Law of Attraction: 3 Things that Attract Men 50 and Up! | Engaged at Any Age | Jaki Sabourin

[@peaceandlove544]

A lot of divorced men and widows just want to relax, laugh, have a nice home-cooked meal, they want to feel they are fun, listened to and supported and needed in not a needy way.

[@evamaria644]

Amen! It's not that complicated

[@earlwilliams5473]

You hit the nail on the head. I want to be in love with my best friend. Share life with.

[@peaceandhumanity5705]

@@earlwilliams5473 Hi Can we talk?

[@brentmiller4467]

Am also looking for true love,but it's so hard to find?

[@brentmiller4467]

Am also looking for true love,but it's so hard to find?

[@jackwalker1822]

I'm 65. I want a woman who is on my side. Not against me. Very supportive and encouraging and helpful. And yes you made some very good points.

[@carolinegatakaa1286]

Hi

[@levelsuponlevels]

I love your beard🥰

[@jessicadjonne2687]

I know what you mean, so many women have a bad attitude towards their man and it’s shocking to me! Home should be the place where your most comfortable, relaxed, excited, joyful, playful, appreciated and loved.

[@alicewangari1302]

Hey

[@PitbullAdventureswithMar-uk8cv]

Hello 👋

[@Jennifer-di4nl]

I'm 43 dating a 54 yr old man and I've never been happier. He likes my intelligence and hes so romantic. It's so drama free and relaxed. He said I'm teaching him how to appriciate life again.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

That's awesome, I'm so happy for the two of you! I'd love to have you in our Ladies Club Facebook group where we share our wins and discuss how to grow with your partner. facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub

[@Jennifer-di4nl]

@@EngagedAtAnyAge Definitely will check it out. There are some pointers I could use maybe your group could help! Thank u!

[@laurencenabbs4535]

People can be old yet have young souls. Two people who get on well together who have both young souls, that's beautiful.

[@sethdanse8581]

That’s true that is why I chose to be with a matured lady from stress and games, they love the best and I want to be the one you can give your love and heart too and be treated like a queen you are always

[@goodtalker]

Sometime along what I call "The Road Less Traveled" I discovered that I'll settle for peace rather than trying to be a happy person. I will be sixty soon, have retired but still work part time at a hardware store, have a friend in my life who is about 15 years younger than me, and I have to tell you, I have never had this much joy. I have come around to a God of my own understanding and have let go of the fear of the future and the regret of the past. The woman in my life knows that it is simply age and experience that makes men, by and large, better as they age....I am blessed. Thanks for reading.

[@LisaGemini]

You're right, Jaki. A lot of older people do think they know it all and are very cynical. I believe that learning is lifelong. Even if I'm not gonna marry a guy, I'm sure I can learn a few things from him. It is important to be open-minded.

[@pollacksharman8708]

Lisa that’s so good of you 😊

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year bring joy to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@MissHannah2036]

It's a double edged sword. I've dated and chatted to a couple of 50-53 yo men in the last few weeks, one had never been married with no kids, was flakey, couldn't pin him down to a day and kept moving the time around. Another admitted he had trouble with emotional connection and another was out right saying he didn't want to get into a relationship just because he was afraid to be lonely - then why are we even talking. Seems as we they get older they acquire even more baggage, become more set in their ways with less of a view of moving outside of their comfort zone. The longer these men are single the more set in their ways they become and the more jaded they become and we've got online dating to thank for that..

[@kimdiedrich9712]

Absolutely!

[@1969bogdi]

But the baggage thing is valid for women as well..

[@billsmith1965]

The baggage is in spades for women. Not sure how you find a truly faithful one at this age. Easier to find a unicorn.

[@joycejackson9315]

MissHannah2036 remember what miss Jackie said sometimes as we age we get set in our ways. open your mind. and don't be to picky. I think that's what I got put of her talks. :)

[@margaretmiller4718]

It's tiresome honestly having to be some perfect person that's bs

[@dorisjones7959]

Great information and as a youthful woman of 74 who is dating again it is very true about older men.

[@annwrog]

I do so hope you are right as I am 68 and contemplating dating again after 10 years of widowhood. I have not even been trying to meet any men up until now. Everyone tells me I'm very funny, smart, and intelligent, so I hope these things are true!🙏 Wish me luck!

[@rhondarose8180]

I think women tend to take care of themselves more as we get older and men seem to give up on style and grooming

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

:-) Not all men, but I understand where you're coming from Rhonda

[@jspprn7767]

Rhonda Rose - True.

[@JustSaying83022]

Absolutely!

[@MissHannah2036]

unfortunately some men have no idea, it doesn't come easy to everyone, some people have a sense of style when some people have no idea....I find the more educated or higher up the professional ladder they are the more stylish they will be as they understand how much presentation matters. It's not really that hard to get a decent hair-cut, shave if necessary and get a nice pair of jeans, shirt, belt and matching shoes..to wear at least on a date ;)

[@elvap1457]

Rhonda Rose 0

[@theShelou14]

My boyfriend is 55 and I am 25. We can talk all day long and spiritually we are on the same plane. We have many of the same hobbies and passions in life. We can sit and give eachother crap all day long. I will tell you I have never met someone like him once in a lifetime ❤️

[@BellambiFredRoberts]

Eye roll and yawn. Literally whatever. Rofl

[@loveeware6442]

Thats great to have good communication

[@louiscyfer6944]

he likes a chubby wubby?

[@askew9976]

I’m 47 and widowed. I hung around with a guy, 8 years older, for 3 years. Nothing but games. Still at that age. I’m looking for maturity. Intellectual maturity, living independently, employed. I love hugs and long talks. I’m not up for playing games. I was with the same person for 20 years. I’d rather be alone than play games.

[@36handy]

Men that play games only want a boody call.

