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@TommyWeb311 ай бұрын
“Every time we exercise self control, we gain self respect, and every time we gain self respect, we gain self esteem.” That rang so true. Nice one Sadia.
@patriceesela500010 ай бұрын
Amen
@fatgirlboy934110 ай бұрын
every time i exercise self control i end up kicking myself 😂
@Neoteny37410 ай бұрын
@@fatgirlboy9341Same. Still thinking of that hot Scottish girl I turned away from.
@fatgirlboy934110 ай бұрын
@@Neoteny374 amen 😂
@ggrthemostgodless871310 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@AnkushRattan11 ай бұрын
"A man that doesn't give into his impulses is the most free man in the world," is a brilliant commentary. If you are beholden to every desire or temptation, how truly free are you?
@tomjones533811 ай бұрын
I don't give in to temptation i live freely
@alvinsheczlek524311 ай бұрын
She literally is saying the same things Tate says. And she’s really spot on about modern dating psychology. But the part she’s shocked abt guys being traumatized abt approaching girls made me lose a little respect for her and tells me literally women have zero simple empathy for men. Like how do you not understand talking to strangers and risking complete embarassment and public rejection is hard? It doesn’t take male genitalia to understand bravery
@drewg744111 ай бұрын
@@alvinsheczlek5243 Great point.
@ultratunisiafallegua491711 ай бұрын
Give up into “HIS” impulses not other people’s grandiosity and narcissistic traits. A free man does what he wants without negatively impacting others and his own integrity
@RobertEdwinHouse911 ай бұрын
Just ignore your natural desires bro
@user-zc1rc1ey4w4 ай бұрын
Title is clickbait, just 2 people giving their thoughts on relationships
@lapx12 ай бұрын
2 perpetually single people giving advise on relationships 😂
@Giuseppe.StrengerАй бұрын
Exactly.
@Giuseppe.StrengerАй бұрын
@@lapx1well, she's a long-time married woman, though 😁
@SvakoDobroDaАй бұрын
@@lapx1 I can just imagine what happened post video shooting ^.^
@trigcat3107Ай бұрын
Thanks for saving my time
@caoboi02539 ай бұрын
Her answers are extremely intelligent I must say. The way he interrupted her but she still listened to what he has to say… that’s the next level of patience. And also when she took down the red pill theories and talked about self control really got me liked and subscribed this 100%
@SamareDoTelke7 күн бұрын
yes he interrupts a lot
@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT11 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why people in these younger generations don’t understand that the benefits of relationships come with sacrifices. You don’t get something for nothing!
@timothygrayson11 ай бұрын
I agree. Perhaps perceptions of a real man are based upon stereotypes modelled on gangsters and pimps . The media doesn't help when sex and violence sell and friendship and humility are ridiculed. Bullying in cyberspace is epidemic and good role models are feeling discounted. Perhaps people envision a world run by abusers who will bring affirmation to those who are insecure so require gangs to validate debasement. No doubt they will respond to this with threats but then that is democracy in the free world init. Lot of good folk out there but social media is dominated by abuse and violence. We need to grow and learn a new language where love is not a dirty word perhaps?
@naftab12311 ай бұрын
so true!
@Dipset41511 ай бұрын
Naw the younger generation is trickin and simpin and the women are using an abusing 😭not entering a relationship for the right reasons unless it’s a trade off your setting yourself up for failure 🤦🏿♂️
@keithgraham954711 ай бұрын
@@Dipset415Dude. Huge numbers of men have always simped, and huge numbers of women have always been golddiggers and monkey-branch at the drop of a hat. The only difference today is it is much more obvious and accelerated.
@toddjohnson27111 ай бұрын
Men have not changed.....women have broken the social contract.
@davidlawrence808511 ай бұрын
Sadia 4:56 The ultimate source of high value is self control . YES ! He said at 8:40 "You should do somthing that scares you every day" Sadia 14:35 ....The ppl that spend the most time in social media usually are'nt that happy.
