Men... We Need to Talk.

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alpha m.

alpha m.

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@alpham
@alpham 8 ай бұрын
*TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE!* FREE WHITE LABEL BLUEPRINT www.thewhitelabelmpire.com/optin I hope to see you on the inside!
@pfaloa
@pfaloa 8 ай бұрын
@alpham the link doesnt work
@lukeduke9540
@lukeduke9540 8 ай бұрын
thank you for being awsome and great inspiration to us
@ZerefCifer707
@ZerefCifer707 8 ай бұрын
how interesting, I was thinking of getting into white labeling this Feb end
@nellosnook4454
@nellosnook4454 8 ай бұрын
1. 1000% AGREE! 💪 2. We men who subscribe to your channel, respect you. 3. You are a persuasive voice to us. 4. You sincerely & forcefully explain what & why you think as you do. 5. Thank you for taking this bold & brave stand on opposing the Woke movement currently afflicting our country. 👏🇺🇸
@anti1training
@anti1training 8 ай бұрын
I use to be hypermasculine and would trash on k-pop stars like BTS and others in real life for being too feminine, not doing sports or etc. It took growing as a man to realize, I was being toxic. Just all around negative and a bully. Now I realize a man doesnt have to be a stereotype. If you want to be a man that wears male makeup and loves fashion, I supoort you brother. Men should support men. I'm pretty sure that's the message that is being told. And that's a good thing. Just make sure to avoid twitter and loud minority views, because there's always extremes online. But you better drink a beer with me or you're not man enough 😤 Kidding, stay positive brothers 💪🏼
@DTownNash
@DTownNash 8 ай бұрын
To quote Patrice O'Neal: I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a bad thing but no matter what a woman is, is a good thing.
@Boe3
@Boe3 8 ай бұрын
Man: plays on Veteran difficulty Woman: plays on Recruit difficulty
@Coolness18304
@Coolness18304 8 ай бұрын
Rip Patrice
@JCB576
@JCB576 8 ай бұрын
Who told you that beeing a man is bad? I think you're missunderstanding the message
@DTownNash
@DTownNash 8 ай бұрын
@@JCB576 ever heard of toxic masculinity, mansplaining or any bs term like that ?
@JCB576
@JCB576 8 ай бұрын
@@DTownNash of course, but you are mixing two things. A 2min google search would tell you that social sciences define toxic masculinity as: "Adherence to traditional male gender roles that consequently stigmatize and limit the emotions boys and men may comfortably express while elevating other emotions such as anger.". Furthermore it says:" This concept of toxic masculinity does not condemn men or male attributes, but rather emphasizes the harmful effects of conformity to certain traditional masculine ideal behaviors". So what the comcept of toxic masculinity actualy want to achieve is not condeming males, but is much rather actually pro male. The coremessage is that you are actualy allowed to be who you are and can become who you want to be not having to obey by sociatal standards (which is also in line with Aarons Message in this video)
@LtFoodstamp
@LtFoodstamp 8 ай бұрын
Alpha is chill. You know woke has gone too far when Alpha has to speak up about it.
@jarhead21100
@jarhead21100 8 ай бұрын
It's a part of the process. The Overton window has shifted so much that moderates are considered "far-right".
@singhmastr
@singhmastr 8 ай бұрын
It's hilarious you missed the part where he said you have to ignore the crazy religious right wing too.
@necrosteel5013
@necrosteel5013 8 ай бұрын
​@@singhmastr that just cements it further that the woke have taken root, because otherwise far-right zealots wouldn't have such prominence.
@silentvoicespodcast
@silentvoicespodcast 8 ай бұрын
@necro lol what
@necrosteel5013
@necrosteel5013 8 ай бұрын
@@silentvoicespodcast the woke has gotten soo dominant that the only people who overshadow them are the crazy right wing zealots.
@fashionandfrags
@fashionandfrags 8 ай бұрын
Great point: "Can't argue with crazy" I love that and will remember it.
@sohaibahmed133
@sohaibahmed133 8 ай бұрын
Finally someone spoken about it. HATSOFF
@RyanG-ij8xq
@RyanG-ij8xq 7 ай бұрын
A lot of people are speaking up. They are losing their grip on the mainstream culture
@austindmilligan
@austindmilligan 8 ай бұрын
Amen brother! Being a guy born in the 90s, we were shown what real men and mannerisms were towards other men but especially towards women! I was taught that badass icons like James Bond, Bruce Wayne, or even a real life person like David Beckham are what good solid dudes should try to some what emulate! Handsome polite men who show class, drive and dignity towards others but most of all themselves, and todays soft ass generations are told that those ways are the “bad” ways and it’s destroying men and it’s so bothersome! Actual good guys are becoming more and more rare and it’s got to change! Awesome video man that people need to hear!!
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
Who's been telling you that dignity, drive and class are "bad" ways?? And how is it destroying men?
@m.7877
@m.7877 8 ай бұрын
@@Mr.Nyongo I don't think they're going to answer you lol. Some people simply love to generalize and take things out of context without giving specific examples and arguments if that supports their narrative.
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
@@m.7877 exactly this. And it's sad that Alpha is cosigning this bullshit. Read the comments on this video. Not a brain cell or a modicum of decency to be found. Just manly man victim complex all around. "they" don't want men to be men. Whoever "they" are. Whatever being a man means to these emotionally stunted antisocial "men". I'm not trying to assume what they're talking about. But they're not actually trying to have a conversation or add to already existing discourse. Just buzz words and pure emotion. Something these types claim to not ever do.
