Men Fall In Love When Women REVEAL THIS (What His Heart Wants)

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@lindatallon9217]

When you finally figure out who you truly are, you can spot losers from 10 miles away .

[@lizculpepper5851]

Amen

[@imwatching2960]

Amen!!! 😄

[@LovingMyRESIDUAL]

FACTS!!!

[@mazhar-4465]

you realise ur own standards .....

[@lisamay5649]

@Linda Tallon: That's because you're keepin' it real!

[@dayanacarrion7144]

I don’t know if I would consider it weirdness but I send kisses to the Universe when I want to show appreciation for life and for witnessing synchronicities everyday throughout the day. It’s a way of saying I love you and appreciate you, to the Universe.

[@janefritz3072]

I think that's nice. I pray over my turkey on Thanksgiving thanking him for giving his life so we can have a nice Thanksgiving.

[@tdhawk167]

Love it! Thought I was the only one who did this! Lol!

[@Faith-zr8fq]

Great thing to do, I like it

[@heidimisfeldt5685]

I thank Heavenly Father for the many blessings that He showers us with daily, from the sunshine, the food, the air, the roof over our heads. However humble, it is many blessings many don't have. An attitude of gratitude 🙏

[@christinebentley7345]

@@heidimisfeldt5685 me too!

[@taramata1974]

I've always fallen in love with people's defining "quirks"... The Cracks are where the Light gets in! 💗

[@hotmessmissy]

Aawww this is a very nice way of wording it. I like that.. Cracks are where the light comes in

[@btaylor1264]

And how the light gets out

[@lisaelletea2384]

Yes peoples flaws or weirdness are where the light gets in. 🤍🤍🤍 Love the weird in people 🥰😍🥰

[@oldersister2435]

My ex-husband would become impatient with me when I was telling a story he said I gave way too many details he just wanted the short version. And other people have said I also tell such details with my stories. But one friend of mine recently said to me I love it when you tell a story you give such detail that it's just as if I'm experiencing it as you did.

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

I feel ya!! Me too! I can't tell a story unless I give details. . kinda when I tell a joke and everyone 's like tell the "punchline* already!!😆

[@faymehr7811]

I am the sane 🥰

[@nancystevens5136]

Your not alone in telling a story, I go into details like no tomorrow too! We just picturing ourselves right there and we have to tell all the details leading up to the moment, to me it's important to look at the hole picture lol

[@katewright632]

Oh god, my mum can't stand it when I don't get to the point. It's their impatience not your problem.

[@katewright632]

@@faymehr7811 I love your Freudian slip. Same and sane :)

[@denyseblair2279]

When earthworms find their way into the sidewalk after it rains, I like putting them back into the grass. I think it makes them feel safe and happy.🌷

[@dawnburwell4876]

OMG I do the same thing !!

[@claussiasun6571]

Me too!! It rained last night and, as I was strolling, I put 4-5 earthorms away from the sidewalk, close to the grass 😀

[@kamiecompton5176]

Me too! Not sure if this is from the video (just started it). I also save turtles, lizards and tadpoles...

[@brendab1276]

Me too. ❤

[@melaniearce4390]

denyse blair I do that with snails. 🤣😂 Also bees! If I see one just creeping on the floor, I’ll grab a piece of paper and move it off the floor!

[@julieb8445]

The guy I dated had all these list of things he was looking for in a girl .. I’m like good luck finding your unicorn. He had a whole list then said “ basically looking for someone comfortable In their own skin” 🤔 I’m like none of us are that perfect but i wish you luck finding her because I’m not that perfect . I guess the right guy will understand me and my quirks and realize perfection doesn’t exist. 🦄

[@1chienandalou]

Ring the bells that still can ring / Forget your perfect offering There is a crack in everything / That’s where the light gets in (Leonard Cohen)

[@thepinkcarousel]

I’m that shy, introvert, feminine, soft spoken, 30 something old woman but am very into utterly gory first-person shooter video games, particularly one that is called “Doom” which I’m very good at. On my first date with someone, we played that game and I beat him. We’re still dating until now. He told me that’s one of the things that made him fall in love with me 🤣

[@shannondiaz3900]

I cannot go barefoot anywhere. Not even in my house. I can’t stand dirt on my feet. It freaks me out!