@def642010 ай бұрын
Dont forget about God
@Laddesh10 ай бұрын
@@def6420 lol
@cindybesitos89332 ай бұрын
Lonely ppl are all over the internet
@JohnSmith-qq9jp2 ай бұрын
For men not to cheat, it's not just impulse control, it is placing a high value on commitments he has made and integrity.
@ohiomaohioma19318 ай бұрын
Self-control is true freedom. She's right absolutely 💯.
@sloebone739911 күн бұрын
Self control that benefits women is true freedom for a man… that sounds awfully convenient.
@ohiomaohioma193110 күн бұрын
@@sloebone7399 What exactly is your grouse with that? Your point being ... ?
@explained8864 Жыл бұрын
A high-value man can resist temporary desires for long term goals. Who can't respect that?
@philipsgodknows530811 ай бұрын
Yeah 👍
@ktfoent9 ай бұрын
Say that to my balls that need to be drained, I don’t believe in one partner anymore, the world screwed me over, I can’t unsee or unknow the things I know
@aronhighgrove41007 ай бұрын
@@ktfoent Even if you look for a fling, it still makes sense to choose wisely. See it as experimenting to build up your understanding of people (not to collect as many as possible), instead of using yourself and them. Different mindset, different outcome.
@ktfoent7 ай бұрын
@@aronhighgrove4100 that’s a good answer, thank you, something to think about
@ws6206Ай бұрын
@@aronhighgrove4100 This is actually very true. You can exercise discernment even in hook ups rather than just taking anything/everything that comes your way.
@richardcaulker101710 ай бұрын
Getting any woman you want is very easy. The secret is to train yourself to only want the ones who want you first. Read up about body language while you're at it. Being desired by a woman should be the only requirement that makes you even take a second look at her, then you can decide if you are attracted to her. No matter how beautiful she might be, if a woman isn't giving you the right body language signals, just don't waste your time with her.
@303machine10 ай бұрын
For man it is not easy to get any woman you want, even those who check all the boxes female desire. For woman is very easy to get any man she wants, social media proves this, even bellow average get attention. Woman could be attracted to you one day, and cold to you second day. Some of them could be really into you, and this will be obvious.
@abhishakeprogramerdj416210 ай бұрын
yes
@viktorzet10 ай бұрын
Gold..my man you"ve spoken facts! Sad so many learn/accept that after going through lots of bs..perhaps that's the way for most...
@JamieGAdaire10 ай бұрын
Ekman
@robi631710 ай бұрын
only wanting the women that want you first IS NOT getting any woman you want. its getting any woman you can get. so your options stay the same...
@sadiapsychology5 ай бұрын
Hi guys for all my exclusive content, and the ability to ask me any question see my patreon www.patreon.com/Sadiapsychology One to one sessions see link in bio
@letterfretter90009 ай бұрын
I met my woman one year ago when i was broke and homles. One year later i have my dream job (working with the youth of the street) i have my home, i al a artist and my art is better and better and slowly i start Selling my art pierces. I start from Rock bottom and she is still on my side. It is a challence because she is high class but because of her i find more and more the best version of myself. I thank God for her.
@sigmaserbian893 ай бұрын
This is miracle.
@t.f.629711 ай бұрын
"Pick correctly" ❤ selection is everything ❤ don't choose chaos then get angry cause its chaos, just choose peace.
@kingsleyyofori10 ай бұрын
Wow!
@Jacktherippler19 ай бұрын
Less will understand but would help the world so much. I wonder how woman pick
@jamesredman12637 ай бұрын
People seldom reveal who they really are until they have a commitment
@andrewgora3672 Жыл бұрын
A 1% woman is a attractive grown woman who is a virgin or a body count of 1 ! She dresses modestly and doesn't advertise herself on social media. That type of woman all heterosexual men would respect and other women would try to put down and smear- because she is what they aren't and will never be !
@mobiusinversion Жыл бұрын
Truth
@charlesh81711 ай бұрын
Fact
@toddjohnson27111 ай бұрын
How many exist?....really. FEW, not enough for a working society. Women are mostly promiscuous.
@jules51549 ай бұрын
bravo !!
