Men are PARASITES, Not Partners - Scientific and Anecdotal Evidence CONFIRMS

[@andronicangwenya6934]

33 single and childfree. I'm so glad I dodged the bullet.

[@msher33]

@@andronicangwenya6934 same here

[@enchanted222]

I filed for divorce after discovering your content and I couldn't be happier. My nervous system is starting to regulate. Lisa, you are doing the goddess's work. Thank you. It is my hope that women all over the world wake up.

[@Jac527]

Congratulations!!! Cheers to your regained freedom and independence 💃💃💃💃

[@Selflovematters4life]

Congrats!!

[@nikicarrie4071]

@@enchanted222 wow 🤩 congratulations 🎊🎈🍾🎉

[@HamletsMill1969]

@@enchanted222 I am very proud of you for summoning up your courage to save 1 life, YOUR LIFE! Try dark chocolate, sunshine and exercise when you feel down in these new challenges. Stick with this channel bc education is paramount! ❤️🙏

[@jsChelimo]

@@enchanted222 Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉

[@WishSweety2015]

Being burnt out emotionally and physically equals Autoimmune Issues. If you don't take care of yourself you end up sick and bitter.

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

And it doesn’t get better then either. if you are sick, even with severe chronic illness it just makes them resent you more.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

​@@MyDuckSaysFuccAnd then leave, which is a blessing in disguise.

[@kaylam8707]

This is true! When I was young and dumb. I suddenly developed multiple chronic illnesses from years of trauma from being abused by a narcissistic king baby draining me.

[@nikicarrie4071]

This is true

[@Alexiskin16]

@@kaylam8707 omg I think all of us women lived this same life in our twenties. Bc SAME!

[@loufrando]

Was married for 18 yrs, 3 kids. 8 years now single. The moment he left the house, it felt like an anchor that was drowning us was released as we could sail. It felt like being released from a POW camp. Life felt 200% easier on my own with 3 kids than with his ‘help’. He was a DRAIN. Emotionally, physically and even financially. A DRAIN. A WEIGHT.

[@08Davis2]

I used to think that "I have to teach my partner how to x,y,z...." and then I became tired and resentful. Don't do it! Men need to arrive as partners not unfinished projects. Barb the builder is retired! Love the video ❤

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Be smart, stay Single

[@arthurcallahan4735]

People are human. Men and women both have flaws. And both need to put work into a relationship. Hence the name. Ship. A ship needs a good crew to sail effectively through life.

[@arthurcallahan4735]

@@CordeliaWagner1999 With that advice people are not going to reproduce. Women without families lose their ability to have them eventually and then have to trick themselves into being happy with material things like money.

[@expensivenoodle]

@@arthurcallahan4735What delulu bullshit

[@SuburbanoidMisfit111]

@@arthurcallahan4735

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Fun fact: when I got too sick to keep up the cleaning my ex didn't step up, he stopped even bothering to wipe up his spills! When he finally left and I got well enough to get cleaning it took me months to scrape it all off, just in the kitchen! All because I "wasn't contributing more than I took" when I was bringing in over half our income in support from my family. And he still calls me a lazy golddigger. (He knew I was disabled and it would get worse over time btw.)

[@staciegirlie]

@@aprildawnsunshine4326 This is a common story. My daughter is going through the same thing

[@SuperStella1111]

“Boys are easier to raise” no, boy-mama. You literally outsourced his raising to me.

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

This!

[@constancep7632]

My ex certainly was a parasite. "Providers and protectors"? Please. He consistently spent more than we made, mostly on his hobbies, then blamed me for our debt. He did less and less domestic work and childcare until he did none at all, and when I confronted him about it, he said he "did everything". When I finally kicked him out, my finances and health completely turned around.

[@seabreeze4559]

future faking as well

[@tearsofmina]

Glad you got out of that! I had a similar experience.

[@paperorpaper]

Omg this term has been driving me crazy the past couple of weeks. Every time I hear a story about a woman’s “partner” he’s always been neglectful, lazy, leaving her to fend for herself and got the nerve to title him as “partner.” I’m like ‘that’s not a partner, that’s liability.’ Seggs partner maybe, but partner in life? Very debatable.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

I put my leech out last April maybe. When we were together I was on so many different meds for depression, anxiety snd adhd. I shook constantly. I couldn’t remember anything. I hated myself so much. I just entered 2025 27lbs lighter, no meds of any kind. No shakes, clear skin and the beginning of building a business empire while being a single mom to two neurodivergent kids. He called me a dead weight just two weeks ago…look who was the deadweight all along. Ladies life is too short. Leave and be renewed. I am a living breathing literal example of what you are talking about. You and your mutuals are what got me to finally choose me. You really are telling the truth and you really are saving real lives. I appreciate you guys so damn much 😊😊😊

[@pipermcpickles5283]

I'm so happy for yooou! Congratulations for getting your life and yourself back, and I hope things just get better, more awesome, and more healed for you! 💖🪷💖

[@LoremLipsumz]

Congrats!! ❤

[@ineedhoez]

Awesome!!!!!

[@amilya4u304]

Congratulations! 🎉❤

[@MsHeyall]

Every time I start to think I want a man, your videos pop up in my feed and slap me back into reality!

[@iamwolf805]

😂 omg same!

