They also sabotage themselves from being happy. They are their own worst enemy but they blame everyone else for their problems.
@MerbellaКүн бұрын
This! 💯
@emilyhurst4829Күн бұрын
@@1969tb Yep
@barbarascoggins523910 сағат бұрын
No responsibility for themselves, only others! Spot On!
@tjan20076 сағат бұрын
Spot on! Truly pathetic..
@iBlindAssassin2 күн бұрын
That is absolutely mind-boggling! They need people but they don't want to treat them right so that they would actually want to stick around! 🤦
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
It’s crazy
@foxiefair123Күн бұрын
All they do is reframe as to why you weren’t so great after all and spread it around and tell other people about it.
@jilross4892Күн бұрын
Yes and its so frustrating when you do something nice for them and they dont see it
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
💯
@erikainiguez13142 күн бұрын
They ask you not expose them but then turn around and make up lies and embellish on a comment made and tell everyone around you unbeknownst to you. They are pathetic.
@deanj88702 күн бұрын
NARCISSISTS N - Never does anything without strings or be wrong A - Avoids accountability and empathy R - Rages when they don't get their way C - Childish and stunted in their brain age I- Instills doubts in others and creates conflicts S - Stonewalls and walks away to avoid responsibility S - Smear Campaigns and slanders you to others I- Initiates arguments and gaslights you into reacting S - Silent treatments and silencing your voice T - Triangulates you and others against you S - SERIOUSLY SICK & DYSFUNCTIONAL
@DanceChickaDeeКүн бұрын
Accurate af!
@Chantrell22Күн бұрын
I really like this
@rlmcclain1Күн бұрын
Dead on
@MerbellaКүн бұрын
So sadly true!
@susanhenderson9739Күн бұрын
Your comment is so on point!!!
@DEEJOJOHNSON2 күн бұрын
My narcissistic ex-wife is never happy because she never got therapy and healing from childhood trauma
@emilyhurst48292 күн бұрын
Seems my Narc is NEVER Happy either! So serious all the time! I'll be like, can't we just have fun for once?
@Mrmuscles19702 күн бұрын
Mine same way too! No matter what I do, I can't seem to make her happy and I'm the bad guy? A lack of self. I've been over this for a while
@DEEJOJOHNSON2 күн бұрын
@Mrmuscles1970 I put up with a lot, but when she committed adultery, I had to get a divorce
@ckn9503Күн бұрын
I'm so glad you reminded me the Truth , happiness is an Inside job, not defined on the outside
@CMackenzie-e5u2 күн бұрын
I can't tell you how much I appreciate you and your channel, Lee. I'm going through an extremely difficult experience at the moment with a pair of narcissist sisters that have been harassing me. I want absolutely nothing to do with them and they've been attempting to force a relationship with me. I blocked them by phone and even tried to call me from another number trying to pin me down. Seriously creepy. A right pair of bunny-boilers they are. All your insights and everything you share helps me to understand them so much more.
@carolyneasley89802 күн бұрын
They know internally that they are a hot mess, so the house, the car ", the look" is the curtains they hide behind peeping to make sure everyone is still looking and admiring them. It will never be enough to ever make them feel "normal" and BECAUSE they can never seem to achieve normalcy no matter what they do, well, you'll always be the punching bag.
@BluebirdKbresКүн бұрын
Unfortunately you are right.
@susanhenderson9739Күн бұрын
I had to learn this the hard way …. When I first met my husband he bragged about his house which wasn’t even up to par…his truck (which was a lease) and he was Smug! I never had to lease any of my trucks and I can afford the upkeep of my house 🏠….. He looked down on everyone including me as if he’s better than everyone….
@CF-tp6sb2 күн бұрын
PS since you mentioned your age and how you are growing can I say that it’s really obvious. Since joining this community I’ve gone back years with your videos and they were always helpful but holy shit you mature and become more and more genuine and strong and funny and real and just glow up exponentially every year. Like you seem happier and just better. Now is your best in every way, physically emotionally and intellectually your presence is apex right now and I know every year will keep upping. It’s really inspiring.
