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@knotjusthooked9 күн бұрын
I love how she sneaks in while no one is looking and adds one more thing to the counter. " No one will be the wiser, so I'll just put this here" 😂
@connieclark35629 күн бұрын
I saw that too!!😂❤❤❤
@connieclark35629 күн бұрын
Love these insights, I need to hear them over and over again! My ADHD and autistic brain doesn’t process, but you always get me motivated!!
@lauriedupont5079 күн бұрын
I know that you said in the beginning of the video that you don’t like to clean your own house because that is work and cleaning other peoples houses is a gift. I just want to let you know that every time you clean any house and post it on your channel you give me a gift, because it motivates me to get up and clean something in my own home. I always seem to pause your videos, get up and clean something in my house. This time I unloaded my dishwasher, hand washed a couple of dishes that cannot be put in the dishwasher. I hate, hate, hate washing dishes by hand, but I did it. Then I ran my vacuum on the first floor of my house. I also went and straightened out my clothes closet. I’m sure that my telling you this doesn’t make you enjoy cleaning your house the way you enjoy cleaning other peoples but just the same you really do give me a gift every time you post a house cleaning video. Thanks!
@redwitch129 күн бұрын
I have friends who think I'm weird for enjoying videos that revolve around cleaning or tidying (house cleaning, yard transformations, etc). You've just put that enjoyment into words--it motivates me to do something to better my own environment. A tidier, cleaner environment improves my mood immensely. :D
@Jendromeda9 күн бұрын
same story with me....i watch and then get moving and there is plenty of stuff to move. my home looks better since i started watching this channel. MMC is one of the best channels on YT in my opinion. I can't count the number of donation items i have given, bags i have filled, dishes i have washed, refrigerator cleanings, even washing car mats. I bought baking soda, micro towels, isopro alchohol, vinegar, mr clean's clean freak...etc etc. Need to get that scraper/razor.
@schnetzelschwester9 күн бұрын
Oh, I love love love washing dishes by hand! We don't eat very greasy or juicy stuff, so I wipe off the biggest mess with paper towels before washing the dishes in the sink. I love the hot water on my hands, soothing the pain in my fingers and my broken wrist bones. It's so relaxing! And after finishing I treat my hands with hand cream. It works much better on the softened skin.
@sisutytto25639 күн бұрын
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@lauriedupont5078 күн бұрын
@@schnetzelschwester My mom loved washing dishes by hand too. Her kitchen sink was in the corner of the kitchen and it had windows above it looking out to the backyard and one looking out to the side yard. She loved to look out the window while washing the dishes. She said it was relaxing to her. We all have our things. :)
@sehoida9 күн бұрын
When my 3 daughters were young and I would ask them to clean their rooms it felt like a chore for them, but when I said “go make your room look cute”, suddenly it was fun and they wanted to do it . ❤
@eleanornelson5810Күн бұрын
That is a fantastic family saying! I wish I had heard it when raising my kids. However, I’m going to passing it on! In our family saying is “make a better choice”. We use it especially when you’re about to do something that might not be a good idea.
@Exitstarr9 күн бұрын
It’s important to gift yourself the clean. This Monday im going to go gift my grandma the clean because she just had shoulder surgery.
@SandraNelson0639 күн бұрын
Oh, bless you!
@AG-yj1jv9 күн бұрын
@Exitstarr You are such a sweetheart for doing that! I'm hoping your grandma does well in surgery - but um...also that she does not have memory or organizational issues. Be careful to make sure she *wants* the clean and, if possible, is there to direct. If not, make sure that envelopes with stuff written on them are not tossed, and things that are out, you just make tidy. And - even if she is the nicest grandma in the world - be prepared to be fussed at for your effort after all your hard work. I'm not trying to talk you out of it, just know that if there are piles that have been there a long time, *that may be where she is used to seeing them* - every time she can't find something, it will either consciously or unconsciously be your fault because, until now, she may have had to blame herself. It can be an unconscious relief to blame others. My most loveable, funniest, formerly-favoritest uncle is a hoarder and I did all the sorting with him right there. I tried to set him up with a therapist first, but we were working against a code enforcement violation. I love him so much, I didn't want him to lose the house. When The Yard was clear (he cannot live in the house), he threatened that if I did anything else, he would have me arrested for "elder abuse." Have your grandma agree to the cleaning in a text or in writing, signed, before you start so you are protected.
@Exitstarr9 күн бұрын
@@AG-yj1jv oh she texted me about it but this isn’t the first time I went to clean for her! Essentially all I do is scrub her bathroom for the most part but this time she wants her windows done and probably her kitchen tidied up. My grandma is only 68 so she still has plenty of life in her!
@Exitstarr9 күн бұрын
Oh yeah and she isn’t a hoarder lol she just has health issues and she can’t scrub like she once used to!