@MrShazaamable
@MrShazaamable 8 ай бұрын
Very generalised comment.. unsure which of the ways are "bad"?
@TheColognican51213
@TheColognican51213 8 ай бұрын
Great one to refer to James Bond!!! Very true! One of my role models as well!
@saadzamir9327
@saadzamir9327 8 ай бұрын
Been watching Aaron for years. Man I love this man. No homo.
@NoahPurdyFR
@NoahPurdyFR 8 ай бұрын
Fundamental misunderstanding of what people on the left are saying when we speak out against toxic masculinity. Not all masculinity is toxic masculinity, but exactly those toxic elements like forcing men to hold in their feelings, encouraging them to see violence as legitimate way to solve petty disputes and whatnow is what's problematic. I know it's easy to view this as if somebody is after you for being a dude, but that's just not the case. Working on yourself, building confidence to approach people, being succesful in business, none of that is toxic and that's exactly what you preach and it's good and healthy. What people like the Tates promote is not that, it's an antagonistic worldview, it's an objectifying, materialistic wordlview and it's a depressing worldview. It's nothing but a power fantasy for reactionaries or those that are gullible enough to fall into that trap. That's my piece.
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
Beautifully said. But those same reactionaries are gonna do what they always do. React without understanding and move based on making the "others" the victim. Very low IQ behavior.
@mormegil84
@mormegil84 8 ай бұрын
Well said.
@Vytablade
@Vytablade 8 ай бұрын
Dammit Alpha...... How you you gonna make me like you more and more every video!? Been with you for 5 years, changed my life in more than just the simple ways. I'm with you till the end! Incredible, TRUTHFUL, video...... If anything, I'm glad I found you all those years.
@marshallpierre9483
@marshallpierre9483 8 ай бұрын
You know, besides youtube, i struggle to find an example of how men are being told that they are bad in real life. It’s almost as though that life does not exist except when i go on youtube.🤔
@Deadpool-px2nm
@Deadpool-px2nm 8 ай бұрын
Oh wow, look at this guy, you must be the best man in existence if no ones telling you you're bad 😂 Do you want applause and a medal bro? 👏
@rp9674
@rp9674 3 ай бұрын
There is anti-male stuff, but a lot of people say a lot of things, ignore it, no need for a meltdown
@KuLaydMahn
@KuLaydMahn 3 ай бұрын
Tbf, I don't live in California or anything but I don't really see any of this anti-masculine sentiment anywhere but the internet/social media either - not any significant amount. I mean, there's always 1 or 2 man haters, 1 or 2 woman haters, and 1 or 2 racists pretty much anywhere you go - and it's been that way since the 90s at least. But that's my personal experience. I'm not the best man in existence, and if people in the real world ARE telling you you're bad on a regular basis, you might want to start hearing them out.
@rp9674
@rp9674 3 ай бұрын
​@KuLaydMahn. I do live in California and I don't see it either
@escapeplandad
@escapeplandad 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking up about this major problem! ❤ ❤❤
@Bunnybeast
@Bunnybeast 8 ай бұрын
Is it though? I only ever see people (who like Alpha says, have an agenda) _claiming_ this problem exists, and never people _actually_ telling me I should feel bad for being a man.
@escapeplandad
@escapeplandad 8 ай бұрын
@@Bunnybeast The agenda is simple…Bring more light into this messed up world and spread love no matter what your views are!
@Bunnybeast
@Bunnybeast 8 ай бұрын
@@escapeplandad How do people bring light by lying about a problem that doesn't exist?
@escapeplandad
@escapeplandad 8 ай бұрын
@@Bunnybeast Respect for your opinion and wishing you many blessings 🙏
@ZymeHUN
@ZymeHUN 8 ай бұрын
@@Bunnybeast watch the Sean Strickland UFC interview and if you still think the problem is made up, come back and please explain how you can possibly think that.
@nellosnook4454
@nellosnook4454 8 ай бұрын
1. 1000% AGREE! 💪 2. We men who subscribe to your channel, respect you. 3. You are a persuasive voice to us. 4. You sincerely & forcefully explain what & why you think as you do. 5. Thank you for taking this bold & brave stand on opposing the Woke movement currently afflicting our country. 👏🇺🇸
@chevyhs
@chevyhs 8 ай бұрын
Honestly I started my masculine journey with you a few years ago. I began wanting to care of myself and it started with the way I look. Grew out my beard and began to care about myself. Since then I’ve branched out on other masculine men and por casts and I lost sight of your message. Honestly Alpha M it’s about time you spoke this message. Thank you
@panimation8436
@panimation8436 8 ай бұрын
Aaron, thank you for being a positive figure in my life and in today's culture. I watched your channel grow since 2008, I hope to see the future of your channel grow.
@sterlthepearl1000
@sterlthepearl1000 8 ай бұрын
"It is your duty to God and your Bloodline for your life to mean something." Andrew Tate
@sosomelodies659
@sosomelodies659 3 ай бұрын
In his case, go to jail for human trafficking, rape, and forming a gang to lure women.
@andreasmalm4521
@andreasmalm4521 8 ай бұрын
After so many years. You are still the man. Thanks for everything. Seriously. Love you bro
@JoseVasquez-eq1pb
@JoseVasquez-eq1pb 8 ай бұрын
Jokes on you, real men are never scared of being cancelled. Because being a good father, husband, neighbor, and friend is recognizing that we as men have a responsibility to call out other shitbag dudes. Be better than our fathers and grandfathers. Change is scary for people who refuse to adapt and overcome.