@litdamenace9 ай бұрын
Waiting on the angry Karen who thinks shes a 1% with kids and multiple baby daddies to comment here. 😂😂
@paythecreator43178 ай бұрын
Wow Sadia, you are such a good role model. Keep being true to yourself and the relationships you appreciate having.
@HammadNajamАй бұрын
Sadia You're Love. You Talk Sense and purely, Thank you for saying things that weren't talked about before.
@MonkeyB59 ай бұрын
The self control bit was the most powerful and important segment and should be shared like CRAZY
@drzar827510 ай бұрын
Unity is what every successful relationship has in common. Going way on trips with your friends while you are married could lead to a breakdown of the Unity. 😎
@jordankrenek6 ай бұрын
This was so good, and so pointed, it’s insane.
@user-mq7bs9bl7p9 ай бұрын
The search for a faithful woman is a daunting one, indeed. For such a woman is a rare and precious gem, one that is worth more than all the gold in the world. She is a woman of virtue and integrity, who is committed to her partner and her vows. She is a woman of strength and resilience, who will stand by her partner through thick and thin. She is a woman of love and compassion, who will always put her partner's needs first. If you are fortunate enough to find a faithful woman, cherish her. She is a gift beyond compare.
@ark1945 ай бұрын
Hearing this man is refreshing
@JPHET379 ай бұрын
I once asked a coworker what kind men she was into . She wanted man who can make her laugh and handy man who can fixed things around the house . I told her get a clown on the left side of your bed and a plumber on the right side of your bed , hahaha that was a good one she said 😂😊
@brutus81234 ай бұрын
Beautiful Sadia! This video is a good example of what women say vs. what they will actually do
@Matt_EssamАй бұрын
I am so glad I found this podcast, wow. So many golden nuggets in here. Also great to hear these things from a woman's perspective, I've never heard the exposure element explained in that way before. It's always bothered me but I've never been able to articulate it properly.
@sadiapsychology11 ай бұрын
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@mikeyspice25011 ай бұрын
I live in the UK . Although it's not set in stone... the prettier the female the more issues, delusional, kuckoo land she is...don't ask me why but I have a theory!!! Attractive females from school pretty much get given a free ride through school or as they grow into adults because guys want sex from her or to know her etc Unfortunately what happens, she's never needed to evolve like others, so can talk & function crazy or delusional!!! I'm a 6'4 athletic hench, chissled jaw & really attractive females I just don't cluck wirh them..When you try chat with them, there's zero depth & im like ok nice, bye!!! Now an average 6 - 8 I'm fine with, there's more depth & I get on with most people generally anyway!
@bradfisher40711 ай бұрын
You like him Sadia? You guys are a good match.
@caesarmelendez764210 ай бұрын
hi sadia I watch your first video and you look absolutely beautiful and gorgeous.
@macbrebonicks866810 ай бұрын
Get Sadia.
@90s-Trance_8610 ай бұрын
Sadia, I'd a discuss with two woman. I like going to the gym like 5 times in the week. Im addicted to it. SO i said, after work i would see my children saying hello to my girlfriend, then sitting with them a few hours. Then I go lto the gym for like 1,5 to 2 hours. Im home between 22.30 - 23.30 MAX. Then seeing them again!! Then they said. 'Then I request you to stay SINGLE'. Me like why is that. Then they never gave a correct answer. They giving hints etc like 'you've children and a girlfriend, they also need attention!!!. I said I'll see them after WORK some hours, then I'm leaving after like 4 to 5 hours and only going to the gym for like 1,5 - 2 hours then coming back...What's wrog with that??? That's really a big issue WITH WOMAN. To men it feels like: - she is jealous, on your lifestyle, - she think you want attention of other woman, - she wants attention everytime, you feel me? What's the psychology of woman in this situation??? I don't understand
@aaronddamulira88187 ай бұрын
Out of 10 approaches, I get rejected probably 8-10 times but I wouldn't trade approaching with any online stuff. There's nothing like it.
@AT_27458 ай бұрын
Sadia Psychology, you are dropping bars, facts.
