MEN Switch Up on Women After THEY TRAP Them With a BABY | Reaction

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[@janeeyx5672]

And that’s why I tell women all the time.. stop allowing a man to sleep with you unprotected. Just because he makes you sometimes feel good, happy, etc. doesn’t mean he deserves to go in raw. It’s all smoke and mirrors.

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

This happens all the time some women just won’t ever get it.

[@janeeyx5672]

@@InfiniteCoreXDthat’s because they are naive and believe that it won’t happen to them. SMH can’t live that way.

[@gamiegirl4078]

Exactly

[@InfiniteCoreXD]

@@janeeyx5672 either they put that to the side or raise a baby by themselves.

[@osas5211]

It’s a trauma bond

[@babygirl4949]

Men trapping women with babies is not something ppl talk about enough. I don’t think ppl really understand that situation. They will literally take the condom off or persuade you to have their babies to only switch up afterwards. That’s why you REALLY got be careful and smart.

[@alizethetallwoman]

Its called reproductive abuse, its very hard to prove but once its proven? its a WRAP. women just have to keep their recipts especially of the ones where the man admits to wanting to do that along. because men say it all the time " i knocked you up because i didnt want you to leave me." take that right to the court..

[@Taytaystegall]

Yea in some situations that does happen and I'm a man saying this as well matter fact that is what fresh did to his baby mom

[@Steqp]

At the end of the day all you have to do is say No condom no sex. That js not a trap it’s you being a pushover

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

How can a man trap you with a baby? Women have upwards of almost a million abortions every year, there are multiple methods of contraceptives and morning after pills. Literally nobody is making y’all have these kids, unless they are on some Weinstein time and then you need to call the police. It’s much more likely they tried to trap the man, and it didn’t work.

[@EvesGonnaEve]

Be very careful who you procreate with. This goes for men and women. We all make a choice who we choose to have sex with. Take your time to get to know someone because you don't want to have to deal with a fool, deadbeat etc as a parent to your child.

[@TamiaLeslie-ix5qn]

Fr ppl need to stop sleeping with random strangers that’s dangerous.

[@Camille4Real]

18:38 EXACTLY Dee. So... all that talking about responsibilities is BS. You know what I did? When my now husband and I were dating, I noticed he'd always show up for his little niece. He was super uncle! Not only played with her, he'd change diapers, take her to daycare, etc. We're now married and share two kids - he's the best Dad ever. He still shows up for his niece (now a teenager), but now he has my help ❤️

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Asking questions is just part of it. What you did, is you also observed his behavior before and matched it up with his words. People don’t do that. They romanticize people and run off of hormones and then play the victim when reality sets in

[@TamiaLeslie-ix5qn]

@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimefacts!

[@TamiaLeslie-ix5qn]

That’s so wholesome and cute ❤

[@shajon1000]

What did you do ?

[@Camille4Real]

@@shajon1000 I watched his actions with his niece. Seeing him with younger relatives showed how great he is.

[@alanah-]

why the comments so mad at and suspicious of the women in this video men do this all the time??😭😭😭

[@shesdej8108]

Like literally

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

Because many of these men and pick me women do not like women. They just don’t care but then when women start talking about reframing from motherhood and marriage they get upset and don’t kno where it’s coming from

[@ArcticPrimal]

Like that tweet said they're crying to us like we made those bad decisions for them. They bare the baby so they should bare the responsibility alone because of their bad choices of men

[@pastelpastry]

​@@ArcticPrimal yall love blaming deadbeat dad's on the mom's ans act like men don't sweet women and act nice until they slip off their masks. Hold men accountable too!

[@wisekrown864]

can we be honest that women do this as well?

[@belladonnarose5671]

Ladies stay safe out here 😂😂 there are ngas outside😭 and yall should be clutching your purses (that have your protection and plan B) and crossing to the other street when they are near (just in case they try to talk to you)!!!

