Men Make Their Own Lives Difficult | Life Setup

[@Hamza97]

your vids are a gold mine of wisdom for young men, thank you bro

[@faisalnaeem5461]

cap

[@SuZhii]

@@faisalnaeem5461 L+ratio

[@zaveyy]

finding yours and kris channel changed my life, insane

[@HardTimesCreateStrongMen]

Still waiting for Hamza and Kris podcast, preferably at least 90 min long..you guys have so much to talk about and I think there is many interesting topics that you can discuss.

[@cathay11]

Yep, your vids are strangely simillar to kris lately. And i dont even know if i should condemn you for copying him or condone you for supporting him 😅

[@AliHussain-ze9dy]

It’s underrated how naturally funny Kris is with his stories.

[@HardTimesCreateStrongMen]

Yeah I listened lots of his videos because I have 5km commute to work so I cycle and listen to him, the amounts of times I burst out laughing out of nowhere while cycling is too much😅 Those stories are hilarious but in their own way

[@AliHussain-ze9dy]

@@HardTimesCreateStrongMen facts man haha

[@matthatake6227]

When he starts kind of ranting I just start cracking up. “Are you a pathetic little girl or are you a real woman”

[@trevordamoose2421]

Not someone to comment but so true

[@tmoneyofficial1]

exactly loool

[@MrJJGeniusofBasketball]

“I spent my whole life trying not to be careless. Women and children can afford to be careless, but not men.” Godfather summed up your video with this quote. So many great lessons for men in that movie

[@1STMAN]

Great comment man. One slip up and it adds 5-10 years to your journey

[@TheEnhancedMan]

Funny my 36yo friend told me recently sex doesn't interest him now with family life. When I asked him if he was rich & single would the answer be the same, the answer was "No"

[@1STMAN]

Yeah it's a real sad outcome that no one warns us about. We think we're doing the right thing and then shock, the women are happy and we're living life on autopilot. We need a film based around this for the 1stman streaming platform, this gens fight club I think

[@1houraday1]

I'm not sure you're aware how deep of an impact you're having on the lives of young men Kris. Obviously you've been helping us, but for me personally your videos have been inspiring me for 6 months now to improve more than I could have imagined. I was listening to The Male Advantage audiobook while I would fall asleep, when traveling, I listen to your videos every day, even repeating them. Your teaching has permeated into the way I think daily, so working out and working on my business (which I started about a month after finding you on KZbin) seems so enjoyable and exciting and right. As a 24 year old, you've given me such a positive outlook on the next decades of my life that I certainly otherwise wouldn't have had. You're a role model for men everywhere, and I know once you have the men's streaming platform up, you'll continue helping increasingly more people. Cheers mate, I really do appreciate all that you do and I'm sure so many guys in these comments have their own stories to tell you about how much of a change you're making.

[@1houraday1]

Also, since I know Hamza enjoys your videos as much as I do, cheers to him for teaching young men the importance of showing gratitude. If either of you stop making videos, I'm going to have to start paying premium for private calls hahah

[@animal79thecat]

they are all scammers@@1houraday1

[@AnNguyen-vn4sy]

This is so true and I'm always so grateful that I didn't go into debt for college because everyone else was going. I don't have kids. Now I'm making $20k month and setting myself up for future success. Women can't help eyeing me in the gym or grocery store, they just have an intuition about men who have it together and men who don't. Life is absolutely beautiful right now lol.

[@Z_A0099]

Nice, seen you before here, out of curiosity what do you do? Software? Finance? Run your own business like ecommerce?

[@WheresLauretta]

🔥

[@antruongphuoc174]

Nice to see another Vietnamese Brother

[@MrSuchasoorma]

This vid was raw man. But the truth is always raw. Hate being lied too and mollycuddled. Reality is bitter but essential

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man, I've been getting a lot of stick lately from speaking facts and being honest, people gravitate towards liars because they make them feel good

[@disorder_go]

I had the perfect, stress-free life in 2019. I was single a few years, travelled lots , plenty of money and wanted for nothing. Then I met a girl. We’ve just split up and my head is a mess and I feel so stuck. There’s a lesson in there somewhere.