@mediafirmrelationpublising39218 ай бұрын
"friend" is an elastic and contextual definition..knowing the "position" is the key... :)
@cocoariche11 ай бұрын
“Take her into your world.” I love that so much! There is no other person that I’ve heard present that idea before 💡 This is my new expectation
@MyDk200911 ай бұрын
Right, add that to an already long list of expectations because you heard it on the internet. LOL SMH
@InstrumentalMangmnt11 ай бұрын
Its really the best way to see if a woman is interested in a journey with you. Both find out pretty quick if they are genuine from the get go.
@AndyTomlins11 ай бұрын
Another expectation? How long is the list now?
@filipperinic11 ай бұрын
Yep it does really sound healthy, but on the other i dont know.Why not to add some more romantic element to it, or something you wouldnt to with anyone so you show your intentions with doing something opposite from your life.
@cocoariche11 ай бұрын
@@MyDk2009 😂😂🤣
@Modifiedparts3111 ай бұрын
This is so densely packed with some of the most true, insightful facts on KZbin. So many content creators should just take a break and listen either/both of these two.
@n1te2 ай бұрын
Sadia is one of the most insightful people on this topic.
@cyber_farce8 ай бұрын
Thanks for posting! This is great information for anyone who is struggling to understand relationships and dating. (Like myself!)
@georgeleong13910 ай бұрын
Gosh I just saw your video and you spoked everything real about what my wife is doing behind me and my daughter’s back! And about my self control to doing betrayal to my wife even when I have all the evidence of what she has been doing outside with those men whom you had mentioned that she had made herself available opening up her blouse and skirt. I even gave voice recordings of them! Even me trying to get my six-pack! So so true! So happy to hear you mentioned that about loyalty, coming from a woman! ❤
@erko789 ай бұрын
Bro you have to leave her. Cheating women always end up miserable.
@anthonyb78968 ай бұрын
We need more women like Sadia. She speaks facts.
@user-lg9lg4rh7u9 ай бұрын
You guys hit the nail on the head on every level!
@yulyamorozova97296 ай бұрын
I lived in Dubai 10 years. I wish I knew about Sadia earlier)) and I wish everyone why lives there (and not only there) watched this podcast! So good. Thanks for making it you guys!
@Godlyhank10 ай бұрын
Fascinating. As the interview progresses it was almost like they were evaluating each other as potential partners, without even realising they were doing it. I can't be the only person that saw this, the human mind and psychology is amazing.
@dukegates23149 ай бұрын
😂 facts
@PITA-kd2jn9 ай бұрын
I believe, (maybe subconsciously) that's what you wanted to see, so you saw it. I'm certain they were attracted to each other, as they're both good looking people. That said, I didn't see any evaluating going on (conscious or otherwise), at least not for the purpose of being partners.
@jimmyjamessac71719 ай бұрын
She's on him
@pranavjayaprakasanut9 ай бұрын
@@jimmyjamessac7171😂😂
@mctripstac52598 ай бұрын
100% flirting.
@eksquisite9 ай бұрын
sadia speaking pure unfiltered facts
@zeecee5881Ай бұрын
Sadia, you are brilliant the way you analyze things.
@montyuchiha853010 ай бұрын
1. Be attractive 2. Dont be ugly
@divermike89439 ай бұрын
😆
@netosampaio85482 ай бұрын
Attractive men can't be ugly, because they're rich.
@LebogangJackson26 күн бұрын
😂
@munnashah119511 ай бұрын
Sadia comes from Pakistani culture where women tend to be much wiser. Plenty of beauti there as well.
@user-yl1ko7sg6t4 ай бұрын
And submissive ,not a healthy trait
@Gabranth863 ай бұрын
@@user-yl1ko7sg6tSure it can be healthy. Its just how its shown
@kendallmerta40682 ай бұрын
I don’t think her being wise has anything to do with her ethnicity…😅
@user-yl1ko7sg6t2 ай бұрын
Not wiser but submissive , servant and sharia law follower
@isabellamagazine2 ай бұрын
1 of 1. Exclusivity is the highest form of value.
