Men Want To Marry THIS Type Of Woman

[@ian_ford]

_'... a quarrelsome wife is like a roof that never stops leaking.'_ - Proverbs 19:13 This topic has been an issue for thousands of years. *Men, choose wisely...*

[@WeOutHere94]

They way Zuby structures his arguments with these people are great. He preemptively speaks about catagories and how it wont be the same for everyone, and reiterated that this is HIS belief. Made it very difficult for any girl to jump in and say 'ACTUALLLYYY', and then present a 0.1% stat argument. Its important people get some shock value to be pushed into reassessing their values (Myron pushes), and also importsnt that people get a delicately put deeper thought process to ponder on (Zuby).

[@el_killorcure]

That's because he doesn't have activist nutcases there, who would interrupt and scream no matter how he phrased his argument...

[@ephraimwinslow]

A wife is a person who puts other people's needs first, because she's got the job of being the primary caregiver to one or more dependents *and* being the sole support system of a primary provider. That means being pleasant and agreeable and *nurturing*... three things I have yet to see in a single modern woman.

[@leafinthewind119]

Appreciate your description better

[@ephraimwinslow]

@@leafinthewind119 Glad to be of service. (3 decades of never shutting up had to pay off eventually.)

[@cynthiajohnson9412]

Those kind of women are out there, you just probably aren't looking in the right place. I see a lot of them working at summer camp. Those young councilors are in their late teens/early twenties and co-responsible for a group of maybe 6 six kids 24/6 for weeks at a time, they get one day off a week. My advice is to find a woman who has worked at a summer camp for multiple summers. If they made it through a whole summer and then went back ( and got hired) the next year they are gems. If she's worked at camp for multiple years, never let her go. She's not only a nurse, therapist, teacher, baby sitter, social director, nature guide, she also knows how to have wholesome fun.

[@YourPalHDee]

My wife is all of these things

[@tonyascancook]

I wish all men were like Zuby 🎉

[@fullmatthew]

If everyone was the same, the world would be a boring place

[@jiggatoni4082]

@@fullmatthewlike and the same are different words with different meanings

[@el_killorcure]

Not every guy can be FEMALE powerlifting champion...

[@flexjohnson18]

Alot of men are but maybe don't articulate or convey it as well...and to be honest very few women actually want a thoughtful articulate cerebral kind of guy let's be honest

[@el_killorcure]

@@flexjohnson18 What kind of man fo they want tgen? A useless soyboy "ally" they can boss around?

[@danarobinson6156]

Women think about weddings Men think about marriage

[@judex3226]

Strong Physical attraction passes very quickly, I’d say in under a year if you have been sleeping which each other a lot. So it’s not a super important thing, intelligence, sense of humour, kindness are all more important and will not fade away like sexual attraction.

[@YourPalHDee]

I've been with my wife 5 years. Just never stopped being blown away by my physical attraction to her.

[@judex3226]

@@YourPalHDee If it was a normal occurrence you wouldn’t be blown away because it would be a normal reaction. You are the exception not the rule

[@RayCarroll67]

I think it's really important to know what your potential lifelong partners personality type is and how their mind and thought process work. For example, there is no reason a more extroverted person can't have a successful relationship with a more introverted person as long as each of them understands why they act and behave the way that they do and are prepared to accept and make allowances within the relationship for that. Know your personality type and make it the topic of conversation on your 1st date, if the person remains interested, they will want a 2nd date and will be eager to tell you their type if they didn't already know and will have studied up on yours and be just as eager to discuss it further.

[@nadineearley8564]

Be your authentic self always with positive high energy

[@SquirrilahFish]

Men who DONT have that girl, kinda suck at explaining it. It all comes down to her REP! Respect Empathy Perspective. EVERYTHING "wifey" stems from those three traits.

[@orvillefindley8117]

If she cant gut fish im not interested ! 👍🤭

[@ReeceDee]

I've managed to weed out so many undesirable women just by having these kind of conversations...so I can gauge where she is coming from and what future problems I can expect.....due diligence isn't just for business you know.

[@naviifra2374]

Asking single men about wifey material is crazy 😂😂😂

[@pablo09876]

💯

[@allegrap1054]

Marriage is high risk, high reward for both parties. The difference is most women don’t evaluate the risk like men do.

[@robzombie5928]

I think the society issues now often relate to women wanting to be the wives of society not a man. The need to baby the public might come from good intentions but a child and peoppe need to struggle and get back up themselves. Now people get told there children and need help to live with everything. It's like the whole of society is being told it needs an HR department. With women being less likely to be mothers they treat evey child and person as their child, like teachers saying my kids instead of the pupils.

[@aadsideas]

Primarily, she must be the woman God destined for you to be with for the rest of your life whose Lord and Savior is Jesus Christ, who's first in her, your help meet, your prayer partner, your one in agreement with, your one flesh covenant partner. All else that you both need will follow if both seek first God's kingdom and righteousness. As a married man, we've been experiencing this and our children are also benefiting from our obedience to the Lord's will and purpose. Glory to God! Psalm 127, 128 👍🙂🙏🛐✝️🕊️🇵🇭🇮🇱 #JesusisLord Trust Him with your fears and future Shalom

[@ameliac504]

Perfect answer

[@ThePbag]

I like Zuby. But he needs to stick to what he knows. Taking relationship and family advice from a single, childless man in his late 30s is akin to getting real estate tips from a homeless person.