[@taramullock1676]

I can’t stand wearing socks!!🤣

[@darrendonovan7230]

i can in the house but no where else

[@deroforever]

Same here

[@danielleemch8991]

Me too lol 😂

[@suziewilson1115]

Same here. I have flip flops everywhere because once I'm ready to get the shoes off, the flip flops go on. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@subrinabignell332]

I talk to Animals like they are human. In my unique way I think animals are more human then humans are. Also I say random things that sometimes make no sense to someone else but they make sense to me

[@1111freespirit]

Subrina Bignell bam same here ☺️

[@daniellewatson9969]

Talk to myself frequently, especially when driving or cleaning. Only started doing it once I became a mother and guess what I refer to myself as? Mum.

[@lisamay5649]

@Sabrina Bignell: I talk to animals, too, especially pets I've had. I think I'm in tune with them more than with most people.

[@nancysiemasko1382]

@@lisamay5649 I do the same thing but....I also talk for them like I know what they are thinking.

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

Me too!! Animals understand more than we think they do!! 😊💗💗💗

[@chunkaroo26]

I am a very spiritual person and can see and I talk to Angels. Some men find it overwhelming because I rely on them for all kinds of various daily life experiences. They help me find parking spaces. Send weird random messages through other people. I have learned some folks just get to freaked out by all the amazing miracles that happen to me.

[@SatumainenOlento]

Angels are wonderful! 😇❤

[@chunkaroo26]

Gricelle Aleksander olk whatever you say 🤣

[@gricellealeksander6201]

Crystal, those are not angels, they are demons. One opens the door to demons when seeking spirits, astrology, tarot reading, etc... this is not from God, it is witchcraft. The Lord commands us not to seek these! Remember Saul lost his anointing because he sought witchcraft. “Saul finally abandoned God and joined himself to Satan as he went to enquire of the witch of Endor “ (1 Samuel 28:6-25; 1 Chronicles 10:13,14) .

[@brandi5154]

@@gricellealeksander6201 It's all about the intentions behind it, for one to say those are not angels, those are demons....🤔 if spirit and angels dont exist, what are you saying about about lord and savior? I dont care what story you have to back it up, what you just commented is coming from a negative space and not a loving one from a real spiritual person who believes in a higher source.

[@marykarle9592]

Don’t know how many times other people do this, but I love to stroke and speak softly to my houseplants...especially to my orchids..it really seems to help them grow luscious and beautiful..I get a wonderful vibe in return!

[@linda8485]

One time I sweetly asked my Orchid Cactus to bloom because it had been a couple years and she did!

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

I LOVE 💘orchids. . . but they seem to die on me after 6 months of buying them.😢

[@katiie7]

When people pass its the weird unique frequent things that we miss the most. Like no one else does this or that. Those annoying things that are them but you end up loving & miss the most. This is SO true!

[@phoenixrising8007]

It’s so refreshing to see a genuine man being open, honest and present.Thank you for keeping it real ✌️😎

[@margaretueland4021]

The best thing a guy ever said to me was " I love your crazy."

[@ladyj8878]

THAT! Is exactly what I'm waiting for. I love other people's pecadillos. Mine are strange and wonderful too.

[@juliannatrure]

🤣

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

Awwww💗💗💗💗

[@GillyDavis]

My weirdness? I remember many facts and they pop out of my mouth in any conversation. I've tried not to be the annoying 'Cliff Clavin' - stupidly smart, unfortunately, I can't seem to help myself. People always tell me that I'm smart but I keep telling them I just read a lot and some of the facts stick in my head, even if I can't place exactly where I read or heard them. One of my oldest friends told me that this is why I'm still single - my intellect is intimidating. I've tried to dull it down, but like a blazing fire - I find it impossible to hide.

[@SatumainenOlento]

Ooooh, how attractive trait!! You are just really HIGH value woman in men's eyes so you seem like out of their league. Sure many men are intimidated, but then again...you only need that one who absolutely love that about you and is confident enough to express the interest!!! And what a wonderful blazing fire you have!!! Let it burn!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@barbarastrayhorn4667]

Don't think you should hide who you are. I do the same thing and people say I am smart but I just read a lot and ,yes, I am single - again. But I don't want to have to tone me down so people will like me.

[@KCtheSUNSHINE]

You are still single because you haven't met the right person. Don't be fooled. I read a lot too and I have an amazing boyfriend.

[@GillyDavis]

@@KCtheSUNSHINE Thank you, Kelly! You give me hope!!

