Middle Class Parents Ka Sabse Bada Darr

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[@narindermaheshwari1612]

Very true I have a child saying to parent,that I can not spoil my present life of waiting for your property ,which I may get after 30-40 years

[@vivekbhakare8979]

Agar hum last 30-35 sal ki movies ya serials dekhe to inhone hi parents ki mentality aisi banayi hai. Ek bhi film ya serial me next generation ki side se dikhayi nahi hai.

[@meshekh]

Right... That old dialogue ki "Maa Baap hamesha bacche ke liye sahi decision lete hain". They should be careful that nobody is perfect

[@Gen3tb]

Super true that

[@M_Ahuja]

True.we grew up watching shows where they say Maa baap Bhagwan Hai. I never used mind of my own when my parents said anything . But I feel now we should assert ourselves whenever required. Family should be a place where everyone respect one another . Elders should respect young ones too , be sensitive towards their feelings , listen to their ideas and treat them with equality. Otherwise our society will continue to remain like this .

[@easylearning8823]

Baag baan movie ka jyada asar hua h

[@prakashth]

My case: Unfortunately yes, parents want my entire salary but they are not interested in giving their property. They never told this to me when I married on a low income to the girl they selected for me. They needed a free worker not a bahu. Please people, just think before you marry. First ask the parents for inheritance first before getting married, otherwise you will suffer. You can’t travel, buy a car or enjoy your life. Just work and provide insurance for their properties which you will get when you are 50 years old. What is the use. Half your life is OVER! I know few people will blame me for being selfish but times have changed where entire family cannot depend on 1 person’s income.

[@JSGnJH]

I can understand, all the best, brother /Sir

[@Hetal28]

It’s the truth of our society You are not selfish This is pain point for 100s of people

[@surajshaha5819]

I can relate to your story.. believe me I know the pain you are going through..

[@nachminarayansatvik381]

Yes, it happens. अच्छा बच्चा कभी शिकायत भी नहीं कर पाता

[@lalitalaxminarayan3009]

Yes, I know of my friends daughter, qualified, working girl. She was asked to forgo her job, which she vehemently refused. But in the bargain, she was expected to cook the entire meal for the family, then go to office, return to do the same..only to be criticised for the poor cooking and housekeeping. The mil needed an unpaid servant.

[@mad_in_2020]

Not all parents are selfless. Many can be manipulative and destroy their own children so that they can forever maintain control over them.

[@arpanmadrecha946]

All are selfish may be except 1 or 2

[@spreadtrader19297]

arent you selfish , everyone is selfish , so called LOVE is also being selfish in polite way, samjho@@arpanmadrecha946

[@Gen3tb]

Super true

[@Amy_zz]

Neither are all children well mannered, caring or loving towards their parents.

[@smartstreetviews]

​@@Amy_zz as you sow so shall you reap. Children treat parents according to sanskaars parents give to their children. Children see husband wife fight each other day and night so they Loose respect

[@ranjeetsinghsandhu9903]

I literally had tears when I listened to this. My father is generally a nice human but in social gatherings he would start boasting of his properties. In last 10 years since I graduated he would always tell me that my all property is for you. While this made me feel good initially I realized in 10 years that he would say same to all relatives (not just my siblings). Luckily I never took any money from him and never eyed his money. I realize that he used to say this just to make himself feel great before others. I am now living away from him in Australia. I sometimes feel bad why I am living so far. But then I convince myself that I need to build my own wealth because I have no confidence how much wealth I would get once he distributes among others. I cannot take risk of leaving my job and locate my house near him. Any parent reading this - I request not to boast of your wealth before your grown up kids and frankly tell them how much wealth you would be distributing.

[@dr.sangitavaidya3657]

आपने बिल्कुल सच कहा है पर ये सुनकर कोई सुधरता नहीं है। किसी को कोई realization नहीं होती है। इसकी वजह है ऐसे parents ने अपनी पूरी जिंदगी दूसरों को use करके ही गुजारी होती है और हमेशा ऐसे ही जीना चाहते हैं। फ़र्क सिर्फ़ ये होता है कि पहले किसी और को use करते थे, अब बेटा बहु मिल गए हैं, ऐश करने के लिए।

[@sourabhshrivastava5663]

The biggest fear parents should have is 1. Their child doesn't commit suicide. Be a support system for the children. 2. Their children shouldn't be dependent on them for life. Raise them well. 3. They must get good life partner. There is nothing on the planet worse than a bad life partner. It drains your childs hope and aspirations. There is no worse fate. Even a prisoner hopes of getting out of prison but there is no escape from a bad marriage. 4. Property: what is the use of your property if your children cant enjoy it?? Let them have the fruits of your labour why else did u become parents?? They carry you in their blood. Dont be so selfish.

