Why Narcissists Are Unbelievably Unhappy

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Mental Healness

Mental Healness

Күн бұрын

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@1969tb
@1969tb 2 күн бұрын
They also sabotage themselves from being happy. They are their own worst enemy but they blame everyone else for their problems.
@Merbella
@Merbella Күн бұрын
This! 💯
@emilyhurst4829
@emilyhurst4829 Күн бұрын
@@1969tb Yep
@barbarascoggins5239
@barbarascoggins5239 10 сағат бұрын
No responsibility for themselves, only others! Spot On!
@tjan2007
@tjan2007 6 сағат бұрын
Spot on! Truly pathetic..
@iBlindAssassin
@iBlindAssassin 2 күн бұрын
That is absolutely mind-boggling! They need people but they don't want to treat them right so that they would actually want to stick around! 🤦
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
It’s crazy
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 Күн бұрын
All they do is reframe as to why you weren’t so great after all and spread it around and tell other people about it.
@jilross4892
@jilross4892 Күн бұрын
Yes and its so frustrating when you do something nice for them and they dont see it
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
💯
@erikainiguez1314
@erikainiguez1314 2 күн бұрын
They ask you not expose them but then turn around and make up lies and embellish on a comment made and tell everyone around you unbeknownst to you. They are pathetic.
@deanj8870
@deanj8870 2 күн бұрын
NARCISSISTS N - Never does anything without strings or be wrong A - Avoids accountability and empathy R - Rages when they don't get their way C - Childish and stunted in their brain age I- Instills doubts in others and creates conflicts S - Stonewalls and walks away to avoid responsibility S - Smear Campaigns and slanders you to others I- Initiates arguments and gaslights you into reacting S - Silent treatments and silencing your voice T - Triangulates you and others against you S - SERIOUSLY SICK & DYSFUNCTIONAL
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee Күн бұрын
Accurate af!
@Chantrell22
@Chantrell22 Күн бұрын
I really like this
@rlmcclain1
@rlmcclain1 Күн бұрын
Dead on
@Merbella
@Merbella Күн бұрын
So sadly true!
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 Күн бұрын
Your comment is so on point!!!
@DEEJOJOHNSON
@DEEJOJOHNSON 2 күн бұрын
My narcissistic ex-wife is never happy because she never got therapy and healing from childhood trauma
@emilyhurst4829
@emilyhurst4829 2 күн бұрын
Seems my Narc is NEVER Happy either! So serious all the time! I'll be like, can't we just have fun for once?
@Mrmuscles1970
@Mrmuscles1970 2 күн бұрын
Mine same way too! No matter what I do, I can't seem to make her happy and I'm the bad guy? A lack of self. I've been over this for a while
@DEEJOJOHNSON
@DEEJOJOHNSON 2 күн бұрын
@Mrmuscles1970 I put up with a lot, but when she committed adultery, I had to get a divorce
@ckn9503
@ckn9503 Күн бұрын
I'm so glad you reminded me the Truth , happiness is an Inside job, not defined on the outside
@CMackenzie-e5u
@CMackenzie-e5u 2 күн бұрын
I can't tell you how much I appreciate you and your channel, Lee. I'm going through an extremely difficult experience at the moment with a pair of narcissist sisters that have been harassing me. I want absolutely nothing to do with them and they've been attempting to force a relationship with me. I blocked them by phone and even tried to call me from another number trying to pin me down. Seriously creepy. A right pair of bunny-boilers they are. All your insights and everything you share helps me to understand them so much more.
@carolyneasley8980
@carolyneasley8980 2 күн бұрын
They know internally that they are a hot mess, so the house, the car ", the look" is the curtains they hide behind peeping to make sure everyone is still looking and admiring them. It will never be enough to ever make them feel "normal" and BECAUSE they can never seem to achieve normalcy no matter what they do, well, you'll always be the punching bag.
@BluebirdKbres
@BluebirdKbres Күн бұрын
Unfortunately you are right.
