Men Find THESE 7 Traits Very Unattractive In WOMEN

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The fact that your instructions and counsel are available to us for free is so special. Your coaching is landing with me and I always leave educated and thoughtful. Thank you.

[@vashtikelly6837]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ agree 💯💯

[@marlenelindsey7638]

I love that! Me too! Always open to learning.

[@darlenegolden1057]

Yes, I appreciate your help. Sometimes it doesn't apply. But I get a man doesn't want to talk about problems and bs.

[@odeyvivian4059]

I like how when Stephan wants to make some points and he is trying to be careful not to offend anyone or laugh but eventually can’t help it and laugh out loud😂😂😂

[@PookiieB]

😂😂😂

[@amberdavis9044]

1. Don’t be a drama queen 2. Constantly complaining 3. Rudeness 4. Excessive makeup 5. Bad hygiene 6. Being attention seeker

[@thewhispercode]

When you allow your emotions to get in the way, you don’t get into awareness. It takes practice. When I pray I don’t ask for patience, I practice it. What men want, will not change. What women want will not change. We have to meet somewhere in the middle and still stay feminine.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Well said 🙏

[@trenton12205]

Yes. The games must stop for love to flourish again

[@fjean03]

I agree with your statement 💯. We have to actually become what we want and how we want to be treated. And yes it doesn’t happen over night it will take practice.

[@karinesavard2016]

When your man is rude to other people it is a good indicator in what mean character he will have with you. In french this is literally called Il a un mauvais caractère. And family members probably waved that red flag in front of your nose. Never ignore this.

[@AJweathersby]

Another thing men find undesirable is whenever there’s a constructive and good-faith criticism of women occurring, and some women try to flip the conversation back on criticizing men. To us, it means those woman feel like they’re above being criticized and that they don’t have any desire to better themselves for the kind of man they want. There’s no such thing as a lasting relationship with a man, that doesn’t involve male criticism.

[@djkeith9315]

I would say it reflects on character but it could be a lack of emotional awareness

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

I have a strong appreciation for guys whom keep negative things at bay. It's really not healthy to have that kind of energy around.

[@jennehsmith8170]

Any man with pettiness….drop him like a bad habit and let him go on his way….good luck and good bye, don’t look back!!

[@roxy7255]

Thank you Stephen I didn’t know the drama one until I saw it. A man I dated had an ex where there was always drama I could see it in his eyes how much he loved and enjoyed drama and was struggling without the drama - huge red flag and toxic trait.

[@karinesavard2016]

Men gossip and cause more trauma than you'd think. They expose themselves on the Internet. 😅

[@noinhibitions7572]

Preach!

[@emlinc229]

💯💯💯

[@Adhara740]

So true

[@RoyalSweetness22]

🤭 I love when you talk about sensitive topics like hygiene and makeup and such because you start smiling cause you really try to make sure you discuss it gently. I have to laugh cause it's so cute. Nicely done. Lovely shirt your wearing, too.😁💯👋🏼

[@aleiseboone9365]

Ditto, it is so cute and we appreciate your honesty.

[@klezzaa8957]

Dont be drama queens, dont be always complaining, being rude, having to much much makeup, smelling bad, wanting and searching for attention. Sounds about right! ☺️❤️

[@karinesavard2016]

To my ex I used to say after his constant complaining about his job, I said, either you change jobs or you stop complaining. 🙄

[@clasijasi]

That’s always a pet peeve for me, especially in relationships. If you don’t like something, work to change it 🙂

[@tangiewimberly7445]

This was same with my ex. Every day for years. I couldn’t take it anymore. 😢

[@xteyraxful]

Exactly

[@livinglovinglatora3574]

I have been told by multiple people that I can be rude or a B@!ch😂 I used to think it was funny but now it’s very evident people perceive me this way. I guess I’m triggered even more because these “people” have no idea the things I’ve been through. I just keep my guard up from others so I’m not hurt again by anyone. I know that may be a harsh tactic but I didn’t know what else to do to protect my energy. I was really sweet once upon a time and it has changed. Stephan help!😩😩

[@katmcc76]

I really like this! What if the person is going through some challenging times? Everyone is not going to be 100% all the time! I believe men should learn to be more understanding with women, especially with hormone imbalances at different stages in her life!

