Misogyny Much? (Good Bro Bad Bro)

[@anna_3035]

As a fellow fEmALe I can confirm it’s not a ‚female advantage‘ that we are always getting attention, most of the time unwanted attention.. I already watched a vid about this guy btw, but I‘ll watch any topic twice if you make a video. It’s always good quality and very funny :) Thank you!

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you for watching!!

[@ashschramm6595]

Guy: “girls with tattoos are freaks in the sheets” Me, with almost 20 tattoos and also extremely asexual: “well this is awkward”

[@k-kaepjjang1876]

Me with tattoos who didn't even hug a boy properly: iNTeReStInG 💀

[@jujumoser]

@@k-kaepjjang1876 lmao

[@swimmnlikenemo]

Me, an ace flux person who wants a ton of tattoos one day: “what do you mean by that 🤨”

[@definitelynotaspy2004]

Woah woah woah! Are you sure you’re not just playing hard to get for the alpha males??? I’m sure if you found a proper dominant man with a MASSIVE wiener you wouldn’t be ace /s

[@YeahIGotNuthin]

Men will tell women they are only worth as good as they look, then call them vapid for investing in their looks 🥴

[@udontevenwannaknowbruv]

Literally wtf are we supposed to do

[@YeahIGotNuthin]

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv women just have to live for themselves.

[@artespeck8091]

@@YeahIGotNuthinoh but dont forget were cunts when we do that

[@λαμπροςΣακκος]

Yeah you know we kinda like natural beauty because we don't want to go to bed with a beautiful girl and wake up in the morning and see a goblin we don't even recognize as the person from yesterday 😌

[@artespeck8091]

@@λαμπροςΣακκος ok in that case men arent allowed to grow beards I mean i dont wanna wake up w someone who looks like they have a jawline then one day end up having to look at a weak chinned incel right? Would you?

[@codybasore2747]

"do I really need to explain power imbalances to you?" literally yes. I never hear people bring up the concept of power imbalances when discussing sexism which is ridiculous because it's so fundamental to it.

[@darienneff4540]

word!!!!! i didn't realize this until you verbalized it

[@Elizabean1984]

It's not real. The whole "You c'ain't be sexist to me I'm a woman, God I hate men #KAM." thing is ridiculous. Sexism goes bolth ways. Racism goes all ways.

[@Zenishaaa]

@@darienneff4540 n

[@delhyde2]

Prejudice goes both ways. But sexism and racism do not because (as the ism implies) it is dependent on a system of power held by one side over the 'other'. In sexism, the power structure not favoring women's autonomy, power and choice is the reason that it doesn't work both ways. "Dear White People" outlines a great example of this for racism.

[@Elizabean1984]

@@delhyde2 Systematic and General Racism don't contradict each other. You can be racist towards white people.

[@rawvegankid]

The reason her face is so shiny is because for the podcast they were using stage lights, but her makeup was meant for natural light. They make extra matte products for preformers such as actors that are constantly viewed under stage lights.

[@dnjndnjnreoppqnpfw0]

breaking news: the toxic feminists are making *me* the bad guy by answering *my* questions

[@TinyGhosty]

It always boggles my mind when people (usually men) think someone's appearance or choice of style is representative of their sexual activity. One of my favorite asexual advocates/influencer is a model and will do lingerie photoshoots, still ace. I have lots of tattoos and piercings, I am also ace. Trying to make a correlation between personal style/ personal photos to sexual activity is fantastical projection.

[@kirahamilton393]

misogynistic idiocy surpasses even the recognition that not every woman wants sex or is at all attracted to it, and no they will not talk about it because it breaks down all their objectifying arguments. so many props to that person u mentioned i can’t imagine how many idiots go on their page and act like their career is purely for them

[@TheHighwayman5674]

btw who is the influencer you're talking abt? i'm also ace and i'd love to see their work!