@AG-yj1jv6 күн бұрын
@Exitstarr *This* is good and healthy helping: Her asking you, you helping with things she can't do, her doing the things she *can*
@maryhtrask43219 күн бұрын
I love having a clean, tidy house. Even when I was 12 and took over the household because my dad got sick and my mom had to go to work. I worked for 35 years and my work had to be in order of priority, and had two calendars to remind me. Climbing into my clean bed last night and knowing no laundry was left undone, no dishes, floors clean, I slept very well. No one else in the family understands me, but I love my life. And I live alone. ❤😅. Yes, I was married with two children, but now a widow and my life is good.
@nicolab20759 күн бұрын
It makes me happy to hear you're happy. Good for you 🌷
@cat-mum-Jules9 күн бұрын
Mary, I am the same. I get such a good feeling when everything is done. I'm looking forward to my fresh clean bed tonight 😃🛏️
@Jumajaju8119 күн бұрын
I like a clean house but I have one child still living at home who does not pick up after herself or her dog. 😓 She's finally got a move out date, November 🎉 So I bought new cleaning supplies, ceiling paint, paint for the kitchen wall.... I'm very excited. I will miss her (and her shedding dog) but I am excited to finally have a clean house and not have someone come along and destroy everything I've done!
@5thdimension9549 күн бұрын
There’s a certain internal joy that goes with the daily discipline of chores. I find doing laundry as being very emotionally regulating for me. Whereas I struggle with my closet despite several annual purges. Thanks for your post. I look at this as “I get to do this” vs “I have to do this” which only brings out my resistance.
@sisutytto25639 күн бұрын
@@Jumajaju811 I felt that too,,god luck
@elizabethmcglothlin54069 күн бұрын
Once again I love a man saying making a room look pretty.
@breezeh11279 күн бұрын
You dont know what a relief it was to see a normal refrigerator with leftovers and pots with food. Im overwhelmed and annoyed by all the refrigerators that are all in clear bins that only have one time serve food and everything in its place. Makes me wonder if anyone cooks or has real food anymore. Thanks for being very real ❤
@lisalamphier14108 күн бұрын
I know, right?! I cook things in big batches, so my fridge and freezer are full of containers, the same old beat up (not clear) containers I've been using for thirty years, with masking tape labels. The pots are in the fridge until I get around to them. Except for the slow cooker because I use liners. 😁
@breezeh11278 күн бұрын
@lisalamphier1410 I am exactly the same way. I have 5 kids and with me and husband that makes 7. I cook in big batches too so we have leftovers to feed us different meals for the week and my husband has food for lunch at work. I am so unsure how others are doing all the clean containers (mine are the best up Tupperware off brands I always use) and have room for real food? Especially with the new thing where they have fairy houses and decorations in the fridge. 🤔
@bjumorrisdatter9046 күн бұрын
Leftovers have been a godsend all my life. My ex-husband would not eat Leftovers. Good thing I think they taste better. I have always taken Leftovers for lunch at work. When I was a single mom, I would cook and bake like mad, and that's what we ate that week. 😊
@breezeh11275 күн бұрын
@@bjumorrisdatter904 I'm so glad someone else has leftovers and enjoys them too 😊
@scalylayde87518 күн бұрын
That depression cycle is why I love that you do these big cleanings for people. It's much easier for people to move and clean to climb out of their depression if the house isn't so overwhelming. You do amazing work.
@DidiWaDidi9 күн бұрын
I grew up with a single, working mom. She made it clear we all had to do our part. There was a routine in the weekends; we had to change our beds and bring the dirty sheets and clothes to the laundry room. I had to do the ironing and my brother the vacuuming. We had to do the dishes after dinner, and mob the kitchen floor. It may sound like bootcamp to some, but it wasn't all that bad. In the end, as an adult I kept doing those things without giving it a second thought. It made my life easier
@TreasureDeal4 күн бұрын
That's how I raised my kids. My daughter claims she was abused all her life. My son can clean a house top to bottom in an orderly fashion in record time. Lol his wife doesn't like me too much because of that. I think she is adorable.
@Muichiros.favorite.9 күн бұрын
I can not be the only person who thinks this guys voice is so calming, like why need asmr when this dudes voice is a thing
@MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv8 күн бұрын
Exactly. I suffer from insomnia and the only thing that calms my mind, puts me to sleep is Mack's voice. I'll just put one of his long videos on that I've watched before when I go to bed and I wake up an hour or so later having managed some sleep. Mack's voice is a gift.
@WendyHannan-pt7ez5 күн бұрын
I do, I really like his voice, and he has a great sense of humour. 😊
@Sarah-mp5vi4 күн бұрын
!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯!!!!!!!
@Sarah-mp5vi3 күн бұрын
@@WendyHannan-pt7ez I hear they are hard to gift wrap!!
@PeggyStentzCasey9 күн бұрын
And just so you know, I don't care if you are cleaning your house or someone else's, I just like to watch!!!! Hope you and Emily get better quickly. I know what she really needs is to get that surgery done!!!!
@bjumorrisdatter9046 күн бұрын
Yes! Every video holds so much information.
@allalala99169 күн бұрын
I decorated my kitchen and started to enjoy cleaning it a lot more. An aloe plant, a watering can, another fake plant, a tray, fruit bowl, some wooden cutting boards, a coffee station( coasters, napkins, coffee container, tea container), cooking station( spoon dish, salt, pepper, oil, utensils). My motivation for cleaning is eating a snack after in a beautiful clean kitchen.
