Men (Over 50) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)

[@EZDatingCoach]

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[@davidpalmer7175]

Here's my criteria... 1) Intelligence ...2) Sense of humor... 3) Emotional stability... 4) then comes LOOKS. The stronger the first 3 are, the more #4 can slide.

[@kevvintage7654]

Yours are better. His sound a bit manipulative.

[@1960317]

What usually gets the man's attention first?

[@patriciacorrea8871]

I don’t know about emotional stability for a woman but I guess if you typically apear to be. 😋

[@urbanart7325]

Sorry. #4'is important. At least try to look your best because men have eyes

[@carlel121]

1 looks! Then anything else

[@Wisdomforthehour]

I've always been independent and hard working and have had all any woman could ever want but the older I've become I realize how much I need a man for many reasons. I realize I'm not as independent as I once thought. I realize I get lonely too. I realize I need help with things and to share the chores. I realize I need a man's opinions and ideas that will lead me on a straight path. There's so much a man has that can be a blessing. We do need men if we are honest. ❤

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@Wisdomforthehour well said! 💜💜

[@judyperri9496]

Whenever I asked my ex husband to do anything he said to stop nagging him, even though I would only ask once I haven’t dated for a while , working multiple jobs, I have become very independent out of necessity but also because I hate to feel needy I wish men could see how much it means to us when they support bus emotionally ,that’s really what I need from a man

[@EZDatingCoach]

The right man will love doing things for you assuming you ask in the right way. 😀😀🙌🙌

[@kitty1256x]

@@EZDatingCoach Women don't need to try too hard to ask the right way, just because a woman asked, it's already brave enough, most women are afraid to even ask anything because they know a man will discourage them. I wish women were welcomed to just ask then trying to guess how and in what way and walking on eggshells around men...

[@carol6544]

I do everything for my husband. I only ever ask my husband to help me with things that I can’t do by myself I don’t do it in a nagging way but he makes me feel like I am. It’s not to do with how I ask but that he can’t be bothered says he will do it when he feels like it. What can I do? 🤷‍♀️

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@carol6544 Oh carol I’m really sorry about that okay. Please do everything you can to make sure your relationship works fine if you really feel something special for him and if he’s feeling the same way.

[@richardmcguinn732]

Judy I’m so sorry about that okay. You know women like you are rare to find in this world but men at times don’t really appreciate what they’re blessed with till they lose it.

[@jessicadjonne2687]

Reading through these responses makes we want to start a relationship clinic. It’s so obvious why they’re single!! Take a deep breath single people, take the labels off along with expectations and just relax. Open your eyes to who you’re dating. And if you want them to do something, ask them, sweetly. Just as in Any training, positive encouragement works best!

[@Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle]

Beautifully said. We're living too much in our heads instead of relaxing and let things unfold and even evolve ❤

[@Jenniferkayhart]

I couldn't get passed no. 1. I'm self sufficient and reliant. This generation of men made me that way. Most men I know and have dated since 2002 (including my children's father) we're not / are not emotionally equipped to handle being an adult, let alone someone who could lead in a relationship. THAT is not my fault. I made more money, worked more hours, and when I had the kids he was happy to let me handle all the responsibilities of that as well. I could go on and on about the emotional state of men in my generation, but every generation has its trials. I'm not even sure I want to date. I was thinking of doing my journey by documenting it on KZbin and came across your video doing some research. But, this is a subject my friends and I have discussed at great lengths. Our generation of men seemed filled with narcissist, mama's boys, or some form of fear of "commitment" bla bla bla ... anyway I blame it on Hollywood. So it's hard to make a guy feel needed. Most of them don't even know how to show up to warrant that. But anyway ... I'll probably watch you later out of curiosity, but .... I don't date Because I have a lot to offer and for once I'd like to be matched at my energy level. Paying for people's dreams when they don't actually want to put the work in is old. What I need is someone who still loves life and wants to keep experiencing all it has to offer. .... just saying Ok I'll shut up.now.

[@essenceoflove1069]

Amen. You described exactly the issues I’ve had over my life. They DON’T want to lead. They just want to complain when we do it out of necessity.

[@SusanESaly]

Agreed.

[@christinarobleto1786]

I agree we have alot of mama's boys out there & they need to grow up. Stick to your boundaries & enjoy life.

