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@sadiapsychology7 ай бұрын
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@tesla96655 ай бұрын
Whats your body count Sady?
@ytdufy6 ай бұрын
Well, I've seen the exact opposite: loyal women who were cheated on and fiercely loyal men whose women tended to look for something else or even did.
@paulcolin90716 ай бұрын
That would have been my instinct
@erinsylv20986 ай бұрын
Did the stay and accept it is the question here.
@ytdufy6 ай бұрын
@@erinsylv2098 Yes, the ones that broke up did it for different reasons.
@SabataPetrusMolefi-wf5su5 ай бұрын
All cheating incidents are demons driven, either man or woman if she or he does this, she must go to Church to undergo a process of exorcism, she will be completely delivered, but if we keep on fighting the things of the spirit with our own power, the abuser or a cheater will always have excuses of why she did what this nonsense, because no one has got power more than demons when entered one, My people perish because of lack of knowledge, so go to Church and get prayed for by the man of God, you will be delivered,if we don't do this,we will always blame each other until world comes to an end, Amen.
@cyrilriceball22945 ай бұрын
you hit nail on the head
@RealChillChina Жыл бұрын
Yes we do. That’s why I’m single I can’t continue to be with someone/ date someone who’s physically involved with other people.
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
Why? What exactly is the threat to you?
@user-ez4wy3xj9o7 ай бұрын
@@Polygyny I personally find it physically disgusting, you genuinely get icks thinking about it. If your ok if promiscuity dont get marries just cohabitate. Also, I think its interesting that men try to negotiate with women by saying that they will take care of your need but I will sleep around, except they dont realize that in todays day and age, women can provide that life for themelves so they expect even more better behaviour from men.
@dhirajkumargupta41517 ай бұрын
@@user-ez4wy3xj9oas a man I can say you are 💯 right
@nammi8956 ай бұрын
Is this really true, I didn't find a single women who doesn't have a past. They all are body count > 0 now & I have accepted it's the way women behave
@xmasx6 ай бұрын
@@user-ez4wy3xj9o Definitely! Plus the STDs. Why would I want to affect my health in that big way, only because my man is sleeping around. That's betrayal, That's paying the consecuences of something you didn't have anything to with. I just can't.
@solimine1007 Жыл бұрын
She's right. As a women i couldn't handle the Anxiety of my partner sleeping with somebody else.
@lucaciuandrei134711 ай бұрын
Because you are scared of competingg with other women that will be mor attractive, smarter and more capable than you. In todays world we must compete for what we want.
@Anonymous-yh4ol10 ай бұрын
It's called "Competition Anxiety"
@303machine10 ай бұрын
I bet it makes you excited, that your man is wanted by other women, and this "drama" makes you more attracted to your man.
@FurkanTopal9 ай бұрын
didnt she mean the anxiety of your having someone
@josepablolunasanchez12836 ай бұрын
Let us put it this way. A toilet is easy to clean, people are not. It may hurt to leave, but the alternative is to have a dirty toilet as partner.
@LNichole05226 ай бұрын
Kinda true… but some loyal women who tolerate cheating can have low self esteem/ some sort of dysfunctional background or given bad advice by older family members to just learn to live with it and it’ll eventually pass. I know that sounds unbelievable but it’s happened to several women I know… I agree with this video in saying that I would have too much anxiety about it so I couldnt tolerate a cheater.
@selfdiscoverysupport6 ай бұрын
Exactly. This is the other alternative from what Ive seen. If a woman stays with cheating you are dealing with a deeply insecure OR damaged woman which is still not going to work out for your children and home life.
@erinsylv20986 ай бұрын
The ones with low self esteem are especially dangerous because when you cheat, you further damage that low self esteem so they will most likely get someone to boast that ego. And the same family members that advise women to stay with cheating men also advise them to get side dudes and keep it in the low.
@FLORIDAMANIAM-he2lz6 ай бұрын
You dont seem to realize the key word in self esteem .
@maggielinea3 ай бұрын
Yep happened to me. Was cheated on and I never ever cheated or flirted with another man but didn't leave because I was scared, had been gaslit that I'd never find anyone else and that it was normal for men to cheat and I had very low self esteem. Still never cheated.
@kimkitty3914 Жыл бұрын
100% true !!!!!! 😂😂😂 if the woman is there more for the money than for emotional investment, she is totally cheating on his back using his wallet 💳 and not telling anybody 😅
@idk-imacat Жыл бұрын
This is wrong. Yes cheating women will accept it. But also women with severely low self esteem with a traumatic background will accept it as well. And that doesn't mean they'll also cheat, they just think thats all they deserve.
@Deb_deCoder Жыл бұрын
most wymn have relationship with men for money.. so ther is no difference between cheating accepting and not accepting wymn.. wymn truly love their children, not men
@tr1707 Жыл бұрын
If you want to cheat, go ahead and devalue yourself. As for me, I'm going to stay loyal and find a better woman than you.
@kimkitty3914 Жыл бұрын
@@tr1707 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t even know you. I’m just saying what usually those women do.
@catstanbul8903 Жыл бұрын
@@tr1707Awww, hahaha, now men cry when facts hit hard :DD
@cawlsy6 ай бұрын
Those men need to have a looooooooot of money. I’ve seen those men that “buy” mistresses, and those mistresses “buy” their younger boyfriends. Some people want it all, but the reality is that’s impossible.