@catladynikki20249 күн бұрын
Adorable kitchen theme!
@k.60289 күн бұрын
this was my mom's trick for when we were burned out on cleaning - she would buy something for the house and then we'd do a big clean to get ready to display it
@sisutytto25639 күн бұрын
@@k.6028 That is perfect,,I love to go to plants and second hand shopping for something nice to my home so I get motivated to clean.
@Treslie9 күн бұрын
I told my friend I dont like cleaning and she said “but why? Cleaning is good for the soul!!” It completely changed my perspective. She passed away last year after a long illness and I still feel close to her when I clean.
@allsubstance9 күн бұрын
I'm sorry about your friend. Don't you love it when someone can say something small that just wakes you right up?
@jodiecardinal92687 күн бұрын
Wow I like that phrase, thank you for sharing it. Truly sorry for your loss.
@cocoa-nn5wk9 күн бұрын
I love how the grey cat magically shows up whenever you make the bed 😻 Congratulations on 600K.
@sisutytto25639 күн бұрын
Why does cats always do that,,,,,,,☺
@denisesmelley85469 күн бұрын
It’s so sweet that Jason put on a shirt to match your kitchen curtains this morning! 😄🩵
@rebeccasourpuss9 күн бұрын
No one's ever gifted me a moose.😭
@ess0j0see9 күн бұрын
It’s okay. I don’t even have a house moose 🤷♀️
@Juleesuz9 күн бұрын
Me neither. I think moose are very underrated. 😅
@Susanfuzz9 күн бұрын
I’d give 10 thumbs, if I could:)
@Joey-wu5su9 күн бұрын
I like moose🎉
@nicolab20759 күн бұрын
@@ess0j0see Now I want a house moose, and where I live we don't even have moose. We do have cows, but what's a cow when you want a moose of your own?
@adrienneforeman21539 күн бұрын
Don’t put it down put it away is what I sing to myself a million times a day
@karynsperry76769 күн бұрын
@@adrienneforeman2153 Very good mantra! I am going to use this one. 😃
@adrienneforeman21539 күн бұрын
@@karynsperry7676 just know everyone in your house will think you’re weird 😂😂😂. I say duh I am weird
@YunuPolsen9 күн бұрын
One million and one times a day for mua 😅
@GladJack22229 күн бұрын
I end up running out of hands. And pockets. And room under my arm. And room in the bra. 😅
@leslieh7479 күн бұрын
When my husband goes over to help his mom, I do some major cleaning at home as a gift for him. He comes home to an extra clean house...and I benefit too!
@AZHITW9 күн бұрын
Coming up to the second anniversary of significant other's passing, I think I'm more depressed now than when he first passed. Funny how grief works, you think "oh good I'm getting better" and BOOM it hits you all over again. To my benefit when I'm depressed, I clean, so everything is neat, tidy, and uncluttered.
@OldGreyMare609 күн бұрын
Please know that you are seen and loved. Sorry you’re going through a tough time. ❤
@lnhoughify8 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤️
@courtneyhenderson167 күн бұрын
I have heard the second year of grief is very, very difficult. Hugs.
@cathyprosser10509 күн бұрын
You and Jason did a great job getting your house cleaned a bit. Thanks, Jason for being there for your Dad and Emily to help out! Mack, I want you and Emily feeling better and doing more of what you love doing. Being sick is a bummer 😕 Thanks for sharing something with your growing group of followers this weekend and feel better soon. ❤❤❤
@deborahmulliss65549 күн бұрын
The game I played with my kids was that we were detectives looking for clues around a crime scene. We use to make up the most outrageous scenarios, it was a lot of fun. ❤ I was fortunate that my mother taught us how to clean and when we were teenagers we would trade cleaning for her to sew us something new.
@angelasista35429 күн бұрын
This channel is better than THERAPY!!! I love it here... Thanks MMC
@bronwyndiruggiero-cu6dj9 күн бұрын
Words have power ... renaming cleaning to decorating is massive. Thank you
@LaurieC08129 күн бұрын
There was a commercial several years ago for a drug that said, “A body at rest tends to stay at rest while a body in motion tends to stay in motion. It’s simple physics.” I remember this because at that time in my life I was in a bad headspace. It is just taking that first step, however long it takes.
@krisb74659 күн бұрын
I hate clutter. My ex used to pile all his papers and stuff on top of the dresser because he "had to see it in order to remember to take care of it." So I cleaned out the top drawer and laid everything in the drawer just the way it was lying on the top of the dresser and said, open the drawer when you need to see what you need to work on, and close it when you're done for the day. It worked out great!
@moverun19 күн бұрын
Hi, Miraclerun here. As you know I have autistic twins. Maybe you can go over how autism has impacted your life. From my experience, you are a mature, well-adjusted, person, who everybody can learn from. Not only that, you are educating thousands of people to have a better life. My home is cleaner because of you, so my mind is better. I have endless energy from following your example and advice.