@fede7316
@fede7316 8 ай бұрын
Bro, i follow you since 2014, i thought you had lost your way. BEST VIDEO EVER in this channel. Keep going ALPHA MALE!, don´t be ashamed of who you are, you are one of the big brothers who teached us a lot of things of this life.
@ManiacMeats
@ManiacMeats 8 ай бұрын
It really is noise but I do have a point of contention regarding "woke". The problem isn't woke but the select far left and far right fringe elements. Generally, we can agree that men don't have a right to beat women, mistreat them, etc. The fringe left says ALL men are trash, false. Fringe right says ALL women are trash, false. Domestic violence is an issue, sexual violence is an issue, and we can all agree that, the men doing these things are not real men. Women have a right to their body, they have a right to work, they have a right to do their own thing and not be subservient to the opposite sex or what we deem "a woman's job" is IF THEY WISH TO NOT DO IT. To say we "don't need men" is silly because we, definitely, by nature, need each half to continue the human race. We just need to respect each other, remember we are human, and sharpen our own moral compass to guide us in just and reasonable path. I cook, clean, and care for my kids AND so does my wife. It's not her duty or mine, it's OUR duty. In short, we are a team and we run the house as such. Obviously something out of reach or heavy, call me in. Tired and hungry, she's got my six. Do you need to be told what to do or can you see a need and provide? Maybe the leaves need to be raked and she'll decide she'll do it because I'm tired. Baby is fussy and she's got a big meeting, it's time to step up. Of course, I hold the door open for her and treat her like a princess because I like that and she does too.... because we choose too. Easy.
@rp9674
@rp9674 3 ай бұрын
Not fringe left, fringe of the left
@Black-Cipher-6
@Black-Cipher-6 8 ай бұрын
Amen, brother. You have my respect. Being a Millenial, I'm at a point where I've hit rock bottom. Depression, generalized anxiety disorder, OCD, you name it. I'm tired of living in the shadows, tired of the darkness, of the pain. I feel like I have nothing left to give, no goal. I have no idea what to do anymore.
@Madanth0ny
@Madanth0ny 8 ай бұрын
Hope you’re doing ok bro keep going keep your head up. The only way you can go is up do it your way .
@TheDefrede
@TheDefrede 8 ай бұрын
Put all that energy into working out, it will all become crystal clear. There's no better way.
@supertrooper6011
@supertrooper6011 7 ай бұрын
You can change your life in 6 months if you choose to. If you believe you are helpless to change things then you will be. If you don't want to change things you wont. Get angry about your situation and make a decision to change it. Do something towards it, every day. Cut any dead weight and make sure you look back on this day (not tomorrow) as the day you started changing your life. Make a vow to yourself that this IS your rock bottom.
@reverbautopsy9093
@reverbautopsy9093 7 ай бұрын
Find a way to launch yourself into the stratosphere by using your rock bottom as a starting point.
@FogoMyYogo
@FogoMyYogo 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Alpha! This world is very confused and the real men need to stick together. 💪🏼
@ajayharry987
@ajayharry987 8 ай бұрын
If you're talking about the other side *cough* fresh and fit *cough*. Im glad you're calling out both sides because there is definitely woke stuff going on, but there is also shit that aren't helping either
@rahulminhas7882
@rahulminhas7882 8 ай бұрын
Facts. As a counsellor in my area, men need to reclaim there masculinity, especially if you grew up in troublesome environments in which you need to be a strong man in order to make it out of your situation. Empower yourself brothers, live with purpose and strength. Be unmovable and focus on your mission in life. Much love
@melocoton7
@melocoton7 8 ай бұрын
Women also need to hear and understand this message. If I had a $ for every time I've been called a pick me, I would be retired 🤣 Critical thinking, common sense and a healthy dose of skepticism will keep you sane.
@jenjoshi4508
@jenjoshi4508 8 ай бұрын
Love you boss love from India 😊😊
@donaldsmith5667
@donaldsmith5667 8 ай бұрын
Social cancellation is a problem of both sides of the political spectrum. No matter who is doing it, it’s annoying as hell every time.
@roenlezma9361
@roenlezma9361 8 ай бұрын
As a teenager back in the early 2000's, I remember the conversations I held with my male friends regarding dating. And through the lens of low self esteem, we constantly concluded that we weren't attractive enough, popular enough or rich enough to get female attention. We used to put the blame on us, and most of us didn't have the chance to get some male guidance for a more proper interaction with the opposite sex. We never blamed women for what we thought were our fall outs. Obviously we needed help back then, because we were blinded by negative perceptions, limiting ideas, and fear which conveniently allows us to dive down the puddle of self pitty and self loathing. At least in my case in my early 20's I never really worked on myself in regards my social and dating skills, although I was in therapy. Nevertheless, I thought I was doomed to be left behind and probably that was my set on stone reality. So, I am very surprise how things have changed in this last decade with young men. It's really hard for me to understand this radicalization and poralization that drives everyone in this guerrilla war. From the young men feeling like women are to blame, but at the same time that they "deserve" female attention just because to men telling other dudes that you have to seclude yourself in order to be valued, attractive, rich, and influential not only for dating but to over power women submitting them under their authority. And on the other hand, which is as bad as its counterpart, the extremist totalitarian vindictive rethoric that man (and even boys) are useless, worth cancelled, primitive, evil, ill, creeps, criminals, and a menace to society. And then the legal consequences are a given pratically all around the world. It has become a huge challenge how everyday men and women can interact with one another without the fear of being attacked or harmed before, during or after interacting with someone. You can learn from every message out there, yet you have to discern what is most close to your values, set your own criteria, make your own conclusions, take the risk (while being cautious and responsible towards your decisions and actions), and hope for the best
@TheSpuros1997
@TheSpuros1997 8 ай бұрын
Glad you spoke about this issue. I hope young men will hear you and understand what you say. Hopefully they will be able to stay true to themselves instead of "going with the flow"
@Blackflame2024
@Blackflame2024 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being an inspiration for guys like me,I’ve been watching your videos for 8 years,thank you for keeping it real
@speedislife11
@speedislife11 8 ай бұрын
BIG FACTS! More big channels need to start making videos like this.