@DanielJesusObsessedFit6 ай бұрын
Yup had a girl my age in university who was wealthy , didnt know it was because is the man she introduced as her cousin that she lived with. I think they had a open relationship and this girl was trying to buy my love. I was naive back then and thought they were really cousins because the guy took us out places, etc. I didnt realise until couple months after stopping the friendship because i found out she was lying about other things.
@itzapeezacake5804 ай бұрын
Wrong
@agbokskester97085 ай бұрын
The problem is that most women will take finance over anything.
@d-rock74895 ай бұрын
Cheating women will assume that the man cheats also. If you're a loyal guy you may as well cheat as the cheating woman will assume and treat you like you are cheating already. That's been my experience
@voiceinthedesert1536 ай бұрын
Interesting 🤔. In my experience, the reason for why women put up with cheating is because they can’t find or believe to find someone better.
@jus32789 ай бұрын
😂 this isn't necessarily true. I've had women in my life who have wanted only me while giving me permission to have multiple women and then women who pretend to want monogamy all while wanting other men.
@axolotl_5027 ай бұрын
That sounds disgusting...
@Yay-hovah6 ай бұрын
Yes! When a woman really likes you she will tolerate you being with other women. Those women only cheat when that is who they are in the first place or when they feel neglected.
@laminsillah59996 ай бұрын
@@axolotl_502How ? Talk of perks
@zacharyball80096 ай бұрын
The same for me. I have been in a one-sided open relationships.
@rainbows52326 ай бұрын
she didnt love you enough then, if she truly loves you she wont be able to stand having you with other women. that wasnt love
@MrMogeWszystko6 ай бұрын
When the money is right, she will agree to anything.
@janisemills16 ай бұрын
Not true
@koketsoriba17685 ай бұрын
Never!
@suzanneaubin75995 ай бұрын
Absolutely not!
@steen2754 ай бұрын
@@suzanneaubin7599 Women are making society polygamous. Then complain when the men they're banging have 8 other girls a small pool of men are pumping and dumping girls left right and center but not commiting. Then they want the average man after they have spend their most fertile years and racked up a body count.
@kingkiller53253 ай бұрын
Yeah. Like divorcing you and taking half your shit. And I wouldn't blame her.
@Yay-hovah6 ай бұрын
There is an important distinction that isn’t being made: If you tell your woman that you plan to sleep with other women - YOU ARE NOT CHEATING. To cheat means to deceive in order to gain an advantage. Words matter! Any woman that accepts a man who tells her upfront that he will sleep with other women cannot turn around and accuse him of cheating.
@SR777366 ай бұрын
🤔🧐
@marquisd.48676 ай бұрын
Facts!
@erinsylv20986 ай бұрын
And why would she accept this deal IG giving 100% while getting 20% at best?
@Yay-hovah6 ай бұрын
@@erinsylv2098 Because they think the guy is their best option and they’d rather share him than date down.
@bzb85546 ай бұрын
@@erinsylv2098 you don't know what the word "IF" means?
@Nah-ah Жыл бұрын
I’ve said this for the longest of times and always get pushback.
@marquisd.48676 ай бұрын
Because it’s bull sh*t
@Laoriginal718Ай бұрын
Because as logical as men claim to be they are not.
@Florita1116 ай бұрын
As a therapist who gets to listen to people share information they don’t share with anyone else, she’s absolutely right.
@marquisd.48676 ай бұрын
No she isn’t. With my life experience I know women who won’t put up with a cheating man but will cheat from time to time when going out with their slutty friends on girls nights out. It’s weird but it’s the way lots of women operate out here nowadays
@Buleye6 ай бұрын
But as a therapist aren’t you by definition only hearing from women with problems? It’s like saying no one should drive to work because every day on 6 o’clock news you hear about some horrific car accident. The problem is you never hear about the person who manages to drive to work and back without incident.
@Florita1116 ай бұрын
@@BuleyeI’m hearing from women who have experienced exactly what she described. They’ve been cheated on.
@Buleye6 ай бұрын
@@Florita111I get that. I’m simply making the point that she’s a therapist making a generalization about women based on the women who come to her for therapy. That would be like me saying everyone loves chocolate cake, chocolate cake is universal…based on the conversations I have with people who come to my bakery. That population is a bit skewed…
@moimoi7074 Жыл бұрын
She is actually right, that’s exactly the case, I know many women who are married with very rich men and of course those men cheat because women are literally jumping on them from every corner in hope of nice lifestyle and money. So what their wives do, they start to realize that there is a possibility for that male to leave the family and she starts to cash him out as insane, she asks him to buy her houses all over the world on her name, pay the future education of the children and starts to actively look for new men like crazy, because in her head she has already divorced him, also she starts to sabotage him, overfeed him so he gets fat, dress him like a shit and act this passive agressive thing, she gets head aches all the time, gets “terribly sick”, leaves her children on him, while acting the dumbest little dog pet.
@brianna094 Жыл бұрын
That's insane. I'm glad I like ugly and broke men 😂
@Drewchris Жыл бұрын
@@brianna094 you really like broke men? May I ask, you have a source of income yourself to compensate for the man being broke?
@brianna094 Жыл бұрын
@@Drewchris I was being partially facetious. I make $6k a month. I think I'll be alright 😉
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
A woman that acts like this is not worth marrying in the first place and more and more men are wising up 👍
@reallifetopicsrevealed72956 ай бұрын
@@brianna094The crazy thing is I did too at one time in real life. They were the fkng WORSE!!!
@cyrilu21465 ай бұрын
"...... when they are connected to each other, the shared goal is the children !!!" It can't be truer than this, from the point of experience !
