The list is the hardest part

Guys that care about you do not talk about splitting bills period. If you guys are a couple, you figure out whatever makes sense. I had one boyfriend in college and HE always talked about 50/50, but I never saw it like that. It was that he would ask me for stuff, that HE wanted, and then call it 50/50, where as I saw it as me just giving him a gift, and giving him the money. He would “correct” me. And I’m like, “ when do we ever go half in my stuff?!” Radio silence. He used that language , not me, to satisfy his ego, and deflect from the fact that he couldn’t really take care of himself. We got along very well, and he helped me a ton in other ways, but eventually we broke up as I wanted someone more ambitious. Guys asking me for money is a turn off and I can’t even take them seriously as partners. My husband and I do whatever makes sense, and we never talk about 50/50. That’s broke man talk.

Girl the way you broke that down was on POINT 😂💯

The same goes for misogynoir. Global sport and treachery considering the first human was a black woman…

the last guy i was seeing brought up 'paying your own way' 3 months in when he thought he had me hooked. up until that point he paid for all dates & outings. 'PYOW' is worse than 50/50 because it's him basically saying "hey, i don't value you at all but i still expect your attention, time, & s3x (raw cookie at that)". i waited until an upcoming weekend trip, paid on his dime, and dumped him right after. stingy clown thought he could play me 🤡🤣

Mmm I dunno... I am a wifey, but ive always been a baddie. Never would entertain a man that couldn't provide and protect. You can a bad ass wifey ladies 🎉

They “like” us if the can exploit us and impress their friends and step on us to get a leg up to fulfill their egomania through us.

But what do you mean -? ... Maybe I'm just not matching the vibe here but.. what do you *not want* to have sex? Do you *not date [people]* who you're attracted to? Like.. I don't know.. I'm just _so confused_ When I'm dating a girl who's experienced, as am I, and we're living together, splitting things, and capital *B A N G I N G* is she stupid for that? I mean it's worked plenty well at the time And don't get me wrong, break ups have happened for other reasons but - god This idea that 'sex isn't an equal exchange', or that 'being present in a space where your partner can *look at you'* isn't an equal exchange.. *IS* a perpetuation of a patriarchal social norms! And I get it- We're raised into them, so 'who would we be not to make them work for us'.. but then what was the point of all this railing against patriarchal social structure that I've been listening to you do (in full agreement) for the past half hour- if this is where it ends up? I mean, idk man. I get it takes a particular kind of person to shake this stuff off, but I *do not* envy nuerotypicals _at all_ in this regard You either figure out a new way of doing things and stop viewing them through a patriarchal lense - Or you take hold of that lense and snap it into focus to make it work for yourself.. however *that comes* with a lot of baggage IE : All this seeming resentment you're dumping into the environment here.. Or maybe that makes *me* the exception-? Idk. If you see this and you want to try and clarify, feel free- Because I'd hate to have missed something here, but as a human being first and foremost this just doesn't bode well Because maybe you _haven't been_ with people who make sex or emotional intimacy _feel_ like an equal exchange-?... But then that's a problem with *them,* personally, and how they go about it- not the *water bill..* I don't get it But don't get me wrong - I *am not* telling you you have to be comfortable dating people who give you the feeling they're 'just trying to get by'. We _all_ have our preferences- But the idea that equitable living arrangements and 'just getting by', are mutually exclusive, is blatantly false, and my lived experience can attest to that It's fine if you want to say that attuning yourself to patriarchal norms can lend to your advantage. You're _not wrong-_ However it's the dressing that up as anything but, that I take issue with. Lmk what you think

Rockstars are disgusting 🤮

Listen to her, ladies. Save yourselves!

Yup. That luigi mangione guy said he was so upset and frustrated that he couldnt control women, that he flew to asia and went to places women were banned from, just so he could relax without feeling such rage and frustration about them the lack of his societies control over them. Sick and sad

Wowww well said!!