@CN-dv9njКүн бұрын
You're right. Healing w a therapist, this is outcome of working it.
@jesssmith2064Күн бұрын
I'm a bit slow at catching on, but once I realise they're a Narc, I'm out, walk away. Not worth it
@AngieTwomey-x6b2 күн бұрын
They don't have empathy
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
😞
@kamillechisolm98492 күн бұрын
I just said this the other day, narcissistic people are impossible to please !!! If you’re super close to them ! Super impulsive and just searching for a new high !
@nikkyluv224419 сағат бұрын
Always searching for a new high.. spending is insane because they can never have enough, and I noticed they covet so much, so they are easily distracted by what others have
@1969tb2 күн бұрын
This knowledge is so empowering. I just can't begin to tell you. Thank you Lee.🙏🏽👍🏾
@cristolcarol97102 күн бұрын
Total agreement. Between Lee and Dr.Ramani, they saved my life. Literally. I'm so thankful for them.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@emilyhurst48292 күн бұрын
@@cristolcarol9710 Me too!
@CF-tp6sb2 күн бұрын
Right??? And the way he says it like, this righteous dude just taking us under his wing and protecting us from really confusing abusive experiences. So empowering.
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes2 күн бұрын
I second that!!! I like seeing people tell him this personally so he KNOWS we truly need your viewpoint outside of the basic information.
@BeSoSerious21 сағат бұрын
5:30 🎯🎯 The appearance of having a beautiful happy family is so important to someone who's trying to prove to everyone from their past that "they weren't the problem"
@davidcole2530Күн бұрын
This is your real calling brother and thank you
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
you’re welcome and Thank you
@roboflavinful2 күн бұрын
Because they need to get positive emotions from others.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
😩
@foxiefair123Күн бұрын
Ok, well, then do positive things! 🤷♀️
@tatianaa.369418 сағат бұрын
@@foxiefair123 It's not that easy for them, their brain functions differently, they have a disorder
@jed299810 сағат бұрын
Someone I know said “they are living their life to show the women that did not stay with them know what they are missing.” It’s sad to know that this person is living their life with this as their focus instead of being grateful for the wife, kids, job, etc., that they currently have.😔
@MentalHealness7 сағат бұрын
‼️
@moniqueboatfield2 күн бұрын
I would imagine they stay unhappy because folks won’t just leave them alone and let them cheat, lol!
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes2 күн бұрын
At 10 minutes you said a cool thing- you said you’ve been the happiest doing coaching social media because it helps others. And Lee I’ve always heard the quote love and happiness doesn’t have to be shared or split, it multiplies and keeps giving that emotional happy high which is the best drug in a way to keep that inner self feeling self love! And also, LEE you’ve done some really amazing jobs before you took on this one all before she 40 so you need a huge boost of confidence from others you helped by hearing us tell you, you’ve always been enough and great! And I hate to hear you never felt it inside but don’t feel alone, even non-narcs never feel enough. So I understand it’s not automatic to feel happy. I have a law degree- served 6 years army as a paralegal also and at 39 years old I don’t think others value me. I thinks narcissistic people and people like me can relate to that trigger and as we know, it’s definitely childhood trauma that’s made us doubt ourselves. But nonetheless Lee- you ALWAYS BUILD US UP and you’re doing more than any person can do and I’m grateful you do this work. Thank you 😊
@BeSoSerious21 сағат бұрын
I appreciate how real you keep it! I feel a little less lonely somehow knowing this is not in my head cause I swear he be gaslighting me into thinking if we just did everything better and remembered all of these little things to do and not do that he wouldn't have to get angry over stupid shit all the time.
@nancydrew513 сағат бұрын
I'm grateful for you Lee. Even though your narcissistic survivors community is your new supply, you've turned this into a positive. You've turned your need for external validation into something that helps others. That's a good thing. Your community shows you how much they appreciate you. This fills that void in you that those previous jobs you've done never have.