@DanielaRosenrot6 ай бұрын
Good that she mentions the effect on the children. We should include that topic on childhood trauma, emotional neglect and parentification much more. Toxic marriages are not just damaging the adults but also the children. And how will these children behave when they are adults? Of course most likely just like their parents if they are still unaware of their unhealed trauma. :(
@andrewcarlson21786 ай бұрын
If you're going to shoulder the responsibility of having children, be loyal. End of story. If you can't be loyal if you can't imagine being with one person the rest of your life then don't have children with that person. Is one of the most Juvenile and irresponsible things that I can even imagine
@patienceobongo6 ай бұрын
Islam, 4 wives😊
@cherrylynn71733 ай бұрын
I just can’t see how someone has the energy of time to be with multiple women. It seems exhausting
@kirkdarling4120Ай бұрын
It's not possible for the great majority of men.
@GBU61 Жыл бұрын
Women are only as loyal as their options especially in a world where she is getting constant attention from other men. The only weapon a man has is indifference which does not allow for him to completely commit but when the alternate is she can destroy his spirit and livelihood…
@Tisha7506 ай бұрын
Speak for your self, there are women with plenty of options that stay loyal not only because of their partner but loyal to their own personal convictions, their morals and ethics.
@deepalil10856 ай бұрын
Women have million options. Men surround beautiful women like bees . Stop using analogy for men on women.
@lloydwalden40536 ай бұрын
@@deepalil1085Older women have fewer options. And single Mums even less.🙏✝️ 🇬🇧
@xmasx6 ай бұрын
That's not true. I am considered and extremely beautiful woman and everyone asks me out everyday like every day I get invited to go out for like 10 different men, always trying to be with me, always trying to talk to me and blah blah blah blah blah... And it gets so old, like there's nothing special about it and it gets actually annoying. I never go out with any of them because I just don't feel connected or attracted or something deep with any of them. And I am just looking for some deep connection. I am almost always single because I just don't find a deep connection with someone. I don't have s3 x with anyone or anything like that. So... Don't worry, loyal women, we Exist more than you can believe. Women and men are very different. If men got all this options, they would be going out with absolutely everyone; women are like: it doesn't matter that we got plenty options, if we just don't feel this interest in someone, we just don't give a f that everyone is going to ask us out. Loyal women are like that. ❤
@stevem57876 ай бұрын
That only works if you're a top 1% guy over 6'3. Otherwise, they don't give a F. If they're not interested, they're not interested. Your indifference must include a lot of women that like you to form a competition arena otherwise, your indifference is exactly what they want to avoid a restraining order.
@tooneov15 күн бұрын
The reason I don't agree is that there are a lot of women who will happily share a man if they find him high value enough. As long as they know who the others are and they approve of them. That whole enm thing.
@the-seed-sower76114 күн бұрын
Exactly. This woman talking out her ass
@Apopateus6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, totally wrong. Atm I'm dating two women who are in a relationship with very good guys. I have been very clear from the begining that I consider monogamy as misery so they both know that I see multiple women. I offer them anxiety and they keep coming to me while cheating on their boyfriends.
@malakiaelind6211 ай бұрын
I agree with many things Sadia says. On this one, I differ a bit when she says. Only disloyal women forgive their cheating man. The trend is different, especially with cultural differences. Especially in Africa, you parents are the one who will not just accept a woman to divorce, just because the husband cheats. The question will be, why are you leaving your man because of cheating to find an angel on this earth. Don't be embarrassed, as with that kind of behaviour, go back to your husband and fix things. This normally happens because the culture is still linked to the polygamy trend before Christianity was introduced in the continent.
@dhirajkumargupta41517 ай бұрын
I feel sorry if you feel your ancestors before Christianity were not loyal to each other.
@crimson61726 ай бұрын
That's only because her survival is literally tied to her cheating husband so she has no other choice. That's the only time polygamy is ever tolerable, it's when your survival literally depends on it. That was how humans operate during the hunter-gatherer era so there is some biological programming within us on tolerating this under that particular condition. In today's era, it becomes a life of swallowing up your anxiety and jealousy for that financial gain. You can decide for yourself if it's worth it.
@laminsillah59996 ай бұрын
@@dhirajkumargupta4151Polygamy is widely accepted in neaely in all societies before this selfish and greedy modern era. Yet people were still loyal.
@celiajames6006 ай бұрын
I'm African, I can tell you in most polygamous marriages there is no loyalty and there's plenty of cheating on each other & complaints of unmet needs since the husband is hardly ever able to meet all the women's needs. Polygamy was the driver of high HIV rates in my country. @@laminsillah5999
@dhirajkumargupta41516 ай бұрын
@@laminsillah5999 acceptance is different but morality is different, people eat dogs in china but in western countries it is not ok similarly beef is eaten in many countries but in India it is not ok, so acceptance in one society does not make it morally ok.
@DaniiMarie33310 ай бұрын
This is 100% INCORRECT. I promise
@MenFallSilent6 ай бұрын
could you explain?
@Jonbwriter6 ай бұрын
Prove it
@amz_news6 ай бұрын
You cant handle truth
@timesize6 ай бұрын
What she meant to say was, be prepared for women to do that regardless, and it’ll be you that suffers.. whether or not there’s children
@alejandrobustamante79646 ай бұрын
Women share a wealthy man…it’s SO simple, since ancient times it’s been this way.
@martinmwebesa5 ай бұрын
True, Andrew talks about it all the time; money and fame. As long as you are the prize in those two spheres money or fame, you will have loyal ones. None of them will want to be left so they do all that is to keep you. Including their loyalty..