[@glengardner3734]

On dating profiles women are encouraged to present with a good photo showing her as well groomed happy and smiling. And n most cases this applies and women look attractive in their profile pics. However I find a lot of men present with grumpy faces, bad photos, very little thought to their grooming and choice of clothing. Good for the goose ........why not for the gander too?

[@earthgirl2629]

I was asked out by a 75 year old and I'm 52. I think I really want to date him. He is so handsome and I love his conversation. I love your show, you make me feel so much better. I really hope he ask again, because I'm going to say yes, I really hope I see him again.

[@kalilaterrell5644]

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[@kalilaterrell5644]

Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

[@kalilaterrell5644]

[phone].

[@johnballard6725]

Take the plunge and ask him out? As he clearly likes you already there's no fear of rejection which we men face on a daily basis!

[@adriennevanstaden9460]

Beautifully said....nobody teaches you how to be a widow...so it is a learning process....nice to listen to all these talks.

[@heatherwheeler828]

i am 37 the guy that is into me is 55 i guess age dont matter as long as they treat u right and love u for who u are right i want a real man

[@pollacksharman8708]

Hello Heather 👋

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@BellambiFredRoberts]

Heather Wheeler, you 30-something yr olds all eventually want babies. And more importantly cashed up men. I see this all the time and the 50-something old men get cat-fished every single time.

[@KidCity1985]

How's it going?

[@lacygorman9154]

How about a video on what women over 50 are looking for?

[@moiczyk]

Anyone else reminded of the old preschool TV show “Romper Room” when people who do lives say hello to the viewers LIKE: Hi Laura, hi Carrol hi Jeanne, hi Susie!

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

It’s important to me that I make connects with the ladies that show up live. Curious why you’re trying to be critical?

[@dallismiller6319]

All of it boils down to just finding something that works no matter the age.

[@sethdanse8581]

and can I be that something you looking for in a man

[@LisaGemini]

I am fairly open minded and tolerant for my age, 58. I am opinionated, yes. And I am not afraid to express them. Yet I also will explore new ideas and believe learning is lifelong. I also have a great sense of humor. But the men seem to be staying home. I admit I'm not really open minded about S&M and all that gross stuff, though. Many strangers on the dating sites ask personal questions way too soon. I'm done with the dating sites.

[@edwardmarsh4127]

Hello dear, how are you doing today, I hope all is going well in this time of covid. I will be glad to hear for you, stay safe!

[@johnballard6725]

You are not opinionated but rather have strong opinions which you are open minded enough to bend if you get more information.

[@a.d.b535]

Don't negotiate spiritual values

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Always accept yourself!

[@a.d.b535]

J OneLife Better not get sick and lose weight or you'll be on your own.

[@CorneliaMu]

Yes. it is true!

[@billsmith1965]

Most women's spiritual values are that they should get the sole and complete benefit. This ignores the reality that it takes 2 parties to make any relationship work, not just a perfect man.

[@billsmith1965]

@J OneLife I would take a thin woman in a heartbeat if she had a good attitude. Looking like you could be on a magazine is not necessary in the slightest, though I have found having a good attitude is harder for many women than staying or regaining a reasonably thin look, however hard that may be.

[@ansel9466]

As a man over 50, this woman is about 50% right. You are better off trusting your own instincts than listening to her.

[@Irene-gq4jr]

Those men over 50 who still want a 20 year old never grew up and will never find happiness. They're clutching at youth and living in a fantasy. There's no fool like an old fool, and if they do find a 20 year old that young adult will take as much of their money as possible before settling with a man closer to their own age. I'm not specifying gender here as it also applies to gay men, possibly more so, where youth is everything. As a 19-year-old woman I went out with a man aged 30, and what I got was deal-breaking jealousy and suspicion. Rightfully so, as I was young and pretty, frequently going out clubbing and occasionally snogging (albeit not sleeping with) other guys. I wasn't a money grabber but I did enjoy financial benefits my friends didn't.

[@jerrypeukert5732]

What are you saying Irene, your emotionally unfaithful. Plus men over 50 looking for 20 year olds are pedophiles. I am in my mid 50's and women in their 20's look like children. I look for women my own age. But you sound like you might have been too wild in the past, your choice of course.

[@theShelou14]

This is funny. Sorry, but I think y'all are wrong. Sorry your relationship failed.

[@geraldbrienza4474]

Not one word about sex. The number one thing the guy is interested in.

[@angelaoliver7776]

I think that she diplomatically covered that with "Romance" but at this age seriously we are all adults here, we can state the obvious. Men and women still want intimacy in some form or another.

[@geraldbrienza4474]

Angela Oliver : “Romance” and “intimacy” not withstanding, as a rule, sex is a different from a mans perspective and that crevasse only widens as women get older. Tell me you don’t know several women in long term relationships where the man has left for the notorious “younger women.” Well, he did not “leave” for a younger women (generally,) yes, he normally winds up with a younger women, but that’s not the “why.” He leaves for sex, that’s the “why.”

[@mariedina625]

I wouldn't say that because there are many that are important. some just want companionship.

[@JustSaying83022]

Marie Dina Did you mean impotent?

[@mariedina625]

@@JustSaying83022 I did. My fingers move across the key board after than my brain can see it...smile. Life is still good. Isn't it?

[@rdsginia7499]

I love this video. Your relationship with Michael has given me hope that I'll meet a man who appreciates me for more than my appearance. It's interesting that you say men are looking for open-minded, intelligent women and that they want to grow because I have yet to meet one. My experience is that they want an instant committed relationship; are close minded, yet expect me to be open-minded to their wants, needs, beliefs, opinions, sexuality; want emotional intelligence, yet, are not themselves emotional intelligent; are threatened by intellectual and spiritual intelligence in a woman; and that they a firmly planted in their beliefs, opinions, personality, character and show no desire to grow, yet expect me to adapt to them How do I find a man who wants what you described? I live in the Midwest. I'm wondering if that's a large part of why I haven't found a man I would commit to long-term. .

