The 7 Common Mistakes People Make When Manifesting | Mel Robbins

[@impb6606]

Mistakes we commonly make during manfesting: 1. Not consistent, manifesting should be done daily, visualize and feel it 2. Framing yourself with negative thought (ex: I dont want..., I wish I could...) 3. Manifesting doesnt have time limit. Do not put a specific time frame on manifesting 4. Too focus on the big end goal without visualizing on each step to reach the goal, will actually discourage us to continue manifesting 5. Thinking you should have to have all the answers (when we dont have the answers, we becone so easily unmotivated) = Just become the student, to do the work to get what we want even though we dont know how 6. Not doing anything about it 7. Celebrate even the small win

[@lindapitchford4941]

Thank you for your effort !

[@iamLeilaSafary]

Thanks🙏

[@andicollins1546]

Been following manifestation techniques since the beginning of 2021. It's been good and bad and totally confusing. So much content on KZbin and a lot can be contradictory. You are the only one I've watched that has explained shit the right way. Love and respect. Here's to 2022.

[@princeekeson12]

People forget about the WORK aspect of manifesting. I agree with the idea that seeing yourself do the work makes the work easier to do. That's the real "secret."

[@lucylight176]

yes, this makes so much sense :)

[@erikflores7739]

The WORK is definitely the real secret

[@jeffholmquist182]

I've never worked a day in my life but enjoyed the best I could of each blessing of a day who created the word of work I mean look at the word Junk meaning worthless & No Value! Everything has meaning & worth! Lessons Lessons thanks Let's Keep it what is to be what is !

[@jeffholmquist182]

LISTEN TO WHAT IT BE! LISTEN LIGHTING LOYALTY TO ONESELF 1

[@lucylight176]

@@jeffholmquist182 For me this 'work' we visualise as part of manifesting -is more about the inside, mental health, good self-esteem type work we do to get there. I am aware of Abraham Hicks -'take inspired action rather than motivated' as regards the action/work thing. But I do like this too. It has helped me. But as I say, mainly about the 'inside' work am doing/will do. Love n Light!!

[@deevabieber3038]

Omg I have been watching videos about Law of attraction for years. This is the best one

[@patrice7p]

Oooh😳 mistake nr. 4: only looking at the end result! So that is why i t felt impossible to manifest my goal and spiral downwards that i was not good enough to manifest… you are brilliant!!! Rhonda Rhyms should add that to the Secret , in order to not lead people into disillusionment!! THANK YOU ❤️🥰

[@garysimone4977]

She explains this waaay better then Abraham or Joe D and not asking for hundreds / 1000s to learn.. thank you Mel

[@gerihenry2261]

Perfect timing, Mel!! Replacing the words "MY RESOLUTIONS" with "MY MANIFESTATIONS". This is a kick-in-the-behind for anyone and everyone who complains that life just isn't going their way... well, maybe because WE never created the map. Love you!

[@iamLeilaSafary]

I liked the part that said: "Just don't look at the end! Visualize the steps and take actions towards it in your daily base routine!"

[@anna_ulrike]

Omg. This is awesome. I am starting all over in my life and today I was thinking that I need to do my things as when I was a student .... I was much more efficient, and boom here comes your video my way ❤👑❤ thank you 💎

[@renata13725]

Wow, this is such a timely message from God thru you!

[@MzMayaJ]

Everybody doesn’t imagine in steps and there’s pretty successful manifesters out here with just visualizing and feeling end goal

[@MotivationTub778]

I’ve always heard that you should be living in the end, that’s your job and how you’re gonna get it is a gift from universe. But the way you explained everything is more logical and inspiring… Thank you so much ❤️

[@jeannena100]

Mel says - "I can't wait....."? Perhaps use more positive words and in the present - like " I appreciate that I am taking inspired action today."