[@patoluis6349]

How have you been bro?

[@Rudeusquagmire]

Thanks again for the insights Kuya Chris, ‘kuya’ in my culture refers to older brother or a polite title for an older man. Binging your videos has been the best. Making workouts easier, optimism towards future is sky high, I know my place in society and I don’t feel “wronged” that I don’t have the recognition I think I deserve. As you’ve said in previous videos, you must earn it. Actually build something that is worthwhile. Build the life and man I must be to reach outlier male status. I have all the time since I’m still 17, a few days ago I really started realizing how ridiculously young I am. I have so much time ahead to stay patient maxing my pillar in fitness then building my life setup. Can’t wait to see more of your life setup videos man. From Philippines🙏🤟

[@lostnthought]

represent 🇵🇭🤟

[@noahpolicarpio1530]

Hey! PH represent 🙌 wagmi brahs

[@theblackkaiser5748]

Even though women from the west is different compared to asian women, his points still applies.

[@mustafarasool1261]

You're so right on point! This is so true in Asian cultures where men are raised to take this linear path to life. To play it safe and not take risks. To think that marriage will solve all their worries. In reality they share all their worries, insecurities & have someone to blame to. I'm going to be 33 this year, moved to a different country to start over, focusing on my mental & physical health. Marriage is the last thing on my mind right now.

[@WusshA]

"F**k off, I'm not your chauffeur" must be one of the most golden moments on the channel. 😆😆🤣

[@nappylin1393]

Marriage for me is out the picture. I think even living with a female is out the picture, Im 21 now and just observing my parents relationship I don't believe I can do this.

[@danferraro3598]

and you are hella young...you got sooooo much time...go after your dreams first and foremost

[@Rapalienz]

Be the boss good girls will come, but be a smart boss not a rich target

[@samgamblewhite8600]

It's cool bro just keep upgrading yourself and when you are ready the right girl will come into your life who you can actually see yourself loving.

[@mrinmoychakravarty705]

Yes Same here

[@SavageSanto]

I’m 28 with no girlfriend, no baby momma, no wife, no kids, just focused myself and the getting money. I live on a Condo by the beach in Fort Lauderdale !!! Life is amazing 🙏🏿

[@anthonylozano8035]

There is natural beauty in family. It is in our inherent nature to be patriarchs. I agree, don’t have a child until your financially and emotionally ready, but don’t smack on a man’s decision to get married and have a family. The fact that we DONT have strong families in the West is the primary reason we are seeing such sharp decline in happiness, success, and marriages.

[@ashman8406]

Yup. Was thinking the same. Men throughout time would have families very young.

[@petere4595]

You're forgetting that there used to be a lot more stability in the past, the women stayed at home and the man brought home the dough. Now the man has to provide, clean the house, look after the child and support his wife in her "career". No one has time for their kids anymore.

[@nick-wd4vn]

I stumbled onto your channel when I was starting self-improvement and you have honestly changed my life. I have been grinding for the past year and for the first time in my life I have been proud of my body and I am looking forward to the summertime. I also got accepted into my dream school and will be continuing to improve myself every day. Thank you Kris, you are like the father figure that a lot of us young man never had

[@anesumasimba7457]

bro, am Zimbabwean and the culture of marriage is pushed, but it keeps people in the same cycle of doom of not upgrading their lives due to providing for expenses for the family, you are the few insightful fellows on KZbin who makes sense and logic! Everyone thinks I am crazy when I share your similar ideologies, especially this one I thought I was crazy too for thinking like that but now it makes sense glad there are people who share the same traits and notions!

[@MC-qm5jn]

The first section definitely reminds me of what hamza is saying. He generally recommends to help yourself before you help others, both for your sake and to make the help you provide higher quality. And you can definitely see that in becoming the man you want to be before having children

[@CryptoMedia-wk8ms]

Look forward to this mate. Honestly used to think you were full of shit before, because of my ego and immaturity, but binged watched a lot of your vids yesterday and really like your messages. Thanks a lot for all the advice mate.