[@billsmith1965]

So you would take a man without regard to his looks RdSG? I bet that is not true. One sided desires are unlikely to be fulfilled.

[@SSGTA440]

I'm 63....after my heart attack 3 years ago, I turned to bodybuilding and fitness....I look REAL good, can bench my own weight and am running on ALL cylinders....it's a matter of choice, for me, it was to sink or swim....most women after fifty I've met are fat and sloppy with short haircuts, with very little interest is self maintenance....sorry, that;'s what I've seen. Real sad.

[@pattimilton2737]

I'm 65 years old and I was dating younger men, well not too young! The youngest I dated was 50! At present I found my soulmate whose behavior is almost like my late husband. Btw, I look 10 years younger than my age coz I'm petite and slim!

[@64katesy]

Aren’t you the lucky one ?

[@katparks4631]

I am not petite and slim, but get told all the time, I look either in my thirties or early forties .I am 55 so being petite and slim doesn't always mean younger looking.

[@patriciahayes7127]

There is a lot of mysogeny about...and men cannot drop their baggage and start again...hopeless..better off on our own😏

[@jerrypeukert5732]

@@patriciahayes7127 If that's what makes you happy, being a man in my 50's, I agree women not worth the trouble it seems. No hate meant just being real. And no I am not fat and ugly or live in my mothers basement. Just facing the way things are.

[@billsmith1965]

Imagine having to compete with your mental picture of your late husband. Amazing if he can do it, but few can live up to the perfection that builds in your mind.

[@jeannena100]

I am considering putting those several qualities on my POF dating site profile =Jaki told us men want- no Rigid thingking and don't think you know it all / A woman who is curious / physically active, etc. Thank you, Jaki!

[@pollacksharman8708]

Yes Jaki is right Jeanne,

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year Jeanne, hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@laetitianeethling3471]

Thank you for sharing your insight and experience. I'll keep on listening. A stunning personality with a genuine positive attitude.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thank you! I hope so! If there’s a topic that you’re interested in please feel free to suggest it! 💝🎉🥳

[@katparks4631]

I am open minded,opinionated and I love learning new things. I have a sense of humour. I get told all the that I don't act old ,and I don't look old. I have been divorced over 11 years and I am still single.

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Hi r you looking for a good relationship with a good man. I a looking for a good woman😉💌💌💌💒

[@yasmodaofori7062]

Great

[@pollacksharman8708]

Kat you just have to believe in God and everything will fall in place I just want you to believe in God ok 👌

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year Kat, I hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍

[@johnspear7181]

Thank you...."Engaged at Any Age" I am 72 and I need a good female relationship.....! I will do the things you advise....! Hope she will be satisfied....!

[@rhondarose8180]

I have a friend who is 70 and what a woman!!!

[@aishapaulus6121]

Really?

[@MariastellaERmt]

Hi

[@pogatajosephine6688]

Yes I like 60 ages of men

[@tictacbee2317]

I'm 59

[@joycejackson9315]

thanks Jackie you are helping me alot. I was married for 27 years and I've felt like rip van Gina for so long. like I was asleep and the whole dating thing I was out of touch with what is dating in the 21st century. you've given me a new energy for following the road I've been on. it is the right road for me. I know I'll meet the right man listening to your advise. thanks for sharing

[@pollacksharman8708]

Joyce for sure you will meet the right man just believe in God and everything will be Ok 👌

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍

[@magsteel9891]

"3 things" turned into about a dozen. Add in: financially secure, healthy inner child, rational, knows that her man isn't her father, son, girlfriend, or therapist.

[@MightyCrazy]

No such thing as a healthy inner child. They off your fantasy world.

[@joannephillips6781]

I’m 63 dating a 80 year old man. We are having a very nice time together with lots of laughter.

[@thrive1282]

Thank you Jaki for this advice! What good timing for me, coming across your channel today! I am at rock bottom within myself bc of my man and the life I am living with him! He does not connect with me, ever! Does not share his thoughts, is not intimate with me the way committed couples normally are, does not let me know he appreciates me, has no interest in my thoughts or my feelings, in fact he does not want to hear about what I am feeling (unless of course it is fun related), or what I am thinking or really anything that a man in a committed relationship generally takes part in! He mainly concerns himself with himself, his own needs, how he feels, what he wants, etc. I have a renewed sense of hope from listening to your advice! I am going to plan a talk with him (I am taking all kinds of notes to talk to him about), I need to get this relationship on track!! Ever since it began it has been on his terms and we never set up ANYTHING that is required in committed relationships! I just wanted to thank you and let you know I appreciate you very much!

[@Lavenderlight1]

I am in my late 40s and men in there 50s Only want friends only and friends with benefits . There not looking for any long term relationships or marriages . Because they been there and done that

[@billsmith1965]

I stupidly want that Levenderflight, but I am also realistic to see that I am not hot enough (money or looks) to get that.

[@rgt9985]

Lavenderlight1 That’s because men are their 50’s have come to realize there is absolutely no benefit to marriage, just risk. Why would an financially strong man want to risk being divorce raped at this point in their life. Stay single and date younger women.

[@heloisearmes3924]

My friend at work is 60 and has a great pension and a house. Men chase her left and right. Goes both ways lol

[@lindajackson2382]

Most men over 50 REALLY want MUCH younger women starting in their 20's-- that is IF they can! Then if they can't get THEM, then they go down the line beginning with the 30's, etc. ALSO the reality IS men that are DIVORCED don't want to get married again because they've typically been taken to the cleaners by their EX!

[@LayneHazel]

Thank you! I actually have known him for a year or so. Every time I have ever been around him, he seems like the life of the party so to speak . Such a great man. I am open to it for sure. My concern is/was is it socially acceptable? Or will people want to know what he’s doing with his “daughter”.