[@TinyGhosty]

@@TheHighwayman5674 I don't know if my comment posted, I don't see it. Yasmin Benoit.

[@alexb1110]

i still don’t understand how you don’t have 100x the subs you do have. everytime i watch you it feels like watching at 300k+ sub youtuber

[@SajiSharma]

Means a lot!

[@foreignluvr]

LITERALLY

[@Shelovesdeep]

trueee

[@moonynge]

ONGG

[@glowsack2909]

factsss

[@babywigeon]

how is being "pursued by the opposite sex" an advantage to anything?? I can't just live my damn life without weirdos harassing me in public tryna get my personal info or follow me around just a few hours ago I was on the sidewalk calling my partner and some random man yells at me "I love you baby!" so I gave him stank face and continued about my phone call but the extra distressing part was his 6-7 friends just laughed as tho my reaction was irrational and continued to encourage their dumbass friend. shit makes me wanna not go outside.

[@SajiSharma]

I’m so sorry that happened to you!!

[@17kdiamond]

ew that’s awful i’m so sorry

[@Forit26]

Well depending on who pursues you, it could very well be. I don't think anyone would complain about being pursued by actual good people, atleast when you're single. Also I'm sorry that happened to you

[@4647Mo]

@@Forit26 LOL hell no. Some people could just not wanna get into relationships and be left alone

[@Forit26]

@@4647Mo Hmmm, also true.

[@calmcuke6865]

I've always interpreted pickmes as women/girls who do or endorse doing things that are ultimately detrimental to women in order to appeal to men. For example women that say you shouldn't be opinionated or "bold" because it deters men, or discouraging women from academic/career success because men dont want women that earn more money than them. Or (extreme but common example) enforcing rules on women's sexual autonomy ie "who wants to buy the cow if they get the milk for free" which is both misogynistic and objectifying.

[@noemers6916]

"nobody likes the dark" I literally just replaced my curtains with blankets so my room could be dark because I hate light 😭😭

[@jahanarahgraham8003]

RIGHT? I got black out curtains and I love it and I have to fight myself to open them every once in a while cause turning the lights on when you have to change during the day is kinda dumb 💀💀

[@user-vy2hz6fl6x]

That vampire life

[@avaf02]

SAAAAME

[@17kdiamond]

have you ever considered that perhaps you are a vampire?

[@embearry]

I nough5 blackout curtains a while ago but they didn't fit so I had to get some that make my room pretty dark but not dark enough and I'm still very upset about it even tho I bought them years ago

[@aurora8749]

I can't leave my house without at least one guy following or hitting on me. It's not an advantage it's annoying and terrifying

[@33sugaD]

Ditto

[@33sugaD]

Any attention some of these males (not all!) positive or negative, they love it regardless. You can see how creepy the world really is when you watch all these pred catching videos! Check them out guys. #protecttheinnocent

[@stop--]

I love how he uncomfortably laughed off her describing how she doesn't like random guys hitting on her and then almost immediately tried redirecting to "hey, how bout those crazy feminists that will call you a pick me, huh? Pretty evil, right? 😅 W-woman bad, right??"

[@Kate-is5mz]

You are right, being an object of male desire is not an advantage, it is an obstacle. And one we face LONG before we're mature enough to be having adults interacting with us with motives like that... Imagine thinking it's an advantage that everyone wants to literally screw you, that just speaks volumes on how oblivious and cushioned their existence is.

[@empathydealer89]

As someone who had a highschool librarian job, I can say the old librarians I knew were absolutely apeshit party people💀 it makes sm sense that he bases sexiness on what you can see

[@snoemane9587]

7:26 the stigma that men shouldn't share their feelings or emotions (crying, sadness, anger, etc.) around their girlfriends is so fucking gross. like who started that?? the reason that relationships fall apart and break is bc communication about one's feelings is not expressed. not only that but it's so unhealthy to just withhold your feelings from someone just because they aren't the same gender as you. the logic makes no sense there. and also WHY NOT?? why is expressing emotions for men something that ppl criticize? like the guy from the podcast? does he not realize that he is making the situation worse by enforcing the idea that men aren't allowed to be expressive and that women are bound to make fun of men for that? i swear, the majority of us aren't psychopaths who are going to laugh and put our boyfriends down for just being honest about how they feel. in conclusion, this is soooo harmful for this weird podcast guy to be saying.