[@lindamcgillin2263]

As a stay at home mom to three children i worked 110 hours a week of unpaid labor for two decades. I sacrificed my needs, my energy, my own dreams to our children, our home, my husband and his family for thirty years. Now I am 63 and am achieving my own dreams. I wrote a novel and am working on the connections for it to become an international tv series. While our children were young I had no time for myself. My husband loved his big career and many days he did zero labor around the house or do anything for his children. He got to have his three children while doing very little labor. I would say I am out of love with him now. He’s retired now and we really don’t see eye to eye. I have dreams and goals of a life where MY dreams come true.

[@Alexiskin16]

Break free love and enjoy your time ❤

[@lindamcgillin2263]

@ yes! Soooo many women are finding and claiming the freedom to be themselves finally. So many women though both globally and in America are trapped by children or oppression…..one of my massive goals for my epic tv series is to raise awareness of women’s rights, women’s oppression under patriarchy and to be able to give to causes. It’s an epic divine feminine story I wrote. It’s actually past life recall and a secret history which has never been told until I do. Inside Donatella 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@hannahmerritt2399]

You go girl! There’s always time for your dreams! ❤

[@Kotifilosofi]

Amazing! It's your time now, maybe your best years (not meaning dating but LIFE) are ahead 💃

[@lindamcgillin2263]

@ yes! I feel for so many women they have a chance in older years to become who they were truly meant to be… away from all the demands of family and partners and mothering. Those demands literally take up a woman’s whole life sometimes

[@Pinkpearls555]

2 days ago my mom was crying on the phone with relatives because I never got married nor had children. I always tell her that I never wanted to suffer like she did. Patriarchy really made these women long term pick mes

[@doberchic]

Stay strong. my mother is pushing 80 and treats her husband like a golden child, making sandwiches etc. He's never had a job the whole time they've been together , letting her work to support him, he's just a giant toddler. It's disgusting.

[@Pinkpearls555]

@ sad to see these women love husbands waaay more than their children and their husbands don’t even like them

[@ScarletteRose164]

My mom is telling me she can't wait to have triplets because of s dream she had. Her friends told her I'd say it was a nightmare but she didn't listen. They were right 😂

[@dragonfox2.058]

Yeah, after everything he put her through, my mom wanted me to do it too... Just NO. But I'm dyed in the wool gold star lesbian. Not that that's been easy either

[@Selflovematters4life]

I was married more than once but never had kids. It was my saving grace. I'm 51. She'll be fine. Either way its not of your concern. Stay true to you :)

[@crystaltiaratuesday]

The fact that I have had to deal with some of this garbage with platonic male roommates makes me livid to my soul. They just expect me to do more around the house because I’m a woman. I live dorm room kind of rules because otherwise they frequently take advantage of me financially and time commitments in the house.

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Move out and move in with female friends. Why did you move in with men?

[@kerjojo]

Being the dorm task manager is exhausting too.

[@Petunia3001]

Why I left my kid’s dad before the birth. I was just like “no. I’m not doing this. I’m going to be very busy with a baby, please go.” But then I had to follow-up with some therapy to keep it that way. Baby came, and it’s been the best decade of my life raising this child. Hard, but quite good, too.

[@ladyeowyn42]

It’s easier to be a mom when the guy isn’t there and you get time off when dad has custody.

[@thankyoujesus2836]

Out of sight out of mind. I wouldn’t trust a dude with my kid if I didn’t like him around.

[@thankyoujesus2836]

You’ll be repairing the damage later on. Good luck

[@jsChelimo]

💯. This is the real reason why so many dads don't seek custody and don't pay cs. They see the children as your job. And the ones who have 50-50 custody will bring in a new wife/gf to raise the kids and still feel resentful because they know that you have so much more time to yourself. It kills them to know that your workload has halved 😆😆

[@Tmama-sd1jo]

Not "have you tried gentle parenting him harder"😂😂😂 tf

[@formerlyknownas123]

I remember Ms. ArchDuchess referred to them as parasites about 10 years ago. But yet they refer to women as "the ball and chain." It's crazy.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

Right THEY are the ball and chain. It’s nothing but projection.

[@1108-g1q]

"He's big on dental hygiene" proceeds to tell us about how she reminds him to care about dental hygiene

[@ragingzim]

For him, it’s enough that he announces he’s big on dental hygiene, he doesn’t have to actually do it.

[@thankyoujesus2836]

@@ragingzim it just means he saw a female with ugly teeth and doesnt want to end up like that.

[@Plutos_Child69]

This is one of the reasons why I'm childfree. Best decision ever ❤

[@Empresssx]

And these are the same men that will drag them through court FOR YEARS fighting for custody.

[@sinisterkitty8411]

And then will pawn them off on the next unsuspecting slave maid they acquired 3 weeks after the divorce because they couldn't take care of themselves.

[@okaycola2]

Yepperoni

[@b1njjj95]

Correct!

[@notyet2345]

as a single, child free woman, I clean the house once a week. I wash clothes once a week. I cook when I feel like it and I only have to make appointments for myself. As soon as I get married, my workload doubles the nanosecond I get back from the honeymoon and increases exponentially with each child. I have come to the conclusion that I am incapable of loving someone so much that I want to work non stop for the next 50 yrs of my life. I am too lazy for marriage and kids. There's no way in hell I'm working from sun up to sun down for the rest of my life and than die an early death.