@ishratjahan86272 ай бұрын
@@martinmwebesaloyalty is out of question, it is statistically proven women of rich men cheats more then women whose husbands are middle class
@ishratjahan86272 ай бұрын
Yes thats why the wives of rich men cheating is also an old tale Do you know historically how many queen had lovers, women are so much better in hiding cheating than men. Most women take their infidelity to their graves. So if you cheat on your wife and she puts up with it just know she will get her emotional needs fulfilled from somewhere else. Emotional cheating is very common in women than in men Bcs women tends to prioritize emotions then physical needs unlike men
@veronicabuller5371Ай бұрын
@@martinmwebesathey aren’t loyal to the man tho. It’s the wealth so if someone else comes along that has more that’s where the loyalty will go.
@mademoiselledelaforet6789Ай бұрын
Sharing a rich man is not the same as being loyal to rich man.
@mlggamer52966 ай бұрын
I barely got into this but I completely agree "women who accept cheating are cheating women but those who don't are loyal" FACTS
@justinengland98146 ай бұрын
Based off what 'facts'?
@justinwarren82226 ай бұрын
Those ain’t no facts 😂, all women cheat. Y’all are square so you only think of cheating as having sex with another man but women cheat in many other ways. Cheating is taking a short cut to win and that used wet hole ain’t no prize. When she steals your credit card to get that purse she wants it’s cheating, lying is cheating, talking to her work boyfriend for emotional support and I could go on and on. I’m a great man and I’m the prize, I tell all of my women about each other i don’t lie and I let them know what my rules are but most dudes don’t have the nuts to do this. I can’t cheat, but she can and they all do, if you let them and most men do because they’re simpsons I don’t even listen to a woman’s emotional b.s. Even if she doesn’t accept my rules she may marry you she will come cheat with me, be in love with me and tell me the truth while she lies to you.
@benziongoldsmith73886 ай бұрын
not necessarily there is certain kind of woman with low or negative self-esteem. if they get into a relationship with man and he doesn't cheat on her or treats her badly they feel as if he doesn't see her for who she is, as if he is just acting nice to use her and he is both desperate & delusional. in fact being loyal and nice to this kind of woman makes her cheat. (and they feel that if other woman are choosing you then they are right in also choosing you and they also feel that your corruption is confidence and that since you demonstrate that you can get other woman throughout your relationship you are not with her to trick her or out of desperation.)(they are not loyal but can be loyal situationally ) there is also a kind of woman that cheat but don't accept you doing it, entitled woman that don't love you but feel as if you are theirs.
@DahliaBrynn11 ай бұрын
My stbx decided he wanted a second wife. I was always loyal (never good enough for him though). We had 9 kids. He had a second wife with 4 kids. I stayed because he manipulated me into agreeing and twisted scripture to support his choice. I stayed. She cheated on him. And then I had a year of him complaining about her but not letting her leave, while he got even nastier towards me. I finally left him, and now he's twisting the adult kids that stayed, against me. I'm not doing that with the kids that came with me, im encouraging them to call him (he hasn't called them once), and trying to keep in touch with the others. I didn’t stay for any money, I stayed because I stupidly thought it was the right thing to do. I never wanted any part of his harem.
@JmGmail10 ай бұрын
So per Sadia you are the disloyal and unfaithful because you accepted the cheating spouse. Heheheh Sadia is a nutcase probably super jealous of the wife of the man she is trying to trap.
@303machine10 ай бұрын
You liked him and stayed with him because he already had kids with other woman. This is called preselection. You considered him as good seed material. You manipulated yourself. But I did not expect from you to be objective as a woman. So you are "victim". He used magic power and you did not had other options but choose him. Look in the mirror.
@DahliaBrynn10 ай бұрын
@@303machine no, he had kids after. I stayed because he threatened me, and I wasn't going to walk away and leave them alone with him
@mouradm.87729 ай бұрын
@@DahliaBrynnwhat is your nationality ? Where do you live ?
@DahliaBrynn9 ай бұрын
@@mouradm.8772 I'm in America, no nationality that normalizes polygamy. He just thinks with his pants
@stevemiller88955 ай бұрын
In a polgynist culture men are the prize and respect is sustained and through competition women are satisfied, for instead of women competing against their husband they compete against the other women gaining the favor of the husband, thus all marriages via mutual love and respect is sustained and venorated. As all the women revere the husband! As it should be, as self sustaining family unit, true community husband and wives, aunts and sons and daughters brothers and sisters. This type of culture cannot exist in western civ. Nations.
@timesize6 ай бұрын
That sounds cute. But my ex prattled on about her biggest fear being being cheated on, while she was as unfaithful as they come
@SZUSEast16 ай бұрын
Shes right on this one. You cheat on tour girl, she might atay and be loyal to you for NOW, but BEST BELIEVE she will get her revenge down the road, she just dont know it yet! Somebody like me come around and its game over.
@stevemiller88955 ай бұрын
She can't handle it in the western civilized mentality. But in any polygynist culture would not say that the husband is cheating, therefore he would not be vilified as such.
@drvren030 Жыл бұрын
This is something that applies to Bollywood too. The bollywood couples are hyped up as if they're auspicious, god like pure couples lmao but infidelity is all over the place there.
@JmGmail10 ай бұрын
Why would Bollywood be any different than rest of the world? Or are you insinuating Sadia was the other woman in Bollywood? But I though she was a paki or Brit or from Dubai. Whatever
@deepalil10856 ай бұрын
People should understand entertainers were never role models.