[@KCtheSUNSHINE]

@@GillyDavis I agree with the other comment about letting your fire blaze. The guy I'm dating knows I'm a goofball, I don't always get jokes till like 10 minutes later, and I want to discuss whatever the latest thing I've read about. If a guy is intimidated by your intelligence/intellect, then he is not for you. A guy should be able to challenge and sharpen you, not make you dull and feel like you are losing brain cells talking to them. My guy said he was so attracted to me because I'm confident. I told him that after my divorce (5 years ago), I continue to pray a lot, and God has enlightened me that I'm worthy and beautiful and loved. Never lose yourself to gain someone else. Be happy in your own skin. You got this!

[@xobontlane5931]

Love his imperfections..no one is perfect. Fall in love with his true self...as long as he is civil in whatever he does.

[@giftij]

Very true, as long as he is civil! Word! Its not a pleasant thing when their flaws get antagonistic on u

[@susancrackenberger7138]

A man to be admired. You stepped into a circle of woman to help find themselves and there signifigant other. Thank you so very much for giving me a small ray of hope, in a very dark world

[@brandi5154]

That's actually something I've struggled with my whole life, is being goofy and not feeling insecure for it. I'm working on it! Thank you, love your videos.

[@JonathonAslay]

You got this!

[@alysonfleming1477]

I overthink everything. I want to know “why” about everything. I’ve learned to pick my battles over the years, but I’m a strategist (INTJ) and need to know the why in order to make plans. The beginning of letting this go began while reading “The Power of Now” by Eckert Tolle.

[@venumames6921]

My favorite book! 🤗

[@lisamcallister6534]

Psychotherapist and please be kind to other people. Maybe stay home alone.

[@Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

@@venumames6921 that's totally me and I am an INTJ too.

[@branndymessier5081]

Whats your birthday?

[@leoniebooysen3845]

You must be a Libra

[@kate3264]

This video is just amazing - the energy the content the message - love it! must go viral!

[@vioricaneacsu3172]

Yes I loved my husband for the imperfections he had and I believe when you truelly love someone you love their bad traits and their good traits. My 1 weird habit is I always have to read a magazine from the end to the start to feel like it's going to take me longer to enjoy and finish it ☺️

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

That 's NOT weird.😉😁

[@FriskyTendervittles]

I read that way too 😂

[@barbaraweatherman5340]

Me too! We are not weird. 😉

[@kathleenmartin6003]

I like the fact that you are vivacious, fun, lively, and warm

[@annieqcrowley2680]

I really enjoyed this video! I have all kinds of weird qualities & I have found that men fall in love with me, either because of or in spite of that! I've even found that some men have adopted some of my strangeness, too. I ♡ novelty & trendy sunglasses. I'm always wearing a different pair & they usually make a statement. The very conservative guy I'm seeing always wore the same pair of expensive but boring sunglasses. He always comments on mine. Today he had on a pair of green Ringo Star-style sunglasses that i know he never wouldve bought before he met me. It hit me that maybe he's catching feelings for me & my weirdness. 😊

[@mrnt1257]

When I met my last boyfriend I sent my friend a text that said, “He’s as quirky as I am”

[@sherylhokianga3]

I’m a Virgo And, I Hate The Toilet Roll Facing 2Wards The Wall..It Has 2 Be Over n Out! lol

[@KCtheSUNSHINE]

I'm Taurus and I need out to be over as well. I have to change it if it's backwards hee hee.

[@lisamay5649]

@Sherry Hokianga: Domeone did research about the man who invented toilet paper and found that the roll end should be on the outside. So, you are right!

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

Well, I don't *hate* it, but since I am by myself, I need it to be over and out (with the beard) 🙈🙉🙊

[@sherrygittings5187]

My weirdness is: I'm at a restaurant, I do not like to sit near the kitchen, bathroom, entrance and exit. I'm very particular where my seating is.

[@secretshaman189]

In Feng Shui this is sensitivity to negative traffic areas, very palpable to certain people.

[@texasstardust6010]

.....I am THE EXACT same way!!

[@zoraidacastro5403]

I do the same.

[@iamannabeautiful]

I'm this way especially kitchen and bathroom

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

Me too!!😁

[@valentinanocross8677]

I talk to every inanimate thing I have as a person or family member. And Believe that bumblebees remember me from before and come to say hello . I often wish I still had my wings. I am sure iwas an angel.