@Sammo247Ай бұрын
Your word. Your honour. Your integrity. Your self efficacy etc etc.
@OneTruth5610 ай бұрын
I’m a high value man. I’m still single at 66. Just proving western women are too far gone. Been celibate 17 years, a physique a 20 year old envies, handsome, degreed engineer, own a successful business, emotionally, mentally and spiritually in tact after decades of counsel and self improvement, a God fearing man and… still far from perfect. It’s called respect for oneself, self discipline, love your neighbor as yourself and do everything to the best of your ability.
@erko789 ай бұрын
So try women outside of the western world.
@annbrown50148 ай бұрын
😂
@chidinqueАй бұрын
Move outside of western. There's 8continent try Africa, Asia, Europe.. but come to 9ja😊
@hasfocus11 ай бұрын
When you really like your partner, you don't need that much self-control. And when you exercise a lot of self-control, you are in a relationship with a friend.
@dasein998011 ай бұрын
Huh?
@johnre534211 ай бұрын
I agree 100 percent. Men should stop making excuses that nature controls their desires. Simple, if you have a desire to cheat than you don't care about your partner as much as you think.
@rehakmate11 ай бұрын
@@johnre5342 1000% true, its really fucking easy to stay loyal if you are with the right person
@stefangavrilovic199210 ай бұрын
@johnre5342 why just men
@erko789 ай бұрын
@@johnre5342partners who cheat are mentally ill. They usually are very high in narcissism.
@johnwalsh5187 ай бұрын
I agree Sadia you just go for it and if your rejected just move on and don't let it get to you.
@mannymedia63113 ай бұрын
Thanks. Self control is from committing to ur long term goals. A fruit of the spirit
@arbaizac1111 ай бұрын
im loving every second of this
@yoshighomi10 ай бұрын
Also I 100% agree on rejection. I think the thing that makes it worse is when you get the nerves to talk to someone and the expectations are high on the outcomes of them accepting you. Everything's based on that and when it goes left... it crushes everything... mix that in with 2-4 in a row, you tend to lower your standards a bit out of desperation which ultimately becomes your downfall. There are people who swipe away from people they would love to be with, but know it wont happen simply because of how the person looks.
@viviangonzalez252010 ай бұрын
Geez that’s so harsh, yet it goes over females heads, it sounds so dramatic,
@mejhon659210 ай бұрын
People always look the looks, specialy men lol. More hot is the man and woman, more ugly attitue they have, because everybody want them
@avaliausd.9 ай бұрын
That's why you only talk to women you know you have a chance with. It's that simple. Men keep getting rejected because they keep pursuing women who never gave them any indication that they were interested in them. It's especially bad when men approach complete strangers or taken women for romance. It's better to approach women you have built rapport with, whether that be at church or some kind of book club or work. (Though, work is still risky)
@intothebeyond87637 ай бұрын
@@avaliausd. I say never approach women ever. It's not worth it and the only reason why women don't do it is because they like being in the seat of power to accept or reject you. Women not approaching men isn't some cultural thing about being reserved it's purely about power.
@drinkthekoolaidkids6 ай бұрын
If you fear rejection…… don’t ever be a salesman
@galina67072 ай бұрын
Gorgeous conversation! Thank you so much guys! ❤👏👏💪
@MJPerformance88Ай бұрын
Thank you for your channel. I feel that you know me, as I know myself this way, Sadia. It is a releif to see your commitment to the science on this. I will follow, so I can hear how you organized you this way.
@davidm229911 ай бұрын
Your mindset is absolutely amazing, Sadia!
@bboichirok6619 ай бұрын
Big respect to this man for real . Also Sadia you are not strict at all , that’s just a traditional woman’s behavior and there is nothing wrong with that at all . My wife is the same way , and I’m the same way as well , and trust me I have a lot of options but I have disciplined so no I don’t cheat nor does she , married for 15 years and we act goofy like we are still boyfriend and girlfriend.😂 she’s into my hobbies now like working out and building cars , so when I’m out sometimes she knows where I am 9/10 of the time , but also we think traditional when it comes to relationships that’s why our relationship doesn’t feel like a burden of some sort .