[@victoryamartin9773]

So how do I even find someone worth dating? I live in a small rural town where all the older men are just spent on drugs and hard living. I'm not looking forward to having to drive 50 miles to meet someone.

[@pollacksharman8708]

Victorya you just have to believe in God everything will fall in place

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@carloscisneros577]

Hollo Victoria .how are yuo Today

[@shanbrown7930]

Unfortunately in my experience I’ve found most men over 50 want a woman UNDER 40.

[@velvetsimmons9513]

Shan Brown TRUST AND BELEİVE, İTS TRUE. HOÜEVER, ÜHY WOULD A MATURE ÜOMAN ÜANT A MAN ÜHOSE NOT AGE EQÜAL OR ON YOUR LEVEL OR ABOVE İN UNDERSTANDİNG HOÜ TO APPRECİATE YOU İN ANY RESPECT?? MEN İN THİS MİNDSET, MAY BE AFRAİD AND TAKE RHE EASY AND UNKNOÜİNG

[@jamesdavies542]

Not me I can assure you, women around my age are awesome 👏 plus older women are intelligent, emotionally mature, passionate, have awesome listening skills

[@shanbrown7930]

James Davies Where are you James Davies??? 😂😂😂

[@jamesdavies542]

Shan Brown Hi Shan 👋 I live in the UK, where in the world are you? 😊

[@shanbrown7930]

James Davies Darn ! New Orleans, Louisiana!!! Too bad we are such a distance!!! 😭

[@pjm377]

I enjoy your clear, direct communication style.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thank you so much Paula! You're invited to join the conversation in a more private platform in our Engaged at Any Age Ladies Club Facebook group! Go here to join: facebook.com/groups/engagedatanyageladiesclub

[@teresagaleano9287]

You are right in everything!!! I am experiencing all that with a man 60 years old. I am 39

[@themoonbleu627]

Teresa Galeano how is it going ?

[@lwhite474]

That’s great

[@Christian_Girl120]

I'm 54 and still haven't found the right man yet. In my experience, men in their 30's and 40's are still sowing their wild oats when they should have been sowing! However I'm not affluent so often myself and others like me are judged by that. Are we gold diggers? I don't want to be seen as someone as this. I have the good qualities women over 50, but geographically speaking I live in an area where prospects are limited. Maybe there's hope for me yet!

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Good morning how are you I have the same values and I have morals and respect for a good woman I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a good woman I don't smoke I don't do drugs I am looking for a my partner and Me A Lover a friend if you don't mind me asking where do you live and what are you looking for in a good man so please let's talk get back with me okay

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Good morning how are you today I seen your ad today I am a good man I have respect and morals for a good woman are you looking for a long-term relationship with a man I don't smoke I don't do drugs if you don't mind me asking where do you live let's talk okay

[@catlynenriquez3197]

Oh my god thanks,i learned a lot from u because I am 22 younger to my bf but he is caring and honest that's why I love him

[@emjoymusic8530]

You right some people can be very rigid (fixed and formed from a previous relation) 😊 😊 😊

[@karynnpoole9217]

yeah, Duh!

[@williamjohnson2118]

Hello, how are you doing?

[@shacknastyray4429]

Men have always been attracted to Fit, Fun, Feminine women that dont add drama to your life.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Agreed! What do you consider drama?

[@shacknastyray4429]

@EngagedAtAnyAge Making a mountain out of a mole hill. We all face issues but making things up out of nothing is unacceptable

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I totally know what you mean! Typically high cool girls do this to get a need met or for attention. So not attractive when we get older!

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I’ll add that this used a sign of an emotionally immature person. EQ is the key to attracting and maintaining high quality relationships 💫

[@bevrolee8887]

Since I was 10 years old I’ve noticed men in this age range want MUCH younger girls.

[@pollacksharman8708]

Hello 👋

[@pollacksharman8708]

I hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@williamjohnson2118]

Hello dear

[@williamjohnson2118]

How are you doing

[@marykarle9592]

@Gregg H..Loved your comment on this site..guess you are a little bit older now..do you still feel the same way?

[@delaliafewu4761]

This is amazing lecture. Things you talk about are facts I'm looking up to in women Wonderful presentation. Bravo !

[@daviddods3345]

Re men over 50. We want tall, classy, intelligent, wise: , creative, kind, patient women. No mention of just raw sex! On this video tho. Many things men look for but the physical side is extremely important but as women past menopause are no longer interested - some men go for much younger - we don't want but feel that we have no choice

[@barbaraelder8517]

I have done everything and all I get is hurt with a broken heart I am 60 I lost my husband after 37 years I dont do being alone well

[@pollacksharman8708]

Barbara don’t worry everything will be fine I just want you to believe in God ok 👌

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌍

[@annetcell-ly4571]

Define relationships. Does this mean cooking, cleaning, company, caregiving as our primary role? Define romance. What does this mean?

[@gardnerhappy2114]

They are looking for a twenty year old or a nurse with a purse, cook, cleaner and someone to wait on them. No thanks I like being single.

[@jerrypeukert5732]

Gardner Happy Really?

[@zenepseville6823]

Haha true

[@dionbrooks4981]

Yep . U would love to take care of me too... Go get my diaper..lol

[@suzannepresler9650]

I totally agree! And spot on with the "nurse with a purse"! I just broke up with a dude that was exactly that and he is two years younger than me. Although I would really like to find a man to do stuff with. I have been single for too long and I can't bring my dog everywhere.

[@lifeslessons9889]

Gardner Happy . How negative! What are you doing ON HERE then ! Who are you trying kid .

[@kimberlymanogin8242]

Hi, I’m a 49 1/2 female whose never been married but am interested in older white men. I’ve always been attracted to white men, since 6th grade. I’ve been trying to go through friends but that hasn’t worked out so well yet, and I’m a very spiritual woman and he would have to be of my faith too, and oh, by the way, I’ve abstained from sexual relationships for over 20 years, because, I’m worth waiting for or at least, I think so. My age range would be 58-62, depending on how he looks.

