Rishte And Rishton Ka Confusion

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[@vishayaduvanshi3171]

That's The blunt yet so best....... It has to be this way only.

[@manjular3678]

So true. I maintain a safe healthy distance from my son in law & daughter in law moreover i dont force my kids to love relatives that dont reach out to them. During my earlier days, relatives got away too comfortable insulting me and mom would say let it go quoting "They are elders, Unko bura lag jaayega. Matlab mera emotions & disrespect kuch nahi. Thank you guruji.

[@hareesh3266]

Uncle badiya baat khi . Na SaaS ma Ban sakti na bahu beti na damad beta. Kitni koshish krlo par koi kuch Nhi ban sakte

[@robween780]

10:33 😂 guruji's acting skills especially of Indian aunties are so damn accurate 😝

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[@DrKasturiShukla-ic2tj]

16:29. Absolutely true.. your videos are gems..

[@sushilkumari1203]

सर आपकी बात तो बिल्कुल सही है लेकिन मैं अपनी सास को कैसे बताऊं वह तो अनपढ़ पढ़ भी नहीं सकते उसको सुनोगे तो सुन भी नहीं सकती उसे तो मेरा कोई मायके वाला जाए मेरा कोई जानकारी आ जाए बीच में पंचायत करने की बहुत आदत है कितनी देर मेरे रिश्तेदार या जान कर बैठे रहेंगे उतनी तेरे पास में ही बैठी रहेगी कुछ बात नहीं करने देती अपनी बात की पंचायत देती है ज्यादा आप बिल्कुल एक नंबर की बात करते हो सर थैंक यू सर धन्यवाद आपका

[@get2dude2000]

You are absolutely right. I observed specially in south people prefer to meet their friends and colleagues only in public place or at Max some resort for day out. This keeps friendship and homely privacy apart😊

[@akritiprasad4188]

Not true… I am from Ranchi and married to Tamilian… there are so many guests all the time at Chennai home… I am an introvert. I get very irritated when I have to meet them multiple times and sit there and try to act like I am enjoying the conversation… I am 2 years married and every other relative asks me when I am going to have a baby. I get annoyed.

[@sanskarshikshaniketansansk2183]

guruji , dhany h aap ! sachcha video bnaya h

[@SushmitaPandey-m1n]

Apko sunana hi apne aap m therepy hai beautiful thought🙏

[@Tashi396]

Unfortunately Aaj k time mein bahut saare elders k spouse se relationship ache nii hai, iss wajah se bhi wo jyada dependent hai younger generation per

[@legomindstormnxtprog]

Totally agree.

[@oumboon]

Senior citizen ka friend circle ho aisa jaruri nhi hai .agar unke friends bhi helpless hai to youngsters ki help na le kya ?

[@legomindstormnxtprog]

I have heard and seen people (especially ladies) who mentioned that "their son is their best friend"! And that gave rise to entire chain of thoughts in my mind! Is it fair, to keep the husband aside and make son as best friend? Is it fair to have respect or resentment for their husbands and have friendship with their son? Is it fair to compete with other parents about children? Is it fair to mingle with other ladies/parents with lot of ego/pride in mind, about our own son? Is the son enough mature to understand mother's deep issues in family? In my thoughts, husband should be a ladies' best friend first. Son may/may not be mature enough to share thoughts with. There are chances that son will start resenting mother and want to get distant. In future, there can be repercussions in son's relation with his own wife, due to this "pre-mature" understanding. Also, son may not be able to allocate "time" for the friendship among his education/career/family. Many of the time, ladies have other ladies friends, who have children of the same age. This gives rise to "parental competition" among themselves. Some ladies have a lot of ego/pride considering their children. As a result, they do not want to mingle with other ladies and feel left out. As a result, they might have to depend on their son for friendship. I am of the opinion that as the son gets older, mother should create some distance with him. That will help him grow further and may even be fonder towards the mother. It is said that "Distance make the heart grow fonder!".

[@tushar4820]

​@@oumboon Nhi

[@mahanandagurav7043]

Sir, I really appreciate your straightforward thoughts

[@rohitbhati5805]

Completely agree ! Very true is astrological sense as well, if you are not given any rishta, it was supposed to happen like that !

[@deeptigupta2206]

Very true, learning a lot.

[@bindyagurukumar8500]

Overheard ladies talk: Lady1: I am not able to tolerate my kids celebrating simple tasks. We used to do many times more work and never brag. Lady2: Let go of these children, dont hurt your health by storing bad feelings. Lady1: Yes, I can change myself only.