[@davinderkum]

Awesome ❤

[@dineshkumar-pu1nm]

🙏🙏

[@sourabhshrivastava5663]

@@intention.defintion for your Q. No. 1...nope life partner is not a responsibility of parents but it must be a fear that their child gets a bad one. I hope with your attractive name u must have read about the theories like a mother grooms her son to get a bride like herself and they are often told to be kind lovable sweet and not narcissistic to their son..likewise the father influences the choices of girls in their future husband. Even then should it not be a fear parents have that their child leads a bad life due to a life partner???? Your q no. 2 was already responded in my point no.2 still pray tell me if parents have property then who should enjoy it after they are dead??

[@sourabhshrivastava5663]

@@intention.defintion for more explanation, there are theories which explain that if a mother treats her child badly the child never gers to understand what should be the normal behaviour and later chooses worse life partner same way if father of a girl is weak and simp she never understands what a strong and confident man is like and eventually her choice in men becomes bad. Exceptions are everywhere.

[@priyasharma5817]

Very well said.

[@mikitiwari]

Mere parents ne mujhe 2saal ki age se Gaon mein rakha nanihal mein, Meri poori personality mere baki siblings se poles apart thi to... Apne hi family mein, JB main wapas ayi... Mujhe bht struggle Karna pada... Constant comparisons face kiye ki mere siblings smart n main ganwar! Phir parents ne mujhe apne sapne bataye ki IAS bano... Kuchh Bada Karo... Bada banana hai... Meri inner calling thi education field mein career banana cz ek vision raha hai... So, Maine career mein zidd rakhi. Aaj education field mein Hoon... Aur apne vision pe kaam kar rahi Hoon... Maine University time pe goals banaye aur likhe- 2 saal mein job, next 5 saal mein khud ki property, and koi samjh Aya to shaadi bhi. 2 goals achieve ho gye... Jaisa ki likha tha... Apni khud ki property bhi isliye ki parents se kuchh Lena hi nhi hai. Khud se earn Karna hai. Ab rahi shaadi ki baat to... Unki maths se to phaste phaste bache... Aur Meri pasand mein samaj aur parivar ka darr. Ab, wo poori life ko control Karna chahte hain.. Ki akele ya apne hisaab se ghumna nhi, rehna nhi, padhna nhi, ... Cz at the end of the aap ek ladki ho aur isliye apko apni limit mein rehna hai. Thanks to one of my father's friend who taught me to invest in stocks and IPO and make money..

[@Priya-rf7ov]

We live in Australia, we moved out when we got married. Best decision. My toxic narcissistic in-laws said we could never afford our house. We proved them wrong, didn’t take a single dollar from them, we build our home and fully paid off mortgage by 40. Best feeling not to depend on in-laws and parents.

[@bobsinhav]

I blame the colleges for jacking up tuition

[@solutionsbyshaileshsir9597]

Mere baap ka paisa mere surgery ke kaam nahi aaya Ab leke kya karu unka paisa / property. Bhad me jaaye wo property/ paisa. My parents lost their chance to show love / care / support to me in my worst phase of life ( sade sati ). No physical/financial/mental support for bringing up my children ( their grand children ) , no physical/financial/mental support even to purchase flat , no physical/financial/mental support during my life threatening medical problem. Still i will not give up to hold their hands in their last phase of life. Thanks to my parents for making me/my wife strong enough to survive on our own.

[@Artsy_amruta]

Don't worry, do what you feel is right. Help them in their old age, if you feel so.....someone treated us bad doesn't mean we 'should' treat them bad. You seem to be a good human being.......I personally believe that you get what you give. Inspite of receiving negativity you are positive, something good will happen in your life.

[@solutionsbyshaileshsir9597]

@@Artsy_amruta Actually I should not have discussed these things publicly but this was the first video / time where he has discussed the other side of the issue. I couldn't resist my self. Society should know the other way arround with the example.