[@HapillyMe]

Thank you! Men are too harsh on women. No one is perfect.

[@77jesse77]

Daily complaining is tough tho. Especially if your partner tries to insert positivity into your negative day, and you frequently reject it with doom and gloom.

[@denisebrathwaite3300]

When you are married, this warrants understanding as in "for better or worse", However, in a dating situation the man may not feel like they have to deal with women personal issues.

[@leasparkles2861]

Your approach is so respectful and sweet..and your content is on point..nice job sir 👍🏻❤

[@ce4139]

Great episode! I’m a woman and I agree with everything you said. I don’t like these things in women as well-friend, foe, whatever.

[@ChrissyVonn]

Positive affirmations for women may be helpful for being more peaceful, positive, and kind. I feel like this is one of the things that helps me stay in my feminine, by starting the day with light and positivity & carrying that energy throughout the day. Thanks for the video! So excited for the event in DC! 🙌🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@dionesk4077]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love love love this message & how u delivered it. This messages opened my eyes to a different perspective on how I address people at work. Ive been told multiple times that my delivery of information to ppl is coming off a bit mean and or harsh... and like u mentioned...I didn't see it...but after watching this, and reflecting on how I respond to some ppl...I can admit that I came off too harsh and could have taken a more subtle approach to how I respond. Thank God for tomorrow being a new day..and I get the opportunity to improve and evolve. Thank u again for allowing God to use u to deliver these kind of messages to assist ppl who are on a path of self discovery & evolution 🙏🏽

[@sandic8172]

Another kind, diplomatic and informative video that is definitely needed to help us attract and have better relationships with men-- platonic and romantic. TFS! I agree we must be mindful of how we talk to each other. A gentle tone can make a difference when asking for what we need and/or want from others.❤

[@IsaidwhatIsaid2]

Thank you adding the health and wellness tips that are equally as important to this video.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You’re welcome 🙏

[@gmilner84]

Thank you for this AWESOME video. So excited to see you again in ATL! In my opinion, women who are fully healed and ready for relationship don't like these same traits in men either.

[@shayemissions]

We appreciate you sir! I have gained so much understanding from listening to your videos the last 17 months. THANK YOU sir! Literally life changing! ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're very welcome 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy to hear that 🙏

[@mcleodintl]

I TRULY APPRECIATE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AS IT RELATES TO WOMEN REJECTING YOUR OPINION ON MEN😅😂😂 AS FOR THE REST OF US WHO APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENTS AND KNOW WE CAN EASILY CLICK UNTO SOMEONE ELSE, BUT DON'T...HERE'S A HEARTY GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU STEPHAN SPEAKS!❤❤❤

[@bertbrowm4488]

I do love makeup and sometimes I like wearing lots but usually I wear less. However I try my best to stay close to my natural look, as I wear less. That's true I get more compliments when I wear less makeup. With my ex I wore both less and more and he said I looked prettier with less.

[@donnatownsendp]

I’ve let go of anything and anybody that brings drama or anything that disturbs my peace of mind. I don’t have the energy for it

[@fightforhealth1]

Complaining leads to bitterness.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@ShakiraG9339]

I just feel men need similar advice. I feel like the burden is always on the woman to constantly cater to a man. I love being a woman. I have no issues being a woman. However, men need to allow us women to “be feminine “ and to pour love and respect in the relationship.

[@4EverGr8ful1]

The problem is that more and more women have zero standards and lack adequate self worth! Men AND women need to up their game!! 🙏

[@shakishamickle1233]

I think your videos are very informative. I appreciate your opinions and I don’t view anything you say as offensive or trying to tell us what to do, I look at the information you provide as information that is good to know.