@vec42539 күн бұрын
I didn't realize that I do that until you just mentioned it: I clean my house in case company comes. I do like it clean, but the thought that someone might come over and need to use the toilet prompts me to clean the bathroom, sweep the floors and put away junk.
@elbee5779 күн бұрын
I like that concept of perspective! I love to cook, so I tell myself, “I’m getting the kitchen ready so I can have FUN cooking!” Your idea of cleaning ONLY 1 segment of kitchen counter at a time also is very helpful! I have ADHD & that method prevents overwhelm! Thanks!
@ittybitty40149 күн бұрын
Love the option of cleaning one thing/area when overwhelmed! That change in perspective really does help! 😊
@garnetjewel52689 күн бұрын
The 2-3 square foot area cleaning method doesn't work for me. Too many different kinds of tasks may be required in that 1 area. What works for me is picking a small task with a clear beginning and end (e.g wash dishes, do laundry fold it and put it away, vacuum all floors, mop kitchen floor, clean toilet, dust a shelf, scrub the tub, dust the blinds, clean the coffee table, dust a different shelf). I complete a task and go relax feeling satisfied that I finished something. If I'm feeling good about myself, I might do something else. Eventually, everything gets done.
@bandolinaful9 күн бұрын
Cleaning and cooking and planning definitely helps me with depression. Just like you Lone Wolf, it's one piece at a time 😅
@pattigoodale17669 күн бұрын
Cleaning for me is theraputic. I clean to deescalate so I'm not taking my frustration out on others. It helps me think and process. Also, I clean to make life easier for everyone living in our house. Yes, I wish others were more vocal with appreciation, but I tell myself it's for me too. That helps with my attitude.
@marywiggins74119 күн бұрын
Oh Mack! You totally get my brain in regards to cleaning my own house. Thanks. I had to stop my mind from saying I hate doing dishes to I really hate to look at dirty dishes. Weird how just reframing that helped. I could still use a 'cleaning buddy', damn lonely job.
@Mrs.Silversmith9 күн бұрын
I agree with teaching them to clean when they are young. I have five kids and when each child turned 1 we taught them to pick up their baby toys and return them to the toy basket each day before naptime and again in the evening before bed. They still have to clean up daily even though they are older now, but they see it as totally normal and it isn't a struggle.
@megangraham41119 күн бұрын
Omgosh bed visiting kitty was sooo FLUUUUFFY!!!! You have a fantastic voice, very soothing...subject matter discussed is also on point. Moose are quite vexxing!😂
@Cole_Cross8 күн бұрын
It feels like a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.. self-love/self-care. Like...why do we apply certain expectations to ourselves--that we would neverrrrr place on our best friend? Why do we deserve any less? Why wouldn't we give ourselves the gift of a clean home--like we would for our best friend? Have that friend come body double. Play music that makes you dance. Or pop on a book on tape. Zone out--get into the zone. Picking up ONE ITEM sparks the zone for me, too!
@justsayin19587 күн бұрын
Last night I went to bed with some dishes in the sink, I usually clean as I cook and got most of it done but was tired and left the after dinner dishes. I got up at 630, started a pot of coffee, cleaned out the dishwasher & strainer and put the clean stuff away, reloaded the dw, wiped down the counters and cupboard doors and then sat down with a fresh cup of coffee. Relaxed a bit - then before I showered I got in & scrubbed the shower down. Back from grocery store I started a load of laundry, poured another cup of coffee while that runs and watched you clean. And now the laundry is ready for the dryer LOL! I do things in bits now that I'm older, but it gets done.
@brendaspencer66919 күн бұрын
I hope you and Emily feel better real soon.
@dajw75404 күн бұрын
I’m staying with my mom right now, and for the foreseeable future while she’s bedfast under hospice care. The only thing that has helped my anxiety, ADHD and panic attacks is cleaning out cabinets and rearranging counter top items, and as you say “redecorating” the clutter. It gives me micro-bursts of joy. I pick one small area or counter top or cabinet per day.
@L_MD_3 күн бұрын
Sending you strength xxx it sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now ❤
@theComputerVoice9 күн бұрын
the whole "pick up one object" is so relatable, even if not specifically cleaning, but once I pick up that ONE THING or start that one thing, i have to see it through... it's the starting that's the hardest!!
@wordspowertarot9 күн бұрын
Totally getting started is the most challenging part. I like to put “small timers” to start, the bare minimum and it’s incredible how much you can get done in 5 minutes and then you feel the pull to keep in going. I like your take on moving an object. That also relates to clutter blindness to just move the clutter to a different space so it can become visible again. All the best for you and Emily!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
@covishen9 күн бұрын
I have a real problem doing dishes. I despise doing the dishes. Once I start I'm good, but it takes me days, yes days, to start doing them.
@amyserra4409 күн бұрын
Same here for not do dishes but I do likes to collect stuff
@christineg61239 күн бұрын
Adhd medication helped me w achieving the will to clean and keep on top of my life.