[@manifest2203]

It’s not laziness. It is about avoiding str5ess, d4genracy (of mn) and drama (which mn love). You do you ❤

[@amilya4u304]

you are wise

[@nikicarrie4071]

Thats not all marriage is. You will also get cheated on and abused

[@thankyoujesus2836]

@@nikicarrie4071 🤣🤣🤣

[@notyet2345]

@@manifest2203 Yeah, I have created my own little private utopia. When you enjoy your own company, relationships become optional. At this point in my life, I can't just trust anyone with my emotional, financial, mental and physical well being. The peace is amazing.

[@DREAMSSRREAL]

I let my ex go.. once I realized I had no interest in the stress that came from dealing with him.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

Yes

[@b1njjj95]

That is the way!

[@strwbryblondi07]

You keep preaching the truth! Women have been finding this out for generations - Simone de Beauvoir and Judith Sargent Murray (American Revolution era) both talked about how women get bogged down in the menial household labor and don't like it either, but men are not expecting to do it and can dedicate their brain and efforts to more important and impactful things (because women handle these things for them!)

[@Marina_Cathy]

Yes! And the same thing happens at professional work in 'male' industries... You get the 'helper' role to a dude who is way worse and less educated than you, to do invisible tasks that are the most difficult and that guy gets the credit for the project that you literally built but if he messes up his small part it will be blamed on you even though clearly his fault. Then they might praise you sometimes for doing STH very small to humiliate an dbelittle you, like for holding STH while they speak and so on, which if you get angry about you are 'horrible' 'mad woman' so you learn to shut up, fawn, appreciate and go along with belittling yourself because it is better than the alternative. There is no win. Ever. That's why 6B might truly be the only way- no contact. You can never win because it is created to be that way. That's why women drop out from male fields to keep the sanity they have left. But the impact might never go away. They employ you to destroy you. To show you that you might have the right to be there, because it was forced on them but they will never let you...

[@HamletsMill1969]

5th grade, I remember now. Boys would be given an assignment and would respond with, “Miss, I’m too cool for this.” Or “Miss, I can’t do this, I have ADHD.” I would respond with, “You have ADHD, that’s great! Because when you grow up, you’ll have a lot of money. You have so much energy that you can carry two jobs and a third job on weekends.” The kid would suddenly lock onto his new identity for having loads of money, and grab that assignment from a new perspective. Voila! My job was accomplished. Get them to do the assignment. ❤

[@eatplastic9133]

Too bad there are no money in home labour

[@nixeradicatus]

I started matching my bf's energy and now he's super depressed.

[@susanspencer1267]

That beautifully sums up my 30 plus year marriage. I've been divorced for over a year, and never have I been happier. :)

[@kristinbrowne8756]

I have been lumbered with a man for over a decade. When I realized he is a messy disgusting slob, I decided NOT to clean up after him. The result is that we live in a disgusting pile of shit. BUT I am staying strong. He tells the world how he "cleans" when nothing in our house is clean. I have moved 98% of my personal belongings to a storage unit, he does not have any access to. Whenever I move more stuff, he throws a tantrum. I work. He does not. I will be leaving him, when I am good and ready. Which at this point, I am NOT QUITE. But so close, he has actually begun to be relatively agreeable again, thereby confirming my suspicions. This makes it easier. Because when the day comes that I am ready to walk out, it won't even make me sad anymore. - AND NO. I don't put on make up. I work in IT - nobody cares about what I look like. And if and when they say stuff that would hint at that, I usually don't do more than any man would (for instance, wear a slightly nicer polo shirt, to go see a client - instead of my regular dumb t-shirts.) My plan is to leave this place with a lot of my daily clothes to be left here with him. I can't take everything - HE NEVER GOES ANYWHERE so I would need a legitimate reason to leave the house. But I see through his BS control tactics AND he knows it. So he throws a tantrum. I put earplugs in and ignore him - then he IMMEDIATELY gets control of himself again. (These tantrums were WEEK LONG.... now down to a few minutes - HE has adjusted his behavour according to the different milestones I have accomplished that make me more independent of him and he is aware.... but I am playing it slowly.... when I am ready - BUHBYE.... (Hello Restraining Order, New Phone Number, New Apartment, OWN CAR - I will be cancelling ANY PAYMENTS TO ANY ELECTRICAL BILLS AT THIS ADDRESS BEFORE WALKING OUT TOO.) Leaving behind the 51 year old I am currently still married to.

[@mossquanaut]

Be careful the day you leave Let a friend know to check in on you or even better be there with you to pick you up. When we leave trash men we are in danger. Men cannot handle the fact that we will be happier and better off without them.

[@mossquanaut]

🌿🌹🌿🌹🌿🌹🌿

[@mossquanaut]

The fact that they know damn well what they are doing makes me so angry. How he acts better just for a short time ... Why accept those crumbs when you can have a feast of a life alone

[@NM-qc2dh]

I’m sorry to hear that because he’s going to dump himself on some other poor unsuspecting woman😱

[@unicorn73212]

I think the study also showed that single women like me live the happiest lifestyles when they work a career and support themselves sometimes we get lonley and we find it harder to relate to people because we don't depend on our family's forever like men but we function the best and we're cleaner when we don't have kids or a husband. Unless that husband is rich and he is always away on a business trip. That would be the only time a woman would benefit from depending on a man is when he can elevate her and make her rich too and there's not a bunch of kids in the way.n

[@AndreiTraieste]

What’s crazy in a lot of families is that often the older daughter (where there is an older daughter) has more expectations placed on her by the age of 8 or 10 than the dad. That’s how you know he’s a man baby, because often a child has more responsibilities and agency.