[@flowerlive2316]

omg i love your happines ! you inspire me confidence in men !thankyou for be you

[@JonathonAslay]

Wow, thank you

[@cherrychingcuangco1326]

I'm learning a lot. Our flaws make us human. Love the weirdness in us 😊❤️

[@lilianleslie2853]

So true, our flaws mean we're human! Aha moment!

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

I have a ton of *flaws* so my future husband will need to accept me for who I am because I already LOVE ME FOR ME. . . I will always *seek* to make myself healthier and happier - life is too short, folks!! 😆💗

[@Rubiastraify]

The smell of fresh laundry that's been dried in the open air takes me back to fun times in my childhood, so I love the smell. I have to sleep with my bed oriented East - West; I don't sleep well if it's North - South. Could it be my magnetic personality?! “Nothing shows a man's character more than what he laughs at.” - Goethe. So, I use humor a lot in my interactions with people, and that tells me a lot about their character and intelligence.

[@joycelawson2249]

I love to make people laugh. If I have to explain my story. The fun is over unless it’s ridiculously easy. I love hearing someone say, I don’t care who you are, that’s flipping Funny ❣️

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

😁

[@sandyzimmerman5206]

We've known each other since childhoodbut i lost a lot of my childhood memory from a diabetic coma right after my mother made me move away from him. 35 years later, we reconnected. 5 years after that, we are both single and dating. He loves when he sees that light pop back on when I remember something from our past times together. He told me that he really appreciates everything I do for him. I've also stopped trying to do everything for myself. Im coming to terms with the fact that I'm NOT able to do absolutely everything perfectly and that I'm not superwoman. (Past military wife who has had to do everything for herself in the past).

[@walterblase7959]

There is no problem without solution let me refer you to someone who helps restore broken relationship and helped me get my lover back in few days....

[@walterblase7959]

+ 2 3 4 9 0 2 2 9 5 0 8 0 8 😍😘

[@bonnieoles4212]

You are such a good teacher! Thank you so much, Jonathon!

[@LovingMyRESIDUAL]

My weirdness: I literally can’t sleep without the sounds of a thunderstorm/water waves on my tv (KZbin) and I also sleep with a hair dryer. The noise and warm wind puts me straight to sleep. 😂 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

I have to sleep with all of my fans on. . . and when my home is not in order it makes me anxious & moody; I love the Autumn & Winter months because I get so much done when it's colder. . the heat bothers me.

[@shammilanka2185]

what a joy to watch these honest men talking about love!!! Gurus are truly beautiful ❤👌🦄

[@zoraidacastro5403]

I agree

[@Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

We went to a high end/fancy restaurant for our anniversary dinner. I asked the waiter if they had french fries and then specifically added "it's for my son, not for me at all" My husband laughed and just shook his head because he knows no matter what restaurant we go to, I have to have regular french fries. It wasn't for my son.

[@le5314]

I love that you used the term delicious when referring to the relationship! That’s a really appealing way to describe it!

[@cpistol4484]

So grateful to have found you.

[@deroforever]

Jonathon Aslay, thank you, finally someone has the courage to speak it out :)

[@Laurelberninteriors]

I have a half-dead, but infinitely wise 5-yr-old blue spruce in a pot (duh) in my living room named Joe. (I got him at Trader Joes) He's my best friend, confidante and always has the best advice for me.

[@kriskat8104]

Hmm...In a pre-COVID world, I always picked up trash on walks. I'm known for this! 😄 As a side note, I recently brought a pack of cards to a first date picnic because I remember what you said about the woman who liked to play gin rummy with you on dates. I taught him how to play gin, speed...and backgammon on our picnic date! We both had a great time! Thanks for the tip, Jonathan. 😉

[@jasmine2566]

Me too!!! 💗 i think the earth likes when we take care of it... picking up trash is easy :)

[@michellerichardson9680]

I've heard of gin rummy and backgammon (but) lol, What is Speed?

[@kriskat8104]

@@michellerichardson9680 I just saw your question, Michelle. Speed is an addictive card game that I learned from my high school students on a field trip to Cuba. So fun! My daughter kicks my butt at it regularly. 😂

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

I LOVE to play cards! My grandma & grandpa used to play card games with me when they would come for a visit.💗💗

[@olynedevries3882]

Kintsugi... is the Japanese art of putting broken pottery pieces together with gold....a metaphor for embracing your ‘flaws’ and ‘imperfections ’......beautiful and so humanly compassionate..

[@LihleKhoza]

I read everything on anything 😂. Food labels, lotions -- makes me seem like a know it all, but I’m really just curious

[@meganwildhood3893]

Me too!!!