@lizhelm99229 күн бұрын
Yes! All of the things that would take 5-10 min to do. But I think about it for hours and days. And then feel like crap about it. Or, get started on one thing and then suddenly I'm off spending two hours doing some other random thing! When I found a med that worked for me, it was like a squeegee on my brain. And I could finally DO the things. I've never felt more like my true self. When I was about a year into therapy she asked about ADHD. I said no no, I did so good in school. I definitely needed educated about all of the symptoms of ADHD. Definitely therapy and medication! It hurts my brain and heart when people think oh you shouldn't take meds you just need XYZ. Its like, you wouldn't say that to a diabetic person. Education about mental health 🎉🎉 I'm really glad you commented. Helps me to not feel alone. This channel has helped too❤
@dianamalik35999 күн бұрын
The condition of a home almost always is an indication of what is going on mentally, emotionally as well as physically with the people who live there. Love tips on how to reframe thinking so that the task of cleaning takes on a different perspective…its a gift, a demonstration of love or way to get exercise and get more flexible and strong……whatever motivation works! Thanks Mack for your perspective on this super important matter that affects everyone everyday.❤
@NFSHeld9 күн бұрын
I can relate a lot to what you say. I can't find the motivation to tidy up my own flat. I'm not a hoarder or anything, and it's not particularly unclean in my flat. But there's stuff lying around, or there's dust on the floor, etc. and it never bothers me enough to actually tidy all of it up at once. I just do small things day by day, so my flat is in a constant state of "slightly untidy". I can live in this state for weeks without the situation getting significantly better or worse. I never seem to find the motivation to finally put all the things away and vacuuming and keeping it that way. But the night before my girlfriend comes for a visit, I can do it all better than necessary, because she knows my flat would usually be "slightly untidy" and she enjoys the "gift" of coming to a perfectly tidy flat.
@amyserra4409 күн бұрын
Same thing for me no motivation just let things collect dust😊
@sherrykinsman84789 күн бұрын
Thank you for telling me why I can work in the yard/clean like a dog at my daughters house but at home just the thought of doing it wears me out! Seriously, I couldn’t figure it out. TY!
@dianemaher35389 күн бұрын
What initially drew me to your channel was that a man was doing the work that was considered to be "women's work" when I was growing up (70's-80s) . I always loathed that notion as I never saw myself in that role, despite being female. I know that's antiquated thinking (70's-80's), but that was how it was growing up for me in SW IL. My brother never wanted to do "women's work" and I got stuck with doing it and I hated every minute. Listening to you talk and how you explain things has helped me start to get beyond that notion. I'm not a tidy person by a long shot, but am slowly making my way through some of the old clutter a few 3x3 or 5x5 (whatever it may be). Thank you!
@electricfishfan7159Күн бұрын
I am a bit similar. I’m young and I’ve always been tomboyish but I got suckered into cleaning & tidying content recently. Now I love leaning into this skill since it turns out I love cleaning & organizing, but I hadn’t been motivated to do them the right way before. Now I even get accused of being a tradwife 😱 lol.
@Ruth589699 күн бұрын
I brought up 8 children, basically alone. Their dad was an alcoholic and not present emotionally and was more a hindrance than a help. I think the frustration of cleaning stems from the tsunami of mess 8 home schooled kids, 9 cats, 1 dog, 1 Fireskink and 12 guinea pigs generated. We also had a rabbit rescue in the garden with, at its peak, 48 rabbits. Couple that with a -30 winter and cleaning became a real chore. Nowadays am single, everyone has grown up and moved. I live with my youngest two and we have 5 cats. I love cleaning now cos it stays nice for longer.
@nimgeezwarren49109 күн бұрын
I, too, raised 8 kids. Dad died of cancer. I had to work, raise kids, and I chose to go to college part time until I earned my BSN of Science degree.
@silversugar21409 күн бұрын
Holy moly. Y'all are the real ones.
@finehowareyou7 күн бұрын
@@Ruth58969 so you didn't just raise them alone - you raised them while wearing a 100lb backpack every single day. raising them alone would have been easy by comparison💕
@josephdaly20159 күн бұрын
Great advice on changing your perspective. What is it about cats that have to get on the bed as your making it? I hope you are getting better each day and that Emily is keeping well before her next operation. Keeping ye in my thoughts and prayers 🙏 Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 👏👏👍💪🙏💐🐈
@wndy269 күн бұрын
I love a tidy house however I struggle to get it there. 1. I can find 1000 other things to do first... 2. standing on my feet for long periods makes my back hurt like hell 3. I am sure there is some other excuse I make but cant' think of it right now. I know they are all excuses but when I am in pain I'd rather just lay down. Its been a huge struggle for me since I broke my shoulder... Oh... and as I type this you mentioned depression... yeah that is me.
@CammyHell9 күн бұрын
Wow this is why I love cleaning other people’s houses. I never really took the time to analyze it before. You always come up with the best voice overs. So informative!!!
@ValiantVicuna5 күн бұрын
I love that your perspective hack to make cleaning easier is just to be a generous, loving person gifting beauty to your household. 🥰 Resonates with me so hard.
