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[@r4nd0mguuy38]

"the stigma that males can't be molested and abused it's fiction" Exactly.

[@Slysnail5339]

My dad molested my brother. But he died from a heartattack while sleeping❤️

[@r4nd0mguuy38]

@@Slysnail5339 I'm sorry man... 😢 Hope things are better now in your family.

[@endiya.]

@@Slysnail5339 I'm praying for you, that God will give you strength day by day, your heart is beating right now because you have a purpose in life. So go out into the world and be a Blessing to others!

[@aaliyahwinrow3941]

rainhat Feminism has nothing to do with this issue sooo

[@fozza1051]

In pulp FICTION Marcus gets raped

[@frka6342]

Jubilee is just becoming free therapy by this point

[@na-qh2bf]

I'm not mad at it

[@frka6342]

@@na-qh2bf me too

[@CiphersWon]

and it is good

[@taylorhitt9753]

Facts. I need therapy and don't have health insurance. Wonder if I can sign up

[@laniewells9525]

Preach sista

[@Dendoi_]

The difference is: When there's a female virgin everyone thinks she's joking especially if she's hot When there's a male virgin everyone laughs it off or makes fun of them

[@katonadani99]

Yeah and they always talk about it like it's some kind of competition, that's why virgins feel bad because they feel like they lost (at least that's what it feels like for me)

[@theluckyone831]

@@katonadani99 Naah man dont feel like that i am 23 years old and i am not ashamed of it i had the chance few times but i still see it as nonsence to waste something i have inly once in a lifetime to someone who does not matter.. Be proud of yourself bcs the first time.is.something special dont waste it on anybody just so you can say U jad sex... Have a good Day/Night and keep on keeping on 👍

[@klaasvaak4803]

@@katonadani99 for me its not the fact that I "lost". Its the fact that everyone makes fun of you when you tell them. Litarally every single person I have met and told, which is basicly everyone I know, has made fun of it.

[@phenomenalwrestling8667]

I am actually an Aromantic Asexual 19 year old male who has never dated anyone and wants to stay a Virgin my whole life.

[@katonadani99]

@@theluckyone831 Thanks man, that made me happy

[@omara8053]

The guy that randomised the letters had one job.

[@genetaylor5368]

I really dont think any of them were randomised

[@tristanlj3409]

@@genetaylor5368 I think that's his point. I too was a bit confused as to how everyone of them read a letter of which they could relate to (in a, let's be real unusual way). I think though 50% of them wrote letters and then Jubilee found compatibles for their letter

[@debarghyachattopadhyay2614]

Letters to people who could relate to it

[@LukzaFactory]

Thank you

[@samsam6535]

For the men who are still virgin ...Nothing to be ashamed about. I wish I did stay virgin as I initially planned, before giving it to my first love who in exchange gave me 2 STDs. The excuse of boyfriends that I had after him did not deserve my intimacy either...Since then I decided to remain single because of the delusion of love and what I believed it was.

[@nickparkison977]

When men are abused they are hurt twice. Once by the abuser, and second when society blames and reviles them for their supposed weakness.

[@OwenRona]

Apparently, “Being Human” and “Human Being” are absolutely not the same. Not exactly sure why ...

[@charliemurphy7122]

Best KZbin comment I have seen

[@jem231]

When women are abused, they are hurt twice. Once by the abuser and twice by society for telling them that they shouldn't have wore what they were wearing, that they're lying, that they're ruining a man's life... the list goes on. I think it's the nature of society as opposed to which gender is abused. Not invalidating your point btw, rather adding to it

[@LyricsCrashx3]

@@jem231 I agree. Also, women are told to forgive the abuser. Stay with the abuser, that's whay I was told. It is also difficult to get into a DV shelter if you don't have a child. That is unspoken about. People think it's so easy to get into a one. I'm homeless right now. When your "family" is abusive, you are always blamed.

[@marcozolo3536]

Alrighty then

[@Unknown-zi7wx]

Why do i feel like they’re reading their own secrets

[@brendonutjita]

"I myself can relate"

[@Joanis_vswrld]

Me too

[@elongated2761]

It's more easier to tell someone's story than telling a story about yourself

[@danielakesson27]

Why do i feel like they are reading my secrets*

[@kobelambert8250]

@@elongated2761 well said...

[@itsasetup8652]

“Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something." - Chris Rock

[@hamstersamiright8837]

Can we get an F for cats.

[@jc8153]

Too true

[@pink_alligator]

Oooh, that hits. That's a truth I've never been able to put into words before

[@MichaelSmith-rn2vk]

F

[@sunnyday4055]

only *pretty* women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally ...

[@kingmcowo3351]

The rape one hurt “no one believed me cause they said it only happened to girls” no one deserved this im sorry for them

[@Uhuru_Kenyatta]

Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. - Oscar Wilde

[@ron93098]

Damn that really cut deep. Thanks for sharing this. I'll remember this one.

[@kekelolo6471]

@hamzah anton no

[@MrRobeasca]

@hamzah anton cause no one will know who they are, they will be anonymous and their image wont be altered

[@therobotchickn]

Sold your brain hamzah ?

[@dangeroussneeze66]

Brian Waweru wow

[@thea58193]

It is sad how women are encouraged to talk about their feelings while many men keep it on the inside

[@jcliff8415]

women are encouraged to abuse men...

[@thea58193]

@@jcliff8415What do you mean?

[@Maksie0]

Men are discouraged from talking about their feelings... by other men.

[@Maksie0]

How is it better?

[@codename495]

NFXDESTRA He resolves them in healthy ways rather than internalizing them and lashing out in other ways.

[@carlaanastas4161]

Not dating anyone is much better than getting hurt by everyone.

[@jhay_vine5083]

damn. nice one.

[@johnD1998]

Yea maybe your right but it still hurts being a lonely virgin

[@nikiyubari8410]

Watch home alone 2 when kevin tells the rollerblade story to the pigeon lady hun.

[@matheusdoriadearaujo3318]

Sexist misandrist. Men suffer too. I hope u keep suffering even more!

[@banemen27]

@@wisesensei9741 but why? Instead try to be a better person and without trying girls will come to you , it's ironic but never chase girls and be direct do not give hidden signals, stay away from platonic chatting and always stablish that you're there to be a potential partner

[@enriquemendoza945]

Fellas, if a woman doesn’t like you anymore because you cry, she’s not the one for you. It is lie to think that because you cry that you’re not a man. Crying is literally part of survival and it can help you connect with others and you won’t feel so lonely, which as you know we are social creatures. Again, if I woman dumps you or loses interest because you express feelings she could possibly be under the mainstream impression that men don’t cry

[@sylvanathornton2119]

Thank you! I'm so glad to see a man stating this. And I tell you what, the high majority of women will actually think higher of a man who cries when the situation warrants it. That willingness to show humanity displays confidence in a way that is very attractive and relatable to women.

[@zzassenavzzz]

“people cry not because they're weak, but because they've been strong for too long"

[@holdenaphart7528]

@@sylvanathornton2119 not true

[@aminafz2979]

Then there is no woman at all

[@kidjedimaster3604]

Not just women, society as a whole. I think for a lot of men, they can’t cry.