[@marvindanny2279]

Hello Kimberly

[@elvirarose2022]

how do you ask a older man out

[@richardmorholt1175]

I'm 72, you are spot on in this video, after all it's not rocket science ladies.

[@zipporahmwikali383]

I am here, 53 years...

[@alicewangari1302]

Hey

[@dorisampofowah5215]

Thanks for your video and for sharing! Is very helpful!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👋👋👋👋💗💗

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Your welcome Doris and I'm so happy you found it helpful.

[@pollacksharman8708]

Yes it’s very helpful Doris 😊

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all Over The world 🌎

[@loridavis5699]

I am 53 and i literally cannot find any man who seems interested. I am friendly and smile and they mostly just seem miserable. I have totally given up on the online dating site and doubt there are any men at work either.

[@36handy]

There are no men available? None? Check your standards.

[@j.b.9260]

Consider younger men.

[@shahrazadsaied4426]

I like your videos and find them helpful. My experience is different, though. The men I have met lately show interest in me but don't seem to be ready for a relationship. Weird, huh? Late 50s and early 70s and they still don't want a lady in their lives.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thanks for commenting and hang in there!

[@MissHannah2036]

Emotionally unavailable people of all ages. Also I’m finding as they/us get older get more set in your ways even more so as the years go by. They might not be seriously looking so not fully committed to looking for something serious. Also remember we are the ones picking these men so don’t just take anyone that comes along.

[@kimdiedrich9712]

Not unusual. Most guys say they want someone but she must meet 10/10 criteria, while he thinks of himself as perfect. True story. I think most men are happy playing the field.

[@reikidreams9265]

Sometimes we have to step back and take a look at ourselves too and see how we can be more apealing. I personally discovered l come off too aloof, too casual. With each date l discover things about myself.

[@jerrypeukert5732]

@@MissHannah2036 What do you mean exactly?

[@violetmaloba4942]

Hi I love your staff thank you, am 46 yrs can you help me connect with a single man probably between 45-65yrs of age looking for long-term relationship 🙏

[@sherrieabril6433]

I met a former friend who texts me pictures of his kids and grandkids and places he's been. He calls and talks about his ex wife, his ex girlfriend and his present girlfriend. He never asks me how I am doing or seems interested in me which really turns me off. Why do men treat me like this? Should I just end it since I feel hurt by his lack of interest in me?

[@DIAMONDGOIL]

Sherrie Abril Ive had to cut men and women like that out of my life, they are not your friend, you are not their sounding board!!! Dont let him take up your precious time! He is so Not worth feeling hurt over!

[@sherrieabril6433]

DIAMONDGOIL thanks for your kind words. I was thinking the same thing. I don't know where or how to meet a godly caring man. They don't seem to be attracted to me. I have given all I have until now I feel so empty and broken. I even despair of living.

[@DIAMONDGOIL]

Sherrie Abril just dont answer phone or text anymore! Just because the phone rings or someone sends you a text doesn't mean you have to answer it. Only converse with people who make you happy and bring joy to your life Work on yourself do things that make you happy even if it's a pedicure or taking a walk in the sunshine!

[@effiebug4278]

You know the answer.

[@sunshine2049]

Sherrie Abril at least you recognize How wrong that is. Did you call him out on it?Did you say to him and all this time you have not asked anything about me. Sometimes people get wrapped up in their head because when there’s an eager listener, You have given him the green light so Teach him how you want to be treated by telling him. You deserve the same respect

[@nadenehall6843]

He supports you, love and adore you .love that , I am 45 till single what for the man who will love an d adore thank you for sharing your videos

[@sethdanse8581]

How are you

[@Shelly.1962]

Thank you I'm 56 he's 64 and I'm very intrested in him we have been friends for a very long time not sure Where this is going .....

[@sierrakamau1510]

Michele Sanderson This is going to dentures n depends that work well

[@dellchica2373]

geo metric ewwww

[@dianaevans7102]

You'll be his nurse. Go for someone younger!!

[@themoonbleu627]

Michele Sanderson going no where clearly if a man wants you you won’t be his friend he will big and claw his way out of the friend zone honey

[@levelsuponlevels]

I have been divorced 1 year and I just turned 50 but look much younger because I exercise and eat correctly. Men that are in their 30s and 40s approach me mostly. I wonder how I can meet older men that are healthy and happy.

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Why do you want to meet older men? Older men want to meet younger women, if you are 50 then a 60-65 aged man will pursue you. You're better off with a man who is your age or younger.

[@levelsuponlevels]

@@EngagedAtAnyAge yes you are right my experience has shown. ED how do we discuss it with them? The 60 year olds have not been strong in bed or should I forget about sex and passion?

[@rkannur604]

@@levelsuponlevels To be patient, you can make harder in 60's. No problem if you can do..

[@levelsuponlevels]

@@rkannur604 I am very patient, I practice daily meditation. If only men know that the hormones in the meat is messing them up.

[@margaritakleinman5701]

This is very good advice and very encouraging. Thanks for another great and helpful video. The best is yet to come!!

[@pollacksharman8708]

Yes it’s good advice and encouraging Margarita

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year brings joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@leisabackherms4633]

What if you want to be active and he doesn't?

[@dionbrooks4981]

Move on than

[@Maggie-hy2ub]

Hey Jackie I've been talking to a great guy for the pass 3 weeks, he does live about 1.5 hours away. We are going to met next week. We've talked about family career politics emotions food so many other things. My question is how would I know if he's really interested. We have been texting and talking as well.

[@mariedina625]

I think he has shown that he is interested. What more to you want? To show him that you are ask him to meet you for dessert, or coffee.

[@johnballard6725]

A real time meeting can answer many questions and is worth a hundred emails or ten videochats.