[@essenceoflove1069]

@theprairielight But we do need them. We can’t do it all. Our community needs them to lead so we can then focus more on our children; ourselves. We are so stressed we are killing ourselves overeating and not eating properly. Our mental health needs them. We need each other. We need them to heal and become our leaders. We are both dealing with the remnants of slavery, Jim Crow and the continue daily micro aggression. We need a spiritual awakening so we can learn to love ourselves because religion can’t do it for us. Practicing Universal Laws have helped me tremendously. I left religion behind. My thought process is so different. I feel empowered. I am empowered. God is looking for true believers. Much love!❤️

[@essenceoflove1069]

@theprairielight lol. I hear you. It may take 1-3 years, and and lifetime of steady growth. It isn’t easy but what is the alternative? Very few couples (5-10 percent) will have harmonious relations because the vast majority of people have not done and will not do the work. What I’m saying is directly related to the Bible verse about many being called, but few are chosen. Few will choose to do the work. That is reality. The fee that do will attract others that do. The 90 plus percent who don’t want to do better will just switch partners hoping they are getting something better, but they will not. They are getting someone who is on the same vibration as them just in another outer disguise.

[@missseeingthesights]

I'm kinda laughing out loud at making a man feel needed by asking him to put my coat on.... what kind of simpleton do you think us women are? What about making someone feel needed by sharing deep conversation and friendship, or long bouts of laughter? Surely that's the golden nugget? Relax and be yourself, and if in the small chance that she can't put her own jacket on, help out, but don't think that will be the action that melted her heart...

[@chanthana7694]

Lol. I was going to say, I had a long list of things that I need fixing so he really going feel a lot of needed from me.😂

[@darlielibbybuttonshandmade4128]

Correction : What kind of simpletons do you think we women are ?

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

Lol, one time I was dating this guy. We had went to a party. It was pretty cold out and so I asked him could he get my jacket from the car? In my entire LIFE, I cannot remember making a request like that. Well, to my utter shock, he kind of gave me a GLARE before doing so. It was the only time I EVER had asked him to do something personal like that!!!! And he had claimed to be in love with me. Really disappointing that he supposedly loved me, yet obviously felt very offended by my simple request.

[@Jordanlorraine1995]

Personally this melts my heart. But that’s just me.

[@cathtaylor8878]

I often watch the old men help their wives into their coats,shoes, etc. Gives me that warm feeling inside. Small gestures add up over a lifetime.

[@SKOLAH]

I dunno...I need a man for kisses, cuddles, sex, some company and a male perspective sometimes. Things you can't buy. And if he'll deal with arachnids for me, he's my hero. 🙂 In my experience, men aged 45+ tend to be...Unattractive in the way they view women. Not all of them, of course. I also find them lacking in mental energy. And many don't look after their bodies. They look pregnant and say they want a slim woman who looks after herself. It makes no sense. Feels like it's some sort of entitlement. They let go of themselves, make no real effort, yet feel they should have a beauty queen. 🤷‍♀️ Just saying.

[@harrybans2457]

Give me a chance

[@jessicaward5315]

@@harrybans2457 No. Put in the effort

[@monkpoggi]

So true

[@gregorylyon1004]

What you said about these older men is spot on. Most of them look like pigs. And Yes, they all seem to want a drop dead gorgeous virgin. They can't face reality

[@nadinedaoud2538]

Sad but true 😄

[@shannond.5916]

There's 4 As Appreciate, Affirm, Admire and Accept.

[@belkisconcepcion4641]

😊

[@bananka4905]

Oh. He can be the bread winner. I have no problem with that at this stage of my life. I've been working hard since I was 13 years old... time for someone to help me .or share the load

[@themaggattack]

THANK YOU! Help with my coat? And the door? And THAT'S IT? Lame! I'll be polite and say thank you to those gestures- but if you're trying to BE with me, then you better not stop at just gestures. I provide substantial services in a relationship and I expect substantial services in return. Just bc I'm 50+ doesn't mean I should consider myself lucky to accept any old scrub into my life. I'm not patting anyone on the back for doing nothing and pretending it's something. Help me with something I actually NEED (or even WANT) help with! If you can't help with expenses or at least pay for dates and vacations at the big age of 50+, then at least be able to fix & build things... or give really good massages. Provide SOMETHING substantial!

[@bananka4905]

@@themaggattack lazy and never knew love

[@LilyBecca]

I would love to be taken care of after all the years of working 50+ hours a week since I was 17.

[@bananka4905]

@@LilyBecca my father did for my mom and raised 8 kids and didn't ask my mom for anything because she cooked and cleaned .. she worked hard as a housewife...his meal was always on the table when he got home from work..and house cleaned

[@bananka4905]

@@themaggattack what the heck are you talking about .. your imagination has left the building. Seems you've been through a bad relationship. Men are to respect their spouse and visa versa. Men take care of their family .. the wife takes care of the home and is able to make a bit of cash once the children are grown up. Or even when the children are in school full time ...but she takes care of the home Wouldn't you like to come home to a nice greeting and clean home everyday so that your home is a haven?