@Most6eminiever6 ай бұрын
Cheating is fcked up & I believe cheaters deserve no love & should be subjected to being cheated on as well 4L fr on some 👁️ 4 an 👁️.
@ktsgrin73Ай бұрын
💯 😂....I stayed for the financial comfortablity that me & my children had & i felt we deserved. & I stayed because I would cheat, too.
@anumaltaf11 ай бұрын
This isnt true. Ive been with someone who cheated n i stayed because i believed in my love and i thought it could get better.
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
A man taking other women is not "cheating" - if the man is doing his role (shelter, food, sex) then he is not cheating - a woman and a man cheating is not the same and that is what modern society has got wrong (including the psychologist in the video) and women refuse to accept that men are design to be polygynous and love differently than women
@mandarapuchandini26946 ай бұрын
@@Polygynyif so by ur logic, providing food shelter and sex is ur love then providing just those material things is her love and u don't have the right to ask for love as it is clearly said u can't force someone to love u
@sarahalderman312611 ай бұрын
Exactly. I know this is 100% the truth for myself any way.
@JohnDoesItAll3 ай бұрын
I was love bombed and one of the things she said is that she's ok if I cheat. What I heard was, "I'm going to cheat." She gave away so many red flags without knowing.
@fatherhood_matters6 ай бұрын
If women wants to revenge with cheating leave her, she'll realised that it rains everywhere and she'll be forced to settle down sooner or later, when the wall approaches
@ishratjahan86272 ай бұрын
The point is cheating husband are busy with their own cheating to see and realize that the wife is also cheating and women are really clever in hiding because when women cheats they can act still the same way and usually men who are emotionally invested in women can notice the subtle change in their behavior So if you think that only you are gonna cheat but not your women you are being delusional 😂 And another thing women can handle being single mothers far better than men a woman would rather be single the rest of her life and live with cats instead of cheating men and I'm telling you this as a woman if I can live on my own can earn my own living even if my lifestyle won't be the same I would rather divorce why do you think that all the recent royal families have divorces in compare to the older ones like come on don't be so naive and think that women are loyal to disloyal men
@markfennell11676 ай бұрын
Your premise is fundamentally flawed. You keep emphasizing the financial aspect of a man providing money for the woman. Those are not relationships. In that aspect, you are simply buying expensive prostitutes. There can be no relationship with a woman if you are providing her with any form of money. As soon as you provide a woman with any form of money, there is no such thing as a relationship. At that point, you can be assured that there is no love and that she does not want to you sexually. You cannot have a discussion about a man having multiple women partners, unless you emphasize that those multi women partners have no interest in their finances. A man truly has multiple women only when he has stipulated that he will never give any of them any money. At that point, you can talk about emotional intimacy the woman’s true desire for men sexually and all the wonderful pleasures of soul relationships. This is the truth.
@rereraira48636 ай бұрын
men want traditional wives but run when they har about traditional wife expensives. THE TRUTH IS; men go after beauty and women money. you are paying for her youth and company. if you cant do that, you dont desrve a relationship especially with a woman. go date men instead.
@albertomontoto77037 ай бұрын
Sadiah, u r my G. 😂 Love your channel and the wisdom you put out.
@te54016 ай бұрын
The assertions made in the video are significantly misleading. In relationships where the wife demonstrates respect, excels in motherhood, and maintains physical fitness, it's improbable that men, who fulfill their roles as responsible providers and commendable fathers, would engage in rampant infidelity. The premise oversimplifies complex human behaviors and neglects the multifaceted nature of relationships.
@Beast_Monarch10 ай бұрын
I would rather have 1 queen than 10 pawns(concubines) because having multiple woman is essentially that
@josepablolunasanchez12836 ай бұрын
I have one queen.
@Beast_Monarch6 ай бұрын
@@josepablolunasanchez1283 based😎🍻
@Xianne0275 ай бұрын
Well said! ❤
@redpepper3136 ай бұрын
So if a man stays faithful, all his household expenses will disappear? Can he stop paying the electric bill because now the house runs on emotion? 1:44
@ajays63936 ай бұрын
How does she go from having multiple partners straight to cheating? Is lying to someone the only possibility? What about being honest and having clear transparent communication like an adult? Relationships are outdated anyway but she just spoke her own mind without even asking, what a shame. What a wonderful opportunity this was for an open dialog.
@martinmwebesa5 ай бұрын
I don't think cheating is same as having official multiple partners either.
@RobertWord-kn6bm5 ай бұрын
even so she right. People in general are more capable of rationalizing themselves sleeping with someone else if they know they partner is. Open relationship on one end most the time opens on both ends. Its egoistic hubris to think that it isn't the most likely outcome. So she right people that will accept multi PARTNERS in general it makes the most sense that they themselves have something else going on or that they would jump at the opptunity of something presented right
@zeynand4039 Жыл бұрын
That's totally different from what Andrew tate and his guy friends are saying, that a man of status gets to cheat because he is up there. But they don't discuss who they are cheating on. And they all say they like the sweet girl. It's not the sweet girl they are cheating on, they marry her and cheat on the easy women in the club.
@sarahalderman312611 ай бұрын
If they’re cheating with the easy girl at the club, they’re also cheating on the wife at home.
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
A man taking another women is not "cheating" - if the man is doing his role (shelter, food, sex) then he is not cheating - a woman and a man cheating is not the same and that is what modern society has got wrong and women refuse to accept that men are design to be polygynous and love differently than women
@303machine10 ай бұрын
Women even cheats "chads".