[@hollyerwin-qw6hv]

I love this video and the diplomatic delivery 😂 i like the section on makeup. I over plucked my eyebrows and they never grew back so I draw them on, but sometimes the look weird. I even drew them extra heavy once to try and repel a married man I fancied haha. I'll get them properly tattooed eventually.

[@susanpidgeon9683]

I enjoy your videos that come from a male perspective. The way you tell females info is unique and helpful not harsh or judgmental. Thank you! Great job!

[@Zodiacconnections]

Thank you Stephan for this insightful video! As a relationship coach and astrology enthusiast, I appreciate your balanced approach to helping women understand what works in relationships. It’s true that even if we’re feeling fed up with dating now, those feelings can change, and it’s great to be prepared. Your point about avoiding drama and striving for peace is so important. For those of us who follow astrology, it’s interesting to note that certain signs, like Libra and Taurus, naturally seek harmony and balance in relationships. Let’s all aim to bring more peace and positivity into our love lives. Thanks for always pouring into us with love and helping us get what we deserve!

[@marlenelindsey7638]

Ladies let me tell you about the most beautiful perfume I just treated myself too, as a gift to myself for cutting cigarettes out of my life. This perfume by Gucci called Guilty just replaced my 20 year old favorite (by Givency). I have never smelled such a nice, balanced, subtle and classy scent! GUILTY BY GUICCI!!!

[@4EverGr8ful1]

Congratulations on quitting smoking... Bravo!! 🎉🥂

[@itzjess88]

I'm still tryna quit smoking but love a good scent. I like saving coin too tho so what's the price range?

[@aishabyrd974]

Thanks for these videos Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome 🙏

[@jadhirarivera5745]

I really appreciate your content and your delivery. Thank you so much for all your help ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm so glad 🙏

[@tamaralillard7820]

I do all of these things ❤❤❤ Where’s my husband 😂😂

[@cytinachavis9157]

I'm saying.😂

[@auroraxxfacekilla49]

Rightt, lol. Must be we got a real good man on the way, if God is taking his time with it!

[@cece932]

It doesn't matter what you do. If you were White, Asian, or Hispanic, none of what you do would matter. Get it?

[@MzTeriberry]

​@@cytinachavis9157maybe he isn't born yet😁

[@itzjess88]

I'm starting to believe mine died before I could meet him lol

[@4EverGr8ful1]

I appreciate you *"Keepin' It Real!"* 🙏👍

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏❤️

[@Kirk-d7v]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks youtube.com/@rcblakesjr.?feature=shared

[@maryknox1085]

I only wear mascara and eyeliner , I’m good with just that 😊, Thank You Stephan

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

Some very great advice!👏🏾👏🏾 The one with the kids is me, and believe me! it does work😀 thank you Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🧡🤎🧡👌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're so welcome! 🙏

[@kathymanley8711]

🙋‍♀️, I care, we all need to get along and you help me understand men. Thank you!! My question how does 1 meet men when I'm in my 60's. I'm not doing a dating app. Too many narcissist out there!!!!!

[@4EverGr8ful1]

Just go about doing things YOU enjoy! *"High-value Men"* are typically NOT on dating apps. They're out living their lives... taking classes, hiking, biking, playing/watching sports, etc, etc... Don't think most men are Narcissists... the emotionally healthy ones aren't!! Be blessed! 🙏❤✝️

[@leontynehudson1748]

I appreciate your consul, I’m not in a relationship. Very informative, and applicable I’ll be ready when it happens. I love PEACE ☮️💫❤️

[@diannearevalo6247]

Hello stephan watching your videos help me understand and communicate better with my husband more I enjoy listening to your videos

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

That's great!🙏

[@donnatownsendp]

I agree…..anybody that’s full of drama is very taxing and draining. #Run

[@jessycars6305]

I came across your videos last week. You are a beautiful spirit and you bring your message very compassionate. Thank you for that. Great content. I have been single by choice and have work on myself for many years. I dont like too much makeup. I like natural.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Some guys I notice define a "drama queen" differently. For some it's a wider scale than it is for others. ...