[@evapmama-blue77]

Thank you for the reminder of writing what I want every morning- did this years ago (after listening to Brian Tracy) wrote 10 items every day and I got: my new apartment- a car gifted to me by my old landlord- a respectable raise at work - thank you for all your lessons- I’ve been binge watching 😃💕

[@JuanRodriguez-gj5zk]

So basically kinda meditate and visualize and feel yourself taking the action on what you want right ?? And instead of doing it in the morning can I do it at night before bed and listen to affirmations based on what I'm trying to manifest? Thank you for your time

[@a.d2933]

Yeah pretty much. Doing it in the morning is better tho. U carry the feeling throughout the day.

[@JuanRodriguez-gj5zk]

@@a.d2933 thanks for the reply and yeah I would do it in the morning but I gotta get up early for work and don't have the time I like to get my sleep lol

[@MonkyDollqueen]

To See Light Look At The Sun, To See Love Look At The Moon, To See Hope Look At The Future, To See Beauty Look At The Nature, but To See All Of This Look At The Mirror!!

[@Maxhindle]

Let’s manifest the most amazing 2022 people! You deserve it 😁😁🔥

[@angeslinda]

Thanks so much for this Mel. Working on my manifesting skills. Anything helps. Seen many videos but yours here is one of the best I have come across. You are a huge inspiration ⭐️

[@mettaleecixin]

- morning dream: write 5 things I want - manifest: see yourself doing the things to get the things you want. Feel them deeply. - take an small action: that's inspired by the thing you want

[@gabrielapinho]

Abraham's segment intending indeed

[@farfetched9296]

Honestly write down 2 at a time. It keeps you focused and you won't be working on too much at once

[@judivandeveer207]

I " can't wait" is a. Negative" having a calm relaxed state is .y prefrence

[@randomyokovlog]

Hearing the logical explanation of manifesting process makes me realize that my blockage is that I’m telling myself subconsciously that I don’t deserve what I want. Now I stepped forward with the realization! Thank you!!

[@Maxhindle]

In order to really manifest that which you desire, you must begin to embody the feeling… the way you truly embody it is by practicing it! You don’t become a body builder by doing one gym session… it takes reps if you’ve never done it before ❤️🙏🏽😁

[@MiraciaJeannoute]

That is a great video, thank you very much but what about the speaking part? Do you make affirmations? Or speak it to existence?

[@girthybrowns4489]

“Not date losers anymore” 😂 Oh Mel… if you were a guy, you’d be cancelled

[@michellejean8068]

Literally creates neurotransmitters. I' m an educational Kinensologist and you are spot on. Action is the next step for sure. Happy New Year. It's already a Super Year. Can you feel it ? Wow. Thank you for being so real. Yes then celebrate your success. Hi 5 to you Sister. .

[@sarahdgreatday]

"I appreciate your work and willingness to live big. You are very supportive and helpful. Your focus is impeccable. I do wonder if you think that the words " I am so grateful my vision is on it's way" or "I love that my vision is getting closer and closer every day", or saying "I am so excited that my vision is just around the corner." feels more positive than . .""I can't wait" as the preface. Just a thought. Thank you so much for the value you consistently add to my life. Keep rocking on Mel and team!!!

[@dank5770]

(wife Abby typing) I am envisioning my own version of LIFE board game with categories like Mel has in her Mindset Reset guide. I don't like making long lists or crossing off days on a calendar or planner because it makes me feel productive on paper but not in real life. "Hey look at me I crossed off "wake up" "stare at the wall" and "drink 3 cups of coffee (not water)" . Aren't I great at using ink. Well I am off to creative a cool game to track my progress. I will be using different combinations of art media and my home-grown imagination. Thanks Mel! for the inspiration.

[@laurafahey542]

Are you going to not let a girl sorry love you Laurafahey and PA

[@beamadeinbrazil]

“You job is declare what you want” 💕✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@violetfekete2885]

It is amazing how the universe works, lately, I have been wondering how should I manifest or am I doing what I am supposed to. And BAMM! I came across your amazing video regarding manifestation. Thank you, Mel!