[@GraysBlue]

i think a "men read womens deepest secrets" or "women read mens deepest secrets." i would love to see different perspectives on these issues.

[@Metalqueen99]

aesthetaeguk yes!!!

[@dario.m4707]

Guys:I feel so bad for her Girl:why are they acting like little girls

[@angelinatsao5614]

!!

[@taestea4747]

aesthetaeguk not. abad idea

[@jyotsnaroy9596]

@Roxus if you are telling the truth then"god bless you"

[@stressedjudgeby599]

*PLOT TWIST:* they are reading their own secrets

[@stantoge]

Stressed Judge Bøy ||-//

[@GuitarFin1]

Well they are reading one's close to their own experiences

[@fruitylyrics6052]

||-//

[@masons4425]

Plot twist, I'm gonna hit you with my back hand instead of my forehand.

[@novemberscold]

yeah its seems that way

[@ClellBiggs]

I'm almost 42 and have never been physically intimate with anyone, and probably never will be. I was also abused by a family member when I was 8. These things are more common for men than most people realize.

[@ClellBiggs]

@Monkey Nibba At 18 that's not unusual. You likely don't have anything to worry about.

[@oblivion9520]

@@ClellBiggs I'm 22 and never even held a girls hand. Should I just give up and embrace the solitary life?

[@ClellBiggs]

@@oblivion9520 Nah, that's still not unusual. You'll probably be fine.

[@teapottim4807]

@Step Bro Help I'm Stuck! Depending on the person, barely staying alive can prove to be insanely difficult. Terrible things happen to people, they happened to you too I assume. For the you that you are now it may be a great burden to bear. It's okay to have these dark thoughts as a consequence. However, with that being said, I really believe that there is more to you than you are right now. That there is a you that can overcome the situation you are in right now, no matter how hopeless. There is hope for change, even if it's just a small step, if it can alleviate the pain just a little bit that's alright. Keep going. You'll get there. You have it within you. Please don't give up on life, for despite all it's ugly and pain, there is also beauty and things worth suffering for.

[@Arturasimo]

I don't want to be too personal but maybe you should seek therapy?

[@superbacon13]

Remember kings, we are here for each other. Stading together we stand stronger. Love you boys.

[@omerirfan2]

Love you too

[@rebelc28hachey15]

No homo tho.

[@newkingfj7242]

You forgot to say no Homo dude 😂😂 love you too *NO HOMO*

[@kr6productions]

live long and stay strong king

[@themainmf9573]

Much love homie

[@matthewjackson4915]

The way he said “ I’ve never dated anyone” made it sound so reassuring and he seems so nice

[@michaelbradley2550]

Yeah it's no big deal really, everyone finds love at different points in their lives. Myself, I'm 25 and never dated anyone. I could've dated in high school but didn't really care enough to do it. It's kinda the same still for me now. I could go out and strike up a conversation with a woman but I really don't care atm. I'm happy with working for 40 hours a week, coming home and talking/playing games with friends and gymming. I'd be perfectly fine being alone for the rest of my life too. I don't want kids and I love living alone/having my own space I don't have to share with anyone. Whatever happens, happens

[@joshualozada8132]

Michael Bradley I mean at the age of early 30s is the best age to be married at so u still have many years

[@bogdanstojanovic2540]

Michael Bradley Well yeah you chose to live alone I can respect that, but the guy doesnt have a gf not cus he didnt try but because he cant

[@alexong2542]

@@bogdanstojanovic2540 some people are just meant to be alone. I've tried dating , and I realized many who've dated me are just curious about me, none of them wanted a connection,they just wanna expand the social network. Till now, I still don't understand why do people want to have so many friends and such a large network? For what? The only true friends that are gonna stick by you in the end are less than 5. It's quality over quantity. Sigh, no one nowadays seem like they want to bond or have a connection anymore

[@highguy6495]

@@michaelbradley2550 You chose to not date, the guy chose to date but failed. There's a difference.

[@christopheratajudeen1023]

Does anyone else feel like they need a 1 hour version of this

[@brownjordan0523]

Me!!

[@danielap.2928]

Me too

[@reycesalisbury1735]

This is something I really want

[@johansanderson4766]

Christopher A Tajudeen I could use 2

[@johncapada5076]

Yep

[@vlimos4446]

" inside I'm really sensitive, I'm scared to be who I am " that hits home 😞

[@sylvanathornton2119]

Don't be! Men, please do realize that a man showing emotions actually displays confidence in a way that women want confidence to be shown. In a way that is attractive to women. Most men mistake confidence with dominance or with being cold and heartless, and untouchable. Then they wonder why they still don't appeal to women, who find that kind of person a cold, heartless ass.

[@janecastro4879]

@@sylvanathornton2119 if we show our emotions then we would probably get bullied and made fun of

[@bullymaguire2061]

@@sylvanathornton2119 which women are you talking about? Most women bail immediately when a guy cries.

[@ATomicAstronaut]

@@sylvanathornton2119 That's a lie.

[@kingjam3s540]

that me too

[@tomasjosefpiano8902]

When a man cries, it shows that he's confident in his manhood enough to go against the common stereotypes. That's just fax right here.

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

Once the stereotype is gone, men will just be a bunch of cry babies who when told to man up, will just snap back and say “I am confident in who I am”. By the time all men realize that crying is a strength, it will Become a weakness. Crying is only good until the stereotype is dismantled.

[@buddy9684]

​@@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 How did you miss their point entirely bruh?

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

@@buddy9684 wdym

[@mikeylorenzio2076]

Eh, it depends what he's crying about.

[@haaland1103]

@@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 there’s something wrong with you

[@jethroblack818]

"Be who you are, say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." -- Dr. Seuss

[@zechidvjchi9675]

Coming from the guy who had like 6 wives(sarcasm)

[@PlasticDoll.]

Idk it this quote is famous or smthn. But I'm going to try living by it! Thank you Mr!

[@nicktran7490]

“Cheat on your wife while she is dying from cancer and proceed to marry the other women when your wife kills herself because she doesn’t want to be an interference to your life” - Dr. Seuss

[@fireboogaloo6871]

@@nicktran7490 You probably don't even like green eggs and ham.

[@omartrachen6794]

it's really a powerful quote, thanks for sharing

[@RAINBOWDASH-sv9wl]

That second guy talking about having sex with someone who you care about is right. He deserves someone who loves him. He seems like a really nice guy

[@kunalthe100]

yeaaa he is right... i am 26 and never dated anyone or had sex with anyone...and i dont feel bad about it...being with someone who loves you for real is more satisfying and rewarding...we all are gonna lose virginity at some point...everyone takes their own time...

[@abubakarbusati7731]

@@kunalthe100 I am the same as you, 3 months until i turn 26 and i will wait until marriage

[@Lovemyfriends1]

A real man cries at his wedding

[@NathanielGidacan]

the longer you stay single the longer they will f*ck your future wife....

[@abubakarbusati7731]

@@NathanielGidacan i will marry a woman who has this same idea as me, so i am not interested in girls who don't keep themselves.

[@Obi-Wan_Kenobi]

I died and never dated anyone. It's not a big deal.