[@tylerputnam4690]

Hey Kris, I just watched your videos on the average male being a 3/10 and it gave me such an incredible sense of optimism for the future. I'm 22 right now, and I am currently getting into powerlifting while finishing up my last semester at University, and I can tell that the best thing for me is to put in the work for my looks and my career and then the rest will follow. Hell, once I'm in the top 25 percent of men I'll be attractive to basically 50 percent of all women but I know it's not going to stop there. Thanks for all the amazing advice, watching your channel daily over the past few months has really changed my perception of the world.

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

Looksmaxxing + maximising status/money are key. Even outside of the women, these will make our lives far more enjoyable

[@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm]

We’re all gonna make it!

[@amber_limitless]

He totally explained my situation..I'm handling everything exactly like the way he said... there was not one to discuss about my situation. Now I'm 100% confident about all the decisions,I'm making.. Thanks 🙏👍

[@MK-zf6or]

19 yr old and my only focus is -- finishing my degree, getting my bag, getting ripped, and reading books that will improve my life and implement what i read. Chasing women is the dumbest shit one can do lol

[@mihirkhanolkar4847]

Hey man best video put hands down, society pressures us into doing things we dont like, guess we must put us first

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man appreciate it. Yeah the media, society, they'll really push hard, but men who give in just aren't happy

[@mihirkhanolkar4847]

Correct and this is mainly common in our indian society too

[@slice768]

“If you begin to regret, you’ll dull your future decisions and let others make your choices for you. All that’s left for you then is to die. Nobody can for tell the outcome. Each decision you make holds meaning only by affecting your next decision.” -Erwin Smith

[@vegeta1818]

We need to make sacrifices in order to have something greater. As long as you have a goal and a vision that you can work towards.

[@readtheinternet7073]

Agree with everything said. When you’re not used to getting your needs met, prioritizing yourself and your goals feels selfish.

[@gymgodzyzzfuark1643]

Seeing all the positive comments is so heartwarming. Lots of love for you Kris in the comments, and its well deserved!

[@JorgeCruz-zn2vn]

Kris make so many excellent points here. I know a lot of red pill guys are not for marriage/family but you can be red pill aware and still want those things. The point is prioritize life set up, become a high value male then do whatever the hell you want to do. I’m a traditional guy, Christian, so I do believe in marriage but i want to remove the government involvement. Any ways a lot of my friends got married early without having this life setup and I think it’s a mistake. Life would be so much easier for a man to focus on himself from 18-35 then think about kids and a LTR/marriage once he has reached his peak in fitness, money and life setup. Even at 35 if you’re not there, put it off until you are. When you finally got that set up your happy with get yourself a girl 10-15 younger than you, you’ll be a way better catch than the guys her age. She comes into your world, since you’re the older more experience and have the life setup, she is entering into your frame. This is a perfect set up to have a family and kids if you’re into that but do the work first. Also even with that setup don’t have your kid until your 40.

[@mrinmoychakravarty705]

Kris your channel is goldmine for young people, the amount of wisdom you have given us we will save a lot of time not doing marriage, kids, mortgage in 20's

[@doctort434]

This guy spoke my mind, having a child really showed me how much I hated being a father, at least at this point in my life. The constant need to have money to spend on something the kid needs, fear of the child falling sick, the anxiety of the child falling sick, the feeling you can't do anything else but take care of your child. It's not worth it

[@mnurrreza]

How old are you?

[@doctort434]

@@mnurrreza 36

[@adrian3747_]

Im turnjng 32 and that’s my thought process. I dunno why nobody gets it

[@richardroy6490]

@@adrian3747_ normies sip the koolaide

[@chelosmexiko6836]

True words. I enjoy my son but damn.

[@nate4524]

Thank you Kris for this informative video and advice where you have mentioned how the decisions you make can really have a positive or negative impact on your life set up. Just make things easier in your life only if you have capability and the time to do so. I just keep improving my life everyday due to your videos which then gives me self-motivation, drive and determination to go harder than ever and given me a positive outlook on the next decades of my life. I shall not stop until I have an amazing life set up I desire. You are an inspiration to the male community especially for the men on this KZbin channel. I am a true advocate that your men's streaming platform is going to go amazingly far. Cheers brother

[@fusionzmaster]

Great video, Kris! I’ve been on the life setup grind for a few months now (looks, gym, finances, and a small amount of game/charisma) and I’m already seeing results. I’m wondering, however, if going to the gym as a natural leaves me at a disadvantage compared to enhanced lifters. My intuition is that if I maximize all areas and have a great natural body then I shouldn’t worry about being enhanced and risking my natural testosterone production.