[@brandond1947]

U sound like these yt people that be trying to justify their rac1sm against blk people 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@JACQUEZJOHNSON23]

Same can be said about men stay safe out there

[@belladonnarose5671]

@@JACQUEZJOHNSON23 I was gonna respond to you on that but I see that ur up and down the comment section 😭 so carry on lol

[@brandond1947]

​@belladonnarose5671 honestly I think everybody needs to be safe with who u get involved with. Not just women. I've had relationships where I was used and abus3d. I think women get hurt more but there r men that do as well

[@The3Kings]

I see you on every page hating on men

[@cupcake2009ist]

I’ve always heard women say that you can tell a lot about a man by how he treats you after you get pregnant by him.🤰🏽🤰🏽🤰🏽

[@hikarireacts3815]

"I'm here to sip" is crazy Dee 😂😂😂😂

[@nayatarot777]

RIGHT. people are so judgemental. Especially with that armon situation. If she did get pregnant after only a month, then yes. That was dumb af. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t feel sympathy for someone who was abandoned during being heavily pregnant. Nobody deserves that.

[@OnlyAl3x]

Not Sympathy, but Empathy makes more sense. However, these are the kind of dumb females that you can tell them over and over and over and even show them the dude’s bad history and she will still turn a blind eye, so nah, sometimes they do deserve it

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

You can feel sympathy for someone, while also understanding they made their bed.

[@octane1713]

@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeit takes two to tango

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

@@octane1713 yes, I learned how reproduction works too. What’s your point? What does that have to do with what I said?

[@Steqp]

Nobody is entitled to my sympathy

[@Charsteria]

i think something that went over a lot of peoples head is that kids WILL force you to grow tf up(for most people) and for the most part a lot of people(men and women) just simply dont want to do that bc in heart they hate the idea of "adult life" or "settling" second thing, that lady in the last clip was saying some credible things but from what i got out of her video was BOUNDARIES! from experience it will go a long way! set you some boo😂

[@faithk.3207]

Nor Dee Holding the microphone to the screen Gurl....😂😂😂😂

[@zion2957]

we needed to properly comprehend the tea

[@paigerushing9974]

She a real one 😂😂

[@ItsNessaTho]

​@@paigerushing9974 frrr cause my ears were in the screen trying to hear lmao

[@juju.guru111]

Dee your hair looks amazing

[@doublea4012]

American casual hookup society is just plain weird

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

It’s the equivalent of trading the roof of your house for a Ps5. All fun and games till it rains

[@emilyash2584]

Casual hookup culture is not an American thing. I encourage you take a trip across the pond pls, and swiftly.

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

@@emilyash2584 he didn’t say it was *just* an American thing, he said casual hookup culture in America is weird.

[@MasteRgamer-mk5bp]

​@@emilyash2584it's js far more normalized in American culture imo

[@thereallazygirl]

lol coz men dont do this all over the world right

[@Shadow2pointO]

7:20 yeah you right gurl. He exposes his fellow narcissists because he knows that they (including himself) are dangerous to society.

[@belladonnarose5671]

She had me shook when she accused that man 😭😭😭 I was like “oh shit” but she explained

[@Brxwn9]

You’d think that because he’s openly exposing himself, he wouldn’t be dangerous…. Yet he still thinks himself as dangerous, AND he currently has/had a wife.

[@Shadow2pointO]

@@Brxwn9 well the wife might be one too….since she agreed to stay lol

[@Naniessss]

4:44 whoever makes those psychic Dee compilations here you go lol😂

[@The3Kings]

Saying marriage doesn’t prevent men from leaving is like saying seat belt doesn’t prevent dying in a car crash. It’s not perfect but it saves a crazy amount of lives.

[@TamiaLeslie-ix5qn]

It actually helps a lot tho when you’re married you are legally linked together so you get privileges .

[@destinymcgowan5328]

Regarding the Jeannie Mai situation, Jeezy had two to three baby mama's prior to being with Jeannie. She thought she was a preference and would get a different treatment. Same with Dababy and Danileigh.

[@alizethetallwoman]

Reproductive abuse is common and is very hard to prove in court. If more cases like this went to court, it would happen alot less.

