I am a survivor of CSA and a retired psychiatrist. The missing truth in this well meant video is this: CPTSD is the result of an abuse experience that generates an overwhelming fear of death in a child, as it did in me. I went through my entire professional life having occasional near death reliving dreams and not fully understanding their significance, as hard as that might be for the reader to understand. Not until my 75th yr. did I have the definitive terrifying reliving dream that clearly identified my attempted (?) rape by a 2nd cousin, which suddenly explained the lifelong reliving dreams/night terrors and all of the symptoms of CPTSD, including the horrendous anxiety which drove my seeking relief in alcohol and drugs. Ironically, I found the "protection and care" in 12-step groups that I had never experienced in my childhood or professional life. God help us one and all!
@dawnsongz4u4496 ай бұрын
I m sorry you went through any of it.. I have CPTSD too. I feel ya.. hugs
@SureshBadaMath5 ай бұрын
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@jennylee2319Ай бұрын
There both dead now. I wasn't raped I doubt as a child as my insides would become infiertal but I was drugged a few times and made me wear a nightdressed and was very drowsy a few times. He was my best friend dad very religious. He always made me feel ashamed of myself he had a fascination with my bum. The second one was getting me paraletic but yes he did molest me but he did not shame me like the first one. Every single thing you have said is right and 25 yrs later you have helpt me to realised that yes I was abused. Also it's sick but the first paedophie didn't like me but planned through other people to screw my life up as he wanted his daughter to be superior to me. I could go on for ever. But from what you've said I can now I was realised yes I was aboused & I'm not just playing. And yes at one point I could hardly walk. Thanks so much for making this awful topic clear. Best wishes thanks from your help😢Xx😅
@StressRUsАй бұрын
@@jennylee2319 You are not alone and neither am I, which we both need to know to escape the shame that binds/bound us. My very best wishes to you! Keep your chin up and walk away from the cloud of shame that has loomed over you. I did it and you can too! Have a blessed evening and life ahead. Gregg
@jennylee2319Ай бұрын
I have to go to mental health route & in 16 years the psychiatrist never once or any of them asked if I had been sexuality abused. And I've been questioning it over half my life and was scared it was all in my head and made excuses for this men. I could go on for ages but listening to you I've realised I was child abused. But as a child I just go along with life and can't always pin point it. And my father was an alchy so alot of things went unknoticed. But thanks again for your time & help xxx
@ruchismitapradhani342 жыл бұрын
Sometimes whole community has a blind belief ,they don't know what's going on is just rape culture, nobody talks about it because it has been normalised in such a way nobody thinks it's a crime and how the child is going through after she knows what happened to her is just what she does not deserve it's too painful.
@SureshBadaMath2 жыл бұрын
I comprehensively agree with you. We need to change this scenario and make accountable everyone.
@deerskin42253 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing up this huge topic Dr Suresh. And stressing out the need for a comprehensive approach
@SureshBadaMath3 жыл бұрын
Welcome. I believe that it is everyone’s responsibility to protect children
@katrinat.30327 ай бұрын
I have a friend SA’d by a priest. She never told me any details. I always wondered how this happened. This was a helpful video
@KuchBhi-bm1yj5 ай бұрын
Bro your friend body types change please reply
@June-ft1cb Жыл бұрын
Thank you Doctor. Really appreciate this video. Great help in my research into CSA.
@SureshBadaMath Жыл бұрын
All the best
@treasapaul Жыл бұрын
Hello sir, I'm doing a project on childhood sexual trauma and this video has helped me in understanding it better. Could you please give the sources of these information so that I can use it for my project?
@nalinipellurupsychologist42333 жыл бұрын
Good message sir for awareness in public. 🙏
@khadarahmedofficial72302 жыл бұрын
Professor I want book to write child sexual abuse and mental health can you help me
@vinayanand10002 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much Sir for Important Knowledge about Child Abuse....I am a student of PGD in Guidance and Counseling....🙏🙏🌹🌹
@SureshBadaMath2 жыл бұрын
All the best wishes
@SureshBadaMath2 жыл бұрын
All the best wishes
@dr.siddharthojhaupadhyay75196 ай бұрын
Hello sir I had such a situation and childhood school life and college life all was spoiled and still have Bipolar disorder +PTDS
@resilienthussain9279 Жыл бұрын
Excellent information and guidence shared, Thank you sir❤
@SureshBadaMath Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your feedback and sharing it
@cocomuffin Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this very easy to understand video. I appreciate it very much ❤
@SureshBadaMath Жыл бұрын
Welcome
@psychiatrystudymaterial96063 жыл бұрын
thank you so much sir.
@SureshBadaMath3 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@radharanichakraborty52933 жыл бұрын
Sir what about mentally ill children and those are non verbal Autism,I have already observed these incidents and post responses.
@pjmendoza88718 ай бұрын
Great video for unfortunately crappy things that happen to children.
@FrostSoul-qs6kq Жыл бұрын
Doctor , If you are available for a discussion could we talk ? I have your need of your opinion on a very deadly case .
@atiffakhar94112 жыл бұрын
Hello sir how are you sir Hopefully you will fine sir tomorrow I have a assignment on the basis of the cause and impact of child abuse cause I had done already but impact is yet remain so plz tell me impact thks you sir
@taramarq1402 Жыл бұрын
How can I contact you?
@uniquetopicwithme.80732 ай бұрын
😢😢😢😢
@handicappuccino8491 Жыл бұрын
I heard some victims associate love with sex And I will wait more with those people then the victims would actually feel like they were being victimize
@MH20_21.2 жыл бұрын
Sir ptst is a disability?
@suryapujitha9952 Жыл бұрын
Sir please explain about child sexual abused girl mindset and his behaviour
@jasminevazquez6998 Жыл бұрын
That's basically ally what happend to me all the thing you said its whay I went through
@bertram462 ай бұрын
This is extremely good. I find it interesting though, this is wrong, but its ok for a child to change their sex before they are capable of making a responsible decision. Or go by a different sex name at school and the schools dont tell the parents. Or drag shows are ok .... It all boils down to what society deems acceptable.