[@natasha-ivankovic-42]

Edith Piaf said: I want a man in my life, but not in my house.

[@mossquanaut]

Nothing wrong with that. 🌹 I am open to the idea of having a lover but never living with a man again

[@natasha-ivankovic-42]

@@mossquanaut I understand. Completely.

[@C-Line-m2x]

This channel is becoming therapy for me. Even if he is trained well, trust me as soon as you begin to let things slide and pick up his slack, then you will end up slowly doing everything. My ex took pretty good care of his home and was always doing things around his house when I met him. His mom was pretty strict so I thought he was raised right. He would also tell me he was the first to finish his chores. Except that’s not how his brother remembered it. His mom also taught her boys to cook so they could fend for themselves. He would cook which was good . But it was apparently a weapon to make me believe he wouldn’t ever dump me with the “ workload” on me. All it took was me cooking one meal, he left the dishes in the sink for two days so I did them. It was down hill from there. Ladies, Do not clean anything for a man who isn’t legally tied you by law and a prenup. Make sure you both know who is responsible for tasks in your home before you become legally tied and heck put it in writing.

[@williamwalls8053]

People aren't dogs meant to be trained obedient to your exact wishes and needs,flip this onto yourself and find the problem

[@avSCompact]

@07:51 Is a good dad where???? Doing the bare minimum is NOT being a good dad. There are many cultures where little girls aged 9 years old, even younger are parentified to take care of the house and their siblings ( which is also very wrong), but who in their right mind would believe that grown men cannot do what little girls can???

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

very much agreed, as a man

[@nila375]

Bravo young lady!! I needed your wisdom 45 years ago. I did not understand what the hell was going on until literally about 5 years ago, I will be 60 in a few months and wholeheartedly and gladly cut them off at 55 because of the hell, disappointment and confusion I'd experienced for damn near 50 years. Bless your heart, I've been passing along your information to my youngest to hopefully spare her the shit I went through and have seen her go through. Also, so that she will be well informed and aware and at least have a choice with the knowledge to make well informed decisions as to whether she wants to deal with the BS and to recognize it when it occurs.

[@Alexiskin16]

Shew, I know what you mean and I’m younger than you. In my 30s but I WISH I HAD THIS in my twenties!! It’s because society completely lied to us all about who and what men really are!!!

[@nila375]

@@Alexiskin16 Oh yeah, my generation was completely indoctrinated into voluntary servitude. You've got time to create a well balanced relationship if you choose, and the tools to make it happen😊

[@themeg5199]

I would imagine this would translate to older daughters who are parentified

[@IYeleven]

Me, the older daughter that still is expected to handle household and outside chores while my younger brother gets away scot free

[@claudjarodnez]

🙋🏾‍♀️😔

[@meghanelizabeth9235]

Girl, you are literally SAVING LIVES out here. Bless you my queen 🙏

[@AlisonKenzoland]

The Sovereign Woman sent me 👏 shout-out to BurbandBougie and all of the amazing woman led content we have been graced with, Imani Forrester, Therese Lee, Elle Rae at spoiled girlie, Mel Hamlet and Shayna Conde! Yaaaaas Queens

[@claudjarodnez]

🙌🏾

[@Tiffthehuman]

I love how you don't sugar coat any of this stuff 👏🏽

[@uselesstalent36]

"...have you tried gentle parenting him harder?" 😂🤣 Brilliant!

[@user-FUCKYOU18]

She doesn't even have children of her own

[@ThatGirlYouKnow97]

Yeah… I’m not doing this anymore. (I don’t have kids, thank goodness)

[@crystaltiaratuesday]

So glad to have found your channel because of the Audaci-Tea pod. ❤❤

[@navideology]

❤❤

[@puddin12dt]

I’m gonna have to check out the pod, I haven’t seen that yet

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

2025 LET’S GO LADIES!!

[@IYeleven]

Every time my bro comes over to visit our mothers home, I have to clean up after him.

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

You have to? I would refuse. Is she abusive to you or something?

[@IYeleven]

@ No she’s not abusive but my bro would intentionally do a bad job of cleaning when my mom would try to get him to as kids. So it would fall on my shoulders as the older daughter. Thankfully now she doesn’t allow him over for more than one day a month. I don’t have to clean up after him as much as I would during his weekly visits.

[@JKH-m4y]

point it out girl, tell him he is weird and messy in front of people weaponized incompetence

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

@@IYeleven what is wrong with him? As a man, that's sad.

[@Greenplanet949]

I see why you’re doing that. Your mom has suffered enough from him. I am an eldest daughter too. I have 5 younger brothers, all married. Mom and I went somewhere with all their wives and it struck me how nice my mom was to them and how happy she was. (Some MILs hate their daughter in laws)I asked her about it later and she said “I love my sons, I really do, but they’re Men, and these poor girls now have to put up with them. The least I can do is be kind to them.”