@susanhenderson9739
@susanhenderson9739 Күн бұрын
I had to learn this the hard way …. When I first met my husband he bragged about his house which wasn’t even up to par…his truck (which was a lease) and he was Smug! I never had to lease any of my trucks and I can afford the upkeep of my house 🏠….. He looked down on everyone including me as if he’s better than everyone….
@CF-tp6sb
@CF-tp6sb 2 күн бұрын
PS since you mentioned your age and how you are growing can I say that it’s really obvious. Since joining this community I’ve gone back years with your videos and they were always helpful but holy shit you mature and become more and more genuine and strong and funny and real and just glow up exponentially every year. Like you seem happier and just better. Now is your best in every way, physically emotionally and intellectually your presence is apex right now and I know every year will keep upping. It’s really inspiring.
@CN-dv9nj
@CN-dv9nj Күн бұрын
You're right. Healing w a therapist, this is outcome of working it.
@jesssmith2064
@jesssmith2064 Күн бұрын
I'm a bit slow at catching on, but once I realise they're a Narc, I'm out, walk away. Not worth it
@AngieTwomey-x6b
@AngieTwomey-x6b 2 күн бұрын
They don't have empathy
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
😞
@kamillechisolm9849
@kamillechisolm9849 2 күн бұрын
I just said this the other day, narcissistic people are impossible to please !!! If you’re super close to them ! Super impulsive and just searching for a new high !
@nikkyluv2244
@nikkyluv2244 19 сағат бұрын
Always searching for a new high.. spending is insane because they can never have enough, and I noticed they covet so much, so they are easily distracted by what others have
@1969tb
@1969tb 2 күн бұрын
This knowledge is so empowering. I just can't begin to tell you. Thank you Lee.🙏🏽👍🏾
@cristolcarol9710
@cristolcarol9710 2 күн бұрын
Total agreement. Between Lee and Dr.Ramani, they saved my life. Literally. I'm so thankful for them.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@emilyhurst4829
@emilyhurst4829 2 күн бұрын
​@@cristolcarol9710 Me too!
@CF-tp6sb
@CF-tp6sb 2 күн бұрын
Right??? And the way he says it like, this righteous dude just taking us under his wing and protecting us from really confusing abusive experiences. So empowering.
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 2 күн бұрын
I second that!!! I like seeing people tell him this personally so he KNOWS we truly need your viewpoint outside of the basic information.
@BeSoSerious
@BeSoSerious 21 сағат бұрын
5:30 🎯🎯 The appearance of having a beautiful happy family is so important to someone who's trying to prove to everyone from their past that "they weren't the problem"
@davidcole2530
@davidcole2530 Күн бұрын
This is your real calling brother and thank you
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
you’re welcome and Thank you
@roboflavinful
@roboflavinful 2 күн бұрын
Because they need to get positive emotions from others.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
😩
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 Күн бұрын
Ok, well, then do positive things! 🤷‍♀️
@tatianaa.3694
@tatianaa.3694 18 сағат бұрын
@@foxiefair123 It's not that easy for them, their brain functions differently, they have a disorder
@jed2998
@jed2998 10 сағат бұрын
Someone I know said “they are living their life to show the women that did not stay with them know what they are missing.” It’s sad to know that this person is living their life with this as their focus instead of being grateful for the wife, kids, job, etc., that they currently have.😔
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 7 сағат бұрын
‼️
@moniqueboatfield
@moniqueboatfield 2 күн бұрын
I would imagine they stay unhappy because folks won’t just leave them alone and let them cheat, lol!