[@YourMentorAzhar]

Gng through same...stay strong bhai

[@MonikaKhanna-o1i]

I totally get this

[@sudershansingh9490]

Thank god you have a good wife who stood beside you in these tough times, atleast you're lucky in that matter. And you know its far better to have unavailable parents than those who control your life, makes you wanna die everyday!

[@ManojSingh-j7x]

यहां कमेंट पढ़कर तो लग रहा है की अधिकांश लोग ही हमारे समाज में अपने मां बाप से पीड़ित हैं😢

[@21nitinmehra]

Chalo kisi ne toh bola ....80% gharo m ye problem h... Aur bacche bolte nhi kyuki samaj toh unko hi galat bolega without logic...Main solution h ki elderlies ko busy rehna chahiye anyhow....not into being cctv n criticise n be narcist

[@UrbanLifeChannel]

AAG Video.. 1. Biggest Dar felt by Parents: Kids will take away all their property 2. What should be their biggest Dar: When kids say that their property is irrelevant. Lot of people are suffering through this problem. Please try to not reach this stage 3. As a solution, asset restructuring should be done together as a family 4. It is the best case scenario if your kids are able to use your property, rather than someone else

[@akshay81408]

Sir your videos help us to to explain these sensitive topics to our parents even if we don't share your videos directly."Thanks" is a pity word to recognize your contribution towards society,you are changing 'Generations'.

[@harshitshandilya5063]

Guruji! I am 26M living alone in Mumbai & purposely away from my parents; near my office's location precisely because "Ek ahsaan krna ki mujh p koi ehsaan mt karna" & "hell with you". They put me under intense pressure & humiliation consistently that I figured out my way , through long hours of hard work & luck in combination , and I became somewhat rich & now know how to survive & make money without them. And they still don't care at all & I know they never will.

[@bijaykumaragarwal649]

What do you do?

[@Vipkumar007]

tujhe ye banane le liye hi qo sab kiya hoga parents ne..agar tujhe sab kuch pehle de diya jata to aaj ye nahi banta ..

[@Vipkumar007]

36 ki umar ye sab bolna tab apne aap hekdi nikal jayegi.

[@honeyjain96]

Sahi baat hai ab kya hi bolu Guruji app ko toh pata hi h north Indian parents inse nai jit sakte. No 1 Clearity giver you’re 👍🏻

[@AmarSinghRana-nx9yp]

गुरुजी तुसी ग्रेट हो. आप सच में मेरे लिए सु-संस्कृत नवीन भारत के निर्माता हो. जो आप बताते हो, उस जैसी घटनाएं मुझे अपने आसपास हुई हुई या होती हुई दिखाई देती हैं. आपका ज्ञान में अपने जीवन मे प्रयोग करके, अन्य कि गलतियों से बचने के प्रयास में जुटा रहता हूँ. ❤

[@mediguide_edutech]

Yes you are right ....parents have higher expectations but lesser sesnce of reality

[@Mi-ve9yr]

May pakistan sey hon aap ney jo ye midelclass wali series ker rahen han ye bohat best ha asi koi baat pakistan maen nahi ker raha aap ney midle class ka maen masla hall ker rahen ha. aap ka shukrya.

[@stanay6580]

Totally agree with you Guruji. Hum log ussi category me he... Sab inheritance ki moh Maya chhodo or apani line jyada lambi karo. Jab Pani sar k upar se chala jata hai to aise decision lene padte hai. Humne ab hamare bachho ko akele raise karana sikh liya hai without dada dadi's help(monetory + physical + psychology). Ek or baat, jab hum log apna rasta bana rahe hoge, tab bhagwan khud hamari help karne ayege or hamari line lambi karne me hamara sath dege. (Personal experience)

[@ramparkash5041]

बहुत सही कह्ते हें आप। मुझे ऐसी कोइ दिक्कत नहीं पर मैने ये सीखा कि आगे अपने children से कैसा व्यवहार करना हैं। अपनी की मेहनत को unper अहसान नहीं बताना

[@TheGratitudeMan]

Already said to parents, "not interested, take it with you" 😊

[@Hetal28]

100 % ugly truth of society Respect to you sir for recognizing , and being brave to point out the fact. These pain points are very hard to solve Good efforts 👏🏻

[@smileysmiley1]

You expressed my thoughts👍

[@FlowersAmazing]

My thoughts too!