[@akshdeepkaur9955]

Hum purane vle log hain aapke viewer day 1 se vle .... this video was so much wanted. Big thank u with folded hands for making this video

[@Pavitr_00]

very helpful sessions sir keep going

[@ruchirapant8540]

It is high time people start talking openly about these issues. I salute to your guts. Great job done.

[@spiritualgupshup]

I have spent last three days on all ur channels.... Just enjoying someone agrees with me

[@Ninanani-4085]

आपके सभी content बहुत अच्छे है। धन्यवाद और आभार।

[@Kiranarora-xe8in]

Aapki talk bakwas nahi hai it is the MOST RELEVANT TALK and I recommend yahi bolkar❤

[@fillingthemind285]

Absolutely right 👍👍

[@prakharvasishtha1]

Wah wah! Risto ka Saar, Very practical very true

[@abhinavdeepsinha3036]

Guruji ka gyaan and katu sach bhasha is ultimate. Too good

[@HiteshKumarbhardwaj]

Ek dum bindass video!! Apko pranam hai Guruji !!

[@kuldeepsharmasharma7347]

Correctly explained Sir jii Specially about parents.....

[@advait_enthusiast]

Father is Sun in astrology Sun/father should be neither too close or far

[@stanay6580]

Very Nice Guruji. Totally, agree with you. 😅😅 Aaj unko poto pauti ko bada karne me help nai karani hai or bachhe Bahu se seva karvani hai. Iajjat Leni hai. Jitne Day Care centre banege, utne hi old age home banege.

[@jafrime1886]

ساس بہو کو بہو یا بہو رانی کہے اور بہو اپنی ساس کو ساس جی کہے اور اور دیور کو بھائی کی بجائے دیور جی کہے اور سسر کو سسر جی کہے واہ کیا زبردست آئیڈیا اور تربیت ھے!

[@bishalpal1709]

mazaa aya guru ji! i laughed a lot🤣 got a lot insights. Thanks for sharing your views!

[@sapnakatyal87]

Keep going sir.u r going right.thankyou 4 making such videos

[@wahidaansari2440]

Guru ji Dil ko chhu liya

[@LEGENDFF-lz3mr]

Maja aa gay sun kr....parnam guru ji

[@mehmoodurrehman9322]

Dear Sir, Appreciate ❤ What should be ... in our life. This video gave clarity. Thanks

[@charu.sanjeev]

Maine kal hi ek Instagram reel dekhi jaha ye depict Kiya ja rha tha ki ek ladke ki maa ladke ke shadi ke baad kyu badal jati h (yani kharoos kyu ho jati h khas kar Bahu ki taraf) aur banane Wale ladke ne bhi socha hoga ki bancho kya hi video bana di h Maine....😂😂 Usme dikhaya gya ki phle ladka jo maa ke sath har waqt rhta h, baatein krta tha baith kr, maa apne hath se khana khilati thi shadi ke phle Tak toh ab bahu ke aa jaane ke baad se wo beta maa ko apna pura time nhi de pa rha kyuki ab uske sare kaam uski biwi krne lagi h aur pati bhi mostly uske sath hi rhta h toh islie maa ab akeli ho gyi h...... Toh mtlb kya ??? Iss logic se toh ek ladki ki maa ko pagal hi ho jana chahiye beti ki vidai ke baad kyuki ab toh wo ghar m rhti hi nhi ??😂😂😂 Aur ye ladko ki maa ko itna hi obsession h apne beto se toh shadi hi kyu krwati h phir ?? Isn't it obvious ki shadi Hui h toh ab Miya biwi hi sath m honge zyda waqt ?? Saas toh na jane kitne saalo se aisa hi krti aai h usne bardast hi nhi hota ki beta mera mere sath baithne ke bajae biwi ke sath kamre m kaise ja kr baitha h aur har waqt koi na koi bahana dhundhti rhengi apne bete bahu ko disturb krte rhna ka and this is very disgusting to me bhaisahab!! Aap shadi hi kyu karwa rhi apne ladke ki phir ??