[@AnnetteChiniquy]

Him needing to be needed all the time can come off as a little needy. Best wishes everyone❤

[@KiahDG]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Same here.. 😂

[@hellodenise9612]

I have experienced resentment from men for not making enough money! One even saying I want someone rich! I think I picked some that are not right for me?

[@leslieboles6439]

My son nailed it. He said men want to be needed but not obligated. My partner wants me to have NO needs. I ask for very little even though I do have needs. He is very dismissive. This probably won't last long. I always express my appreciation too so I don't know, I give up.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Smart son, couldn't agree more!!

[@BonniciAlexia]

I never ask for anything like the sugar example, because I'd feel he'd be pissed off with me treating him like my lackey. So I do things myself, unless someone does something without me asking. And then, yes, I'd appreciative because he :1. knew me well enough to see that something was wrong #2. Did the thing without me having to ask/do it myself. #3. Even if I didn't want it, he still made the effort. So I'd probably accept it because of that. It's something I do for others (friends or boyfriends), and those small gestures are HUGE. It's about noticing and awareness, which means the person is in the moment. I've also been with guys who walk 5 steps ahead, not noticing they're walking too fast/taking giant strides, and I'm not at his side. When I was younger, I'd run to catch up. Then I'd ask them to slow down. Now I just keep my pace, and see if they even notice, because they are obviously oblivious to my presence, and the salad days of running after someone are over.

[@SamElle]

yessss the guy ive been seeing loves when I need something from him. I'm pretty independent as a person so it was hard asking him to help with random things but it did improve our relationship!

[@VargasandLaRueChannel]

I got tired of my date asking me to wear a dress and show my legs. He's 5 ft 4 and weighs 240

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

LOLOL! I can certainly understand that and sympathize!

[@Wisdomforthehour]

😂

[@agnesaj9199]

That statement "women don't need men anymore" is SOOO untrue. Men are wonderful and we women need them for lots of things. PLEASE STOP PERPETUATING THIS MYTH!!!

[@naturelover-f6h]

I agree - although I may be the "breadwinner" by just slightly, I did need my now soon to be ex-husband. I told him I needed him for comfort, a sense of safety/security, and companionship... you know what he told me... "go make some friends"... :(

[@angierox6964]

Thank you! I’ve been working on the Needing part. Due to my parents, I wanted to make sure I was able to take care of myself if my husband ever left. And I also had to take care of everything when I was young, so I have tools I have ambition, not afraid to take risks, have my own business… But I do need a man to be in my life so I wish I would’ve learned this in my 20s instead of my 50s. Lol!

[@EZDatingCoach]

We all have our own path. 🙂🙂

[@gabrielamartinyuk9894]

I need a man! I’m super old fashioned and it’s truly a struggle with dating being this way because men are used to independent women.

[@clairebearie87]

yep babe. I feel ya

[@sethdanse8581]

I also need a woman I can fall in love with you and spend my life with, do you think I could be what you want in a man and fall in love with

[@blessingmlambo8573]

@@sethdanse8581 yes

[@bosslady2002]

Gabriel, sorry you think that way..a woman ..can be..old fashion in her beliefs, a.and still be independent, ..both, together, are make for a well rounded woman, which in fact..makes for a much better human being..and that's a very good thing in it self..however we all are free to believe as we wish..and please I hope you have not taken my reply to yours as criticism,it was never my intent to do so...but just what I believe..regarding this matter.thank for allowing me this opportunity, to have shared it with you and any who as read it as well ..thank you..

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@bosslady2002 Don’t think you said something wrong okay. You spoke facts to be honest.

[@soniaboussalem7451]

All of that would only work if he’s a nice guy

[@EZDatingCoach]

Exactly!! We break up with guys who aren't nice!!! Right? 😃😃😃

[@samkline7705]

Nice guys are EVERYWHERE, and women cant stand them. We are boring, dull, and dont make you tingle.. But you complain that bad boys dont treat you nice. If women could figure yourselves out, maybe men MIGHT be able to, too.

[@soniaboussalem7451]

@@samkline7705 you can be nice and not be boring and dull. Yeah nice guys are everywhere? Yeah always nice at first and when they have you they turn into monsters.

[@samkline7705]

@@soniaboussalem7451 Then you are NOT meeting the nice guys; you're still meeting D-bags.

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@soniaboussalem7451 I know life might have thrown so much at you from some men that hasn’t made up their mind on what they wants before getting involve with any woman. But that doesn’t mean you won’t find that special one meant for you when the time comes okay.

[@jo-annmacneill6454]

Women are looking for men for companionship to do things together. Every woman is looking for a man.

[@yingluck5858]

Needed Appreciated Accepted Boundaries

[@bassdojo]

Thank you

[@richardmcguinn732]

Such a wonderful comment from you to be honest.