[@genacubanita]

Thank you for what you do!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure 🙏

[@KELLITX]

You addressed the makeup situation very diplomatically. Well done! 🤣

[@mariad1151]

On the other hand, too bad guys can't use it to pick up their looks...

[@313Mulan]

I literally think I screwed up my chance because I wore a new burgundy eyeliner that I was so excited to wear for my first date LOL. Let's just say, he never called me back afterwards! 😂😂😂

[@mariad1151]

@@313Mulan his loss! Joke's on him😁

[@abenaavi]

​@@mariad1151may be surpised that some men do!

[@mariad1151]

@abenaavi maybe mick jagger was the 1st w geen eye shadow. Steven Tyler wore eyeliner. .& won Sexiest Man Alive several times. David Bowie & he was not a pretty... If it helps ...

[@Validheart]

Thank you for this video.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always my pleasure

[@katrinanelson6175]

This is really good... greatly appreciated.✨

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad you found it helpful

[@katrinanelson6175]

@@MeetStephanSpeakswith some, lol. 😆 It's all great though. ❤️

[@bertbrowm4488]

My family is definitely drama, when I find my man, adios to my family, I cba. I'll see them once in a while

[@saynotohookups]

I hardly wear makeup. With guys I'm generally not into beards and mustaches unless they are done a certain way. Just like men want to know what is underneath a woman's makeup i want to know what is underneath the beard.

[@4EverGr8ful1]

I agree! I'm ready to see some "clean-shaven faces" guys... enough of the beards already!! 😁😜

[@ladlesandoven]

How can you compare natural beard hair to fake makeup looks.....had any man told you to shave your heard or discard your wigs to see whats underneath???....y'all be delulu

[@saynotohookups]

@@ladlesandoven Um, buddy you can't compare a head of hair to a big bushy beard and mustache that covers the bottom half of your face. Tell me it doesn't make a difference when the mustache and beard gets shaved off completely.

[@ladlesandoven]

@@saynotohookups shave off all your hair completely before your husband marries you okay... Thanks

[@4EverGr8ful1]

​@@ladlesandoven Wow, someone got triggered BIG TIME!! We women are entitled to OUR opinions, got it?? 🙄

[@jennalehman9681]

Thank you for teaching me a new technique to try on my teenage son .😁 I can’t wait to try it out, I can’t stand having to get loud for him to listen..

[@Portia620]

The opening! ❤😂 toxic men love drama!

[@wendykaranja4801]

You are doing an amazing job and are good at it thankyou for your invaluable nuggets Thank you for being a barak to us ❤

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Excellent video 👏🏼💯❤️ I love it❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I love all your videos & posts… it’s encouraging! You always give wonderful godly advice too. God has His hands upon your life & what you’re doing! God bless you! ❤️💯

[@SelinaMucera]

You are amazing at what you do Stephan thank you for your invaluable nuggets❤

[@Deecurlylife]

I don’t think women understand the difference between being assertive and straight up rude

[@youareforgiven2634]

I too feel BLESSED BY BROTHER STEPHAN

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m very happy to hear that 🙂

[@user-zg6rw2qd8p]

Can you please add timestamps or a way to see points quicker?

[@sierrapartee3068]

I know I love his content but it’s too long winded for me.

[@mitchellepraxcedes6459]

Very useful info❤...thank you Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome 🙏

[@Ivy_Citrine23]

Thank you stephan ❤your videos it helps a lot for me. I'm dealing a toxic man currently..😪Extremely rude, and manipulator😢

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome 🙏

[@debbiebramwell]

Why are you dealing with this man and his toxicity?

[@4EverGr8ful1]

*"You Teach People How To Treat You!"* ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

[@JacquelineBeavers]

Why are you dealing with him if he is toxic and rude. You don't know how to take out the trash?

[@JacquelineBeavers]

@@4EverGr8ful1 Preach!

[@donnatownsendp]

Rudeness is very ugly on anyone

[@islandgurlgj]

This is why I do not watch shows like RHO whatever and Love and Hip Hop. Reality shows in general. I quickly stopped when I caught myself mindlessly mimmicking their mannerisms and ways of speaking. It is very easy for exessive consumption of this type of media to bleed into real life.