[@leenandsouza]

What a video Amit Ji .. true clarity and courage on your part to discuss it .. awesome

[@vveeresh100]

What a coincidence, i am 31 years old working professional,still unmarried. I am facing same problem. I even had a fight with my parents yesterday on this same issue, they always want to control me.this video was a eye opener for me.

[@Vipkumar007]

jab tera bacha hoga tab hekdi nikal jayegi

[@jaibharat7533]

Amit ji you are great and please keep on sharing such videos. I am 44 yrs old and i can relate to your videos a lot

[@balrajsharma9609]

बहुत ही अच्छे विचार और बहुत ही अच्छे तरीके से समझाया गया समझने वाले जरूर कुछ ना कुछ तो जरूर पा gae। Big salute n Dhanyabad. सुन के मजा आ गया as यूजुअल

[@shwetak4596]

Han guruji, ekdum sach bat he! My In laws inspite of having pension , are financially dependent on us not helping us to manage home and want to save all their money as savings or want to spend it as they like, but they want to stay with us so that we will take care of all their financial and other needs. We are struggling because of this situation as no saving are left with us. They are hanging a carrot by saying we will leave all these properties and money as inheritance 😅

[@bohemiansoul584]

Yes, and your brother's wife would also be thinking same for your parents somewhere else in this world.

[@englishwithkamal4844]

Sir, kisi ko aapke jaisa too smjha nahin payenge lekin jb sixty plus honge to बातों का ध्यान रख के बच्चों को जरूर खुश रखेंगे

[@fatehsingh4393]

Society is Grateful to such people who brings wisdom nuggets. 👏

[@trivenisingh4920]

Crystal clear thoughts. This is kind of awakening in social and intellectual life.

[@myrohitc100]

Kya baat hai sir, kya baat hai... Bilkul sahi kaha aapne. Yehi mera mindset ban gaya hai 8-10 mahino se. Tab se main mere parents aur in laws ko unki life enjoy karne ki salaah aur encouragement deta hu. Unka Mann bhi busy, kalesh... Never coming so easy

[@vikasbhardwaj8743]

Sir wonderful. Super topics. What you talk happens in every home but no one talks. Sir complimenting you on topics and the way you speak. regards, I'm a fauji and now a lawyer. Will follow ur footsteps in times to come.

[@sohailshaikh1334]

Raymond's the Complete Man. 😂 Please make a complete video🎥 on this topic Sir.

[@rushikeshmetangale2037]

Jabse apko sunna band Kiya hai Tabse jindagi bhauth khushnuma chal rHi hai😊

[@adityasyangdan3019]

Dark truth reveled sir. You have risked a lot for being judged for this topic sir. I admire your work a lot.

[@VinodSingh-zt6mi]

Difference Art of leaving and living. Living with family/joy/ kindness/help to others and leaving ego/narrow mindness/ toxicity etc/ bad relationship.

[@dineshkumar-pu1nm]

धन्यवाद सर ,यह सच्चाई है।majority में ऐसा ही है। संस्कार, मानसिकता प्रमुख है।आप द्वारा दिए गए संदेश गूढ़ हैं जिन्हें गहराई से समझना होगा और सभी माता पिता मिथ्या लालच से उपजे दुख को समझ सकेंगे। धन्यवाद 🙏

[@nilmakwana6529]

wah guruji ye video maine apne parents ko dikhaya maza aa gaya

[@sanchitakolkata]

Extremely well said.Why parents give guilt and convey this guilt generation after generation really we don't know why .....keep it up!!

[@patil2701]

What a subject you selected.. exactly true.... some (60/.) parents only interested in their properties instead of their children

[@lokeshupadhayay1665]