[@vikkidonn]

Men shockingly have had more evidence than a little bit and are railroaded and have their children taken all the time. It’s not race based either. Well off white guy had his partner trick him into it. He’d told her no because she had anger issues. He wouldn’t marry her either but loved her and stayed. She stopped taking birth control, poked a hole in the condom…. She told a friend what she was gonna do before she did it. She and the friend both admitted to it in court that she did it and didn’t care that he didn’t want it. The court told him boo hoo he shouldn’t have slept with her at all. She then would abuse their son to get at him. He had recorded the abuse, had a doctors testimony, and the son who spoke out against it and how he wanted to live with his dad. After 10 years of fighting his body broke down and he’d gone into debt with the court costs. The judge told him he wasn’t allowed to take pictures or anything of the child that the doctor wasn’t allowed to do anything without the mom and that what the son wanted didn’t matter. He ended up completely losing custody and hadn’t seen or heard from his sone in about 5 yrs when he was interviewed. This country is completely jacked the hell up all the way around

[@bunnyrabi]

My heart does goes out to women that get victimized by players. We all probably at some point , man or woman, fell for the sweet words and the "supposedly" genuine gestures. However, not all of us wised up fast enough to realize that we have to really get to know someone deeply before letting our guards down. My advice is its ok to fall for someone in the moment. However still pay attention to precautions until you have no doubts the person is genuine. The only way to know they are genuine is if their actions matches their sweet and kind words, and if they have good morality and decent virtues. Also please pay attention to how people treat others around them. For example do not go for a man or woman that has a child but is barely a parent to that child outside of financial responsibilities. That type of person is what i call just a fun pass time, but never a serious potential partner. Also just know people that seem to be "unable" to find people who care about them or want to build relationships with them even platonically or they keep their family at a distance(only applicable if family is ok) these people are most likely the issue themselves!! It's a fairytale if you think a decent person is just so misunderstood... most likely they are unwilling to change some bad things about themselves Also last thing I want to add. Sometimes you own perception of what is good and bad is the issue. Some people tolerate a lot of bs because of trying to be understanding and forgiving or because they do or did similar things. For example something as simple as never being able to be on time even for dates with you can be an issue of morals. We all need to learn when to be tolerate and when not to. When talking about a good man or woman and the way they treat you, you shouldn't be tolerating a whole lot of bs. However if they have some bad habits like oversleeping, or being a bit lazy etc... those can be tolerated since they may not imply any poor treatment of you... though I will say, when someone truly likes you, they do try to change their bad parts.

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Some of these people are just as bad as the people they are complaining about. Two peas in a pod.

[@dylancn]

💯 ​@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

We just need to remember that we are the Rule until we become the Exception. You are never initially the Exception.

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

So protect yourself. Protect your peace. Watch their actions. Watch their behavior. Watch their words. They will show you. You just have to be quick enough to pay attention to what they are showing you AND accept it. Not make excuses for it. Edit: misspelling

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Well said

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

So: No two situations are the same, so please stop acting like every single mother was tricked. Simply put, it is possible to feel sympathy for someone and at the same time, understand we are all adults who make our own choices and have to live with the consequences. I would really like to get to a stage where people apply some discernment and critical thinking BEFORE they make a *choice* .I personally have as much sympathy for women who don’t manage their reproductive responsibilities as I do men. This video is no different than a bunch of men crying on cue, complaining about how the woman they didn’t know very well is now acting differently after they impregnated her. Make better decisions or you will have to deal with the outcomes of said decisions.

[@lanaeni2194]

💯🎯👏🏾

[@simoneg11]

Who said that?? They are upset because the person who promised to be with them Lied and left them….

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

@@simoneg11 you don’t have kids based on promises 🤷‍♂️ . If you claim someone lied to you, then what would that be called? Stop being argumentative

[@dylancn]

💯

[@aylanae4797]

Let's add this to the list of things to talk about...cause yessss 💪🏾

[@MissShaneice]

And this is a major reason why i don't have kids nor do I want any.

[@bambamboo225]

I don’t see how 🥷 do it. I love my family to death & take pride in them bottle feeds & diaper changes

[@nayatarot777]

You’re not mentally and emotionally damaged, that’s why. You think like a normal human being. Most of these 🥷 aren’t normal lmaoo

[@getoffmygrass4857]

Brotha, I'm sure you were never a bum to begin with. A lot of these dudes were bum, and women ignored the signs willingly.