[@mjoswong1947]

Just I notice that u breath on and off between ur speech , i am nurse with the same problem . The cause of this is actually because u breath through ur mouth most of the time not ur nose so that is why u need to breath in between ur speech. Actually this habit is not encouraged but we r so used to this that it become a habit it will take a lot to change this habit .

[@mariamnick7204]

You are so beautiful 😍 & kind too thanks for your good advice 👌🏽

[@lynnthompson6796]

Love your videos 📸👍💯and thanks for sharing

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

You're welcome!

[@mariacapra2271]

First time being here, hearing you out and loving it. ,,

[@marvindanny2279]

Hello

[@beatricesmith3496]

Who gives a dam about what men want. I'm old school what happened to men pursuing women. Women have always catered to men. What ever I do to better myself is not just to please a man. If your a certain age and been through the bullshit. Either we're mentally and spiritually connected or we're not. Point blank. Im willing to meet anyone in the middle. Women stick to your morals and self respect and spiritually.

[@marvindanny2279]

Hello Beatrice

[@gabriellebudd1166]

well what about what woman want never mind the men if they can't offer you more don't waste your time

[@danielmedina2078]

Yeah that's why your a loser . . . It's always about you, perfect recipe for a meaninglessness life .

[@dianaevans7102]

@@danielmedina2078 not very nice reply. Why so angry. Do you have a hard time hooking up with that problem?

[@danielmedina2078]

@@dianaevans7102 hmmm actually I am MGTOW so haha!

[@danielmedina2078]

That's why you're looking for a man and men are going MGTOW loser.

[@carol7roberts]

You always provide such amazing insights and wisdom. Thank you so much. These are Excellent tips!! 💖🙏🏾💖

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thank you, I’m glad you resonated with it! 💕

[@dauntemarieslettebak82]

THE BIGGEST MISTAKE I MADE WHEN I WAS YOUNGER OR ANY AGE IS....NOT BEING SEXY WHEN OUT ON A FIRST DATE OR DATING! I WAS SO CAUGHT UP IN DISTRACTIONS LIKE BEING ON TIME ETC! STUPID THINGS THAT DONT MATTER! IS MY LIP GLOSS TOO SLIMY? WHERE DID I PUT MY CAR KEYS? WHAT IF THE FOODS TOO SPICY AND I HAVE A REACTION TO IT? WHAT IF I SAY SOMETHING WRONG? WHAT IF I AM CLUMSY ETC?? SO DONT BE AFRAID LIKE I WAS TO SHOW OFF A BIT! SHOW SOME LEGS, CLEAVAGE, OR WEAR SOMETHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL SEXY AND ALIVE!! GET THE JUICES FLOWING IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN! NOTHING IS WORSE THAN DATING A CORPS! SO SET THE TONE WITHOUT WORDS! LOOK PRETTY! FEEL PRETTY AND YOUTHFUL! IT WILL BRING YOU A SELF CONFIDENCE TO MAKE YOUR FIRST DATE EXPERIENCE A GOOD ONE! AND LET GO OF ALL THE PRESSURE! JUST BE YOURSELF! AND HAVE A GOOD TIME! STAY POSITIVE AND KEEP THINGS LIGHT AND SUNNY! SUNSHINE AND STRAWBERRIES! HE WILL FEEL MORE RELAXED WHEN HE SEES YOU HAVING A GOOD TIME! SO BREEZE ON IN AND FORGET ABOUT ALL THE DO'S AND DONT'S! JUST RELAX AND GET TO KNOW HIM! ALSO ASK HIM QUESTIONS ABOUT HIS LIFE AND HIM! TRY TO PAIR UP INTERESTS THAT ARE THE SAME! WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON? WHAT DOES HE LIKE? WHERE DOES HE LIKE TO GO? WHERE HAS HE BEEN IN HIS LIFE? WHERE DOES HE WANT TO GO? THIS SHOULD KEEP YOU TALKING FOR A LONG TIME! SO KEEP THE CHAT SHORT! IN SEGMENTS NOT TOO LONG FOR EACH DAY! THIS WILL GIVE YOU SOME TOPICS TO CHAT ABOUT ON THE PHONE LATER! SO ITS NOT SO BOARING AND CLUMSY ON THE PHONE LATER! ALSO KEEP THINGS LIGHT AND AIRY! WITH LOTS OF DATING AND FUN TIMES! NO PRESSURE ON THE POOR GUY, OR TALK OF MARRIAGE ON THE FIRST DATE! NO WAY! THAT WILL SCARE ANY GUY OFF! SO PUT ALL THAT TALK ON THE BACK BURNER FOR NOW! EVEN IF HE IS YOUR DREAM MAN! AND YOU REALLY WANT TO RIP HIS CLOTHES OFF! AND THROW HIM DOWN FOR A KISS FEST! NO! STIFLE IT! TAKE A COLD SHOWER OR HAVE A GLASS OF WINE WITH DINNER! TAKE YOUR TIME! TO GET TO KNOW HIM FIRST! FIND OUT WHAT HE IS ALL ABOUT FIRST! THEN AFTER YOU HAVE GIVEN HIM A CHANCE (SEVERAL MONTHS OF DATING!) YOU CAN FIND OUT IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH IN COMMON TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK! OR IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON AT ALL? DO YOU EVEN KNOW OR LIKE THIS GUY? IF NO?? THEN CUT YOUR LOSSES QUICK! BE POLITE BUT END IT FAST! AND MOVE ON TO THE NEW GUY! SOME WOMEN DATE SEVERAL MEN WHEN THEY ARE IN JUST DATING STAGE! TO MAKE A GOOD SELECTION! THIS IS OKAY! AS YOUR NOT SLEEPING WITH ALL OF THEM! YOU ARE GETTING TO KNOW THEM! SO ITS OKAY! WHEN YOU FIND SOMEONE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH! YOU WILL KNOW IT FOR SURE! SOME TIME THIS TAKES TIME! SO GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO GET TO KNOW YOU! AND AGAIN DONT BE AFRAID TO BE A LITTLE SEXY ON YOUR DATES! IF YOU FEEL REALLY ATTRACTED TO A CERTAIN MAN! THAT IS WHY GOD MADE YOU A WOMAN! TO ATTRACT A MAN YOU LIKE! AND THEN....LOVE! (MY ADVICE PUT A RING ON IT!!) D : ) SMILEY! WOW! FUN TIMES! TAKE YOUR TIME! BUT DONT WAIT TOO LONG!!