[@bhumikawalia4041]

Saas kbhi Beto ki marriage nhi krwati....bs social pressures m ho jati h ya rishtedaar krwa dete hain.....mri saas ne mere dono devar ki shadi nhi hone di...kyuki hmare social pressure nhi h Saaa hmesha ladki walo ko phone krk mna kr deti thi k tumhari yhan shadi nhi krenge

[@bhumikawalia4041]

MRI SAAS TO RAAT KO MRE AND MRE HUSBAND K BEECH M SOTI THI SAME ROOM M ... WHEN I WAS NEWELY MARRIED

[@yavnikanegi094]

@@bhumikawalia4041😡 How dare she!? Even I am suffering in my marriage due to overbearing MIL who treats my husband like her son-husband. How’s your marriage going now? Aapke husband aapka support karte hain ab? Does he understand how dysfunctional his mother is and its impacts on your marriage?

[@caankitagrover4992]

mazaa aa gaya.. what a clarity..

[@amitabhgautam8503]

To maintain the respect, treat the relation the way it is.

[@bharatsinghirm11]

Sir I hope you read this comment. Please don't ask your house help to stop ringing your door bell. It's really funny and entertaining to hear the door bell in between... Also the fact that you don't pressurize your house help to stop ringing speaks a lot about your kind nature.

[@mikitiwari]

Mere parents bhi same complaint karate hain ki bacche apni life mein mast hai... Humse baat nhi karte. Jbki mere father n tauji sabhi government servant rahe hain... Grandparents gaon mein rahe... Khudko itni chhuttiyan nhi milti thi... To gaon Kam Jana hota tha, grandparents JB aate the to parade ho jaati thi n hum bacchon pe mummy ka gusaa nikalta cz unka koi helping hand tha nhi plus elders k according apko extra conscious hona padta tha... N main JB bhi unko active rehne bolti Hoon to mere parents mujhe bolti hain ki wo mere paas rehne nhi aayenge k bhi. N main yahi bolti Hoon ki aap Jahan comfortable rage, khush rahe wahan Rehman... But all I wish for you to stay healthy, active..

[@vinaypras6747]

Sahi bole hai guru jii and sahi pakaday haii.. Well said sevaa kartay kartay jay

[@mintrelsmith]

☺ Wah Sir Wah. Excellent!

[@bharathidayanand936]

Seva should be done for the youth, as they are the future😊

[@archanajnn]

Very well said Sir 👏

[@aakashshinde3713]

Bat to dil ki kar rhe ho...maja aa gaya

[@RanvirSingh-mj4iu]

All 7points are appreciable,I like.

[@sumansharmasvlog8316]

Sir very impressed videos full clarity of life

[@manjulaiyengar9302]

My father is law gave me respect like his daughter. But I always gave respect to him as father in law

[@foodtechbydr.namratasutar9227]

Learning a lot sir... also enjoying your happiness 2.0 series

[@swarnalatha9624]

Super sir Awesome explanation. Will share to maximum groups

[@healthconnectionbykusum5197]

Very nice video dimag khol diya

[@sushilkumari1203]

सर आप मुझे कुछ साल पहले मिले होते हैं और आपकी वीडियो देखी तो मेरी जिंदगी बदल जाती मेरे सास ससुर ने घर के गांव के चक्कर में मेरी सरकारी नौकरी छूट वाली और मैं पागल थी देखा मैंने छोड़ दिया अपनी नौकरी और आप बहुत पछता रही hu

[@vandanagiri2861]

Same here meri bhi isi chakkar me chhut gyi 😢😢

[@dr.dipikathakre3713]

Meri bhi naukhri yahi sab kalesh me chut gyi

[@healthywithme739]

You all can try an online job or business. Don't regret your past.

[@meenagavade5838]

Amazing hv no word's

[@seemabhardwaj1898]

Aap jo acting karte hue bolte ho usme maza aata hai Very true video 🎉

[@The_WarriorsWay]

Pitaji ko friend banane ka aur bahuo ko beti bananeka inspiration bollywood aur tv serials se aaya hai kyu ki waha saas bohot strict hoti thi so indian moms real life me apni bahuo ko beti banana chahti hai to be kind😅

[@Sonny0276]

Great Video. Thank you for posting.

[@renubhalla9005]

You have rightly said ,live on truth not on lies.🙏🙏

[@bharatideore3101]

बडी अच्छी तरहसे आप समझाते हैं , अमितजी...फिर भी कुछ बुजुर्ग नहीं समझते...

[@tridibpillai5170]

Please keep such videos on family relationships going. They really help articulate and more importantly validate the silent thoughts in all our minds. Where else can one be exposed to this fountain of wisdom in today's digital age. Super Like!!