[@riptidexthp]

But you DID have the high ground.... so....

[@thecloaker7962]

Ahhhhhh, General Kenobi!

[@joelgallegos09]

Yea but you still had the duchess of mandalore who wanted you so its was just your monk ways that were stopping you general kenobi.

[@bullseye6969]

Biologically it is a big deal.

[@REIVAXMEELAS]

Sex/dating/being in a relationship/Marriage isnt that important.

[@hustlemami8732]

As a woman watching this, I am broken for what our men have been through and expected to be. Stop the societal expectations for men!

[@taketheblackpillneo3940]

no you are not. but keep virtue signaling roastie

[@jimmycruz7172]

"stop the societal expectations for men" wtf do you think that means? just remove all true sterotypes that are made to keep men like this from existing??

[@foreverconfusedandkindacute]

To be fair they're the ones who created these stereotypes and expectations and now they're the ones suffering.... as a woman I rlly feel like were just the supporting cast in this horribly directed movie lol its hilariously sad

[@macgmol159]

@@foreverconfusedandkindacute yes they are the problem not women but blaming them it's just gonna makes things recycling

[@Echani3007]

@@foreverconfusedandkindacuteatriarchy is set by men but doesn’t exactly apply correctly nor advantageously for al men. Some women may profit off their position in patriarchal societies. Not all men profit off such systems

[@naraira__1397]

I felt sorry for the guy who has been molested. The memories must have haunt him...he's still a child at that time. You're so strong man!

[@rio-fu2ro]

I wonder how his aunt looked

[@therealnatersx]

Naraira98 L

[@bananamuncher741]

@@rio-fu2ro why

[@dopeshitslol9999]

Marauder it was like every boys dream

[@tarankalawat1646]

DopeShits LoL to be honest Yes!

[@_Adie]

"I've never dated anyone. In my 28 years of life I've been single." That actually made me feel better. There's probably nothing wrong with me, stuff like that just happens sometimes. That was really helpful to hear, honestly.

[@ottogofast3882]

Adie love and companionship is overrated and can seriously hurt you. You just have a different view of it from the outside looking in. Find peace within yourself before looking for love.

[@TheGonkDroid]

Adie you can't give someone else love from within if you don't fill your self up with self love first. Be gentle with your self

[@kikigam7113]

Same I'm almost 21 and I'm a virgin and never had a bf before it feels weird but I see Its not so weird

[@TheGonkDroid]

Kiki Gam it's actually very common nothing wrong with it at all

[@luanasinclair]

When I met my boyfriend he was 25 and had never dated or kissed anyone, people just have different timelines, doesn't really say anything bad about him, just like it doesn't say anything bad about anyone else who hasn't dated.

[@a32tl]

0:37 That's my story. I'm 52 and have never been on a date or shared a genuine romantic moment with another living soul. No one has ever loved me. It haunts me daily and I feel great shame about it.

[@sstff6771]

Here is a big hug bro🤗

[@strawberrydragon6252]

There is nothing to be ashamed about.

[@LemperAyam879]

There is a dating app for ppl in your age, try to google it, i forgot the name

[@badpiggy2403]

I’m sorry to hear about that. But it’s ok, you can still be awesome single. Stay strong man, I hope things get better for you

[@1ztype343]

Like other people have said, you aren't missing out on much, in fact, a whole lot of people want to be in your shoes right now. Live life, save money, and have fun. There's more to life than humans and emotions. Focus on yourself king. -A person with no contact with the outside world

[@akamaverick6205]

Hearing all these I realize I’m extremely fortunate to have an amazing family

[@Asymmetric_dnb]

That's when it's important to take note and make sure you create a culture with any family and friends you may have where those lessons are passed on

[@haaland1103]

yeah

[@aseed89]

I envy you

[@9salvia]

“I’ve never dated anyone” Same

[@Bmboo_]

@J-Dog The Beast me neither but I'm thirteen so idk gl I gues

[@KeinAlias877]

@@Bmboo_ gtfo

[@kierxn248]

J-Dog The Beast you need to learn to attract girls then my guy

[@Itz_Ashley11]

@J-Dog The Beast just curious how is it with females in the military cuz i feel like sometimes when guys are talking about something they wouldn't want females to hear they get annoyed

[@Bmboo_]

@@KeinAlias877 wowa dude that's rude calm your ass don't lash out on others

[@mujtabaellari2597]

Mad respect to these men for talking about their own past.

[@justaman1537]

The room is filled with KINGS 🗣🤴🏻

[@haaland1103]

fax

[@user-ps4ky5ki3t]

Lately the word "king" seems to be popping up. But when someone tells that to me it feels like a participation award and it makes me feel worse

[@bananamonkeygaming14]

@@user-ps4ky5ki3t yes, its just weird and cringey

[@SK-vk9jf]

Mine would be that when I was a boy I was always 'like a girl' as they said - polite, calm, getting good marks. I really liked maths and was good at it and didn't like sports, wasn't good at sports at all, and wasn't good at social skills neither, thus other boys bullied me and as girls laughed it only encouraged them to go further and further I thought I'll never have a girlfriend, I felt worthless and wanted to commit suicide. But now, the dream came through - I do have a loving girlfriend and I love her so much, sometimes I can't believe that, all those years are just as clear as it was yesterday, but it's a past now. If there's anyone feeling like I felt at the moment, it will pass, you are the most wonderful person on the planet, everything eventually passes.

[@sstff6771]

Thank you😊, My girlfriend broke up with my today and i was looking for some positivity. Ps its great to read all the stories Stay strong bros and sis

[@SK-vk9jf]

@@sstff6771 you too brother, stay strong especially now, wish you the best

[@sstff6771]

@S K Thanks bro, that means a lot I happy that there are people like you, stay how you are. You are a wonderful human being

[@badpiggy2403]

I’m glad you found someone!

[@badpiggy2403]

@@sstff6771 sorry to hear that man. Try to stay strong, things can get better

[@rmountains3519]

Men... Being real men. In a circle filled with real men. I WISH men were this honest when I was growing up.

[@umbra014]

You can be part of the solution by getting rid of that "real' men

[@rmountains3519]

@@umbra014 You can be part of the solution by not forcing real men to choose what you say, based on your ignorance.

[@umbra014]

@@rmountains3519 What is that even supposed to mean? My point was that you shouldn't say "real" men cause all men are real men.

[@rmountains3519]

@@umbra014 All men aren't real men. A lot of men are boys in adult bodies. You can go away now.

[@kingclampz6081]

Bayonetta wrong real men are masculine strong alphas who don’t let any man or woman physically nor mentally beat them

[@Emma-kq9ud]

Men aren't made of stone. It saddens me how we ignore that they can be sexually harassed and abused. Also, we always think they are not supposed to be emotional but always tough. They also have the right to be heard and to have their emotional moments . I hope Jesus help those men and every man out there. God bless Y'all.

[@cheesecakelasagna]

rosé love it seems like toxic masculinity is still stuck in your mindset, stop equating men being "normal" to anything opposite of being affectionate/emotional.

