As a teen I used to go to the same church with Miss Buyisile Mncina at International Tabernacle (Coates Valley) 🇸🇿. Used to admire her beauty, how she carried herself and her voice as she was on the praise team 😍. I'm so happy to see her flourishing and making us proud 🤗♥️. Thank you for this very insightful conversation.
@advmom64442 жыл бұрын
Still struggling even now 3 years later after having a child, I was told not to cry during pregnancy because that will affect my baby and had to suppress everything I felt during that period, even after pregnancy had to force to being okay because I was breastfeeding for 2 years and now she is 3 and I love her so much, I am full time single mom and a student but sometimes it is bad esp the breakdowns, I don't know why they happen and sometimes I think maybe because I delayed everything I felt at that time and now it all comes back, I don't know why but I feel overwhelmed at times but Thank you for this God bless you. ❤
@tebogolebelo19002 жыл бұрын
🤗sending you love sis.
@tshenolomasilela63602 жыл бұрын
Aoooo Mommy! I'm so sorry you feel this way, how I relate! Is help accessible?
@Princess_Ngokz2 жыл бұрын
Please seek therapy it helps
@advmom64442 жыл бұрын
@@tshenolomasilela6360 Not at this moment..
@SeipatiMotlopye2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Mommy. Sending you hugs and love. Praying for you.
@lesegomajola13232 жыл бұрын
This was such a beautiful episode! Every topic was explained so simply and insightful. My narrative has changed on mental health, that it’s not just centred around depression. Buyi is such a good teacher, we literally got a free session. Thank you for the nuggets! ❤
@richard_makho2 жыл бұрын
As an apiring Industrial Psychologist I look up to Buyisile Mncina. I hope to meet her one day Looking forward to learning more from her
@tendaichantellenhoro4552 жыл бұрын
Excited for this topic! thank you for bringing a professional psychologist to the platform Mpoomy, l can't wait to have money and start therapy as well ❤️
@fihliwekubeka25652 жыл бұрын
Haiboooo loud and clear. Today was listening for the 4th time.
@mutshinyaniernestine58672 жыл бұрын
Accepting the things I can not change.
@prudancekgaladi98612 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this conversation and I like that you brought in an expert. I also like how she explained mental health, people don’t understand that mental health is about the general mental well-being not necessarily mental illness.
@thembinxitywa97542 жыл бұрын
"When something no longer serves you, it becomes inconvenient" 🙌🙌❤️. Loved everything about this conversation. Such a well of wisdom 👏.
@milisa.j6432 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful conversation, left me longing for more. Industrial Psychologist on the way I'm inspired.
@SheConquers_sa2 жыл бұрын
Good conversation, I love it. thank you for touching on the important aspects of mental health, as broad as it is, it is still an important topic that should never be ignored.
@nkanyezizwane95292 жыл бұрын
I'm very invested. Love you both. Buyi I'm so proud of you sis♥️
@carolmade7438 Жыл бұрын
Buyisile is confident, well spoken and a very good aura👌
@princessmalope67592 жыл бұрын
i always enjoy watching your shows as they educate me in a lot of things. and this episode is close to my heart as there are lot of people who are suffering in silence.
@nothilemdunge99722 жыл бұрын
So impressed at how well spoke Miss Buyi is😅🙌🏿Appreciated this Video, mental health does matter!🙌🏿
@familymatterswithdudu34502 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the information. Serenity for sure is the key, being able to drive your own boat!!!! In life u will meet people or circumstances that might challenge you burst but understanding how the mind works its Wow👏We need to be cortious who the driver is and how to. Thanks ladies for sharing 👌🏾
@hopesikhosana6292 жыл бұрын
My favourite psychology lecturer 😍. Thank you for bringing her in Mpoomy❤
@lerato_lee2 жыл бұрын
Which university is she lecturing at? I need to apply coz wow! Sis is the best
@hopesikhosana6292 жыл бұрын
@ Lerato _Lee She lectured me at Wits University 😊
@TheBAHUBSA2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this❣ I gave birth 3 months ago and I'm glad I'm not the only one going through the most rn. There's a whole community🤗
@bonolotheresaketshogile68422 жыл бұрын
Loved the topic..loved the questions. Mpoomy i resonated with this.
