MERCY! 😱 WOMEN PROPOSING TO MEN: IS THIS THE NEW NORM? MODERN RELATIONSHIP PROPSAL TREND |TIKTOK COM

[@TrueMiThompson]

My father would pick me up off my knees by my ear 👂🏾 😂😂

[@pinkpearlx]

😂😅😅😅😂

[@sg5720]

Mine too. I showed my father this and the first thing out his mouth is “why is wrong with these desperate women, they so foolish, leave that gesture for the men, stupid women” I could not stop laughing.😂😂He said that men will marry when they ready, a woman taking a he lead in this will NOT have that man respect her, let alone the marriage lasting. BTW my folks married happily 48 years. Crazy. How foolish and desperate some women are. I could never - I’m happily married too btw 21 years- after 4 years of being together. I know I am blessed, I could NEVER do this and I sure don’t want to associate with women who do this. Let men be men. 😌

[@kyieberry]

Gurlll! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsMookalate]

@PhenoMikally so would me step dad 🤣🤣🤣 while my mom curse me out in all levels of stupid 🥴. My exes told me never do that, and most of them proposed to me anyway.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Dwl 🤣😂

[@anjelab1429]

Then the first argument when you're like "I'm your wife" and his reply is "I never asked you to be that" 😮 👊🏽 i can hear it now!

[@julietomofonmwan5708]

Underrated comment 😂

[@senseofpeace6442]

Yuuuppp. High probability that will happen.

[@afenismama]

😭😭😭😭💯

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Yes! He would run in your face every chance he gets

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

EXACTLY!!! reminding you every day YOU BEGGED for this with your ol’ desperate ahhh

[@MileHighBeauty]

If these men really wanted to marry them, they would have asked.

[@julietomofonmwan5708]

This!!

[@lovely1762]

IKR, it screams not ready to commit and desperation.

[@afenismama]

Thank you!🙄

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Yessss

[@13moons-24]

so goes both ways, its 2024, either sex can propose if they really wanted to get married,

[@Empresski12]

Girl in the blue shirt doing her makeup talking about the proposal was ruined because of a chocolate cake is DELUSIONAL

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Must be a prank 😂🤣

[@terry_eLLe]

Extremely delulu!!! She convinced herself that it was because of chocolate cake😂

[@Kali2Htwn]

Veryyyyy

[@Empresski12]

@@terry_eLLe girllll…it’s beyond that. It’s the fact that he’s moving after that and she’s like “a lot of people do long distance” nah bg,,, he wanna get AWAY from you.🤣🤣🤣

[@TrueMiThompson]

@@Empresski12 😂😂

[@Daug555]

If he’s not asking, he doesn’t want it. Know your worth and exit stage left. Embarrassing asf 🚮.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Can I shake your hands 🙌🏾

[@tashahall1855]

Basically, it’s really that simple. A man is not gonna drag his feet, if he doesn’t want to lose you .

[@winoodlesnoodles1984]

Agreed. However, you are missing the other question. Why can't these women convince men to get down on one knee for them? Solve that and you may solve the problem.

[@tonyawin2205]

It's sad seeing women getting on their knees in dresses & skirts. It's sad period but that's just tragic.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

And in public too 😫

[@clutchinmypearls6490]

Girl yasss can you imagine scuffing up your heels on the ground begging a man for marriage!!!!!

[@Ashcinnamon]

Do these ladies have issues reading social cues or do they just not care? The second hand embarrassment omg

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Crazy!

[@traceylennon1204]

😂😂😂

[@lovely1762]

Ladies should ask this every question to a man they date? "Do you see me as a wife or do you see me has a mom with benefits" Let that sink in for a moment.

[@sg5720]

Desperate- and that Caribbean man in the blue tank top needs to hush his rass mouth up. He talking so cause no woman wants him. 😂

[@sg5720]

@@lovely1762you will just get his lie with that question. You should be able to tell with how he treats you. 😊

[@Yorubapraises]

They're mad, all of them. Mad! I could never and would never. 10 yrs, 12 yrs, insane!

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Working 10+ years to prove you’re wife material but they will be quick to lay down with you and have several kids during those same 10 years 😒

[@WhosDaRealDookie]

Yea. Im out after 3 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@novelacollection]

@@WhosDaRealDookieEven that’s too long when men know they know. It doesn’t take 10, 5, 3 years 1 year max otherwise your letting a man waste your time.