[@zuwenapoole34]

That’s me all day!!!

[@hotmessmissy]

I love curiosity. Coz when you feed a curious mind you become more informed and knowledgeable. And knowledge is power 😊

[@aves6457]

Me too Sis! 🤣

[@crystaljanssen4382]

I do the same thing!! R u a Sagittarius?

[@anikovaradi753]

I feel like I have more self-confidence after this video, then after ten years of self-development studies. It's been good to listen to. They are kind of a natural, from real life words. This is the first video I met from you. Thank you.

[@anikov5831]

I wanted to delete my post, but it doesn't allow it. Can you help?

[@oldmedicinecrow]

I'm not picky about many things. I'm a coffee snob. I make my coffee in ceremony every morning. It is what people tend to remember about me and smile.

[@dawnsteilverch]

Finally. Easy homework. I’m an adult ADHD, former teacher gone artist. A weird combo of chaos and organization, need for structure and simultaneously can’t help but create and adore spontaneity. I am intelligent, love intellectual conversation and can’t find where I put my coffee cup five minutes ago. Oh…and I can’t watch horror/gore flicks. My kids actually preview shows for me. Lol

[@sylviarogers8473]

My weirdness is that I think through problems n situations by writing them down. It keeps me from stressing n as I write I suspend emotion about it n usually get clarity for a solution or to let it go. It has kept me from making bad decisions or from speaking without grace or love.🌸

[@janicuredbeauty7971]

I truly enjoy your videos as I am navigating the strange world of online dating as a 48 year old divorcée. I truly feel more secure in myself at this age and watching your videos gives me the confidence to enjoy each and every dating experience I may encounter. Thank you for your insight into relationships, you’ve help me cement my values and what I’m looking for in a long-term ( hopefully my forever ) relationship. 💖

[@ms.c4718]

What I like about this video is what you implied and alluded to but didn't necessarily say outright. Despite the fact that we try soooo hard to present our best self while dating, our idiosyncrasies do shine through clear as crystal, and that's what people really love about us. John Legend talks about this in one of his videos "All of Me" where he talks about loving "all of his wife's curves and edges as well as her imperfections..." So what u r saying is true! The real you comes out and that's what people like about YOU. That's truly amazing isn't it?

[@deenell4828]

Hi Jonathan, i am a 1st time listener, and enjoyed the video.

[@JonathonAslay]

Welcome aboard!

[@lorettayoung9219]

Hi Jonathan, good day to you! I love this video, your so spot on! It's those imperfections that make each of us unique. One of my imperfections... I move my furniture around quite often. I think it's because I'm unsettled & just need a refreshing change! It drives my kids crazy, but they're young adults & don't live with me so it's none of their concern. And the gentleman I'm dating doesn't seem to mind, he finds it interesting. It's definitely cheaper than buying a new home, right!?!😆 It's about finding that person where you like each other so much, that you can accept each other's weirdness. Have a great day and ty for your compassion & kindness Jonathan😁

[@Gamer_bruh1]

I quote movie clips all the time! And blur them out randomly when I’m having a conversation with someone that they get super confused 🤷🏻‍♀️ 😹😹😹😹😹 i also act out movie scenes randomly and some tv show clips haha. I crack myself up.

[@MeMe-mt6xv]

I do that too!! I used to make fun of "boys" that did that, but then I started to randomly insert movie quotes or scenarios to a situation! LOL

[@melissal4363]

Lol same!! Or pluck out a word or phrase they say sing the corresponding song.

[@RMFeminine4TheWin]

*“We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” ~ Dr. Seuss* i love that you posted on this Jonathon, thanx! my Love is THE. WEIRDEST. $%&#. i've ever met. we became instant BFFs, then soon after inseperable. he's got bizarre food things too aaand....I LOVE IT! I LOVE ALL! (aye, carumba) Lol! 😌💖🍕

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thanks so much. I plan on buying a refrigerator magnet with that saying… thank you.

[@Lapastel37]

You have quite unusual content. I like it. This was a jem. Thank you from Italy!

[@JonathonAslay]

😊

[@MaraMarieBeauty]

I have always had the Sally order syndrome and when the movie came out everyone told me it reminded them of me. This is such a great video! Thank you!

[@ChasingTheBagua]

Love your work Jonathan thank you!!

[@rosarioborboa8561]

My weirdness perhaps would be seeing so much synchronization daily. It’s magical.