@byron31879 ай бұрын
Wonderful my friend ! And it's this 1/10th that she doesnt know that is keeping the relationship well maintained .You got this !
@GabrielXDrums8 ай бұрын
Not everyone gets to be that lucky.
@xmo5527 ай бұрын
I love BOTH their words and thoughts. They don't make people like us any more. Edit: I... need a woman like that in my life.
@travelntrading79194 ай бұрын
Sadia is just spitting wisdom one after the other. Just amazing
@Netwrk723 ай бұрын
more like common sense lol
@travelntrading79193 ай бұрын
many lack that mr professor@@Netwrk72
@mhuntprofessional11 ай бұрын
I would suggest that the "options = freedom to walk" hypothesis is one side of a coin. The other side of that same coin is "having the option to have whomever you want, but CHOOSING to be committed to the partner you are with is the highest level of commitment." Because you DO have the option to walk away. You could hermit crab up to a bigger shell. A new person. Or just go to that perceived greener grass. Because it will always be greener somewhere else, if you're only looking for that. However! If you choose the person you are with and you're with them because that was an active decision and a garden you put daily effort into, you are there because you WANT to be and not because you HAVE to be. I think that settling for someone because you feel like thats the upward limit for your ability is.... well dangerous to a relationship. Because it means the only reason they're not cheating isn't because they WOULDN'T, but because they CAN'T. ...until an alternative arises.
@searlearnold286711 ай бұрын
Finally ! A man and a woman having a conversation that is almost non-existent in the current culture. For the love of all that is holy, these two need to continue this conversation, maybe even explore a relationship.
@azizrampage10 ай бұрын
sadia says shes married
@chigenerator9 ай бұрын
@@azizrampage and? lol
@azizrampage9 ай бұрын
@@chigeneratorthe person said maybe they need to explore a relationship even though she's married
@chigenerator9 ай бұрын
@@azizrampageyes, that was my point. let's go!
@beefy17288 ай бұрын
@@chigenerator you should explore beastiality. let's go!
@avinashoad1413Ай бұрын
you said correct. And I do appreciate the ideas you both share. Bravo to you both!
@bitsurfer01018 ай бұрын
It was kind of an eye opening video on culture, values and morals. Sometimes the values can cross cultural boundaries, as it seems in the video.
@BG.Dumitrescu11 ай бұрын
I haven't seen in a while in the online environment such a beautiful conversation and healthy....just two people talking and not sending hate to each other. You can see from miles away they respect each other and want to bring the best quality on the table. Well done guys.
@PeacePrototype9 ай бұрын
I love how Sadia’s opinion about opposite gender friends changed from “yes” to “it depends” when hot fitness model scenario was presented.
@luisramon7839 ай бұрын
Theory is different than the reality
@chigenerator9 ай бұрын
yes, feels like double standards
@frederikvanhees47019 ай бұрын
She came of as a very jealous and controlling type of partner imo
@alleyoop12348 ай бұрын
2 separate brains at work!
@richiev22927 ай бұрын
Exactly! She and her partner can have friends of the opposite sex as long as his friends aren't that pretty and everyone is following "her" boundaries. Female brains can be such a joke. 😂😂😂
@mcgoony9 ай бұрын
this is so good pls do a motivational compilation out of this
@pantaichou_Paron7 ай бұрын
lack of options makes one invest heavily in what they have.....words to be etched in gold
@theortric Жыл бұрын
A conflict of interests is anything that simply appears to be one even when it’s not. A respectful relationship is one without a conflict of interest.
@jimmyjamessac71719 ай бұрын
Respect is everything
@davecopp93569 ай бұрын
Never ask a fish how he wants to get caught. Ask the fisherman.
@neiljohnson7914Ай бұрын
But the fish don't want to get caught
@Webisyen9 ай бұрын
This has to be the most illuminating, awakening, non-bs interview on relationships I have ever seen. I appreciate your wisdom.