@nadia68042 күн бұрын
Yeah he needed validation feom his friends at the age of 56 yrs old.he would abuse me behind closed doors and would get so defensive if I asked him about this girl who he was friends with.he would talk to her more,spend time with her and would get so upset if I said anything.im glad he's out of my life.
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRLКүн бұрын
Sounds familiar 🫤 How long have you been healing?
@Chantrell22Күн бұрын
Yes they definitely do that
@kayastarloveКүн бұрын
Triangulation 😢 they do that to break your self esteem. Sad is they do it on purpose
@nadia6804Күн бұрын
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRL i haven't healed,i just left him recently.dealing with PTSD,it's very traumatic and just taking one day at a time.but i couldnt take the abuse anymore.he tried to unalive me many times,I realized that is not the way I want to leave this world.he doesn't deserve my love or me.they are seriously the devil.
@marwabahgat83802 күн бұрын
Thank you Lee .you have no idea how helpful you are .greetings from Egypt 🌷
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome!
@aiviewsandnews8 сағат бұрын
Great insights, Lee. It’s fascinating to hear about the internal struggles narcissists face and how difficult it is to find genuine happiness from within. Your journey toward self-awareness is inspiring. Keep sharing your experiences; they truly help others to understand and navigate complex relationships. - from Detroit 🇺🇸
@MentalHealness7 сағат бұрын
Thank you
@eternalriver78662 күн бұрын
They favourite phrase is “I am happy” 😂 no one’s buying what they selling
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
😆
@SlashinatorZ19 сағат бұрын
I'm an autistic empath & I've also had the same problem with needing validation. Being internally happy feels like delusions of grandeur. I've experienced lots of bullying & narcissistic abuse so I've got a lot of mental problems from it.
@ST-qn8en18 сағат бұрын
Thank you for saying this! I feel this, that, when I feel happiness that it is delusional. I feel 💯 the same except I am an Empath with ADD
@evacorthaut988111 сағат бұрын
Hey,also same with autism and add
@Notehead_notezart_tooManyNotes2 күн бұрын
Bar’s on bar’s Lee🎉🙌💯 You da GOAT 🐐 and so much more than you’ll ever see but I’m glad you can feel the love through us all because you give me 15 minutes at a time of coaching and reflection and advice for FREE. That’s some WWJD type stuff 🫶😇❤️
@ShaydraWest2 күн бұрын
Im a cancer as well baby!!! Big 40 here too!!! 🎉❤ 1985
@Quanda5232 күн бұрын
I found out ppl really knew just don’t say anything and will watch🤦♀️🤦♀️
@DEEJOJOHNSON2 күн бұрын
Sad, but true people will mind their own business
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Protect your peace
@Quanda5232 күн бұрын
@@MentalHealness 7months no contact and protecting my peace is a must 💪🏽 thank Lee
@Shawna872 күн бұрын
I'll never forget when my ex husband called his dad complaining about his narcissistic mother and his dad literally said " you how your mom is, just leave it alone" I was like WTFFFF
@DEEJOJOHNSON2 күн бұрын
@@Shawna87 😔
@janem66882 күн бұрын
Look at the smile😂❤. You are so honest and funny 😁. God bless you 🙏
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
🙏
@laurrrisКүн бұрын
The sad part is that they act on their dark side. I’ve met a guy with very high narcissistic traits and I wanted to get to know him. He let me, but I discovered he is a serial cheater. He says something, but does exactly the opposite, I mean it’s just words, he can lie for as long as he wants. I am not that happy with myself either, but I don’t go around hurting men the way he does it with girls. Cheating leaves your soul empty, being already unhappy with yourself, imagine it becomes even worse. And it’s so easy for him, probably that’s why he does it. He still wants to keep contact with me, but the truth is, no matter how interested and curious I am about him, I can’t ignore my feelings, it hurts by simply talking to him. I can’t do what I think, my well being is affected.