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

11:11; a certain name of a person over & over again EVERYWHERE you go; songs that speak to you etc. Yep!😆

[@DM-wv6to]

More than our weird little habits, what I love is what makes people unique. That could be small things, but equally their perfection in their imperfection: their personalities, histories, faces and bodies, but most of all their souls. I usually see their souks and see those men in ways they don't even see themselves.

[@ginaalzaidi1972]

My weirdness is everything has to match: my purse, shoes, jewelry and clothes. My nails have to be perfect at all time no chipped nail polish or broken nails.

[@quantumalight28]

Your brutal honesty and vulnerability is refreshing and insightful. Love will find you one day so stay true to yourself. Keep up the divinely guided work with your messages. Namaste. 🙏

[@amylechelt5011]

Hi! My girlfriend recently shared your channel and it’s fabulous! Love your authentic energy! I appreciated, and related to, your quick observation-quip about “but”, “and”, etc. I lol’d as this is an observation and convo I have regularly. I am a woman “of that certain age”, AND also a recent divorcée, recent internationally certified life coach AND DV certified advocate/survivor. And, however...apply :) NO “buts”! Especially, when dating! Thank you for your fun and honest insights!

[@pepperred35]

If I'm comfortable with the company I'm with or just tired I'll do impressions/impersonations of people.

[@4TopNotchEmpress]

I cannot eat soggy food. For example, when eating pancakes, normal people pour syrup on their pancakes then eat them. I cut a piece off then pour a drop of syrup on the pancake then eat the small piece before the syrup soaks in. 😂 My boyfriend laughs at me. But, he said every time he sees pancakes, he thinks of me. 💗

[@1cor13Godislov]

I am similar so i make a puddle of sauces, dressings, jams and syrup so I dip a forkful of food in it. I started when i wanted to lose the college weight then found that everything tastes better this way

[@mariaemmanuelli9118]

Im picky, i observe the way people eat , their manners , very important to me , can’t eat with someone with bad manners.

[@joyhogan6799]

I usually tell my shortcomings to people (friends and men I am interested in). I don't know how it comes across. They may think I am an overshare, but I dont want to pretend to be something I am not. I want to be known and liked for who I am.

[@cindypabst9293]

My weird thing is that when I start laughing, I can't stop

[@joannecoady8436]

Your not only wise beyond words regarding your love advice but your energy is so vibrant and it lifts my spirits as I watch and listen to you regards in fb this less then happy subject.

[@gladyscole5062]

Jonathan you said it right. My one was I was myself ,simple that’s what he loved about me.

[@1LaOriental]

I have always lived by this and have loved the ability of others to truly own their imperfections. This has taught me to love and embrace my own peculiarities/imperfections !! So empowering. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing!

[@Shasha8674]

Denial/lust/obsessive love over looks red flags/crazy/quirts. Yes...be yourself and hopefully people will accept you with unconditional love like a pet does.

[@rinioktapianainggolanron4967]

Lol.

[@carolclowes2221]

Pet much better idea

[@celiaescalante]

Yes! When Harry Met Sally is a perfect example for people that run in to each other again and again in life.

[@kerriehew8664]

My weirdness is my wordiness when I am passionate about a subject. When Harry met Sally is one of the best romcoms of all time! You 'can' and 'should' fall in love and marry your best friend! Another 2015 movie that is more sexually charged and gritty but follows the same premise is Sleeping with other people starring Jason Sudeikis and Alison Brie. One more thing, favourite movie quote about loving someone's quirks. "You're not perfect sport, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other." Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting.

[@rosemarycalogero7017]

Thank you, you just explained why I love this man I can’t get him out of my head. 😂

[@rachelranae162]

I cant have animals in my bed not bc I'm allergic or dont like them but bc it's their licking and cleaning themselves where I sleep. Also cant stand it when someone opens a can of soda and doesnt drink it all

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi5411]

My 2 babies sleep w/me right now, but when I get married, it will be up to my husband what happens? I can always have a little bed for both of them - I'm sure they won't mind.😊💗🐶💗🐱

[@tdhawk167]

Lol... My weirdness is wherever I go animals show up, even wildlife and exotics show up. I worked with animals for much of my life in my Veterinary Medicine career. I am always thrilled (except when wild skunks, and other wildlife, want to snuggle!) and just love it. I believe in many Native American Traditional teachings and there are so many meanings tied to Nature and Animals, and am grateful for these teachings. 💕 Can we all say "Weirdos Unite!" 😊

[@jessaskalice]

I don't do odd numbers. Everything has to be even. EVERYTHING. Volume on radio, volume on TV, 2 hugs or kisses before parting ways etc...