@K_Cameron
@K_Cameron 8 ай бұрын
Feels amazing hearing this coming from you, ive followed your videos since highschool and now as a 25 year old man dealing with this insane delusional woke culture it’s refreshing hearing this be addressed by one of few men ive ever taken advice from 💪🏻.
@mikebardenmusic
@mikebardenmusic 8 ай бұрын
I appreciate the balance you're trying to strike here, trying to appeal to a common sense middle ground between the extremes. That said, I am not a fan of throwing the "woke-ass liberal cancel culture extremists" all in the same garbage pail. I think what you mean is the faction that wants to authoritatively control from the top what is and what is not allowed to be said in public - and if that's specifically what you mean, I agree. But to me, "woke" simply means empathetic to the experience of marginalized people, of which I am one. And in my 50+ years of experience, I have seen more stupidity and abuse come from the right than from the left. Of course, your results may vary - everybody has a different experience. Again, I really appreciate the heart of what you're getting at here, and deeply appreciate what you do for men like myself who have some work to do in getting their shit together. I just felt I wanted to chime in on my gut reaction to your shitcanning of people for whom empathetic consideration of historically marginalized people is a core value.
@velricus
@velricus 8 ай бұрын
My respect for Alpha M. just went above stratosphere. Guy doesn’t bend under anything🔥🔥🔥
@closinginonclosure
@closinginonclosure 8 ай бұрын
You can't act like you genuinely care about something when the sole reason you're talking about it is because it's a way to parlay into your ad for a product you're selling. That's literally the only reason you made this video on this specific topic. You build all of your video topics around whatever product you're trying to peddle. All of your videos are glorified ad's. Some people are marks, but don't think a lot of people don't see exactly what you're doing. It's the reason I stopped watching your stuff years ago. The videos became repetitive and cheapened by knowing the topic was solely driven and motivated by you making money on whatever you would inevitably try to sell in the video. It made me stop trusting you and just viewing you as a slimy salesman. Let me be clear that I understand you aren't running a KZbin channel for free and you're trying to make money like a lot of KZbinrs do. My issue is with how you do it and the frequency in which you do it. It's like you can't make a video without selling something, and this video is a good example of how you do it. You try to disguise topics as something you're passionate about, when in reality the topics are solely dictated by the product or service you're selling. It's shady and gross.
@Denkichu
@Denkichu 8 ай бұрын
Alpha, there’s a reason I’ve been subscribed to you for so long. This is why! As someone who is struggling with their gender identity, you are inspiring and even more than just helpful! Thank you for this video and the resources to increase my own productivity. Thank you.
@GlennElliottKeller
@GlennElliottKeller 8 ай бұрын
There is no struggle my fellow human. Let your biology inform your reality. Let nature lead the way.
@richardmoore3749
@richardmoore3749 8 ай бұрын
If you have a peepee you are a man if you do not you are a woman
@JamwalLokeshS
@JamwalLokeshS 8 ай бұрын
😂LOL!! Struggling with gender identity??? Amazing how fucked up Western society is.
@JACQUEZ23
@JACQUEZ23 8 ай бұрын
Either u a man or woman not that hard
@jetsdude8
@jetsdude8 8 ай бұрын
if you delete social media and start lifting, you won't be at all confused about which of the 2 genders you are.
@ivareskesner2019
@ivareskesner2019 8 ай бұрын
Remember. Men built this world. It is the masculine traits which took us from caves to space. From hiding underground, terrified of the night and eating raw food, to freely controlling fire. From running every time we saw a bigger predator to being at the top of the food chain. It is exactly the masculine traits like certain disregard for one's safety, taking chances and the need to protect and provide for one's own that caused the progress humanity has experienced. Don't ever allow anybody to convince you that you are a part of some vile, opressive patriarchy. Don't ever let them make you believe that merely being a man makes you an opressor. Don't let them tell you you are privileged due only to having certain genitalia. Privilege is absolutely based on the environment and the situation. Sometimes men will have the privilege and sometimes women. Masculine traits will always be a major part of what humanity needs to move forward and survive. Just make sure your masculinity is a competent type of masculinity, not a corrupt type. It is sad that these ultra woke cultists don't know the difference. It can only mean that they never had competent male role models. Which is certainly a cricis of masculinity.