[@kresivarivkah612]

Thanks!

[@AD-uq4pz]

We’re all screwed

[@rangeelixir8921]

1. Make him feel needed. 2. Make him feel appreciated. 3. Make him feel accepted. 4. Communicate your Boundaries. He wants to make you happy, so show him what you like and what turns you off.

[@Suvikki74]

Bonus: Make mistakes, own them, "you are right". = Imperfections make the right person love you.

[@lisafalk-bourjeili1357]

Accountability.

[@WeaponizeCelibacy]

I don't need help putting on my coat, but I could use some help with a new car 😂

[@Lizeth0102]

4:45 You have you be physically attracted to the guy, it’s not a good sign if you’re not.

[@-Mark_F]

This is really a great video. Four simple things but they resonated so much as I am a guy and that made so much sense to me. Now I have to find a woman like that. Thank you for posting!

[@EZDatingCoach]

You're welcome. Glad you enjoyed it. If you ever want help finding an amazing woman let me know. 💪💪👍👍

[@dianealden9293]

Stay Away from dating apps if you are over 50!! You will thank me later. :) Develop yourself including fitness and dress and hobbies. Learn and never stop learning- find humor in everything and hsve a grateful heart. Be content with your own company. Make friends with gals or guys. Make people feel safe to speak up.

[@gbone7581]

You forgot get a dog!

[@lisadinthongsai1383]

Well said

[@cynthiageskes1457]

Or a cat - but that would make you a 'cat lady' - why are single women with dogs not 'dog lady'? Why are single men with cat(s) not 'cat man'? BTW- men who have cat(s) are great. I have 🐈 🐈. BTW- I love dog🐕 too. Men who have cat 🐈 & 🐕 are great. Hope to have 🐕 too someday.

[@pensfan4life]

I've been alone so long that I'm so used to doing everything myself and don't NEED help from anyone or a man.

[@stormskies3861]

But don’t write someone off either. You don’t need a guy and that’s a great way to be but someone will come along one day and you will WANT them and that’s the difference. He may also love that you are very independent. But don’t write anyone off.

[@richardmcguinn732]

You might not need a man now due to some things life might have thrown at you to make such decisions but there’re times everyone needs to be loved by that special one no matter how independent we can be. Especially when we getting old to be resting and enjoying life with our family.

[@exoticallovergirl]

You have never enjoyed the protection of a man. It is a true luxury.

[@susaneisel230]

I agree the only man I care about his feelings is the one I raised. I make my own money and men frankly aren't worth the effort at 58

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@susaneisel230 Everyone is fully entitled to their decisions in life! What really matters is our happiness to live no matter what we’re going through at any point in time.

[@sylve3456]

We need men. But finding a good looking sparkling passioned well developed man who doesnt drink, cheats or doesnt see your feelings and wellbeing as a priority is very hard to find. Besides the divorce trauma's and stress from work.

[@clairebearie87]

looking for the unicorn there hun

[@beautifulmess2023]

A godly man is the only way to go

[@michelles2299]

You are asking too much I notice good looking at the top of your agenda let me tell you good looking men are bastards

[@lisaariottiart]

Its a wasteland out there

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@lisaariottiart Hello beautiful lady, how’re you doing today? Don’t make that land a wasteland if it’s what I’m thinking okay. Cos no matter how long the right one will surely come to make you smile a whole lot no matter what life might have thrown at you.

[@bosslady2002]

In a marriage, Happy wife, Happy life..that true in dating, happy girlfriend,happy boyfriend..we woman have feelings too.mike

[@migueljonz3901]

You obviously must be married. Why are you watching this?

[@bosslady2002]

Miguel if this comment was meant for me . Your wrong I am not married..I am a 75yr young woman minister of the word of God..if a woman or man do not give one another a chance ...time....to see,or,hear..what and who the person they are dating are real or not as to the character and integrity they have..weather they are wearing what I refer to as a mask, or masks,. That mask or masks,....will start following away real fast, one by one, after they marry...to late, can't erase the spots off of a leopard... that's what my Dad said once to me..and have lived long enough to know that's very true...either or will never be happy...who u are, is who you choose to be way before you even thought of dating or marriage...think about that...hope u have or had already either way...