[@mariastavrakis7046]

You just described my ex husband he was all of these things! Works both ways ! 😅😂🤦🏻‍♀️😉❣️❣️

[@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit]

It's a sensitive subject, but you delivered it well, Stephan. It hard to say it's wasn't Kosher.🤭

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@sandyhugheskawaii8730]

All great advice!🙌🏻 I want to give some tips for other ladies even though I'm mortified to comment publicly about this topic.😂🤭 It has to do with the hygiene topic that Stephan mentioned. He may not realize that some women are easily irritated by soap down there. I know people have different opinions about whether or not to use soap in that very sensitive area. I am in the soap camp but I know that some people are easily irritated by it. If that is the case, whatever you use should be fragrance free. You can try a castile soap with oils in it, like Dr. Bronner's unscented liquid formula. Or you can try a soap with a super gentle surfactant, like Cetaphil moisturizing relief body wash. Never wash up inside, if you know what I mean. Then afterwards, you can moisturize with coconut oil. It's solid at room temperature, so it's easy to work with, and it's safe for that area unless you are allergic, of course. I use the one by Spectrum because it's marketed for skin/hair care, so it's in a tub with a wide opening for easy access. I hope this helps someone.😄💖

[@RMMomma4Eva]

Vinegar works wonders. Dilute if sensitive. And it's okay to wipe it outside and spray it inside, just don't put it inside more than say once a week. Less if sensitive. But it is needed sometimes.

[@natnel617]

Epsom salt and tea tree baths also help. Helps keep bacteria and thrush at bay as well as keeping one smelling fresh.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback

[@aishahadjoua5485]

Thank you Stephan. I understand and appreciate the information. God bless you! Aishah

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure 🙂

[@kearalove751]

this was a great video!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much 😁

[@empressnaja]

Broken people are just that broken. You just got to recognize the signs. Broken people love other broken people. So they could ruin their lives, they feed on it like a fungus

[@Kirk-d7v]

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[@4EverGr8ful1]

That's exactly why it is imperative to find healing (seek therapy) before entering into a relationship, right?? 🙏

[@empressnaja]

@@4EverGr8ful1 Exactly this why I advocate for it.💯😏 Therapy it could help you just have to be open to it. And you have to choose the right therapist for you. It takes time and work, and you have to do the work for it to be successful. It doesn't happen over night. It takes time to heal, and with prayer the most high God will get you where he wants you to be. If you get out of the way. 🤔💯🙌👍🏿

[@cleovernebaptiste2747]

God don't like complainers Stephen look at what happen to the children of Israel they complain give the glory in every situation, love you Stephen continue to shine

[@mariacolucci6958]

Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome! 🙏

[@Redford444]

Great content

[@tobeywan8331]

Hello Stephan, upload videos on the men's channel more plis!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m going to get back on track with that

[@adwoaboakye265]

I’m the first to watch, yaaaaaaay.🎉

[@MyStateFarmAgentIsAnquanie]

😂 love it!

[@genacubanita]

Yes!! Love it

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌❤️

[@rl798]

I'm an authentic person. Better than a fake person. If people don't like it then just keep on walking, I don't want fake people in my life🤨

[@sss_tan]

Stephan, I love your videos. Could you give advice on timeline of dating - when should you have sex, when should you ask him what questions when getting to know each other first, because I feel like a lot of women struggle with this and to not scare men away. I would be really thankful...

[@trx1579]

Makeup and created glamour at their best are art forms and enhance a level of fantasy/spice in life, and there are men who appreciate that as long as we don't become addicted to it in order to feel remotely presentable. I would be bored without occasionally trying out a new cat eye/pinup girl red lip or something fun like that.