[@niahernandezlove2194]

I rather cry myself to sleep every night for the rest of my life than ask a man to marry me.

[@faith1780]

This. I’d rather just die alone with a puppy. lol

[@remora8829]

and you shall.

[@liabw05]

Same girl 😅

[@GracebyHisHands]

This !!!! ☝🏽😂 Me my pets and Jesus. But I’m married to a very traditional man sooo…

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

That girl in the blue putting on makeup acting like a complete pick-me chick where she’s still with “her man” even though he turned down her proposal AND he’s moving away without her - I hope she was doing a skit portraying the ultimate pick-me chick and she wasn’t serious. 🤦‍♀️ I appreciate how you showed both sides of the argument about women proposing marriage, and I appreciate you sharing your opinions.

[@heaven001ln]

Some women just don’t want to learn and stay in their stupidity. When other people warn her, she will think those women are jealous or something….

[@kenyadaht77]

Not only they proposing but they getting on their knees too??? Chile 😂

[@Waterlilys.]

😂😂😂😂

[@mizelle4096]

The on the knee thing is gross when a man proposes to a woman. But it’s just ridiculous for a woman to do the same thing. I have secondhand embarrassment for these women.

[@MsMookalate]

All my exes who proposed to me told me they would’ve said no if I proposed to them because that would make them feel less than a man. There’s a reason why you just wait then leave if you don’t get a ring. They hate that.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

I agree with them!

[@anjelab1429]

He could be planning it or anything. Give him a chance lol. Like you said if it takes too long for your liking let him know you're out!

[@anneagena8236]

Exactly that’s a man’s job.

[@joyceo9404]

All these people using the "breaking gender roles" arguments ask these men if they'll take the woman's last name and the kids also take her last name. 😂😂.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

When men can go through child bearing then I would reconsider 🤣😂🤣

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

This is a good response to the “breaking gender rules” argument.

[@nothereyetlost]

No it’s false yiu can never break the gender role. The women will simply get parasites even MORE…bc the gender role is simply men seeing women as property, and therefore not able to be equal. But that belief system, is BIOLOGICAL, which means he will still believe you can’t have any power so anything you give he simply takes and never returns. .

[@nothereyetlost]

@@joyceo9404 you know they won’t. These women are giving themselves away as property bc they don’t understand that is a biological belief.

[@HappyCrackers]

If we wanna break gender roles, show me a cis man who can get pregnant and give birth.

[@theegoddessk]

If he wanted to....he would!

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Heavy on this!

[@thrill102]

I think 2 years is enough time for a man to decide if he wants to marry you or not. Anything past that with no ring just move on. Why waste years of your life on someone who doesn’t value you or your time?

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

This is a reasonable time frame

[@rengurenge]

Even when men are the ones who propose many still later blame woman for everything because she "trapped him" and "dragged him to altar", I can't imagine the level of mistreatment some of those women will receive when they are the ones who really "dragged him to altar".

[@afenismama]

The girl doing her makeup talking about him talking to other women and not liking stuff he does and her being silent 🥴🤡

[@mamasann7636]

Seriously. That was just sad.

[@avalonpark1574]

I believe that woman is a stalker.

[@I.A.G]

And here i am, making my husband of almost 3 years (together 10 years) "re-propose" to me every other month 😂😂. Women, please please please, be with a man who wants you with all his heart. I wish you all happiness and lots of love.

[@Poeticfloetic]

Making being the key word. 😂

[@afenismama]

😂😂😂 I literally have secondhand embarrassment 🤦🏾‍♀️ I would NEVER. If a dude has kids by you and y’all been together a decade n ish, he ain’t pressed to get married, pooh. A man will propose when and IF he feels you’re the one and not a millisecond before 😮‍💨 to each their own but issa hell naw for ME🤷🏽‍♀️

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

How can I like this twice?! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@nothereyetlost]

I wish I could sink into the floor

[@tp4346]

It makes me ILL seeing these women get down on one knee!!!!!! I cannot!!!!!

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

And in public too

[@tp4346]

@@JodiTheIslandGirl asking people to capture the moment 🫠📸

[@jasminecoleman8612]

A lot of the women asking have been in those relationships for several years already. Personally, I would be over the entire union at that point we don't even share the same romantic and spiritual goals. For the women that it works for good for them I genuinely wish them the best.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

That’s it

[@pdiddy523]

If a man wants to marry you he will ask you you won't have to ever ask him.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Unless he doesn’t want marriage at all and it’s usually communicated…some women believe they can change a man’s mind.