Sir m apke video kuch dino se dekh rha hu aur alg hi level ka mental peace mila h. Cheeze smjh Ane lgi h gussa km hua h life ko duniya ki nhi khudki nazro se dekhna chalu kiya h, sahi m settle hona kya hota h ye pta lga h, being a Brahmin m already religious hu pr astrology ki value aur smjh apse ayi h, life m career k alaya kuch nhi dikhta tha ab sb dikhne lga h, shadi na krne ka decision leliya tha usko bhi change Kiya h, arrange marriage m looks best chahiye the heroine jese isiliye kbse reject krrha tha rishte usko bhi dekhne ka naya nazariya aur approach diya h apne, m 1 lakh + kamaleta hu Aram se toh sochta tha aage Jake aur hi earn krunga toh housewife chahiye thi, apne btaya ladkiyo ka bhi life purpose in career aur khudki earning honi chahiye taki woh aage Jake age m sad na feel kre aur fir apnko bhi na bura lge, papa n bhot bada ghr bnaya hua h idhr jodhpur m aur mera aage ka kaam Mumbai m h toh sochta tha rent krlunga akela rehna h thoda bhot theek flat m kaam chljaega, ab jb ek ek krkr saare topics pr clarity mili h tb sb clearly dikhrha h ki ha bhai shadi bhi karni padegi ghr Lena padega aj nhi toh kl aur kl ko Umar bhi badjaegi ldki bhi fir usi age ki milegi, kharcha tb aur bhi badhjaega aur jbtk baki log sath Wale biwi bacho k sath ready honge tb hum log start krenge ye toh bhot bada disadvantage hojata life m. Sir ji ek topic shadi se related mere mn m bhi aya hoske toh isko apne videos m bolkr ap logo ko aur jldi shadi k liye mana skte h. Ldka aur ldki dono ko hi ek age k baad mentally aur physically ek dusre ki jarurat padhne lgjati h, shadi ki jgh relationship m ana chalu krdete h... Fir ek k baad dusra dusre k baad teersa dono hi ese krte reh rhe h... Ap kisi aur k life partner ko mental trauma de rhe ho physically use bhi kr rhe ho aur same apke partner k sath koi aur kr rha h..... Bolne m meko bhi ajeeb lgrha h esi baat aj ki generation m bolke pr esa kyu krrhe h hum log aur fir jb 28-30 k hoke shadi krenge sb tbtk apne aur apke life partner n jawani kisi aur k naam krdi..... Sunne m lgskta h ki sirf physical ki trf ja rha hu m pr esa nhi h.... Insan apne 20-30 years ki age m mentally physically timewise aur thoda bhot financially apne peak age m hota h .... Woh time apne pyaar aur ladhai ki kisi aur logo se... Ghumne gye kisi aur k sath trips pr, Cafe restaurant sb trh k cuisine kahi kisi k try kiye, memories apki kahi aur bni Hui h aur ek sath nhi multiple k sath fir hr smy kisi na kisi ka kuch na kuch acha yaad ata rehta h iske time ye acha tha woh ese dhyan rkhti thi woh wali ese gifts deti thi woh wali ko roj milna hota tha aur apne present se khush nhi reh paenge future m kisi na kisi reason se. Aur jb itne logo pr itne trh k efforts kr chuke honge tb apne partner k liye kya kroge? Icha hi nhi rahegi vese wali jese pehle thi... Jese gulab ka fool dete h na kisi ko toh ldke ko pehli 1-2 gf tk toh bhot value rehti us gulab ki ki m use gulab de rha hu pyaar ka ijhaar kr rha hu usko bhi bhot acha lgta h Mera bf mere liye rose laya h.. shuru shuru m mene dekha h log kayi saal sambhal kr bhi rkhte h un cheezo ko aur jese jese partner change hote h lgta ki h yr jese koi formality si h na Dene Wale ko value Rahi na lene wale ko. Samay k sath relationship m jitni bhi valueable cheeze h jinse pyaar ka ehsas hota rehta h lambe samay k liye un cheezo ki value khtm hone lgjati h jese jese partner bdlte rahoge.. lamba comment hogya h sir ji agr apne padha h toh like krkr batana mujhe ki ha tumhara comment pdhliya h mene aur meri baat ka koi sense lga apko toh ap comment ka reply krkr bhi batana ki ha sahi bolrhe ho.

[@meshekh]

Bhai maine pura padha hai. Pahli baat to bhai mujhe lagta hai, ki message ke bajaye tu khud video banakr upload karde. Tumhari generation logically and mentally relate aasani se karegi 😊. I am going to reach 35 and glad to hear your thoughts, also staying outside hometown.

[@narinderkaur8403]

TOO GOOD, 100% True

[@aviralsahu6793]

Yaha to parents ko bass Salary chaiye....jisse hum youngster apni youth spend karke laate hain orr unhe apni life enjoy karni hai even they are selling ancestral property for their enjoyment.aapki baate dil ko chhoo jaati Hain Sir...