[@edytadelfel249]

I been a single mum since splitting from my husband and on top of it all he passed away. Now I just focus on my goals and building my empire. Dating does not interest me anymore. I am not against it but nothing out there spark my interest. They all want to just have sex way too quick without liking you as a person.

[@PanteraRosa91]

I'm with you sis❤

[@user-FUCKYOU18]

You are recreational uses only

[@rockymountainfoothills]

Im 33 years old and childfree :)

[@nosoynadaoriginal]

My husband and I read the Fair Play book, which is fantastic but, I still wasn't happy with dividing chores like that, cause I carry almost all the mental load. I'm still the manager and the life coach, and his therapist, and the one that decides our goals and aims for the future... so, I don't do chores unless I feel like it, it's that simple. Works for us. He pays for everything and all chores are his responsibility and I help whenever I can/want. Not that it matters, but I'm building my own business and also have a lot of health issues, so I'm not making any income for now, but he is okay with that cause he has ALWAYS paid for everything. 8 years together and 3 married, we still struggle with a lot of things but getting better and more in love as each year passes and he sees how I'm doing well and getting my needs met. I still had to "train" him though, he still struggles everyday with the conditioning. Women should never settle, ever.

[@Jamhael1]

Stop trying to see men as a "defective woman".

[@anthill1510]

@@Jamhael1 Stop commenting the same thing under every comment.

[@anthill1510]

I don`t see why a man should have to pay for everything AND doing nearly all the chores, that`s just turning the thing around to disadvantage men, that`s still no equality or valuing each other. I also would never think about "training" another person. That`s what you do with a dog.

[@Jamhael1]

@anthill1510 and yet, my point stands: The author of those videos see men as a "defective woman".

[@NinaGothMambaNegra]

One of my autistic interest is the parasitic nature of vampirism in relationship to the mythos and politics of early civilizations. In ancient Sumer (the first "know" civilization) women were already subordinate to men and treated like appliances, like our lovely yv_edit is describing. This got worst after Sargon (Akkadian Empire) came along. Sargon is an idol in male-centered spaces, rightwing, redpill circles, for this reason: because he conquered both black people (sumerians) and their property (women). Now, this is the model that has been replicated over millenia, the pyramid: racism, sexism, labor. This is the structure men have been developing, defending, perfecting all along, and why women were kept away from "knowledge bases" those being temples or schools. Men have always been the real vampires. That's why vampirism media peaks at the same time as women liberation movements and their highly conversative responses. Oh yes, I'm that person that will ruin Nosferatu for you :) From vampire lover to vampire hunter.

[@nikicarrie4071]

Sumerians were not black

[@meghanelizabeth9235]

Stop it, omg…as if I needed yet ANOTHER reason to love Buffy the Vampire Slayer 😭❤️

[@sproutbliss]

💗

[@costumeink147]

This was interesting. And I find it interesting because it resonates with that whole thing about men caring what other men think. They're just copying Big Daddy Sargon. Hegemonic hasn't had an original thought since the Akkadian Empire.

[@Ninsidhe]

This is why it’s so interesting to hear Indigenous/Hunter-gatherer verbal histories regarding the organism that Native American culture called Wetiko- I recommend the book Columbus and Other Cannibals by Prof Jack D Forbes is you’re interested. The native cultures could spot a psychopath very very early and if they didn’t improve over time they were executed; the tribes and nations were VERY aware of the dangers these individuals posed. Our modern ‘civilisations’ were founded by Wetiko, which is why they are the way they are- like all dangerous life forms the only cure is extinction.

[@LizNeptune]

I couldn’t even imagine going to Therapy about this. I had two relationships like this and I pray that I’m not stupid enough to ever do that again but it’s either you gonna do it or are you gonna have to cough up the money to have a cleaner come every week or every other week. I’m not debating this with any man.

[@Karina.Annen2025]

❤❤❤ Lisa, you are the GOAT! You and other creators are why it's on my marriage contract to never move in with my fiancé! We will live across the street from each other and never have children (we have both been sterilized). As much as I love my fiancé, I will not do unpaid labor for someone else. I'm not even going to risk it. I will never be financially dependent on a man, thanks to my grandfather for leaving me a trust fund, as I'm currently only a 24-year-old law student in the UK. My fiancé is a young doctor.

[@kankenoh]

Your situation sounds very unique and interesting. How did you know you didn't want to move in with your husband? I've never heard anything like that before and I wonder what inspired you to make that decision?

[@Karina.Annen2025]

​@@kankenoh I always knew I didn't want to live with anyone. As soon as I moved out of my parents' home to go to college, I just knew I'd be happier living by myself, so I always had that idea in the back of my mind, especially as I watched my friends move in with their boyfriends. More recently, I've heard of people "living apart together," and it just clicked for me that it was the best possible arrangement. It's not that unique, people have been doing that for a while.

[@Karina.Annen2025]

@kankenoh I just always knew that I wanted to live by myself, ever since I moved out of my parents' home. Especially after my watching my friends move in with their boyfriends. So, that was always in the back of my mind. And that's not unique either, a love of people have living apart together relationships.