[@pdiddy523]

@@JodiTheIslandGirl true

[@Venusbry]

Lord help us get this twisted world back to normal. Cus mi can’t dew ittt, I’ll be single 😭

[@elizabethg.8218]

I can see both sides reasons for doing it or not. I personally think that’s something that should be brought up before trying to save embarrassment. Just ask their opinion and if you know your man is more traditional, don’t do it. But if you also have an unconventional relationship that doesn’t care about the norms, then go for it. You have men that will wait until they feel they are in a place that lives up to where they should be before they propose. I.e. making a certain income, have the right job, can provide the way they want, etc. As long as the couple is happy and things work out…I’m happy for them.

[@SashayAnn]

I see it as desperation b/c obviously he ain’t proposed to you nor talked about marriage with you.And majority of the time it’s the women that has been with their boyfriend 4+ years.

[@thebrownblossom8683]

Sis in blue is so delusional she can’t see it.

[@Sophie3647s]

How are you going to bend the knee to the man who is suppose to be the head of household? He must initiate because it's a major responsibility for the man. He must feel ready and feel that you are the one. If he's taking to long then walk away

[@teresasanchez7164]

The lady with the Queen shirt seems so elegant - what in the world is she doing - Gorl!!!! That is NOT your king- that’s a Kings servant. Her KING is out there- patience is a virtue - She clearly is beautiful - elegant- loyal- family orientated - Queen - wait for a real King ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@iaf4454]

I dont know why those women are doing this... it is terrible

[@RestWell1]

Yes girls I’m here for it You better get you a wife 😂😂😂😂

[@LoveK1]

You so catty.😂😂😂I love it!!!!!

[@xxTeamBreezyxx]

It’s a hard no for me 😮‍💨😏 these men are really in their soft sassy era 💅🏼 Second hand embarrassment on 1000 with this video 🫠

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Listen….

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Super sassy 🎉😂

[@CreolePearls_]

Stop idolizing marriage and put yourself first not a man 🙄🙄 if a man wanted you as his wife you would be that!

[@Victoria-kl1xd]

Facts,because my husband said he knew I was going to his wife .

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

And best believe, he knows if he sees you as his wife

[@tashahall1855]

Especially the way alot of these men do their wives . Like sum women really think theyre gonna get prince charming😂

[@winoodlesnoodles1984]

With an attitude like that, only a simp will propose to you. What needs to be asked is why these men aren't proposing? Solve that and you will likely get men to start proposing again. Relationships are a two way street. If men aren't doing what you want, you need to ask why and then figure out what will make them do what you want.

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

i would rather bleach my eyes white before i EVER propose to one!

[@chloeh4515]

Ok😂😂😂

[@jerseygirljay78]

😂🤣 you win the best comment award 🥇

[@natural3362]

When a man don't invest his energy to pursue and have you He will not appreciate, cherish and honor you

[@kivi2059]

If this is what it will take for me to get married, then I'll choose to stay by myself. I thank you, BYE!

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

I’m so with you on this

[@ava.and.jasper]

Proposing is the man's thing. Don't take that away from him. It's his chance to surprise you with a grand gesture. Men really look forward to that.

[@MsMookalate]

@@ava.and.jasper that’s literally what one of my ex fiancées said. Don’t mind me with my multiples I learned my lessons with these dudes that’s why they are an ex 🥴🤣🤣

[@no.6377]

And if he's not looking forward to it, he don't like you like that. Hurts but best to deal with truth than delulu😅

[@winoodlesnoodles1984]

Women hold the keys to sex. Men hold the keys to relationships. If women want marriages, they need to show men they bring value to his life. They need to show they are worth proposing to.

[@monah203]

This is crazy. And a guy I know said he would be ok with it 🤦🏿‍♀️. I told him if a woman does this it will most definitely change the dynamics of the relationship.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

I believe so too…after this she better be prepared to lead and initiate everything regarding the relationship.

[@traceylennon1204]

I'd NEVER...that's goofy and desperate AF!!

[@HappyCrackers]

Ladies, if a man asks you for *ahem* physical relations and you say no and he keeps asking, its disrespectful. If he begs to the point where you say yes, hes a bad person. He needs to drop it. Lets carry the same energy. Stop asking after the first no.

[@DanataD]

If she wants to propose then go off and live your best life. I wouldn't propose.

