This Guy Teaches People How to Manipulate Others

[@piagebot2943]

Literally i had just gone through an insane situation with a guy who manipulated me and his gf (whom i didnt know he had) and i have a feeling he took notes from this guy’s book fr💀

[@SajiSharma]

I’m sorry that happened to you!

[@piagebot2943]

@@SajiSharma it’s alright! Her and i actually talked and she’s a really sweet girl! I gave her screenshots on discord that had timestamps and he literally tried to tell her that discord messes up dates so he only started talking to me BEFORE they started dating💀 he was and still is a pos but I’m glad her and i were able to team up and demolish his reputation even though he still denies it even happened to this day (meanwhile she confronted and broke up with him just the other day👀)

[@aurora8749]

I also was manipulated by a guy with a long term girlfriend. I thought he was single, then I thought he saw multiple women but I was his main cuz we spent so much time together. Then one night I found out he had a serious girlfriend of three years and we both beat him up. I was drunk and mad. I normally would have walked away but I was pissed at him for doing that to her and for lying to me.

[@brushketo]

Ouch. . .ngl I was once that guy not that I was diabolical more a over yes-a-fied man where no one said nope . . .not that I had charisma or looks maybe I did yet just was good with words and very full of my own self and at times helped me though if I could rewind all that I'd of been more focused towards My fiance rather then side girls . .

[@brushketo]

Side note : sad Hours . . .miss that warmth yet was very orangutan in my early years

[@Baphy_baby666]

As a dv and sa survivor, the way he tries to manipulate consent in the first clip incites a primal rage in me.

[@villaintoon2350]

What does dv stands for

[@tolanisimpson5360]

@@villaintoon2350 domestic violence

[@villaintoon2350]

@@tolanisimpson5360 ok

[@bessie0899]

Being another dv and sa survivor I completely agree this dude is so gross, he physically gave me goosebumps super creepy and his apology - I have no words lol

[@nataleigh8377]

as another sa/r*pe survivor, dude makes me disgusted. statutory r*pe, it's not okay

[@anna_3035]

When the sentence starts with „I like … BUT“ it never ends well 🚩🚩

[@SajiSharma]

Precisely

[@bluueorb]

7:49 "SHE put me in a pickle" No you could have just been loyal to your partner and tell the other girl that you're talking to someone right now.

[@deasyastarr]

No accountability whatsoever. He essentially cheated on his gf and then complained about the sex

[@crudlucasconsigliere4084]

He even said "I did what I had to do"? Like, bro didn't have to do anything??? You coulda said no????

[@kotacaelum9428]

he rly said “my favorite part of dans book is all the pictures :)”

[@babywigeon]

no lie I knew a dude in high school who lied about his grandmother dying to try to guilt trip a girl into having sex with him

[@SajiSharma]

WAT

[@shannilove2801]

omg

[@beee1287]

My dad told people he was widowed to get women to feel bad for him lol

[@beee1287]

(My mom is very much alive)

[@vector3d654]

@@beee1287 that's weird..... Send my regards to ur mom

[@magma9219]

the fact that he’s a dan bulzarywhatever stan is SO FUNNY but makes so much sense but also feels like a crossover episode of bigots

[@SajiSharma]

What is this a crossover episode

[@davidnissim589]

especially since Dan admitted that he paid the women in his photos to stand with him

[@user-ld6th3vw8e]

love that his anecdotal reasoning for his blanket statements on women wasnt an experience with a woman, she was a girl (15-17 y/o kid) like i know teens can be and often are sexually active but hmmmm come on asshole that was what came to mind

[@SajiSharma]

He really thought he gotcha’d all women with that story

[@user-ld6th3vw8e]

the other thing is that any of these pickup artist guys admitting that they bought into the Dan Beardman lie where he's super wealthy is an immediate self own and they never know its pretty funny

[@enielfblerta428]

Yeah, that story had me puzzled. Like - as a teen she wasn't ready to have sex, years later she wanted to and knew you were cheap* enough to come running. How is that confusing behavior? Also, what does wanting to have sex have to do with being rational or realistic? It's the most rational thing in the world not to sleep with people when you don't want to. *I don't judge anyone of any gender for having many intimate partners. All power to you. But I find it ironic how guys like him go on and on about this "game" and how to "crack the code", and yet keep making it seem like they themselves take anything they can get. Don't be mad at women for having standards, my dude. Look inward.