[@bosslady2002]

Judy, thank God more woman are becoming aware of who they are, and standing their ground,,as to what they expect from a man as being considered as a friend, boyfriend and or potential husband..we have eyes to see,ears to hear, and ...brains, and feelings...as well. however, how one was brought up in their younger yrs as to the way their mother, or any woman that raised them , how they were treated, physically and or abusively, in actions and speech,. Will most likely become just like the man who treated that woman ..kind consideration, compassionate, responsible man or just the opposite, each fits into the equiation.but, in having said that..thank God some having had to experience that..have had to bear it while living in that environment, untill they moved out ,and do very well in their relationships.they are those who detested have to see and hear and live it first hand..and refused to follow suit..they are more compassionate,caring, understanding human beings, in spite of all they had endured..and blessed.to have gotten out sane and whole..so women have step up to the plate,. And work on themselves, first and foremost, by learning to better .. themselves, financially, and emotionally..before ever considering, marriage or living together with a man..a woman should know who she is, what she wants,and expects not only from a man but from all human beings...if she dosent, then she is doing a disservice, to herself and society in general..thanks for letting me share..hope it has helped someone..

[@jgimages1]

@@bosslady2002 you need a hug

[@JohnDoe-cm2sf]

You obviously never realize that your man is the prize and your job is to be in a supporting role of his mission

[@janetrobinson8925]

Great advice. I keep telling myself, the right man hasn't met ME yet!

[@richardmcguinn732]

Good day to you Janet. How’re you doing today? I hope you’re feeling much better today! And be rest assured the right man meant for you will surely show up without any stress when the time comes.

[@trutherone2140]

This may give you a better result from the Universe. "The right man is out there. I know he is my destiny and is also seeking me. It is bound to happen in the near future".

[@Jorgesanagustin645]

basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend...

[@BlackPearlMona369]

If he is a real man, woman will automatically and naturally feel she needs hem in her life. He will be really and from heart appreciated and respected. Also a real gentleman senses and knows these boundaries without us having to explain. In case of my ex, i communicated my positive boundaries, but i got the complete opposite. Sometimes, a woman practices all these tips but they are just not ment to be together,

[@Leila2023_]

can you please teach men this too... make women feel needed and appreciated. it would be nice the other way around too!

[@EZDatingCoach]

Will do! 🙂

[@teresacroft7409]

So true. It's always us catering to their poor fragile egos, while not getting attention or affection from them

[@makelifematter1896]

Effection means more than anything and all you mention sadly the ones that go with looks but im a firm believer its what inside that matters not the outside

[@EZDatingCoach]

Correct!

[@teresacroft7409]

Men mainly go by looks and youth. PERIOD

[@naffs1069]

If I make him feel “needed” then he thinks that I am using him. How do I win?

[@constancedenchy9801]

Exactly

[@frankdavis2327]

Hello

[@frankdavis2327]

@@constancedenchy9801 hello

[@sethdanse8581]

You can make me feel needed and I can make you feel wanted, that’s how much I wanna love you

[@lisaariottiart]

Yup- cognitive dissonance

[@JW-wr4ep]

You need to add. Not nagging (which you mention), not being argumentative over meaningless things. Ultimately, women at 50 need to enhance the happiness he has created for himself. bring peace and a lot of women can’t bring peace to themselves. Address baggage. Mindfulness, gratitude journal,… Don’t mess with men that are not happy themselves. As horrible as This sounds get evaluated for borderline personality disorder, and narcissist, personality disorder. Whether you are a man or a woman. You’ve got to address issues. A number of my friends now can identify certain traits, particularly those that are being untreated. (Any woman that can never say “sorry” or says her last X partners were narcissistic, and it was never her fault (no accountability) are HUGE red flags…like fireworks of red flags raining down, like it’s China.

[@sophief.4014]

Experience made, men only react when they are crazy about a woman, all these advices might work only once but in reality, in the first minute a woman starts doing some efforts or overthink about strategies on a relationship, it is the beginning of the end.

[@iamlatroshia]

Omg this video was so on point!! Ty!!

[@juanitaloewen7213]

Men want 10s and we are supposed to be happy with 6 or lower ???

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@juanitaloewen7213 Don't think my video said that. 🤣🤣

[@videoettaceo8900]

This whole reward for just cleaning up after yourself... I really can't wrap my mind around it. Why would I praise a man for effectively being grown up enough to wipe his own behind after a bm.

[@EZDatingCoach]

If you ever do a man's laundry with skid marks you may change your mind. 🤣🤣🤣

[@emoore7476]

Number 1 is what my professor asked me, and what he asked from his other female students, apparently.

[@Janellejanelka]

You have such lovely energy Mike. Honest and to the point talks.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thanks Jana!!! 💜💜

[@richardmcguinn732]

He’s got such a wonderful energy to be honest. He spilled facts for real. You’ve got a very adorable profiles pics tho.

[@Jorgesanagustin645]

basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend ..

[@elizabethmmbone8861]

As for me I just need an older man am 33 but I believe these old people have Tru love and more respect I pray to God to have one

[@lindatannock]

1st tip, don't call people over 50 "old" lol 😆. We're not old, just older than you!