[@dauntemarieslettebak82]

AFTER YOU PUT A RING ON IT!! DON'T BE AFRAID TO BRING UP YOUR BACK BURNER TOPICS! DONT UNLOAD EVERYTHING ALL AT ONCE ON HIM! NO! JUST ONE CONVERSATION AT A TIME! BUT BE SURE TO BRING UP EVERYTHING THAT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU AND YOUR LIFE! HE NEEDS TO HEAR IT AND UNDERSTAND YOU! SO DONT BE SCARED! JUST A LITTLE AT A TIME! OVER TIME! HE WILL UNDERSTAND YOU BETTER, AND GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER! AGAIN DONT BE AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT SEX, FAMILY AND YOUR LIFE! AND HIS LIFE! SHARE TOGETHER! THIS WILL MAKE YOU FEEL MORE OPEN AND SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT FOR A HAPPY FUTURE! SO MANY DIVORCES COULD HAVE BEEN PREVENTED IF WOMEN DO THIS SIMPLE THING! SOOOOO MANY FIGHTS PREVENTED! D : ) SMILEY! KEEP A POSITIVE VIBE!!!......... ALWAYS!

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3163]

Great video! Thank you. So true. 🌻💗

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Thanks so much

[@sallybon8701]

engage at any age. i just want a person whom i could listen,.whom i could talk to. i am 63..single..mom..i enjoyed listening ,reading comments on your section..want to have friends from other countries, too. .

[@Joy-iw4mp]

men want a woman that don't want a relationship cuz they want what they can't have

[@marvindanny2279]

Hello

[@wildwoman8310]

I enjoyed the video. I think it's very helpful.

[@LisaGemini]

I'm always hearing this "playful" advice but I'm rather serious. How can I cultivate more of my fun side?

[@williamjohnson2118]

Hello Lisa

[@williamjohnson2118]

What a beautiful smile you got on your profile pic

[@williamjohnson2118]

How are you doing today

[@LisaGemini]

@@williamjohnson2118 Hi there! Are you trying to find out what men your age like? LOL

[@williamjohnson2118]

@@LisaGemini lol, no not really . I only want to talk to you

[@lourdes1941]

Hello,from "PHILIPPINES" i like your topic here🥰

[@jackfruitearth702]

Three things that women can do to attract men: 1) don't talk so much, 2) look nice and be affectionate, 3) keep the house clean and feed him.

[@monkeymindfrance8356]

i like you for spreading this holy message...and it works great at any age.

[@adriennemuhammad2807]

Fair enough

[@deborahsanders5070]

Can he feed her?

[@billsmith1965]

Too bad I couldn't find one like you Susan. Looking nice is quite a wide window for most of us men.

[@dianaevans7102]

Hire a prostitute or a robot

[@lwhite474]

This was very helpful

[@gabriellebudd1166]

I was married nearly 30 years why would I want another man again I did that been there don't want to do it again I am free to come and go and yes it's nice to meet someone casually but keep them at arm's length. it's safer that way as the old saying goes older men have different way of thinking they want what they had when they were young and their brains tell them that they are still there sexy yuck I wouldn't even want an older man forget that noise no way Jose I am free and happy to be free

[@billsmith1965]

Thank you for staying out of the pool Gabrielle! You are saving many men with your decision.

[@dianaevans7102]

@@billsmith1965 jerk!!

[@aboahmed5819]

@@dianaevans7102 hi nice lady iam gentleman 60yo handsome and sporty hi educated loving females so much I need her to share my life forever if you interested Witting your reply

[@johnballard6725]

You are happy and until you are not stay single!

[@terrileblanc7464]

Thank you very informative. Awesome speaker. Im interested but...guess you here that alot. I will be tuning in. Thx again.

[@kquinze]

I clicked on this because im dating a man in his 50s and omg why do men age so finely?! When we first met i thought he’s in his 40s he’s so attractive i look like a potato im so insecure😆 “he’s been there and done all that” to me it is fascinating

[@dannigirl5579]

I agree wholeheartedly! I am also dating a man in his late 50s. He is very handsome to me

[@tanyafabuluje4141]

Yesss very helpful Thanks for sharing

[@karynnpoole9217]

yeah, at those ages of course they want a relationship! They know their looks and Sex drive has gone down hill and now they want to focus on the relationship! why cant they do that in their 30s and 40s?! I want a man that still enjoys sex and can without viagra!

[@robertstone998]

Hi karynn

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Good morning how are you I am 59 years old and I don't have to take Viagra I still have a high sex drive if you're looking for a relationship with a good man's get back in touch with me let's talk if you don't mind me asking where do you live what are you looking for in a good man with morals and respect for a woman please give me a chance let's talk

[@guyvert49]

you must have some bad experiences. At 70 I can make a woman, young or old, enjoy multiple orgasms in a variety of ways, as my experiences have taught me. I take my time & am not selfish. & no, I would never take Viagra. I see no point in cheating. Not that our comment is valid, just shows a lack of knowledge about what a real man can provide

[@tonydrabenstott4745]

Hi

[@margaretmiller4718]

Heck I know some 60 year olds with crazy sex drives

[@allietorgeson8317]

Does this count for men who are closer to 50/51?