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

@@getoffmygrass4857 “look at him muscles” And now you’re a single mom

[@sevenkpink2894]

@@getoffmygrass4857I wouldn’t say willingly it’s kind of hard to see sign’s especially some men that do a good job at hiding it

[@MsBrwnBunni]

15:20 😭😭😭 put the mic right up to the speaker. Rewound it and put it back on normal speed. 🤣🤣🤣

[@d-space1935]

Idk bro, all I can say is think smart and communication is key. Before you have unprotected sex, marry, and/or have a long term relationship with someone, make sure your values and what you want out of it are known and mutually agreed upon. Also genuine red flags should never be ignored. They always pop up in the future.

[@dylancn]

💯

[@valzod3808]

Accountability just be running like a mf.

[@carlucci2041]

As a man here, i dont understand how these people Change for the worse when pregnancies occur unlesss they were shit from the get go, my sister first child was super hard for her so it was more than fundamental giving her support on the early stages along her husband, we saw the good the bad but never regreat. Ps: yup my sister husband was trying to do less till i sent him straight, its been 5 years he does everything on auto now, its a beautiful Journey ngl , not EVERYONE is ready for it, some need wake up calls, and some are JUST Taylor made for it... After everything that went with My sister i was but now Im more than ready to be a father too 🥹

[@femdivinemind7777]

They hide their true character long enough

[@shaavanii]

Okkkkkkay fresh braids 😍😍😍

[@Lil_tro_Vert]

Women swear men lie about everything until it’s about having a baby or getting married then they believe them all of a sudden, where did the intuition go lol

[@thereallazygirl]

4u're right we should treat u as liars always

[@termitered]

11:50 just say it happened to your friend and then tell the story lol

[@kamen8361]

Stop sleeping with men so easily, you will see their true colors quickly, I've seen it first hand how some of these dudes act when you dont give them anything😂 the ones that wait and dont care have a higher chance of being the one then these other guys

[@thedevilofparadis6107]

Ladies set the bar low for themselves, allowing men to bust in them without the requirements of a marriage. At least if she's married she could take him to court if he wants to abandon her with a child.

[@KhalilDelion007]

Women also have to stop being naive and protect themselves instead of being disappointed that men switch up. Take accountability as well. 💪🏾

[@lol_youre_mad]

that's why they need marriage before the baby, it's legal and financial protection for the woman.

[@thereallazygirl]

women should take accountability for thinking all men arent pieces of shit .they all are

[@panamanianman1]

That mic drag is everything for me!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Help us out Dee!!!

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

Yes. I saw that man in an interview. He is a diagnosed Narcissist who tries to help people understand the ailment and help those like him who are trying to help themselves be better. Also showing people the signs and letting them know what they can do if they want to stay or teach them how to leave. Edit: swapped word

[@mariahc1]

my mom was w a man for a few years before actually getting married to him. then after they got married and she got pregnant w my brother, he completely switched up. became violent, drinking more, etc. then they divorced. & he stopped seeing my brother before he was even the age of 2. now my mom has passed away, he wants to pop up for the first time in TEN years and try to take custody of him from my grandparents…. and this wasn’t a month of dating. this was years of dating & marriage. men can be very deceitful.

[@chrisA.n]

12:35 I feel like she getting us in trouble here but I LOVE when she gives this energy 😂😂 love you Dee keep being funny af 💯

[@The3Kings]

Not once has a women ever referred to another woman as a narcissist. Narcissistic is just someone y’all don’t get along with anymore at this point.

[@Steqp]

You’re saying this as someone who doesn’t fully understand the word

[@The3Kings]

@@Steqp Narcissist is a medical term that is supposed to be diagnosed by a professional but y’all loosely throw around the term to anyone y’all are beefing with just because they hurt your feelings and you don’t like them anymore. Kindly shut it

[@fairywonder3419]

yes they do lol, i agree that it’s used too loosely especially when it’s a smaller percentage. However, a lot of women refer to their horrible mothers as narcissists, i’ve heard it plenty of times. And technically they’re more than double more male narcissist than there is female narcissists.