[@annettadewitt121]

It's a no for me

[@lisaredd6008]

What do these women NOT GET??!! A MAN CHOOSES YOU! not vice versa.a man is the one thats going to take care of you,provide, protect,be the head of the family..he CHOOSES to take all that on when he proposes.ALSO,a man knows when the woman he wants to marry comes along,so if hes not the one doing it,maybe he doesnt see you as the that one..smh

[@sg5720]

WELLhSAID. 😊the one putting on makeup is dumb dumb. She thinks her man loves her but he clearly using her and she can’t see dumb she can’t see it. He picked the right one. The fact he moved away and she still hoping had me laughing😂. Some women learn the hard way.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

That’s what most women don’t get…a man knows a woman he wants as his wife. He’ll live with you for years and even procreate with you and knows he’ll never marry you.

[@mamasann7636]

Actually no. The one that exercises their option to say yes does the choosing, which is typically the woman. This isn’t 1960 anymore when women were forced to marry in order to have access to resources. That was the reason to value being “chosen.”

[@MeliyahAlise]

@@mamasann7636 How would you get the option to say yes if one does not choose to ask? Yes, a woman (or whoever proposes) has the choice to say yes or no, but the man is the one (typically) who presents those options to the woman of his choice. There are always going to be exceptions, but generally men choose their wives because the woman they choose will be the one who they provide for, who with keep their home, have their children, etc. But it’s not about who’s the “chosen” one, it’s about being in agreement with one another and that only happens through proper communication. Some of the couples in this video lacked communication, or parts of their communication were misunderstood or ignored.

[@ShaeGoldEnVoiceLawrence]

The last Clip with the African dad. LMFAO!!!!😅😅😅

[@alivanessa134]

Very foolish

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

To each their own

[@themaine2289]

I did this....... as a JOKE when he had already proposed months prior with a proper engagement dinner and everything .....like just leave if he's taking too long.

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

the only one allowed to be sassy in my relationship will be me! it’s my name for a reason. once he start acting like me, i’m gunna think he obviously wants to be the bottom & exit stage left!

[@stephaniepetion6100]

😬🙄Nooooo Why? Why? Men know if they will marry you or when they need to propose to you 🤦‍♀️

[@N3V3rSettle]

This is pathetic.

[@K119_]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for ten years. He refuses to marry me. I was a stay at home mom with no car or family. So getting out is so hard. I feel so unloved. He laughs in my face and tells me to propose to him.

[@gabydove1019]

Leave him sis.

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

Jesus I'm sorry How old are the childten

[@teresasanchez7164]

Pray - ask God- Father of Jesus of Nazarene for strength and discernment - God loves you and will see you thru - just go to him 💜🙏💜

[@mrs.w8193]

Women control sex and men control time for marriage. That’s why you should never propose to a man. It’s giving desperate energy. Set your timeline, have a discussion with him. If that timeline comes and he still dragging his feet, cut ties, break up with him and go no contact. Really move on. If he wants you, he will come running because he can’t live without you. If he moves on and doesn’t even try to get you back, that’s the evidence of his true feelings. He would have wasted more of your time. Your MR right is out there, don’t block your blessing with Mr. Right now.

[@tranquility9325]

Some men come rushing back so he can dump her as punishment for dumping him. I say move on from him.

[@lovely1762]

That is so true my hubby and I were talking about marriage during our first year of dating (cause my mom was discussing about marriage to me telling him "You love him and intimate with him, do everything for this man, I think its fair he gives you the ring"). Then, my second year of marriage I asked him and discussed more about marriage. Long story short during our third year he proposed to me, then we got married in October in that same year. Now, October 16th is our first year anniversary of our marriage. 🥰🥰🥰😍

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

This is something that should be discussed in the early stages of dating so you know what each other expectations are. I’m not begging a man for marriage…I’d rather be alone!

[@SinaAla]

The irony about women proposing to men is that it would be these women’s fathers who would be most vehemently against this. Men with daughters would never support them doing this.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

I believe so too

[@saharkhalili5303]

I would never fcking never propose to a man NO WAY 😂😂

[@GracebyHisHands]

I asked my husband if I had purposed to him how would he feel about it? He verbatim said “ He would think something was off about me and slowly back off & eventually disappear.” 😅😅 So ladies, DON’T be this chick !!