[@ohdeer-sabrina8132]

Being asexual and watching tiktoks like that is such a trip, like... are they really THAT desperate for sex? And without even the feelings part?? It just doesn't sound appealing at all and it's so unbelievable that someone would go through such lengths for it

[@cur1ouscatf1sh]

I’m still not 100% convinced that sex isn’t just an inside joke between everyone in society except me

[@abejohnson3928]

Gonna be honest wit you, sex for men like him isn’t even about women or sex. It’s about other men, impressing or being admirable to other men. Like not even in a gay way just in a deeply misogynistic way that they only care about what men think about to the point that any relations they have with women they can’t help but think about what men think or say or do about it.

[@SpiritualAttitudeSage]

@@abejohnson3928 suppressed gay tho

[@cinxmoroll]

same I want him to discover sex repulsed asexual ppl

[@jjan3]

I’m not asexual and I thought the exact same thing. He makes me want to practice abstinence istg

[@amethystjones9677]

The fucked thing is he felt soo confident and comfortable posting this because throwing fitts has worked numerous times before.

[@ona3779]

I've never before seen a guy that looked so much like the sentence "Ha ha where's MY hug"

[@clownrat5759]

Oh my god I’m CRINGING at how accurate this is.

[@goingfargettingnowhere]

Love the fact that the quote from Dan Ballsackarian he chose was essentially "Yeah the biggest secret I learned is that instead of harassing someone who isn't interested in me until they feel pressured to say yes to my advances, I, for once, act like a decent human being and take no for an answer like I should". Like wooooooow, you're such a badass alpha for respecting someone's boundaries and actually (accidentally) taking consent into consideration, I guess? The fact that these guys see that as a "tip" in their little "game" instead of basic human decency and respect really says a lot about how they think about women, relationships, and sexuality.

[@enielfblerta428]

Absolutely. I also love how he doesn't even take no for an answer for the women's sake, but for HIS OWN sake. Because the minor inconvenience of being rejected is the issue here; not the human right bodily autonomy and disregard thereof.

[@AndrewTominac]

It just shows you how ridiculously underdeveloped they are mentally... honestly I feel bad because I know I have issues from trauma so I worry a lot but at least I make it my main goal to be a good person and respect myself and others

[@ananyaneralla5382]

"Ballsackrian"😂😂

[@GhostofaFangirl]

“she put ME in a pickle” what fucking pickle, either you focus on that one person or you leave them so you don’t mess with both of them????

[@mamamint4900]

rapper: "I know the girls' perspective, too!" Also rapper: **trusts the perspective of only one girl**

[@carebear3120]

Good lord, the unbelievable level of narcissism when this guy talks about how women are "not realistic about sex and relationships." All women are irrational because they don't have sex with you when you want to have sex, but instead wait until they're ready to have sex with you? Absolutely insane take from this guy, it really encapsulates his dehumanizing view of women and he clearly has no insight into that.

[@blue-dabad33]

11:21 it took a while to realise the 1/10 next to his @ was the date, i thought tiktok was just (accurately) rating his content

[@c1nnamodoll]

i cant believe that guy read the sentence "if a woman tells you no, you should probably listen" and was like "TURN THAT SHIT UPPPP !!!! PREACH GODDAMN.." like 😭he really thought that was so profound im screaming

[@VenusianLissette]

thank u for dunking on this guy. scary to think he’s just unleashed on society as is. it’s not a flex to coerce people to consent/manipulate people to get sex, gross.