[@TanyaOden]

Great video! I loved the introduction! I know that you care and is genuinely trying to help us. Thank YOU!! I think the points are applicable for both genders. Women dislike those things too. However the point about the make-up...I can really see why that's SO concerning for men. It's so many false images out here. Not only with excessive make-up but with the fake everything else (hair, eye bows, eye lashes, teeth, lip injections/botox, veneers, breast implants, tummy tucks, BBL, fake nails, etc). Come on ladies.. rock your NATURAL BEAUTY!! You're BEAUTIFUL!! Be proud of the way God made you! Also only God knows what those chemicals, dyes, etc. are doing to our bodies.

[@eilly8137]

Peace, Luv! It was interesting watching you tread "carefully" through these suggestions. The community must be giving you the blues!! 😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It’s all good. I’m still going to help 🙏

[@eilly8137]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate you completely! The community may be so focused on defending themselves that they are missing the fact that you're offering insider tips for getting faster results. I hear you though! 😉

[@msdemeanour]

Ladies, no man finds giant tarantula lashes sexy. Just sayin!

[@marlenelindsey7638]

Thank God!

[@4EverGr8ful1]

LOL... or *"Dagger Nails!"* 😳👎

[@slashblue9190]

I always go natural (no makeup) on the first date, make up on the second, and as I please then on (I am not always in the mood for makeup

[@GoddessYvonne3]

Totally agree🔥🔥🔥

[@annabella2528]

@ 31 min - be tactful 😊

[@gailosbourne1440]

Gd evening, stephan, This topic is so interesting. I really appreciate you explain with love . That empathy. Really to be honest. , The same traits that goes for the man also goes for the woman. To be honest some man need an housewife , the things they do sometimes, and how they do things , some cannot do nothing at all around the home . most of them are so lie , sometimes they are the ones that cause the problems in the relationship. 😂😊

[@dtpbach]

@22:52 this is a very tough situation. I had a friend who was married. She was beautiful but her breath was horrendous! I just figured everyone knew, especially her husband. NO ONE TOLD HER. She divorced her husband since then but still..even he didn't tell her! She finally was told and got help and she said to me "the most loving thing you can do is tell someone when their breath is bad" I also went on a date last year with a very handsome, successful man. MY LORD GOD JESUS - HIS DRAGON BREATH hit me while he was talking to me. This was a man who claimed to be a clean freak too - OMG CLEAN YOUR DANG BREATH! There were no other dates. LOL I'm laughing so hard as I type this. Bad breath is a big deal breaker for me because I love to kiss more than anything however; I DO NOT have the guts to tell someone that their brefff stank! How do I do this?????!!!!!

[@anonymousbee]

Just say it. Say that I can notice your breath and scowl a bit. A intelligent guy will take the hint.

[@paulajohnson3811]

Offer a breath mint or a piece of gum😬

[@flora91161]

Sometimes it’s internal. Stomach ulcers, tonsil stones, infections. You may be helping someone by telling them😭

[@dtpbach]

@@anonymousbee Easier said than done. On a first date, I'm not sure if one can say this without really knowing how the other will respond,

[@dtpbach]

@@paulajohnson3811 NOPE.. that never works.

[@IsabellaMorris-]

I think you are adorable, intelligent and soo handsome. I can listen to you for a fair amount of time ❤

[@traceykillen6957]

Food for thought Stephan.. blunt people are more likely to be on the Autism scale and finding the person who is right for you when you don't have any idea how normal people behave is fraught with mistakes.. taking time and not rushing into anything is always good advice for anyone .. Do things in haste and repent at leisure..do a background check..and work out why you seem to be attracting the wrong type of man.. I have learnt these things from you and others and from things I have observed myself..you make sense Stephan..I truly enjoy listening to you...

[@darkimchicat]

i think the proper mindset is to focus on your growth as a person and knowing yourself. the right man will be attracted to your inner beauty and your genuine self

[@ClassyWithChrist]

Can you make a video on where to find these types of men you always talking about in your videos.😭🤣🤣

[@JacquelineBeavers]

Amen, and again I say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@theemajesticbeauty7236]

😂😂😂 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@donnatownsendp]

Proverbs talks about how a wise woman buildeth her house & a foolish one plucketh it down

[@thecly9245]

He sounds like my mother. 😂 the things he speak of are the things my mother said but I didn't want to listen. Felt like she was old and out of touch. Such a shame it took me getting older to see how much it all made sense.