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 2 күн бұрын
At 10 minutes you said a cool thing- you said you’ve been the happiest doing coaching social media because it helps others. And Lee I’ve always heard the quote love and happiness doesn’t have to be shared or split, it multiplies and keeps giving that emotional happy high which is the best drug in a way to keep that inner self feeling self love! And also, LEE you’ve done some really amazing jobs before you took on this one all before she 40 so you need a huge boost of confidence from others you helped by hearing us tell you, you’ve always been enough and great! And I hate to hear you never felt it inside but don’t feel alone, even non-narcs never feel enough. So I understand it’s not automatic to feel happy. I have a law degree- served 6 years army as a paralegal also and at 39 years old I don’t think others value me. I thinks narcissistic people and people like me can relate to that trigger and as we know, it’s definitely childhood trauma that’s made us doubt ourselves. But nonetheless Lee- you ALWAYS BUILD US UP and you’re doing more than any person can do and I’m grateful you do this work. Thank you 😊
@BeSoSerious
@BeSoSerious 21 сағат бұрын
I appreciate how real you keep it! I feel a little less lonely somehow knowing this is not in my head cause I swear he be gaslighting me into thinking if we just did everything better and remembered all of these little things to do and not do that he wouldn't have to get angry over stupid shit all the time.
@nancydrew5
@nancydrew5 13 сағат бұрын
I'm grateful for you Lee. Even though your narcissistic survivors community is your new supply, you've turned this into a positive. You've turned your need for external validation into something that helps others. That's a good thing. Your community shows you how much they appreciate you. This fills that void in you that those previous jobs you've done never have.
@nadia6804
@nadia6804 2 күн бұрын
Yeah he needed validation feom his friends at the age of 56 yrs old.he would abuse me behind closed doors and would get so defensive if I asked him about this girl who he was friends with.he would talk to her more,spend time with her and would get so upset if I said anything.im glad he's out of my life.
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL Күн бұрын
Sounds familiar 🫤 How long have you been healing?
@Chantrell22
@Chantrell22 Күн бұрын
Yes they definitely do that
@kayastarlove
@kayastarlove Күн бұрын
Triangulation 😢 they do that to break your self esteem. Sad is they do it on purpose
@nadia6804
@nadia6804 Күн бұрын
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL i haven't healed,i just left him recently.dealing with PTSD,it's very traumatic and just taking one day at a time.but i couldnt take the abuse anymore.he tried to unalive me many times,I realized that is not the way I want to leave this world.he doesn't deserve my love or me.they are seriously the devil.
@marwabahgat8380
@marwabahgat8380 2 күн бұрын
Thank you Lee .you have no idea how helpful you are .greetings from Egypt 🌷
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome!
@aiviewsandnews
@aiviewsandnews 8 сағат бұрын
Great insights, Lee. It’s fascinating to hear about the internal struggles narcissists face and how difficult it is to find genuine happiness from within. Your journey toward self-awareness is inspiring. Keep sharing your experiences; they truly help others to understand and navigate complex relationships. - from Detroit 🇺🇸
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 7 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@eternalriver7866
@eternalriver7866 2 күн бұрын
They favourite phrase is “I am happy” 😂 no one’s buying what they selling
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
😆
@SlashinatorZ
@SlashinatorZ 19 сағат бұрын
I'm an autistic empath & I've also had the same problem with needing validation. Being internally happy feels like delusions of grandeur. I've experienced lots of bullying & narcissistic abuse so I've got a lot of mental problems from it.