[@marciafreidenreich8057]

Hi Mel! According to Louise Hay, (of blessed memory), put your goals in the present, such as “I AM calm,” “I have a job I love”, I am in a great relationship”, etc. Love ❤️ you and listen to you every day!

[@shireenpadhye8450]

This is flawed according to me ...here for one instance she says you might not know how to do a certain thing or the steps required to do so then she says visualize yourself doing the steps but for God's sake I don't know how to do a certain thing how am I supposed to know the steps? And to visualize that how is it gonna happen?

[@haleymilbrodt8080]

Research the steps so you know where to start?

[@LeeSunMusic]

Do you know any steps at all that would move you towards what you want? Start with those. Like if you want to be a published author, start with writing every day. Start with what you have, and more will open up as you go.

[@shireenpadhye8450]

@@LeeSunMusic if I want to be an author I need ideas so basically ideas for doing anything unique or creative be it a business,writing a song/book or film scripts everything requires an idea and currently I don't have one

[@LeeSunMusic]

@@shireenpadhye8450 Do you want to be an author? If so, why? What do you already love to do, or love to think about? Ideas are not something external that you find. They are within you, they are a part of your unique authentic self, and so the work you need to do is asking yourself what you really want to say, what you want to give to others. The work is about getting to know yourself. The more you get to know yourself, the more you’ll release ideas from within. Do you spend time writing every day? Whatever you do every day is what you’ll get better at. So start there…..

[@chanovimakarios363]

Hi from Jakarta, Indonesia 🇮🇩!!! Thank you very much!!! God blessed y'all....🔥👏🏻💪🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻❤️🇮🇩

[@stephanieperez2067]

The small wins…helps me to be grateful for the ability to desire what I want, and celebrate those wins.

[@Retirement-online]

WOW! Tony Robbins ad before Mel -- he's trying to get her audience! :)

[@mandyoconnor923]

These videos are genuinely the best tutorials I have seen on manifesting. Very clear and practical. I love your delivery too. Thank you for sharing x

[@NoExitLoveNow]

Please, everyone, please stop using the word manifest like this. It is ridiculous.

[@lynnluisi6226]

I have just spend the best 1:05 this morning. Listening to Mel while I take down my Christmas tree and decorations. Now I’m ready for a brand new year.

[@courtneysmith6697]

I’m so glad she mentioned this journal, I’ve been looking for something like this.

[@DemetriPanici]

*"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe"*

[@joycesegers5578]

Yes! So good ...Thanks Mel!! ✋🥳💜🙏🚀 Just finished your new book, High Five Habit on Audible! Getting the journal today...Thank You!! 🙏

[@hughjay4846]

What always helps me get out of my head/start moving is saying my affirmations out loud 🗣💯✌️📚📕

[@karenscholtz7974]

Question...If you put out to the universe "I CAN'T WAIT to..." , wouldn't that cause anxiety, stress? Saying you can't wait shows you still haven't received it. How about saying 'I enjoy...', 'I appreciate having...', 'I am thankful for...'

[@Brightsidesmile]

Karen you’re one of only three people in the comments and me for that notices I noticed it immediately he’s completely contradicting herself and missing the boat on a lot of things although she does have a couple of good key points absolutely but there’s just way too much in here

[@walkerdaniela3799]

Why did you say " I CAN'T wait...." 20 seconds after you said frame it in the positive? To affirm in the positive Say" I'm so excited to have a calm and confident state of mind"

[@walkerdaniela3799]

Or I am aiming towards... I am looking forward too

[@Nurturedbynature-1111]

Thank you 😊 💓 I needed to be reminded to not just look at tye end goal, but feel and see all the preparations in between. That and patience, woa still working on that!