[@SyxTreasure]

Can we do a live here just one

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m gonna make that happen soon

[@JudyChilds-fu4em]

You're building bridges between us❣️👍💞

[@HapillyMe]

I'm exhausted with all these videos on how women should act, or what we should wear. I find it very unattractive when a man does not listen to women. Thst creates resentment. Men, work on being better listeners.

[@JStig12]

@HapillyMe What specifically do you think/feel that men are not listening to women about?

[@4EverGr8ful1]

*"You Teach People How To Treat You!"* ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

[@Time4change111]

Some relationships that I have noticed that failed on the mans part were due to the male being toxic instead of peace, being petty instead of calm and mature, being unfaithful instead of faithful, lacking taking accountability instead of admitting wrong, taking responsibility and correcting his behavior with Grace and calmness, disrespecting the woman, demanding she submit to her instead of both the man and the woman submitting​ to God then to one another, lying, looking at other women instead of having integrity, listening to other toxic males and females that trick people into trying to dominate, control, be petty, negative, unfaithful and immature that usually secretly causes the other person to loose interest, love and the feeling of safety this causing unhappiness and usually ending the relationship. The best advice is to listen to God and you both learn to love one another like Jesus loved us all as Jesus says. Kindness, calm, productive conversations, peace, patience, maturity and love wins when you are willing to put in the same and grow with the person God has guided you to😎 God bless chief@@JStig12

[@77jesse77]

What about the men that have been listening and validating? What about those of us who been there hearing the same issues and complaints from women who don't want solutions?

[@user-bm3lv8xk8s]

i have an open mind i want to learn

[@teresapr2106]

So what you saying is you cannot discuss or ask advice from your partner? So, what's the whole point in communicating to him. I am asking for is a listening ear and get his advice that I am struggling with the decision.

[@maryannpeele529]

❤Facts ... 👌👏👏👏

[@donnatownsendp]

AGM: Attention Getting Mechanisms doesn’t always work

[@opalbeach9626]

My teenage son Always do things when I ask him sweetly and say thanks . You catch more bees with honey than vinegar.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@JacquelineBeavers]

That's one thing I disagree with. I shouldn't have to tell you more than once to do something and I'm paying all the bills and taking care of your dusty ass. I'm going to ask you nice. Once, then you are going to face some repercussions. That's how my parents did it and it's good enough for these youngins today too. I'm not begging you! As for a man, if I even have to tell you once, BRO you got to go. You are not going to lay up on your ass and not contribute to every aspect of the household, just like me. Go find you a mama to wipe your butt. Periodt!

[@brittneythompson2041]

Hey Stephen, there are videos people are making of “why men are not approaching women anymore” I understand there is bad women out here, but not all of us are bad. Not all of us are the Sexyy reds or 304s. I feel like social media has ruined some people’s view of dating. This is coming from a 20 yr old. Wondering will I find my person? What does this mean for us young adults coming up?I’m not like some of the women that have all of the unrealistic expectations.

[@RMMomma4Eva]

Yes you're going to meet him, he's going to find you. So you want to work on yourself so you'll be ready when he arrives! Create a good career for yourself, a home that's comfortable and organized, a reliable car, maintain your health and grooming, don't sit in the house, and incorporate Stephan's tips including from this video. And it will happen, a good guy will see you shining. Just be patient and work on yourself. Quality far surpasses quantity. ❤✨🙏🏽✅

[@brittneythompson2041]

@@RMMomma4Evathank you so much! I needed this 🥰❤

[@vaksehund2]

Bc I came from a 90% dysfunctional family & most of what came out of our mouthes was negative I took that with me most my young adult life. Until a class mate told me I was negative I never analyzed the words I spoke. Then & there I changed the words, not my thoughts though. I've only recently given that to Jesus completely, not expecting change to happen by itself. What a relief. Now I don't want to control situations, but push the negative gently aside (almost like grey rocking a narcissist). Why waste time engaging, right?