[@xoogaboogax]

i don’t understand why ppl can’t be straight up with their intentions. like babe i promise you, there are ppl out there with the same intentions, you don’t have to manipulate anyone. if someone wants more then just sex from you but all you want is sex, let them know so they know to back off and find someone else and so you can find someone else. it’s really not that hard 💀 so now, no one’s wasting their time or being manipulated or anything like that. it saves sm energy to just be up front with everyone from the jump

[@DB-vt1kk]

Oh gosh this guy is a mess! Unfortunately people like him are creating broken individuals in the future not to mention this obsession people have with sleeping with people like it’s a personality trait 😳

[@dajiyahmcae1880]

We’ve never been a society that holds any intrinsic value. Broken ppl like this dude don’t care or like themselves enough to actually hone a skill or engage with communities that respect and protect them. It’s so sad.

[@evilsnailmom241]

bro said “if she says no then don’t beg and walk away” pov: u hate women so much u almost understand consent

[@venamotylek]

I hope he writes a book so I can make sure to avoid anyone who owns it.

[@laquasiacherry-mack2542]

The comment after he talked about his sister is sick. So since his sister didn’t like the guy should the guy she went on a date with still be trying to “get some ass” from her?🙄

[@clownrat5759]

I dont think he’s smart enough to put what he’s doing onto his sisters place because then he’d be forced to realize that, hey, I don’t like my family being treated that way because it doesn’t feel nice. He’d have a meltdown if we realized that.

[@deletedddddddddd]

the onlyguy i have ever been with coerced me into a relationship with him and manipulated me for 6 months and i have been single since... it was horrible, i feel so disgusted even years later. he told me that i'm "supposed to give him sex because im his girlfriend and he has needs" and then he'd complain about magnum size condoms were too small and tight (yes magnum and yes size matters because too big literally hurts and he never turned me on or did anything to try and turn me on). and then he'd touch me without concent and said he can touch me however and hwereever because we're in a relationship and i was "his". and he didn't believe me when i told him it was my first time because i didnt cry or bleed... like bro i've been using adult toys LOOOOOONG before you came along... AND ALSO he was jealous of adult toys!!! like .... he just made me feel so gross and awful...

[@um4883]

So sorry this happened to u

[@honeybunch44]

im so sorry love:( hes a pos i hope you're all okay now

[@i.f.5566]

Bruh

[@janelle8072]

This is my first time on this channel and I actually believed you when you said you cooked 😭 I was like okayyy dinner and a show! Got my ass 💔

[@monae6171]

Right🤣 really threw me for a loop 😭 i started going through his videos 🤣🤣

[@Overseer2579]

If you need to manipulate women into having sex with you, that just speaks poorly of your self esteem

[@youaretearingmeapartlisa7253]

i'm actually glad for channels that expose these toxic content creators. If you're someone who isn't very experienced in dating at the very least you'll be able to identify unacceptable behavior like this and avoid people with such a warped mindset

[@SephirothSuperKool]

If I'm a master manipulator, does that mean I'm a master baiter too?

[@jongkittae]

dear anyone (male, female, enby) who thinks your date OWES you ANYTHING just because you paid for the date; do not go out on dates. just don't do it. alternatively, if you're gonna insist on being like that, make your expectations EXPLICITLY clear BEFORE you go on that date. then the other person at least has a chance to avoid dealing your shit. p.s. literally just split the fucking check or get separate checks it's not that fucking complicated oh my god.

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

People who want to buy sex should just buy it from sex workers. Do these guys tell women the deal before the date?? Cuz most people think of dates as a way to see if they might want to have sex at some point…

[@pinkmenace2452]

it’s because it’s a power thing. they need to feel like they conquered a woman.

[@natvasch6399]

Saji, your intros keep on getting better!😂👏 Edit:…and the outros as well 👀

[@SajiSharma]

Haha thank you!!