@ST-qn8en
@ST-qn8en 18 сағат бұрын
Thank you for saying this! I feel this, that, when I feel happiness that it is delusional. I feel 💯 the same except I am an Empath with ADD
@evacorthaut9881
@evacorthaut9881 11 сағат бұрын
Hey,also same with autism and add
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes 2 күн бұрын
Bar’s on bar’s Lee🎉🙌💯 You da GOAT 🐐 and so much more than you’ll ever see but I’m glad you can feel the love through us all because you give me 15 minutes at a time of coaching and reflection and advice for FREE. That’s some WWJD type stuff 🫶😇❤️
@ShaydraWest
@ShaydraWest 2 күн бұрын
Im a cancer as well baby!!! Big 40 here too!!! 🎉❤ 1985
@Quanda523
@Quanda523 2 күн бұрын
I found out ppl really knew just don’t say anything and will watch🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
@DEEJOJOHNSON
@DEEJOJOHNSON 2 күн бұрын
Sad, but true people will mind their own business
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Protect your peace
@Quanda523
@Quanda523 2 күн бұрын
@@MentalHealness 7months no contact and protecting my peace is a must 💪🏽 thank Lee
@Shawna87
@Shawna87 2 күн бұрын
I'll never forget when my ex husband called his dad complaining about his narcissistic mother and his dad literally said " you how your mom is, just leave it alone" I was like WTFFFF
@DEEJOJOHNSON
@DEEJOJOHNSON 2 күн бұрын
@@Shawna87 😔
@janem6688
@janem6688 2 күн бұрын
Look at the smile😂❤. You are so honest and funny 😁. God bless you 🙏
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
🙏
@laurrris
@laurrris Күн бұрын
The sad part is that they act on their dark side. I’ve met a guy with very high narcissistic traits and I wanted to get to know him. He let me, but I discovered he is a serial cheater. He says something, but does exactly the opposite, I mean it’s just words, he can lie for as long as he wants. I am not that happy with myself either, but I don’t go around hurting men the way he does it with girls. Cheating leaves your soul empty, being already unhappy with yourself, imagine it becomes even worse. And it’s so easy for him, probably that’s why he does it. He still wants to keep contact with me, but the truth is, no matter how interested and curious I am about him, I can’t ignore my feelings, it hurts by simply talking to him. I can’t do what I think, my well being is affected.
@Ms.Jamieh297
@Ms.Jamieh297 2 күн бұрын
Lee, you have come a very long way from where you were before. So much respect to you, my dear brother! Like and share your videos is what I always do. Thanks so much!👏🏾 🎉😊
@mssarah38
@mssarah38 2 күн бұрын
LEE YOU ARE SPOT ON!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING 💙.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@naterriebracynebblett4435
@naterriebracynebblett4435 Күн бұрын
I'm so proud of u, ur proving that ur indeed worthy!!! Just keep up the 👍🏿 work & stay 💪🏿 beloved brother!!!***ASHAY***
@BadXBizarre
@BadXBizarre Күн бұрын
My husband of 14 years took off on our children and I to go chase his dreams of becoming a professional car drifter. He also found new supply in the same week he left us, and completely ignored our children for Christmas, and couldn’t be bothered to send them anything, but he took himself out on a shopping spree and bought his new supply gifts. It makes me wonder if he’s truly happy or if he’ll ever regret discarding us the way he did.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
oh my goodness
@BadXBizarre
@BadXBizarre Күн бұрын
@@MentalHealness we are devastated!
@kenyattawashington9928
@kenyattawashington9928 2 күн бұрын
Glory be to God for you being able to find gratitude and happiness out of your disorder that help not only yourself, but othersGod bless you and your family Lee in Jesus name Amen❤️🙏🏽🤲🏽
@donnadaniels5095
@donnadaniels5095 Күн бұрын
Just make a decision🙏🏽 on being happy and you will be happy🎯💞
@JanetSnakehole28
@JanetSnakehole28 2 күн бұрын
When I was a teen, I snapped 'oh that sucks, maybe we should move house about it, again' when my narc mum whined about some superficial nonsense. Didn't realise I was literally calling out the truth until my 40's, when all these flashbacks made perfect sense. When I went no contact, I learned they literally moved house about it, too. A huge, expensive house for two elderly people with no grandkids, no friends, no nothing. But hey, it's the most expensive house in the neighbourhood, so they were happy for three seconds, lol.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
oh my goodness
@DEEJOJOHNSON
@DEEJOJOHNSON 2 күн бұрын
They will extort their self. My narcissistic ex-wife told the dude she was cheating with. Don't tell her secret. He says, "Show me them, boobs.And I won't, so she snuck out the house to show him
@Ashlee22-1
@Ashlee22-1 2 күн бұрын
First time here but been watching videos tysm 😊
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Glad you're here!