[@Infrared1967]

I was nicely surprised with your advice. I'm gearing up to maybe date again in my 60's. My litmus test will be raking leaves either at my place or his. If he sees it as a pain or a degrading fall chore to whine through, I'll move on. If he's up for beer, wine, hot chocolate, munchies, music, and happy exhaustion as we lay in a pile of autumn colors then this is my kind of guy.

[@artsylady3187]

LOLOLOLOL good luck with that......

[@farzforz]

I really like all your videos.Useful and concise.thanks

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thank you!!!!

[@JJ-dx7xx]

This is really great advice, Mike!! 😀 And I really love the acronym! Thank you

[@EZDatingCoach]

You're welcome.

[@frankdavis2327]

Hello

[@richardmcguinn732]

Such a wonderful advice to be honest. Lol 😆 well you’ve got a very adorable profile pics.

[@Jorgesanagustin645]

basket of beautys,I know I'm not wordy to write you or ask you a question...i know you don't like my kind of man to have as a friend ..

[@adriennevanstaden9460]

Love this information...

[@belindachambers9836]

Awesome vid!!Thank you Mike You Rock!!!

[@richardmcguinn732]

Such a wonderful video to be honest. He spoke facts for real.

[@abdoolahnooraneesoyfoo4562]

THANKS MR MIKE ABSOLUTELY TRUE

[@naturelover-f6h]

married 30 years and now going through divorce sadly. You say he wants me happy (happy wife, happy life)? what a joke - I've communicated my needs, etc and he just couldn't. For example, I leave for work at 7:00 a.m. and in the winter I asked if he could clear space in the garage so I don't have to scrape ice/snow off my car - you know what he did, he cleared the garage and parked HIS car in the garage - so yeah, Im outside at 7:00am scraping snow and Ice in business work clothes as he is inside the house petting the cat drinking coffee.

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@naturelover-f6h Sorry to hear that. Glad you are getting divorced and can can be with yourself who will treat you better.

[@gbaca07]

Your attitude is so much better than coach Corey wayne 😴

[@richardmcguinn732]

To be honest he gave such a useful and excellent advice.

[@harrybans2457]

Hi

[@Medietos]

We do need men. Finances is not everything, and not everybody has a job and salary. A real marriage relationship is essential and important.

[@childsweethearts]

Thank you for the video. Actually, guys don't give me a chance to do those things. They're only wanting hook ups and nothing more. When I say no on the first meeting, they get mad. How do we get to the stage you're talking about?

[@EZDatingCoach]

Hi! You're welcome for the video. We need to find you some different men that are looking for partnership!

[@bibiharoon3811]

You’re Absolutely Right…….

[@tanyahenske7134]

My ex didn't want to be needed. He didn't want any responsibility. So, Im not convinced about this wanting to feel needed.

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@tanyahenske7134 The needed thing only works when he really likes you. If he won't deliver, something is wrong in the relationship.

[@123smartcontent]

So I stopped listening to the vid about halfway in because I started feeling bad. My ex never did any of those things. I'm not sure that a woman today even wants to do those things.

[@samkline7705]

Men are SO simple, and women cant seem to figure us out respect me as a man feed me never stop being a girlfriend, even as a wife f me, not as a reward, and don't withhold sex as a weapon any man will be yours forever

[@anthonyvargasjr1602]

Brother that was awesome!

[@AsimaGuruBahasa]

This is the best accurate dating advice I ever had. Thank you so much EZ. Btw.. Is this apply to age 30 or 40?

[@carmena.rivera71]

I have No problem having a man take care of me! I find it sexy when men open doors n still financially take care of their woman, pays for dates, it takes a real masculine man to take care of a woman 😍 ❤ 🥰 lets normalize old fashion LOVE💗

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@carmena.rivera71 nice!!

[@THENEONARCADE21]

I still need them

[@zamakilechikombe-ee1ob]

I wish all man there like you coch amen 🙏

[@KuhiChr]

I am so sorry for my feedback, but You do concentrate on the little unimportant things. What we need is, simple. A man takes a leed and is the boss in mind and body (action) during the relationship. Cleaning house, opening doors, etc. - why are we even talking about it? Everybody needs some support in life,, mental, physical, financial... Just do what You are meant to do, thanks!

[@bosslady2002]

Yep, step up to the plate..in all ways,we as women, want to be needed as well as appreciated, we are not there to be their younger mother, with benefits..

[@marlenehaigler6603]

No, I need a man and I tell him, but they want me to have money at 49 after being abandoned by my spouse. I'm raising a family with part-time work.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Ugh, life is never fair, is it? At least you are receiving honesty. 💜💜

[@marlenehaigler6603]

They usually don't come out and say it I've had to figure it out by the words they've said and when they find another young girl with a job, that's why they chose that. Thank you you're right thanks for helping people.