[@nash1264]

1. Manifest Daily. The lack of consistency is what killing your ability to achieve your goals. Make manifestation part of your daily routine. 2. Framing manifestation based on what you don't want. Always frame positively around the things that you want. 3. Getting really impatient. You start off strong, manifest every morning for 3-4 but than start to procrastinate yourself. And then boom, you don't do it for five or six weeks. For manifesting to work properly there is no timeline involved. 4. Only looking at the end goals. Do the work. Don't image the end goals only. Cause you realize the impossible gap from where you want to begin and end product. 5. Thinking you have to have all the answers. Become a student of whatever it is you want. Study people who have already done it. Your path will not be the same as somebody else's. You can still see yourself as walking down somebody else's path. 6. Not taking any actions. Freaking take the steps. 7. Not celebrating the small wins. You're not recognizing the small wins that you have. Look for angel signs

[@priyankachowdary3395]

Deeply grateful for taking the time out to write this! It helped me and I hope it helps millions of people. All the best to your life😁

[@vickihodges7177]

You should be thinking & writing what you want as if it is already/has already happened - not "I can't wait" for whatever.

[@laurafahey542]

What do you say you want to move south like to Florida where I grew up but I have a sister in Georgia and Tennessee and I kind of want to be close to them so either way I want to move south I guess I have to get more specific car? And then what are you do I have to drive there and?

[@lb.8008]

Thank you so much for cutting to the chase and no bull .I've been delving into this for over a year and am only thinking of the end not knowing how I get there . I visualize only the last scene. So far nothing so am going to try this .Seems more logical and will let you know how my change works out. You are confident and inspiring. Thank you for sharing ps if I see smaller goals happening will get my spirits up.soooooo helpful

[@aida087]

I love this and you Mel for all you do, your passion literally shows in your GORGEOUSNESS and beautiful soul!! Today I was thinking of how I really want to live a better life in 2022 and beyond and your video pops up!!❤️🥰🙏🏼

[@Coffee_chai]

This is so clarifying, and actually makes a lot of sense. I've been struggling with the approach to manifestation that tells us we just have to believe, and this here is just what I needed to see it clearly. 🙏 Sooo thankful.

[@optimisticfairy8888]

Thank you Mel for the wonderful and very helpful video🦋🦋🦋🦋

[@evapmama-blue77]

I’ve been using the habit of writing down 10 items I want in my life - learned this from Brian Tracy - within 1 year I got my new apartment- had a car gifted to me ( by my old landlord) - a raise at work - I was blown away! - thank you for the reminder- I needed this

[@prakharmittal8804]

Are you still manifesting? Is it still working for you?

[@TheSpokenSpatter]

Mel, I haven't watched TV (aside from my fav series' finale season that was delayed due to COVID) since June! I didn't set out to not watch; but I have become a perpetual student. It started with an awakening of sorts. I was led to various topics over and over again which would then lead to other things that interested me. I started writing to help with my self healing process - a dream I have had since childhood. Manifesting has been a huge part of my journey among many other self-help behaviors. My life is being recreating BY ME daily. Your messages have played an intricate part as well. I have started my own channel where I share my stories and poetry and have even written a song! Bring on 2022~I'm Ready!! Thank you from Texas. ~ Be Kind. ~ I Insist. ~ Penny

[@denisewise7849]

Re-wording really works and I love it....thank you

[@avengingscapegqat4598]

Is there a way to manifest when you have absolutely nothing. I don't even have patience...I'm Sagittarius...dahell is patience? But seriously my family won't even talk to me.

[@icebox_Intruder]

Maybe (likely) it's because they're bogus informants, but theres too much confusing and conflicting info. For example, your first mistake is the opposite of some advice saying (basically), "set it and forget it. Let the universe take it from there." 🤭🤫 ...and she said shit.

[@crystalmorrison1539]

Love Love Love you Mel,thank you Just ordered journal from Amazon, Delivery date was Dec.31st. What a great way to start the New Year.

[@jvandystadt]

It’s amazing how Mel has the ability to simplify and make herself clear. Thanks

[@Abdab917]

How do you see and feel yourself taking actions to have financial freedom? I have been working at the same job for over 35 years. Don't like my job. Actually want to retire and spend time with loved ones. Do I visualize the steps I would take to buy a lottery ticket or picture myself looking in my mailbox for check or checking my bank account for an unexpected deposit?