@hbktminc
@hbktminc 8 ай бұрын
Alpha M never fails to disappoint. Lots of respect
@scrubclub7138
@scrubclub7138 8 ай бұрын
Thankyou Alpha m. for talking about this. In my mind i have noticed some people kind of seem off lately and i just keep it to myself. But honestly we all need to talk about society problems especially the cancle culture if we don't then people will think people are weak and continue their obnoxious behavior. The woke community isn't all bad it's just people trying to be heard but doing it in annoying ways that piss people off, not really the right ways to get attention. The cancle culture is toxic and i hate how it's a thing and they want you to be scared to hate on it so you wont speak up about it. And it amazes me how there are content creators like yourself fightibg back against these toxic people. I can tell they are people who are hurt and taking it out on others. We are in trying times indeed but that doesn't mean try and ruin other people's lives. It's great your speaking up and standing up against these new strange toxicities our society doesn't need. 👍 (Edit: you are who you are and i think we are all slowly getting over body shaming and racism and sexuality identities and i think that's activation these people from the wood works and they are scared that people are winning in just wanting to be who they want to be. We are who we are. No o e should tell you otherwise.
@jaanuzagony9065
@jaanuzagony9065 8 ай бұрын
Please make more content like this! 💪 Bravo Alpha! I stand by everything you said.
@chargermopar
@chargermopar 8 ай бұрын
I guess I have been too busy trying to get stuff done to notice this "woke" movement. None of my friends are involved with this, and I avoid the mentally unstable brainwashed masses. Funny saying from the wound up fast talking little guy based on facts. Relying on other people for life is dangerous because they hold all of the cards. Self sufficiency is key. If your life depends on your job it is a single point of failure.
@bassimprovjams3772
@bassimprovjams3772 8 ай бұрын
Perfectly said Alpha! This needs to be said loudly for all the Men out there especially the young men,
@brianbeck7468
@brianbeck7468 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video! So many people need to hear this!
@GarfieldDonatello89
@GarfieldDonatello89 8 ай бұрын
Soy boy
@malone4735
@malone4735 8 ай бұрын
W Alpha M 💯🔥
@Clevercleverp
@Clevercleverp 8 ай бұрын
Amen Aaron . I agree with you . We spend so much time blaming others when we should recognize our faults and Improving ourselves ❤. Keep being you alpha you are an inspiration to me and always will be
@justinsolis7649
@justinsolis7649 8 ай бұрын
Good talk, brother!...💪no distractions.
@dave-j-k
@dave-j-k 8 ай бұрын
Always be the best version of yourself, if others have a problem with that then that's their problem not yours.
@jace3504
@jace3504 8 ай бұрын
You are an inspiration for men who love good women, and resist cancel culture without tainting themselves in the process.
@anti1training
@anti1training 8 ай бұрын
Cancel culture ain't real. It's consequence culture. He hasn't done anything to get canceled
@jace3504
@jace3504 8 ай бұрын
@@anti1training I think it’s very real. Just look around you.
@anti1training
@anti1training 8 ай бұрын
@@jace3504 I have and it doesn't exist in real life. Cancel culture is super facial. Consequence culture is when you actually did something wrong enough to lose opportunities
@ismaeluki99
@ismaeluki99 8 ай бұрын
Now there is a community of men that think that… to be a sigma man you need to be mean to women, to put them “in their place”, that’s not being a sigma… not a gentleman. If you are hurt by women, you can heal, but doing what others do to you doesn’t make you better, it puts you to the same level. We just need to find the good people, and there still are some good of them.
@ok_e3w
@ok_e3w 8 ай бұрын
Genuinely have so much respect for you making this video, keep speaking the truth and know were behind you
@loyalninecoffee2024
@loyalninecoffee2024 8 ай бұрын
Couldn’t agree more
@vincen.4151
@vincen.4151 8 ай бұрын
Good video! This is the kind of message young men need to hear these days. I grew up in the 70's had this kind of messages delivered by my dad and uncles and high school teachers, Later by a army drill sergeant. I'm glad I learned it and live it. Men need to be good men and women need to be good women also. None of this woke BS is working to make anything better.
@JCB576
@JCB576 8 ай бұрын
Well I don't think there are good or bad woman (I couldn't even define it tbh). I think there are just people who treat others with dignity&respect and other's who don't. And I have not heard anybody oppose the former
@hoy788
@hoy788 8 ай бұрын
No one is saying man are horrible, it’s just that there are people (man included) are trying to hold other man accountable for shits that they shouldn’t be doing. No one say that you can’t be a gentleman, be a provider, or a protector, but time are changing, some gender roles no longer fit the mold of what it was, women can be provider, protector, independent, strong, resilient, and much much more. However, there are still people (sometimes it’s the man) are still trying to make sure that such changes don’t occur. So if not trying to hold them responsible then what, leave it, turn a blind eye and just ignore it. If that’s what you’re preaching then how can you be proud of that.
@mormegil84
@mormegil84 8 ай бұрын
Yeah. Some people do deserve to be called out for the shit they say or do.
@blakerbro9603
@blakerbro9603 8 ай бұрын
Yeah as an ftm, I feel a lot of hostility within the lgbtq community and woke allies simply for being masculine, passing, and living my life. But also by conservatives for existing. I have decided to just tune out the noise and focus on improving myself, working, getting my degree, and doing what makes me happy
@caftood
@caftood 8 ай бұрын
That's genuinely terrible what you're doing
@PrinceJayMoriarty
@PrinceJayMoriarty 8 ай бұрын
I feel you. Glad to know other ftms watch this channel and live the best life they can
@blakerbro9603
@blakerbro9603 8 ай бұрын
@@caftood lol being masculine? Yeah people in the community genuinely do make backhanded remarks about it but I'm just gonna keep on living
@garrettdecker5325
@garrettdecker5325 8 ай бұрын
Alpha I appreciate you showing your passion for this and demonstrating your values for your channels and values. I’ve always looked up to you as a role model!