[@user-vy9tk8yb9o]

@rosé love men and women are biologically different. Women are way more emotional on average. Now back off

[@ananya9931]

@@user-vy9tk8yb9o please let me state that biological difference doesn't mean one sex is emotionally stable and the other is unstable...it's the norm for men to act tough no matter what.

[@user-vy9tk8yb9o]

@@ananya9931 no one was claiming that. Please let me state that way more women are emotionally unstable and way more men are emotionally stable. Women are naturally more emotional and men are naturally tougher. That does not mean they don't have feelings though but let's not pretend they are just like girls

[@123455866201Aaron]

@rosé love sucks that you want nothing to do with me, Im just trying to live like everyone else.

[@miasbookblog96]

As a woman, I completely understand the first guy, I have been single for all of my life(for 24 years), it's not that I haven't tried to find someone, it's just that it isn't working out for me. Now I am texting with a guy that I like and I hope that I will be able to build a relationship with him.

[@aeroplane3630]

I wish the best for you, Mia. I actually relate to the second (I believe so, because there was already one guy before him) secret. I've never dated anyone, I actually tried to get into it, but I feel like it was somewhat forced and rushed at some point. I also don't wanna date just to date, I want to get emotionally attached to that someone first. Tbh, I don't know how can people just randomly date someone without feelings for them I believe getting to know each other first and growing together is a whole new level before dating someone just because you want to, and not about feelings

[@royceleanzer]

I hope he texted back )))

[@deservinglive]

Did it work? :)

[@RaZoR7i7]

Atleast you are women and men are seeking out for you As an lonely virgin nothing will happen to ne

[@krix4961]

@@RaZoR7i7 some women don't get "seeked" at all

[@koikoi6612]

The social toxic masculinity and stereotypes really kills men inside out.

[@BabyBugBug]

I also dislike it strongly when people say toxic masculinity does not exist. It DOES and causes immense heartache in some way, shape, or form for the majority of men.

[@seeker3357]

@@BabyBugBug Is there a definition of what non - toxic masculinity is?

[@BabyBugBug]

@@seeker3357 oh yes. This what you see in this video. Openness about emotions and not being shamed to show them when something is wrong and seek help when you need it.

[@seeker3357]

@@BabyBugBug But i see that as healthy behaviour in general, not something masculine specifically. I'd like to know specific masculine traits that are healthy and seen as "manly".

[@BabyBugBug]

@@seeker3357 healthy masculine traits include decisiveness, courage, strength, and determination. Unhealthy traits include emotional distance or absence, adherence to the “tough guy” stereotype, aggression, anger, over competition, and promiscuity. It is mainly the lack of being in touch with emotions and over aggressive behavior meant to “help” the male deal with an inability to process emotions that create the problems we have with masculinity.

[@JudoJasonTemple]

Having been raped by my ex, I can back up the fact that the stereotype is still Strong. When I wrote a book about a Rape survivor I was told that as a guy I had no right to talk about rape because as a guy i would never expirience what a woman expirienced as rape.

[@pmakiie262]

Judo Jason Temple I'm very sorry that you had to deal with this

[@saums]

If men are raped, it hurts more than women because most men tend to have sexual contact with the outer part of their body but if they are raped (I'm sorry I can't help but use this language now) a dick goes inside of their buttholes which feels like all your skin is being torn apart or atleast that's how it usually is especially if you're a virgin

[@regm1220]

@@saums because women are not raped through their butthole? Stop comparing sufferings. Rape is equally traumatizing.

[@hozza0411]

@@saums It's equally as tramautizing, It's equally Emotionally, Spiritually effecting. It also hurts alot

[@IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777]

I'm a girl, and I support that all the way God bless

[@Alroytt]

the first guy is a peoples champ, i love you brother

[@ImNotWealthy]

“Peoples”

[@zain6008]

@@ImNotWealthy peoples is a word dumbass

[@TheAmazingChrisDK]

I feel like my mental problems are not as important as girls, because the media always tell us we should protect girls and they're important. NOT because women are a problem ofc! I just wish we could help each other with these kinds of things. Everyone has problems and we should stand together

[@ang6872]

Of course it’s terrible! With friends it’s not a matter of gender on whether I care about their mental health that’s what being a friend is all about.

[@michaelhuerter1921]

Women just get the spotlight and I feel lost

[@cloudblinky6189]

As a woman, I aspire to be strong enough to be able to be leaned on by men, especially for my future partner. I want to be strong and independent enough to be relied on so men around me won't have to carry the burden of always protecting me.

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

I’m a woman and men don’t have mental problems. they have to be strong and cannot be sensitive

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

@@michaelhuerter1921 man up. Why should a man act like he needs attention? It is very bad

[@kaskaskas]

I hate when people dismiss men being beaten by saying they should fight back. your supporting one person's physical abuse against another. the man in the red jacket said it best; he could've hit back but knew he would never put a hand on her. all of these men are incredibly strong and I hope they're in better places.

[@JoshSoMarvelous]

The manliest part about this video is them all coming together and hugging and appreciating one another for their time and sharing their stories.

[@Kyle-yr9gc]

Yeah

[@swagknightx]

fr

[@blop-a-blop9419]

I feel like even mentioning the word 'manliest' is inappropriate here...

[@hemantikamukherjee346]

@@blop-a-blop9419 so true

[@Nihalmoneymaker]

SIMP

[@PouryaBigonah]

This video is so important. We try so hard to seem strong, not realizing it’s only making us weaker. So many men spend so much time building up a shield, but it’s only masking the fact that they are slowly breaking down.

[@brekenwallar4164]

That just means they’re building an ineffective shield and they let things get to them

[@ramots8367]

i feel like people constantly underestimate the crap men go through cause they literally don't know. The world makes it seem like it's some great shame for men to be open and have feelings and just not be the stereotype

[@ricosuave62094]

Seems like that's what society wants us to do

[@aengusog3415]

Pourya Bigonah on you’re everywhere

[@MM73..]

I see your comments literally everywhere.. God....

[@NavaneethChowhan]

He's 28 years old, still a Virgin and Demisexual.. He was in a long distance relationship for 3 years but it didn't end up well and every day he thinks about dying. 'So lost to live, too afraid to die' That 'He' is me. I know this is too much to say here but I hope this stays here if I ever stopped talking myself out of suicide.

[@arnav8606]

Don't do it . It's not worth it . There is someone for you who God will send at the right time and that person will bring you all happiness you deserve 💗💗

[@pocketbee3648]

There is nothing wrong with who you are. Life challenged you, but you are still here sharing your story. You are so much stronger and beautifull than you think and there is always someone out there waiting with love. I wish you the best, keep going ❤️

[@simpsbelongtothegulags3702]

If you ever wanna give up, Give God a chance Pray and he will help

[@oisinosborne2852]

I hope you are feeling better, suicide is never the answer to lifes problems when you are feeling down talk to a close friend or someone in your family who you trust. Change you life and work toward a goal. Depression is a right sob I get it from time to time due to my ASD but I know it will pass. Try meditation and yoga and other things that will help you. Best of luck.