@charlesflaco79766 ай бұрын
My sister in law is that type of woman that accepts that's she let's her husband sleep around with women with men she doesn't care as long as he comes home, he abuses her verbally and physically now, treats like crap and she adores him, she has a very low self esteem, kids are all ground up and married and she still won't leave him, to the point that her daughters think that's normal what men do because her husband too fool around go to cat houses and come back home like nothing and they accept that. It's a shame.
@lilcaldoverdeАй бұрын
Dont say you loyal and love a man if you’re not gon stay with him if he cheats
@Ashlux_Movement4 ай бұрын
Sadia is brilliant
@afgratlesnake14 күн бұрын
The problem here is the guy never asked her about cheating men, he said men who have multiple women which has been around since the beginning of time, it would not be cheating as they would be aware, perhaps married to multiple women which has always existed in the world. Those women will be loyal… we need a history fact check and this question reworded to get the correct answer.
@riddheshzaveri81036 ай бұрын
If you understand how our brain works, how we are evolved, what are our emotional needs and what are the actual priorities of a good healthy life, then you will also understand that dating - marrying and having children is not a joke..
@TrionicastАй бұрын
Considering so many are already Sworkers I don't think it matters anymore.
@saynotohookups2 ай бұрын
Sometimes a woman won't want their husband to sleep with anyone else but she will go out and sleep with all kinds of men. Men do this too.
@raefaulkner54975 ай бұрын
Spot on Sadia ❤
@mlggamer52966 ай бұрын
I've seen so many loyalty tests that proves what she's saying. if it's transactional relationship they'll put up with anything but when it's real they'll yell at them for being a cheater or just dump them. Don't get me started on those who cheatback. I've always said it they're just stooping to the same low as the cheater. If i heard i girl i liked did that, instant turn off cuz then she could easily cheat on me and i don't do anything
@Nzee20026 ай бұрын
Cheating women doesn't mean she sleep with someone else ,but she can also posionous his children against him and do his back bitting and make him little in eyes of everyone. This is also form of revenge
@adean76176 ай бұрын
Ohhh the beautiful Sadia, you got it wrong again. 🙄🙄 . Keep in mind that a man with one woman for the rest of his life is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT. Good men, are out numbered in EVERY group of people.
@rafaeln12896 ай бұрын
Amazing! Thanks for this.
@iulian6h2 ай бұрын
What you are describing in the video, are relationships - arranged marriages, with commitments, contractual, by no means a solid relationship of friendship. Why do these people involve children in their problems? They use children to blackmail the other partner. In any relationship, cheating means lying...To hide, To not recognize. Being attracted to someone else is natural. To recognize that he is still an important person for you in your life, it means that you assume. Lack of assume makes you a weak person. The partner's claim to report to him, to control you, limit your freedom, life, shows that he claims to be master of your feelings, body or life. - For the men who complain that women are looking for rich men, don't forget that societies are Patriarchates, generally led by men, they make the laws, and they have also kept women in inferior positions for thousands of years, without resources, or money...so they can own them.
@nelsonmejiaslozada93626 ай бұрын
Idk, i don't take advice from fish if i go fishing, i take advice from the fishermen.
@Leonard369C6 ай бұрын
Her answer is a scare tactic to keep men from cheating. While there are women who fit that description, it in no ways fits her implied generalization.
@catherineball75846 ай бұрын
You wish. Do you know how easy it is for women to get side dudes?
@Aaron-gc7pn6 ай бұрын
No woman is loyal to a faithful man! Do not listen to this woman!
@mesha0932 Жыл бұрын
Smart woman. Wow I’m subscribing now.
@asinh11006 ай бұрын
Never listen to a woman for reality of dynamix of male charm
@Anonymous-yh4ol10 ай бұрын
She's incorrect about everything except what she was describing the pain of women. That's called "Competition Anxiety". It's healthy for women to have it. It fuels a woman's loyalty because they have the best man she can get and is afraid to lose him. It's a check & balance for women. The Red Pill doesn't teach or push for men to cheat. The RP teaches that men are built & designed differently from women. One of those big differences is women are built & designed for one man & men are built & designed for multiple women. It's male nature. But, men have to earn it therefore deserve it. Even more, fight for it in a socially constructed society that works against the grain with men & male nature. Especially since we live in a gynocentric society. Where psychology is a pillar of society and is dominated, run, lead,... by women for women. Which is why the psychology therapy success rate for men is low and for women is high. For instance, this lady psychologist, whom by the way is biased. Since it's infiltration of feminism, liberalism,... and such supportive ideologies. Cheating is wrong no matter what. The Red Pill teach that you should and need to increase your value as a man enough to tell women up front what you want so you don't rely on the primal instincts of lying to survive. In this case procreating with multiple women.
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
A woman doesn't need to be afraid to lose a man if she is doing right by him. If she knows she doing right be him she doesn't need to fear losing him when he is getting involved with our women - men typically want multiple women and there is nothing wrong with that. The woman just needs to play her role on the team 👍
@Marwadear5129 ай бұрын
@@Polygyny It’s not simply being afraid of losing him. It’s being afraid of getting stuck in living a poor quality of life because of being in a relationship which makes us unhappy.
@rainbows52326 ай бұрын
no, we compete for men we want to keep, not share, if hes a shareable men then theres nothing to compete, he gets all, whats the competition here? youll just bounce and try to get another men, unless you only want money then you stay.
@Hanson0326 ай бұрын
Why do all these red pillers always have these opinions when they can't even get one girl in the first place?