@paytongreen13
@paytongreen13 8 ай бұрын
I totally Agree Aaron!! The way things are in society nowadays are getting worse and so out of hand. It can’t just be hard being a man it’s hard for everybody no matter if you’re a man or woman so hard to live in the world we do. Glad you’re still on here brother❤️
@princeThomas1
@princeThomas1 8 ай бұрын
I am a bisexual man, and I have a wonderful partner she is awesome, and I do t care about gender or transgender or sexuality or race or religion. To me I don’t oppress anyone I try and encourage people not hold them down or back. I’m not ashamed of being a man, I just wish that people settle down and just learn to respect others.
@VaporSynth
@VaporSynth 8 ай бұрын
Real
@taylormade9843
@taylormade9843 8 ай бұрын
Out of all the crap I’ve seen on KZbin as a 90s kid who was raised to work hard, respect people, be honest but not to let anyone mess with me or those I care for, to stand up for what I believe in, who is comfortable as a man I have to say alpha m is one of the best role models for younger men. I look at the world my feed certain jobs etc sometimes and wonder. Alpha m. has always been a awesome dude in my book though. Well said and a message so many should hear. If you’re a young man and wanna give your attention to something I’d recommend this guy!
@User-yi1nt
@User-yi1nt 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that! There was a point when I belived I am the only one person who thinks these, but thankfully I was wrong. And another thing: Wolves does not care about dog's barking. They hate us because we are stronger than them.
@lerak8452
@lerak8452 8 ай бұрын
I'm not ashamed for being a man and will continue on my journey. I will still kickass and be a gentleman.
@aceblaneescabusa5371
@aceblaneescabusa5371 8 ай бұрын
You're still among the inspirations I rarely listened to, Alpha M! Please bring back the Alpha M Academy outfit challenges that you did since before or within the pandemic. Ty!
@VINTAGE1959
@VINTAGE1959 8 ай бұрын
Yes! Alpha you finally said the magic words. Lol. I've been waiting for you to address all this nonsense for years now. It's all very true. Great advice. I personally am a moderate conservative, but wokism has gone too far. Men should not be afraid to be men.
@SovaConsulting
@SovaConsulting 8 ай бұрын
Society has tried to break the male but it will not happen to me. I’m not ashamed of who I am.
@HawkeyeW1776
@HawkeyeW1776 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Alpha for all that you do for us men and all your advice.
@OnlyTimefps9
@OnlyTimefps9 8 ай бұрын
I’ve been following you for almost 8 years now. You’re the reason why I’ve gone in full style at the time. And after this, you have officially earned my MAX respect!!! Go Alpha. God bless your my friend 🙏❤
@Knowherelse
@Knowherelse 8 ай бұрын
The irony in this video is that you are only successful and your channel exists because modern women are so difficult and hard to keep and maintain. Because the bar is so high. I am all for taking accountability and becoming the best version of oneself, but where are all of the videos telling women that they also need to improve? Why are there only videos telling men that they are the problem? 😂 Where is this conversation? No matter how good of a man you become, or how successful, or how good looking you are, there are mostly only low quality women to choose from today. Why are we all paying a premium price (better selves) for low quality products? What is the answer? 😂
@5PECTER2025
@5PECTER2025 8 ай бұрын
As someone that has been growing up in this times, I know how hard it can be to be a men in this mentality these days, I am extremely greatfull to alpha M, I still remember when I first found this channel on my other account when I was 13 14, this channel made me grow so much as a person and as a man, it provided me with knowledge that I only thought of but not confirmed it, im truly thankful, and I'm now also on my way to starting my own business as well, although I work for the time being on a 9 to 5 type of job, im still on the process of breaking these chains that hold me, thank you for all your guidance all these years, It may sound cringe in today's perspective, but i truly am thankful for everything😢
@cosmonauthal7651
@cosmonauthal7651 8 ай бұрын
Annnnnnnnd here comes the political shift in the channel. The thirteenth “I’m quitting KZbin” didn’t get enough attention. Can’t wait for it, grifter M. Oh make sure you buy his course.
@zacheysflip859
@zacheysflip859 8 ай бұрын
Glad this guy exists he has so much good advice like this
@duku9919
@duku9919 6 ай бұрын
Tsk, here's the thing. You say manosphere and how they look at women is bad, but you also have videos on psychological tricks(example - the 7 tricks video). I would argue that having the outlook on women when you see them as psychologically pliable and look to employ playing psychological games with her to get her to notice you or attached to you, is at the core of the kind of radical outlook on women you see in the manosphere. Obviously. You can't look at people that way and at the same time respect them. I will tell you to look at Courtney Ryan's reaction video to your 7 tricks video i talked about above and see how, in that comment section, so many men that claim to follow you are espousing the view point that you *have* to play games to get women to notice you. That kind of mindset is simply not compatible with having a positive outlook on women. If you’ve reached the conclusion that manosphere is toxic, maybe you should also check back to things you say and notice the trend of men online looking to learn machiavellian tricks to get women and whether they also drew inspiration from you.