@Ms.Jamieh2972 күн бұрын
Lee, you have come a very long way from where you were before. So much respect to you, my dear brother! Like and share your videos is what I always do. Thanks so much!👏🏾 🎉😊
@mssarah382 күн бұрын
LEE YOU ARE SPOT ON!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING 💙.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
You are so welcome
@naterriebracynebblett4435Күн бұрын
I'm so proud of u, ur proving that ur indeed worthy!!! Just keep up the 👍🏿 work & stay 💪🏿 beloved brother!!!***ASHAY***
@BadXBizarreКүн бұрын
My husband of 14 years took off on our children and I to go chase his dreams of becoming a professional car drifter. He also found new supply in the same week he left us, and completely ignored our children for Christmas, and couldn’t be bothered to send them anything, but he took himself out on a shopping spree and bought his new supply gifts. It makes me wonder if he’s truly happy or if he’ll ever regret discarding us the way he did.
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
oh my goodness
@BadXBizarreКүн бұрын
@@MentalHealness we are devastated!
@kenyattawashington99282 күн бұрын
Glory be to God for you being able to find gratitude and happiness out of your disorder that help not only yourself, but othersGod bless you and your family Lee in Jesus name Amen❤️🙏🏽🤲🏽
@donnadaniels5095Күн бұрын
Just make a decision🙏🏽 on being happy and you will be happy🎯💞
@JanetSnakehole282 күн бұрын
When I was a teen, I snapped 'oh that sucks, maybe we should move house about it, again' when my narc mum whined about some superficial nonsense. Didn't realise I was literally calling out the truth until my 40's, when all these flashbacks made perfect sense. When I went no contact, I learned they literally moved house about it, too. A huge, expensive house for two elderly people with no grandkids, no friends, no nothing. But hey, it's the most expensive house in the neighbourhood, so they were happy for three seconds, lol.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
oh my goodness
@DEEJOJOHNSON2 күн бұрын
They will extort their self. My narcissistic ex-wife told the dude she was cheating with. Don't tell her secret. He says, "Show me them, boobs.And I won't, so she snuck out the house to show him
@Ashlee22-12 күн бұрын
First time here but been watching videos tysm 😊
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Glad you're here!
@TheAdventuresOfCollegeGiRLКүн бұрын
Almost positive he hides my existence from certain people. He says I haven’t met his mother b/c she would lose it if she found out he’s with a woman of color and he’ll tell her only if/when we bout to walk down the isle. I’ve met his closest friends but the not so serious friends (mostly female)- I’ve met but NEVER hear about them. Even though they talk regularly & one, I found out STILL sends inappropriate pics/vids. “I told her to stop and blocked her for 3 months.” But she still occasionally sends. 🤯
@BluebirdKbresКүн бұрын
Yep it's killing me how my husband says that he is unhappy/ has "no joy" and I try so hard to bring more joy into our lives 😣. We even do therapy together and it doesn't help.
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
It’s so frustrating when they don’t seem to care.
@Bob-zh6dwКүн бұрын
A lot of us seek outside validation when seeking happiness and were never taught to find it within ourselves and were not narcissist
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisiКүн бұрын
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
@QueenJessica-z5jКүн бұрын
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisiКүн бұрын
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
@QueenJessica-z5jКүн бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@QueenJessica-z5jКүн бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisiКүн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@joydiaz89672 күн бұрын
I ask my narcissist not to expose me because he only gives a one sided view of our relationship to his family and peers.
@tatianaa.369417 сағат бұрын
Let's be honest, many people, especially young people, even if they are not narcissistic, also obtain what they believe is happiness from external validation, that is a fact, many psychologists have already talked about this topic. In fact, it is known that the vast majority of people begin to be happy from the age of 50, because they begin to have inner peace and that is really happiness, and not everything we think we need when we are younger, such as being fisically attractive, having a nice car and house, many friends, social recognition etc etc. So this not only affects narcissists, it is an evil of the consumerist society that we have created
@jalesapowell2 күн бұрын
I'm here ❤🎉 Hi Lee
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Heeeey
@beverlyjackman26692 күн бұрын
Yes my husband wasn’t posting in a good mood if he had money to spend or was going some were fun even if it didn’t include me
@TamaraDePonio7 сағат бұрын
Thanks!