[@bayanajousef3042]

Plus ! The smell of the restaurant carpet when you walk in it’s very important

[@annikakhano6018]

I am not sure it is weird, but I always believe in the good in people. I always like new people. My ex-husband got crazy about me always believing in the best. And I am addicted to pretty things. Makes me shop for dishes etc. All the time. I have so many kitchen utensils it truly is crazy.

[@ChefSharonMichelle]

Yes I am pretty neurotic about how my food is made and all I eat..In a Restaurant if I don’t like something I will send it back..I went to Culinary school and I am a Nutrition and Health Advocate so yeah pretty picky..Nowadays, I Much Rather Cook at home and make everything from scratch..lol Btw, Jonathan, this was my first time finding your KZbin, loved it! You made me laugh🤗

[@kerrikolby6124]

This was great. Thank you!!

[@gingerjones8352]

Thank You Brother, for that hug. We all need one every so often, with a smile. I like the thot that maybe I can bring a smile to someone’s face even when I can say, “I got- cha!!! Some time I think I better be careful, or good, cause they’ll get me back. I wanted to hear laughter. It took 12 years to get him out of being so serious. He caught on how, too. When We finally settles in & bot a moblehome & I started having friends our marriage went down. Jealousy set in.

[@andrea7lv200]

My bf - gets creeped out by cotton balls - He won’t touch them or pull them out of medicine bottles..... brains 🧠 are mine

[@lizsabatini211]

Lol funny

[@nancysiekierski729]

I'm the same way abt cotton. I shake and run if I have to touch it. lol

[@ashm676]

Key point: differences were too great for relationship to last long term therefore we shouldn't be dating and wasting others time if we know it's not going to last.

[@sarahokundonor6961]

I dance when I eat something I like. Like I’ll move around in my chair like an infant: I always get this way with sushi.

[@veronicasmith1460]

I do that when I eat cheese cake!

[@bettylafea4706]

Love how you just laugh at anything ☺️ gives off a lot of good vibes, thank you!💕

[@JonathonAslay]

You are so welcome!

[@hopeinhimjesus7107]

I'm perfect, for that one man who knows I'm perfect for him; and with all my eccentricities, I'm so looking forward to learning all about his too! I've too many to list, and I do love my weirdness. I know my worth, know my value, and it can't be purchased! Most people who know me love me for exactly who I am. I think it helps them, that that's how I love others. Grace grows on people. Hope does too! If my weirdness bothers someone, when I don't impose any of it on them, it's only about their own "stuff," at that point. It's not about me, so I give them grace. Thanks so much for the videos!!!

[@claussiasun6571]

I have a lot of weirdness going on too: checking the locks like 9 times when I leave the house (seems like OCD, but, oh well...), restating a conclusion one more time, just to be clear about it, remembering numbers, and more 😅

[@stellawilliams9303]

Allowing, receiving, no judging is the ultimate, in the meantime we can get triggered by all sorts, so no by passing, just acknowledge the good, the bad, the ugly, kiaora from New Zealand, in the south Pacific

[@rondastollerwunsch2660]

I always say there is no problem living with the similarities. It's how you manage the differences that make or break a relationship. So I have developed a little game that I call confessions. Every date, I confess one of my idiosyncrasies. Fortunately, I have quite a few so I start with the little ones first such as my bad handwriting (I missed my calling as a doctor) and my corny sense of humour, etc.

[@private-gg8qo]

I am not convinced that we "fall in love" with weirdness. We may find the quirks endearing if we like someone.I think it has been pretty well explored that we "fall in love" with that person that reminds us of the dynamic we had in childhood.

[@alyajewellery]

private hence why I like guys that don’t listen to me and think I’m blonde. I only act blonde with him. My friends think I’m super deep. They ask me for advice and general knowledge references.

[@meagiesmuse2334]

This is very true, and this is why I think a very important video on YT for everyone who is in a relationship or wants one is "Why You Will Marry The Wrong Person" by Alain de Botton. It gave me a much better perspective on the crazy-making things in my long marriage.

[@Lapastel37]

Yes but if you become aware of it, you can eventually go beyond childhood patterns to find out what you really like, not in a disfunctional way.