[@YourPalHDee]

Fully agree.

[@mannyobi6171]

Maybe the reason he is single (which he isn't last time I checked) and childless in his 30s is because the wisdom he's conveying makes him more careful in his selection process. Plus, he's very famous, very highly intellectual, very fit, and very religious, which are all reasons why I would think that while he has more options that it would be a lot harder for him to choose someone that can match him on those things as well as being culturally compatible with him.

[@ZubyMusic]

The notion you need to already be married to know what you're looking for in a future wife is backwards and asinine.

[@ThePbag]

​@@ZubyMusicnot what I said at all, and an uncharacteristically weak attempt to deflect away from the point being made. I said that *giving advice* on marriage and children as an unmarried, childless person is questionable. The same as a person without financial success giving financial tips, or a person with unremarkable physique and strength giving coaching tips. Since you are successful in both of those latter things, I think you do better when you are advising on them. Leave marriage to those with the experience to speak capably on it.

[@JamesStevensTEXALTA]

@@ThePbag How is this is not appeal to authority fallacy? Who says a homeless person cannot know about real estate? Judge their words and content with logic and reason, not by their character, accomplishments, or lack thereof.

[@happydog6537]

Some of these dudes will want the girl in blue’s phone number..

[@amunra5330]

Err....speak for yourself.

[@ephraimwinslow]

@@amunra5330 Seriously. 100% of all: "Oh you'd all jump at the chance!" Posts actually mean: "I want her! ...I'll take what I can get, honestly." (They're still in that denial phase where they think average women are still worth chasing.)

[@ChristinaChrisR]

Why is that?

[@streetsiswatching9660]

Nothing wrong with smashing

[@JanKozak-ww6zz]

Sey no sey no sey no sey no lajf no lajf no lajf no self no self no self no telefon no imejl no podkast no zout zout zout

[@OsirisCreatives]

ZUBY GET MARRIED.

[@ameliac504]

He’s not? Oof

[@OsirisCreatives]

@@ameliac504 Nope

[@SelenaSea]

He's happy with a good woman right now, wants children in time, and is moving at the pace they've chosen together as far as we know. And he keeps his private life private. Seems all good to me!

[@relbik66]

Nope they do NOT sorry 😂

[@oceania2385]

Zuby your shopping list of traits is describing the second wife. NOT the first.

[@sillygoose9070]

Most men don't get to choose. They take what they can get.

[@YourPalHDee]

This dumbass mentality is what we call a self fulfilling prophesy.

[@JamesStevensTEXALTA]

This seems a bit simplistic. While many settle, the idea that most men can't have that choice would be a false dichotomy... if you've built a solid foundation through growth and intentional development, you will be rewarded with more choices. Women are more likely to marry "up" the hierarchy than men (hypergamy), while women tend to reject men who aren't "qualified". This would suggest that men are more willing to voluntarily "settle" than women, and it's not necessarily because they are "taking what they can get".

[@SchrödingersMath]

😳......what......?!.......Men can CHOSE to not get married.....thay have a choice....you don't have to " TAKE WHAT YOU CAN GET "......Men who like traveling, have a Passport, enuf green$ go overseas .....Men in there 20s who are broke ,it's harder.....

[@amazingbollweevil]

Imagine being so out of touch with reality that you can't conceive how you or your spouse might change over time. That someone with whom you fell in love in your twenties and married, might be a very different person in their forties. Imagine having values that demand you remain together even though you both want to move on and move out. How much self-loathing does that require, I wonder?

[@righteouslydefiant5362]

Marriage is about duty,,,not happiness

[@triforcelink]

Sorry man, if you’re willing to end your marriage because someone’s “preferences” changed you shouldn’t be getting married, that’s what dating is for. Especially if kids are going to be involved. Our divorce rates are so high because people don’t take marriage seriously.

[@jeric0777]

Imagine getting married in your twenties, changing as people over time, putting in the work to still know, love, and respect each other and still be together in your 40s/50s. Don't underestimate the bonds made over shared experiences be they good or bad. Just like how you can either quit or grow stronger from challenges as an individual, you can quit your marriage or grow stronger as a couple from challenges. Now if we're talking abuse or narcissist personality disorder, that's different. Edit: to be fair, we're Gen X. I couldn't imagine being in my twenties and trying to sift through some of the entitled brainwashed whiners that public school and universities are churning out these days. Not that all millennials and Gen Z are like that, but I don't envy your dating pool.

[@DylanYoung]

You do realise that you coevolve together over time, right? If you wake up one morning and your wife is suddenly different, you were in denial. You failed.

[@amazingbollweevil]

@@DylanYoung Oh, to be so young as you.