[@TheJacali]

Steroids suck bro. People seriously underestimate what can be achieved naturally. If you’re willing to put in years of work the ceiling is practically limitless. Key is to always be getting smarter. If you’re not making gains then you don’t know enough.

[@akashpathak6505]

17:43 Same energy man, soo inspiring 🗣️💯

[@MrSuchasoorma]

You're right about the role of a father for toddlers but actually there's more subconscious things going on like familiarisation. The development of a child's personality, safety etc. But I do get you. Also some people need responsibility and motivation in the form of family, their personal "purpose".

[@millejansson4799]

A strong dad is essential for the kids grow up stages no mater if its a girl or boy

[@millejansson4799]

when they start living that is, so around 4 5 y/o

[@joaoalegria7578]

Just binged your audio book in 1 day and a half and I'd advise any man to buy it, it's cheap, short and sweet, and gives advice that many man should have learned from their fathers growing up, ideally. I have a different approach to fitness because it works, but well done Kris! Cheers 💪

[@felixjohn-hassan9158]

You're really starting to look much better looking Chris. I've followed the sort of day to day things to look better, especially advice that you conveyed through Mike Mew. Hollow cheeks and jawline are starting to appear. Thank you very much.

[@urvakshbagwadia9758]

I am a guy and I completely agree with everything except the fact that I think you could have a dogs. I absolutely love dogs

[@rainbow8690]

Kris you have helped me so much I am so grateful for all these videos and the way you have opened my mind

[@joser7376]

Kris is the most unintentionally funny guy ever.

[@manifest2203]

Yes agree with the idea of life setup. It is so true that our choices will screw us over if we are not careful. As a 24 yo girl, I can see I am already living this lifestyle. I wanted to have my decade of fun. I plan to have kids (if I dont change my mind by then) in my early 30s.

[@hanzzyjobe2311]

this is the best advise i ever ever hear in my entire life. bravo bro

[@aleksandarilic4581]

Thanks for everything man, i really appreciate everything you've done fo us men. I am 21and i've just gonne true a toxic breakup after one year, I haven't come from abundance mindset and have settled for a low quality women, I have a bit of money from family business but i wonna make soo much more and just keep self improving, thanks bro so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@unknown-zi4pj]

Boxer's I'm buying Got to represent this channel has changed my view on life

[@tankthepitbull520]

Kris emanates, natural alpha energy. I like it ❤️

[@crypticself80]

Keep the Life Setuo Series going man!! Great stuff

[@simonsays5193]

We need a sort of "Facebook" for men who think like us. To make new productive and like minded friends, to make networking connections, to motivate and encourage one another, to be supported in our ambitions and goals, and to just shoot the shit but with class. I think most of us don't have a tight group of like minded people in our circles. And although I have a girlfriend who is just as ambitious as me, (we don't want kids) most of my male friends have either settled in marriages, have kids, or both, or are not going anywhere in life period. The old saying goes that you are the person who you spend most of your time with and in some ways I feel like I have outgrown many of my male friends. The problem for me and many other men is they only have friends in their lives who are not on the same level or mindset as us. I think men like us need to build an online/in-person community. To bring all the 1st men of the world together!

[@Pynss]

always a good day when kris uploads

[@1STMAN]

Appreciate it man, thank you for watching

[@Pynss]

@@1STMAN no, thank YOU for providing us with such amazing value.

[@TheBookofrhymes]

This man speaks facts!

[@_4L]

Love listening to these long videos during my workout

[@jackmetcalfe8542]

Really good video, summarised a few things I've thought about for several years in a concise way. There seem to be so many traps in life that are easy to fall into without the correct knowlege, and I see so many of my friends walking straight into them without fully thinking the consequences through. #1 for me is marriage, I don't know a single man who says his relationship became better after signing the contract, not one. However I know a number who've been utterly screwed by it. Something I've been doing for around 5 years is looking at a girls mum (that's the best prediction of what she'll look like in the future) and asking myself the question - "Would I want to put up with the hassle of this girl when she looks like that?". The answer has in every instance been no.