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL Күн бұрын
Almost positive he hides my existence from certain people. He says I haven’t met his mother b/c she would lose it if she found out he’s with a woman of color and he’ll tell her only if/when we bout to walk down the isle. I’ve met his closest friends but the not so serious friends (mostly female)- I’ve met but NEVER hear about them. Even though they talk regularly & one, I found out STILL sends inappropriate pics/vids. “I told her to stop and blocked her for 3 months.” But she still occasionally sends. 🤯
@BluebirdKbres
@BluebirdKbres Күн бұрын
Yep it's killing me how my husband says that he is unhappy/ has "no joy" and I try so hard to bring more joy into our lives 😣. We even do therapy together and it doesn't help.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
It’s so frustrating when they don’t seem to care.
@Bob-zh6dw
@Bob-zh6dw Күн бұрын
A lot of us seek outside validation when seeking happiness and were never taught to find it within ourselves and were not narcissist
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi Күн бұрын
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j Күн бұрын
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi Күн бұрын
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j Күн бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j Күн бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi Күн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@joydiaz8967
@joydiaz8967 2 күн бұрын
I ask my narcissist not to expose me because he only gives a one sided view of our relationship to his family and peers.
@tatianaa.3694
@tatianaa.3694 17 сағат бұрын
Let's be honest, many people, especially young people, even if they are not narcissistic, also obtain what they believe is happiness from external validation, that is a fact, many psychologists have already talked about this topic. In fact, it is known that the vast majority of people begin to be happy from the age of 50, because they begin to have inner peace and that is really happiness, and not everything we think we need when we are younger, such as being fisically attractive, having a nice car and house, many friends, social recognition etc etc. So this not only affects narcissists, it is an evil of the consumerist society that we have created
@jalesapowell
@jalesapowell 2 күн бұрын
I'm here ❤🎉 Hi Lee
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Heeeey
@beverlyjackman2669
@beverlyjackman2669 2 күн бұрын
Yes my husband wasn’t posting in a good mood if he had money to spend or was going some were fun even if it didn’t include me
@TamaraDePonio
@TamaraDePonio 7 сағат бұрын
Thanks!
@KimberlyGray-cd3lt
@KimberlyGray-cd3lt Күн бұрын
Was with a NARC for 14 years i want ❤to write a book
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
Do it
@fivespeed3026
@fivespeed3026 2 күн бұрын
I’m a narcissist, who continually ends up with girls who are even more narcissistic than I am. One after the other.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
oh man
@deborahrobinson6553
@deborahrobinson6553 42 минут бұрын
Are they named Karma?😂
@erikainiguez1314
@erikainiguez1314 2 күн бұрын
Mine told me he wanted the most beautiful dog and extravagant fur and size (Alaskan Malamute) because of how much attention our dog gets. But hates taking care of him and said well I changed my mind, I have too many other responsibilities...he doesn't. It drove me crazy. He thought I'd agree to render my dog...hell naw! My dog is the reason I'm finally leaving. Like, what kind of person just decides to give up a dog because you got bored of him...a narc. A good topic Lee, may be can a narc actually love a pet?
@livinganddyingabroad
@livinganddyingabroad 2 күн бұрын
No they love no one they are cold hearted 😢 mine left me with a 15 day old baby just because I won’t name my child after his mother.. he was in and out of my life throughout the pregnancy left for few days to “ recharge while I’m recovering from a c section bcz he was “struggling with his mental health it’s always me me me have no empathy for anyone not animals not children
@JanetSnakehole28
@JanetSnakehole28 2 күн бұрын
It's often only when narcs act heinous to true innocents that we tend to go 'aww hell no' and finally escape. You and your dog saved each other. In my experience, they can't love pets. Had a lot of suspiciously short lived and sickly pets growing up, plus an aunt's dog who passed away in suspicious circumstances while in my mother's 'care'. I'm no contact now and it sounds silly, but I have a note on my phone lock screen 'in case of emergency' thing that if I'm in an accident or something, don't let those people anywhere near my fur babies. Highly unlikely, but better safe than sorry
@erikainiguez1314
@erikainiguez1314 2 күн бұрын
@JanetSnakehole28 yes!! I say now that though my baby bear is a giant and requires a lot of exercise and training, he is push to leave because I'm scared of leaving him alone with the narc as I've seen him mistreat him and I lunged to defend him. No one can hurt my Kylo. They can't love animals. They will hurt them especially the innocent loving goofy ones like mine who loves everyone but at 105 lbs and still growing he will not be easy to shove around. My narc and him darn near weight the same. Kylo absolutely saves me every day. Great idea, thanks!