[@terry_eLLe]

Most are not bashing them, it’s more like getting second hand embarrassment at the stupidity of it all. Men control the narrative of marriage because it’s more likely THEM who are not ready or hesitant. A lot of times they already know that their woman wants to get married. A mans proposal is kind of a declaration that you are the one he wants for life. Who knows? Maybe we should start proposing to some of these men, this way we can stop wasting our time and move on when he says “No”. 😂

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

A knows within the first couple of dates…

[@callalilly1988]

Of course I'll propose to my man... right after I mop up the ocean with a single kleenex. Edit to add: I wrote my comment before the girl called me out in rhe video. Lmao! Some women are hard headed, and you know what it is about a hard head. Let them go ahead.

[@LionsGurl253]

This is so sad; women keep taking masculinity away from men and expecting them to be men.

[@EmpressEmpath44]

17:42 these ideas are the results of broken homes 🤦🏾‍♀️ I would love to see the statistics on the longevity of these relationships…ppl from broken homes are just creating more broken homes … 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jerseygirljay78]

I proposed to my husband and we’ve been married for 8 yrs 🖤🖤

[@1Skorpia]

Its emasculating. Thats HIS HONOR to do. She took that away from him. She doesnt trust him. Never propose. Thats HIS JOB. Mens territory. 2:09 he looked away and bit his lip. That is what he really thought.

[@Golden.Delight]

The way i wanted to 🤢😣🤮🤮 throughout this was intense🤧🥴

[@nocurves81]

I thought it was just me 🤢

[@kushinaa1XD]

I wouldn't care about that role reversal if we could also reverse the roles of who is going to be carrying the potential children for 9 months each .

[@Jejohns]

As a husband who proposed to his wife 3 years ago (I proposed after 1 year of being together) this is weird & Im also wondering was there a conversation about marriage before they did this, as in does the other person want this??

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

That’s what I’m wondering too…these conversations need to be had in the early stages of dating…if not, it’s like you’re dating with no intentions

[@nightskylerj]

Boyfriend of 10 years and he already has kids but she doesn’t have marriage 🤔

[@paulinep.2253]

👉I Totally Agree, with The Lady that, explained in detail, NOT to LOOK DESPERATE & PROPOSE TO 'A MAN'...This Topic, for Me, Has ALWAYS BEEN & WILL ALWAYS BE, SOMETHING THAT IS DESIGNATED FOR 'MEN' & 'ONLY MEN' To Do❣️❣️❣️...I Don't Give a Rat's Ass about Modern Times, This is a 'TRADITION' that 'SHOULD NEVER' be Changed❣️❣️❣️ 👈...

[@sarahkay830]

I don’t know why I clicked this video knowing it would make me upset 😂🤦🏾‍♀️!!! I hate everything about this 😭

[@aminarose42694]

😂😂😂😂 she just made that dude a wifeeeee

[@randomuser1105]

Gen Z was not raised correctly, which is why they're all losing their minds.

[@lovely1762]

I got mine in 3 years and I didn't have to beg/propose my man to marry me. 😂😂😂

[@Frugal637]

3 years is still a while. Sounds like he was waiting to see if a better option would come a long but congrats!

[@lovely1762]

@@Frugal637 Thanks. I asked him "How do you ask a person to get married" , he told me "Three years just get to know the person a little better before marriage" It's just timing everyone is different when it comes to marriage.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

That is a MAN 👏🏾👏🏾

[@tashahall1855]

@@Frugal637that is a back handed compliment. 3 years maybe too long for YOU , but that’s doesn’t apply to every person. Men are always weighing their options even after they get married, don’t kid yourself lol

[@brittanyclarke6671]

I love listening to you talk Jodi🥰! It reminds me of home.

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Awww thank you 🥰😆

[@jeanghrey]

These relationships are doomed 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@joyous1011]

I wanted to propose and my husband said, no Babe thats my job, dont worry I got this. 3 mth later he proposed ❤ Only reason I was gonna propose is because we both knew the end goal was marriage. Im glad i waited and let him propose to me. Its the ultimate sign HE CHOOSE ME.❤❤❤❤ woman are already emotional creatures and show their emotions much more than a man. A man choosing you and showing that grand gesture is much appreciated. It has nothing to do with what the feminist said about " a man having more vaule than us" 🙄 Its about HIM choosing❤

[@stephaniepetion6100]

I love diamonds/jewelries, so why not treat yourself to a nice piece instead propose to a man🤨😬

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

This sounds even better! 😆

[@myahnombre]

Some women aren’t feminists, that’s why they WANT to be proposed to and don’t understand women who do. If you like it, then that’s fine. I think secretly, some of these women would’ve preferred the man to step up and ask them.