[@bomorning660]

Coercion…takes away consent. With no consent….that’s SA

[@MeckiiVg]

this guy is pathetic, but for some reason him mispeaking after being to confident in his word and slipping up and saying "empty hamded" sent me

[@mightymeatymech]

I thought i misheard that LMFAO

[@Ijustwatch18]

Nice drip saji

[@SajiSharma]

Much obliged

[@KayGee_yt]

CALLING IT. This channel is about to blow up. I watched a couple hours ago, 16.6K. now at 17.2K subs. whenever someone sees this comment, it'll be through the roof

[@montarou-chi]

25.5k!

[@Emma_smith]

38k

[@kennieskloset5848]

44.9k!

[@melanieluver2385]

46.5 k!!

[@devons.3481]

54.2k!!

[@caidalee1994]

This actually is my first video, I was ready for cooking meals and spilling tea lol

[@jrdeborja0000]

Same LOL

[@tysaidokay]

As a new subscriber I can confirm I was bamboozeled by the intro

[@msnogueres]

"I ain't scared" well,now i am

[@SpotofNerds]

It was me. I’m completely new to this channel. I was manipulated.

[@kotacaelum9428]

can u make us some paninis? (edit: no :( u can’t make us paninis) ((nice video btw, ur consistently covering interesting and diverse topics in interesting and funny ways!!))

[@SajiSharma]

Thank you so much!

[@avgriffin]

loving your content Saji

[@Eliserose95]

crying right now from this manipulation

[@ST4RK0R3]

The way he says he has "hoes" like ok sir if that's the case where are they?☠

[@tencolorpen]

hello saji binging ur recent vids !

[@SajiSharma]

Yikes good luck

[@Latimish]

Dat intro just got you a new subscriber 😂😂😂😂

[@theclowntown]

my favourite cooking channel. gordon ramsey who? THIS is the place to watch someone throw raw scallops!

[@theomiller9318]

I'm high as shit and thus is like a fever dream right now

[@Maria-hv2eq]

Ok not going to lie… the book thing creeped me the hell out… I doubt they were like sure take picture of me doing sexual things so you can put in in a book about how to manipulate me…. Easily a crime if they didn’t consent… very disturbing

[@Fruitykiwi111]

Bro I was so confused in the beginning and I thought that I hadn’t found like half of his content on his channel (I still would have watched tbh)

[@shirinzendehdel7638]

Omfg it's like my ex watched his videos and took notes.

[@babywigeon]

9:13 😂😂😂 solid advice

[@jumpmanthe3rd442]

This was my first video i've seen from u and im wildly hurt

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

Also I usually don’t want to have sex after a big dinner lmao my tummy needs time…that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in the person

[@clownrat5759]

I’m a virgin and that sounds uncomfortable. Who wants to be getting their guts rearranged after you just packed away a full course meal??? Like that’s GOTTA cause at least SOME cramping, right..

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

@@clownrat5759 yeah i mean in my case lots of farts

[@wyattclark5118]

beautiful

[@aeonsgaze]

totally off topic but your knitted sweater is so cute

[@yessica5231]

Saji just manipulated me but I'll subscribe because pretty privilege lol

[@krissyelizondo]

You said the face of a villain HAHAHA

[@hellodarknesss.myoldfriend]

i was so excited for your grandma's recipe...

[@augmentationstation]

pasta and two sides of fries thats a lot of carbs

[@likeag6216]

I thought Danny wanny on the book was named Chad🌚

[@cec8614]

as a sigma male i think that this person needs therapy ngl (nft great lit)

[@kimhyunjinsgf]

after getting lied to and coerced i just HAVE to subscribe

[@ga75]

just discovered the channel and man i like your vids 🐱‍👤

[@harmonturner309]

great video also your outfit is super cool in this one

[@darkstorybrooke]

also!! where did you get that cardigan I love it (yes none of my comments will be relevant whatsoever)

[@SajiSharma]

My friend gave it to me!

[@CFG420.]