[@meagiesmuse2334]

@@Lapastel37 - I hope that will work for you, but it did not work for me. I went through the whole ACOA program and followed it to the letter to find someone who was not like my father, but those traits can appear in ways that are not obvious at all, so I still picked someone like my father, but who was like him in different ways than what I used to be attracted to earlier in life. If you watch the video, he suggests how to handle this. It is paramount to accept that there is no perfect partner, and none of us are perfect partners either, so all relationships have things you just have to put up with. Accepting that is how I've managed to stay married for 35 years this time. Also, knowing what we really need in a partner is way more important than what we think we want, imo, which requires a lot of self-awareness. Best wishes to you in your search.

[@CherylWhitestone]

Hi Jonathan, a small boutique has a coco doormat that says " The Good Kind of Weird Lives Here " ny lark sent me a photos in review from my pictures that had that in the album.... love my romantic fun & quirky guy

[@glorialee7934]

I truly enjoy learning and listening to your love language teaching.

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@yvonnehayward3753]

Hi Jonathon from Macleay Island Queensland Australia. What an interesting video. I found it by default and enjoyed what you had to say. Many, many years ago when I was a young wife and mother I heard that the thing that attracted you to a partner was the thing you ended up hating a few years down the track. I processed this and filed it away for future reference. Your talk seems to be the other swing of the pendulum and something I hadn't considered until I wathced this presentation. Thank you for your insights. Something new to chew on. Stay safe and enjoy the day.

[@meganwildhood3893]

I'm weird about the timing of eating and drinking: I only eat between 12:30pm and 7pm (intermittent fasting) and I wait 20 minutes after drinking water before a meal and a half hour after a meal to begin hydrating again. Also, I don't know if this qualifieds as "weird," but I would be happy if the whole world was different shades of purple. I really appreciate your explanation of the use of the word "but." I have been saying the same for years! 🤓

[@stasiax9498]

IF is not weird BUT)) the most healthy way of eating (in my not so humble opinion 😜) or do you do it in extremely neurotic manner? 🤔😂😉⏳⌛

[@ST-yc7uj]

I never drink while I eat, and my ex was always making a thing out of it. .

[@skyehagenstein7883]

Me too!!🤓

[@AstroArians]

Omg, yeah, Sir. Being unique and being true to yourself is the best. The weird thing about me is smelling the food, then out of nowhere my ex looked at me like I do something wrong then, I felt uncomfortable when I see his reaction, but I just smile at him that nothing's happened. Btw, thank you for the advice, Sir. I agree to this, being ourself is something makes us different from others. 😊

[@deborahdobbins7500]

I liked the video, and you’re right. I lost my husband after he lost his battle of an 8 year illness. I knew some of the reasons I fell in love with him, but I remember mostly some of the “cracks” that you mention! Of course, I don’t know exactly what all about me made him fall in love with me. But here are a couple of my own cracks. When I cook, and it’s a lot, now very often for just myself, but, I cook a meat and I must have 2 sides! The only time I differ from that is if I make a sandwich. Now I make prepare more than 2 sides, but I won’t eat without at least 2, if I’m cooking at home or eating out! Another thing is that I fed test finger prints on glass or wood surfaces. We had a glass tabletop and also glass French Doors when we built our home. I cleaned those 2 surfaces multiple times a day. In my shiny glass surface, even our 2 year olds prints on the glass door drive me nuts! I’ve relaxed on this one a little over the years, but have as big an issue with rings made by cups and glasses or bottle and cans. I’d almost run from a guest to put a coaster or two down near where they’d sit on the sofa!! And, my hair has to be combed and fixed how I’m satisfied or I won’t go out, not even outside in my own yard!! I know I have many, many more things, cracks.....it’s a wonder that I’m still in one piece!! But, you’d think with all these imperfect perfections that I’d be so lovable that night man could resist me, LOL, but I guess that’s just not how it works!!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you so much for your personal share... much appreciated. BTW, I like some of your quirks... smiles

[@melaniesutton4053]

I just cannot bear the thought of staying in my pyjamas once I’m up even at weekends. I have to get change and equally I don’t change until I’m about to hit my bed! How weird is that🤣😂

[@cmme200]

I’m like that too!!!!🌱🌱🌱

[@angelheart408]

That is not weird. I have to have a shower and get out of my pjs to feel fresh to face the day. I can’t stand seeing people wearing their pjs all day. Drives me nuts !

[@imwatching2960]

This is so great...

[@brittt7413]

Great video!!!!