[@greenlitlleman]

I will just post my other comment here and then add a note to you personally. " Because for men in our species popularity with the opposite sex is determined by the number and/or quality of his partners. And the popularity of a woman is determined by her appearance. This is related to the fact that even an ugly guy can get laid a lot and even a hot guy can stay a virgin. And your popularity equals to your social status. We are very competitive animals and the different treatment is just part of how different our sexual strategies biologically. There is no conspiracy against men, lol. This is also the reason why most virgin guys, even those who are "ashamed" about their status, would rather stay virgins than hire a hooker and experience sex. They don't really give a fuck about sex, they care about their subjective social status in their own head and they wouldn't feel that they "won" by buying sex. " I at some became fed up with all this nonsense, about how our emotions work in a primitive way. So I just lost my virginity with a hooker, then slept with other two. After that it became much easier to find a girl to date. I learned that sex isn't such a big deal. But you can't stop putting it on the pedestal until you actually experience it by yourself. It is overrated and not worth suffering over not getting it. If you aren't skilled in sex it is also very possible that it wouldn't feel even as good as masturbation. There are a lot of things in life that are more meaningful and enjoyable, just do them.

[@kabir_hosssain]

I'm a girl but I can feel it those who wrote had very hard time and those read they had to. You people are really strong. Respect!

[@Catcherintherye11111]

The most "manly" thing a guy can do is express their feelings

[@daddydallas4789]

No xDD

[@Munchausenification]

I think you should word it differently. It takes courage (a manly feature which women also is able to have) to show and talk about feelings. Its part of the human condition and quite essential for a normal life to communicate your inner thoughts. I wouldnt say its the most manly thing for a guy to do, since manliness is somewhat subjective to the individual. Just take a look at women, what do they find manly and you will have widely different views of what a man is and how he should act, depending on where in the world you are.

[@jallei.337]

An opinion if I've ever seen one. Speak for yourself, bud.

[@daan260]

how is it a manly thing if women are so good at it? nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, but it's not "manly".

[@carlosforbidden1429]

That is completely not true

[@jonathansblonded]

It’s sad how “crying” as a man makes you “weak”. There is nothing wrong with it. It’s natural. It’s what makes us human. Why hide it?

[@haruyanto8085]

It is, but it is seen as a weakness, men can still cry, but do it sparingly and don't tell anyone about it.

[@spicytuna5920]

Haru Yanto facts, don’t let nobody see u crying

[@sorryim4uyyou590]

Jonabob Yeah but you cry when someone dies or something like that not because someone calls you ugly

[@sttonep242]

@Richard Casterly If a movie is very strong and I can really relate to it, why can't I cry?

[@Spartan-ek8ih]

sttonep IKR. Crying over a bad day is not ducking petty either. If you have been a man than im sure you would know it builds up as you keep hiding your emotions than one day it's just too much and you let it all out from when you kept hiding it for even months or years or whatever. Something petty would be your brother wants to play the xbox after you have been on for 8 hours or some sh*t crying over a bad day and especially over a movie is not weak. Infact if you cry over a movie then atleast you have emotion and it's not sad or depressed crying. You don't need to 'man up' for such things. There are petty things though but not those things

[@gemmibemmi]

"In my opinion I'm way stronger, and I loved her more to know I'd never put my hands on her in that way" that's beautiful ❤️

[@Mooksaidwhat]

That was me, and i thank you for your compassion Gemmi! ❤

[@darbyfabre2]

These were intense. I think when we take a second to step back and realize that everybody has been through tough times, we can really start appreciating each other and being there for each other

[@whyichigo]

My mother almost sold me as a sex slave to fuel her drug habit. I ran away though. Was abused by several girlfriends as well. I think it's far more common than people think

[@valb5437]

I'm sorry that happened to you. I believe you. I hope you're doing ok (and if you aren't ok that's ok too). Help is out there. - from a girl

[@dasht1917]

One of my closest friends was almost sold for drugs. He means the world to me, and I care about him, and I am sorry for you have gone through.

[@warriorsanjay]

yeah but who cares were men wage gap blah blah

[@roddy_ricch9392]

where u from?

[@lluviaayala7039]

My mom almost did to. She literally had the man infront of me (I was 10) and we're making the deal. I think she was gonna sell me for like $1000 and they mad plans on when. I was at school when my social took me away. That man is out somewhere and ik he has other girls but I'm to scared to tell anyone.

[@kylelowry150]

"We Are All In The Gutter, But Some Of Us Look At The Stars" - Oscar Wilde

[@rizzamaeong]

i love this line. in awe.

[@kylelowry150]

@@rizzamaeong yea I found it in a TV show lol

[@aidan8870]

hi kyle lowry

[@kylelowry150]

@@aidan8870 hi

[@Azubjourni]

bro i can relate to this so much. people are sometimes just to negative, even when im down, i try to better my condition atleast.

[@kabirsardana1282]

im a 33 yr old guy who has never dated or been in a relationship. I often lie about having had sexual experiences to my friends and make up weird stories about how I got laid so that they dont come to know that not only have I never had sex with anyone but iv also not kissed anyone till now. its become soo much of a strain on my psyche that I can't eve have normal physical contact with women. I actually makes me feel weird. I feel sad when I see couples around me living their lives together, on social media, seeing them build their lives together. it makes me want to do that also but its pretty sad that everytime iv tried to do that by being myself almost everytime id been put in the friend zone or the brother zone just because I listen to women. its scary how many men out there feel the same way.

[@greatgeneralrenpa1327]

I feel you bro 🤝

[@madhushrutimukherjee]

I loved how all of them hugged at the end. I keep on telling survivors, that rejoice in the fact that you SURVIVED. You ARE NOT in the past anymore. You survived, you are loved and you will thrive. Nothing spells revenge on your abuser who tried to destroy you like a life well lived.

[@anthonybrown7650]

One of the hardest things I could ever say is that I was sexually abused by my own wife... as a man I don't like talking about it

[@Kimberlylesniok]

Anthony Brown Im so sorry to hear that... Do you want to talk about it?

[@predatorhunter3169]

Anthony Brown what did she do

[@Qauzzie]

predator Hunter 316 Didn’t you read the last part? He doesn’t like talking about it?

[@saifullahhabid1133]

You don't want to talk about it brother but please know that you are loved

[@saifullahhabid1133]

@Anonymous sorry. All I'm saying is that your not alone

[@who_this_king]

As a man, I'm really proud of all the men that broke their silence and shared their secrets In the middle of all shame, guilty and hopelessness, knowing you're not alone helps alot

[@Risingofthephoenixxx]

As a woman and feminist i'm so proud and relieved to see this kind of video being done we been waiting for this

[@likealight2854]

as a woman. im proud too. proud of this channel and this comment section.

[@AB-ou8ve]

Risingofthephoenixx x Piss off feminist.

[@stefanrosu9735]

A B do you know what feminist means or are you a butthurt 12-year old that has watched too many ”feminist gets destroyed” videos?

[@SabatSch95]

@@stefanrosu9735 Feminist basically means blaming men for everything, which is proved time and time again by their actions. No one cares about dictionary definitions when they do NOT reflect the actions they partake in.

