Men are Qawaam - What Surah an-Nisa

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Men are "Qawaam" - The Verse from Surah an-Nisa 4:34
Ustadh Gabriel explains the meaning of this verse and sheds light on why the established understanding of this verse does not sit well with the modern notions of gender roles in society.
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[@BloggingTheology]

This is excellent. Thank you for this explanation!

[@OptimizedMuslim]

Thank you br Paul - جزاك الله خيرا

[@embraceislamandeventuallyy1006]

Brother Paul you need to get Gabriel on your channel

[@BloggingTheology]

@@embraceislamandeventuallyy1006 I have invited him :)

[@aminaayad4928]

Yeah brother Gabriel is very good at this topic ! May Allah reward him.

[@OptimizedMuslim]

Yes definitely, ameen

[@najouajones8828]

This is so good that I can't but say جزاكما الله خيرا

[@OptimizedMuslim]

بارك الله فيك

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@@OptimizedMuslim وفيك بارك الله وزادك علما وهدى بك

[@Fivetimesthree]

The way Muslim men talk about women you’d think we are only here to be birthers. As someone who inshallah loves Islam and is a woman it really hurts to hear this being framed as only assistants to men. No wonder so many women prefer to be alone

[@OptimizedMuslim]

Thanks for commenting. Learn about the virtues of motherhood and the status afforded to mothers. It's the feminist secular ideas that promote the thinking behind comments like "only here to be birthers" and "only assistants to men". For a lot of women who have grown up in the West or have been educated in secular school systems, the Islamic way of life becomes like an existential threat. They are indoctrinated with ideas about being career women through 10+ years only to find that it doesn't really improve their marriage prospects and unless working is a necessity, family takes priority. So it's a difficult situation but that's why we need to re-educate and avoid the pitfalls of the West which is increasingly a 🤡 world

[@BigBabaMufasa]

Why do women themselves belittle the value of good wives and mothers (or “birthers” as you call them lol) in a society? Also be honest, do you really want to LEAD a good man or follow? Your thinking didn’t come from no where btw, the West has caused an increase in shaming traditional woman and I think you should recognize that.

[@Fivetimesthree]

@@OptimizedMuslim mothers are women who raise and have authority of children. If men are the only power in the home then are they not responsible for caretaking and raising and educating the children? I’m a traditional wife. I don’t have a job outside of my home. But my husband doesn’t throw this idea that I am beneath his power for all things and that he is in control. I feel like a true partner not someone who plays supporting role to my husband. I am not here on this earth to marry or have children or have a career. I am here to obey Allah and I don’t find any evidence to have near blind obedience of my husband. Even my father would never throw his authority AS MY FATHER in my face. Who wants to live like that? So many Muslim men claim that feminism is a cancer and it is. This idea that we do what we want regardless of Allah’s is trouble. But you must recognize that this feminism came out of repeated subtle and outright desire to control women. It’s like you guys are clueless about the sunnah.

[@Marwadear512]

I didn’t feel like Br. Gabriel spoke in this way.