[@lea9049]

Love your accent ❤

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Thanks so much

[@strawberrycheesecake1017]

Why should I not be allowed to comment that it’s cringy when it’s cringey to me😂

[@contentfaithrecords]

So, I guess woman who propose to men, disagree with the bible. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22

[@mrs.w8193]

Ewww that’s so emasculating. I would never. Will the man take their girl’s last name too? Smh thank God my husband proposed to me

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

At this point let’s just switch roles…lol

[@MamaW30]

Nope 👎🏽

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Ok

[@Ginathequeen]

It isn’t the cake, it’s the other women he is sleeping with

[@okaycola2]

This happens once a year in Ireland 😂😂😂😂 bit late but someone has to love more

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Oooh 😯

[@Mona_Lisa8181]

There’s a documentary called Queens of Orango, a matriarchal island in Africa. The women cook for the man they want and if the man accepts and eats the food then that’s it, they’re married. I’m not mad at it lol these western ways aren’t working out for us all that great apparently.

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

As a western woman … I’d rather eat a 💩 sandwich than proposed to a man that don’t want me. If he wanted you he would purpose!!!!!

[@SinaAla]

@@Mona_Lisa8181 Men proposing to women (or women’s families) is what happens in most of Africa. It is not a Western way. Most of Africa is patriarchal.

[@Mona_Lisa8181]

@@SinaAlayes of course I’d like for my man to propose. But having fun with this video that way might work better for them lol

[@EtherealSolana]

Eastern culture is absolute sh*t for many women. yt women benefit from the progress in the west. They leave feminism for themselves and don’t necessarily care that women of color suffer…

[@teresasanchez7164]

I see a scary universal theme- all of these proposing women are beautiful - obviously family orientated and loyal. It’s a clear indicator this younger generation of women has lot their way- old old divorcee here - just observing

[@avalonpark1574]

My husband told everyone that he was marrying me before he actually asked me. 😊 I did not have to ask, he told me we are getting married.

[@Kwiet_Storm]

Silly 🐇

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

Lol 😂

[@joanhyman6647]

If the man realy realy love and loyalty to the women i don't see nothing wrong with it now and then they need surprise.

[@AminaAhmed-n8g]

It's embarrassing and humiliating this women

[@bellobel1662]

This is so embarrassing.. 😳

[@jozilee2098]

So cringe

[@MoustacheMe]

I think the main issue I have with women proposing to men is that many do it because their partner WON'T propose to THEM. They also don't ask their boyfriends if they want to be proposed to, so they end up emasculating them and pissing them off, so it's just like- why???? I feel like some of these women just want to be married rather than actually thinking about what they're doing 😭😭

[@ThePinkPillOfficial]

500th Like 🎉

[@shia8377]

So wait deh, I'm 35... man a done pon mi?😂😂😂

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

You better find a man a propose to him..quick and fast! 😂😂

[@halleybruno4653]

I knew of 2 women who proposed to the man they were dating. One of them was dumped after a 2 year long engagement. The other took her own life 8 months after the wedding. The man in the latter relationship got married in green casual pants with a hole in them while his bride was in a stunning dress. 3 days later was his new brides birthday and he didnt get her anything. So many signs screaming he didnt really care about her. RIP queen.

[@adrianagauci4894]

That fashion designer could have had anyone she wants with her money and looks but sadly she wasted ten years and he didn’t even do the proposing.

[@DaliaMiller]

Some gender norms need to stay right where they are

[@poeticlovee]

Not her proposing with dishes in the sink 😩 7:38

[@PapayaPepper202]

If you propose you are also going to do the heavy emotional lifting and leading, also may have to provide strap on services in the natural and the spirit. But maybe some lady like it like that idk

[@JodiTheIslandGirl]

I agree! Allow a man to lead!

[@LuluVee-ql4jr]

It’s weird to us because it’s something a man has always done. And it emasculates the man because it has been a man’s role forever! So yea, do it if you want, but people can think whatever they want lol

[@ascensiongirl111]

what is the name of the first song? of the first proposal

[@Bluebird9403]

These comments make me sad, y'all don't even see your own insecurities.

[@caitm.193]

Right? These comments are wild. Such a huge amount of dislike--for a woman asking a man to marry her?

[@mookgirl74]

ITS SUPPOSED TO BE when a MAN fnds a WIFE, NOTTT when a WOMAN finds a husband 😒😬😱🤨