[@blueshyguyuwu4390]

This video make my cry but I'm happy that there is more people out there who understand the things that lot of us feel

[@adventuresociety588]

14 year old girl here. I remember the first time I was sexually assaulted was in second grade. The second was in third grade. And the most recent time I was sexually harassed was by my mother's boyfriend. She went through hell when she was a child and ever since then I've been protective of her. I tried to scare away her boyfriends when I was younger but that didnt work. Then he came along. Hes still with her though. I'll allow myself to be hurt if it makes her happy. Even if it means letting him stay in our lives and being silent. I've had a skewed vision of men ever since my classmate stripped my pants to my ankles and acted like nothing happened. I wear oversized shirts and baggy jeans to protect myself from my classmates and male teachers. I shouldn't have to. I wish yall didnt make this society the way it is. In my experience the only time men talked about sexual assault, rape, etc was when it happened to them. I dont think yall realize how many women stand with you and encourage you to be more human than man.

[@salmam7077]

Adventure Society i hope everything gets better for you

[@bullseye6969]

Letting criminal have a pass and in return destroying a good man's life because you were bitter about your past does not help too. Just because you love your mother you don't have to get raped by her boyfriend, what kind of love is this? And yes I am a man raised by a single mother too, my father passed away when I was child. My mother never bought a characterless man in house. This may sound too harsh, but I guess your mother dont have sense of character she always choose wrong, abusive, and characterless men to begin with. Ask your mother about her all relationships you will definately find similarly in choosing a partner.

[@blueidk4502]

There are only bad people and good peaple, all men aren't evil and all women aren't angels as society teaches us

[@farhadsaddigh7361]

Your story is trully saddening and we care for you. I am a guy in my early 40's and I can assure you that this world is filled with kind men and women from any ages and races who care. Pleae try to change your situation. You can do it. Lots of people will be helping you.

[@diegotobaski9801]

Change your situation. That's all you can do. Eventually, it takes it's toll.

[@sampekofsky5569]

It's manly if a guy is strong enough to express their feelings.

[@geraltvonriva9873]

Ah but when a woman goes thru a crisis and seems „weak“ the man leaves her yall gonna hear what a monster he is.

[@Elm98]

A stronger guy internalizes everything and grows from it without having to share it with the whole world....

[@thedarthknight5161]

@C, boy it’s better to talk about your feelings than hurt your self to be a ‘stronger man’. All your doing is becoming closer to what society wants you to be, instead of becoming closer to what you want to be.

[@Elm98]

@@thedarthknight5161 lol no, todays society every man tries to be a sensitive liberal, i have my own thoughts, im open minded, and im strong asf. Bad things that happen to you are not bad unless you humor them and make them real, look at bad situations as things to grow from, no one wants to hear you bitching about bad things like your the only one.

[@thedarthknight5161]

C, I absolutely agree with that last part which is why I’m such a mess

[@sleepyontime5513]

0:46 i haven’t ever dated anyone either, I feel lonely and singled out because I see people holding hands and making out, and it seems so great, I keep telling myself that one day I’ll find the right guy but sometimes I feel my hope just slip away.

[@gabrielvasile9377]

You should keep fighting, it's gonna be worth it in the end, Idk why you'd be single if you really tried though, it's not fair

[@Jp-yd2ke]

I've been there and it's really hard. I think what helped me get passed it was understanding that vulnerability is the path to happiness.

[@svenja5919]

Same.

[@thejaneeyre]

I feel you!

[@sydney1432]

same :( im sorry

[@Sean.A.M]

Some of these hit home. Won’t say which ones. It’s always nice that not only do the read someone’s secret but the reveal a little one of there own or offer advice. I love that.

[@trissy2446]

This hit really deep . These are my favorite Jubilee videos tbh , from way back in the day

[@keithdon748]

At 10 my dad taught me how to be invisible. He's so good. Still havent seen him. Im 32

[@renspeeters4055]

That's touching thanks for sharing this story with is!

[@6ig6ird71]

Lmao 😂 😂 😂 HAHAHAHAHAHHA! Dude.

[@upsettispaghettispaghetti2114]

Keith, I'm cryingg

[@calebirwin3964]

@@6ig6ird71 Yo even if it is possibly a joke for him. It's not a joke for others. How about you think before you go laughing at that situation.

[@calebirwin3964]

@thomas bicket what are you talking about?

[@angelac9694]

Vulnerability is strength. Hats off to these amazing men.

[@legionmaniac-9202]

Saitama: haha

[@dorime669]

Vulnerability = Strength You libtards are really tards

[@johnreese7352]

@@dorime669 yea i agree these guys are sissies getting made fun of all the time and be treated horribly what a bunch of babies

[@SabatSch95]

It really isn't though... In fact, it's pretty much the opposite.

[@joshuas.686]

Your wrong. These men and any person (man or woman) will go through stuff but that doesn't make you vulnerable. Strength is pushing through toughness, not sulking in it

[@BlueVeinedMeatRoll]

All the hugs at the end.. so wonderful.

[@QueenRissa_34]

This was so beautiful! I really truly enjoyed every man’s story and you guys are so strong!!! Stay strong everyone....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@PouryaBigonah]

I need to steal those balls of light, seems like an efficient way of making my guy friends open up.

[@anthony-gl2kw]

LMAO FRR

[@cantthinkofaname3995]

Pourya Bigonah Damn you're always early af

[@joshuamoore2341]

Yup he is. Or she, which ever it is.

[@ramots8367]

if only

[@alycias7345]

the new justin y

[@sisterstina3700]

To the first guy: I respect the fact that you are honest and you're not ashamed because there is literally nothing to be ashamed about. You'll find your soul mate:)

[@rwhoosh1122]

Fuckn patriarchy, I am sorry but your grammar LmAo

[@kamarabdelzahra3722]

Fuckn patriarchy, are u mentally sane ? There is nothing wrong with having no sexual desire

[@sarojahsathivelu5174]

you live in a fantasy world where all women are the same and want the same things in life - what women want and what they believe in are just as diverse and different as men @@khalidsamu

[@YupImNegus]

I loved this video. Thank you so much for this. I also wanna thank all the men who wrote down their secrets and all the meam who read them while also sharing their own experiences. I have so much love and respect for y'all! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕

[@Savannah-yi1yv]

I really hope my generation raises our sons better. I hope we teach them that they are valid despite their relationship status, that being vulnerable and weak aren't the same, and that they can let their guard down without having their trust betrayed.

[@ditch9396]

Secret: im a virgin First guy: yo same 2nd Secret: im gay 2nd guy: yo same 3rd secret: im not strong enough 3d guy: when i was 19

[@jirenoboy]

Diya RI legendary comment

[@lilheba-8712]

I think they gave em secrets that close to their situations

[@DistortedV12]

4th guy: I was raped as well

[@zaerrius6939]

@Legendary super Saiyan Broly definitely didn't get a nevermind

[@culturednative5390]

Their own stuff

[@mattthedestroyer2804]

They must of picked out which guy would read which one, they all related.

[@Tara-xx2lu]

Matt TheDestroyer 2 either that, or more men than most people realize actually go through these situations, making it more likely for them to relate to other traumas. Insecurity in men is much more common than many believe.