[@iiiiii7739]

What are u talking about?

[@MRVV7717]

You can't get trapped with something you can get rid of, also you don't have to have raw, also Iove being alone, we all gonna die alone

[@Skittlez323]

Naw idc having a baby with someone after a month is wildly irresponsible. Weren't you just judging the asian woman who got pregnant by Fresh for the same reason? lol

[@ViraL_FootprinT.ex.e]

Iono man... That shit do go down like that, but there's also nuances with things like this. And for the most part, we're talmbout people who have kids super young. By default, *that is a horrific idea!* If you're having kids before 25🤔🤔🤔 or even 30, (in this day & age, in this economy) "shit sounds wack". We've all been there. If you're under 30 and "planning" to have kids with someone you think you "love", you're fcking wylin' tF out and just sound immature asF. And if you get left... C'mon. And this ain't anything new. This has been going on for *LIT-ER-AL decades!* Cyclical History should be the biggest red flag ever. *Edit to Add:* I'm speaking as someone who has had kids under 30, and I love them, and wouldn't change that.

[@SkylerAlise]

I saw my girl arnell armon and hadd to click lmao😭❤️

[@zantiquechm3960]

Don't majority of people die alone? Do people mean something different with that saying?

[@fruke2629]

It’s towards people who have an insanely high standards that most can’t meet.

[@user-is5we3fv1p]

Everyone can switch up

[@dylancn]

💯

[@angelica.vilorio2492]

9:30 HAHAHAHAHAH HOPE YOU FIGURE THAT OUT IN THERAPY KILLED ME

[@wassup3502]

I've been said this!!!

[@chrismorale_]

Dee's mind is moving so fast. No time for shit. Ol girl pouring out her heart and Her eyes are rolled up. "Uggghk, bish get over it" . Lol

[@starxvssv]

Always single people judging the ones who actually have experience 😭

[@RedeemedRestored]

What about taking personal accountability for my body my choice in picking an appropriate mate?

[@KiddishBambino]

the handsome 10/10 dude that all he had to do was smile to get you that obviously doesnt want kids, and probably already has kids he doesnt take of, has a lot of options and gets bored easily didnt want me after i had a kid. cmon now bruh😂😂😂 i can fix him, hell do this for me. its like dudes that ignore when women are obviously promiscuous, she cheated on her bf to date you grabs turns her phone over and has had 10 partners cmon bro and cmon ladies 😅😅😅 are we this stupid

[@mastro.man1925]

every body switches up ... just be fr

[@anywayschile8308]

JS why don't we keep this energy in the comment towards the women trapping men with a baby as well. There's been many women poking holes or acting like the baby is theirs knowing well it is not. this society empathizes with women so much but villains the men even the women are in the wrong. It takes two to tango. yes, men can be sneaky but so does women with persuading. Don't be onesided and ignorant.

[@artbymaree4680]

I learned to trust in my intuition and not what my body or heart thinks it wants. You have people who see soldering and want to have it no matter what and no matter the cost. But i have such strong intuition that if i get even a sliver of doubt for someone's character i remove myself. You know the right and wrong person, people will know and still give the benefit of the doubt for red glaring flags. Also remember to be happy alone and happy within yourself, cause how can you want love from someone when you don't even love yourself enough to say i would rather be alone and at peace, then with someone i have to question and worry about

[@imaniluvsu1]

As a mom of 3 adult children, I agree with this. Not every woman has the same experience because some men actually are very involved with their kids but it seems like so many are NOT. When my mom realized I was pregnant she and my sons dad's MOTHER decided to move him in to help take care of our son. HORRIBLE idea. His only requirement was to help take care of the baby and stay in school. He didn't do either. I'm the one who kicked his ass out. My oldest daughter's father didn't want me to have her but once he held her, he fell in love. He was a good dad. Not perfect but he was there for her before he died. She spent summers with him and his mom. My youngest daughter's dad was abusive. He was there but not involved the way he should've been. I left him for the safety of me and my kids. My point is, you just never know if someone is going to switch up on you.