[@Alex-is-really-complicated]

Men started that then proceed to say women have it easy when this patriarchy system was started by none other than *drum roll* men 🎉

[@artespeck8091]

Not to mention, repressed emotions lead to lashing out (due to your body and mind’s frustration of not dealing with the emotions) and in extreme cases sui. MRAs are always complaining abt men sui rates compared to women, which is reasonable and understandable bc men are just as humans. The bad part of this tho is IN THE SAME BREATH THEY SAY “DONT SHOW EMOTION. BE RATIONAL” AS IF STUDIES DONT SHOW EMOTIONAL REPRESSION LEADS TO SUI SO ITS MORE RATIONAL TO EXPRESS YOURSELF THAN TO REPRESS EVERYTHING. I also agree communication is important in a relationship (not just romantic, but ALL relationships. Be it professional, casual, romantic, friendly, etc.) so i do my best to encourage my boyfriend to express himself. If i see hes struggling i take him in and ask him to communicate whats in his head at the moment. We gotta be patient w men when teaching them to communicate tho bc unlearning toxicity is incredibly difficult and is a long road full of setbacks and obstacles.

[@user-ld6th3vw8e]

this is fucking erasure of my friend who is, and this is not a joke, a very sexy librarian

[@SajiSharma]

I have no choice but to believe you

[@cat.a.lacking]

“An incel who has never had sex” is pretty much the equivalent of saying things like naan bread

[@M2R.]

10:40 maybe he thinks librarians live at the library like how kids think their teacher live at the kindergarten/school they go to

[@karlymartin3502]

Congratulations you did it! Daylight savings is no more!

[@SajiSharma]

Thank god

[@EmmaLangdon]

I think why its called good bro bad bro is because the bad guy is the guy always talking and the good one is always nodding - thats my theory lmao. This is the first video on your channel that I've watched and it was hilarious, keep going!

[@SajiSharma]

thank you! and great theory

[@passionate_possum_pal]

I'm bi and tbh a librarian with tattoos sounds like my type. Gay panic would ensue

[@Naima-je7eu]

Always love your content, Saji!

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you so much!

[@Kaajalls]

Saji you're my favourite content creator at the moment. You're hilarious dude, keep up the good work :)

[@SajiSharma]

thank you so much! that really means a lot

[@terrencelockett4072]

That's a huge problem with these types. They can sometimes bring up valid points of things men have to go through, but their solution is normally women shouldn't complain about their valid problems and/or men should just accept these issues and live with them the "manly way".

[@veginito]

I love how the other dude wears a bolo tie but has no idea how to wear one so it's just a necklace to him

[@snem9381]

always getting attention... yeah, such an advantage. I can't walk from one street to another without getting constantly (yes, literally constantly) harassed in my city.

[@punyasanjith8065]

Originally put this video to eat a banana but ended up having a whole tub of popcorn cuz saji is the fun bestie who keeps me distracted

[@Kabunz]

They said a lot of bullshit but why do they hate librarians?? I study language and literature in university and the ratio of women is super high. And as a queer women myself lots of beautiful, kind, funny women. Don't underestimate hot librarians, y'all :D That just makes it so obvious to me how they don't know or interact with women.

[@yuhyuh1471]

I got recommended this, and I’m so glad I was! Love the content bro! Also good editing btw

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you so much!!