@goat2503
@goat2503 8 ай бұрын
I was born in the mid 80s in Australia, I was raised to respect others and their choices as long as other people weren’t being treated poorly, and to always look to find what unites us, not what separates us and I couldn’t agree more with your take on this crazy world right now, extreme views on both sides of the fence is doing nothing to help our society, let’s do our best as human beings to shut out the nonsense and focus on the things that make us strong, functional, helpful, kind and respectful. I think many of your viewers will benefit greatly from taking this straight down the centre approach to life. Have been watching your videos since a facial hair trimming video you released in 2012 😂Great to see your hitting home with straight forward helpful advice to keep people in check, top video mate, cheers.
@LKMNOP
@LKMNOP 8 ай бұрын
I was with you at the beginning until you dragged walk into the conversation. Woke has a certain meaning that everybody is making broader and broader and broader. And therefore diluting what it really means. And let's face it, there's different definitions of what masculine is. Some of it is cultural and some of it is personal.
@jrxlife
@jrxlife 8 ай бұрын
I first saw your channel when I was around 14/15. At 22 seeing this video pop up after seeing your podcast on don’t be sour pop up on my recommended made me happy. Thanks for all the help during the years man.
@joseborrero6883
@joseborrero6883 8 ай бұрын
Going thru a heartbreak rn, and I was wondering if I could get some help, I workout but I js feel numb 24/7 and I got left bc I cared, but I js didn’t know how to express myself, js feel bottled up all the time with my emotions 🤷🏼
@ElectricArcher
@ElectricArcher 8 ай бұрын
It's kind of something you just need to go through tbh at least from my experience, it goes away eventually but it can possibly take a couple of years...everyone is different.
@johnjay1147
@johnjay1147 8 ай бұрын
Lift, read The Rational Male, and spin plates.
@Spasanchezzz02
@Spasanchezzz02 8 ай бұрын
The pain will go away but now that you have it use it to drive you and to power your way through it. Stay mad stay strong and stay optimistic. Tell god that you will make it. He will give it to you. Find some friends and family that has morals and values respect them and build yourself up.
@israelguerrero8253
@israelguerrero8253 8 ай бұрын
EXACTLY "ALPHA" I STOPPED LISTENING TO INCLINATIONS OR TRASH TALKING PEOPLE BECAUSE IF THE TRASH TALKERS ARE ANGRY WITH SOME PEOPLE,WEL NOT ME,AND FOR THE INCLINATIONS,I WILL MAKE MY OWN OPINIONS AND I DON'T NEED PEOPLE TO TELL ME HOW TO THINK,I JUST NEED SOMEBODY TO TALK TO, I HAVE SOMEBODY NOW,SHE IS A PROFESIONAL BUT I SEE HER LIKE A REAL FRIEND IN A SENSE,I'M NOT SURE WHAT THE WOKE THING IS BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER GOTTEN INTO THAT, ALSO I DON'T LIKE ANY KIND OF EXTREMISM,AND YES I'M A MALE AND I AM AMAZING LIKE YOU "ALPHA AMIGO"!!🙂🙂👍👍
@rhadiem
@rhadiem 8 ай бұрын
Preach it brother. Was worried for a sec but my love for you just doubled.
@thebigomn2907
@thebigomn2907 8 ай бұрын
I'm guessing big brother must be shaking pretty bad cause men started to wake up and not play the rigged game. Just a question how much is big brother giving you for this??
@Mightyzinger1
@Mightyzinger1 8 ай бұрын
Take me back to the borat era where everyone was cool with all ideologies !!!
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
That has never been the case. Ever.
@Mightyzinger1
@Mightyzinger1 8 ай бұрын
@@Mr.Nyongo wasn’t being literal, but I mean if you look at this generation, everyone’s a snowflake! Be and let be!!!
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
@@Mightyzinger1 You think people are more offended now then before? "Snowflake"? Here's the thing. You have to look at what people are being "offended" about. You can't be dismissive at just people. Especially if their concern is justified. Only if they're bitching about bullshit.
@israelquito3072
@israelquito3072 6 ай бұрын
NOT RIGHT,I AM NOT AWESOME JUST FOR BEING AWESOME,I JUST HAVE TO CARE AND MAKE SACRIFICES!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
@JohnBrown-wr8co
@JohnBrown-wr8co 8 ай бұрын
Being born in 70s, and in Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿. No men talk to each other. Except to make fun of each other. Thanks brother ❤
@DArtagnanFurioso
@DArtagnanFurioso 8 ай бұрын
"Don't listen to these manosphere guys, they just want to suck your attention and money up! Instead enroll ìn my personal course" 😂😂😂
@akcland5349
@akcland5349 8 ай бұрын
The best advice here is to focus on yourself and don’t associate with the crazies. I’ve never felt unwelcome by this channel as a member of the rainbow mafia, and have always viewed Aaron’s content as a net positive for anyone who is male (of any sexuality). Aaron has even made a point to include trans-men in his sphere. In the world I come from that’s as progressive as anyone could ask for. Not everyone is going to share my opinion and that’s fine, but I think it’s important to give Aaron and his work the respect it deserves. He’s always made a point to include rather than exclude even before his channel & businesses grew. That spoke volumes to me then and continues to now. Just my 2 cents.
@thebigomn2907
@thebigomn2907 8 ай бұрын
To anyone talking down the manosphere I ask what are men suppose to do?? Get treated like shit by women by society by the major economic powers and by the law??