[@fruke2629]

Isn’t trapping when you want too give that person a baby to benefit you?? Those guys don’t want those kids and clearly are not seeking to benefit off of them how is that trapping.

[@dylancn]

Women ≠ accountability

[@Steqp]

Start holding women accountable, every time someone tries to hold them accountable they turn into victims

[@JB-bl6qo]

They trap them with a baby to keep access to them duh

[@justicevibes1252]

Men baby trap when women are doing well in their careers, getting promotions etc. Not all men want to see women succeed. It's done out of spite.

[@Gunnatello]

This shit is like like Fresh and Fit for women 🥱

[@getoffmygrass4857]

Yup

[@bray2079]

Marriage doesn’t guarantee the person won’t change but you cant deny it improves your chance of having a good partner once you have a kid. You used one example of a failed partnership instead of using the plenty of examples of celebrity deadbeats. The majority of deadbeat celebrities were ones that weren’t married.

[@fartunyep4501]

Not dee skipping tht 1 girl 😂

[@antgal9467]

I've never understood how men can "trap" women with a baby.... I thought it was your body and your choice..... Just choose not to have the baby.....

[@dylancn]

Women ≠ accountability

[@The3Kings]

Fighting so hard for the rights to get rid of one but never do it is crazy

[@Steqp]

Men don’t trap women, a lot of women have no security to offer. That’s obviously the main point of trapping someone

[@thereallazygirl]

then u shame women for risking their lives and getting abortions

[@sevenkpink2894]

It’s not that easy to just choice not to have a baby you clearly don’t know how that works

[@greendro6410]

Very interesting 😂

[@Thefundraiser96]

What happened to women intuition.

[@ArcticPrimal]

There's no switch up. They knowingly ignored the red flags. I see excuses and bad decision-making because were all these women in the video dating narcissists?! Also, are there switch ups when some of these women knowingly allow a guy with two baby mamas get them pregnant to ended up being the third single baby mama?!

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

It’s not always signs or more baby mamas. There are just as many “educated lames” from efficient 2 parent households that do the same especially in this community. It’s the culture at this point.

[@Professoryu]

People change. Men change women change. It’s proven that men view their partners as less attractive when they have their baby. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ArcticPrimal]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 it's bad choices

[@ArcticPrimal]

@@Professoryu and they choose those men, the point still stands bad decision-making and excuses for those decisions/choices they made

[@TanaQz]

@@ArcticPrimalnarcissists are normal till you’re committed then they show their true colors 🤷‍♀️ sometimes there is truly no way of knowing

[@juju.guru111]

Yes it was really a month lol

[@rockoreactions5444]

Yeah you are right he's a narcissist who's in therapy trying to get better. I've seen several of his videos on KZbin. Love the hair btw❤

[@Michael-m9p1w]

My friend who had a child with his college girlfriend left her as soon as the baby was born but it ain't none of my business 😂

[@ruweydaa5710]

You still friends with him

[@darriennemartin4083]

It is your business if you’re still their friend

[@Steqp]

Still not their business? We don’t know why he left

[@phumutsokhoza1699]

Exactly the kid could not be his

[@Michael-m9p1w]

@@phumutsokhoza1699 no the baby is his but something happened between them and they're not together anymore. I think he cheated

[@Tom-qq7ov]

I appreciate you reacting to longer form videos so regularly. I love your content but it used to be so short 😢

[@getoffmygrass4857]

You let him hit it raw and now you single mom🤱🏻🤱🏻🤱🏻🤱🏻🤱🏻

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

If it ain’t no good men, why they stay pregnant? 😂

[@2023Mermaid]

I think women should stop having sex all together. No sex with boyfriends, husbands none of them.

[@dylancn]

​@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime 💯

[@RD-nm2xj]

You must be a bitter baby daddy

[@noobmaster8911]

You let him hitting raw

[@wooshydog]

You don't know you can tamper with protection??

[@wooshydog]

You should be asking why are men trapping women on purpose? They're possessive

[@justicevibes1252]

A lot of guys don't like condoms. Some will have them on in the beginning and take them off last minute. It's best to be celibate.