@edwinmoya80425 ай бұрын
It's definitely better to have a lot of different experiences with different women, that's our natural drive. Being in committed relationships is where men really mess up.
@FolkesUnfettered6 ай бұрын
She's correct.
@superbackyardbreeder10846 ай бұрын
My woman doesn't even like the concept of me cheating.. i can't even lay my eyes to some women on the street, in the mall or any public places... I have to do tunnel vision if we walk on the street or in the mall because i am afraid if she think i am checking out women and it can cause us to fight.. But in the end she entertaind the flirtation in her dm And i have seen it because i know her social media password and she knows my social media password as well.. And after that when we had a cool off in our relationship she had multiple sex with some dudes.. And everytime i confronted her she denied it that she slept with those dudes. And she only admitted it when i showed her the proof and the pictures of the conversation with the dudes she slept with.. Then she beg for forgiveness and convincing me to stay and she will do better and me so stupid to believe it and forgiven her 3rd times.. But the 4th times i am done so done.. but i still see her time to time for sex reason.
@zacharyball80096 ай бұрын
Keep doing that. If she is gonna cheat, do you think she will tell you if she catches an STD or STI?
@reemaarif562117 күн бұрын
I agree with her to some extent, but not entirely. Some women just like the idea of their man being with other women.
@Useful676 ай бұрын
You can't just leave some time you have too much to lose or hurt your kids' emotional life It is not so easy lots of pain
@TheWindowsUniverse6 ай бұрын
I can confirm this is not true. I have seen countless cases otherwise.
@unica54885 күн бұрын
In my experience it could happen. The girl only fear she will face is that the guy may replace her with some other girl. If the guy know how to assure his girl and not always explain to her why this is normal, it can happen. Girls dont have a problem with that, the only problem is her fear of being left after loving her man. But we, men, if the girl only think of being with someone else or if we imagine this, we will see our girl like a demon. There is a lot of difference between men and women. And btw its not called cheating
@unica54885 күн бұрын
Oh and btw, the community we are living in that say one woman with one man is manipulating the girls mind to be affraid of her friends, family, coworkers, comunity etc... (who don't understand the reality of life) of seeing her weird. When she is convinced and understand all of this, her only 2 fears will be: the man leaving her for a better experience with another girl. And what people will say if they know what she is agreeing to.
@waggawaggaful3 ай бұрын
Of course all men want as many partners as they can get. It's just that some men are wise enough to know that they're lucky to get even one woman, while the rest are egotistical and delusional enough to think they have access to lots of women. A few men actually do have access to many women, but these men are few and far between. Men who are reasonable and humble are able to thrive in healthy relationships. The rest are doomed to toxic relationships because they will never feel satisfied with the woman they have since they think they're entitled to more and better.
@ellesantillan768710 ай бұрын
For me, the reason why I accept cheating men who provides is cuz we can’t really control anyone to do what they want with their lives. I don’t want to burden myself from other people’s mistakes. He cheated, he’s the one who’s wrong, why should I punish myself?
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
You don't need to punish yourself because a man taking on multiple women is not cheating unless he takes a woman that is with another man 👍
@user-tc7lm9yg3m10 ай бұрын
@@Polygyny A woman is not with another man unless she is married to him
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
@user-tc7lm9yg3m nope that's not how it works. This thing of whatever a man does a woman can do is getting boring. Never at any time in history has a marriage to a man been counted the same as a marriage to a woman - they aren't equal. Divorce lawyers prove that you A woman faithfulness is based on her exclusivity to one man at a time. A man's faithfulness is based on provision to his woman or women NOT exclusivity. This has been an unwritten and written rule since time began You can take it or leave but that's just how it is 👍
@303machine10 ай бұрын
Reason why you and many other women accept cheating men who provides is because of preselection., in other words men who are wanted by other women. Simple as that. Now make better excuse for your stupid decisions. You would not accept virgin male. So stop lying to yourself and others.
@diamondastar87348 ай бұрын
@@Polygynyin your little delusional world that might be the case. Reality is always a perception dude.
@CanYouHandleTheseSandals6 ай бұрын
Hell is bottomless
@mohzaher20005 ай бұрын
Exactly, this is very culture and traditions dependent. However, I agree that it has a direct impact on children. Of course I’m talking about committed relationships like multi-wife marriage (I’m sorry I don’t know the right English term).
@user-mz9vr6fl7e5 ай бұрын
It is not right to cheat time to get it right yall
@mohammadjatoi86626 ай бұрын
Sadia you CharLatan!
@geoffreybester79536 ай бұрын
My girlfriend cheats on me all the time, and gives me no sex, she is emotionally connected, I am the loyal one, but now the power game has shifted, I got income, and now I can cheat on her back.
@mariodopa33186 ай бұрын
They are all loyal until they are not
@modestonunez51646 ай бұрын
A woman is loyal to her emotions, not no man.
@galanoftaa64396 ай бұрын
Those women do exist. Just not in the western countries. Get a passport!
@We_Must_Resist6 ай бұрын
Very sensible and truthful.
@bobfg31306 ай бұрын
If she accepts cheating....she might cheat too.
@zinorhino55995 ай бұрын
Mark my words fellas , if a women is dependent on you like you bought her a car , house gave her money and everything and so on , you can do whatever tf you want they can’t leave you because it would mean they have to leave the Car ,House and money you are giving them for free . So they will stay because materialistic creatures don’t wanna loose materialistic things . oNg
@vam97855 ай бұрын
She’ll stay for the money but deep down u will disgust her
@i.canalista77186 ай бұрын
Women since the time of Adam men have always had multiple partners. This is how we have been created
@TheHumanGibbon4 ай бұрын
“Attention all men”
@dicemkhwebane16935 ай бұрын
The problem is we have more women than men.