[@kankenoh]

@@Karina.Annen2025 Thank you for your insight. Everyone in my life ends up moving in together, like with no exception lmao. Your situation opened my mind to all the nice possibilities out there.

[@RuthWeiss-v5k]

Good idea!❤

[@demiladeayeni]

10:03 KILLED ME 🤣 "and they'll still be like where are the pink pants"

[@cbayliss2120]

Love your content ❤

[@trachbeba3488]

Look I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you will need to start uploading more regularly. I can't function without my daily dose so please 😑

[@Plutos_Child69]

+1

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Sounds like narcicisstic "jokefull" blackmailing....

[@trachbeba3488]

@@CordeliaWagner1999 As a Gemini, it's plausible

[@CitySlickerButtKicker]

She is the prescription we need to fight back this virus called... Patriarchy

[@CitySlickerButtKicker]

​@@trachbeba3488Is Lisa a Gemini?

[@vickimerritt2832]

PLEASE CLARIFY IT ISN'T JUST INSIDE THE HOME! MEN DO DISPORPORTINATE, if any, AMOUNTS OF WORK OUTSIDE THE HOME, THEY DO NOT MOW, LANDSCAPE, or TEND TO THE VEHICLE NEEDS, HOME REPAIRS OR ANY MAINTENENCE, SOME ARE SO LAZY, THAT EVEN WITH THE FUNDS TO PAY OTHER MEN OR WOMEN TO DO THEIR SHARE OF THE TASKS, indoors or out, THEY REFUSE TO EVEN DOING MINIMAL or none of the arranging for outsourced labor forms of "ADULTING"., and or refuse to pay for those services, also. Yes, I am yelling, by design.

[@7thlady]

Right there with you on this. I hear men say "you might cook more but he does all of these tasks." Uh huh. My ex-husband didn't. Just . . . nothing. He sat in his chair in front of the TV. And the two 45 minute sh*ts? Spot on. Single life is much, much better.

[@tynaangelici3023]

Weaponized incompetence. They are making their lives more difficult and miserable. Not to mention us women.

[@teresamagnusson]

I love that this channel is growing 😊

[@Jamhael1]

She is a narcisist - she does not offer solutions, and her sources are questionable, at best.

[@07Flash11MRC]

Yes. Women are finally waking up to the truth.

[@sub-zero5983]

​@@07Flash11MRCwaking up to what more man hating this is nothing new. Feminism with a different name

[@user-FUCKYOU18]

​@@07Flash11MRCwaking up for what ??? You still sleeping

[@aGoodNAZIisaDeadNAZI]

​@@sub-zero5983bohooo bohooo cry more 😂

[@dragonfox2.058]

She's BACK!!!!!!! 💞💞💞

[@cuearesty]

I love my husband, but damn, THIS IS TOO TRUE.

[@lifeofmim]

I missed you girl. I came back several times to see if you posted. Happy New Year! I hope you reach over 100k subs before the year ends 🎉

[@CultureCritic17]

I would love to see you do a collaboration with The Public Offender.

[@hayaq9991]

I love Pub

[@Greenplanet949]

I love him but I don’t comment over there anymore. There are some manosphere jerks in the comments who go on and on. One remark I did about unequal housework has 32 responses from one guy. He’s a bully. It’s mostly in that sneering tone we’re all so familiar with. Mostly, he’s responding to himself. It’s so weird.

[@charliebear154]

obsessed w this and obsessed w you girly, thank u for feeding us so well 💖

[@MissAnkh_ah]

Just found your channel, absolutely love it, you’re saying everything I’ve been seeing and realising so THANK YOU. Going to like 👍 and comment ✍️ on every vid you put out to help the algorithm.

[@LMG7]

This is one I needed today

[@chopsieflores4844]

I divorced my ex after nine years and one child. I don't have space to write what the issues were but sounds like a lot of you have also been there. Today, 32 years after we split, he calls our daughter. She asks why he rarely calls and then ignores her if she responds back? He ghosted her again! He called yesterday. He had told her 15 years ago he left because he had dementia. Well, he told her today, he had lied to her, again, still, always.I had told her I believed he was lying way back when it was first brought it up, but she was hoping it explained why he didn't seem to love her. Still causing pain to woman child. I wish I'd never met him.

[@Greenplanet949]

Aw Gee, that’s tough. Even with a few phone calls he hurts her. I am sorry.

[@seabreeze4559]

he was hoovering for a hospice care kid

[@lainfoz9310]

Just go no contact. This guy clearly has mental or a personality disorder that makes his company toxic, he is probably single and using your daughter to have a dose of dopamine and regulate his poor self steem by causing her pain since he doesnt have any other women to make miserable. This is how many men act they see women as a source of regulating their self steem by using violence (physical or emotional) to feel superior and important since somebody cared enough to feel sad or angry about their atitutes. Just teach her about narcissistic personality desorder, that she is not the one to blame for his atitudes and that a normal person would love her. Teach her that no contact its better.

[@Kotifilosofi]

Waiting for the first "this is ha te ful pro pa ganda ☹️" comment under her video 😂

[@georgecisneros5281]

Oh. Believe me, my friend. It doesn’t need to be stated…because everybody knows already (both those who take offense to it as well as those who embrace it).😉🤷🏻

[@lilascharmante2712]

That lady at 8:00 who is tired of training her husband just needs to learn to say " I don't know" and let him figure out. As long as she answers he will keep asking. She needs to make him the main adult by taking a real step back. She should know as much as a 5 year old would.

