7]

I started the Bible recap when you mentioned it in a previous video. And it has been the best decision. So thankful you mentioned it! I had been doing a different “bible plan” and it was not working for me. I find that I LOVE reading the Bible and look forward to it! Thanks Megan and love your videos!

[@Sa_Raw]

I really liked this and definitely need to drink water! That was a nice reminder. But I cannot leave the house everyday! I have 6 kids under 10 including 3 month old twins and leaving is an event at this stage. We homeschool our kids as well so there are some weeks when I am lucky to leave the house once all week. 😅 I know it will get easier when my babies get older and we don't have tons of snow!

[@shantelgoode5069]

Hello I am a single mother to a 3 year old she will be 4 in August and I've been feeling depressed lately cause I really don't want to put my daughter in public school for the fear of something bad happening I want her to have a social life but I also wanted to homeschool will they also have a social life a time to play with others when they are homeschooled and could you tell me why you chose that route please??? Thank you!! :)

[@Sa_Raw]

@@shantelgoode5069 Hi! We chose to homeschool for so many reasons! It would take me longer then I have right now to list them all but the main ones were limiting negative outside influences and flexibility in our schedule and lives. My children have many social experiences that enrich their lives. We definitely had more before covid shut everything down but even now my children have many friends on our street that they are friends with and play with daily, my girls have choir practice once a week, and one of my boys has a karate class. We are also a part of a local homeschool P.E. class in our town and our homeschool program we are in also organizes local field trips. Not to mention playmates with friends. All that being said though I know plenty of children that go to public school and thrive there. Really you have to decide what works for your family and situation. As hard as it sometimes is, try not to let fear rule your decisions. I am sure that no matter which path you choose for your daughter she will ba happy and do well. At the end of the day we are all just trying our best for our littles ❤

[@jlsumner7]

My kids are grown but I still love these videos, love that you’re sharing what works for you, and all you moms are inspiring and motivating each other!

[@maggierose7689]

I appreciate this video so much! Every single one of these tips are SO helpful!! Keep up the great work Momma! You are inspiring so many!

[@carolyndallas818]

This is so helpful! Thank you for your effort to make this and share💕

[@savvyshoppingmomma5474]

I desperately need to work on getting us out of the house more often. This past year has been such a downer.

[@MarionThiessen]

YES I am such a proponent of leaving the house every day as a homemaker. I’m lucky that I live in a city with great library programs, swimming pools, drop in centres, and parks. I try to take my little guy out to an activity every day. It helps him get out energy and sleep better, and I love the opportunity to talk to fellow adults!

[@empresswb641]

Make my bed before anything else Take my vitamins right after that Making my bed takes like 2 minutes and just makes such a huge difference.

[@sophiehomemaker]

I loved this video! My husband and I have friends who said they spoke to you down in Florida. I was so jealous. Lol Also, one habit that we've been doing every evening is reading a Bible story to our kids. It's really helping them to learn to listen intently (because they get rewards for all the questions they can answer in the end), and also to raise their hands instead of shouting out whatever they want to say. So far, it's been working out great!

[@w1f2h3]

Water play/sensory table time. My kids love water, what kid doesn’t! When it was -40 and to cold to go out we did some day time tub time or put some water into the sensory table. Added some scoops, funnels and Pom poms were a huge hit!! This week I added dry kidney beans to our sensory table. I know I know I’m going to get some people shaking their head that I’m wasting food. But we do a lot of non food items too! Fake snow, water beads, packing peanuts and even tossed in real snow and painted it when it was to cold. My comment is becoming very long, oops! Anyway sensory play, even calms my mind when I sit and play with the Littles for a bit too :)

[@a_mags_therealtor]

Omg I love the tip about just stopping and playing with your kids. I’m not a kid anymore I don’t know how to sit down and have an hour long play session anymore and I’m glad you’re honest about the realities of trying to juggle the housework and giving the kids some time too.

[@jukes243]

Completely agree with getting out of the house every day. No matter which stage of life you're in. The kids are growing up!

[@jenni8759]

When your kids are little I definitely agree with getting out of the house everyday. We had a routine of our outings; Monday was park or indoor playground day, Tuesday library day, Wednesday their choice, Thursday friend meet up day, and Friday another library day. It for sure kept my sanity and helped them run off energy. My kiddos aren't little anymore so their personalities and preferences get more of a priority than energy demands and needed nap times. One is more of a homebody and the other wants to be out all the time. It's all about balance, LOL. Thanks for sharing these tips!

[@jessicashowalter2304]

Ahh yes! my kids LOVE that grocery store too ☺️ Making my bed and drinking water are big for me too. We don’t leave our property every day but we try to be outdoors most days even if we’re not driving somewhere. Also taking a break to read if things are rough. 💞

[@camillemason7989]

I love tip #7!!! I have a newborn and at first I thought I needed to stay home with her 24/7 and I started going nuts. Now I try to go for a walk with her or have someone watch her for a bit each day so I can get out of the house and my mental health is so much better! I need the change of scenery.

[@martaanghel6825]

I've also started the Bible Recap to read through the Bible, at your recommendation may i add, and I love it ❤️

[@mjlvnv]

I totally agree with getting dressed and doing your hair every day. It definitely makes your day much more productive. I believe that making your bed and no dirty dishes helps your mood and outlook too. One of the things that has always helped me since I first got married 38 years ago was to not acquire too much stuff. I taught my daughter this too, that less is more. She has definitely embraced this in her home and it frees her up to spend more time with her husband and to always, well almost always, have a clean and orderly home when her husband comes home and a home cooked meal. She has really embraced meal planning too. She loves your channel too. You are a great example of a Proverbs 31 woman

[@crystalnifenecker4599]

My husband and I always have devotions in the evening and we work on memorizing scriptures. I also try to do 15 minutes of a intentional educational task that pertain to their needs I also read two/three Bible stories to my kids before nap time and we do evening devotions as a family.

[@MeganFoxUnlocked]

Wow! I really like your system!