[@margaretmiller4718]

Someone asked the age difference between Jackie and her husband. I certainly would like to know. Because if it's what I think, well until I have the facts I should not comment.

[@dianaevans7102]

He looks quite a bit older, at least 10+

[@TheSunshinefee]

15 years

[@inkerikavantera]

I am under 40 with life experience worth couple of lifetimes. And gorgeous. Even 50 yos feel a bit immature. Gosh it is hard.

[@estherwendy492]

Hi I would love to know you

[@inkerikavantera]

@@estherwendy492 Hey 👋 You're not spam are you? 🤭

[@estherwendy492]

No sweetheart

[@inkerikavantera]

@@estherwendy492 😄

[@estherwendy492]

Do you use line

[@reymarizgarcia5322]

Thanks for this vedeo I meet a man he is 64 and me 46 I love each other and we communicate every day even do he is a busy man but still he have time for me but my prblem is I cannot open any interesting topic to know him more because of his busy schedule I message him but he answer me always I love you I miss you

[@Shobronx]

Reymariz Garcia hi I have lots of friends that were in the same situation and it turned out to be that he was married or had a girl friend already I hope in your case it's not the same just get to know him ask him questions lol but like I said it's happened to a few of my friends good luck and hope he's your night and shining armor ❤️

[@peaceangel-rl2hf]

Gosh that is almost a 20 yr age gap. Do you have much in common?

[@Shobronx]

Anita ' S I don't want to laugh or being unsensitive but lol when you message gosh!! He's more than half your age I couldn't help and giggle but again I'm not laughing at her situation but she has the upper hand and he needs to know this cause he can be her daddy and a 46 year woman is at the peek of her life and he needs to know that but from my experience the older a man gets the more games they start to play

[@peaceangel-rl2hf]

sonia cardona I know what you mean. Alot of older men do play games cos they have nothing to lose and they may feel like they need to feel desirable as they get older. I notice alot of men in their 60s, 70s like women in their 40s. I would often be approached by much older men but why would I enjoy their company unless we had stuff in common? I wasn't trying to be rude either, but I think women need to be careful to not be desparate for attention and make sure the guy ( any age) is single, genuine, honest and caring. Men of all ages in my experience think women in their 40s need some male lovin' and affection and many times they are married, as you say...just bein' real...

[@Shobronx]

Anita ' S yes totally agree my daddy was 27 years older than my mother and he always tried to make her feel like he was the young one and my mommy never gave into his game I love my daddy he passed away two years ago and I love him but he was very jealous and mentality abusing to my mother and you know why men start dating a younger woman when they reach the age of 60 and beyond in the beginning they at like a night and shining armor then as time goes by and see this younger woman is in love now the games start and you know why cause they are insecure and their pee pee don't work like it used to Jejejeje

[@miriamariel6185]

The little things mean a lot

[@cyberkraft8005]

Had a very hard time focusing on your message though so much sniffing...sorry.

[@miriamariel6185]

And giving support when it's needed

[@lizzabbott]

Jaki, you're so pretty!

[@marvindanny2279]

Hello

[@katemckenzie6117]

I'm in a relationship with a man online. It's been going for 8 months. We plan on getting married when he returns home

[@margaretmiller4718]

Hmm, watch out for that one. If he doesn't return soon let him go. I hope for you that he does. But when he does there are things that are different when you meet face to face.

[@mariaa.5829]

hilarious!

[@masterful7574]

Already not ahrdy Expressing not expresseen Recognizing not recognizeen Interested not intrested Looking not lookeen Intelligence not intelluhgence STOP SLURPING Coming not comeen Definitely not defnuhly Being not bean Morning not morneen Sense of humor not sense uh humor Something not sometheen Faking not fakeen Vulnerability not vunerability Matching not matcheen Imagining not imaguhneen Important not imporint Useless not usedless Especially not espeshly

[@granjmy]

My my my.

[@symon9485]

i really like your channel i learn a lot i am your new subscriber..I'm Daisy from philippines..

[@johnnyblaze2257]

How old are you daisy?

[@robertall.dawson2002]

Where's the woman who can have a conversation about anything under the sun, and not become offended?

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

I'm sure she may be out there for you. Good luck.

[@florenceanderson477]

Robert all. Dawson They are everywhere

[@florenceanderson477]

Robert all. Dawson Theyy are everywhere.

[@paulinabesada1967]

Problem is whenever they find a woman with such qualities, they always go after the ones that are only interested in their money

[@nora22000]

Lots of them out there; but most men prefer blondes...

[@jo-annlouw3157]

Nice, this is helpfull, thank you!

[@pollacksharman8708]

Hello Jo-Ann yes it’s very helpful 😊😊

[@pollacksharman8708]

Happy New Year hope this year bring joy and happiness to all Americans and all over the world 🌎

[@adorhaal6970]

My bf is 54 and stl playing and flirting withb other woman ..

[@EngagedAtAnyAge]

Sorry that is your experience but not all men are like that.

[@korger1481]

adorha al His a manbaby. Why are you putting up with that?🤔😵

[@beatricesmith3496]

If your man is flirting with other women in front of you, leave him he doesn't respect you.

[@veronicasmith1147]

Get rid theres good ones too go get

[@mariaa.5829]

find someone better than ur 54 year old kid

[@ChristinaOstil115]

I have a boyfriend who is 63 but he has been two times and I want to be with him but he wants to take his time because his previous marriages experiences. I’m a widow of three years.

[@edwardmarsh4127]

Hello dear, how are you doing today, I hope all is going well in this time of covid. I will be glad to hear for you, stay safe!

[@edwardmarsh4127]

@Erika Roland I'm pretty Good

[@edwardmarsh4127]

@Erika Roland I would like us to be friends

[@edwardmarsh4127]

@Erika Roland I'm no longer with my wife anymore!

[@edwardmarsh4127]

@Erika Roland yes I'm on What'sApp