@dj_codered7 ай бұрын
This sister spittin 😂😂😂
@gestucvolonor506910 ай бұрын
Mike took that male female friends argument apart in 30 seconds. Respect
@zhilwan35112 ай бұрын
I am really captivated by her look and personality
@iancasey14868 ай бұрын
Undoubtedly, this one the most intelligent conversation that I've listened to on the subject. Now, I'm inclined to follow this channel.
@2by311 ай бұрын
After 20 years of opposite sex "friends" I finally closed all the relationships, it is a boundary illusion. Sadia is rapidly contradicting herself in the video and not acknowledging it. As a partner you cannot put your own boundaries according to how sexually attractive you find the partner's friends, unless you are a hypocrite. Men have almost to no benefits from being friends with women, women have multiple, including reality checks, not provided normally by females friends, also attention, validation, help etc.
@2by311 ай бұрын
@@n3a1steak curious to state few examples that cannot be fulfilled by male friends.
@Blossom83511 ай бұрын
Interesting, as a woman I'm thinking male friends have zero benefits to me lol. He is seen in public with me, emotionally nurtured and supported by me and probably not even paying for stuff because we're "just friends". And then he's probably still hoping to get a chance to sleep with me. What a great friend! Plus other men might not want to approach me when seen in public. I would rather not have male friends honestly. It's not true friendship anyways.
@2by311 ай бұрын
@@Blossom835 true friendship is genderless at every step. Most of the time true friendship exists only between men, most of the time. A communication other than relationship between opposite genders, is usually caused by an overdeveloped opposite gender traits in one or both identities. Men have women friends most of the time only for two reasons, 1) to have sex with them, they keep playing around and waiting, 2) men have feminine traits.
@Blossom83511 ай бұрын
@@2by3 true, I see this (reasons men have female friends) as well. Both options not desirable in my mind.
@ARTDEVGRU24711 ай бұрын
@@Blossom835bs
@videowilliams9 ай бұрын
Wow, that was all much more engaging than I expected it to be! Especially 23:54 to 28:46 which helped clear up a quandary I've run up against repeatedly, about how not to end up locked into the friendzone by a highly attractive woman who really likes me as a friend. It's just not worth it. Yet they'll truly chase me down to keep me there.
@raddadization8 ай бұрын
"take her into your world" this is everything.
@fredcorbin35719 ай бұрын
I think Lady Sadia is Absolutely Gorgeous OMG !! I Love this conversation.
@at9048 Жыл бұрын
Options = Ego😂
@smarthalayla6397 Жыл бұрын
Tell that to the 2,000,000,000 people on our planet that live in less then $2 a day.
@user-he6rs8xi7u11 ай бұрын
@@smarthalayla6397non sequitur
@dronetheworld4k6711 ай бұрын
= Andrew tate
@Plainsimple6711 ай бұрын
@@dronetheworld4k67JAIL, THEN NO OPTIONS BUT RELIGIOUS CONVERSION TO GET OUT OF JAIL??!!😉🥴😂
@branislavpetriska88210 ай бұрын
Unfortunately...🤷
@suntoyfull6410 ай бұрын
Self control = self respect. It is a simple yet profound truth
@Carlos-dk9tw9 ай бұрын
Thank ya'll for this.
@vonheimlerstrudel8 ай бұрын
I just found this channel, liked and subscribed. She seems close to the type of lady I would like to be with. He is a bit full of himself. I’ve seen guys like this get the rug pulled out from under him.
@redg219711 ай бұрын
Rejection from women is mostly about you though. As a man, you have to look in the mirror and figure out how you can improve so women have less things to not like about you.
@khonchusakwerius723711 ай бұрын
It’s hard to remain faithful in this day and age to a very weak person.. someone whose strong and in control of themselves,, remaining faithful is a simple walk through the park!! Only you can control you so take accountability for your actions..
@user-bt4ey2sk5d3 ай бұрын
I returned to watch this video to listen to the conversation about self control
@bosshogg115527 күн бұрын
I’m in Walmart listening to this and picked up a pack of cookies RIGHT when he mentioned getting in shape and discipline. I put the fxking cookies back!!