[@farfetched9296]

For a partner become the partner you're attracting. For money listen to your soul desire study visualize and make the moves and remember patience is key🙂

[@debiKardas]

And how works with when you want an old partner back? How can i manifest the best,

[@ButterflyLyfDrAishwaryaRaji]

Visualising every step sounds nice and easy to do.. Less initimadating... But also I have manifested many things by just visualizing the end and with or without actions.. So I guess it works all ways.. Taking Action is very important though❤ Thank you for amazing tips

[@fireinthesky3018]

This is great but I'm just wondering about a certain percentage of people, who can't form mental images in their minds eye , would get on if they needed to manifest ? Apparently there are people who can't visualise at all according to what I was reading about . A small percentage of the population. I'm glad I'm a very visual thinking person.

[@shreerajsawant3284]

Hello ma'am So one thing that i want you clear that When you get up in morning you write the five thing you want to achieve or you need related to that the 5 that you want achieve should be the same thing till achieve them or can be different by the next day... Please tell me... 😇

[@harlankrissoff9966]

Angel numbers? That sounds too much Like magic. First the universe will not give it to you. You have to know what you want and how to get to it like the others in the series. I wonder if this is #1 or what because I listened to the four steps before this one and woul be nice if you put them in order in the description. You visualize in the proper sequence because you have to train your mind in to come up with the right way to work. Thank you for the template samples. I wll print those out and have them to work on before I start work everyday.

[@Annsu2017]

Hi Mel, 👋 When I try to visualize a scene from my future to manifest it(all the nitty gritty hard work actions or even end goal), all I can see is the full picture of the room & people in it from a bird's eye view and I'm unable to picture myself & visualize it in my first point of view. Is something wrong with my brain?

[@sherrythebirthdayclown3634]

Because I have severe health problems I never know when I'm going to get up because I am so sick but before I go to bed each and every day I believe that I will finally have the money to move out that it will finally come to me I will close my eyes and I will believe I even believed that each and every day I will finally have the money to help me achieve my goals in my dreams I believe in this on those days when I can barely walk as I'm just getting into bed I keep going each and every day believing that I will achieve these moments where I can finally move out on my own where I can deal with my health problems on my own in my own on my terms where if I am feeling severe pain where I can not walk because the pain is crippling I believe that I can finally get this where I don't have to worry about people wondering why I am too tired to get up because of my chronic fatigue syndrome fibromyalgia scoliosis rheumatoid arthritis IBS problems I will be able to do for me and not worry about anything but me worry about making me happy not having to explain everyday that I have severe health problems that caused these things

[@karenbelland7519]

#4 I always felt my Vision Boards I made and looked at everyday, made me more depressed, discouraged & shameful. Felt something was wrong with me. Thankyou for sharing!

[@unmaskedoracle]

I track Angel numbers, synchronicity and animal spirits for messages. Since I’ve started listening to them I’ve taken a sledgehammer to my obstacles. I’m getting more consistent with celebrating small wins. This was something I wasn’t rewarding myself for.

[@helena1shilongo328]

Wow beautiful been looking for this for this for the longest tym. Thank u❤

[@LB-W]

What if you find it impossible to imagine things you want. What if you can’t see a future you? What if you have no desires?

[@saintmichael9736]

THERE IS NO ONE LIKE JESUS CHRIST AND YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN AND YOU MUST OBEY GOD AND YOU MUST BELIEVE AND YOU ALREADY HAVE WHAT YOU NEED ✨

[@mariaelizabethtempelhoff3014]

If my friend wants to manifest money like lotto not wanting it because of lack just asking your mind to manifest on it and patiently waiting for it to come ?to believe and have faith ?

[@zanaspero9253]

Reframing is awesome. The other reason that we manifest what we don’t want is that the universe doesn’t know the word ‘don’t’, so, saying , “i don’t want to live where I am now.” The universe reads it as “I want to live where I am now.” Just put the positive desire out there. In time the universe will answer!