[@smartstreetviews]

Parents isliye to baccha paida karte Hain ki wo unko free ka naukar mile. Sex ka bhi maza liya aur Naukar bhi mil gya. Unko bahut faida hai

[@JaywN0t37XGQQbwFjN]

Dhanyavaad uncleji, bhut sahi baat hai. par hum yeh video mommy papa se share nahi kar sakte. Kode padenge.

[@vinceisgod1547]

Kode padenge😂😂😂

[@JagjitSingh-mc4yv]

Apka yah video mere ankho me aansu la diye , lag raha hai jaise mere jindagi ke panne khol rahe hai Aap. Prnam Guruji.

[@dsinghr]

This might be your greatest video. Great insights

[@Anant.Bhatia.Antz_Bin]

Excellent topic. Much needed.

[@vibz009kool]

Sir you are a true observer... Bilkul sahi observe karke samjhaate ho relationships pe aap.

[@chiragjain9099]

excellent topic guruji, thank you sirji...

[@parthasarathiray9071]

Very sensitive topic... But true...Thanks a lot for sharing your views

[@Amy_zz]

Children dont have to give their salary to middle class parents. They should build up own assets with own efforts. Live separately if you have the means.

[@siddharthch]

I think parents in india need accept truth that the moments they had kids their property is no longer theirs

[@sarvikauniversal6688]

Bilkul sahi baat h uncle ji thank you 🙏 ithna sab bolne k liye bahut himmat chahiye

[@piyushverma2493]

Sir your videos are very good for society and provide different perspectives. Generally, younger people are blamed for any wrong, but older ones are also responsible for the same.

[@healthconnectionbykusum5197]

Such videos are much needed .Thenk you .jane anjane me such me ham parents se ye galti ho rahi hai

[@RajeshAllem8256]

Really love your videos and gets educated on the dark sides of the life and even if someone has inside feelings can't put them into words. 🙏

[@ankurbhardwaj2241]

Boht badhiya Sir you are also guiding future senior citizens who are young today to avoid toxic behaviour.

[@manjulaiyengar9302]

Actually u r right guru ji u will not believe I got emotional after hearing your thoughts. But u r right. But those who are single parent and having only child. They are completely dependent on their kith and kin . Sometimes u should be diplomatic according to situation. Very nice video ❤

[@rovingupta4025]

Thank U so much Sir....fully able to connect!

[@NManjunatha]

Sir, You are the clarity specialist! Thanks

[@sunitamalhotra8010]

Sangwan ji nice video. Jindgi ki hakikat 70saal me samjh aati he. Children ki jarurat padti he. Aur padegi hi. Children ko paise ki hakikat samjhanye but rob markar nahi. Baki to sub unka hi he aur unhe hi dein. Wo sewa karien ya na karein. Children ko to ajadi chahiye hi paise doge to lalch to he but pratrna koi nahi sahan karte aajkal garob parents k bichche bhi.bina paise k rah lete he majdoori karke as I obesrve.

[@harshchaudhari3494]

AAG... Amit Ji aapne jo baat kahi hai, woh hamare samaj ki ek kadwi sachai dikhata hai. Bohot sare parents hai jinhone apne hi baccho ki life mein bad decisions liye aur kalesh laya, aur fir unhi baccho ko unki problems ke liye kosa. Ye bilkul aisa hai jaise parents ne jan bhuj ke pagal banaya aur fil bola ki tum pagal kyo ho, taki woh apne ego/esteem ko bacha sake ya baki rishtedaro ke samne dikha sakhe ki unki koi galti nai hai balki bacho ki hai. Iss topic parr bhi ek video banaye.

[@experiencegoel]

Guruji .... I am also from gurgaon.... Hatts off to your.... Problems faced by young generation Today..... Raymond's....

[@rupeshghanekar2058]

I am also asking my mom about restructuring of corpus in bank after retiriment,..but not accetpting...bank wale fayda leke insurance chipka diya..mom ko....4- 5; saal ho gaye....but now i just ..shut down...no more convincing...Happy with 2+1 family staying away from hometown ,,,,

[@shivrajraizada]

really true - an eye opener

[@oraoffice9562]

You are very right about Parents using money to abuse their children and try and keep them dependent. It happens in myriad forms. Parents should learn how to Parent first. It's sad.

[@panksontube]

You told my story sir. Parents ke kalesh ke baad aese hi hua sab kuch. Kya thi zarurat, kya bhala kisi ka, kya shaan thi isme mujhe pata nahi parents ko yeh darr kyun rehta hai.