@julietewing48479 күн бұрын
I hope you and your wife recover soon, blessings
@dianeporter93369 күн бұрын
New subscriber here! Im in failing health and living alone. I got a lot of inspiration from this very 1st video of yours! Thank you ❤and i wish better health for you and yours. 😊
@audrich83437 күн бұрын
The non-existent company that's coming over in an hour is a trick I've used many a time! Love your humour x I hope you and your family feel better soon x
@kellysauerhage8898Күн бұрын
I just adore how supportive you are to all around you.
@carolinereynolds20329 күн бұрын
That really is a thing. I am so tidy at work but it is definitely a chore to do it at home.
@CammyHell9 күн бұрын
I can’t believe how smart you are - I’m so grateful ❤
@adrianagallicchio92399 күн бұрын
Hope you’re feeling better
@kellyngrey49509 күн бұрын
It's totally the same when it comes to being a mechanic, carpenter, house painter, house cleaner... you do it all day and when you come home you're tired and just want to relax. You don't want to paint the roof trim or trim the hedges or fix the cabinet or mop the floor. You just want to sit down, decompress, and rest. So I totally understand and respect folks that work all day and the last thing they wanna do when they get home is work some more.
@kae303x9 күн бұрын
Good to see you again ❤ Hope you are all feeling better 💐
@rozanidesignsmasquerade70509 күн бұрын
Congrats on surpassing 600K subs❣️ Take care, y’all. 👍😍
@mindyrutkowski31249 күн бұрын
So happy you are back!!!
@805Coastal9 күн бұрын
"sick kick flip" LOL~~~. Ya get me every time!! 💜
@dovie2blue9 күн бұрын
The inertia of depression, you understand it.
@jacquelinecronin124910 сағат бұрын
I love cleaning and organizing. It's my therapy. Then I binge watch these videos.
@mdoe379 күн бұрын
Same reason a cobbler has holes in his own shoes. And the more I listen to these videos....I'm convinced I'm ADHD. . . . at 60. Things make sense now.
@denisesmelley85469 күн бұрын
7:35 a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
@deescese9 күн бұрын
It is true that keeping up is an easier routine to establish than catching up, but I think the tip of the day is definately Get yourself started. Move one object. Thanks for that! It is so simple even maybe I can do it! ❤
@OldGreyMare609 күн бұрын
Go for it! You got this!
@marggyreppeto-pi6re9 күн бұрын
I'm a neat orderly type. Even as a kid. Must of gotten it from my mother. I put things away when I'm done with them. Can't go to bed with dirty dishes in the sink. My oldest daughter apparently did not inherit this, but my youngest daughter did. You & Emily take care and hope you're doing better 🥰
@suebee33299 күн бұрын
THREE THINGS!!! Put 3 things away in every room you enter. Watching a movie- commercial 3things. Netflix etc 3things every 1/2 hr. Making coffee 3things while the coffee is being made.
@richardcox79269 күн бұрын
I'm looking forward to this . Cleaning someone else house is a gift. My own house is not so much. Cleaning house is a gift to myself. Thinks for the encouragement. I live alone. I am 73, with adhd, autistic,anxiety dyslexic......thanks Mack. My husband also fell broke his hip, which was replaced bout 4 months ago. He is now walking with a walker. Lives in retirement home. I am unable to take care of him. I do everything here at my house. Yard work, inside side out. He is 85. I am 73. It is a wonderful thing that we lived to see the day we were legally married as a same sex couple. Mack. Thanks for continuing to inspire .
@richardcox79269 күн бұрын
Thanks. Lookin forward to the new shirts. I got a greenbean t-shirt a couple of weeks ago. I'll try not to write a long comment in the future. 🫎
@SuperSydneyh9 күн бұрын
Congratulations!
@richardcox79269 күн бұрын
@@SuperSydneyh thank you.
@Sir.Allegations11 сағат бұрын
I mainly got better with keeping my place clean due to hating insects and having my older brothers as roomates for most of my life. (absolute slobs) my bedroom back when I was roomed with my brother would have been the perfect thumbnail for your youtube video. I now have this bedroom to myself, while I save up money to one day own my own place. I had to gut this room entirely, then Scraped off the old wallpaper that was old and ripped and patch all the holes my brothers put into it (oldest threw knives in them). Repainted it to a lighter blue to make the lighting better in here. added a new carpet, and change the furniture in the room for nicer durable ones we found in a veteran owned furniture thrift shop. the only thing i need to fix is the broken window my bro broke trying to kill a fly too many years ago. My bedroom is pretty much clean for the most part and is pretty much the dream bedroom I wanted as a kid. I very much appreciate your channel, I wish to get the rest of my house fully cleaned. however I prob have a nightmare of a house, my grandfather who recently passed away a week ago, who despite considering him as my actual father to me was a horrible horder. We have a barn full of too many tools furniture and appliances. his mindset was to always have a spare thing, and had too many projects he never got to. he was very obsessive with collecting things nothing in particular, just a lot of stuff. we got loads of broken lawnmowers, snow blowers, a giant pile of tires, a long line of outboat motors in the barn and in the basement. the barn is collapsing because he didnt keep it up, too many health issues and getting fat where he was immobile in the last few years of his life made it hard to do anything. While I was jobless due to a panic attack I got from my first job for a couple years ago from severe social anxiety I spent those last few years helping him out with those projects, to a point where taking care of him was my job. I have a job I held for a year now its kind of sad that when I finally got myself together my grandpa couldnt anymore. Hearing your sympathize with hoarder houses like this is nice, nobody wants to live like this, none of my family are lazy, I dont think ive seen anyone that work as hard as my family to struggle to get where we are. I am getting better at making my mother make healthier life choices and she has been replacing broken stuff now and trying to improve the house more. Channels like yours are a blessing you can't clean everyones house but I feel like your doing a good job to motivate others to do something themselves.