@KimberlyGray-cd3ltКүн бұрын
Was with a NARC for 14 years i want ❤to write a book
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
Do it
@fivespeed30262 күн бұрын
I’m a narcissist, who continually ends up with girls who are even more narcissistic than I am. One after the other.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
oh man
@deborahrobinson655342 минут бұрын
Are they named Karma?😂
@erikainiguez13142 күн бұрын
Mine told me he wanted the most beautiful dog and extravagant fur and size (Alaskan Malamute) because of how much attention our dog gets. But hates taking care of him and said well I changed my mind, I have too many other responsibilities...he doesn't. It drove me crazy. He thought I'd agree to render my dog...hell naw! My dog is the reason I'm finally leaving. Like, what kind of person just decides to give up a dog because you got bored of him...a narc. A good topic Lee, may be can a narc actually love a pet?
@livinganddyingabroad2 күн бұрын
No they love no one they are cold hearted 😢 mine left me with a 15 day old baby just because I won’t name my child after his mother.. he was in and out of my life throughout the pregnancy left for few days to “ recharge while I’m recovering from a c section bcz he was “struggling with his mental health it’s always me me me have no empathy for anyone not animals not children
@JanetSnakehole282 күн бұрын
It's often only when narcs act heinous to true innocents that we tend to go 'aww hell no' and finally escape. You and your dog saved each other. In my experience, they can't love pets. Had a lot of suspiciously short lived and sickly pets growing up, plus an aunt's dog who passed away in suspicious circumstances while in my mother's 'care'. I'm no contact now and it sounds silly, but I have a note on my phone lock screen 'in case of emergency' thing that if I'm in an accident or something, don't let those people anywhere near my fur babies. Highly unlikely, but better safe than sorry
@erikainiguez13142 күн бұрын
@JanetSnakehole28 yes!! I say now that though my baby bear is a giant and requires a lot of exercise and training, he is push to leave because I'm scared of leaving him alone with the narc as I've seen him mistreat him and I lunged to defend him. No one can hurt my Kylo. They can't love animals. They will hurt them especially the innocent loving goofy ones like mine who loves everyone but at 105 lbs and still growing he will not be easy to shove around. My narc and him darn near weight the same. Kylo absolutely saves me every day. Great idea, thanks!
@erikainiguez13142 күн бұрын
@livinganddyingabroad I HATE this. Mine says, "at the end of the day I gotta worry about my own peace and do whatever it takes to get it" REALLY? NO. You create peace by handling responsibilities and promises with dignity and righteousness. He can get over himself. Leave a 15 day old baby??! But if the tables were turned?? I'm sorry, this makes me so mad. I'm sorry
@ckn9503Күн бұрын
Love your beginning music
@kayastarloveКүн бұрын
They don't care throw a tantrum in front of others and tell everyone you made them act that way, and crazy thing is they all believe them...even after seeing them act the fool. Nuts
@naterriebracynebblett4435Күн бұрын
I'm here my beloved brother***ASHAY***
@JudithBennett-t5sКүн бұрын
I have seen that in some people, however I have also seen that some have long term employment. And some, no jobs haha!
@debbie40622 күн бұрын
Learn to want what you have.
@mollykayramstack619322 сағат бұрын
You are on fire!!! 🔥💖🙏💖
@CarolKatongo-pi1su22 сағат бұрын
I can surely say they r impossible to pliz and understand bcoz they do not even understand themselves in the first place. They only try hard to b relevant but oh my word all backfires for them and hence no happiness for themselves. 😢
@rlmcclain1Күн бұрын
Yep Lee I saw you in an episode of Fatal Affairs.. I'm glad you were the good guy in the role you took lol
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
😂💪🏽
@AngieTwomey-x6b2 күн бұрын
They are empty holes
@teobice46021 сағат бұрын
You are the only narcissist that I admire
@cup_o_TMarieКүн бұрын
7/14 same bday Mr! Thanks for sharing your journey 🙏🤍💫 Once I did my healing & learned to find gratitude & peace & contentment in everyday things along with my connection to all of life (spirituality) my life totally changed. I no longer struggle with deep depression & anxiety. It’s a miracle🤍
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽
@Stoopid.cupidd2 күн бұрын
Your hair is 😍
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
♥️
@Aquamarine72 күн бұрын
They truly are not Happy if they were they would treat people well not like crap
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
💯
@helenwashington62122 күн бұрын
Do they get triggered by people who are able to be happy ?