[@Jamhael1]

This issue is woman wanting control, not about sharing responsability. Lets be honest: woman see men in general as a "defective woman", and gets angry when men do not act in the way woman "would". Stop trying to control men - all you gonna get is rebellion.

[@desiree2086]

She just needs to leave him. He’s another child she needs to raise. Not worth it!!

[@morganeoghmanann9792]

@@Jamhael1 Expecting a grown man to figure things out for himself is not control. It's expecting him to act like the adult he demands to be treated as.

[@Jamhael1]

@morganeoghmanann9792 and yet, it is women who, in her quest for tyrannical control, refuse to accept the fact that men are not a "defective woman", and that it is her "duty" to "fix" the men whenever he does not act "according to the script". Besides, any time men tries to help women in domestic labor, the women simply see any action of men as "wrong", no matter if he is doing it voluntarily - somehow, women simply must do things in a "certain" way, or it is simply wrong, or worse, the women gives no explanation of WHY she does thing in that manner. Men cannot read minds - and no, we do not communicate like women do (we are horrible body language readers, nor we are good in multitasking). Stop expecting for men to do the contrary because women tend to hold the belief that a man is "a woman's mind in a male body".

[@07Flash11MRC]

@@Jamhael1 "This issue is woman wanting control": Lmfao, control over what? Women can't stop men from doing anything if the men really want to. How is the woman in control of anything in this day and age? "not about sharing responsability.": This is very much the issue, because women do all of the domestic and unpaid labor, whereas men do neither.

[@TamuMalone-b4q]

The ones that get old have the audacity to blame the mother when the child grows up and wants nothing to do with them.

[@Crys_Biss]

Sounds terrible. Learned helplessness. No thank you 😂😂😂😮‍💨 A PARTNERSHIP means something.

[@tigerprincess816]

This is going in the Validation Playlist :)

[@sproutbliss]

I looooove the GRWM and find your hand movements in rhythm with your reading aloud so very satisfying and relaxing. Love love love your work (and makeup!) thank you 💗

[@annaburns2865]

Exactly. My husband already severely neglects me. I’m probably about to divorce him. So I really don’t want to be a single mom with or without him. I’m already a single wife.

[@electron-Volt]

I love you Lisa, thanks for the video

[@Karina.Annen2025]

❤❤❤I love this channel! I can't wait to see them crying in the comments!

[@CAL-of9mu]

​@@sub-zero5983 Avoid women? Then why you here 😂😂

[@BehindTheBush96]

@@CAL-of9muHAHA they sure taught us women! 😂🤣

[@kankenoh]

Love your videos, I learn so much

[@m.h.f3350]

I don't get it, why did the OP put up with that guy in the first place? What did she try to figure out?

[@carlahaiduk1878]

Some people have to go through things themselves. It's not enough reading about men being lazy, inconsiderate. Although women have been around men ALL THEIR LIVES… they still get married, they still have children. If you told this woman not to get married 4 years ago,.would she have listened? O have a friend who got married and was complaining about her husband. I told her all her problems with him would go away if they lived in separate houses . Did she listen? No..

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

The brainwash goes deep.

[@m.h.f3350]

@carlahaiduk1878 hi, thanks for your reply. I understand that most men lie and betray. I also feel sorry for those who fall for such guys, and didn't know better, because it developed so over time. But when i hear such stories as you also mentioned it blows my mind. I still feel sorry for your friend also i tell myself, she has to live with those consequences, because she obviously devoted herself to this abusive relationship. I mean at some point and even when its obvious to the one that suffers, one also has to say that it is her fault too. I hear how many ex wives ONE abusive guy has and just think, now shame on him, but is it that?! What about his ex wives? Aren't they responsible for themselves too? I mean what does your friend think about herself? Is her role in her life passive solely? Is she only waiting for things to happen to her? I mean I'm a guy, and I earned not to automatically trust anyone who comes across, and blindly belife him or her. Why is it so hard for others to do so? Are so many people that naive today? But as we now, being dumb or ignorant doesn't protect you from the consequences. What do you think, if you would like to answer, I'm just curious ☺️

[@thankyoujesus2836]

Believing all the lies he told her, being vulnerable, craving love and affection, feeling lonely, possibly trauma bonding (meaning she was coerced into it, forced or threatened, or emotionally manipulated or guilt tripped/shamed for wanting to leave) a lot of these men study or KNOW how to manipulate women especially vulnerable ones, they’re their favorite

[@thecharredman8679]

This concept leads to a very bleak conclusion about the fate of our species.

[@Ratu_Adil.]

4B! 4B! 4B! 4B! 4B! 4B! 4B! 4B! 💅

[@Plutos_Child69]

Thank you ❤

[@cynthiakila1161]

Thanks out to the queen maker ,Princella for being the goat of this new wave of information . Yall need to reference her still .

[@concernedsa]

Yep some men are a burden and it’s heavy. And then further try to avoid responsibility.

[@DeathDirector]

You speak the GOSPEL❤❤

[@cjk7063]

We are a supply to them.