[@wooshydog]

@@justicevibes1252men who do that are down right disgusting

[@zacchfromdalou9679]

So woman don’t change either???

[@Steqp]

Women hate accountability

[@kpopisawesome9343]

​@@Steqpmen hate accountability

[@WienerVL]

Its much more the other way!

[@InsideRazettesMind]

Or what if they lied about being TRAPPED though?

[@dylancn]

💯

[@aceshouse3389]

Aye don't give access unless married problem solved

[@princess_niya2407]

Being married don’t prevent the person switching up on you, and being married isn’t a gaureentee

[@aceshouse3389]

@princess_niya2407 yeah but it's more of an incentive...especially for men because they don't initiate divorce at the same rate as women

[@thereallazygirl]

@@princess_niya2407 i think these ninjas have low iq

[@RD-nm2xj]

@@princess_niya2407it's not a guarantee but at least it shows he has a commitment

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@@aceshouse3389 Men don’t initiate divorce because they benefit from women. They don’t try in their marriages like women do. That’s why women divorce more because they’re tired of having a their child for a husbands let’s be fr about this.

[@Beetwate305]

11:29 her voice is throwing me off!

[@Walker9510]

15:13 😂😂

[@Doctor_Kroom]

Remember. *Marry b4 you carry.* Your body you choice.🎉

[@thereallazygirl]

it's almost like u slow ninjas didnt hear her talk about husbands switching up

[@2023Mermaid]

I'm never getting married, I'm never having anyone's kids. I'm not getting got.

[@rubbadubbs3242]

Women go on and on about red flags but choose the wrong dudes to open their legs for raw again and again. Of course some guys hide their intentions and clearly play the game to get what they want, at a certain point you have to hold some of these women accountable as well. Some of these clips are literally just the redpill alternative for women. It isn’t a gender issue-some people are just bad people and you can’t fix the problem on either end without accountability on both ends.

[@dylancn]

💯

[@davesenatus5566]

I’m sorry but what do people expect? You choose who you make a baby with, if you don’t want to wait to know more about them and potentially marry then you’ve made your bed. I still have sympathy for single mothers and they should be helped but at the same time this is just stupid.

[@lol_youre_mad]

You have to be brain dead. These men were the perfect man BEFORE the baby, they switched up AFTER. do you have comprehension skills. Why do men like you understand deception when it's women deceiving men but never the other way around. Selective competency.

[@ashtonramsey386]

Thats why having sex before marriage is always stupid and dangerous and it put the kid in a fd up situation that the kid didn't ask to be in so no matter what a man says to try to get the goodies its still on the woman because she is the gate keeper and she is making the choice to open when all the guy is doing most of the time is lying and women can't get mad because they do this exact same thing to men and we are just as stupid

[@thereallazygirl]

good job ignoring the fact that husbands do this

[@Elpinchecrizz]

Women should know what kind of man they are dating 🙄your own fault

[@sevenkpink2894]

Did you not watch the video???

[@dylancn]

So women never switch up or trick men? Always the victims

[@denishamenzies3271]

Nobody's saying that. People know it goes both ways

[@thereallazygirl]

do we become a deadbeat and leave the kid too ?

[@919Trizzy]

its the other way around

[@dflocunt541]

is anyone else noticing the heart in Dee's hair

[@Steqp]

Nobody is out here trapping you “citygirls”. Leave it to modern women to play victim every chance they get. It’s sad

[@kpopisawesome9343]

Men love to play victim

[@IntelligentInsights876]

Well as human beings we changed our minds alot, woman or man nothing is set in 🪨

[@Steqp]

💯 be careful what you tell a woman; they’ll write it in stone

[@pynklady11]

This....human nature at its core is FLAWED. You can't expect something that's inherently flawed to be and do nothing less. The only thing constant is change. You can only control yourself. I stopped being so focused on the outcome and simply enjoy the experience and lessons along the way.

[@CuckMommy]

This happened to me by my 6 year long ex fiance..😂

[@tuxxx526]

5:04 oh my god 🤣