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@marlenehaigler6603 You're welcome and sorry you are dealing with this.

[@jvolstad]

This was three years ago. Things are different today.

[@geneviveross4234]

Majority of Women in civilized society like America, Europe don’t NEED men, a wide majority are independent.....but the reverse is the case for the vast majority of women in Africa.. In Africa as a whole, majority of the women still depend on the man to provide everything for them. Majority of the Men are still the sole breadwinner in Africa...!!! Africa has a long way to go. Women are still treated as second class citizens. Much love everyone ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Artist1974CH]

First of all the west is not civilized. Also, western women are also being treated as second class citizens too. It is a global problem! Don't let some white supremacist tell you that life in the west is all nice and dandy. That's a bullshit, racist myth.

[@Mali-fm3rc]

What's wrong with being provided for ma'am? Asking from Africa!

[@kresivarivkah612]

Men and women need each other. Not all us Americans are foolishly independent.

[@spotdiagnosis7148]

That's not civilization, men have to play as the provider for the family and protector, women on the other hand nurture, raise and maintain the family. When men lose this they won't commit to a relationship, and when girl feel dependent they less and less cling to family values. The final result is women craving men and men losing their energy on prostitution and less committed relationships

[@ednahchirchir1924]

Both need each other in Africa and other places

[@justicewillprevail1106]

I’ve met so many men who once they feel needed, they start to treat you badly.

[@winninginlife]

You made them too needed...as if you were needy & using them like an errand boy. I see alot of women do that, men also like a woman who is competent without him. Men need space just like women!

[@divarose2017]

So, she made you feel needed?? and she is now your EX??? Apparently that was not enough for you.

[@jenniferl1908]

Excellent advice.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Thank you!!!

[@sethdanse8581]

Have you found love ye t

[@richardmcguinn732]

Yeah that’s true. It’s a very useful advice to be honest.

[@justinahconsolation4850]

So helpful I'm 23 but tired of being single don't know what to do

[@christinarobleto1786]

Find activities you like to do & have fun. Don't sleep around & keep your boundaries & common sense so you don't get in trouble

[@khappy1286]

If the man doesnt help me w my coat, car door, bags, we are not a match. It's not a date for me if he doesn't.

[@richardmcguinn732]

And I pray you finds that special one to make you the happiest woman in the world okay.

[@alisawells8993]

Hi there I am single looking for a serious relationship, not in for drama and games, I have no kids

[@allenwinston9225]

Is that true! What part of the country are you from.

[@comtaar2245]

The fallacy in this talk is that you say men are interested in relationships. They are not. They do not truly want to be in them. So women who show this slavish admiration will only end up with huge regrets.

[@autsept7116]

I would love to see the look on a man's face that a woman has just asked to go get her some sugar. Lol

[@EZDatingCoach]

🤣

[@prabha34]

Thank you

[@EZDatingCoach]

You're welcome.

[@richardmcguinn732]

He gave such a useful and excellent advice to be honest.

[@deanjohnson6722]

I like the acronym, NAAB, thankkyou.

[@EZDatingCoach]

You're welcome.

[@judyjohns7491]

Better example of boundaries pls?

[@richardmcguinn732]

You wanna give boundaries in your relationship?

[@richardmcguinn732]

Couples that understands theirselves knows their boundaries and flaws and had choose to accept them and live happily together.

[@RS-ov2st]

No , not all women feel that way. I still need a man and would welcome the right one. I would love a kindred spirit , some to love and someone to love me. A companion, a lover, a friend , someone to share adventures with, teach me things, lead, someone to do the manly things that men do and someone to help bring home the bacon. I want a king and to be someone’s queen.

[@EZDatingCoach]

@@RS-ov2st sounds very nice. Thanks for sharing!

[@TheRealNCYank]

I don’t really agree with the first two, but I do like the second two.

[@EZDatingCoach]

Batting .500, leading the MLB. I will take it 😀

[@alisawells8993]

How are you

[@ellicj]

i need a man to look after me 😥but why they not traditional anymore wait for marriage so im forèver alone

[@chriskirsten8221]

im 52 and just want stabilty and reciprocation in a relationship these days hard to find? its damn near impossible......

[@EZDatingCoach]

I think in the early stages of dating folks are only willing to provide stability if the compatibility and chemistry are high which can be difficult to find. 🙂

[@Carolina480]

Yes Chris it’s very hard dating at our ages it’s more challenging wish yuo good luck

[@Me-mn4nw]

​@@Carolina480No its not! My card is full! I have more dates now than I did when I was younger and a runway model. You've got to maintain your health.