@TaleOfTwoIdiots9 ай бұрын
"Do you think people attach to people who give them more drama?” Absolutely, positively, 100%, *NO!* There’s enough drama in life without coming home to it as well.
@jamesredman12637 ай бұрын
Most men don't. Many or most women do.
@sanketvaria97348 ай бұрын
your interest doesn't has to match, it's the values that has to match for a relationship to work.
@pedroribas181511 ай бұрын
wow.. what a very interesting conversation, really enjoyed it :)
@rrg486410 ай бұрын
Sadia you are amazing! On Point in everything! I just bumped into some of your videos. You got a subscriber!
@lat38info9 ай бұрын
Finally someone that makes sense
@Marvinje8111 ай бұрын
Sadia what lab were you made in? Why are you the only woman who understands boundaries? Don’t put yourself in a position to fail, it’s simple. Thank you for letting me know I’m not crazy!
@mnrick196010 ай бұрын
Interesting guy and insights revealed through personal evolution. ... ... ... Kudos to Sadie & Mike for the great interview. Dropping absolute truth bombs within an intelligent, adult, realistic, pragmatic conversation. Is it not almost painfully obvious beyon the pale... (?) In this life construct, It all comes down to choosing a path of "personal discipline" in a world that exists to fully exploit your lack of it.
@nigeldonaldson16473 ай бұрын
It's a good rule of thumb to look for adventure in someone, try doing things you wouldnt normally do & sharing that experiance, or things you don't do so often it could be 10 pin bowling lazer quest, there are so many options, originality can often impress & can be fun
@davidcase12867 ай бұрын
22:30 damsel in distress, spot on, so true, my "friend's" younger daughter is just that and he BF steps up and takes care of everything. Older daughter the opposite.
@doncappo150911 ай бұрын
You can do whatever you want in this life as long as your ok with the consequences
@johnre534211 ай бұрын
That don't apply to a monogamous relationship
@pankratiast7 ай бұрын
Traditional values have been eclipsed by pop culture, unfortunately. People have become what they see and hear on the tv/social media and media in general. It's refreshing to hear Sadia reflect on the importance of old fashioned behaviors between men and women in a relationship. Most couples I know who are very successful and loving in their marriage is because of that. Their core VALUES and not necessarily their monetary status are similar of not identical.
@charleswomack21667 ай бұрын
I. AM A PSYCHOPATH AND I AM GLAD TO HEAR YOU ACKNOWLEDGED PEOPLE LIKE ME. #PSYCHOPATHS ARE PEOPLE TOO
@EdsonAfonso-fb7rn6 ай бұрын
God bless you Lady. Your wisdom truly is a light in the present darkness of thoughts.
@skywalker84711 ай бұрын
Get your parents to not emotionally neglect and or abandon you during childhood.
@hellucination990511 ай бұрын
It's not easy living with CPTSD, brother.
@skywalker84711 ай бұрын
@@hellucination9905 I know
@concernedcitizen207611 ай бұрын
That is a sad truth.
@Mmmmkaaay10 ай бұрын
Yep. If your own parents don't want you, who else will?
@alleyoop12348 ай бұрын
When I was in my 20's & 30's I strived to ask at least one lady out each & every day. Even if the lady says no, she then knows you are interested, and tomorrow is a new day!!🥰
@lfggolf8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 what a clown way of life
@alleyoop12348 ай бұрын
@@lfggolf Only an idiot would generalize someones entire way of life based on 2 short sentences😂😂😂
@Damesanglante3 ай бұрын
And you called him that over one sentence. The irony...
@Archit-fr3ez3 ай бұрын
@@lfggolfsimpmaxx 😂
@phoenixrisin22692 ай бұрын
Practice getting rejected and you won’t wind up like Beta Bob
@dorianlawson60947 ай бұрын
He’s going to hit this
@blackmancer7 ай бұрын
You're a classy woman, a real keeper.
@MrSelecta329 ай бұрын
She is a psycologist and is surprized that rejection hurts! Wow she is a genius
@Wreakmayhem9 ай бұрын
Yeah, shes never been rejected im sure. Women that attractive dont get turned down. Not for anything...ever