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
possibly
@laurahenry3562Күн бұрын
Yes ,they hate when others are happy ,they want everyone around them to be unhappy like they are ,they will specifically take down the house ,if everyone in house is happy ,emotional vampires
@hadiza12 күн бұрын
Notis on! 💀
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Ty
@shaunogg9966Күн бұрын
lol, I was told by my covert narcissistic ex girlfriend not to tell others how she is after we broke up. She wanted me to lie and make out that she is awesome and I was the bad one. I can't lie to save myself sooo......
@Angelique-q9g3 сағат бұрын
Happy internal VALUE🤔
@DoesItReallyMatter25Күн бұрын
How does one talk to a narc spouse about therapy being beneficial? My undiagnosed narc hubby truly trashes therapy as being only for people who are weak, dumb, and want to learn tools to manipulate others 🥴
@mortischahicks5341Күн бұрын
Yes, that sounds just like my ex-boyfriend. He didn't want me to tell nobody what was going on in the relationship. 😢😢
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
😢😢
@kayastarloveКүн бұрын
The covert doesn't act like need people but then when around others act completely different. It's weird.
@shiz124611 сағат бұрын
That was fire 🔥
@MentalHealness7 сағат бұрын
appreciate it
@karlyvictorsen2646Күн бұрын
Lee you are so insightful. I have a question. My partners ex wife is creating havoc for him, especially since we have fallen in love. She is terrified of him exposing her cheating lying abusive behaviour, and is poisoning his adult children against him. Any advice on how to deal with her?
@ashleyfowler17766 сағат бұрын
Is this why my covert narcissist mother is always smiling like a lunatic in public?
@andreasanchez281523 сағат бұрын
omg my narcissistic ex was 39 and is turning 40 in JULY! lmao he is a CANCER! ARE ALL CANCERS NARCISSISTS!?? MY MOM IS A CANCER AND IS THE BIGGEST COVERT NARCISSIST ON THE PLANET. OMG. this is crazy hahaha. ugh
@anatarasic15 сағат бұрын
Cancers are really narcissists
@AnnaMishelКүн бұрын
Happiness “alludes” narcissists!
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
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@DanceChickaDeeКүн бұрын
Left my ex 5 weeks ago and yesterday he sent my mom A PICTURE OF HIM AND HIS NEW SUPPLY TO MY MOM……. Stating he’s happy for what I did cause now he’s found his happiness.…..
@hayatudeenohize8148Күн бұрын
Interesting, so immature. A happy person doesn't need to tell others that they are happy.
@Chantrell22Күн бұрын
He’s full of 💩! They are addicted to ppl. He might as well have said I found my next high. They damn sure CAN’T exude genuine happiness.
@DanceChickaDee7 сағат бұрын
@@hayatudeenohize8148 Exactly!!! Thank you for saying this!!
@DanceChickaDee7 сағат бұрын
@@Chantrell22 Yup!!!! Couldn’t have said it better!
@CF-tp6sb2 күн бұрын
You rule.
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Thank you
@deborahhawkins6170Күн бұрын
Is it that the narc was so badly damaged as a child they simply don't know what happiness is? Perhaps they never had happiness as a child and never actually saw happiness.
@Angelique-q9g3 сағат бұрын
Fleeting 😞😞😞😞
@NotUrAvrgКүн бұрын
Probably cuz they are the one who makes themselves miserable.
@leander79416Күн бұрын
My narcissist often said she does nkt know why she is always so Happy ...
@Jasmina-MarseilleКүн бұрын
I absolutely love how fair, you are. This is a beautiful charachteristic of you. I am very proud of you.