[@jodie7951]

I think that way is better since they can give advice to each other or show them theyre not alone

[@maddogmuncy467]

Tara Hobbs ehhhh maybe not, did you notice that some of the men sitting in the chairs didn’t get to describe a secret? maybe Jubilee has hand picked their secretes they wanted to release along with the men’s opinions and relation to it?

[@MrsSankta]

or they picked themselfes

[@mattthedestroyer2804]

@@MrsSankta yeah that too

[@chuluoyi]

What an amazingly vulnerable topic and incredible panel! Thanks Jubiilee.

[@drewburke4343]

I was on the verge of tears watching how emotional and vulnerable these men were. Even though im comfortable crying watching these guys go thru that and stay dry eyed made me hold it back. But when the guy who talked about getting molested finished and everyone stood up, and lined up to hug him I absolutely lost it.

[@sagarhabib4037]

Men needs care, attention, love, and empethy. It's important to look after our men too.

[@petersayatshkin7454]

true that. disciplining them and helping them to find responsibilities to adhere to and challenges to train there characters to would also be great.

[@speakersr-lyefaudio6830]

Peter Sayatshkin disciplining them fairly and in the same way you do a woman

[@brush1448]

Jesus Christ you still drunk

[@sitm88]

This was such a great video. When you go through trauma it changes your perspective on the world and make you feel isolated. But a video like this gives me hope that I can find someone who will relate to me and be patient with me and my fears.

[@loka-chan6695]

I have always had the mindset ”be like a man” ”don’t show emotions” ”be strong”. I’m a female

[@kingstonb8130]

You should have women read men’s secrets as well. I feel like that would be really interesting. Edit: Thank you for all the likes! I just want to say, not all women are men-hating-only-I-have-problems kinda people. Lots of women are very compassionate, and some like me are all for men’s rights. These replies have lots of ‘nice guy’ types. Not everyone is a SJW tumblr snowflake. Thank you.

[@Leobreacker]

You're right, I'd be interested to see that.

[@nelsongonzales1263]

YES and the Opposite as well, I feel like it will put into perspective that men and women share very similar struggles in life

[@caelanrileyfriesen3659]

I wanna see those radical feminist read these. I think it would be an eye opener that men aren't privileged and that we have our own struggles too.

[@didds8869]

@@caelanrileyfriesen3659 Just because we have struggles doesn't mean we aren't privileged. I absolutely see where you're coming from but there are a lot of negative experiences that women deal with that we generally don't have to worry about at all

[@the1dbumblebee317]

._. You are politically and religiously privileged. There are still countries in the world where baby girls are being murdered or where women are forced to have their vaginas stitched close so not men and women are not "equally" privileged. The fact that a lot of men struggle in life doesn't negate the fact that we live in a world that was built to accommodate men's desires.

[@closebutnope4978]

This is why men’s rights isn’t something to just be scoffed at. Gender roles hurt everyone.

[@nintruendo6411]

Gender roles are essential to the survival of almost every single species on Earth. This push for a genderless society is a push for the end of human kind. Enjoy!

[@closebutnope4978]

Nintruendo it may have been at one point but in this day in age, the chances of survival are much more in our odds. We can move onto bigger ideas like not restricting ourselves with outdated tradition

[@nintruendo6411]

@@closebutnope4978 What grade are you in? It's pretty clear you don't have enough hindsight to understand the value of tradition. Nor do you understand the clear and present dangers to our existence. Strength is essential our survival so are gender roles. You kids are gonna get rolled so hard and you're going to take my kids and our entire species down with you. It's inevitable with the kind of thinking you kids are promoting.

[@beemomma4641]

@@nintruendo6411 its important to keep some sort of gender roles but men shouldn't be expected to be emotionless, that's fucked up. men struggle a lot too just as much as women do but society shuts them down and tells them to "man up". Being extremely masculine and hiding your true feelings does more harm than expressing how you actually feel. you are the uneducated one here sir.

[@closebutnope4978]

Nintruendo I have a college degree. I think some traditions are great and work, some clearly don’t. Mainly religious based ones.

[@andregalvao5739]

Everyone needs a hug sometimes. My friend lost his brother and father due to a traffic accident. There were no words to say, just came into the chapel and gave a hug to him. It was what he never asked, but always needed

[@pn074]

This was really powerful, thank you for producing content like this.

[@wazapxd565]

People really underestimate how hard being a guy can be. Both genders face struggles we just aren't in each others shoes so we can't see the other side

[@yuhz1m1]

That's it in a nutshell.

[@dualcitizenshipsenator6080]

It's objectively easier to be a woman. It's 100x harder to be male.

[@choosei588]

Dual Citizenship Senator There's nothing objective about it though. Male or female, we all face problems. Some more than others. If you take gender out of the equation, you'll find we're all more similar than we think. We just need to try to understand each other.

[@kingassasin6031]

choosei male and female brains are completely different. So were more different than related

[@phantom-xb6wv]

Both genders? Women are playing life on easy mode, while men are in nightmare difficulty, veteran if youre handsome.

[@simonem.7385]

You should never be ashamed that you are a virgin, man or woman! Take time to figure out who you want to do it with and when you want to do it so you can live life having 1 less regret. So many people rush losing their virginity because it's cool or whatever, then end up regretting doing it with that person or at that time. Love yourself enough by taking the time to understand what you really want!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@RealMcLovin]

NERD

[@flareb99]

After a while it's just about not feeling alone

[@KingDayDayDay00]

It isnt about being cool. We all want to feel it because it is in our DNA. We need that affection and being deprived from it can really hurt

[@sanna9062]

I wanted to do it with someone special and that special person has never come around - by special I simply mean someone who could return my feelings. At this point I'm considering just doing it with a one-night stand.

[@edoardofedrighi2102]

The problem is not being virgin but being unable to have relationships that leads to sex

[@bobertwhatzittuya601]

Damn. I love man positive content. It makes me feel good and loved. There isn’t enough of it

[@amarmesic7170]

Beautiful to see that these men have gone through such difficult or traumatic experiences, yet they don't let it define them. This is what being strong is about.

[@meena4565]

i love how they included loads of different men ( trans, gay, all races) just wOw edit: thank you sm for the likes

[@Munchausenification]

I feel like its not that relevant for most men though. It speaks more to the minority.

[@whiplash823]

who cares about that

[@sarahsiajibckx770]

i think its a huge disrespect towards the gay and straight men to put in transgenders, they cannot ride the same boat about feel not masculine enough, trnas people have the trans card to show why they dont have sex or why their voice is higher or why they act feminine. REAL men dont have that card

[@rwhoosh1122]

sokolowitch where is the trans one?

[@dannyslemonade976]

sarah siajibckx no, you see we have testosterone too. It’s just supplemented. I absolutely hate anyone knowing my birth sex since .... it’s the definition of invalidating my masculinity. I have gender dysphoria which makes me even more insecure in my masculinity. My feet are too small, I’m too short, my voice is still not deep enough ect. My family puts more pressure on me to look the part, to seem manly enough that they will respect my pronouns. It’s not easy, and we have similar struggles. (Id also recommend saying trans men as you didn’t say “the gays” about gay men)

[@user-ed9bj2ms6c]

the “I’m too scared to be who I am” really hit home, I’m always cautious of what I do because of how I raised, i often accidentally show my true emotions but realize I look very sensitive and weak, then suddenly my mind is scolding me for slipping and I try and go back to being “cold” or give out an insensitive exterior. it’s really tiring. I wish I could just be myself. I have talked about this with my male friends and a lot of them really relate, and I find that very sad.