Thank you soo much, i agree 100%. You are on fire, go on like this please. Your conclusions are RARE brilliant diamonds nowadays.

He doesn't want to date women his own age because he can manipulate young women much easier.

First of all.....just because a woman identifies as independent doesn't mean she is. People be lying. I'M an independent woman and I still can't accomplish certain things without selling my soul, which I won't, so I don't. So I can see how a man would be annoyed with us for claiming independence. You might just be naive

I love you and your content! It's so spot on.

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except these are the same men that complain the woman wants them to pay for everything.

Your explanation and breakdown of this is immaculate! I once seen a post that said something like, "If men dont think you're a 'bitch', you're doing something wrong as a woman" 💯

Are you on instagram?

XYs refuse to contribute around the house because they’re not compensated for it. Everything is transactional with XYs and if they’re not being rewarded for something they won’t do it. At the same time they also hate compensating people for their labour. Women are expected to do anything and everything for free but if an XY has to do something he demands payment.

Run from misogynists asap!!!

I totally read that first line as “Witchy” 😂 New category! And that’s me

"Men don't see women as humans." 😢😢😢 REAL men view us as valuable humans who deserve dignity and respect. Just haven't met many of these men. 😢

Omg men if you dont think she's right, you might be the only good one outside your gender, so if your so good, why come complain about something that doesnt pertain to you?

And that dream woman who they want and get after discarding the long term partner also gets fumbled.

This is the complete opposite of what Jesus taught. As a leader, he taught His disciples to be a servant, NOT a dictator.

Lmao did you pull something reaching that hard?

Thank you for this video. I want to be a baddie

Fake news... Equality ... It's easy, show up and put in some effort... 50/50 is the only way it works... Keeps a balance in life. This is for emotional, spiritual, physical and financial... Balance is good. This lady is toxic.

Men NEVER leave relationships .. the fact HE left I’m sure it was obvious how bad that relationship was, she was just a clinger

"Every time he gives you something you'll never hear the end of it..." One chap expected eternal gratitude and platitudes for the first give he gave me almost a year in... I said thank you of course, but I think he thought I would be swooning for ever. I was so confused, and then disgusted 😡

I know it's not what the channel is about, but what blush is that 💕

Imagine if couples only had $ex when both partners wanted to. That would be 50/50. Men would lose it.

This is So Much Lma0 I think i been All 4 at different times I Dont think i could be 1 Alone 🥲 I wanna be a Mixture

There are good men out there, but you need to have the self esteem

1:40 You fr got a side hustle coming up with top reality TV shows 😅

is it possible to delete the troll comments?

Madeline McCain is that you?

I don't intent to be on relationships with men ever again. But to my heterossexual sisters who still wants for some reason, how to go about it? To be a SAHM I think it is detrimental to them, because you lack the indepedence to leave whenever you want and you can get humiliated for having to ask for money from you partner to do basic things for you, your house and your family. What I think could be done is, if you need to have a partner, each one of you have separate lives and separate houses- it is what I would do if I wanted to partner up with a man, but a lot of people still want to live, marry and procrete with men, so how would you recomend doing that without ruiniing the women's lives?

As a genX woman I knew that the messages I was fed growing up were total BS. The physical and mental state of women in my age group is proof of how 50/50 can literally take women out. Thank you for articulating this for the younger generation, before they get sidelined.

Lovee Thiss 💜

😂😂 Weak, immature, Using, Manipulative, Narc men gon call me a B*tch Alll yrr 😂🤦‍♀️

Girl the algorithm did you dirty and showed this video for a shit ton of brainless people who never heard of misogyny

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You Choose Howw You Want to be With these men and ppl in General

I’m sending this to my daughters.

Women in their 40s and 50s are having babies. Many surprise babies because they have the thinking as this creator does “they can’t have kids after 40.” Absolutely not true. Women in their 40s are wanting and having kids. He just wants a younger woman because of control and status.

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She has a gift! She can see right through people! Love it!