@erikainiguez1314
@erikainiguez1314 2 күн бұрын
@livinganddyingabroad I HATE this. Mine says, "at the end of the day I gotta worry about my own peace and do whatever it takes to get it" REALLY? NO. You create peace by handling responsibilities and promises with dignity and righteousness. He can get over himself. Leave a 15 day old baby??! But if the tables were turned?? I'm sorry, this makes me so mad. I'm sorry
@ckn9503
@ckn9503 Күн бұрын
Love your beginning music
@kayastarlove
@kayastarlove Күн бұрын
They don't care throw a tantrum in front of others and tell everyone you made them act that way, and crazy thing is they all believe them...even after seeing them act the fool. Nuts
@naterriebracynebblett4435
@naterriebracynebblett4435 Күн бұрын
I'm here my beloved brother***ASHAY***
@JudithBennett-t5s
@JudithBennett-t5s Күн бұрын
I have seen that in some people, however I have also seen that some have long term employment. And some, no jobs haha!
@debbie4062
@debbie4062 2 күн бұрын
Learn to want what you have.
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 22 сағат бұрын
You are on fire!!! 🔥💖🙏💖
@CarolKatongo-pi1su
@CarolKatongo-pi1su 22 сағат бұрын
I can surely say they r impossible to pliz and understand bcoz they do not even understand themselves in the first place. They only try hard to b relevant but oh my word all backfires for them and hence no happiness for themselves. 😢
@rlmcclain1
@rlmcclain1 Күн бұрын
Yep Lee I saw you in an episode of Fatal Affairs.. I'm glad you were the good guy in the role you took lol
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
😂💪🏽
@AngieTwomey-x6b
@AngieTwomey-x6b 2 күн бұрын
They are empty holes
@teobice460
@teobice460 21 сағат бұрын
You are the only narcissist that I admire
@cup_o_TMarie
@cup_o_TMarie Күн бұрын
7/14 same bday Mr! Thanks for sharing your journey 🙏🤍💫 Once I did my healing & learned to find gratitude & peace & contentment in everyday things along with my connection to all of life (spirituality) my life totally changed. I no longer struggle with deep depression & anxiety. It’s a miracle🤍
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽
@Stoopid.cupidd
@Stoopid.cupidd 2 күн бұрын
Your hair is 😍
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
♥️
@Aquamarine7
@Aquamarine7 2 күн бұрын
They truly are not Happy if they were they would treat people well not like crap
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
💯
@helenwashington6212
@helenwashington6212 2 күн бұрын
Do they get triggered by people who are able to be happy ?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
possibly
@laurahenry3562
@laurahenry3562 Күн бұрын
Yes ,they hate when others are happy ,they want everyone around them to be unhappy like they are ,they will specifically take down the house ,if everyone in house is happy ,emotional vampires
@hadiza1
@hadiza1 2 күн бұрын
Notis on! 💀
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Ty
@shaunogg9966
@shaunogg9966 Күн бұрын
lol, I was told by my covert narcissistic ex girlfriend not to tell others how she is after we broke up. She wanted me to lie and make out that she is awesome and I was the bad one. I can't lie to save myself sooo......