@ncumisandungane86512 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this interview so much. I had to come and see the video as well. Thank you Mpoomy for bringing us such great content. What you do is so amazing.
@khanyisilenkosi51492 жыл бұрын
Hi Mpoomy, thank you for this episode. Before today, I didn’t know how much I was impacted by my pregnancy journey. I didn’t have the language to explain what I was going through mentally. I now recognize that mentally I was not ok pre-birth and post-birth. This episode has helped me recognise my own mental issues, which I now need to deal with.
@maprie_nondu2 жыл бұрын
I struggled mostly after birth with my second baby. Its terrible and im grateful for my healing
@nthabisengmaake41222 жыл бұрын
A very insightful conversation. Love it❤️
@familymatterswithdudu34502 жыл бұрын
Hi Mpumi Can I ask you to do it for males too. In my walk with the Comunity work, events that I host we also have boys to men they said they need more platforms where they can cry n share their challenges. They are human too do feel pain at times but societal beliefs n culture discourage them.Women talk but they bottle up.As we are building a better community let's remember boys and equip them as well.
@keleabetswephiri74982 жыл бұрын
So insightful, absolutely loved this ❤
@NaturalNomvula2 жыл бұрын
I remember I commented on your video when you were carrying Zani, as I was carrying Zano☺️. It was just a huge change in my life, thank you so much for continuing this conversation of awareness about mental health. It is still frowned upon but I hope soon people will get a hang of it and it will be accepted.
@mercymafuta87022 жыл бұрын
Notification gang!! 🔔
@mamogomaponya73012 жыл бұрын
💃
@sithokozilekayumba282 жыл бұрын
I felt like Mpoomy asked some very valid questions which were left unanswered and shared very real insights like about our body’s and foot sizes etc after having kids which were not commented on. I would love to hear this topic again with more depth attached to it.
@EverHopeful5552 жыл бұрын
Love your hair Buyi 😍
@ms_____paws2 жыл бұрын
This was such a powerful & insightful conversation 🙌
@i_am_feliealberto62432 жыл бұрын
Notification gang ayee !!!
@afiakissi37562 жыл бұрын
She defined mental health in a way I have never heard, this is good! She spoke about seeking insight, my question,is it insight to the problem? Like asking why its happening and taking note of patterns?
@blackmomchronicles20772 жыл бұрын
Wonderful conversation!
@nwabisamatiyela34422 жыл бұрын
Mpumie asks such great questions
@nthabisenghalahala39792 жыл бұрын
So insightful ❤
@mrsdokotela2 жыл бұрын
For me mental health is the upset of mental illness...depression is a diagnosis of the mental
@lindatafeni94022 жыл бұрын
Beautiful ladies 👌❤
@colleenvanvore24812 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mpoomy ❤️
@mmatsheposelahla34722 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful Mrs Mom. I love your make-up
@nothando.sndimande76342 жыл бұрын
So well spoken Buyi.... 👌👌
@ayandasigudla65252 жыл бұрын
Beutiful 🇸🇿🇸🇿🇸🇿 the winning team
@yvonnemadike7402 жыл бұрын
Notification gang
@zenandenzimande2 жыл бұрын
Currently going through all of this with no support from family or friends or partner. Instead I'm being insulted and told I'm a bad mother who is incapable of raising my baby. It's been 6 months of post partum depression and I just want to crawl into the nearest hole
@khaya18002 жыл бұрын
The Jobs are gona be the death of us😌
@ducymoshitoa6452 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😔😔😔
@gcogcomazibu14112 жыл бұрын
Man can do better by pitching in and assisting with house chores guys, I can not be heavily pregnant Kube kukho umntu who depends on me with laundry, food and tidying of the house.