[@lizzyp174]

3:19 😂😂😂😂 Why is this so true 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jhod555]

WHY IS THIS SO TRUE!?!? My gods.

[@peachesandpoets]

So the husband is Steve from sex and the City

[@KossolaxtheForesworn]

well thats just my dad.

[@BehindTheBush96]

It’s EVERYONE’s dad.

[@ClaudiaHeemskerk-c2w]

Weer een goeie en informatieve film, thanks.

[@awaaa4767]

Thank you i needed this

[@BourgeoisBoys]

I'll be honest, I was very apprehensive about these videos... but now... I'm kinda seeing where you are coming from.

[@Orb-w3aver]

💚

[@bridgetb9899]

🤔 correct 👍

[@jen2332]

Off topic, but what kind of blush do you use? Also what shade? We are the same complexion or super close.

[@moniquem1873]

❣️❣️❣️

[@barneyy6942]

i loooove ur vids. one ques, does ur bf know about ur vids? what does he think about them, for eg. for the title of this vid.

[@Plutos_Child69]

Husband and she had nothing to hide.

[@noided5599]

she doesn't have a husband nor a bf . Do you think a person this full of hatred for the other sex can hide said hatred from loved ones ?

[@iamwolf805]

@@noided5599pretty sure she has talked about her husband on this channel before. Every woman I follow on this topic is married, some have kids too. There are men that do the work, just not the majority.

[@InternetNonsense]

She has found a unicorn loving husband, who encourages her to do this and is sometimes giving offscreen input during Audaci-Tea podcast she runs with peers. Seemingly he makes her life better and is a glow-up material, so out of the norm (in the best way).

[@noided5599]

@@InternetNonsense I think that's bullshit, do you think people with a relationship like that post people full of hate on the internet ?

[@earthgoddess4779]

❤

[@DivaDivine88]

Whats the lonk to the article??

[@lindseyrose4223]

🤍🤍🤍

[@Gchili]

Wait. I disagree. I disagree bc I've dated this kind of helpless man, I suppose. But I never made it to the gentle parenting stage. That kind of affect shows itself pretty early on, no? And I'm sorry for this next part... The type of toddler man goes along perfectly with the "organized, particular, co-dependant" style of woman. I know bc I have a mother like this. She's going to ask what he's doing any time he enters a room she isn't in. She's going to micromanage little activities as though he weren't capable of doing them without her supervision. She's going to sigh and make jokes about his incompetence. None of these are excuses or me placing blame on the woman (sorta). I've dated the type of guy with the potential to be this guy. But it's like a game of chicken, I'm not gonna break first, I'm not. I'll not care about this laundry as long as you don't care about this laundry. And you'll pick up on that pretty quick. The truth is, a lot of you cultivate an atmosphere where you coddled and looked after a man-child so much in the beginning, that you forgot you were a willing participant once real shit was on the line. Don't be happy to play the mommy role when it's cute and sexy then mad when there's a real mommy in the mix.

[@CenterWomen4B]

This is just victim blaming nonsense.

[@charliebear154]

@@CenterWomen4B 10000000%

[@obietravels652]

@@CenterWomen4Babsolutely, and starting with “mommy blaming.”

[@seabreeze4559]

yes they infantilised them exactly right

[@seabreeze4559]

@@obietravels652 no don't infantilise adults, it's simple advice

[@qwertyuiopasiii2822]

Glad I’m the exception. And I know I am the exception and not the rule with my wonderful partner ❤

[@CenterWomen4B]

We don't believe you. We'll check back on you in a few years if you're not hiding by then.

[@Elven.]

boost

[@cosmospray]

I agree but i don’t understand because you seem to have a partner yourself. Knowing there is no not all men

[@CitySlickerButtKicker]

Even women with good men understand it's rare and a majority know that when their husbands pass away, they never marry again because the outcome of another partner like him isn't going to come again. Because she has a good husband, she has someone to compare to and I like the fact that she can still sympathize with other women who are with unfortunate partners even if her situation is good because so many of the women with good husbands will snub others as inferior for not choosing better, Let Them Eat Cake vibes and they don't even realize it's also luck. Any man can pretend to be charismatic, sympathetic, sensitive helpful partners, and very few remain that way after marriage

[@auroras333-jz3ju]

Having a good partner doesn’t mean you have a perfect partner, and we all keep learning (maybe you’d make different choices if you knew then what you know now). Some men are willing to grow and deconstruct the ways patriarchy has conditioned them. Sometimes marriage and commitment are the best choice, if you want children and/or sharing of insurance and other benefits-as long as he wants to learn and grow and sees you as an equal partner. It’s best to be forewarned and armed with information before making big life decisions-she is helping us all in this way.

[@destroyraiden]

all men have basic programing just cuz she was one that is fighting and noticing his own programing and making different choices does not mean he doesn't have the programing he does he's choosing the non standard responses so he can have a life that makes the outside perceive him as a unicorn.

[@Theamandaa]

I have an amazing husband yet I can also empathize with other women that have not had the same luck

[@ineedhoez]

​@@CitySlickerButtKickerHell yeah. I know I am lucky.

[@sj3969]

I agree with her, but isn’t she married? It’s confusing that she’s doing something that she thinks is harmful to her.

[@aly3614]

She has an exceptional husband. An exemption. Not the norm in men