[@erickmoya1401]

A huge problem is people think they have to serve their kids. When all you have to do is love them and prepare them for the future. The simple idea that today is normal to take a loan to give somrthing to their childs is HORRIBLE.

[@ant5281]

You've been doing a great job with these videos. The advice is spot on

[@danferraro3598]

i friggin love this channel.

[@latspread3858]

One of the most valuable channel outthere

[@Mindamasta]

I’m 42, child free, single and never married, live a minimalistic lifestyle with minimal debt, work an IT job with no on call that pays better than the current market. Enjoying a simple life spending time with a few close friends, staying fit and riding my motorcycle.

[@keyboarddancers7751]

Dude! I'm 60. No kids. Semi retired. Easy part time work. No mortgage. Ride my bicycle to keep slim and healthy. In my previous modestly salaried career, I wouldn't've been able to afford to live as I am now if I'd had children.

[@ekactive1]

@@keyboarddancers7751you’re 62 now, have you dealt with the thought you’ll never have kids? Who’s going to look after you when you’re in your 70’s/80’s+?

[@keyboarddancers7751]

@@ekactive1 I've learned that living alone comes with essential personal responsibilities. Maintain good relationships with young relatives, friends, acquaintances, associates and with the local community. Engage in meaningful employment and rigorous intellectual and physical pursuits. (Obviously avoid smoking and excess alcohol). I've encountered old people who did not adopt this advice and consequently lived rather unsatisfactorily lonely lives despite having younger family members. Gotta play the hand dealt to you as best you can. Not saying it's easy.

[@marlon1839]

men are indeed the architects of their own suffering. I can also attest to the IT job example, it's definitely a life setup advantage 💯

[@HarshanalHalim]

Kris u are a badass… didn’t want to watch this cause I wasnt feeling into this topic… now looking forward to more of your Life Setup vids

[@luisfernandoenrique]

Incredible insights as always. Thank you

[@g-man-innermaster]

Unbelievable valuable Video!!! Thanks and please promote yourself stronger, so more Men received your messages.

[@leboblack]

14:55 this is happening to my father as we speak. Dude is getting a divorce has 3 children at 40somethjng. Depression and negative thoughts,belly, shit car the whole shibang. Mom still looks young. But isn’t as financial setup. Shit show

[@mrcookie3385]

@6:28 I've seen couples like that; they got a couple or atleast a kid. The guy is often over weight, stressed out and very grumpy. The wife generally looks out of his league and is eye-f*$king and cheating with other men that have put in the work.

[@1STMAN]

Yeah agreed, you walk past these couples everyday, where the woman eyes you up haha, poor guy doing everything he can and yet all she can think about is sleeping with someone else. Jusy goes to show, don't listen to women/don't follow their advice, focus on you, be selfish and you'll get everything you want

[@rajunaidu7751]

My strategy is: 20's:gym+money+social 30's:social+gym+money

[@ottmarcrestian3603]

Kris love your content, I usually download your Spotify podcasts and listen to them when I’m running and I’m wondering when you’re going to upload the new podcasts Keep up the great work man

[@tristandavis6060]

Thank you Kris.

[@Julian_Bertsch]

Another great video Kris!

[@Andrei-mf6yk]

another great video man!

[@cassidy318]

He just uploaded it 😂

[@eddysmith9]

great video keep em coming

[@abelkebede8071]

i’ve been commenting this on almost every video mate… please make a video on cutting and how to do it effectively and how you do it and stay on diet without cheating. could you include the cardio and meals you like to eat and all that🙏🏾

[@aryamancledwyn9365]

Hi Kris, ususally when you improve on weightlifting journey, you add reps sets and over the years you also add more session per muscle group to grow.. This also means spending more time in the gym... for university students that can only spend a set time in the gym of lets say, 1 hour for 5 days a week.. how can you work out in such a way to keep making improvements in muscle mass, while still keeping your volume constant.. Thanks alot

[@1STMAN]