[@gemmalonzano7424]

I need man.. it's not true there's still woman needs man❤️❤️❤️and I'm one of them lol

[@sethdanse8581]

I need a woman like you, can we make it working together to be lovers darling

[@michelles2299]

Get a life instead

[@bosslady2002]

Hi Gemma, if u are referring u,and other women need a man regarding sexually, that is a horse of a different color. No woman or man,who have found they are satisfied without looking here there and every where for that prince,or princess, are priceless...they know who they are,what they are about, and happy content with the lives they have made for themselves..however,having said that , it is always nice to have at least one true friend of the same sex, with basically the same interests..and intelligence..to occasionally do things with...as u put it..you need man... sounds as if your insecure, first find out why,then work on all the positives...you...have..bet you have many...we all do...bet u are awesome, give yourself credit...never depend on anyone.. Life changes,we change..be .. All..u...can..be..for...yourself..man looks at the outer person...but God..looks at a persons heart...thank you for letting me share my thoughts with u...happiness comes from within..when u have peace of heart and mind..you have everything...life is a good teacher,but God is a better one...be safe..

[@memoperfectphilippinevlog115]

I like this am new in here..but i think my man is kinda nit a serious one

[@Random-rt5ec]

Been married twice and @ 63 I am very happy living alone without the drama of a woman, but I do like sex & continue to date several women aka: spinning plates. My motto is: Hang out, have fun, hook up. Amazing: To my amazement younger pre-menopausal women are attracted to older guys like me. I am physically fit with masculine features.

[@cindiaxtell4760]

I broke every one of these rules with the man of my dreams! 😔

[@EZDatingCoach]

Well, you got these ideas for next time!!

[@sethdanse8581]

Awww sorry

[@robertgreen722]

Hi Cindi! How come?

[@richardmcguinn732]

Oh Cindy I’m so sorry about that okay. And you still have all the time to make a turn around and fix everything so you both can live happily together if he’s still very much interested in you.

[@richardmcguinn732]

Well you’ve got such an adorable profile pics.

[@johnshaff]

Ladies, please know the man’s temperament before taking 100% of this coaches advice. There are plenty of other ways to make a man feel needed then giving him chores. Many men will not feel “needed” if you say something like the coach suggests “you’d look so sexy if you vacuumed the house”. They will feel manipulated, and feminized. I suggest to find a coach who is the type of man you want to be with, and take his advice. If this coach is that, than so be it

[@joeblakely5950]

Single men unable to pay the bills by themselves. Men with the working women doing better

[@vanhawk1074]

Young man , i know you are trying to help but who the hell needs the responsibilities of coaching 50 plus years old boy . Are you kidding me ?

[@michaelahrinco79]

For me the most important thing is wen man pay for a woman on a date I think asking a female to go half is not acceptable,that'd just me

[@user-dn9vd9xg9p]

So women raise their children because their children NEED them now there's an empty nested home and they have to raise another child that NEEDS them? Men truly do not understand that women felt relieved of when the needy children leave the home to have their own families. This burden took a toll of nonworking and working women with overwhelming physical, mental, and emotional and sexual burdens. Once children leave, the woman feels overwhelmingly relieved and free of providing all the needs then she focuses on the relationship and being free of providing herself to the entire family..... Now we have to raise another needy child? We look to men as providing for us in all ways to make up for all the years of women giving everything they had during child rearing years. Ugh! Women NEED these 4 things also. Too many snowflake mommy raised men nowadays.

[@angelabrinson7893]

You don't need all that....a gentleman is going to take care you 1st....how bout just be with the person you love

[@kathybrem880]

You could say the exact same thing about women

[@TerriMorton-k1m]

Good Lord...

[@margaretahogberg6869]

You are so cute, I wish guys could watch this video too LoL 👍🥰😘

[@richardmcguinn732]

I hope everyone watches this video and learn from it cos he gave such a useful and excellent advice to be honest.

[@jacksonlevon9882]

Hello Margaret, how're you doing today..? 🌹

[@MichelleKumler]

I dont need a guy to put a coat on me because I live in Florida and its hot! Maybe a man who could fan me and feed me grapes while I lounge beside the pool 😃

[@EZDatingCoach]

Men, feel free to post your application below for this prestigious role. 🤣

[@maryjobutera3287]

Men will always be visual. Women are cerebral.

[@janethomas78]

number one looks, 2-looks 3 looks 4 looks, Women NEED men, they resent it!

[@OlderWomenRock]

I have no probs asking for help , it’s easy for Me to show appreciation Think it takes a lot more . Putting a Man on a pedestal seems dangerous to Me Not sure this would often work . If a Man has good self esteem or has an inflated ego ( common ) it wouldn’t work . Why aren’t you mentioning the obvious , Men are physical . They generally want to be super attracted to you .