@jennifersmykala11083 ай бұрын
its trash and trash is outside of my home.
@aditib92772 ай бұрын
Are we not going to talk about why women became immune to infidelity that’s all men got to offer off lately I’m 20 and I’ve accepted few things that’s either a man is involved with multiple women at a time (not particularly physically) as thay find it entertaining it’s as normal for men to talk to multiple women at a time while being committed in a serious relation as it is to maybe just watch a movie every night before bed it’s that simple. Women don’t have a choice at somepoint a women just compromises and weighs all her options and settles for maybe just respect and financial stability.
@kirkdarling4120Ай бұрын
The majority of men are _not_ involved with more than one woman. A large percentage of men in your age group, about 25%, are not and have _never_ been involved with any woman at all. There is only a small percentage of men in your age group involved with multiple women...but it's that small percentage that most women pay attention to. Even the women who are not involved with those few men are watching only those few men and thinking that what's true for those few men must be true for all men...which is what you're doing.
@alanelopez17053 ай бұрын
I'm gonna disagree with one thing said here. I don't think that the woman who is there for emotional and financial security, that is OK with cheating but who does not herself cheat, has ever existed. that's a myth.
@sosoc26167 ай бұрын
Stds make people suffer as well
@justinwarren82226 ай бұрын
She’s wrong, all women cheat. Even if it’s not sexually they cheat in many other ways and then when she wants to crush you totally she’ll cheat sexually and let you know. Cheating is taking a short cut to win and a woman ain’t no prize, but me as a great man I’m the prize and I let my women know about each other so how can I cheat, it’s her choice to be with me or not, just know my rules. I’m of value, 😻 isn’t tho
@justinwarren82222 ай бұрын
@Infimathy yea right
@M.SA9311 ай бұрын
In fact, a man who has multiple wives is less unfaithful than a man who is married to one woman. Likewise, a woman who marries a man who has multiple wives does not cheat. Most of the women who cheat are those who married a man who does not have multiple wives, because this is human nature since ancient times. The nature of women quickly gets bored with a relationship, so individual marriage is boring for women, the opposite. A man who has many wives, the husband will not be there for her for 24 hours. She will feel longing for him, and he will also feel longing for her. As for the women who say that this is not true, these people are out of nature. I cannot correct you because you see many clips that corrupt human nature. There are men who love to have multiple wives and are ready to be fair and more. Reasons why a man wants to have multiple wives. He wants to build a large family. This is the nature of a man
@lisa334111 ай бұрын
If your Men has more than one wife than beeing His wifes doesnt make you feel Special and you should BE Special for the Person you married to IT Breaks the deep Connection but Men dont Care about how their wifes feel some would even BE proud and See it as a sign of Love If she would kill herself because of him ..and then you Wonder that many Woman dont Care what Men wants or need..the only Thing Most Men Provide IS Money and that He will Punch a Men WHO try to Touch you But again Not because of the Woman and how she feels about that No they do it cause they wanna defend their proberty... honestly i truly believe that was more married Woman would commit suicid If they would Not have children or for religiös Reason cause they are scared to Go to hell forever...If one day Men could actually feel how their wifes feels when they get a second wife that would end Them...
@M.SA9311 ай бұрын
@@lisa3341 Who told you that men do not care about the feelings of their wives, this is a lie for women who are unsuccessful in relationships with their husbands. They told you, your fingers are not the same as each other. There are men who care about their wives, even if they are married more than one, and on the subject of suicide, women think about suicide but do not do it, but men who think about suicide they do it. The suicide rate of men is higher, of course, and the topic of interest, women care more about their feelings, they do not care about the feelings of their husbands, because it is the nature of a man not to share his feelings with their wives, and this is our nature, because we know that it does not concern you, so we accompany you with guidance.
@M.SA9311 ай бұрын
@@lisa3341 Leave the topic: You are special. The family is not build on love, it's build on affection, mercy, and respect, after months of marriage
@M.SA9311 ай бұрын
@@lisa3341 Of course, these are words from my experience. I am a man married to three wives, and our life is happy with my children and with them. Whenever I do not neglect their rights and respect them, how much they respect me. I also love them more when they complain less because they know that I want stability to build a family with them, and this depends on a man if he is wise and has a strong and intelligent personality. He can manage his family without problems
@Polygyny10 ай бұрын
This is a great factual breakdown. 👏 I salute 🫡
@garsonnaidoo4256 ай бұрын
When my wife aask me for divorce she said I can see other women and she doesn't mind and we were still married. So true, she was cheating on me
@Cujo56 ай бұрын
What about when the mothers/girlfriends know each other and are all as one group? Ie, father/husband with multiple wives all living together? This isn't cheating.
@ChaadFairservice200226 ай бұрын
^this. Breed them quick and be good to the women and children. Women are pathological (thus unstable). You have to be their foundation and put their silly fears to rest.
@devlinabhanja64403 ай бұрын
My last date who is divorced he told me about Sadiya Khan psychological videos ON OUR First date. He told ex wife cheated on him. Now I know he was dating multiple girls at a time. So I feel now he cheated on his wife and playing victim card. Because how can a broken person can break someone like this?
@kirkdarling4120Ай бұрын
You realize that a person who is dating is still single, right? "Dating" does not equal "married," nor does "dating" equal "commitment."