[@darkstorybrooke]

so you're telling me that in order to control time for all of humanity all I need to do is love some bugs? cockroaches are actually so sexy

[@darkstorybrooke]

why did I say this

[@SajiSharma]

@@darkstorybrooke no no its okay i see your point

[@alynsak]

There have been many men over time that have taken their own lives because they are taught that they shouldn't show their emotions. They bottle everything up and it's torture. These guys are trying to perpetuate that and it's really sick.

[@shirin9452]

It’s the other guy just going dude. Bro. In response to everything for me

[@violeta.4715]

The Lord have mercy at 9:54 has me dying 😭 so happy to have found your channel your content is amazing

[@GianniCarpino]

Bro your rock bit actually made me LOL. Great vid

[@SajiSharma]

LMAO thank you man

[@wellbeeotel]

Just found your channel Saji; and I want to say great work! the content you put out is awesome and really helps me focus while keeping me entertained and engaged. Overall great commentary and it's always fun to see you bring guests and friends onto your channel with you! Keep up the fantastic work!

[@heysundown]

you brought back childhood trauma about bill the bill 😭😭

[@SajiSharma]

My bad

[@heysundown]

@@SajiSharma unlocking core memories fr

[@floral-smoke]

I just stumbled upon your account and I will subscribe! I was wondering, maybe for a video idea, how did you come to be a feminist? Were you raised in a feminist home, or did you have to go through a process? Thanks for you allyship dude

[@kennieskloset5848]

up!

[@Lost-in-Hades]

As a lesbian, hearing these kinds of men talk about women is so bizarre.

[@babywigeon]

thank you Saji for existing 🙏🏼

[@이름없음-l9d5h]

ohm my god I set my youtube on autoplay and for second I thought d'angelo made a comeback. love your voice man

[@manbatluvr]

LMFAO I'm in library school rn and hate to inform good bro and bad bro but almost every woman in my program has a tattoo

[@dumbpotato5587]

Sounds badass

[@getdowngirl91]

I came across your videos by accident but man you have a talent; so funny!!

[@anna_3035]

So if you decide to make sth toxic, it’s actually not, because you did it on purpose? That makes so much sense. Wow. I don’t even know how this ‚social experiment’- excuse is still around. Can’t we just grow out of it or sth, it’s so annoying.

[@SajiSharma]

Agreed

[@mizgothica6485]

So if i buy make up ans clothes its a waste of money Yet if i dont dress up I dont take pride in my appearance We can't win 😤

[@skibiditoiletfan101]

love when they say "this is out of context" when there's no actual context needed

[@inkyias9822]

I’m looking forward to all the epic collage ur gonna do because this is good content keep it up

[@willmax95]

Glad I found your channel this was a great video!

[@SajiSharma]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@willmax95]

@@SajiSharma the “like me look right now” thing sent me😂

[@ambera.3556]

I was getting to know a guy and he asked me about my hobbies and I listed a paragraph of many of my hobbies I enjoy and I asked him what his are and all he said was Netflix 😓

[@lnk2158]

Oh, thank goodness! Joe Dirt has finally made a podcast to explain the enigma that is women to the world.

[@datboi3165]

7:39 what the actual fuck is going on

[@SajiSharma]

LMFAO

[@SajiSharma]

Be the rock

[@kryptidz9555]

Okay what makes that random guy soooo special.. what if I want to change time by a few hours to suit my wants and needs too huh

[@dariadaniellemusic]

10:15 As an asexual librarian, can confirm

[@ghrasta.]

9:33 second guy got it right but got interrupted lol (for me and my friends at least, hype squad) Edit: I’ve been binging your videos and you’re hilarious, you remind me of early Danny Gonzalez comedy

[@ssnnnb]

i think he was like making fun of ppl that say that tho 😭 even though its true

[@dimsummm]

he was mocking girls who say that

[@kennieskloset5848]

@@dimsummm he was right tho🤗

[@GrandRizzard]

I completely disagree that sexism towards men is invalid. that is just completwly ridiculous bs to make women look better since sexism happens more to them.