@kayastarloveКүн бұрын
They act happy
@helenabaur4305Күн бұрын
it the biggest LIE to themselfs.. I had a crazy situation.. been married to a covert narc.. he treating me like shit.. we have 3 little kids.. one day A YOUNG STRONG TESTOSTERON grandiose narc comes alonge and love bombs me like follwing " Lets come togehter.. you are with me now.. leave your kids at fathers house.. we will have a wonderful baby" .. I was freaing out.. I laied on the ground laughing.. but played the game.. it was hilaours!
@AmourKey52 күн бұрын
So does this mean that you are never happy since u are a diagnosed narcissist?
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
I struggle
@nanettesimon93882 күн бұрын
The narc i was with was very happy around other men!!! i had to ask him you gay word he goes both ways
@Analist_altijd_eleganceКүн бұрын
The narcissist I was dealing with searched for women with a specific nationality/roots, I looked like those roots but I don't have those roots so he didn't settle with me. He is now married to someone with someone with that roots but is chasing more women with those roots. Why if narcisssits can use everyone as supply, why are they going for a specific type?
@freedombawden7458Күн бұрын
It would be amazing to hear the side of things from your wife’s perspective. How she handles your bad days and good.
@MentalHealnessКүн бұрын
💯
@ckn9503Күн бұрын
Not the Nitty, just the Gritty. Lol
@evacorthaut988111 сағат бұрын
Also birthday in july😊
@MentalHealness7 сағат бұрын
😊
@Angelique-q9g3 сағат бұрын
Urgent please expose a Narcissist 👿👿 individual or individuals
@RaniceDorotheaКүн бұрын
Thanks for the forecast! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
@lizzgage35232 күн бұрын
I think this is your best work yet. You have come so far to be able to be grateful 🩵 bless you and your progress
@AngelLeonne..Күн бұрын
Mr.LEE!!??!, Please excuse My use of "!" directly after your name like that but I just really have a question for you that I must've missed you address before perhaps but anyways ~**WHY does a Narcissist blame you for really what they have done, repeatedly!! ...Like to the MOST illogical and nonsensical points n levels!!?! Besides the fact that they MUST LOVE makin you think you're crazy, beyond just finding amusement in other ppls misery /misery loves company etc., is it something even beyond the whole self guilt they don't want to face so it's easier just to blame you for what they do bc they know that's something THEY like to do but are allergic to ACCOUNTABILITY so they just blame you even KNOWING without a shadow of a doubt that you literally never have ever done whatever it is that they are blaming you for, they still Love to put their BS on you n act like they're a damn Saint and literally contradict themselves about 4 times in the same dam breath or sentence...PLUS love keeping any and every kinda argument going from the moment they crack their eyes open n the mornin til they close them at night especially over the most irrelevant, minute things that should never even require any amount of energy especially to be argued over. Is it all really just for attention??!! Like "any attention is better than no attention so they go for the Negative all the time"energy?? What's up with that ISHH??( Ive been subbed to you for years Now actually but had to find you again so I've missed a bit of content , sorry if you've already been done addressed all this I feel like I may have answered my own question but hopefully there's more to it you can enlighten Me on, Thx!)💯💯💯💯❤
@sharielf1726Күн бұрын
You have answered your own question. Spot on!!! Plus they like attention, arguing with you means you are giving them attention. Good or bad attention they don’t care. Attention is attention. They thrive in chaos.
@Ashlee22-12 күн бұрын
Hi 👋
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
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@crystalnyla11 сағат бұрын
Currently ZERO Narcissists In My 2025 🎉 It feels good ♥️🙏🏼♥️
@MentalHealness7 сағат бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@annascorpio1172 күн бұрын
Is anyone always happy?
@MentalHealness2 күн бұрын
Nah
@beeha81332 күн бұрын
No but that not what he’s saying… He’s saying that happiness has to come from within and not outside of yourself.
@annascorpio1172 күн бұрын
@ I know I was just making a statement
@beeha81332 күн бұрын
@ oh ok lol
@laurahenry3562Күн бұрын
Not necessarily but some people can be content most of the time ,narcissists are never happy nor content