[@aarvind3901]

My father took a risky biased decision but it helped my only brother to develop his business. Though I was left out in inheritance, I thought magnanimously 😊just to retain my brother’s affection forever. Moreover my hardworking husband keeps me happy too. I too worked as a corporate lawyer and earned good salary 😊All is well when one of the siblings just let things go

[@serenity8145]

This is wrong of parents to do. Only help one child, and women “happily” agreeing. It’s about the principle. No one need fall out.

[@vandanadohare-p5d]

Great thoughts guruji...

[@SatyaPathik]

Bull's eye, a most important topic in real life. Somebody had to say this and say it clear and loud with confidence. You did it Guruji. Thanks for this, it'll help many of us stuck in such situations.

[@bishalpal1709]

Thanks sir! I thought I am thinking in the wrong direction. Same scenario is going on with my parents. I have simply given up hope. I don't want their property or money. Rakh lo apne paas. Jitna kamaunga, ussi se jee lunga. Bohot aleeshaan ghar na sahi lekin 1 decent ghar mein rahe hi lunga~ They simply want that I live according to their rules and regulations, which would have been okay with me but the trouble is that their ways are outdated and I am reaching nowhere by following their advice. Instead, I am shooting myself in the foot.

[@JuticeforHumanity]

You stole my heart.

[@jadon2009]

True sirji maine to bol dia papa ko aapko dada ji itni property de gaye hame kab doge.. papa ka reaction dekhne wala tha.. 😂

[@onestopwireless2047]

Lot of respect. No one is talking about major issues like these. Lot of children are suffering.

[@vaibhavsinghrawat593]

Great knowledge sharing with us thank you gur ji🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@abhinav0906]

Really true. We are facing the same problem from last ९ years. But parents don't want to understand anything

[@Kritianewme]

Nailed it. Making a virtue of a necessity is the best line. 👏👏👏👏✔️✔️✔️✔️

[@AnoopKumar-sy5bn]

Ego for anything achieved may cause... Hindrance. Nice guidance.

[@arvilochanan]

I like the way you present such sensitive topics. Surely, gyan darshan hai...especially for people who don't have such helping angels around their vicinity to help with life lessons..🙏🙏

[@NitinSHARMA-uu7dg]

Absolutely correct 💯💯

[@simranseera9279]

Very nice video sir. Your videos are a great help to the society. Jo samaj jata hai uska jeevan sanwar jata h.

[@deeptisharma7924]

You are 100℅right sir. Keep going. Telling the truth and reality.

[@dkkalra1122]

Excellent Superb Maza aa gaya sunkar Thanks a lot

[@srprashar]

This is 100%truth

[@vineetasingh8264]

Same exactly like mine , my parents wants to give my money to them,, because unhone muje padha likha k itna bda kiyaa h ... Or na hi mere marriage k liye bhi ek penny dene ka bolte h

[@sushantpradhan6397]

Guruji aap itne sahi aur andaar ka baat direct bolt rahe ho

[@nishanthrao3090]

Sir, aap jaise logical and practical log bahut Kam hai, cheers

[@nilinimagupta5311]

Ek ek shabd bilkul sach kaha h video mein .

[@jk-gz5hx]

Don't traps in parents property. They will destroy your whole life

[@M_Ahuja]

Raymond - As this kind of cases deeply influence people. It's much needed .

[@Samikshakomal]

U are great..although the parents who got a lot of in inheritance become soo arrogant towards thier own children..

[@rishabhthakur-u7]

Ye dar laagmi hai, jab aapke saath pura youth generation hai, to dar kis baat ka, sahi baat hai, agar parents children ki samay invest nahi karengein, to bachche bhi bewakoof nahi hai, ki jo time reinvest karein. This is a really informative video.

[@rabindradebnath8220]

They aren't parents they are wolves who wil snatch and eat their own! Be careful! Absolutely perfect video!

[@himanshujovi]

What a courageous video !!!!!

[@anudeepshetty3509]

Wonderful Video. Reality checked Practically without Prejudice.

[@okokiokok]

Thanks Guruji 🙏🏽 Sukoon received.

[@surabhiswims7163]

Great! Spot on👍

[@amitchoudhary2025_Revival]

Sahi gyaan hai ... Absolutely true

[@BusyCuriousMom]

100 percent correct… more power to u sir.. !!!