[@void2657]

you deserve so much more subs

[@tacticalmisandrist]

7:00 These are the same men who act like nobody can say whatever they want in comedy anymore, like they understand comedy so well, but then can’t understand how women talking shit about men is literally punching up??? Cmon funny guys don’t you know about comedy?? Also the same men who act like everyone is always so offended and triggered, then can not BARE to see people say offensive stuff about them lmao

[@4647Mo]

erm.. your username ??… so mega based ??

[@arsonanarchybunny5541]

Daylight savings was actually to assist farmers. At least that's what it was supposed to help anyways. Edit: (Oop he did do some research. Not that much though lol.)

[@mothboy420]

nope, that's a myth! kzbin.info/www/bejne/mKOTf4pvqsuIi9k

[@itsmorgan11]

I know this isn’t super important or all that relevant, but daylight savings time was actually started because of farmers. Before farming equipment became all commercial and modernized, they needed the sun to work. So we decided to move one hour so farmers could tend to crops with the sun. I’m sorry if this sounds like pretentious, I just really wanted to share.

[@scaryhallway]

banger video as always

[@SajiSharma]

thank you!!

[@The_Iowegian]

"The toxic feminists on Tiktok'", says the beta boi whining about the flak he got. Also love these guys who encourage not sharing your emotions with your SO that likely loves and wants to support you. Instead share them with your 'alpha' friend group who will in no way encourage therapy or proper coping mechanisms.

[@user-cy1uy4ok4b]

this is an old vid but like i feel like u should know i put this video on to listen to while playing my game and my kitten (don’t have a name yet) seems to rlly like ur voice lmao he just sat watching this in front of my phone intently anytime u spoke. kitten whisperer

[@girlrottingpro]

Great content !!

[@imlostinthefade]

Hi Saji! I love your outfit and accessorizing and hair and your picture of hot dog! Great video today!!!

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you!!

[@wyattclark5118]

love this

[@SajiSharma]

love you

[@kirayoshikage1491]

6:50 I don’t think this is a very good argument, it’s kinda the same as saying “black people cant be racist” the more accurate reason is it’s a man talking bad about women when they aren’t a woman, compared to a man talking about men which they do have experience of. There most definitely is misandry out there, it’s not all that uncommon, it’s just not as toxic when a man is a misandrist vs a woman being a misandrist, just like it’s not a toxic for a woman to be a misogynist compared to a man being misogynistic.

[@thebuilder5271]

I think it’s like you can’t be sexist to men or racist to white people by the systemic oppression definition,, but you can on the individual level where it just means judging someone based on those factors. TERFs are definitely misandrist (and transphobic obviously).

[@sharpop7535]

Honestly I'm too scared to watch good bro bad bro because I have this feeling of embarrassment of how embarrassing it is when he says something stupid so I also turn my volume down sorry if I I spelled anything wrong

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

A woman invented the term incel

[@glowingforthe1654]

11;51 MY AESTHETICS INPROVE MY LIFE VASTLY.

[@nina9442]

Time is not a concept made by humans. The ways we've measured time as we observed it passing is a human construct. Just saying.

[@ratnaseshuvelpula4992]

Idk ...y heart broken men want to turn into "gurus" ..And preach THIS ..isdk

[@maplesyrup1223]

Ok I am so so so mad about that “women get more attention” part, I literally had to pause and calm myself down. YES, WOMEN DO GET MORE ATTENTION THAN MEN, BUT THAT IS NOT POSITIVE, THAT IS NOT SOMETHING TO SHAME WOMEN FOR. That is not a king shooting their shot, that is men harassing and assaulting women who are just trying to fucking exist. That is men who try to take advantage of women when they are drunk or in a vulnerable position. Almost all women do not want this. They ‘reject’ this because it is assault and harassment. It is scary. It makes you worry about being sexually assaulted which DOES HAPPEN in too many cases. I cannot fucking believe those words came out of their mouths especially from a woman herself, who has even admitted this has happened to her. I genuinely feel bad for her. Some shit had to happen for her to even say something like that, even agree to be in that podcast. I’m sorry for this rant, but this just really made me mad and I needed to say something I’m sorry lol.