[@karolina12339]

hey, I can relate and Im really proud that you show your real deepest emotions. Imagine if you wouldn't do it at all and bottle it up the whole freaking time.. Take time to really think about the most important values for u, the purposes, and things that make u happy, things that u want to fight for. Find yourself and never be ashamed to express your real self. Good luck and love

[@leonorpatrocinio4516]

As a woman, I feel sad that most guys feel that. All I can hope is for everyone to speak up to express what they really feel. I think vulnerability sometimes can be a beautiful thing.

[@user-ed9bj2ms6c]

yup that's me thanks man! (or woman) I really appreciate you taking the time to write this :)

[@user-ed9bj2ms6c]

Leonor M ..thank you❤️i hope as well these very toxic gender stereotypes will leave in the near future..

[@user-ed9bj2ms6c]

CesarChicken I understand where you’re coming from :/ I feel like if I tell someone how I feel they will not understand and silently judge..

[@toothless2323]

Don’t ever be with someone that won’t stand you crying. The truth of the matter is that we all cry and it’s a necessary thing. It’s also necessary to talk about our issues. If you are with someone important and you can’t fry in front of them, leave. You deserve someone that won’t judge you and also support you in your worst times

[@grizz.x]

I love the honesty. I wish you guys the best of luck ❤❤❤

[@archerbaca1572]

I made a comment about how there were no memes in the comment section... Welp i guess people all of a sudden people wanted to make memes in the comment section so my past comment was useless, so enjoy reading this one

[@rk3340]

No one: Archuwu: “An actual comment section with no memes. Wow.

[@dontailefthand771]

RK 740 😂😂

[@arbaazkhan4887]

there you go, but instead you became the meme.

[@xbionicfireplayzx1192]

no such thing as a gay man lmao am i right or am i right

[@mkgod2958]

Archuwu your the meme now brotha

[@endiya.]

this is completely sad and heartbreaking, imagine all the men out in the world who have been taking advantage of and abused. As a woman, my heart goes out to each and every one of them. Because society is full of feminist who brings men down and wants to say "woman are better." When in reality I love seeing strong, emotional, loving men (its just so beautiful to me). Yea for all the woman out there take care of our men and for men out there take care of our women, please!!

[@eliastamim2319]

Endiya Dacosta you are amazing! Thanks for the kind words.

[@EliTheBMXER]

Endiya Dacosta Thank you 🙌🏼

[@elijahpelletier136]

And its also super important to know that men with emotions aren't always feminine.

[@astralisk]

You’re so open minded, you’ve earned my respect

[@wildavenue6171]

Thank you...

[@zee-nq9ik]

"i myself can relate" them healing each other like that though my heart

[@firsttenor76]

Wow! Jubilee is putting out some deep content... I love that the company touches on things no one else wants to touch.

[@TimothyRMorris]

secret: I died 2 weeks ago guy: This hits close to home because I myself died 2 weeks ago

[@nav5738]

Lmfao

[@tatathebutterfly]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mohammedalsalloomm4535]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jeffpaige9287]

🤣🤣

[@borednow]

you made me lol :D

[@sorryforwhat1528]

What’s sad is that this has over 2k dislikes

[@maximusdossantos5947]

ThatLiamo it’s the SJW’s

[@cajunsphinxgaming1759]

Cuz in the diluted eyes of feminist men don't have struggles

[@protenpinner]

Because men revealing things that happened to them and emotions isn't liked by society

[@truthseeker8200]

@@maximusdossantos5947 @cartohead Or people who are against gays as it was mentioned in the video. Or people who believe that men should not be emotional or show their vulnerable side. Or it could be radical feminists. It could be a spectrum of people.

[@DivineAtheistWannabe]

@@cajunsphinxgaming1759 If men have struggles, it's because of the....surprise, surprise. You know it: the Patriarchy!

[@johnny_roots]

I think the feeling of helplessness is one of the hardest things to cope with. Not being able to reach out to others, or trying to and receiving shame or being ignored, and staying stuck by yourself in a painful situation can be devastating, becaue you see no way out.

[@debrupdas6061]

I was kinda in tears after watching them speak cause for a sec it felt like someone is speaking for me. You know what you guys are stronger than any human being in this world i just want you to remember that.

[@Lukemasonmedia]

I wish as a man it was easier to talk about these things but in our society any sign of emotional distress is automatically seen as us being weak

[@rwhoosh1122]

Marrow Talk to a trusted person like a family

[@rorisangpitswane3595]

BEGONETHOT Tbh family never understand the way you want them or even need them to...

[@Johnsrocknvinyl77]

@@rwhoosh1122 Family minimized my issues too talking to family did not help. I told them of my depression countless times I actually tried to take my life fairly young in my life at about 14 years old and they still didn't take me seriously. Family can be useless and make me feel worse about my problems. That's what happens when you don't have supportive families.

[@campbellholt1220]

It's hard man just find those who you trust you know sometimes a stranger on the internet can be good but just dont bottle it up I had someone I knew commit suicide recently and I don't want anyone to end up in that situation if in know them or not i mean it's just harder for us guys to talk about emotions anyway naturally but even if you dont realise it you have people who you can talk to just have to find the right ones

[@rwhoosh1122]

Johnsrocknvinyl77 I hope someone will understand you

[@donramonbalboa4797]

A guy should always have another male friend he trusts deeply to talk about his feelings and such since guys can relate to another guy better than females

[@shapsugh1864]

Yeah, but usually males do not care about other males feelings because they can barely hold their own and cope with them. It's sad but true.

[@shapsugh1864]

@antwinettec all my male "friends" ditched me, motherfuckers been studying with them since kindergarten. Men are as bad as women in some cases and this is one of the cases where they're the worst

[@shapsugh1864]

@av rmx a better judge... " I've been with them since kindergarten I'm 19 years old....

[@tonystark4434]

CVG GAMING i’m gay, i get along better with females because i can relate to them better. not every guy is the same

[@tonystark4434]

av rmx wow you have no education

[@heroinfathr]

4:35 I'm also a trans man and everyday i think im not man enough, no one will ever see me as a man, because even my own family members seem to not view me as one (even though they say they support me. Ive been emotionally abused by a very close friend/almost girlfriend and i dont even want to talk about it now

[@bruh7362]

I’m also a trans man. You are man enough. If your family says their there for you and support you, I’m sure they do. Maybe they’re just getting used to it still. And what happened with your friend, it wasn’t your fault. And you are strong for getting past it

[@benygames7399]

people see you as not a man because you arent a man stop trying to be something you arent

[@NahNo-xy2kq]

TRANS RIGHTS🥰🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🥰

[@Dan-fv1ud]

@@NahNo-xy2kq no

[@deliviaboesak6152]

Every card they read is always relatable!!

[@1976LFonseca]

“The shame belongs to the abuser...” I like that line. It’s true but hard see when you’re on this side of the abuse/shame.