I followed you after the first minute 🤣🥰

[@xaviersimon547]

New sub love the content. Plus seeing you is also a plus 🤩

[@Biebity]

I literally scrolled down your channel to see your cooking video's which don't exist 💀

[@bubblegumcrab]

I've never heard Saji rage come through like on the line "he thinks hes the shit"

[@gluestickeater701]

dude noo i was excited to learn a new recipe because all i can cook is stir fry :(((((((

[@clownrat5759]

Okay that sounds so yummy tho pls give a tutorial on stir fry 🙏🙏

[@starboyonyx]

hi this is my first video of urs and i really liked it :) u remind me of danny gonzalez + eddy burback

[@avgriffin]

accurate

[@ditchdot]

it's so crazy to be like "no I love women!! but my problem with women-" you can't do that!!😭😭 there is not a damn thing in the world that every woman has in common with women except being women, so if you have a problem with women, you hate women I hate to break it to you😭😭

[@sugarspice9196]

He sounds just like Jarvis Johnson

[@Softsodazofficial]

I call him Nigle Ni-gle Like the white bird from Rio, like that kids movie.

[@amoraacho6181]

11:00 that is why l started giving my card to the waiter before the meal so l can pay...

[@HamiltonIsLife]

He as katara hair

[@cinderellahour1070]

Idk who you are....or how I found you...but I may be here for th ong run. 👀

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

It’s taking a tole on him…🥺

[@kurtisdoesshit6846]

Reminds me of my exes.

[@darkstorybrooke]

why is there money on the wall

[@SajiSharma]

Its fake money haha

[@NoImNotKxze]

Saji I love you bro, but you need to make your bits in your videos a bit shorter. Occasionally you make the bit dry by stretching it thin.

[@clownrat5759]

take a note from Nickisnotgreen or Jarvis! ^ ^ Very quick, but VERY funny skits

[@Nkeabands]

You’re funny asf😂

[@itstimev2730]

What is that lion behind him dude!!

[@alexisuncultured475]

I like your sweater

[@GL4SSHEART]

I’m ace and I honestly don’t see the appeal in sex. I get that someone can be attractive but feeling that way for someone isn’t something for me.

[@chetachukwuobiwuma4328]

Amazing video but the money on the wall was distracting me😂

[@SajiSharma]

It’s not real don’t worry

[@dontagia1462]

bruh some ppl out here bruh😭😭😭

[@starlighteuu]

dudes like this piss me off, if you want just sex be open and all. If a woman is also looking just for that, you will know, whats not okay is trying to convince women to have sex when they don’t want to. All this is telling me is that a lot women need to be coerced to have sex you and you can’t get laid through full transparency, meaning you are loser, and your game is non existent. you attract emotional women because you want to emotionally play them to get your goal, no wonder they feel wronged. 7:22

[@FandomFrenzy]

AND HE USED GOOB AS HIS PFP?!?? NOT MY WOMEN RESPECTER, ACE KING... thats messed up 😔

[@lainey7157]

cute sweater

[@Bluepoppy86]

GROSS 🤮

[@doingitwelldotbiz]

"I spent 20 dollars on a book" is not a flex in any general direction. I spent 2, or I spent 200 is noteworthy. Otherwise, you're just impressed with the fact that you're reading. Which is the way that it is, in this case.

[@whatever-ks2jp]

I think that was just a paid advertisement

[@ryker5457]

Saying r@pe and s/a is "not sweet" is so- HUH? MY GOOD MAN I THINK ITS A LOT WORSE THAN "NOT SWEET"

[@zara-tb3zn]

Off topic but you are really beautiful

[@Thiccailurophile]

You should cook for Luffy

[@domkaetalkstoomuch]

I love women BUT

[@rayneb2762]

Guys who have ponytails or man buns in and talks like this shouldn’t be taken seriously.

[@fidied7172]

Watching this is one thing but anyone else watching this and realizing someone did this to you and you were just too gullible

[@alex-mk2yx]

jarvis?

[@siriloveyou2653]

🤨

[@tani.1772]

fr haha

[@chloesyoutubechannel]

not taking any advice or shit from a man who says "ekspecially" 😮‍💨