[@ItsIzzypopsicle]

Ah what a nice day to be asexual.

[@thesassyduck7545]

kinda funny how they just decided to get rid of day light savings in America....

[@e2Meekoo]

Way way way way wayyy off topic but ur outfit ate

[@catcher0]

lord you are so cool

[@Forit26]

I do disagree with your 'women don't work out their upperbody because it's harder to build muscle there', i disagree because many women do workout their legs, abs and glutes and get results eventually. I think it has something to do with what they find attractive body type wise. Same reason why men want strong arms and upper body, but not huge glutes. I Don't necesseraly think the fact that women have harder time gaining muscle has something to do with it

[@embearry]

7:00 it's actually called misandry which only exists as a hatred for men. but it doesn't include all of the inequality women face

[@victoriaskully7709]

Yes saji 📸

[@scaryhallway]

your outfit is so good

[@jamesfv1]

Hilariously just took a picture of my kitten and I. It's cute despite how sick I look... but I guess I can't post it; DABOIZ say so haha.

[@Max-hl5kg]

i propose we add extra sleep hours 🙋

[@dimsummm]

bro i luv the dark i have seasonal depression in summer

[@juliahallgren7645]

I love you so much but why are you commenting on the girl’s appearance in a video about misogyny? I am not saying you should blindly agree what she was saying but when your main point against her is that her face is shiny, the whole meaning of the video gets kinda overshadowed. Like you didn’t make fun of those crusty dusty men’s appearances in the podcast, only the girl’s, when this video is literally about misogyny against women. Women are so often only seen for their looks and how they present themselves and it’s a bit disappointing to see you kinda do the same to the woman in the video, you didn’t talk about what she said, only that her face is shiny and that the guy probably wants her like…. I am sure you didn’t mean to do this but it’s maybe something to think about.

[@ayeeeerin4999]

I like you bro lol I’m pissed your channel is being gate kept this long!

[@MrIKEACat]

Good Bro, MaAd City

[@curiousclicksofficial]

Denmo , G

[@UnripeApple2003]

dude looks like a washed out version of sid the sloth.. except sid is far more charming

[@voidliving6922]

Wow, rude. I like it when the sun sets at 5 pm. But I will settle for a cool 6 pm, or 7 pm MAX.

[@Shelovesdeep]

Lmao i love ur videos

[@enio9477]

"time is a human concept and therefore not real" what?? hello?? 💀

[@RP-de3iv]

Aye you mallu?

[@darienneff4540]

bro the beginning of this video xD yes

[@jameswilkinson6678]

Simp harder, homie.

[@alrightalrightalright6240]

Ur so fine also so true so true fr

[@cnashford2]

A Robert Tolppi video brought me to your channel. - a new subscriber. Here's his video btw: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGLdeZ2sad1-d6s

[@unseenmolee]

yooo

[@herrickfechtig80]

🤪 𝓟Ř𝔬𝓂𝔬𝐒ϻ

[@masteroogway8132]

The 'long haired host' is a guy called Jack Denmo, who is actually pretty funny with some decent content 👌 I would recommend a watch of his content 😁

[@freya7084]

I’m a female and I agree with good bro bad bro 100%

[@SajiSharma]

I FOUND A PICK ME WEEWOOWEEEWOOO

[@freya7084]

@@SajiSharma please. Definitely do NOT pick me 🙄🤮

[@garbage3559]

@@freya7084 oh u don't gotta worry about that. Ever.

[@Shelovesdeep]

ewwww its a pick me. I bet "the boys" taught you that misogyny. not a good look for you... or anyone

[@k-kaepjjang1876]

Ow hun u can admit it, this is a safe place to talk..we definitely WONT judge U..stop with the pick me shit