@TheRealSeeJ
@TheRealSeeJ 8 ай бұрын
Facts. Having to watch everything I say because it’s considered “toxic masculinity” is ridiculous
@lonewolfsurvival3453
@lonewolfsurvival3453 8 ай бұрын
Man, do not EVER negotiate who you are as a man. The problem is when men feel shamed about who they are and get sucked into trying to be something different, something more socially "acceptable". We cannot do that or we WILL be in BIG trouble. We have to stop caring about the masses and what those brainwashed sheep think of us and stay true to WHO WE ARE, as men. Throw away that mouth filter and speak your mind, don't ever let them control you. Letting those people silence you is weak and weak is not what we need in this country. We need strong, masculine men to rise up. All the weak men who succumb to the pressure of society will crumble away with the rest. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.
@Buildingexcellence11
@Buildingexcellence11 8 ай бұрын
Never walk on eggshells or compromise the man you are.
@Bunnybeast
@Bunnybeast 8 ай бұрын
Now I'm kind of curious what kind of things you want to say but don't.
@AgentFortyse7en
@AgentFortyse7en 8 ай бұрын
Great message here, don’t be sorry for being a man but don’t blame everything on women either and most importantly don’t waste time on social media and woke culture.
@rexpardus2924
@rexpardus2924 8 ай бұрын
Men…. We built the world!! Let’s not forget that
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
And look at how it's turned out in the last 30 years. And don't take credit for others people's accomplishments because you just do happen to have a dick. You didn't build anything.
@derdurchgepeitschte3200
@derdurchgepeitschte3200 8 ай бұрын
Yeah and woke ass people are about to destroy it
@notoriousmiks1927
@notoriousmiks1927 8 ай бұрын
And the whole world will also collapse within a week without men
@ScottMicale
@ScottMicale 8 ай бұрын
Aaron, I am so glad you spoke up about this! I am so tired of these nut jobs on the left trying to implement their crazy ways on society! I have 3 young men I am trying to raise and them seeing all this woke shit happening in the world really bothers me. I am up their ass every day pushing your videos on them about being respectable, taking care of yourself and being a hard working individual. All I want is to see them be a positive for society! Keep preaching brother!
@rickybrown1508
@rickybrown1508 8 ай бұрын
Alpha, is playing the 50, please don’t start pandering ,just don’t touch it bro
@alestevez950
@alestevez950 8 ай бұрын
Men aren’t being “attacked for being men”. It is the patriarchal social order that is being criticized along with toxic masculinity.
@Xalocin
@Xalocin 8 ай бұрын
Define patriarchal society and toxic masculinity please
@thebigomn2907
@thebigomn2907 8 ай бұрын
I will end by saying this we have checked out of your dystopian nightmare so please just let us be.
@Best_Buy_India
@Best_Buy_India 8 ай бұрын
Reject modernity Embrace masculinity
@mikeylejan8849
@mikeylejan8849 8 ай бұрын
The woke culture had made men go to the other crazy side of being like a bigot and misogynist. There should be a balance.
@kylehackett162
@kylehackett162 8 ай бұрын
Trump for president
@TrainingWithTyler
@TrainingWithTyler 8 ай бұрын
Quiet
@kylemacdougall8355
@kylemacdougall8355 8 ай бұрын
​@@TrainingWithTylerSo you're canceling him? Sounds like you missed the point of the video.
@xMckingwill
@xMckingwill 8 ай бұрын
Kool
@pcgameboy8407
@pcgameboy8407 8 ай бұрын
@@TrainingWithTylernever
@affeaff
@affeaff 8 ай бұрын
Marianne Williamson for president
@JGPIRL
@JGPIRL 7 ай бұрын
never in my wildest dreams I thought I would hear alpha m say the words "woke ass cancel culture" in that same order
@jjjacob4193
@jjjacob4193 8 ай бұрын
This is what I needed to hear in this messed up world ❤
@bl1zzard69
@bl1zzard69 8 ай бұрын
Another man SPEAKING UP.. SPEAKING OUT.. In a world of rising scarcity, another man speaking out is like discovering gold during the gold rush all over again. Thank you Alpha M
@lennymartelli5150
@lennymartelli5150 8 ай бұрын
I always say, don't be a nice person be a good man. Thank you for being a good man Aaron.
@thebigomn2907
@thebigomn2907 8 ай бұрын
Here we go Jesus I wanted so bad to like your video til you started talking down the manosphere.
@jonathanterrett
@jonathanterrett 8 ай бұрын
Agree with you about the woke culture it’s got out of hand! It’s tough being a man sometimes
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
What "woke" culture?? And how does make it hard to be a man??
@m.7877
@m.7877 8 ай бұрын
@@Mr.Nyongo ikr, I've literally never heard or seen anyone from the ''woke'' culture (whatever that means to them) to say ''you're bad cause you're a man'' lmao
@Mr.Nyongo
@Mr.Nyongo 8 ай бұрын
@@m.7877It was pathetic. Now it's getting scary at this point. The victimizers are acting like the victims. And worse they're trying to make everyone else pay for it. Their going after the "woke mob". Where the woke mob are just normal people just trying to get by and survive. I'm a man. I admit in the past I was a slightly misogynistic asshole. But I GREW UP, left grade school and went out into the real world. Those anti-woke folks live in total delusional where everybody is after them for calling out their lack of accountability.
@lazzy2012
@lazzy2012 6 ай бұрын
Men with balls is what the world needs. Not a Marlboro man per se, but men who have the guts and stand up.
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