@Joli3789 күн бұрын
Hi Guys! I agree with the kids helping, my mom had us clean the house every Saturday morning. Years after I left home I realized I did the same thing, it was like an automatic urge that I had to do.
@annscott98009 күн бұрын
When you clean as you go, it's easier to keep the place clean. When I am angry or really worried about things I give the house a deep clean and I also have a rule that if you have not used something in 6 months, it's time to donate it yo a good home
@KareMax089 күн бұрын
Thank you for making this video, you gave me a new perspective on how I look at cleaning and what can help with depression which I have.
@Ms._Purple_Apple9 күн бұрын
I’m a loner as well. I like your way of thinking on cleaning like someone is coming over or you’re decorating. I’m trying to get motivated to paint our spare room. I’ve washed the walls, it’s going slowly, but I’ll get there. Can’t wait to see how it turns out.
@maryleeswope33539 күн бұрын
Hope you and Emily feel better soon. To me, a clean bed and a clean kitchen are greatly appreciated when you are sick. Its a gift!!🎉🎉🎉
@SandraParkerBurns7 күн бұрын
Put in some overhead shelves in the garage. Life changers. Can now actually access boxes to start sorting and purging. Also doing three things that are helping the declutter: 1. Never move from one room to another empty handed. Even if it just gets stuff a little closer to where it needs to be or to the garbage can 2. Focusing on the things that I see everyday that disturb me when I see them. 3. Bought some high end commercial kitchen storage containers. Consolidated like things and got rid of awkward packaging. Freed up loads of space. Also, I installed a pantry app that lets you scan your packaged goods, spices, etc. So helpful. Purging old things and rotating. Now, I have access if I am shopping and don’t know if I have certain things or need to get them. Have a spot now in garage where things that have got to go are being assembled. The big plus is that I invite friends to take a look at the items being added almost daily and take what they want/need. The stuff finds a new home and the small value I might get at a yard sale is offset by knowing it will be used by someone I care about.
@peaches658359 күн бұрын
Body doubling is so important for kids. I learned to sit and do my homework because my Mum, a teacher, sat down and did her school work. I just copied what she did. The same goes for cleaning. On Saturday late morning the whole family cleaned the house. Every one had an age appropriate task to do. Since Mum was cleaning at the same time it made it easy for me to start cleaning. We still do it today. I'll give her a call when its time to do the evening dishes as now she's older she struggles with the energy to get moving. So we chat while I cook my dinner and ahe washes her diahes. Win-win-win because we get to chat too.
@OldGreyMare609 күн бұрын
I think that’s wonderful! I’d give anything to be able to talk with my mom again.
@trish875639 күн бұрын
The other thing about cleaning for others that makes it easier is that you do not engage with their things the way one does with one's own things. For example, if I am cleaning for myself, I may need to declutter a countertop. On that countertop might be, for example, mail, bills, etc., that are relevant to me. When I see those, they may get my brain going in other directions. "Oh, yeah, I've got to remember to pay that bill," or "Crap, I forgot to schedule my dentist appointment before the end of the plan year," or "Geez, there's so much I need to do." Or if I live with others, I might be cleaning and find myself frustrated that they've left a mess again, or I have to ask them about what to do with their thing they left out--pitch it, file it, move it...? Those things eat into mental and emotional energy, and that adds to how fatiguing cleaning can be. In contrast, when I am cleaning for someone else, I don't have any of those connections because those things I'm cleaning around aren't personally relevant, so that frees up some energy.
@MamaTracyAnn9 күн бұрын
I'm glad you're feeling better!
@MarianneMcVeigh-xz2yv8 күн бұрын
Hi Mack. Thanks for putting out a video whilst not feeling well and looking after Emily. It's great that Jason helps you. It's good that you look out for each other. I hope you reach a million subscribers soon and get your well-deserved gold plaque. You're my favourite channel on KZbin.
@dukkieb3 күн бұрын
I really hope you start recovering soon. I really miss your extreme cleans. This is a great video that I’ve shown my daughters to help with chore perspective. I’m thinking about changing the term from chores to something else. Thank you!