[@San_home-chef]

Kiski seva honi chahiye, parenting topic, please much needed in the New year

[@madhurani1441]

एक उम्र के बाद पिता को मित्र की तरह ही रहना चाहिए बच्चों के साथ। शास्त्रों में कहा गया है कि "प्राप्ते तु षोडशे वर्षे, पुत्रं मित्रवदाचरेत्। अर्थात् जब पुत्र को सोलहवाँ साल लग जाए तो उसके साथ मित्र की तरह व्यवहार करना चाहिए।

[@pallavigosar8166]

Ek point bhi galat nahi hai,hum log bhi yahi sochte hai.

[@aradhnasharma6729]

Great insight

[@mikitiwari]

Hmmm... Sahi hai... Actually, JB bhi maa bolti hai ki ghar pe itna khula mahaul hai, papa tumhare friend jse rakhte hain tumhe, to baat samjhne ki yahi hai ki parents k saath aur friends ke saath ek wavelength ka frk hota hai.. Har chz to friends se bhi discuss nhi ho paati, kuchh cheezin parents se nhi bol paatey, cz hum jaante samjhte hote hain unko. Phir k bhi jaante, samjhte hue bhi hum stand lete hain.. Cz, stand aap apne liye le rahe ho... To use process mein unke nature aur attitude se aage Jana padta hai

[@Travelcook23]

Deep respect fr ur practical knowledge. ❤

[@reenananwani9054]

Very good n practicle videos. Mother in law buy new clothes for her daughter n give second hand clothes to her daughter in law as to treate her poor or give low quality clothes. This also happens . Brother sending good items as a gift to sisters , brother in law n mother whereas sister in law remove unused clothes which is hanging in Almera from six months n was wrong purchasing for her bhabhi as a gift.

[@purshotamsingh8442]

👍👍👍👍👍very nice sir

[@nareshchandras7450]

Very true sir. Fantansising is also a problem.

[@ANITASOODFKD]

Learnt a lot

[@reeta4047]

Nice advice

[@rishikeshpandey6484]

bhot gazab sir.... make more content

[@truptie29]

Well guided

[@alphamale7983]

Ekdum sahi ❤

[@vanitaagarwal2317]

Bahut badia video hai

[@soniaarora3448]

Well said

[@karanwadhawan9012]

Superhit Video

[@Gojopahadi]

10000 % Sach

[@MerryManticore-dr5kb]

Beta beti mein difference ka video banana chahiye

[@Ninanani-4085]

बिल्कुल. खुद अपने मां बाप से ही भेदभाव शुरू हो जाता है। और बहुत ही subtle लगने पर घिनौना तरह का भेदभाव, को पूरी जिंदगी की वाट लगा देता है। प्यार तक को तरसा देते हैं मां बाप, और फिर भाई भी उसी तिरस्कार को कैरी कर लेते हैं। और ऐसे में ही लड़किया धोखेबाजों के झूठे प्यार को सच मन लेती हैं, क्यूंकि झूठा आदमी पहला उस तरसी हुई आत्म सम्मान रहित लड़की को झूठा सम्मान देता है। कितने दोनो के प्यासे होंगे, यारों सोचो तो, शबनम का कतरा भी जिनको दरिया लगता है।

[@NitinKrishnan]

Maza aagaya, thank you, happy new year

[@spiritualgupshup]

Chill... U r rockstar !!!

[@freakkei3012]

Sahi baat kahi sir 👍

[@pkchowdary123]

Very great topic discussed Guruji … sewa wali video need soon.

[@bhawanauppadhyay5812]

Too good 👍 Required talk of the town😅🙏

[@kaushik412]

100% aligned

[@homemakersweety7757]

Bahut sahi baat and it’s a fact

[@a4ashoka]

Awesome!

[@AnandKumar-ub6dr]

YOU ARE TRUE SIRJI👍👍👍

[@manishapattanshetti7118]

Very True

[@nipasheth151]

Great u r sir

[@jumanakakabhai4485]

So realistic

[@anurajagopal357]

Sir, you are amazing !

[@FlowersAmazing]

Absolutely on dot!

[@saila8020]

Very informative 👏

[@ajaykumarsharmasharma3059]

Hats off sir

[@amandeepkaur-wh3qf]

Apne bilkul sahi kaha pr afsos bhut late samajh aya mjhe

[@PallaviKhisti-c8k]

Brilliant 👍 no wonder

[@ShashiVaid-v4q]

Ek dum sahi baat .

[@rajkumar-rs5bt]

Good 👍

[@ashokeroy8392]

Super super 👌 👍

[@snehabhatkar4953]

So true .

[@saurabhkhedkar3029]

Thank you for creating such a great video.. I am a follower of you😊