[@schonandfriends]

So, Mel, if what I am trying to manifest is recuperating my specific person, what are some examples of the actions I need to take while manifesting?

[@lisacam2549]

Confirms my to do lists and attached science to it. Another form of positive energy furthering my commitment to my goals. 👍

[@setthestandardsimracing8689]

I work as a cleaner but want more from life, I keep visualising and trying to learn to msnifest as I believe in this beyond a doubt. my dream is an online clothing business, everyday when I get to a certain point I get really bad butterflies but it feels like it's saying to me that I need to get off my ass and go get it its weird as its so intense but I can feel this extremely intense anxiety along with it? What is this saying to me? I have mild autism and I truly believe that a clothing line business is my future I see it everyday in my mind clear as water.

[@thelastminutetrade]

Manifest with right Nd practical approach or your manifestation will be less effective 🤔😍😍

[@theNDnutritionist]

These are all 💯and what everyone needs to know. Wish someone told me this 12 years ago when I made my first vision board for the end goals! 😂❤

[@susendrakumarsubramaniam2655]

Thank you for giving helpful ideas to move on to my goals 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@laurabaukol]

What if you don’t know the actions you can take? How do you figure those out so you can use manifesting to see yourself doing the actions?

[@ChittarupaYoga]

Thank you for the breakdown and easy details to make this a clearer process for me.

[@ginamarie4112]

So how do you fully manifest if you aren’t even sure of the steps that need to be taken to make it happen?

[@findog78]

When you write down the 5 things, do you write the same 5 everyday until they are reality? Do you work on them all at once?

[@yamicout2]

I need to carve this video in my brain. Thank you Mel

[@niligiritahr]

Thank you Mel for explain and pointing out the mistakes that we make in this exciting journey. I am able to connect with each of the 7 mistakes. Please can you clarify on writing 5 things I want daily, can I write the same thing that I want every single day? Thanks a ton for all the work you are doing.

[@leanemkwananzi6064]

i have been listening to ur videos Mel and i have learnt much from you ,i mean you so honesty and truthful not like others

[@ginawagner6956]

5 new things a day or the same 5 things over and over everyday?

[@cyb3rang3l_b8be]

Thank you Mel 💛 I love having women like you to learn from. It’s so hard but I people like you really help. A HUGE thank you for everything.

[@meramero2551]

This is how the law of attraction works, So We must be careful. I love you from Morocco 🇲🇦

[@guadalupecontreras3701]

I committed myself to start on this journey today I know I will be healed

[@braderwin9620]

Manifesting through your own hard work?

[@michellejean8068]

Thank you Mel. Perfect lesson. Let Us know when you learn how to walk on water ! Love to you and your channel.

[@johnkirvan679]

I like the daily journal. It puts me into the right mindset everyday.

[@marybueno5367]

Thank you for this video. It was so clear to clarify my mind about my manifestations mistakes. I'm a biginer on this just a student as you mention. Looking for knoledge and researching information about manifestation and just now I could find a step-by-step explanation of how to be consistent and persistent with what I want to manifest. So egain, thank you so much for this video. You're amazing. ❤️

[@mkindustry6071]

13:43 neville goodard said to look at the end goal

[@joannawhitehat2255]

Ima get the high 5 journal and use it to help me do this life in a positive manner.

[@davidclark3603]

Absolutely brilliant. ThNk you. I instantly subscribed.

[@MaryMichelleWorthy]

This was so inspiring. Thank you Mel❤️

[@jslevenson101]

Just, Do No Harm. ❤️

[@pseudopuppy160]

When the teacher literally doesn’t do what they’re trying to teach. 🙄 You say “focus on what you want. Don’t focus on the negative”.... And your ENTIRE PREMISE of this video is FOCUSSING ON THE NEGATIVE!!! 🙄🙄🙄 “What you’re doing WRONG”. So clearly YOU can’t follow your own advice. 😒🙄😒

[@adityagautam2798]

You haven’t seen the entire video and it shows , your statement is wrong idiot