@Angelique-q9g
@Angelique-q9g 3 сағат бұрын
Happy internal VALUE🤔
@DoesItReallyMatter25
@DoesItReallyMatter25 Күн бұрын
How does one talk to a narc spouse about therapy being beneficial? My undiagnosed narc hubby truly trashes therapy as being only for people who are weak, dumb, and want to learn tools to manipulate others 🥴
@mortischahicks5341
@mortischahicks5341 Күн бұрын
Yes, that sounds just like my ex-boyfriend. He didn't want me to tell nobody what was going on in the relationship. 😢😢
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
😢😢
@kayastarlove
@kayastarlove Күн бұрын
The covert doesn't act like need people but then when around others act completely different. It's weird.
@shiz1246
@shiz1246 11 сағат бұрын
That was fire 🔥
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 7 сағат бұрын
appreciate it
@karlyvictorsen2646
@karlyvictorsen2646 Күн бұрын
Lee you are so insightful. I have a question. My partners ex wife is creating havoc for him, especially since we have fallen in love. She is terrified of him exposing her cheating lying abusive behaviour, and is poisoning his adult children against him. Any advice on how to deal with her?
@ashleyfowler1776
@ashleyfowler1776 6 сағат бұрын
Is this why my covert narcissist mother is always smiling like a lunatic in public?
@andreasanchez2815
@andreasanchez2815 23 сағат бұрын
omg my narcissistic ex was 39 and is turning 40 in JULY! lmao he is a CANCER! ARE ALL CANCERS NARCISSISTS!?? MY MOM IS A CANCER AND IS THE BIGGEST COVERT NARCISSIST ON THE PLANET. OMG. this is crazy hahaha. ugh
@anatarasic
@anatarasic 15 сағат бұрын
Cancers are really narcissists
@AnnaMishel
@AnnaMishel Күн бұрын
Happiness “alludes” narcissists!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
‼️
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee Күн бұрын
Left my ex 5 weeks ago and yesterday he sent my mom A PICTURE OF HIM AND HIS NEW SUPPLY TO MY MOM……. Stating he’s happy for what I did cause now he’s found his happiness.…..
@hayatudeenohize8148
@hayatudeenohize8148 Күн бұрын
Interesting, so immature. A happy person doesn't need to tell others that they are happy.
@Chantrell22
@Chantrell22 Күн бұрын
He’s full of 💩! They are addicted to ppl. He might as well have said I found my next high. They damn sure CAN’T exude genuine happiness.
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee 7 сағат бұрын
@@hayatudeenohize8148 Exactly!!! Thank you for saying this!!
@DanceChickaDee
@DanceChickaDee 7 сағат бұрын
@@Chantrell22 Yup!!!! Couldn’t have said it better!
@CF-tp6sb
@CF-tp6sb 2 күн бұрын
You rule.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Thank you
@deborahhawkins6170
@deborahhawkins6170 Күн бұрын
Is it that the narc was so badly damaged as a child they simply don't know what happiness is? Perhaps they never had happiness as a child and never actually saw happiness.
@Angelique-q9g
@Angelique-q9g 3 сағат бұрын
Fleeting 😞😞😞😞
@NotUrAvrg
@NotUrAvrg Күн бұрын
Probably cuz they are the one who makes themselves miserable.
@leander79416
@leander79416 Күн бұрын
My narcissist often said she does nkt know why she is always so Happy ...
@Jasmina-Marseille
@Jasmina-Marseille Күн бұрын
I absolutely love how fair, you are. This is a beautiful charachteristic of you. I am very proud of you.
@kayastarlove
@kayastarlove Күн бұрын
They act happy
@helenabaur4305
@helenabaur4305 Күн бұрын
it the biggest LIE to themselfs.. I had a crazy situation.. been married to a covert narc.. he treating me like shit.. we have 3 little kids.. one day A YOUNG STRONG TESTOSTERON grandiose narc comes alonge and love bombs me like follwing " Lets come togehter.. you are with me now.. leave your kids at fathers house.. we will have a wonderful baby" .. I was freaing out.. I laied on the ground laughing.. but played the game.. it was hilaours!