I would say life setup. For example, I'm 29, I only had 20 minutes each morning to train at 25, sometimes more, but I did what I could. Now I earn more, work for myself and can train whenever I want, it's easier. Fitness is a long journey mainly because of time restraints, work at life and success and achieve a better life setup in order to find that time. Another example is, a man has a child at 23 and then complains about having no time for the gym, that's poor life setup. Just make life easier in anyway you can

[@XavierHarrison]

Watching now appreciate these videos like to listen while getting ready for the day

[@danferraro3598]

that's what I am doing right now, haha

[@bojannovakovic1375]

Man you are legend, keep it up , amazing work,

[@1231213sdasd]

Amazing video mate! Will you post a video about comparing yourself to others and envy? Keep on grinding!

[@lensreflex9960]

unless im really successful and got my shit together i wont have kids, dont wanna ruin a kids life i know what it feels to be growing up poor and with divorced parents, if im ever gonna have a kid i have to make sure my marriage will not fail because kids need both parents to be thier side at all costs, i know the suffering of growing up with split up parents

[@HishighnessMrL]

Another big reason why I think men should date younger gals is the relationship dynamic. When you date someone of a similar age you may find problems with respect and a sense of entitlement, meaning she may feel that she doesn't need to fulfill any specific roles in the household as well as in the relationship cause, "you can do it yourself". She may not actively seek to make your life easier in any way because she'll ask herself "why on earth should I need to do that". The gal won't look at you as the pillar of the household and as the masculine figure but instead as the lucky fella who eventually got to have her. Just my 2 cents.

[@thegambino]

quality video as always 🔥

[@tontsar91]

Love your content, keep it up :)

[@Ossai.N]

Everything you talk about, I'm witnessing it first hand.

[@alen-commentnazi8774]

if u wanna grab our mens lifestyle supplement all links are in the bio

[@user-zc5xe2sf4q]

Wtf you think just like me. I thought I was crazy for thinking like this for years. This is refreshing.

[@umairahmed8823]

If your women is not nurturing your kids and taking care, not making things easy for you in home than what is doing in the relationship.

[@v1ct0ro40]

Subscribers are jacking up 👍

[@1STMAN]

Yeah it's cool to see, really grateful to everyone. I'd guess 100k by Aprilish

[@p.7460]

One time i was watching your video i was tired and laying on bed in dark room, and when your intro came i almost got a heart attack

[@jthatruth9975]

This is the most toxic masculine shit ever, I love it 😂

[@ekactive1]

Nothing toxic about it mate

[@AlexAlex-hm3hz]

Make another one,this time for long time fitness goals and health!

[@stefanbg9309]

I like your thinking lol You're rough bastard

[@1STMAN]

Haha thanks man, I don't really do emotions

[@stefanbg9309]

@@1STMAN l support! ✊🏻

[@Dollasignsalliwant]

My ex is pregnant with my child and already has another kid from a deadbeat hasn’t seen his child. She just barely filing for child support three years later. She’s been trying to get me to get a new place to take care of her, and her kid while pregnant and had the idea that she can not work at all while living with me. Doesn’t even cook or do dishes. Just gets high around the kid all day. Terrible mistake but I’m typing this to say, I feel I’ll still be able to love my life if I live alone and only have one kid as my responsibility. As well as, when I lost my job.. she told me she ain’t want nothing to do with me. She has no idea I’m making more money than I ever had working in the oil field these past 3 months. Is there any circumstance where her other kid would be my responsibility.

[@reymassih167]

I want a kid to workout with, make him a legend. I want to be a Father and say BOY DO YOUR PUSHUPS AND READ YOUR BOOKS.

[@MrSuchasoorma]

So much better

[@bluegiant13]

I have 0 shame with wanting younger women.