@BimmyBean9 күн бұрын
That lousy house moose... Glad you're feeling better Mack. Jason is the dishmaster+
@joreed429 күн бұрын
Thank you for your insight on those who may be neurodivergent. We finally got married this year and my “craft room” craftermath was daunting. I no longer look at it as cleaning the whole room. I started with 1 box and sorted it. Then 1 drawer and the next thing I knew I can see my desktop and walk freely around the room. I also use the “Swedish death clean” mentality when sorting, I feel so much lighter mentally. I know my son will appreciate this in the future. I still have way too much stuff but my “ P.H.D.s ( projects half done) are getting done too. Sadly we have no moose in Florida.
@OldGreyMare609 күн бұрын
I also used the Swedish death cleaning mentality when a friend offered me a player piano and about 50 song scrolls for free. I desperately wanted it and would love to play it again after 20 years of not having a piano, but decided against it when I thought of my children having to get rid of it when I’m gone.
@alwaysthesleepless19 күн бұрын
I wish you both a speedy recovery. I look forward to your next video I would like to adopt a moose but it wouldn't fit in my kitchen 🤣
@SharonOnTheNet9 күн бұрын
The kitchen is nicely decorated in the after pictures. a very wholesome transformation. so pretty!
@djb11649 күн бұрын
Hi Jason. Nice of you to help out. ♥
@wendyhibbard44893 күн бұрын
First my partner has ADHD and Autism. This has helped me so much to have a better understanding of how her brain works. The other ting I wanted to say is I've bought the Mr. Clean Clean Freak, and it's changed my life. I love it.
@teresaminick11699 күн бұрын
Guilty! Cleaning while I'm mad. Lol
@rebeccaashton53909 күн бұрын
Cleaning mad is when I get my most efficient cleaning done. Lol
@teresaminick11699 күн бұрын
@@rebeccaashton5390 lol
@kimwells83959 күн бұрын
I deep clean when I am mad. 🤭
@teresaminick11699 күн бұрын
@@kimwells8395 😆
@ellenshaw50349 күн бұрын
My husband used to call it RAGE cleaning!
@biffm.28068 күн бұрын
Thinking of a clean house as a gift to my family has helped. My husband has been taking a class that’s been stressful for him. I really wanted to help him, but I don’t have the education in that class to help. So the one thing I could think of was making sure his areas he would work in were clean. I think just the lack of chaos around him helped to keep him focused on the school work.
@luciaramaria57759 күн бұрын
I love that funny voice at the beginning! Cheer from Brazil!
@DreamingCatStudio6 күн бұрын
OMG!!! I’m ecstatic! This idea to reframe cleaning to decorating is GOLD. I’m an artist and care so much when I’ve made my home a disaster, but I’m also desperately terrible at cleaning… But you! You gave me a new way to see it… I’ve already tackled the kitchen and part of the rest of the house. I am so thrilled. Actually, I’m tearing up… You cannot believe the impasse you have helped me overcome. Mack, you are a miracle indeed! ❤❤❤❤❤
@edieboudreau96379 күн бұрын
Thanks Mac. Yes. Getting up and moving helps. Frustrating when I can't do stuff! ( Dislocated elbow beginning of August. ) Can't sweep or mop because can't guide the handles. Yet. Started PT so I'm hopeful that SOON I can get back to it. Meantime I am plotting and planning the changes I want to make this winter in each room. As you said, perspective is everything. I CAN make notes and think & plan. I CAN do a little more each time - granted that a test is often required between attempts to do stuff. But it's amazing how many things can be carried by setting it on top of the sling for that extra hand balance instead of 2 hands in front! I have learned through many many years of failures that concentrating on what I can do & HOW I can use that to do something, well, that helps me come up with other ways of doing things than I've previously done. Granted, for many without limitations they get frustrated at my way of doing things which ONLY SHOWS just how LIMITED THEY ARE! Anyway. I think this way of cleaning mindset to be able to start cleaning is key! Thank you.
@michellesimpson67349 күн бұрын
Hi Mack and Jason Great Clean. Thank you both for sharing. Keeping Emily in my prayers 🙏
@Sylvelourie6 күн бұрын
The way I see it, cleaning, tidying and decorating are the trifecta of managing your stuff and household. They all go together, and while some of those parts are more fun than others, you need all three of them to keep a house in order. It does take time to learn to love some of the parts, and sometimes you never really do, but it helps to remember that all 3 of those things work together and they all need to happen.
@pampetersen81109 күн бұрын
Congrats on the 600,000. I hope that your channel will spike quickly and you hit a million soon!
@ThatCleanDadlife9 күн бұрын
Hey Mack and family!!!!!!!!
@joanagronwald24919 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Mack for this video! You gave me answers to questions I've always had: why is cleaning my own house so hard sometimes and on the other hand so easy and enjoyable at my partners/my parents place. And even the country accommodation I used to run: cleaning the messiest mess came so easy. I will watch this video every time I get overwhelmed or paralyzed at home with my two kids. I wish you and your wife all the best😊❤
@wisewomin9 күн бұрын
So glad to hear you 😢 in a funk & needing guidance 😂🫎
@wisewomin9 күн бұрын
Bought new rugs for kitchen and living room 👍🤗 to gimme Some ooompft 🤔💜