@AmourKey5
@AmourKey5 2 күн бұрын
So does this mean that you are never happy since u are a diagnosed narcissist?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
I struggle
@nanettesimon9388
@nanettesimon9388 2 күн бұрын
The narc i was with was very happy around other men!!! i had to ask him you gay word he goes both ways
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance Күн бұрын
The narcissist I was dealing with searched for women with a specific nationality/roots, I looked like those roots but I don't have those roots so he didn't settle with me. He is now married to someone with someone with that roots but is chasing more women with those roots. Why if narcisssits can use everyone as supply, why are they going for a specific type?
@freedombawden7458
@freedombawden7458 Күн бұрын
It would be amazing to hear the side of things from your wife’s perspective. How she handles your bad days and good.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
💯
@ckn9503
@ckn9503 Күн бұрын
Not the Nitty, just the Gritty. Lol
@evacorthaut9881
@evacorthaut9881 11 сағат бұрын
Also birthday in july😊
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 7 сағат бұрын
😊
@Angelique-q9g
@Angelique-q9g 3 сағат бұрын
Urgent please expose a Narcissist 👿👿 individual or individuals
@RaniceDorothea
@RaniceDorothea Күн бұрын
Thanks for the forecast! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
@lizzgage3523
@lizzgage3523 2 күн бұрын
I think this is your best work yet. You have come so far to be able to be grateful 🩵 bless you and your progress
@AngelLeonne..
@AngelLeonne.. Күн бұрын
Mr.LEE!!??!, Please excuse My use of "!" directly after your name like that but I just really have a question for you that I must've missed you address before perhaps but anyways ~**WHY does a Narcissist blame you for really what they have done, repeatedly!! ...Like to the MOST illogical and nonsensical points n levels!!?! Besides the fact that they MUST LOVE makin you think you're crazy, beyond just finding amusement in other ppls misery /misery loves company etc., is it something even beyond the whole self guilt they don't want to face so it's easier just to blame you for what they do bc they know that's something THEY like to do but are allergic to ACCOUNTABILITY so they just blame you even KNOWING without a shadow of a doubt that you literally never have ever done whatever it is that they are blaming you for, they still Love to put their BS on you n act like they're a damn Saint and literally contradict themselves about 4 times in the same dam breath or sentence...PLUS love keeping any and every kinda argument going from the moment they crack their eyes open n the mornin til they close them at night especially over the most irrelevant, minute things that should never even require any amount of energy especially to be argued over. Is it all really just for attention??!! Like "any attention is better than no attention so they go for the Negative all the time"energy?? What's up with that ISHH??( Ive been subbed to you for years Now actually but had to find you again so I've missed a bit of content , sorry if you've already been done addressed all this I feel like I may have answered my own question but hopefully there's more to it you can enlighten Me on, Thx!)💯💯💯💯❤
@sharielf1726
@sharielf1726 Күн бұрын
You have answered your own question. Spot on!!! Plus they like attention, arguing with you means you are giving them attention. Good or bad attention they don’t care. Attention is attention. They thrive in chaos.
@Ashlee22-1
@Ashlee22-1 2 күн бұрын
Hi 👋
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
👋
@crystalnyla
@crystalnyla 11 сағат бұрын
Currently ZERO Narcissists In My 2025 🎉 It feels good ♥️🙏🏼♥️
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 7 сағат бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@annascorpio117
@annascorpio117 2 күн бұрын
Is anyone always happy?
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 күн бұрын
Nah
@beeha8133
@beeha8133 2 күн бұрын
No but that not what he’s saying… He’s saying that happiness has to come from within and not outside of yourself.
@annascorpio117
@annascorpio117 2 күн бұрын
@ I know I was just making a statement
@beeha8133
@beeha8133 2 күн бұрын
@ oh ok lol
@laurahenry3562
@laurahenry3562 Күн бұрын
Not necessarily but some people can be content most of the time ,narcissists are never happy nor content
@masershazemenfes1288
@masershazemenfes1288 Күн бұрын
Lee we have the same birthday 🎂 07/14😂😂❤❤❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness Күн бұрын
😂 Bday twins
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