[@krasimiryotov5482]

HONESTLY i think the best videos are the life set up but that might just be me

[@aneekthedon]

Kris's favorite two words: "Life" "Setup"

[@shmoko1989]

Good content 😊

[@Vincent-zp7ee]

Note to myself : Everything I should do I to make my future self happier and live an easier life, Ask yourself at every decision : how is it going to impact my life

[@Ishaan181]

Great video

[@kevin71x]

"Be water my friend" ~ Bruce Lee

[@jollyrancher1374]

Man i have adhd/add/ocd/tic disorder and i dont know what one i have but i have symptoms of them all. Its not impacting my life negatively but its really hard for me to be focused with my work and it comes in my way when im trying to reach my goals. Ive tried the david goggins straight hard core discipline route but i always fail to be as productive as i wish to be. I need to get diagnosed so i can research ways to better myself in this aspect of life. I am not gna take bitch ass medications like aderall but i will find natural ways to optimize my hormonal levels in order to boost my focus and knowing my diagnosis will really help me but I don’t know who to go to what doctor to go to and what to ask or say in order to get diagnosed

[@DominusBeats]

Kris can you please do a skincare routine video?

[@aryamancledwyn9365]

Hey Kris, You say Men in the mid thirties should ideally want to engage with women in their early/mid twenties for long term sustainable relationships.. But what if the women does not want to be with you because of the fact that you are so much older then her ? As even though they will live comfortably for the next few decades but she may fear you will die 10-15 years before her and she will then be all alone at that point in her very old age.I say this because men and women have roughly the same life expectancy (Women slightly higher, but still). Cheers mate.

[@1STMAN]

If you're high value enough women won't care. There's so few quality men they're fighting for you. If you can't reach top level, just go for 26-29 year old women, that's still a great deal for a man in his mid to late 30's. 10 year gap, she's still beautiful, works really well. She'll be more mature too which makes the relationship better. My strategy is sleep with 20-25 year olds, once I've had enough fun settle down with a woman 26-29 when I'm late 30's early 40's and do the family thing. However a mature 21-25 year old woman would work too they're just harder to find

[@AkuoSubliminals]

@@1STMAN on the same topic, what do you plan to do at 40. and then 50. is the plan to drop whoever you love or are dating for another early 20’s year old girl and start over until she ages? When does it end, what is the end goal considering that everyone ages?

[@1STMAN]

Yeah sure. So my logic is, if I get to 35/36 with all of my goals ticked, I'm in my prime with unlimited options, I pick a 22 year old 10/10 with everything I need in a woman. I have kids with this woman and do the family thing. By 40 she'll still only be 26, by 50 when I'm starting to look less good, she'll be 36, so we'll age together and still be close to each others levels. Of course my money would outrank her, a man at 50 still looks good, but by 50 I'll likely be happy with a 36 year old mature woman who I can travel with. I wouldn't want a 22 year old at that point I imagine, we just won't relate. My method not only ensures success on a personal level, but it also improves relationship success rates IMO

[@AkuoSubliminals]

@@1STMAN Very fair, I mentally don’t relate with a 22 year old girl at 26 now and im sure you don't either. That said, are you just going to stop being attracted to younger beautiful women once you hit 50? sort of sounds like the plan is to buy into an endless (materialistic) pursuit of youthful women our whole life. which is to go against the flow of life itself as everything ages. This strategy also means not finding anyone important now until your 40’s which is when you plan to find your REAL partner. How meaningful will those relationships from now til 40 be with that mindset. Im not saying you’re wrong, but I think these are questions we should all ask ourselves. The thought of trying to find a 22 year old unicorn girl at age 40 over a decade from now where social media and pop culture will have regressed society even more is wild imo.

[@1STMAN]

My theory revolves around crypto/stocks and the best time to sell. At 35-38 if and it's a big if, a man keeps himself in shape, has achieved a high level of success and great life setup, he will reach the ultimate peak of the male advantage. This is when men hold the most value, the most status and are still in their physical prime as a combination. No other time in a man's life does he have higher value in all areas collectively. Therefore it's the best time to sell your single life. Because with your high value, you're most likely to attract the highest possible quality of woman number 1 and number 2 you'll have a better idea of what you like in a woman due to sleeping around/dating with so many different women

[@nicolasa4267]

Should I study Finance or IT? I'm 18 and these are the 2 careers that I'm interested in.

[@harvestingseason2725]

IT

[@nicolasa4267]

@@harvestingseason2725 can I know why? I'm tryna decide what to pick

[@jacobmorris2713]

1:45 lmao